Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection with them? It feels like it’s deeper than mere physical attraction and yet it’s not “love at first sight” either. It’s kind of like you connect somewhere in the middle. It’s a pretty amazing feeling and it always seems to happen when you least expect it. Not sure, why that is, but this has been my experience.
The thing is, once you’ve had that really great, totally bananas connection with one person, you can feel as if you embark on this pursuit of the same instant connection with other people. I think it’s probably the reason why there are so many missed connections because we keep comparing everyone to that one great connection.
Do you think it is a good idea to keep chasing that instant connection? I’ve only felt it twice but I wonder if I will feel it again.
What do you think it means when you don’t feel instantly drawn to a person but over time it gets stronger? Isn’t that the way most relationships actually begin? Do you believe that the instant connection means you have a better chance of getting to a relationship?
When was the last time you met someone and felt an instant connection with them? What do you think it was about them that made your introduction stand out?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog