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Dating dilemma: What if they have a mean streak?

Everyone knows that the first 90 days is the honeymoon phase in dating.  You don’t usually meet the “real” person until you’ve seen them in different environments and/or handling a variety of circumstances.  What happens when you are seeing someone new and you see their nasty side  (read: Not the good kind. The Ms. Jackson, If you’re ‘nasty’ kind)?

Obviously, you don’t want to dump someone for having a normal, human emotion, do you? Would it bother you if someone you were seeing revealed a pretty mean streak? What do you do when you have seen them react to something in a way that doesn’t really sit well with you?

What are you willing to overlook and what classifies as a deal-breaking mean streak?

Have you ever been on a date and the person had a seemingly random outburst of anger or mean behavior?

Happy Monday! I hope you all enjoyed that beautiful weather this weekend!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

308 comments Add your comment

For Real

February 28th, 2011
2:28 pm

Wise you acting like he use the quart of blood technique on his relative and now he is a psycho. Sometimes you just have to knock a fugger out with extreme prejudice but that doesn’t make you a psycho.

STOP TOUCHING ME!!!

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
2:31 pm

Dang Purple. What the heck could that “woman” have possibly done for him over the internet that had him sending $200,000? She was an internet girlfriend, a woman he has never seen. There was no physical intercourse, no blowjobs, heck not even a warm moist kiss. That man had to be on some bad stuff or severly desperate.

If her sexting game is that rich and viable I need to learn her skills and go into business. We can use the extra cash right now.

Lurking

February 28th, 2011
2:32 pm

SexyCool – that’s how it happened. Since I know it’s a sensitive issue for him, I’ll never bring it up again.

Blackfoote

February 28th, 2011
2:33 pm

Just stupid. A man should not be that gullible. I wonder if he had mental problems obviously something was going on with him.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:34 pm

Raqi, even if they used skype there is nothing that would warrant sending 200k heck even if he met her in person what is worth 200k for a girlfriend? That was probably his life savings.

For Real

February 28th, 2011
2:34 pm

Why would a woman use a man in such way?

SexyCool

February 28th, 2011
2:34 pm

As you have presented more of your story, perhaps running shoes are not in order. I guess the last question that I have is How long have you been dating/getting to know each other?

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:35 pm

Blackfoote, is Simple Man from Illinois?

LOL just kidding Simple Man

kimmie

February 28th, 2011
2:36 pm

That was probably his life savings.

I hope not.

But yeah, I’ve heard of a lot of “sugar daddies” that are extremely gullible.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:36 pm

For Real, LOL He is going to show a mean streak if he ever meets her.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
2:36 pm

@ PR … thanks for the link to the dummy who sent the money. That was entertaining, but the outfit Penelope Cruz is wearing to the right made the trip to that site really worthwhile. I love Spanish women!!!!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
2:39 pm

The articles that have me laughing are when you read about some dude calling the police because his gf stole his crack stockpile. “You can’t stop stupid”.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:40 pm

randyt, scroll down a little farther and click on the link with Kelly Brook, that’s more my speed :)

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
2:41 pm

Speaking of breaking the law, did y’all hear about those two Hispanic ladies trying to smuggle a million and a half into Mexico? Does hanging sheetrock and cleaning houses pay that well…even if not paying taxes?

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:42 pm

Some kids in Florida tried to rob a police station. It gets no dumber than that. Just “google” ..”kids rob police station”

BlackMagicWoman

February 28th, 2011
2:42 pm

Awww…thank you Blackfoote! :lol:

RANDY..so you’re not feeling my Tinkerbell panties? :lol:

PURPLE…I read that! If you are that dumb you deserve to get gotten!

“Why would a woman use a man in such way?”
Well the same can be said for the loser who lie just to get the booty. Why would a man use a woman in such a way? :lol:

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
2:42 pm

I’ve heard of a lot of “sugar daddies” that are extremely gullible

Yeah but I could see if he was actually touching the woman. Not $200,000 but at least having the real woman and cashmere kitty within reach. That dingbat send $200,000 to woman that he couldn’t even sniff out of a crowd. I know sex isn’t everything but this man wasn’t getting any and he parting with $200,000. What an idiot.

Blackfoote

February 28th, 2011
2:42 pm

LOL……@Purple

But damn Kimmie are sugar daddies that extreme? I’m thinking like Raqi V……..reverse engineer her ass and set up shop on line cause that lady got game.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:44 pm

Randyt, they need to be glad they got caught because they probably would have been killed as soon as they delivered the money. Mexicans are the worse to get involved with when it comes to moving drugs.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
2:44 pm

“Why would a woman use a man in such way?”

Who really knows if it was really a woman? LOL

Lord Velonese

February 28th, 2011
2:44 pm

Really? If you don’t like the heat, get the fudge out!

For Real

February 28th, 2011
2:44 pm

Scool: Lurking knows exactly what she was doing when she kept fuggin with ole boy and she was not trying play flirty/funny with and now she wants to play victim.

PR: Yep and then she will be blogging about how all she did was borrow a little money from him and now he tripping and flying off the handle and that she is starting to think it’s red flag for him to mad over his lil 250k.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:46 pm

BlackMW, gettingand giving up the booty is mutually beneficial. The idiot sending his money to the internet girl is not. Unless she is classified as a 501 3c

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
2:46 pm

@ PR …not wanting to sound cheap or easy, BUT both kelly Brock and Penelope Cruz could have me if they played their cards right.

@BMW LOL, not turning down booty because of the panty style, just hoping to encourage making the best of one’s azz(ets). but in the spirit of being totally objective, if you want to send a picture wearing said undies, i will give you a thorough analysis with commentary…just to help of course.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:48 pm

For Real, that is exactly how it would go. Ladies if I gave you 200k would you feel obligated to be sexually active with me? You can change your online alias to answer the question. LOL

Lurking sounds like a female version of Barry

For Real

February 28th, 2011
2:48 pm

“Well the same can be said for the loser who lie just to get the booty.” – Ain’t no booty… let me repeat that Ain’t no booty worth 250K. So please compare apples to apples please.

“Who really knows if it was really a woman?” – Damn Raqi, you just got to blame a dude no matter what don’t you?

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:49 pm

Randyt, don’t be so easy the going rate for internet booty is $200k

Blackfoote

February 28th, 2011
2:50 pm

Right Raqi V it could have been a guy for all he knows…….LOL

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:50 pm

LOL, For Real. LOL

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
2:51 pm

Blackfoote, no doubt. If my sexting game was that one point I could make millions. LOL

What the heck was she promising this man or talking him thru that he could not get on any downtown corner? For all it’s worth he may as well have gotten a hooker. At least he would have been getting some real “some”.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
2:51 pm

I would be an internet pimp if I could have a website with some eHoes and have them prostitute over the web if they could make $200k per client.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
2:52 pm

@ PR LOL are you suggesting that my quarter and a health card might not be enough to get me in with Penelope and Kelly? If they will negotiate in good faith, I will check my 401K and see if we can come to terms.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
2:53 pm

Ladies if I gave you 200k would you feel obligated to be sexually active with me?

Purple, if you are dumb enough to send a woman you don’t know and have never seen $200,000 you are no doubt dumb enough for me to make you believe I already gave you sex despite the fact we have never been in the same city together.

Lord Velonese

February 28th, 2011
2:54 pm

I’m no Bill gates but, My philosophy has been if you want the life bad enough, you will earn it, looks and how the TA shake doesn’t count period. Spoiled Brats need not apply.

Blackfoote

February 28th, 2011
2:55 pm

“internet booty is $200k”……..LOL

I’m sure is hell glad that’s not the only way to get it.

Lurking

February 28th, 2011
2:55 pm

SexyCool – we’ve been dating for six months.

For Real – I’m not trying to play the victim. If anything, he was the victim and is still being victimized due to my actions. I was wrong and I hope I never get to see that side of him again.

For Real

February 28th, 2011
2:55 pm

eHoes… I find that to be very funny.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
2:55 pm

Don’t let him fool you with that question Raqi…he’s just negotiating the price. The next offer will be $50 or so.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 28th, 2011
2:57 pm

$250K?!? No wonder chicks walking around feeling entitled to a flight to Aruba on a private jet on the first date. Dudes be driving up the value for no good reason.

For Real

February 28th, 2011
2:58 pm

200k for so booty???? Oh hellz naw!!!! Ladies do y’all think your booty is worth 200k?

Leggs

February 28th, 2011
2:58 pm

Blog monster is hungry!

Leggs

February 28th, 2011
2:59 pm

He didn’t get any booty! Smuck!

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:01 pm

For Ral, I think eHoeing is legal as long as your server is located in Las Vegas. LOL

Randyt, did you just hate on my negotiation process? Man Law violation, For Real give him a t-shirt.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 28th, 2011
3:01 pm

“No wonder chicks walking around feeling entitled to a flight to Aruba on a private jet on the first date. Dudes be driving up the value for no good reason.”

Dreams — All we ever wanted was a bubble booty & now we’ve got a booty bubble… Go figure… :lol:

SexyCool

February 28th, 2011
3:03 pm

ONLY six months. (lol) You are still definitely in the getting to know one another stage. Perhaps this is the first time he has shown some real stand up to you crossing the line (obviously a line that you did not know was there, but that was crossed nonetheless.)

I remember the first time TheDude reacted in a way that I didn’t like. It actually stung just a bit because I wasn’t expecting it. We had been just coasting along, all agreeable and lovey-dovey and and then he gone go and change up by having boundaries and making them known to me.

Of course, in relationships, there are going to differences of opinion and methods and whatnot. This could be a relationship growth opportunity or it could be a sign of something else. However, you are the one that is up close and personal with the situation and in the best position to make that determination.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:03 pm

For Real, if they think they booty is worth $200k I am almost sure the majority have given it up for less, if indeed they were ever selling it. LOL

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:04 pm

Ladies do y’all think your booty is worth 200k?

Obviously there are some men out there that think it is so it doesn’t matter what we think. LOL

While we value our personal with much honor and grace, it’s you menfolk that steady drives the value up day after day. LOL Look at what some are paying just to get the internet version.

BlackMagicWoman

February 28th, 2011
3:05 pm

“BlackMW, gettingand giving up the booty is mutually beneficial.”

That’s cute…men really believe that! Half the time if the man who is getting all the pleasure. I have had a few “I could’ve had a V-8″ moments! The ding-a-ling ain’t all that! :lol:

RANDY…this boo-tay is a lover of lace boyshorts and hipsters. I am over the thong face. C00ch likes to be comfortable! :lol:

PURPLE…yeah I would feel obligated to do you if you gave me $200,000. But retail therapy does a lot for the mind…like clearing it of guilt and obligations! :lol:

Um….eHoes??? :lol:

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:06 pm

WHISTLE!!!!

Flag on the play.

I got Randyt committing a personal foul against Purp. Excessive and unwarranted blocking. Penalty is Randyt shall now be called Barry azz Barry.

PR, Willie need 35 t-shirts, 52 bumper stickers and 7 bibs all reading Randyt is a Barry azz Barry.

That is All!!!

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:06 pm

So who is the sucker the woman asking for the 200k or the man paying it. LOL she even showed him a fake drivers license. She played off of his emotions by saying she was being kidnapped and had a $200k ransom. I would have been like “bye bish, I don’t even know you like that”