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Is it love or lust?

It’s officially Valentine’s day and love is in the air. Well, more like in the restaurants, retail stores, and flower shops – but you know what I mean.   The day when love is on the minds of many people – single (who came up with Singles Awareness Day? I mean, really?) and coupled up people.

Last week we talked about the importance of passion in a relationship, especially if you want a long-lasting marriage. I often wonder how passion fuels the lust, that sometimes gets mistaken for love in the beginning.  How do you really know when you are falling in love or lust with someone?

What do you think the difference is between love and lust? Have you felt as if you have been in love and/or lust? Do you think the two “feel” the same or is there a notable difference?

Have you ever thought you were in love, only to discover later that you were mistaking it for lust? What did you do?

Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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SlimHearted

February 14th, 2011
8:10 am

Good morning and Happy Show Your Love Some Love Day!

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
8:17 am

As far as lust versus love, my opinion would be that lust is purely a physical entity…a desire and excitement to please self whilst using someone else as an aide. lol Love on the other hand transcends onto a mental & emotional level. It is more self-sacrificing for the desire to ensure the person on the other end is happy, better off, nurtured, etc. Love is that thing that would make you want to nurse the person back to health if they were sick or upset….Lust would have you tell them to call you when they were better. No need of both of yall getting sick, having them breathing all on you while in the midst of adult horizontal tangoing lol

Truthhurts

February 14th, 2011
8:30 am

After two tries at love and getting married, I’ll stick with lust from here on out. For some reason, women don’t feel lust any more once the ring is on the finger. Lust in a relationship is like oil in a car. It isn’t the only thing that the car needs, but it won’t go very far without it.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
8:38 am

Happy Valentines Day to all the Blog ladies…..I sincerly hope that your hearts and minds are filled with all of the love you wish for!!!

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
8:39 am

‘Lust in a relationship is like oil in a car. It isn’t the only thing that the car needs, but it won’t go very far without it’

TH – Um, as sad as your post is, I do like the way you put that line though. But I guess we use the term Chemistry or X-factor in place of your ‘lust’.

Mi Amor

February 14th, 2011
8:40 am

I need both love and lust. Just love isn’t enough and just lust isn’t eanough. I work hard to stay in shape and look nice. I want my man to truly love me, but I also need a healthy dose of lust from him. Just plain love becomes boring as does lust without love behind it. I have bushels of love to give and if you are the object of my lust, there is no mistaking it, either.

Sweet Pea~Happy V Day!!

February 14th, 2011
8:52 am

Good Morning All!

What do you think the difference is between love and lust?

Of course they are different, Lust is an ignition of attraction and desire to b.e.d. another without any means of substance. Love is something that is heartfelt where you’ve gained trust, understanding, and a desire to want more from a person than the physical aspect. You make sacrifices and complement each other.

Sweet Pea~Happy V Day!!

February 14th, 2011
8:57 am

@SlimHearted~ Chemistry or X-factor in place of your ‘lust’.

I totally agree.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
9:01 am

Good morning! Hope you all enjoy such a beautiful weekend.

Lust will fuel one’s desire to move into love! Love cannot sustain itself w/o lust, passion, desire and pure delight in being with that person, among other attributes.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO &

February 14th, 2011
9:12 am

Happy Valentines Day everyone!

Lust is easy. Love is what happens when you sort through the lust and find the substance underneath!

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
9:12 am

Morning Leggs!!! How are you Darling???

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
9:14 am

@SimpleM ~ I am good, hope you’re doing well.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY TO ALL!!

Sweet Pea~Happy V Day!!

February 14th, 2011
9:15 am

@Leggs/Mi Amor~ A combination of love and lust can certainly create bliss!!

OhMyGod!

February 14th, 2011
9:15 am

Love, affection, and devotion all mean a deep and emotional regard, usually for another person. Lust (in this instance) means intense sexual desire or appetite. Two totally different emotions.

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
9:16 am

Happy Valentine’s Day folks

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
9:16 am

Happy Valentine’s Day folks

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
9:17 am

Whats Good ARED??? Hope you had a wonderful weekend….. :)

AmazonRed™ - XOXO &

February 14th, 2011
9:21 am

Morning Simple Man, happy valentines day!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
9:25 am

It is hard to totally separate the two…especially into a relationship. I once heard that a woman needs to feel loved to want sex, and a man needs sex to feel loved. Since I have given up trying to get into a woman’s head, I can only address the men’s part which I think is true. Woman sometimes think that cooking, cleaning, being a good arm ornament, great mother, etc. is their way of showing love. Unfortunately for men a woman can be the perfect wife in every other way, but if she does not convey to him that he is desirable, then the other attributes tend to get minimized. A man’s ego is the most fragile thing on Earth, in spite of all the macho bs.

The biggest problem I have run into over my dating years, is allowing sex to enter the equation way to early. Up until “the do” is introduced, a man (or at least me) is truly wanting to get to know the lady. Once sex is introduced, then for the guy it tends to become all about when can we do it again. Good sex is an addiction every bit as strong or stronger than cocaine.

Sex ALWAYS changes the dynamics of a relationship. It is what it is.

LaVerne Mattox

February 14th, 2011
9:43 am

Love is meeting someone on the playground at 10 years of age and still being in love at age 60. Love you with all of my heart and yes you still look 11 to me….

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
9:51 am

Wow…I am reading all of the comments today and I am impressed with the “power” of love…..Gotta admit, not sure If I a buying it….Seems to me that love is kinda like a few stiff drinks….In the short term, It makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, but at some point the high is gone and you don’t quite remember what was so great about it.. Now if that is the case, give me LUST!!! at least that way I know am not blinded by whats happening and beat alll to hell when its over…..

Fion

February 14th, 2011
9:53 am

“How do you really know when you are falling in love or lust with someone?”

What is your motivation? Lust takes. Love gives.
Are you a Taker or a Giver?

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:02 am

I just received 2 dozen yellow, white, peach and red roses. Card just said “Happy Valentine’s Day because you are Beautiful.” The only admirer I thought sent them said he didn’t when I called and asked. That was funny. The other person I thought of is my ex-husband! Waiting for him to return my call. I hope it wasn’t him, but I really think it was. Phooey!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 14th, 2011
10:03 am

Happy Valentine’s Day to all the blog queens. I hope you get all the love (or lust) you can stand today. ;-)

TenderRoni

February 14th, 2011
10:06 am

Happy V day to all the menfolk,

The difference between love and lust, love is an unconditional intention. I love not based on some condition, but because I accept you. And my intention, is to decide everyday to show love.

Lust is temporary, it will come and go.

@Fion- I agree with your post.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
10:11 am

I just received 2 dozen yellow, white, peach and red roses.

That’s wonderful. You deserve them!

Gwinnett

February 14th, 2011
10:12 am

Love or Lust…..hmmmm arent they both good??

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:13 am

Awwww, thank you ARed!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
10:14 am

Morning, folks… Happy VD to all the ladies… Er, wait… maybe I should spell that all the way out… oh well… :lol:

“What do you think the difference is between love and lust?”

Lust = Ex: sprouting wood at the mere thought of that booty…

Love = Ex: taking care of her 24/7 when she’s sick & rank & you know you’re not getting any…

And you need a healthy dose of both, IMO…

“Have you ever thought you were in love, only to discover later that you were mistaking it for lust? What did you do?”

Yes… Shrugged & kept humping… :lol:

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
10:19 am

Leggs – sounds like a boootiful bouquet…Peach, white & red sounds like a great break from the normal red.

Marcus

February 14th, 2011
10:20 am

White people are in it for the love, blacks are in it for the lust.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
10:23 am

“White people are in it for the love, blacks are in it for the lust”

Ok…Who let this dumbass in the building????

Marcus

February 14th, 2011
10:24 am

Its true, that’s why they have so many baby daddies.

Rell

February 14th, 2011
10:24 am

Happy lovers day to all

dan

February 14th, 2011
10:24 am

“White people are in it for the love, blacks are in it for the lust.”

So what if you’re mixed?

dan

February 14th, 2011
10:26 am

I have the perfect idea for your loved one. It’s great for all occasions!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhwbxEfy7fg

Marcus

February 14th, 2011
10:26 am

If you’re mixed, you are just screwed

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:26 am

They’re gorgeous, SlimHearted.

BlackMagicWoman

February 14th, 2011
10:33 am

V-day is 1 day designed by retail to make mass fools come up out of their pockets at the same time to cause a surge in earnings in the earlier part of the year. I call it a head start on the fiscal year that just happens to fall around tax return time? Conspiracy…I thinketh so!

Hows about I LOVE my money and keep it in my bank account? Happy V-day to my funds! I love you enough to hold onto you! Or at least spend it on someone really deserving…ME!

