There are a lot of people who struggle with the idea of being vulnerable and open. I’ll admit, just typing vulnerable and open makes me slightly twitchy. It’s a natural part of relationship if you ever want to have true intimacy. I’m hoping the right partner and a whole lot of effort on my part will make it exponentially less scary.
Showing your softer, gentler side can also go a long way in attracting and dating too though. Of course, it’s never fun to be someone’s doormat and put up with any ole kind of ratchet behavior. Do you think that there is a way to find a balance?
Does your soft and gentle side come naturally to you, or do you have to work at it a little? Do men really have a hard time showing their soft side? Is it easier for you to show that side when you trust the woman?
I know a lot of women who are completely enamored by a man who is comfortable showing his soft and gently side. It’s a classic sign of a “chick whisperer”! A nice blend of confident and strong yet gentle when he wants to be? Yes, please Swoon. Worthy.
I think a lot of times we want to present that tough image because we have been burned in the past. How do you know when and who to show your softer side to?
Happy Friday! I hope you have a great Superbowl weekend! Where will you go to watch the big game?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog