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Fall for your type

It can be daunting trying to figure out why we are always drawn to a certain type of person. Honestly, sometimes it feels like one of life’s great mysteries, with no rhyme or reason to it.

Attraction has a way of making us forget that we have met and dated a certain type before..even when it ended badly. I’m guilty of having relationship amnesia and I end up right back in the same predicament. It’s an awful deja vu moment to think that you have chosen the wrong type of person to invest time in.

Do you have a type that you always seem drawn to? Do you ever wonder why?

This is why I am such a big fan of going against type and leaving your comfort zone in dating. I have had good experiences when I give it a try! If you were to date someone totally opposite of who you usually are drawn to, what do you think would happen?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

319 comments Add your comment

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
8:10 am

Good morning,

I can’t say I have a type of have dated a group of guys with some commonality between them all…Hmmm…lemme ponder on it a bit

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
8:11 am

I can’t say I have a type OR have dated

Frosty

February 1st, 2011
8:29 am

The men I date all seem different in my eyes, but my friends and family always point out that he is my ” type”. Seems as if it can be something I do subconsciously; so how does one change that?

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
8:50 am

I will say that overall the men i’ve dated were pretty decent guys…and so far i’ve been greatful to not have had to deal with anyone in the SCUMBAG category.

Delight23...wishing for laser vision to fry mofo on sight

February 1st, 2011
8:52 am

Bom dia peoples! Hmmm…type? Meh, always older, conservative, freaky (yeah), prone to spoiling (yeah), controlling (booo) and forever thinking the could “tame” me (WTF?).

Working on the vetting process to illuminate the control issue(s) sooner.

(((shrugs)))

Delight23...wishing for laser vision to fry mofo on sight

February 1st, 2011
8:53 am

sp: “he could tame…”

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
9:27 am

Maybe we should turn the HOT light on so folks will know we are open for business. Where is everybody?

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
9:30 am

With all th is rain and isht this morning…who knows where everbody is.

;-)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
9:35 am

I have a type that I always look in both mental and physical attributes.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
9:43 am

Going opposite of my type does not make sense to me because my type is what I like and if it is opposite that I will end up bored.

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
9:45 am

Lord knows I have a type. And that type is simply called “All wrong”! I am a magnet for scuzzbuckets. They lie…for different reasons and about different things. I am a sucka for a good looking man. Hell…who wants an ugly one? I have tried the dating outside the physical attraction box..and it went no where. I liked them as friends because they were nice to me and we could have fun. But as soon as they tried to do anything physical with me….wall went up and I did a Forrest Gump. I ran like I thought Cynthia of RHOA should have! :lol: So physical attraction is #1…if I am attracted to you and you have the nice personality to match…then we are good. But I have not met that one that would make me feel like I have all of what I want and would keep me from a wandering eye (I am my sperm-donor’s kid after all) ;-)

Delight23...wishing for laser vision to fry mofo on sight

February 1st, 2011
9:59 am

blog monster got me :?:

Delight23...wishing for laser vision to fry mofo on sight

February 1st, 2011
9:59 am

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:03 am

Mentally smart and challenging but respectful. Physically athletic, natural hair and no make up.

cba

February 1st, 2011
10:08 am

PR, how are you midwesterners preparing for the BIG STORM?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

February 1st, 2011
10:12 am

Morning Everyone!

Ummm yeah so the weekend was gorgeous and now this…..WOW!

Just poppin in for a second, need to get some work done first. be back later!

BMW – LOL @ Scuzzbuckets!

Mr_NYC

February 1st, 2011
10:12 am

Good morning all
It is like asking yourself to turn the natural subconscious part of attraction into a process of conscious specific action. May take some of the fun out of it. You like what you like. Reasons are sometimes hard to know.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
10:18 am

Good morning.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:19 am

cba, yes it’s a normal -14 right now but we are ready for the next few days as usual

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:20 am

Good morning Leggs, Mo and Mr_NYC

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
10:21 am

Morning

I tend to be attracted to “earthy” types and free spirits., but my “type” hasn’t been a bad thing for me.

If you were to date someone totally opposite of who you usually are drawn to, what do you think would happen?
Hmmmm, then they would be me. As much as I love myself….no thanks. lol

Maybe we should turn the HOT light on so folks will know we are open for business. Where is everybody?
Slim maybe they all got banned. it’s like that movie Langoliers up in this joint. lol

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
10:23 am

Off topic…fellas, do you guys sort of expect something from the ladies for Valentines Day (no matter how big or small)..because it seems to have a stigma of it being more of FOR the ladies??

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:27 am

Slim, yes I do. I am showing her love everyday of the week and even more love on that day. So even though it I do not put an expectation on what I want from her on that day. She better give me something or show an act of kindness other than sex, oral or dinner. Write me a poem about how awesome I am or something.

Good morning, Dreams!