Signed,
The Anti-Cupid

QUESTION: Who in the hell left the gate open? The troll got in and he needs to be taken out to pasture! :roll:

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
10:35 am

It would have been really cool if everyone just ignored the troll. Oh well.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:35 am

@dan ~ what would you suggest for same sex couples (lol)???

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
10:38 am

Well last time I checked, Ared and myself were black and have a ZERO count on the baby daddy scale. But let you tell it, my 25% white probably saved me from Baby Daddy Doom…riiiiiiiggght! :roll:

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:41 am

“Love is what remains long after the oils emanating from a lustful encounter have been wiped off!” – hmmmmmmm

Marcus

February 14th, 2011
10:41 am

It sure did Slim, and that means you are 25% as smart as us white people too.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:44 am

Keep your eyes straight ahead…do not look to your side…do not look behind you…stay looking ahead!!!!

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
10:45 am

Marcus – thank you for validating who I am…I was totally lost until today.

Leggs- That sounds just wrong…lol :shock:

Mean as hell...

February 14th, 2011
10:46 am

Marcus, I am black and if not for the pull out and spray method, me and your mom may have had another kid to prove your point!!!!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
10:46 am

Leggs — Did you just say love was jizz residue? :shock: :lol:

BlackMagicWoman

February 14th, 2011
10:47 am

ARED…do you have that Anti-D0uchbag spray with you? I need it….all of a sudden this blog just got that “not so fresh feeling”! :lol:

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
10:48 am

Love and lust can exist independently of each other. However, they are both so much better when they co-exist.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
10:49 am

BMW – I think you’ll find one in his bathroom hanging over the shower curtain rod. :lol:

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:52 am

LOLOLOL, no I didn’t say that. Just repeated what someone else said….the “hmmmmmm” is my only contribution. :lol:

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
10:53 am

I’m set to close on the Washington Park house on March 18th.

Y’all wish me luck.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
10:55 am

I am at a point where I hide from relationships between Dec. 1 and Feb 14. All four major relationships in my life ended in December, and frankly men should act like every day is Valentine’s Day (try to add something surprising or romantic every day). Not easy but should.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
10:57 am

SexyC ~ CONGRATULATIONS!

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
10:58 am

Good Luck SC!!

Fion

February 14th, 2011
11:02 am

I have to say honestly, the times I’ve been in love and loved regardless of how the relationship ended I was always glad that I shared what I had with that person.
All in all, they were worth every once I gave. To all those that I’ve truly loved.

Happy Valentine’s Day.

Good Night Ursula, wherever you are!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:05 am

@SexyC ~ guess “Good Luck” is more appropriate than congratulations. Whatever shennigans that may arise at closing will have to “walking” or taking care of them. Be prepared for them asking for more $$. There seems to always be some surprise at closing.

BlackMagicWoman

February 14th, 2011
11:08 am

“Jizza-Due” ???????? :shock: :lol:

Congrats SCOOL!

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:10 am

Leggs – It can be appropriate to use Congratulations especially if she wants to go ahead and claim it’s hers anyway. ;-)

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
11:11 am

Morning all!

Yesterday was our annual Love Sunday at my church. The pastor gave a great sermon on what real love is all about. How it’s an action, not a feeling. He compared lust to that BB King song “The Thrill is Gone”!

Like SCool said, love and lust can be independant of each other, but together it’s wonderful! I look at my fiance’ sometimes and say to myself “How lucky am I, to have found a wonderful guy I love dearly, that is sooooo HOT”!

Happy Love Day everyone!!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:11 am

Thanks, SlimHearted! I thought that, but since she hasn’t inked the deal yet, second guessed myself.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
11:14 am

ARED…do you have that Anti-D0uchbag spray with you?

I keep “Bytch be gone” spray…but I think it works on d0uchbags. :lol:

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:14 am

Love is a verb! Remember that and you can easily assess when love really isn’t present.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:15 am

I see no one is really talking about the Grammys. I think Justin Beiber and his handlers ate some humble pie. Probably believed he was a shoo-in to win something, but he walked away empty handed.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
11:15 am

Congrats SCool. Welcome back to the club!

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:17 am

‘I keep “Bytch be gone” spray…but I think it works on d0uchbags’

I nominate this as COMMENT OF THE DAY!!!! :LOL:

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:19 am

Bytch Be Gone spray! There’s definitely a market for that.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:20 am

Leggs – Re: Bieber Fever…i think the fact his movie didn’t hit the #1 spot was also a shock to them. Justin was on Q100 this morning urging not only girls to go see it, but that boys should jump on the “Never Say Never” bandwagon too…if not to see the movie, at least to be in the presence of all the screaming young ladies lol

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
11:20 am

Do I cover all my bases if I love to lust???

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
11:22 am

Good luck, SC

“There seems to always be some surprise at closing.”

There shouldn’t be if you have a good agent. I’ve seen both ends of the spectrum — when I sold my house, I had the worst agent in the history of agents. She was completely unprepared. I even asked her some specific questions beforehand and she completely misinformed me. But luckily by the time Mrs. Swiss & I bought our new place, we found the best agent I’ve ever seen. He literally saved us $70K just before our initial due-diligence period was set to expire by doing some extra digging (and in the process reduced his own commission to make sure we were getting the best deal possible). And for the closing, he had us both 100% prepared — absolutely no surprises.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:23 am

@SlimHearted ~ bet his pleas fell on deaf ears. Boys don’t want to go to the movies to see a bunch of silly, screaming, panting girls over someone other than themselves. :lol:

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
11:24 am

@Swiss

If you still have that cats number, holla at cha boy.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
11:27 am

Dan — I do. Email me and I’ll give you his info…

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:28 am

Leggs – You ain’t neva lied bout dat. lol

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:28 am

Glad to hear that, i’m swiss. There was a surprise at my closing, and my agent knew her trade. Somewhere more $$ were asked ($1000 to be exact). I stuck to my guns and stated all that was negotiated and agreed upon. I wasn’t going to give another $1000. We went back and forth, but I stuck to my guns and prevailed…

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
11:29 am

I like Bieber. He really seems to be a sweetheart, not cocky. His handlers may be cocky, but he comes across as nothing but humble, he & his mom. I hope he keeps some of that innocence about him just a little while longer. Nice kid.

They did India Irie like that at the Grammy’s. The Grammy’s can be a trip. Seems to be sort of a jinx with that Best New Artist category too. Bieber’s probably better off not getting that one.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:30 am

‘Infatuation is when you think he’s as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble as Ralph Nader, as funny as Woody Allen, and as athletic as Jimmy Conners. Love is when you realize that he’s as sexy as Woody Allen, as smart as Jimmy Connors, as funny as Ralph Nader, as athletic as Henry Kissinger and nothing like Robert Redford – but you’ll take him anyway.’ ~Judith Viorst, Redbook, 1975

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
11:31 am

I like the “Beib” too.

Chelle

February 14th, 2011
11:33 am

HAPPY VALENTINES’ DAY EVERYONE :)

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
11:34 am

In addition to the “Bytch Be Gone” products, there is a method that you can employ as well. “Bytch, Boo, Bye” (As made famous by Royce on Basketball Wives – lol)

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
11:35 am

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
11:37 am

They sell Bullsh-t repellant too. :lol:

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:43 am

@kimmie ~ I believe he’s a good kid, not cocky. I like his mother as well. I even thought he might take home an award until Lady Antebellum stole everything.

That was really really funny, SlimHearted, and TRUE! That’s love.

Well, my ex just called to confirm he was the one who sent the flowers saying he owed it to me for prior years. Again, you don’t miss the water until the well runs dry! Oh well. Nice gesture. I’m not going to throw them in the garbage!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
11:44 am

So if a Guy goes out and does his “due diligence” with the flowers, card, candy, perfume (or whatever gift to her liking) … Does that mean he should expect at minimal his Lady to Swing from the Basket above the bed, for her to make CERTAIN sparks fly outta his azz or even try to get a beachball through a straw???

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:46 am

@SexyC ~ she (Royce) definitely says that (lol).

Sad Valentine's

February 14th, 2011
11:48 am

WORSE THAN NOT GETTING ANYTHING WOULD BE GETTING GIFTED BY SOMEONE YOU DON’T WANT ANYTHING FROM OR NOTHING TO DO WITH

:(
:(
:(

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:48 am

Leggs – A guy friend of mine told me how he was in the ‘dawg house’ with his gf and how he begged, pleaded or whatever to get her to give him another chance. Well, he went to a floral shop and ordered a huge flower arrangement to be sent to the chicks job. On the day of the delivery, the floral shop called him to tell him to come get his money back because the chick had refused the flowers. I was like dayum, I never heard of anyone doing that even if it was from someone you were upset with. I’d at least enjoy them or give them to a friend. lol I was just like dayum, even the floral guy felt bad enough to give him his money back :lol:

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:48 am

@Da_Man ~ you make “due diligence” sound so much like a chore and a desire from his heart to show his love for his woman.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
11:50 am

NOT getting a V-Day gift is not the end of the world.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:51 am

sound so much like a chore THAN a desire from his heart….

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
11:52 am

I’m buying TheDude a card and pan broiling his favorite cut of steak for dinner….and just may blindfold him and feed him fruit and chocolate afterwards.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
11:54 am

No, it’s definitely isn’t, SexyC! I truly do not understand why you have to give $$ to Kay Jewelers to show your love and appreciation for me. There are so many other ways that buying into the commercialization of this day! And, please do give me a box of chocolates. If you don’t see me eat chocolate on a regular basis, I definitely don’t want it on that day!

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
11:55 am

And speaking of BBall wives….is Tami a schizo? lol

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
11:57 am

Tami seems to have little voices that speak to her.

(And she looks so much better withOUT the bangs. I wish she would set her forehead free.)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
11:58 am

“….and just may blindfold him and feed him fruit and chocolate afterwards.”

SCool — With your va-jay-jay, I’m hoping? And make sure you video that, too — we need some post V-day entertainment up in this joint… :lol:

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
11:59 am

@Leggs … It is a chore (for me) only b/c I give from the heart & show my love on others days like June 7th or Oct 8th, which are just avg day … nothing special about those days. V-day is the only time when men moreso than women feel compelled to show their love. If i had not walked in the house last nite with anything less than some flowers, it would have been Dirty Look Day for me & the punanny would have been held hostage for about a month.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:00 pm

Why, lawd, why?

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
12:03 pm

Hadn’t heard punanny in quite some time.

Re: Tami. All I know is I wouldn’t want to mess with her on ANY LEVEL. I like her because she’s real 100%, 24/7 365. Can’t ask anything else from a person. Hmmmmm, I wonder about that?

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:05 pm

Yeah … I’m trying to bring punanny back like Levi Jeans & Members Only jackets …

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
12:06 pm

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:07 pm

If i had not walked in the house last nite with anything less than some flowers, it would have been Dirty Look Day for me & the punanny would have been held hostage for about a month.

Da Man – Looks like you have other issues that have nothing to do with Valentines Day. First being your selection of such a materialistic, spoiled-sounding person.

It trips me out, these dudes that feel compelled to make the announcement “I don’t need Valentine’s Day to show my woman I love her. I do it all the time, not just that one day”.

Believe me, if you were’nt doing it the other 364 days, you wouldn’t have to worry about seeing Valentines day with me. Show you care all the time and Valentines day truly would not be a big deal for you.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:09 pm

Awwwwww Kimmie you’re only saying that b/c you’re not a man!!!!

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:10 pm

Da Man – Truth can be hard to hear sometimes, I know.

BlackMagicWoman

February 14th, 2011
12:12 pm

Tammi is bi-polar as well as paranoid schitzo! She looks like that ghetto cousin you hate to see coming because you know she will act like as a$$ an embaress you. Make you want to walk away acting liek you don’t know that trick! :lol:

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:12 pm

Well…TheDude knows how I feel about V-Day and any other marketing / consumer driven command performance holiday.

It’s nice that he acknowledges them, but knows that it is not a requirement. He really is one that can make a regular ass Monday night after work meaningful.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:13 pm

Kimmie – I’m not afraid of the truth, you have a valid point but make no mistake … Women (a fair amt in a relationship) expect something, at least a card on V-day. If if they can expect, why can’t I???

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:14 pm

Tami is exactly the train wreck that show needed. Shauni brought her on for her entertainment value. (I also noticed that Shauni is showing up a whole lot more this season.)

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:15 pm

I mean, think about it. I’m a grown-a– woman. Walking around pouting and foregoing my own needs and pleasure cause dude didn’t send me flowers on Valentines Day, especially if he’s been a loving, upstanding dude all along? Sounds real high school.

Just does not compute with me.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
12:15 pm

Leggs – there is nothing wrong with being real…but sometimes being “real” needs a filter at times, depending on the situation, time and place.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:17 pm

Oh…and question – was the place where the Lobsters are Red crowded on Friday night because of V-Day…or is it always like that on a Friday?

(We usually go for lunch or on a Tuesday night.)

At any rate, the Cheddar Bay biscuits calleth and I could not answereth because there were too many folks in that joint.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
12:18 pm

Tami is a loose cannon and you can almost see her turn into the GHETTOTAM as she throws them drinks back. It’s almost like watching Sybil :lol:

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:18 pm

Tami is classic “When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong” waiting to happen.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:20 pm

“I’m a grown-a– woman. Walking around pouting and foregoing my own needs and pleasure cause dude didn’t send me flowers”

@kimmie
Excuse me! Oh High Priestess. If that ain’t some #%+=*/?. Believe it or not, it happens.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:20 pm

kimmie – You may be in a small minority. You sound “Perfect” but also unbelieveable at the same time.

For Real

February 14th, 2011
12:22 pm

Happy V-Day to all the Blog Ladies!!!

For Real now passing out V-Day potatoes to all the lovely ladies.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:23 pm

Da Man – It’s nothing wrong with wanting to be acknowledged on special days, by either party. But if you’re treating me like twice-microwaved liver the other days, all the flowers in the world on Valentines Day won’t make up for it. I’m also mature enough to understand that if you’re treating me with love and respect on a regular basis, the fact that you didn’t spend $80 on some roses that will be $19.99 tomorrow won’t matter to me.

But that’s me.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:23 pm

But Fion…you gotta focus on the entire statement….”especially if he’s been a loving, upstanding dude all along.”

Where it can go south is when folks have been trifling, coming up short and then on top of that, don’t come through with something that evens out all the bllsht and makes up for the drama.

As for me, keep the bllsht and drama. Stay consistent and present in the relationship. And you ain’t got to NEVER buy a flower or a piece of heart shaped candy EVER.

For Real

February 14th, 2011
12:27 pm

Kimmie + SexyCool= Two grateful women something all men long to see/hear/feel from their woman.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:29 pm

@Sexy
Kimmie said “especially if he’s been a loving, upstanding dude all along? Sounds real high school.”

I agree with Dan. You can be doing the “right” thing and sometime it may not matter.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:31 pm

Fion/Da Man – Spoiled women have friends and associates. So I do know such women exist. I’ve even told some they are crazy, that they are not looking at what’s important. They aren’t used to anything. There are also a lot of women that put up with a lot of mess just to have a man, so the fact that he didn’t send her roses on Vday is the least of her worries!

If you two only run across such, maybe you need to upgrade your selection process. But don’t put most of the women out here in that category.

Oh, and I’m not perfect, just a mature, practical, grown-a woman. And yes, I wear the High Pristess crown proudly! :lol:

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:32 pm

kimmie’s statement just made me think that unreasonable female behavior is something uncommon, and something she’d never heard expressed by a man before.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:36 pm

You can be doing the “right” thing and sometime it may not matter.

Fion – If your best is not enough, you have some decisions to make! The “high school” comment was describing someone that pouts & withholds intimacy if they don’t get flowers.

4Real – Thanks & Happy Valentine’s Day!

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:37 pm

Fion – I hear it expressed by every other man in real life, on tv, on the radio, especially this time of year!!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
12:37 pm

@SlimHearted ~ I agree.

Tami is a loose cannon who feels “froggy” all the time. But, Evelyn is just as froggy.

@kimmie ~ you’re sweet!

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:39 pm

4Real – Are those sweet potatoes? Love them, thanks!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:39 pm

Fion – Here we go with “Fishing in the wrong pond” label …

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:40 pm

Thank you Leggs, you’re a sweetheart too! :)

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:42 pm

@kimmie
“Fion – I hear it expressed by every other man in real life, on tv, on the radio, especially this time of year!!

We agree. I think what Dan was saying. He doesn’t need me to speak for him, but his comment was not made in a vacume and without merit.

Just sayin.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
12:43 pm

Da Man/Fion – I understand you gotta defend your position! But I gotta present the position of us Real Women on here too!

Happy V Day, going to get lunch! :lol:

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:44 pm

I meant vcuum

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:44 pm

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:45 pm

FELLAS – Don’t get “Banana’d in the tail pipe” with Kimmie’s theory. Come home empty handed or not prepared to do something nice on any designated “special” day. You’ll need to call a Bails Bondsman to get Punnany outta jail. So what you’re Mr. Right 300+ days out of the year.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:47 pm

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:48 pm

In the words of Barry White, “Playin Yo Game Baby”

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:48 pm

Well…the way I see it….a gratuitous, bllsht gift basket that you bought from off the trunk of the car on the side of the road is not an expression of love. It’s a trinket. And trinkets are cute and the thought is appreciated.

But TheDude *knows* me and he knows that that is not what *I* need.

(And please believe that I am only speaking for myself.)

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:49 pm

“You know You want me to Win.”

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
12:51 pm

If you guys really listened, you would hear the consensus saying that if you notice us, show appreciation, show respect, love us, etc. throughout the year, VD isn’t going to mold the relationship any more. If it’s not already molded and you forget VD is where the problem comes into play. A secure relationship doesn’t need the hype of Valentine’s Day. For some, a mere wish of Happy Valentine’s Day will suffice.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
12:53 pm

I’m not gonna try to pull the wool over anyone’s eyes…Slim likes a little acknowledgement on holiday’s, this one included. Don’t judge me :lol:

Mean as hell...

February 14th, 2011
12:53 pm

“a gratuitous, bllsht gift basket that you bought from off the trunk of the car on the side of the road”

Really???? Do guys really buy those and are they serious when they give them to someone????

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:54 pm

@Leggs

Bless you my child. Oh, if it were only sooooooooooo! simple. :)

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:54 pm

MAH – SOMEbody HAS to be buying them. There were too many folks on corners with them set up for there not to be.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
12:56 pm

And, I’m wearing our newest item in blog inventory…water proof, double insulated blog vest. So comfy…

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:57 pm

Leggs – I’m not trying to mold the relationship with 1 day. I’m just trying to be sure that wifey is ready to turn it up another notch. After all … it is Valentines Day …

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
12:58 pm

@Fion ~ bing, bing, bouncing right off me.

Seriously, I know, but also believe in some cases it really is that simple!

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
12:59 pm

Fion – Leggs is right. If you are putting forth effort consistently in a relationship, a grandiose command performance is not required.

However, it is much easier to put forth a half-ass effort on most days and then show up with your wallet a few times a year on special days. You end up creating that reality and perpetuating your own myth.

If you are in a relationship where honest communication is occurring, you’ve likely had a conversation about the observance of holidays, the expectations, why certain gestures are or are not important and you make the adjustment to accomodate such.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
12:59 pm

“hey off Topic” what ever happened with all the birds fallin out of the sky DEAD!
I never heard about the cause!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
12:59 pm

I wonder if the dude that sold me this basket on Candler Road take refunds b/c you women are beginning to make me feel like wifey is not going to appreciate it …

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
1:01 pm

So…Da-Man, your statement indicates that YOU have greater expectations of V-Day as well. And that you could be setting yourself up for a disappointment if she doesn’t come through with EXTRA.

And if that is the bar that you have set in your relationship, then so be it. But…don’t bemoan your own standard.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
1:01 pm

I’ve never bought one of those side-road holiday baskets…I like to make them myself, personalizing it with items specific to the person on the receiving end.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:02 pm

@SexyC ~ speaking about those baskets. I know a guy who walks around the club selling holiday related baskets. A few years ago he calls me up saying he has a gift for me for V-Day. I didn’t want to be rude, but told him if it’s one of the baskets he sells in the club to not waste it on me and get the $$ for it because there’s nothing in there I would want. A little callous, sure, notheless honest. I didn’t want to invite him over and feign appreciation for such a tacky basket.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
1:03 pm

Da-Man – your wife may LOVE the basket. I am just speaking for MYSELF.

And then too…in keeping with the “something is better than nothing” theme that some have espoused, at least it’s something.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:04 pm

I know, I know. I was heartless!

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
1:04 pm

Oh…and like kimmie, I’m a grown @ss woman. Do not buy me a teddy bear.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
1:06 pm

Damn Leggs, was the basket tacky because of the cheap Easter grass or because of the noisy ass plastic wrapping??? :)

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:06 pm

SC – You dam skippy Imma be upset. on V-day I want Cirque du Soleil not Ringling Bros. That’s what I bring to the table.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
1:07 pm

If you *really* bought a basket off the side of the road, you better get ready for UniverSoul.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:08 pm

@SimpleM ~ BOTH. Not only that, if you’re going to give a woman a basket make it specific to her. I’m not like the women at the club. I don’t need a little white teddy bear with a red heart in the front to place on my dresser admiring it thinking you give a damn about me.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
1:09 pm

Da man….Be careful, she might forget and you end up with Univer”Soul”…. LOL

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:09 pm

Noooooooo. Not the Soul Circus. I think I can make it to Kay Jewelers before I get home.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
1:10 pm

But Leggs, what else are they gonna do with the bath beads they got from Dollar General????

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:13 pm

Simple Man – Don’t hate on the Bath Beads … I did that basket a few years ago & dam near got “Man of the Year”!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:14 pm

OMG, :lol: :lol: :lol: seriously laughing at you SimpleM!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:15 pm

@Da_Man ~ again, you made the basket specific to her. Not any ole woman coming in the front door or out the back door of a club!

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
1:16 pm

Da man…Ok….LOL…. If you tricked your girl into being down with the Calgon, then you REALLY are the man of the year!!!!

Fion

February 14th, 2011
1:17 pm

@Dan, let me right that down!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:20 pm

Simple Man … I personalized it like Slimhearted. 1st I took off the price tag then I tore a small hole & stuck in some Juicy Couture. Had that basket looking like it was straight from Macy. I was on a roll then. Haven’t topped that 1 yet.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
1:21 pm

I meant Write. That will teach me. I need to pay attention. Multi-tasking is tough today.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
1:23 pm

I think the dude ought to be really considerate and just buy a $100 gift card from Starship Enterprises!!! Now that is romantic!!!

(just kidding, but would be funny to see the look on a lady’s face)

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:26 pm

I’ve spoken on love or lust on here.

Valentines day is no different than any other day, so I do not put an emphasis on it and she doesn’t expect me to. I always do random gestures of love and appreciation. :)

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:29 pm

Awwwww Man … Purple Rain has gotten “Banana’d in the tail pipe”. It’s going to come back to haunt you one day. One of those nasty disagreement days.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
1:31 pm

‘what else are they gonna do with the bath beads they got from Dollar General????’

OMG, I think i just snotted on myself. :lol: Have her azz itching and breaking out into hives.

‘I personalized it like Slimhearted. 1st I took off the price tag then I tore a small hole & stuck in some Juicy Couture. Had that basket looking like it was straight from Macy’

Da Man – Not quite what I meant but I must say there is a loophole to everything i suppose. And Juicy Couture is my shizzle.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:34 pm

SlimHearted – “Loophole”??? That is definitely male ingenuity.

BlackMagicWoman

February 14th, 2011
1:35 pm

How about putting your face on M&M’s and saying eat me? :lol:

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
1:36 pm

PR good luck with not doing anything special. Just a reminder from someone who was married way too long…women NEVER forget an injustice, real or perceived.

Remembering V-day, Mother’s Day, Christmas, Secretaries Day,
birthdays, anniversaries, and probably a dozen more I am forgetting is a small investment in harmonious relationships.

Forgetting can be hazardous to one’s health. Ask me how I know…”been there, done that, have a closet FULL of t-shirts”.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:38 pm

BMW – M&M’s in the “Right” place will gobbled down like a glazed donut …

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:39 pm

Guys, I know my wife and have done the opposite and gotten her stuff on Valentines Day(had many before we got married) and she hates the whole thing. Things go smoother when I don’t make a fuss out of the day. We’ve had our ups and downs but never has this day been an issue. Her mindset is no reason to put on a show for a day that someone else decided to glorify, it’s not a birthday or Christmas. Her words not mine.

cba

February 14th, 2011
1:40 pm

LEGGS, my daughter has the exact white teddy bear w/ red heart, on the dresser, in the guest bedroom. I think it has been there a couple of years……long shelf life :-)

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
1:40 pm

BMW – I wish I would’ve thought about that idea before I made my basket. lol

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:42 pm

PR – How’d you get so Lucky. Please write a manual.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:45 pm

@cba ~ that teddy is very popular. It sounds as though there’s sentiment behind hers…that’s an entirely different story. I’m glad for her because it is a cute bear.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:45 pm

Da_Man, I just found the right one for me (shrugs)

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:47 pm

But on why valentines day is not a big issue is because a rarely let a week go buy that I do not get her a card and some flowers. I always compliment her and feed her “ego” and each day I think of three ways to tell her that I love her outside of just saying “I love you”. I just love her :)

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
1:48 pm

PR – Congrats … I believe I found the right 1 too. She just better be ready to get in that basket and swiiiiiiiing b/c Daddys’ bringin home the MALL!

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
1:50 pm

Is avoiding my Valentine…. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:50 pm

Da_Man, anything done with confidence she will love :)

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
1:50 pm

Da_Man – that almost sounds like “Payment rendered. Service expected.”

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:51 pm

She still irks me to much though. LOL

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
1:54 pm

Purple – You said a mouthful. You found the right one for YOU.

My birthday is Jan 17, a few weeks after Christmas. Now rolls around V Day. We got engaged Christmas Eve. My boo told me my birthday & V day would be a little light this year due to him paying off the ring & us saving for wedding & honeymoon. A reasonable request. He still acknowledged my birthday & V day, just on a smaller scale.

So do you think I’m pouting and “withholding” thru all of this? I know there are some women who would – but I’m not one of them.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
1:55 pm

Ared, Why are you dodging your guy????

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
1:56 pm

@kimmie ~ any woman that would “pout” or even “withhold” after he explained all of that to her doesn’t deserve to be with ANY MAN! She’s content with her B.O.B.

SlimHearted - Man, I love lovin'!

February 14th, 2011
1:56 pm

Well, don’t yall do too much loving tonight. Off to see the hematologist. (sorta ironic with the holiday and all) Anyhoo, have a good one. ;-)

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
1:58 pm

kimmie, because you two are one team :) and you know him and there is no tangible item that could ever come to meaning as much as having his heart

Karpetheday

February 14th, 2011
2:00 pm

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
2:02 pm

PR…that’s great man. I’m truly glad for you and truly jealous. I really have gotten jaded and have to try hard to bring out the “hopeful romantic” in me now. Age and footprints up my back I guess.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:04 pm

SC – Ya killin me … making me seem like a monster.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:05 pm

LOL – just not sure why you buying her something means that she has to go into her special bag of tricks.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
2:11 pm

@ Da_Man!

If you know what it takes to keep you from sittin’ out there on the front stoop of the Dog House with
a 50lb. bag of Alpo, handle yo business Man.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
2:14 pm

Not relevant to the day’s topic, but I just met an absoulutely stunning lady, beautiful, studied acting at NYU for a year and a half, smart, awesome anatomy, did I say beautiful??? Just one little problem…she has two adopted children that are eight years old. My youngest has left the nest and I am used to being friends with a potential partner’s teenage children, but these are babies. I’m struggling here. I was hoping to get involved with someone to travel with, use Delta skymiles, and Marriott and Amex points to take us traveling every few months. Probably should walk, run, make like horse manure and hit the trail, but I look into those eyes and I am hooked.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:15 pm

Kimmie – The fact still remains that he is doing something, I guess what I was really trying to get at the irony (with SOME women) that V-day should be extra-special. I have no problem with that expectation but am I wrong for thinking it should something done extra-special when it comes to the bedroom theatrics on V-day?

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:15 pm

I’m just saying…that…some of what men (and women) are always bmc’ing about in life and relationships is based on standards that they have set, expectations that they have created and/or behaviors that they have allowed.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:18 pm

SC – Usually because that bag of tricks has a lock and the key is more often a nice little something from the Mall.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:18 pm

Why can’t you get extra special on Friday night or on Sunday morning? Why does it have to only be relegated to days/occasions that someone else decided for you that was special?

Fion

February 14th, 2011
2:21 pm

@ Randyt

Are you taking “Liberties” with established?

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
2:21 pm

Randy’s in looooove, Randy’s in looooooove….!!!

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:21 pm

DA – you keep going around in the same circle. “Because I bought her something extra, she has to do something extra.

My dude can get extra just because he is breathing. He does so much for me on a consistent basis that a new dress or a bottle of perfume is not going to make me turn cartwheels.

I don’t phfck for purses. (Another Basketball Wives reference – lol.)

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:23 pm

SC – I don’t give out the “extra-special” label. Women do … That’s right I said it, Women do! If it was up to me extra-special would be 8 days a week, but my compromising side settles for my Birthday, V-day & Father’s Day (glad I got some kids or I’d be short a day).

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:23 pm

DA – Really, though….I’m just messing wit’cha, dude. I really do get where you’re coming from. I just like the debate.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
2:25 pm

@RandyT ~ that’s a good example of lust right off the bat.

Fion

February 14th, 2011
2:25 pm

@Randyt
If you are, then that’s like having the shopping cart half full of groceries and deciding you want to go back for Cantalope.
You’ve established a relationship with the woman’s teenage daughter already.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:25 pm

SC – I know … love it too. Makes my cubicle hostage day a bit more entertaining.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:26 pm

Well…dern…I typed ri.dic.ulous and got sent to moderation. (lol)

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
2:26 pm

OK…Randy….Sounds like she is worthy of the investmenton the surface…Why not take some time to get to know her..In all likelyhood, she is not looking ot make you a “adopted baby-daddy”….But If you still wanna run the other way, have her call me…..Like Trick Daddy says.” Simple Loves the kids” LOL

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
2:27 pm

Da Man – I get what you are saying and what SCool said in her 2:18. Do what works for the two of you in your relationship. If you two have it understood that on these special days you shower her with roses and she showers you with “extra”, then what’s the harm? But what if you were having financial problems and could only get her one rose? Will she be understanding or will she pout? If she’s still cool & still give you what you desire, you’ve got a winner!

I LOVE chocolate. So much that I told one guy I dated I didn’t care about flowers or dinner or anything else. As long as he gave me chocolate candy like he did one V day that was spectacular, it was all good!! And it wasn’t even the most expensive, it was just so delicious!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
2:28 pm

@SexyC ~ guess you forgot that word was banned!

cba

February 14th, 2011
2:28 pm

Off Topic: I hope one of Tiger’s jump-offs send him a V gift. Damn, brother world is crashing underneath him. Man get fined for spitting on course. Baseball players scratch and dig all the time.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:28 pm

What I said was….

Not “Women” – marketing and ad campaigns call those days “extra-special”.

Hell, it was a marketing executive that came up with the ri.dic.ulous rule that engagement rings should cost three months salary. Why? To create an unreal expectation that would entice people to spend more money on their products.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
2:29 pm

But not in a Eddie Long kinda way…. ( gotta make that clear)

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:30 pm

I just refuse to fall for the hype.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
2:30 pm

“Why can’t you get extra special on Friday night or on Sunday morning?”

I gave Mrs. Swiss the “extra special” on Friday night, twice Saturday night and again on Sunday morning.

:-D

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:32 pm

Simple – LMAO – hilarious.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
2:34 pm

@cba ~ looks like Tiger has aged considerably.

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
2:34 pm

@SC

The attempt to divest someone of the artifically imposed notions that they have internalized as core values, is a wasted effort.

Let those that can, see; pray for the truly blind and KIP.

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
2:36 pm

cba – Tiga should have thought of the repercussions before jumping in his bag of tricks with all those tricks. Sometimes the fallout is much more severe than realized. And trust when the white man is funding, one step to the left and they’ll quickly remind you where you stand and how they REALLY feel about your black azz. Tiga might not consider himself a black man but I bet he feels like one…lol Too, folks still don’t smile on black men marrying white women so the first opportunity to hit where it hurts, it’s gonna happen. Sticking everything that’s got a faint pulse, all because you can when really just a hint of discipline and “just say no” could have landed him on some distant island right about now laid back with his wife.

Happy V-day Tiga :)

BlackMagicWoman

February 14th, 2011
2:45 pm

I wonder….6-8 weeks from now….how many rabbits will have died!!! No wonder there are so many early December Sags. Our parents were being nasty on V-day! :lol:

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
2:46 pm

If you know anyone who is a member of Delta Community Credit Union who has a relative that is a high school senior going to college this fall, DCCU has an essay contest that is good for one of three $5,000 scholarships. The deadline to enter is April 15, 2011. Check out their website.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:46 pm

Wow … mention Tiger & Celisea will get “Al Sharpton” on that azz!

Let’s see what happens if we mention Kobe Bryant or Charles Barkley???

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
2:50 pm

Hush Da-Man…lol I just typed that cause it seems there was a bit of “empathy” in cba’s post. Heck you ain’t gotta be famous, at some point you just know better. When you know better….act accordingly. No Al Sharpton here…I could go on and on to that character but I won’t. It’s a character thing not a “cheating” thing :) ….back to work

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
2:51 pm

RandyT – I don’t think she should get knocked for adopting. That’s such a noble thing.

If she had a couple of baby daddies…that’d be different. :lol:

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
2:51 pm

Randy – Go for it. Don’t know how many times I here where a dude didn’t want a woman with young kids. But they made the exception and married her. And they are happy!

She sounds like a winner – and compassionate too!

cba

February 14th, 2011
2:51 pm

Leggs, I have noticed that also. Stress can be a b!tch.
Celisea, I have to agree with you.
I heard last week on the Boortz show that Tiger went to vist his kids and the ex had some company.
I hope this doesn’t turn into OJ, part II.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
2:52 pm

No wonder there are so many early December Sags. Our parents were being nasty on V-day

:twisted:

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 14th, 2011
2:55 pm

Dang, women don’t like teddy bears? And what’s wrong with the Universoul Circus?!? I like the Universoul Circus…more than Ringling Brothers and Cirque du Soleil. Oh and is someone giving out special M&M’s? Lastly, Tiger just shouldn’t have gotten married. Then he could have lived the Derek Jeter life with no backlash.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
2:55 pm

My friend just reminded me that two years ago this time…we were in Paris! I’ve gotta get back there!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
2:56 pm

cba – what a way to say OJ was really GUILTY. “if it doesn’t fit, you must acquit …”

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
2:56 pm

cba – I hope this doesn’t turn into OJ, part II.

