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Dating women: What do you want from us?

I spent Superbowl Sunday in a den of testosterone surrounded by male debauchery.  My boys know how to throw a party and they certainly didn’t disappoint. I can always count on them for insight into the male brain and believe me, they don’t sugarcoat anything. Ever.

One of them recently broke up with someone that I personally thought was a great match for him. Of course it’s good to break things off when you know there is no future but I always worry when I see people bail out so soon.

Every guy is different but when it comes to dating women, what exactly do you want? I read somewhere that some men will keep looking for the woman that he won’t ever cheat on? Do you agree?

Ladies do you think you know and understand what men what from you in a dating relationship? Do you have a hard time figuring it out based on their behavior?

Are we supposed to be clear about our dating intentions? Do you think it’s necessary so that we can actually make it to the relationship and commitment level?

HAPPY MONDAY!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Dudogger

February 7th, 2011
6:14 am

What a really lame rant to try spinning off the Super Bowl! You must have laid awake all night in conjuring up this one. What do we guys want? No Overly-Opinionated, Self-Righteous Divas – that’s what!!

Realistic

February 7th, 2011
6:56 am

That Dude Devin

February 7th, 2011
7:42 am

I want women to stop asking what men want.

Roll Tide

February 7th, 2011
7:53 am

A great Question actually….I am seeing 2 ladies and they always say ” I don’t understand you…” 1st – I admit, I probably am a poor communicator Therefore 2nd- I don;t give them a chance…

I have been thinking about this very question and saying to myself ” What do I want from these laides? I need to be honest, make up my mind and be faor to them…..

good Question Wise Diva!

Roll Tide

February 7th, 2011
7:53 am

A great Question actually….I am seeing 2 ladies and they always say ” I don’t understand you…” 1st – I admit, I probably am a poor communicator Therefore 2nd- I don;t give them a chance…

I have been thinking about this very question and saying to myself ” What do I want from these ladies? I need to be honest, make up my mind and be fair to them…..

good Question Wise Diva!

alphadog

February 7th, 2011
7:54 am

A mute button.

Y'all Are Kids

February 7th, 2011
8:05 am

What I want in a woman? Me. W/ t!ts. And I found her. Yesterday we, rode our motorcycles to Dawsonville for lunch, then rode to Ellijay and back home. She didn’t shop, I didn’t watch the Stupid Bowl and we ended up the day nekkid. What more could a guy ask for?

SlimNumeroUno

February 7th, 2011
8:14 am

Wow, I see there are some early risers already up in this camp. So good morning to all…

‘Ladies do you think you know and understand what men what from you in a dating relationship?’

Sometimes I think I know…sometimes I don’t. But to take all the guess work out, i’d prefer he just tell me.

Call it like it is

February 7th, 2011
8:29 am

And I see this blog ending in 3……..2………1……….

The Truth

February 7th, 2011
8:33 am

Sex

It’s as simple as that.

Paul

February 7th, 2011
8:39 am

Aren’t women supposed to be smarter than men? If so, why ask? Just figure it out.

The real question is why ask. Why does it matter what men want?

Like all other things men do which women don’t want them to do, just cajole and manipulate and push him to want what you want. Works every time as long as you have the right leverage, right ladies?

Realist

February 7th, 2011
8:49 am

“Every weekend, hundreds pf women marry hundreds of men thinking they’ll change. Every weekend, hundreds of men marry hundreds of women thunking they won’t change. Both will be disappointed.”

I’m in my second marraige and the tone remains the same. When you are dating, everyone is on their best behavior, pleasing, helping, being conscienceous. I must have a bad attitude, but I’ve found that for most people (in my case woman), security in a relationship breeds complaciency. You’ve run the race. You’ve crossed the finish line. I’m addressing the men as well as the women. If you play that game, you are setting yourself up for discontent, restlesness and quite probably cheating. A relationship isn’t a destination, it’s a constant journey.

What do I want? A partner that remains somewhat as vivacious, enigmatic, amorous and imaginative as she was when we were dating. What I suggest something or want more of another thing, I’m not insulting you, rather communicating. You should be able to do the same to me. But we became enamored with you because of the way you were when we dated. THAT is what made us fall in love with you and want you for a spouse. This is twice that I’ve been placed in the siuation of “Who are you and what did you do with my wife?” I want to laugh, cuddle, still have the seduction, hold hands and have the drive that we had early on. Am I being unrealistic? Apparantly so. If my status should change again, I will never, EVER marry again. I want one partner, but I want it the way it was when we were dating…when I thought about seeing you all day and couldn’t wait until I held you hand again AND you acted like you wanted to hold mine, too.

SlimNumeroUno

February 7th, 2011
8:59 am

Truth – Howdy sweetie…so after you’ve knocked the boots and knocked the boots again at THAT point, what else do you guys want? (seems like it would be something more than just that, but i’m just a chick)

Realist

February 7th, 2011
9:10 am

Every weekend hundreds of women marry hundreds of men thinking they’ll change. Every weekend hundreds of men marry hundreds of women thinking they won’t change. Both will be disappointed.

Yep….that about covers it.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
9:14 am

Morning all -

Congrats to the Packers and that dude Aaron Rodgers! Show em how those Cal Bears represent! :D

Super Bowl parties…good times. Seems like the game ended earlier than years past or maybe it’s just because I didn’t stay out all night. :lol:

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
9:42 am

I don’t have to guess about what TheDude wants in our relationship because I ask him and he tells me. Then every so often, I ask for feedback. I mean, you do at least get annual performance evaluations at work – evaluations that are based on a job description and a set of expectations.

Well, in my relationship, it would be presumptive of me to believe that I am being the best mate that I can be, to think that I am meeting his needs if I have never taken time to find out what those needs are and then come back to get HIS opinion on whether or not I am meeting those needs and expectations.

As to whether or not we ever get to a relationship/commitment level, well hit me over the head with big brick, but…I thought that’s why we do this.

Mr_NYC

February 7th, 2011
10:14 am

LOL @ ARed — that’s pretty much how Chris Rock and Dave Chappelle.
Make him a sandwich, get the remote, and yeah the other stuff.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
10:19 am

Good morning gang!

I agree with what Amred & SCool have said.

Some men are never satisfied, as evidenced on here today by Realist. There is no “one size fits all”. And really that’s fine. Some say they want this & that and when they get it, they still are not happy. Really, what can you do?

I really don’t care what “men” want. The only one I care about is my man and what he wants. That is all that matters. Like SCool said, check in with each other from time to time to make sure each is getting what they need & want from the relationship.

SlimNumeroUno

February 7th, 2011
10:20 am

Looks like everyone caught the Stayed up too late watching the superbowl partying 24hr bug.

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
10:24 am

At the end of the day I want someone I can vibe with, someone who genuinely understands and values who I am. I want someone who can see where I am and get right there with me…and be comfortable doing it.

SlimNumeroUno

February 7th, 2011
10:24 am

‘Check in with each other from time to time to make sure each is getting what they need & want from the relationship.’

Makes perfect sense because our wants and needs are ever-changing…but I definitely need my partner to continue to do those special thoughtful things he did while dating as our relationship move on.

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DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
10:29 am

Some say they want this & that and when they get it, they still are not happy.
kimmie I’ve been guilty of this. I’ve met and dated women who had all the things I felt I should want in a woman, you know those on-paper qualities that seem so important. Yet there was still something missing…maybe that elusive chemistry we’ve talked about before.

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
10:33 am

Dreams – have you ever met a chick with the IT factor but lacked all the other ‘on paper’ qualities? If so, how did that courtship go?

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
10:41 am

Dreams – It is the chemistry missing. A lot of people look at on-paper stuff and think it SHOULD be a wrap! They look and say “how can he NOT love her, she has this, this and this going for her?” It’s not a resume for a job interview. On-paper stuff won’t make you love someone.

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
10:42 am

Should I ever have a girl child….or a child, period…I really plan on teaching them a heck of a lot more about how to choose a mate than I was ever taught.

Pass on some of the things that I had to learn through trial and error….with the understanding that they would, in some ways, HAVE to make their own mistakes and learn from their own experiences.

(I’m just having one of those “Hindsight is 20/20″ kinda moments….

TenderRoni

February 7th, 2011
10:45 am

“Some say they want this & that and when they get it, they still are not happy.”- this is what I’m really stuggling to understand with men.

You can bring a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink it!

I have just given up trying to understand. No where are those darn cats…

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
10:46 am

Morning all…

On topic: Um… okay…

1) Regular booty
2) Peace & quiet (especially during the game)
3) Maybe a sandwich or something?

That’ll do… :lol:

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
10:56 am

swiss – now can you SERIOUSLY just chuck it up to those 3 things…i mean really? So chick can be a total slob and can ONLY know how to fix a sammich?

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 7th, 2011
10:57 am

Monday ;(

I think guys really want a woman who is:

1. Respectful

2. Outgoing/Social but not always in the street.

3. Ambitious

4. Honest.

5. Trustworthy.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
11:01 am

Swiss – Plenty men get those 3 things and more, yet they are still unhappy. They get the regular booty, but get bored with it. They get the peace & quiet when we’re off doing our own thing. They get tired of sandwiches and canned soup all the time, where are the gourmet meals?That stuff is basic and really can apply to women as well, if we’re honest with ourselves. :) It really does go beyond the basics with everyone.

I just don’t think it’s a question that can be answered – too vague.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
11:04 am

So chick can be a total slob and can ONLY know how to fix a sammich?

Slim – Yes, I have seen it in action, women like that that have men lined up to be with them. I’m not talking a jump-off or an FWB, I’m talking PROPOSALS!

Just depends on the guy!

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
11:05 am

What do men want from us? For us to not require anything of them.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:05 am

Don’t know what I want but I am glad I got it :)

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
11:06 am

Slim — Now do I look like a dude who would eat a sammich made by a sloppy ho?

:lol:

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:06 am

what I need.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:07 am

Respect, Dedication and Honesty, sense of humor, clean house can cook and loves life.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:08 am

And know we are having free registration on match.com. LOL

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:09 am

Did you know that 4 out of 10 new relationships start on the internet because peopler are now scared to interact face to face and take the wuss role of dating via technology. See a woman you want go get her, you will win her eventually if you really want her.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:11 am

Look here woman, I am you man and you are my woman…Enjoy!

…and they lived happily ever after.

Seriously when it comes to me outside of the obvious stuff a woman that makes me have no desire to entertain any other women is the right woman. Now how she does this, I don’t know but she does it.

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
11:11 am

On topic (serious answer this time): What does anyone want? There’s no one answer; it’s different for everyone. The trick is:

1) Figuring out exactly what you want (and need)
2) Learning to communicate this ↑
3) Finding that needle in the heystack (someone who is both willing and able to give you what you need and who wants/needs what you have to give).

See how easy that is? :lol:

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:12 am

Either she loves you so good that you don’t want to cheat or her or she is just a she devil that makes you think I will never get close to another woman again. LOL

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:14 am

Swiss, you know that answer is to simple and straight forward that SOME of these women will try and find a hidden answer in that.

Ladies us men are very simple either we like it or we don’t and it is not very hard to tell. If you hang around after we have displayed signs of not liking it…well you will just get treated like an old set of drawers that we wear from time to time. LOL, you know we keep those until our new woman comes in and throws them away. #subliminal

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
11:14 am

Don’t know what I want but I am glad I got it

Purple – At lease you are real about it.

I think most people know the basics of what they want. Or they might not be able to as easily pinpoint everything they want but automatically know what they DON’T want. Some are critical of this, but I don’t really see the problem in it, especially if things have worked out for you. If you keep ending up with what you say you don’t want, then you need to work that out with yourself.

Nobody can tell you what you SHOULD want.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:16 am

kimmie, I agree. People are so caught up in what others want that they lose focus on their own desires.

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
11:20 am

‘Now do I look like a dude who would eat a sammich made by a sloppy ho?’

Swiss – first of all, lemme get this out —> :lol: Second of all, I really can’t see yo azz through this puter screen. lol I get your point.

kimmie- those chicks must be eye candy chicks if they aren’t really required to do anything domestic..but how soon do the men realize they need more. Sort of reminds me of Tyler Perry’s movie “Why did I get married” when the dude married to the Jill Scott character ended up with her thinner friend who only liked to shop. He came back around missing the woman Jill was all along.

‘Don’t know what I want but I am glad I got it ‘

Purp – that was worth repeating…Glad that you’re happy but I guess it helps that you get to chum it up with all of us on a weekly basis too.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:20 am

LOL Here is a question that Wise Diva asked “Ladies do you think you know and understand what men want from you in a dating relationship?”

I am waiting on the ladies to answer this.

Kym-Alas..number 7 was not meant to be..but I will always root for that Steel City

February 7th, 2011
11:21 am

Good morning All,

I woke up for this insight..sex, sandwiches, and more sex. I am going to take Celisea answer. Men just don’t want to be held accountable. Cause some woman can give you more sex than you can handle and make Dagwood size sandwiches, and platters of food and then you would say..she is not forceful enough or demanding enough. I said it before and I will say it again..something not quite right with that male chromosome.

Off-Topic…I am already experience football withdrawal symptoms. GO STEELERS!

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
11:23 am

Purple — I’m with you. I couldn’t tell you exactly what I want, but I know it when I see it. Actually, I think sometimes folks get too caught up in a checklist of things they think they must have rather than just looking at the whole person. Can’t see the forest for the trees kind of thing…

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:23 am

Slim, I just made some good e friends on here and I get to blow the winter months on the computer. LOL So I would not say that this place helps my relationship other than when I ask a serious question about women and receive a serious answer in return. I told her I’m on here 2 or 3 days a week and she is alright with it. :)

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:25 am

I would not respect a woman who did not hold me accountable.

Kym-Alas..number 7 was not meant to be..but I will always root for that Steel City

February 7th, 2011
11:26 am

@Swiss I believe your 11:23 is on point. So I shall second that emotion.

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
11:26 am

“some woman can give you more sex than you can handle and make Dagwood size sandwiches, and platters of food and then you would say..she is not forceful enough or demanding enough. I said it before and I will say it again..something not quite right with that male chromosome.”

Kym — That’s human nature, not just us dudes.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:27 am

If a person (male or female) is not holding you accountable or respects you in every way….you are the dummy for hanging in there forcing something that should not be.

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
11:29 am

Dreams – have you ever met a chick with the IT factor but lacked all the other ‘on paper’ qualities? If so, how did that courtship go?
Slim Answer to the first is Yes, and the answer to the second questoin is: “I’m stil single.” lol

On-paper stuff won’t make you love someone.
kimmie you’re right about that. In that case, I guess I sometimes don’t know what I want. lol

Kym-Alas..number 7 was not meant to be..but I will always root for that Steel City

February 7th, 2011
11:31 am

Okay I missed something what are “on paper qualities”?

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
11:31 am

….and to your point Swiss, folks still carrying a checklist is stuck. I don’t do checklists because more than likely all that stuff listed is void of the essentials…being honest and forthcoming, right intentions, overall possessing character. That’s why I’m not impressed when folks flash either material stuff or degrees. Heck what good is a degree if you don’t have the get up and go to make it work for you? What’s good about material stuff if you don’t possess character and know how to find a right balance and not lead with it? What good is it for you to want so much from me but lack the ability to reciprocate? So would the question “what do men want from us” be appropriate?

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
11:31 am

am waiting on the ladies to answer this.

I answered. Pay attention!

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:34 am

Swiss, I agree with your 11:26 Women can have a guy who respects them lavishes them with gifts great sex etc But then she will say he is to weak.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
11:39 am

Kym – On-paper qualities – Education, own home and car, stylish clothes, fit body, attends church regularly – nice “resume” that really has not much to do with the person’s character or the type of person they are inside.

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
11:39 am

Okay I missed something what are “on paper qualities”?
Kym you know someone who looks great on paper…seem to have all the things that sound nice in a mate, but still there’s something missing.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:40 am

Amazon ladies as in plural besides who listens to their little sister anyway. You are not old enough to date or close the door to your bedroom

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:40 am

I will say this I am who I am and I am not changing, my wife is who she is and she is not changing. We just happen to mesh together.

Kym-Alas..number 7 was not meant to be..but I will always root for that Steel City

February 7th, 2011
11:41 am

@kimmie..ohh ok thank you.

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
11:45 am

Purp – I answered as well. Albeit, my answer was specific to my relationship. And basically, my answer was “Yes, I know because I ask.”

Where “the game” gets all twisted is folks asking the question and getting a response that sounds like a bunch of bllsht or…asking a person who doesn’t know what he/she wants and they respond with a bunch of hemming and hawing that amounts to a whole bunch of nothing.

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
11:49 am

OR…you ask the question of a person who only wants ONE THING from you, but because they can’t/won’t admit to that ONE THING, they end up responding with something that is designed to pacify you until they can get as much of that ONE THING that they want from you and then move on to the next or go back to the main one.

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
11:52 am

“Ladies do you think you know and understand what men want from you in a dating relationship?”

I answered. I said I think men want us to know require anything of them.

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
11:52 am

“not” not know…sorry on a call and typing at the same time

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:52 am

SexyCool, I saw your answer and you are wise enough to know to ask. But I was looking for some of the general answers from others “who know” what a guy wants. LOL

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
11:54 am

I think that’s what men want and I think that that’s what women (me for one) think men want. I mean we all know you want:

1. sex

2. sex

3. quiet

4. sex

5. sex

6. food

7. sex

8. sex

9. sex

10. sex

11…..if at all possible for you to be okay with me and a few others.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
11:54 am

But I was looking for some of the general answers from others “who know” what a guy wants. LOL

Well be specific next time! Men!

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
11:58 am

getting a response that sounds like a bunch of bllsht or…asking a person who doesn’t know what he/she wants and they respond with a bunch of hemming and hawing that amounts to a whole bunch of nothing.

Please allow me to copy and paste and repeat…LOL Don’t be wanting and posting a whole bunch and you bringing a whole bunch of nothing.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
11:58 am

Celisea men can get sex from anywhere just like a woman can. LOL If I am looking for just a goodtime your list is right if I am looking for a long term woman the list is different.

AmazonRed, is your room clean? LOL

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
11:59 am

Purple – That’s just it – most of us, at least those women on here, know better than to “assume” we know what men want. It’s enough to handle just finding out what the one you’re with wants, figuring out if he can or is willing to give you what you want – and then trying to make it work.

I mean, it’s a huge waste of time trying to figure out such generalities with all dudes. Better time can be spent focusing on just the one you’re with – or trying to get! :lol:

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:00 pm

I am not qualified to tell a woman what she wants and a woman is not qualified to tell me what I want.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
12:01 pm

Preach kimmie!

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:02 pm

kimmie, I agree. When do you get married? I am asking Julia for a “hall pass” so that I can come be your stripper :)

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
12:05 pm

Purple – We are narrowing it down this week, but it will be some time in April or May. I thank you for your thoughtfulness, but I wouldn’t want you to catch cold!!LOL!!!

Amred – :)

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:07 pm

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:08 pm

I will be to hot to catch a cold. LOL

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
12:09 pm

Purple – What is it, I can’t pull it up here at work?

You are a riot! :lol:

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
12:10 pm

Purp – I sure hope that movie is funny because I plan on going to see it. And while on the subject, i wonder if a wife GIVING a hubby a hall pass, takes the fun out of it that you would get from lying, sneaking etc as in normal cheating?

Robert

February 7th, 2011
12:10 pm

Dating women: What do you want from us? –
This question can be answered several ways based on the age of the men and women. For example men in their 20’s-30’s are immature and their main goal is “sex” with as many women as possible. Women in their 20’s-30’s are much more mature than men and are already thinking about long terrn relationships leading to marriage which creates problems such as insecurity and trust issues. Bye the time men and women reach their 40’s-50’s they have gained enough experience to know what they want in a relationship. Most women want to feel secure in all areas of their life (job, home, man, etc.) while most men want to feel like the “man of the house” and have confidence that thier women is not cheating on them, being responsible about handling family business matters (bills, etc.) and last but not least most men want “A Lady in the Streets and a Freak in His Sheets”

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:10 pm

It is a male vampire stripper costume. Cape and all! LOL

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
12:11 pm

Purp – Nice outfit but i must say, I wish the cape was a bit….cough cough…longer :lol:

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:11 pm

Slim if given a hall pass I would not take it. I would think she had already did something or was planning on doing something if she gave me one. LOL

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
12:12 pm

Slim, just watch me work the cape. LOL

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
12:17 pm

Purp – Yeah i’d probably think something was up to if my SO was voluntarily giving me a hall pass option. Now regarding watching you work that cape….with Julia’s permission of course :devil:

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
12:24 pm

This isn’t the same cape that Elijah used to fly around in saving all the blog women…

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
12:26 pm

PR – Celisea men can get sex from anywhere just like a woman can. LOL If I am looking for just a goodtime your list is right if I am looking for a long term woman the list is different.

PR, I’m fully aware. I’m a big girl…I know these things.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
12:27 pm

It’s been pretty slow around here lately. I can’t even say I’ve had a showdown with anyone her in 2011…

Is AmazonRed gonna have to choke a bytch??? :lol:

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
12:29 pm

“Is AmazonRed gonna have to choke a bytch???”

ARed — If Mrs. Swiss gives me a hall pass, you can choke me & call my your bytch… :lol:

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
12:32 pm

Amred – Yeah, we might have to turn over some chairs or something in here!! Get something stirred up!! LOL!!

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
12:34 pm

Sorry swiss – A lil girl on girl action always brings a better crowd.

Thanks for volunteering though!

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
12:36 pm

ARed — You never, ever, need to apologize for wanting a lil’ girl on girl action. :lol:

Da_Man!

February 7th, 2011
12:37 pm

Just to be clear ladies, we don’t just want sex … we want sex on demand (short of a crime) and/or without asking. On game day, pre-game shows and half-times are good timeslots.

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
12:47 pm

Da_Man – we want sex on demand (short of a crime) and/or without asking.

So it’s safe to assume you’re good getting assualted and “taken?” That’s what you want from us?

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
12:47 pm

A lil girl on girl action always brings a better crowd.
True, true. lol Get it crackin’ ARed. ;-)

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
12:47 pm

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
12:48 pm

Celisea food sex quite. N that order.

Da_Man!

February 7th, 2011
12:49 pm

@Celisea – If that’s how you want to role play … sure?

Da_Man!

February 7th, 2011
12:53 pm

My “On Demand” actually should be taken like Comcast perks. When I request, then I receive. Not no asking for it at 3:00p but have to settle for 10:30p.

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
12:56 pm

Da_Man – I’m going off you…..you didn’t say role play. You said this is “what you want from women or your woman”….almost to the point of committing a crime. What you want sounds to me how you wish things to be….all the time or most times. Are you talking a little play here and there. If it’s role playing, outside of that cause you do have to eat sleep and live, what do you want…seriously?

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
12:58 pm

Ancient Alien – I’m not surprised. The few men that did post, pretty much said the same thing. I guess though at this point we shouldn’t see/hear/read your answers and still ask “but what is it you want” Ya’ll all pretty much answered.

patrick osei-tutu

February 7th, 2011
1:03 pm

I am looking for women to marriage.

patrick osei-tutu

February 7th, 2011
1:05 pm

Have nice women know would love me.

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
1:13 pm

patrick – why do I picture you wearing a bear skin skirt tied around your waist carrying a spear with a poisioned spear-tip?

How! Me Tarzan..

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
1:15 pm

Catching up on some other blogs… Ladies, ever not been interested in a guy…but he takes your “no” as an excuse to try harder?

Well, a guys advice is to put it this way:
“The reason why I don’t want to sleep with you is because I’m not sexually attracted to you. I tried to picture myself having sex with you, because I do like you as a person and you’re doing all the things I like guys to do, but I just can’t picture it. I tried and I can’t.”

:lol: The easy let down can be confusing… the above is not. :lol:

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
1:15 pm

don’t sugarcoat anything,,,,,,,,,,,theres no time for this
Are we supposed to be clear about our dating intentions?,,,,,,,,yes

Respect for her self and others.,,,,,,,,,its not hard

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
1:17 pm

Dreams, no not that cape. LOL

Patrick are you going to be asking for our bank account number because you had a relative die and need to send his money to america?

Celisea, you are over due for some role playing aren’t you? LOL

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
1:23 pm

Ared – OUCH! :cry: :lol:

Sassy Me :-)

February 7th, 2011
1:31 pm

Patrick are you going to be asking for our bank account number because you had a relative die and need to send his money to america?

:shock:

:lol:

ARed I might need to borrow that 1:15. That’comedy reading it but real talk at the same time. Some guys just don’t get it and need it raw like that.

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
1:32 pm

Why are women hurting by men who has given her nothing?

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
1:34 pm

I know right? And the funny thing…after all the ways I can tell a man I’m not interested, it never really crossed my mind to say it that way (even if I was thinking it).

Cuz I’ll tell you something about these older guys (10+ years) they might have their stuff together and even treat you right, but if you’ve gotta psyche yourself up to go there…that’s not a good thing. :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
1:35 pm

The easy let down can be confusing… the above is not.
You don’t have to tell me twice that you’re not feeling me. Shyyyyt you probably don’t even have to tell me once. If I even get that feeling, then I’ll find the exit myself…peace!

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
1:37 pm

Dreams – But how many “I won her over” type stories do you know of? There are a lot of couples together now that didn’t even like each other upon meeting! So it’s not always that easy for some people to figure out!

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
1:38 pm

There is a dude/customer who always tries to fanagle my personal cell number from me but under the disguise that it pertains to work. Um..yeah right. He was like, you probably should give me your cell in case I have questions after 5 or on the weekends. I said well leave a voicemail at my desk. I don’t do anything work-related after 5 Or on the weekends. lol Then he was trying to get me to come to his location to give him a tutorial of the online process here. Um…that would be a big fat NEGATIVO

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
1:39 pm

PR, you and Ancient Alien and Patrick Tutu smoking that stuff today I see.

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
1:43 pm

Some women will go to unimaginable extremes to say that is my man.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
1:45 pm

Amred/Dreams – You know I have never liked that “don’t take no/persistant” type dude. They are irritating. If I say I’m not interested or just no – then take that and go on about your business. Have I ever kinda regretted turning a guy down? Yes, very few times, but it’s happened. Hey, my loss(maybe). I do like a guy to pursue me, but he won’t have to chase me down. Just be a man of your word and follow thru when I’ve given you the indication that I AM interested, is all I ever wanted.

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
1:51 pm

When a woman says no it means no even if its in playful tone leave it alone.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
1:53 pm

You know I have never liked that “don’t take no/persistant” type dude. They are irritating. If I say I’m not interested or just no – then take that and go on about your business

kimmie – It should definitely be easier, but I could see how a guy might think they will get laid…even if she’s on the fence about her feelings. Let’s not act like there aren’t women giving it up for a #3 combo with a Coke! :lol: So I can see how a guy might hedge his bets.