Let’s hope not

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
2:57 pm

% Fion … could you elaborate. I’m thick today.

@ AR Hey, I fall in love two or three times a week, (or on topic, is that just lust?) ;-)

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
2:58 pm

First thing I thought of with the spitting incident is if he was still in his prime, it probably would have been overlooked. However, a black man spit is reprehensible in some places. As though our saliva is different from theirs. Tiger has felt the foot of opprehension like he never has in the past.

He’s going to find a nice African American to tame his wild behind! Haaa, I doubt it.

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
3:01 pm

Enter your comments here

cba

February 14th, 2011
3:03 pm

Da_Man!, did I say guilty?? ;-)

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
3:03 pm

He’s going to find a nice African American to tame his wild behind

Imma bet he’s gonna take the “sista” route the next time around.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
3:03 pm

The irony is those chicks probably don’t want Tiger now that he’s he un-attached. With hella spousal & child support he still PAID!!! made millions last year. But typically women don’t want the loner, why is that???

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:04 pm

@ AR, I love Paris. I was there last April and really wish I could have hung there for a month or two just to totally embrace the feeling and atmoshere there. I like Rome, love Barcelona, but French pastries, great wine, elegant ladies everywhere with a wild look in their eyes. It doesn’t get any better (except for the Romanian gypsies trying to bum money from an American, that is a pain).

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
3:09 pm

Da Man – He still won’t have any trouble getting women. None at all.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
3:11 pm

@kimmie ~ his new problem will be finding women that won’t run to the tabloids and sell a story on him.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
3:13 pm

Leggs – I bet his next woman will be plain and unattractive. Somebody just happy to be with him. He won’t have any trouble with her being discreet.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
3:13 pm

Leggs – I agree with you. I would think Eldridge would be a lot less trusting of women now.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
3:14 pm

The only thing Tiger can get right now is a super gold-digger or a tranny. That’s just how his luck is now. Although, He can still shoot a mean 18 holes, don’t care what those commentators (haters) say.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:15 pm

Re Tiger, someone here at my office said that while he was in Dubai, he got paid 56 million for making some commercials for one of the royalty’s commercial/residential developments. Must be nice.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
3:15 pm

Don’t know about that one…he’s too egotistical. Unless she brings the “fire,” then looks won’t matter to him. He was in control with all those women, looking down on them as though he was God himself. Let him go head to head with a strong, not easily intimidated woman and we shall see who’s wearing the dog collar!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:17 pm

Kimmie, disagree wit ya. Tiger’s next woman will look like the 12, 13, 40 or so before her. Man is not going to settle for some ugly broad, not happening. Too much of a pattern. Men don’t change that much.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
3:24 pm

Tiger needs to just embrace the “man-ho” persona & run with it. I don’t know how many tennis fans there are on here, but anybody remember Marat Safin? He had a rep for being a man-ho & embraced it… Showed up at the Aussie Open one year with his entire player’s box filled with hoochies for the whole tourney. No coach. No family/friends. Just a box full o’ bimbos. Oh, and he won the title that year, too… :lol:

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:24 pm

Leggs re: 3:15 “He was in control”… I’m not buying that. Those bimbos knew what they were doing…and a certain “little head” was in control. Kind of like Bill Clinton. Years later he finally answered the “why” question about ML. His answer was simply “Because I could”. With Tiger, those were targets of opportunity, but thhey knew he was married, they knew he had children, they knew if they played their cards right, a big check with lots of zeroes was possible. Nope, I don’t think he was in control for a moment even.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:27 pm

…not in control, but still accountable that is. He should have known better. I really thought he was smarter than that, although for him to cover it so long with so many…that is impressive.

cba

February 14th, 2011
3:27 pm

I guess if you believe in the theory of being a “sex addict”, he didn’t have control.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 14th, 2011
3:30 pm

although for him to cover it so long with so many…that is impressive.
Randy and those are only the ones we know about. I believe there are plenty who have not come forward because they have more to lose than the ones who went public.

I guess if you believe in the theory of being a “sex addict”, he didn’t have control.
cba I don’t even think the “sex addict” thing applied to Tiger. He just had to do that to appease the masses and his corporate sponsors. He had APPEAR to be sorry and helpless.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
3:36 pm

Randy – Okay, you’re probably right. Stripper it will be. Or she’ll look like one anyway!LOL!!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
3:38 pm

Stop it … Tiger just got tired of punnany “fast-balls” coming his way and wasn’t strong enough to hold off. He did the best he could but what’d you expect??? I believe his wife was a “fast-ball” too. She is just fortunate/unfortunate, however you want to see it.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
3:38 pm

Dreams:lol: That whole “sex addict” BS is totally made up, in everybody’s case, not just Tiger’s… Did you ever see the South Park episode where the CDC discovers that “sex addiction” appears to primarily strike rich & famous men? :lol: “Why would famous men with lots of money want to have sex with lots of different women?” :lol:

cba

February 14th, 2011
3:39 pm

Leggs, it was late last Friday and I read your reply to the troll “Wise Diva”. You were on top of the situation; had me fooled for a minute. For those who didn’t read it, it was about freeing the South African brother.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
3:40 pm

Cause if it isn’t love
Why do I feel this way
Why does he stay on
My mind?

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:42 pm

@ Swiss re: “Why would famous men with lots of money want to have sex with lots of different women?”

As Bill Clinton said, “Because I could”. In the present and future tense plural, “because they can”.

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
3:43 pm

Swiss – I don’t know, but I’m somewhat broke & wouldn’t mind having sex with lots of women. I’d have to get a Hall Pass 1st, Then it’s on. Am I a sex addict?

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
3:43 pm

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:43 pm

I personally think Tiger was just doing an investigation for a self help book he plans to write. He probably never even climaxed ;-)

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
3:44 pm

OOOH … Kimmie with the NE throwback!

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
3:44 pm

kimmie – I programmed the Bose cd alarm to play Tony Terry’s “With You” to wake TheDude up this morning.

LL411

February 14th, 2011
3:45 pm

Is Tiga smoking?

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
3:45 pm

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
3:45 pm

SexyCool, what does “bmc’ing” mean? I googled it and found nothing.

Randyt, I think you should be more worried about dating a woman who is an actress, rather than her adopted kids unless it’s a total deal breaker. LOL

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:46 pm

I bet Tiger was there with all those women but used somebody else’s member so he could remain pure.

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
3:46 pm

Tiger needs to just embrace the “man-ho” persona & run with it

Yep, because all that running around ain’t planned nor a result of money. Money just funds the habit. He’s still not sorry, just sorry he’s been caught. He had to almost paint a contrite look when he finally decided to offer a public apology and even then that was a strategic move. Saying he was sorry was all about damage control. If I can’t salvage the marriage, at least let me hold on to as many sponsors as I can. I don’t think he’ll change.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
3:48 pm

@RandyT ~ I’m going to stick with me thinking he was in control. When I use that word I mean he was in control in demeaning them, looking down on them as though they were less than him. I even heard some of the requests the made of a few of them showcased just how low he thought of them. That’s what I meant by “control” (perhaps not the best word to use).

@cba ~ no way that could have been our beloved WD asking about Me.lo!

Fion

February 14th, 2011
3:50 pm

@Celisea (free Me-lo)
” Tiger needs to just embrace the “man-ho” persona & run with it”

Ouch! Celisea Tiga owe you $20 or sumthin! :)

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
3:51 pm

Bytch-Moan-Complain.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
3:51 pm

@ Leggs, true, some would say he abused them and used them as sex toys…no question about it. Kind of makes one wonder if one works and lives in a candy shop, does he get tired of the candy and try, like a drug, for something more exotic or a bigger and bigger rush. Charlie Sheen has been trying for years, but all the coke, and all the porn stars in the world can’t seem to fulfil him.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
3:51 pm

I actually feel kinda bad for Tiger… Really, his biggest mistake was getting married in the first place… But I seriously don’t know how many dudes could resist all that temptation. Now, granted, he doesn’t appear to have put up much of a fight… :lol: But I can’t even imagine how hard it would be to fight off all that puddy constantly being thrown at you… It’s tough enough resisting temptation when you’re a regular dude (especially a married dude, for some reason), but add rich and famous to that, and you’ve got to fight the puddy off with a stick (not that stick, either). :lol:

cba

February 14th, 2011
3:52 pm

I think Tiger is really missing his “ole man”. His father was his rock.
I know Celisea, his father had women issues.

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
3:54 pm

B(rhymes with “witch”), Moan, and Complain

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
3:58 pm

Tiger needs to be the next Batchelor….then when about 20 to 25 hoes to throw the coochie at him, he can pass out roses until he finds the freakiest one,Hit her up real good and then do it again next season…. I mean If Ommarosa and Flava Flav and Ray J can make it work for multiple seasons, then why can Tiger????