However, if she comes out the gate with “i’m not sexually attracted to you” I can see why he’d take that one seriously. :lol:

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
1:57 pm

It is submission without provocation that we cant latch on to.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
1:58 pm

Amred – You are right. I’ve just never been one of those “on the fence” types at all. I’m pretty clear, in fact, thinking back with some I was a bit mean. But even the nice times I was nice but firm. So the times I regretted it, I knew there was no chance the dude was going to come back! :(

Ancient Alien

February 7th, 2011
2:02 pm

Celisea I tried to smoke it but could not take it. I just speak like I do.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
2:05 pm

kimmie – I have definitely been on the fence. They are respectable and accomplished and nice to boot…but I just don’t want them on top of me. And I find myself confused as to how much physical attraction has to count for, especially so early on!

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:07 pm

Amred – Respectable, nice – yep those are the ones I regretted shooting down so quick! Sometimes I can really jump the gun! :shock:

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
2:11 pm

AA – So you speakings aren’t peace pipe induced huh? Alright then speak on.

On another note, this cake from Piece of Cake is simply divine..mmm mmm mmm

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
2:17 pm

Dated a nice, respectable dude but there was NO physical attraction on my end for him. So even though I enjoyed conversation & hanging out with him, that was where the buck stopped.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:18 pm

Celisea – What flavor cake?

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
2:18 pm

Dated a nice, respectable dude but there was NO physical attraction on my end for him.

Still makes me feel bad when this happens. Those are the guys we SHOULD like ya know?

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:22 pm

Slim/Amred – Even though thinking back I feel bad for being so harsh, it probably was for the best. What is meant to be will be, I believe. If me & any of those guys were meant to be together we would have been. It actually made it easier. I did go out a few times with a guy I was not physically attracted to and continuing to see him didn’t make it any better. It’s tough when the guy has been nothing but nice to you but you still have to turn him down because you’re just not feeling him that way. That’s a place I hopefully will never have to go again.

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
2:23 pm

I have a couple of those dudes stashed in the back of my closet somewhere. (lol)

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
2:23 pm

Kimmie – White chocolate and chocolate on chocolate…I had a slice of the white chocolate..

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:25 pm

Amred – I had to tell myself that they deserve to have someone just as into them as they are to the other person.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
2:25 pm

Mmm…my friend brought a white chocolate cake from POC to a Super Bowl party yesterday. I got there early cuz they go fast… But the hostess decided not to cut it til halftime…I was already on my way to the next party. I planned my destinations on account of that dang cake!

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
2:25 pm

Amred – I had to tell myself that they deserve to have someone just as into them as they are to the other person.

So true. That’s what keeps me going when I start missing my ex!

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
2:27 pm

I planned my destinations on account of that dang cake!

Ha…my real reason for attending this celebration today. I shamefully admit too, once the cake was cut, I took my slice and left…lol I felt eyes on my back but hey it was the cake that got me there in the first place.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:27 pm

Celisea – That white chocolate is great. I got it for SO’s birthday last year. I recreated it myself this year for his birthday. Everyone raved but I think Piece of Cake still has me beat. Give credit where it’s due! :)

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
2:29 pm

Kimmie – I recreated it myself this year for his birthday.

Good for you. I bet you did good. So not a baker. Heck I don’t even cook (no more) half the time.

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
2:33 pm

kimmie – If you don’t stop calling that man SO and start calling him fiance! :lol:

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
2:33 pm

Talking about dudes you’re not feeling but are pretty nice. Only had one that where I really tried to be cool with him. He was such a decent dude but I just couldn’t get the physical thing going for him. He was there too for me during my rough ride. You can’t make the heart feel what’s not there. This was the only dude I sort of let him have it when he needed to vent because I knew most of that was the let down that I couldn’t make it happen….after he’d been there for me. It was always “just friends” for me though.

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
2:34 pm

All others, I did like they do…gradual fade away…LOL Sorry, just not feeling it. Can’t make the heart feel what’s not there

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
2:35 pm

Hey ladies.

I saw that you all are talking about baking and I wanted to jump in on the convo for a second.

I received a large fruit basket last week from my former employer and it had 2 bunches of bananas in it. I don’t eat a lot of bananas and I have only allowed the baby to have two in the past week. My bff Doc came by Saturday and she saw the bananas had turned brown and were soft. She took them home with her and brought back on of the best loaves of banana bread I have ever tasted. I have admitted eaten more than I should have. She should have let my hub throw away the bananas then I wouldn’t be lying here feeling guilty. But I really do appreciate her turning a gifted item into an even better gifted item. LOL

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:36 pm

Amred – I know!!LOL!! I just don’t want to be obnoxious about it, like some other bridezillas I’ve known!!

SlimDizzyDoodle

February 7th, 2011
2:36 pm

‘Those are the guys we SHOULD like ya know?’

Ared – Well, I did like him, just not enough physical spark that would allow me to string him along in a long drawn out fake courtship. He was too good of a guy to do that too. If I felt weirded out by him wanting me to be all cuddled up with him on the couch to watch a movie, then i knew it was not gonna happen. ANd for the record, i’m not normally into the whole bad guy thing anyway. I meet nice guys more often times than not…thank God ;-)

AmazonRed™ - A Rodgers...told u he was that DUDE!

February 7th, 2011
2:41 pm

ANd for the record, i’m not normally into the whole bad guy thing anyway. I meet nice guys more often times than not…thank God

Yeah, I know. I’m the same way. But I still feel bad because it really isn’t them, but sometimes you wonder why you aren’t good enough!