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
3:59 pm

Swiss – I think adding to the difficulty of turning down all that’s thrown at him was his sheltered life. He was not out “sowing his oats” when other guys his age were. He was completely naive, no street sense at all. I mean who leaves a voicemail “Hey this is Tiger. Delete my number. Wife is suspicious”?

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
3:59 pm

Simple – He would be perfect for that show!LOL!!!

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
4:00 pm

Tiger = Kobe – rape and snitching

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:01 pm

I believe he’s missing his father as well. How many in his circle can he look up to for advice when they’re doing the same dang thing he’s doing, or have turned a blind eye to what he was doing?

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
4:01 pm

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
4:01 pm

ALLEGED rape….

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:01 pm

SexyCoool, thank you

Celisea, you sound like Tiger cheated on you or something or that you and Elin were friends. LOL

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:02 pm

Dan I think Tiger was a better pimp/player than Kobe. Kobe was just weak, Tiger was running them.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
4:03 pm

kimmie — I agree. All guys need to have that “man-ho” period to get it out of their system (or to at least satisfy the curiosity) before settling down… Otherwise, they’re just one loose coochie away from falling into “sex addiction” :lol:

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
4:03 pm

ok – enuf with the Tiger Saga … who’s getting in the “Basket” tonite and & swingin til the hinges fall off?

It is V-Day …

Is that to personal of a question????

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:03 pm

@kimmie ~ that was one of the more foolish things he could have done leaving that asinine message. He would have gotten off better sending a carrier pigeon with the msg. to delete.

cba

February 14th, 2011
4:04 pm

Kimmie, that voicemail was so stupid, I just knew it had to be altered. How do you get accepted to Stanford being that stupid?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
4:05 pm

Simple — They could call it “Hole in One” — I’d watch that show… :lol:

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
4:07 pm

Alleged my (her) behind.

Dan - Simply...Superior

February 14th, 2011
4:09 pm

@PR

He (Tiger) was worse. He was telling the chicks he “likeded” them, giving them details on his real life and stuff. That’s 4th grade right thurr

Fion

February 14th, 2011
4:10 pm

I could loose my license for this, but you ladies have a point

1st rule the married man’s hand book::
“If you don’t know how to go get some strange STAY HOME.

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
4:11 pm

cba – Tom Joyner did a remix of some song, I forgot what it was, and inserted that voicemail in it. It kept saying “Hey this is Tiger” over and over, all through it. It was hillarious!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
4:12 pm

@ cba – may I take a stab at answering your question?

re: “How do you get accepted to Stanford being that stupid?”

It is widely known fact that when men get horny, their IQ drops a minimum of 50% to 70%. I am certain my “126″ has frequently dropped to about “40″ or so when the blood rushes in the wrong direction ;-) I look back constantly at some events in my past and wonder “what the hellz was I thinkin…??? A bunch of them had to do with an impromptu “woody”.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:12 pm

Dan, he was just telling them what they wanted to hear. Kobe was al lfake crying and buying big rings and stuff. Tiger just went and built a bigger house. LOL

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
4:13 pm

The Tiger situation was a result of sex for sport meeting sex for money/fame. There was no way what happened was going to not happen.

Kinda like the congressman who sent the Eddie Long pose to the black chick on craigslist last week.

Folks like this are on a collision course with revelation and refuse to acknowledge it as so.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:14 pm

And he would have still had them girls if he didnt get caught, Kobe got told on then started telling. LOL

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
4:16 pm

DA – I already told you what I’m doing tonight. Cooking the man a steak and feeding him chocolate and fruit. We’ve been practicing the whole tantric thing lately – may do more of that.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:16 pm

To much blood transfer to the lower regions and the brains starts to think the wrong way. Men will get blinded if in the wrong scenario. LOL

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:19 pm

Nice answer, RandyT. Very honest and very true! You boneheads (said w/luv).

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
4:19 pm

Gotta question for the panel…Why is it that Kobe gets handled for snitching on Shaq ( Which he never did) but Shaq gets a pass for stalking and threating his side piece here in Atlanta????

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:22 pm

Shaq is too big to mess with!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:22 pm

Kobe is a light weight w/a propensity to cry at a wispher!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:23 pm

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:23 pm

Hell if I know why!

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
4:23 pm

Fion – First of all I was quoting Swiss…that wasn’t my statement. But had I said it…so the hell what? I’m not quite sure where the $20 comment implies but Imma move on away from that cause you don’t know me enough to slightly disrespect me. K?

Purple – If Tiga was a black man hedda been toast and done the moment the scandal broke. I’on know Tiga and could care less if he screwed a monkey…but to state he’s a hoe cause he’s a hoe shouldn’t insinuate a thing. Just like ya’ll had a hay day with what’s his face daughter…Larry Fisburne…Which frankly IMO was OVER THE TOP. I think that was hoe day on here, at her expense. You contributing to much of the banter. I believe I can speak to hoes just the same. You have all kinds of hoe jokes. Why can I freely speak to his hoe-isms?

cba

February 14th, 2011
4:26 pm

Randyt, I understand the hormones and being horny. He made that call after Elin had caught his azz. He was in a panick mode; sweating and ish :-)

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
4:27 pm

Celisea,

I’ll co sign with ya….I am all about speaking on “Hoe-isms”!!!! :D :) :D

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
4:30 pm

I have never liked Kobe. He comes off as a whining, complaining wuss all the time. Shaq has always been more likeable, at least to me anyway.

Don’t really care what any of them do though. Just some garden-tool athletes. The chicks that chose to deal with em are welcome to them!

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
4:30 pm

Hush Simpleman – I get you’re on board 100% LOL

I’m just saying…ignore me rather than insinuate or imply the slightest disrespect. But I know, it’s the bitter black woman for speaking against man hoes but jokes, jabs and laughs if it’s at a woman’s expense…

kimmie

February 14th, 2011
4:32 pm

Celisea – I’m with ya girl too!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:34 pm

@SimpleM ~ I remember someone telling me that there is nothing wrong with stalking a chic if her “honey pot” is on point. Apparently, Man Law gives a pass because man is supposed to follow the vajayjay!….but telling on another man…is kinda female ish.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:35 pm

Simple Man, because side pieces do not get any respect, she lost all of that once she decided to be a side piece.

Celisea, we did not knock Larry Fishbornes daughter for doing what she was doing we knocked her for doing what she was doing with a spotted boooty on video, looked like she had a bunch of bug bites. So get your story straight Ma’am. LOL

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
4:35 pm

Thanks Kimmie…I knew you’d understand. It just kills me that a woman is bitter for stating the obvious but we get jokes for dayz on the things women do and allow. I couldn’t be happier. I just don’t publish because of this right here. Say something to the left or ya’ll had a spat…you’re either used, used up, dumb, stupid, ignorant or “girl he’s cheating” I try to keep it light and general

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:37 pm

And if I remember correctly mostly everyone was faulting Larry’s parenting skills and not the girl at all except for her leopard booooty

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:38 pm

It’s Valentines Day and now they are trying to get us to respect them hoes…..Darn Obama!

Da_Man!

February 14th, 2011
4:38 pm

Happy Valentines Ladies … I hope you all have a wonderful evening, and Fellas, please don’t go home empty-handed. Ricardo got a “out the trunk” special & cut prices cause it’s getting close. Handle ya biz & make the ladies feel like they supposed to!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:38 pm

??? Where does President Obama come into all this??

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
4:39 pm

Purple — She should look into getting an endorsement deal with Proactiv — it could open up a whole new market for baby-got-bacne treatment :lol:

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:39 pm

LOL and this blog is just a cakewalk for men? Please, men get drug through the mud 4 out of 5 days.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
4:39 pm

Leggs, for the record The rules goes….” your girl belongs to you, but the side pieces and hoes belong to EVERYBODY!!!! IMO, What Shaq did is worse, cause he got sprung by Commuinty Puddy!!! Thats like getting mad and hating cause someboby is riding the same bus as you…..

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:39 pm

Leggs, it was humor you know how idiots blame everything on the president?

Swiss, LOL

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
4:40 pm

DA – don’t get hurt in that swing.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:42 pm

Wasn’t sure if that’s where you were going PR. Gotcha!

“…side pieces and hoes belong to EVERYBODY” And, what makes this different from running a “train” and going behind other men. The fact that it’s not done all at one time makes it better?

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:44 pm

Leggs, everyman has gone behind another man unless she was a virgin. And the key to trains is always being First…..or a real close second. LOL

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:45 pm

Wait, so who is in the worse position the dudes in the train or the woman the train is being ran on?

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
4:46 pm

Speaking of O’Breezy – he is cutting the hell outta some social programs with his proposed budget.

Pell grants – low income heating assistance – some infrastructure funding…and I could go on.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:46 pm

This is true PR, it just sounds ugly the way it was put at 4:39.