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
2:46 pm

Raqi – That sounds good – does it have nuts in it?

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
2:55 pm

kimmie, no nuts. I can’t eat nuts but it has raisins in it. It’s funny that the babe tries to pick the raisins out of the bread and throw them away but she will eat a box of raisins any day.

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
3:03 pm

If I eat all the baked goods and food that people are bringing me I will have to be helicopter lifted out of this house by the time the squid is born. LOL Some ladies from church came by yesterday and they brought food. I think the one tablespoon of Mac-n-cheese that one of them brought is why have this horrible heartburn now. LOL It was good but it was loaded with 4 different types of cheese. That’s why I only had a few bites of it. If she wasn’t 70 years old I would think she is trying to kill me and take the hub for herself. LOL

One of my neighbors brought over some cookies last week while I was still in the hospital but the boy devoured those in one day. By the time I came home there were only two left.

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
3:15 pm

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
3:15 pm

Question for the ladies: So, do you ladies actually agree to go out on dates with dudes you don’t find physically attractive in the hopes that you will develop an attraction? Or is it more the case that visually they’re attractive to you, but it doesn’t translate into sexual attraction once you get to know them? Just curious, because I think most guys wouldn’t even consider dating a girl he didn’t find physically attractive from the start.

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
3:22 pm

Oh, and FYI for the ladies… From a dude’s perspective, as soon as you know you’re not feeling it physically, cut him loose. He won’t like it & you might have to be harsh about it, but in the long run it’s best for everyone. S3x is such an important thing for guys, the worst thing you could do to a dude is string him along when you know you’ll never have the desire to give him that true, inhibited fire booty. :lol: Sometimes you gotta be cruel to be kind.

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
3:25 pm

uninhibited, that is…

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
3:29 pm

I cannot say that the attraction to TheDude could be pinpointed as physical or sexual initially. It was more like I was drawn to his smile, his eyes, his ways.

kimmie

February 7th, 2011
3:32 pm

swiss – Your 3:22 – that’s always been my practice.

As for going out with someone hoping an attraction develops – I did it once with a guy a friend set me up with. Had it not been for the setup I never would have gone out with him. As I said in some of my earlier posts, I’ve erred on the side of shooting a guy down quick because I was not feeling him right off the bat. My friends kept preaching give some of those dudes a chance, but I’m doing the both of us a favor. Leave ourselves free to pursue someone we are really into that is equally into us.

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
3:36 pm

Leave ourselves free to pursue someone we are really into that is equally into us.
kimmie yep yep. no need to waste each other’s time. I have jumped the gun on a couple occasions though.

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
3:42 pm

Even today, for as much chemistry as we have and as as much as he does it for me now, what attracts me to him most….is the calm in his spirit.

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
3:46 pm

“Even today, for as much chemistry as we have and as as much as he does it for me now, what attracts me to him most….is the calm in his spirit.”

SexyCool — But… (to borrow my favorite Me.lo-ism of all time) that calm spirit now induces high tide in the hot and wet mangrove swamp, yes? :lol:

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
3:50 pm

LMAO…you nut….but yes, very much so.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
3:54 pm

Who knew that women were so shallow and all caught up in physical attractiveness? You are just like us guys. LOL

And yes SexyCool I read what you are attracted to about the Dude, I know it is much more than the physical. Don’t mess with me. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
3:55 pm

not the “mangrove swamp.” lol

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
3:57 pm

I’ve met plenty of women who were nice but their looks and health did not fit the mold. It is hurtful to have to let them go, but alas it must be done.

Guys have you ever met a girl who was to nice that you were undeserving of and decided not to get involved with her as to save her from you. LOL, I had to do that once when I was younger. She was to perfect all around and I just was not ready for a woman like that then.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
3:58 pm

Mangrove swamp, sounds bushy and wet. I like!

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
3:59 pm

Hey SexyCool. How are you?

Is everyone ready for Valentines Day?

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
4:00 pm

Valentines Day is a go! :)

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
4:01 pm

Mangrove swamp, sounds bushy and wet. I like!
Purp that was m-e..l*o’s description of the puddy. not surprising I’m sure. lol

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
4:03 pm

Speaking of mangrove swamps… So, Mrs. Swiss is usually extremely diligent in keeping a perfectly manicured landing strip at all times… but I guess she’s a couple days overdue for her usual lady-scaping & I have to say… that little bit of “natural” underbrush has had me going out of my d@mn mind the past few days… I might just throw out all her Nair :lol:

What…? TMI? :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
4:03 pm

Is everyone ready for Valentines Day?
Raqi yep, I’ll be at dinner with the special lil lady in my life. Actually, I’ll make a whole weekend of it. How are you doing? Staying well rested I hope.

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
4:04 pm

Dreams, lol….m-e/l..o, is famous :)

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
4:05 pm

Swiss, I got tired of the bald and low cuts long ago. I am just not that trendy. LOL

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
4:06 pm

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
4:07 pm

I feel like a hippie in the middle of a drummers circle. LOL

That and the little Darth Vader were the funniest commercial to me.

The Doritos guy was weird.

i'm swiss™

February 7th, 2011
4:09 pm

Purple — I liked the Bridgestone beaver commercial, too…

DreamsMaterialize

February 7th, 2011
4:09 pm

What…? TMI?
swiss nothing wrong with a little pruned and cultivated shrubbery.