AmazonRed™ - XOXO

February 14th, 2011
4:47 pm

Purple Rain – I might make Chicken Marsala tonight!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
4:47 pm

“Wait, so who is in the worse position the dudes in the train or the woman the train is being ran on?”

None of the above. It’s the woman’s unsuspecting SO, who comes home & licks her puddy post-train… :lol:

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:47 pm

SexyCool, I honestly think he will get a second term.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:48 pm

The woman the train is being ran on…all that pounding internally will no doubt cause some damage. Any diseases will be equal to the man as well as to the woman!

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:50 pm

AmazonRed, :) pour a little more Marsala in their and feel the buzz since you are a wonderful lady!

Legs, I have heard people blame the president for worse.

Swiss, that’s the pits. LOL I would love to see the look on his face.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
4:50 pm

I believe so. The belt-tightening and sacrificing that is needed is not going to be welcome to a lot of folks, but it is quite necessary.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
4:50 pm

I think I was dedfinitely the caboose on one train. Started seeing this lady after my divorce (thinking I was mayber two or three from the engine). Went to a funeral with er and found out taht she had slept with at least four guys there including the dead dude (before he expired I assume). Went looking for a board to strap to my backside.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:50 pm

So a woman can suffer irreparable damage from to much multiple pounding?

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
4:51 pm

sorry for the typos…let me try this again…

I think I was definitely the caboose on one train. Started seeing this lady after my divorce (thinking I was maybe two or three from the engine). Went to a funeral with her and found out that she had slept with at least four guys there including the dead dude (before he expired I assume). Went looking for a board to strap to my backside.

White Dude Dating "Your" Black Women ☺☻

February 14th, 2011
4:53 pm

“So a woman can suffer irreparable damage from to much multiple pounding?”

No, that’s nonsense. Not under normal, sane circumstances.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:54 pm

SexyCool, he is making the unpopular decisions and things are changing for the better indeed

Randyt, since we are sharing. I know for a fact back in college I was in someones same day leftovers and I thought I was the only guy she had been messing with.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
4:55 pm

@ PR re: “So a woman can suffer irreparable damage from to much multiple pounding?”

As a group from sixties, Doug Clark and the Hot Nuts said,
“she ain’t got no cherry,
but that aint no sin,
she still got the box,
that the cherry came in”.

Does that help? ;-)

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:55 pm

Interesting blog name

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:56 pm

Is this true :arrow: She only becomes a “hoe” once she turns you down and you get to define her as being a “hoe?”

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
4:57 pm

How do you know, you a GYN???

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:58 pm

Randyt, I didn’t think so. Those things can take a lot of abuse and recover well. Babies come out of there.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
4:59 pm

No she’s a hoe if she sleeps around a lot shes a bishh if she sleeps with everyone but you.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
5:00 pm

Oral gynocologist is a noble profession.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:00 pm

Having a baby and repeatedly being pounded in a vengeful, mean spirited way by multiple dudes is not the same! That baby is in their minding his/her business waiting to slide out, not beat up the vaginal walls!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 14th, 2011
5:00 pm

Leggs — No… She’s a “ho” after you’ve finished with her. She’s a “bytch” if she turns you down… :lol:

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:01 pm

“If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.”

a presto!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:01 pm

Only if you’ve honed your craft. If not, you’re just as crappy as the others trying to get their certification!!!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
5:02 pm

Actually, a real woman is one that can sleep with many, and still make you feel that you are the only one.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:02 pm

randyt! LMIAO

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:02 pm

Ok, i’m swiss. I’ll buy that’s how you guys look at it…bytch vs hoe. Makes sense.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:02 pm

You shall know the truth, and the truth will make you mad ~ Church Bulletin

Have an enjoyable evening and, hopefully, a pleasurable night!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
5:05 pm

A friend of mine swears that a couple of his buddies used to hit the beach every year with some cards saying they were Oral Gynocologists and told the beach bunnies they were in town for a conference. Apparently worked pretty well.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:06 pm

Gullible idiots!

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
5:07 pm

Woodys make men idiots, perceived money makes women idiots (sometimes. present company excepted I’m sure).

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:10 pm

I gather the oral gynocologists showed them their credentials and how they got to the top of their class.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:12 pm

NFL lockout on the way

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 14th, 2011
5:15 pm

Leggs…I suppose. What is the punch line to the frog with the nine inch tongue joke, “I’m only going to show you this one more time”.

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:18 pm

:lol: :lol: just one more time. Cute!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:19 pm

They’re still idiots!

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
5:23 pm

Frankly I think a chick is smarter that’s bagged a gazillion dudes and makes you number gazillion and one and you’re none the wiser. You’re skinning and grinning cause you hit but you have no clue just how much nasty you ran up in. She’s nasty but you’re dumb and nasty.

SexyCool

February 14th, 2011
5:24 pm

These three women were sitting around one night talking about their boyfriends when they decided they would give their men nicknames based on kinds of soda. The first woman said: “I’m gonna call Tom ‘Mountain Dew’ because he is as strong as a mountain and always wants to do it!” The second woman said: “I’m gonna call Bruce ‘7-Up’ because he has seven inches and it is always up!” The third woman said: “I’m gonna call my man ‘Jack Daniels’. The other two women responded: “‘Jack Daniels’? But that’s a hard liquor.” The third woman replied: “THAT’S MY LEROY!”

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
5:25 pm

LOL…. Celisea, thats not the chick I wanna marry, but she is the one that I wanna keep as a FWB!!! As Freaky as SuperHead, But knows how to keep her bizness out of the street!!! Thats whats up!!!

Leggs

February 14th, 2011
5:26 pm

I like that…dumb and nasty! Good one, Celisea!

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:33 pm

Celisea, why does the woman become untrusting, bitter and hates all men? Us men know that there are some less than clean women out there and there are some good ones. LOL

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:35 pm

Because men don’t care, unless he plans on falling in love. LOL Well the gulliable ones will care

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
5:37 pm

PR – I have nothing but love for you men….Hey Simple Man!!….I just think it’s something to stand back and see/read when ya’ll are soooo quick to talk about a woman when really unless you REALLY know women and how capable they are at tricking, you shouldn’t laugh. Most times yeah you got azz but is the joke on them….or you? Most tricks ain’t just tricking you and showing you a blast….it’s an art and it’s done for all….free love.

Leggs – :)

I don’t need to defend myself. I’m a good girl but I find it funny that ya’ll think ya’ll have the market cornered cause you can get tail. Most women of that professor sees it as an art.

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
5:39 pm

Leggs – Only the smiley face was for you…the rest of that blog was for PR or any other man thinking you’re smartER cause you can call a woman a hoe when really it’s nothing to her. Most of those women have black souls.

Simple Man – Your 5:25, ummm you good getting down with a nasty chick? Alrighty then. No chicken soup for you mister.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:40 pm

Celisea, I know women have game and crazy undercover skills a man will never truly know them all. But if I call her a hoe she has been weighed and measured ans has just come as the hoe she is. And that being said I love you Celisea my blog Valentine!

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:41 pm

I take my Valentine back from you Celisea.

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:42 pm

Everyman knows that women scheme in ways we can only imagine, that why we never trust them fully.

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
5:45 pm

Come on Celisea…you know what I ment!!1 :D Don’t want a chick that passing out Blowjobs in the parking lot of Taboo II, But if she is strong, confident in her sexuality and can keep her ish out the “Peach Buzz” section of the AJC, then she is alright with me!!!

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:46 pm

Love is not determined by how much you have but by how little you need.

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
5:47 pm

Happy Valentine’s PR :)

Simple Man, the jury is still out on that one….mmm hmmm…a Happy Valentine’s Day to you as well. Don’t go and get yaself sick on something getting passed around now :)

Night fellas

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:47 pm

Simple Man, Celisea is just being combative today. Just let her have her way, can’t be jumping in and out of hoops everytime they get riled up.

Celisea (free Me-lo)

February 14th, 2011
5:49 pm

I’m good PR…I got a problem with someone insinuating dumb or hoe when speaking to me. I don’t project that so ummm, no one needs to even try by the slightest to get that past me. That’s all….I’m having a fantab day as a matter of fact :) To get even better

Purple Rain

February 14th, 2011
5:52 pm

Well you havent had a great day until you had a goodnight with me. LOL Who called someone a dumb hoe today? ANnnnnnnnnndddddd what would you classify a woman who is actually dumb or a hoe?

Simple Man!!!!

February 14th, 2011
5:52 pm

Alright Miss lady…. Don’t go out there being fast and grown tonight, but if you decide that what you wanna do, Please ENJOY YOURSELF!!!! LOL :D :D :D

How to Text a Girl

February 14th, 2011
8:35 pm

Lust is when you want sex and Love is when cuddling would be more than enough.

cba

February 14th, 2011
10:00 pm

………and we wonder why HIV and other incurable diseases are rampant in our community???

Light

February 15th, 2011
10:47 am

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

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