Dreams, lol….m-e/l..o, is famous
Purp we need to start a Free “m” “e” “l” “o” campaign…tshirts, the whole nine. Let’s bring him home. lol

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
4:11 pm

Well…we could do like Drake did on all his mixed tapes and at the end of his appearances….

And sign all of our posts with…

Free Me-Lo

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
4:12 pm

I meant to add that Drake closed out EVERYthing with Free Weezy…

Purple Rain

February 7th, 2011
4:13 pm

Does anyone know the history of Saint Valentine or San Valentinus and why the chosen date is February 14th?

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:15 pm

Dreams and Sexy Cool I am all for supporting him. (see my name) LOL

SexyCool

February 7th, 2011
4:18 pm

Besides…I *almost* miss Me.Lo insulting me on a regular basis. (lol)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:18 pm

Hey count me in…I’m down for the cause.

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
4:19 pm

That sounds nice DreamsMat. How old is your daughter?

I have a doc’s appt V-day morning. Since I will be out of the house the hub is trying to see if he can rent an RV so we can go riding. That way I can be comfortably seated and with my friend Deni and her husband tagging along. Maybe ride up to Tennessee and back. Sightseeing pretty much. I am waiting for the doc to approve it. She wants to see me in person first to see how everything going. Right now she is “thinking about it”. LOL

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 7th, 2011
4:20 pm

Free, free, set him free!

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:21 pm

Prince still has the best superbowl half time show IMO

Black Eyed Peas are just weird. Didn’t they used to make good music when the first came out?

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:22 pm

That sounds nice DreamsMat. How old is your daughter?
Raqi She’s 5…going on 35. We’ll have fun, we always do.

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
4:22 pm

That guy had to be pretty insulting to still be in blog jail. It had to be some harsh and/or extreme vulgar comments that never made it pass the filters.

Where is 2CPTG these days?

Raqi V

February 7th, 2011
4:23 pm

She’s 5…going on 35

LMBO I know exactly where you are coming from.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:23 pm

Didn’t they used to make good music when the first came out?
Purp I liked and have their first cd, before they replaced the other girl with fergie.

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:23 pm

Where is czBrat, blue I can’t think of anyone else right now that I know is not banned.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:26 pm

LMBO I know exactly where you are coming from.
Raqi it’s something about girls. I’m sure you’re seeing it everyday. Sometimes, all I can say is “how in the world did you figure that out?” lol

Celisea

February 7th, 2011
4:27 pm

O L E M sent pics yesterday…I’m waiting on the ones of the entire fam…hey O E L M…..nic pics…send the rest please

FREE O L E M

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:28 pm

Leggs
Delight
PrincessNik

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:29 pm

I’m in on our quest to free our brother!

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:30 pm

Anybody lurking, please chime in and participate in our quest. I’ll be collecting funds towards this quest via paypal

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:32 pm

Celisea he sent me pics before, but I dont think they are the kind of pics he sent you. LOL I lost his email when I deleted my pre marriage email account post marriage. LOL

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:33 pm

welcome to the movement Sister Celisea X. lol We will be asking for that bonus you just received as a good faith offering to show your dedication to the cause. 2% of the proceeds will go toward efforts to free “m”"e”"l”"o”. the other 98% will go toward me miscellanious expenses. ;-)

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:34 pm

Dreams, nice move making her show her dedication first. LOL

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:40 pm

Okay why did the blog just hop out of gear?

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:40 pm

Hey I just had a post to go to cyberspace

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:42 pm

PR – Celisea he sent me pics before, but I dont think they are the kind of pics he sent you.

I was asking what kind of pics you got?!?! Nothing but decent here, standing up and fully clothed…he knows better…ain’t that right MMEELLOO (waving)

Dreams – Don’t even try it…I’ll be collecting :)

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:43 pm

Celisea, what did it read? lol

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:44 pm

Celisea, well it wasn’t a picture of him or anyone who blogs. LOL

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:44 pm

BRB….left of POC cake

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:46 pm

PR – It was a photograph of a man standing up, fully clothed and decent. I mean it came from him so naturally I’m assuming he wouldn’t sent me a picture of you right? LOL It wasn’t a freak nasty picture if that’s what you’re implying….MMEELLOO knows not to cut up like that :) Ain’t that right MMEELLOO???

Celisea (free Me-Lo)

February 7th, 2011
4:46 pm

leftover…I have not been that productive today…sigh

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:48 pm

Celisea, I was telling you that was what he sent me. LOL He sent me a picture not of himself or anyone that blogs.

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:49 pm

Me-L0 is brash but all the ladies love him and he knows how to reach them. LOL

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:49 pm

So “I Am” really left and did not come back?

Purple Rain "Free Me-Lo"

February 7th, 2011
4:59 pm

Saw a lady walking with a dog. I said “Nice Pig” she says “It’s a dog” I say ” I was talking to the dog”

:)

a presto

TeeKAYYYYYYY(2)

February 8th, 2011
12:49 am

Honestly, I’ve grown tired of trying to figure it out. Trump it up to one of those tootsie-pop ‘the world may never know’ questions. I feel like its a trade secret that maybe we just shouldn’t know. We don’t need the playbook of the other team – that’s cheating! We look at women in magazines and when we see that guys go GAGA for women who look like [insert celebrity] we try to appeal to them in that way. Imagine if we knew what men wanted. There would be a lot of fakes, pretending to be ‘the one’, when in fact they’re just being who they think their man wants them to be. Then there they are, two people who don’t really know each other…and they get married and now they’re both unhappy.

So, with that being said…I’m me, you’re you – if I got it, i got it – if i don’t then lets not waste time.