Fion

February 1st, 2011
10:29 am

“This is why I am such a big fan of going against type and leaving your comfort zone in dating.”

Not for me. I’m staying on the menu. No off the menu specials for me.
Nothing is absolute, but within a variation here or there I know what I like. Usually the women I date all fall within the parameters that I find attractive.

cba

February 1st, 2011
10:29 am

Just curious PR, how do you keep livestock safe when it’s -14?

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
10:30 am

Dreams – I haven’t seen that movie…any good?

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
10:31 am

Purp – So being taken out to dinner is not suitable enough for you for Vday? I’m trying to come up with some ideas…

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:34 am

cba, the Bison are used to it and love this kind of weather, also the cows love it as well. As long as you have a windbreak “wall”they are fine. Everything is goes in a heated barn. If it is icy out we bring the cows in because we don’t wont them to slip and break a leg or something, but they are built for the cold.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
10:34 am

Sup Purp

Slim I don’t really get into Vday, so I never expect anything. I don’t really expect gifts on any holiday though. Vday IS for the ladies though, no mistake about that. And “Langoliers” was ok. It’s a Stephen King movie…you know those can be hit or miss.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:35 am

Slim, as long as it’s special dinner place and not the norm and if she had on a new dress and etc.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
10:41 am

Good morning, PR! You doing ok? I know you are…every turn you take, you’re surrounded by love! Stay blessed!

@SlimNU ~ have you noticed the new Valentine’s commercial that’s geared toward the day being about “us,” rather than it being about the woman?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:41 am

cba before winter comes we have to swath a few field so once the snow hits they can still go through the hay under the snow to eat the grass. Also it’s cheaper in the winter because instead of watering them they will just eat snow instead. It gets more expensive when you keep them inside because you have to bring in their food, usually corn( a cow eats over 100lbs of food per day) and you have to shovel a lot of manure out just to keep things clean as well as water them. But they love being outside in the cold

cba

February 1st, 2011
10:42 am

PR, if you have bisons, you have a little gold mine. I’ve heard there’s a high demand but it takes longer to get them to market. Longer than cows. I think Ted Turner has a couple of millions so he might bring the prices down. Ok, this is all about farming :-)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:43 am

Valentines day should be about the man since every other day of the year is about the woman. LOL

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
10:49 am

PURPLE..if cows are built for cold…the Cali cows must be miserable! :lol:

Hey…since your wife is in her second tri-mester….you guys should take pictures, professionally and amateur home photos. You can get the edible body paint (ciomes in many flavors) and make designs on her belly (and other spots) and take pictures. Then she can do the same for you. The glow in the dark paint it soooo much fun! It’s fun for V-day and it will be a memory. It’s also your last V-day as a childless family. next year you will have to find a sitter to enjoy day.

SLIM…you know I am all about costumes. I say dress up in s sexy cupid costume with wings and chase him around the house all night with and arrow. But I am pretty sure you’d be the one to get poked! :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:50 am

cba, very true but it is worth it.

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
10:51 am

Wow…pardon my typos. My migraines are back and causing light sensitivity. So as I look at the computer screen I am squinting. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
10:53 am

Black, LOL I have something special planned for her ;)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
10:55 am

Leggs – No i haven’t seen it yet. I was going to actually make a vday basket for dude but not sure if that’s a bit too girlish for a guy. Of course I’d put some goodies in there but after thinking about it, he may feel a bit weird with this red basket w/Vday goodies inside. Dunno…back to brainstorming

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
10:56 am

Morning all –

I guess the most common theme in my “type” has been that they’ve all been tall. That’s about it. And “good guys” too…don’t like thugs or bad boys. All of em have been corporate types, with dependable jobs, but have entrepreneurial asperations…businesses on the side that are successful or just starting up. And they’ve always been big on family and treating their mother’s with respect. Oh and no kids.

But timing is everything and I’m good for finding a guy in the crossroads of his life. So here we are.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
11:03 am

Of course, my ghetto cousin would probably say I like em square and I won’t argue with that. I guess the common theme is that these guys are responsible…they keep their money straight, steadfast about wrapping it up…etc.

She, of course, wound up with a guy who got her and some other chick pregnant within a year span of each other. *shrugs*

Mr_NYC

February 1st, 2011
11:05 am

Morning Purp
@ARed — you should help out ol’ girl from yesterday who told her date to “thug it up”

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
11:05 am

ARED…you and your cousin are polar opposites! Thank God! :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
11:06 am

‘My migraines are back and causing light sensitivity’

BMW – Wear shades, that’s what I do when I get like that…not to mention i keep the light off in the office because those darn fluorescent lights are like mini lasers burning the crap outta my retinas. Good idea on the costume…but i’d much rather have him put on his uniform and frisk me a few times…thoroughly :oops: :mrgreen:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:09 am

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
11:09 am

you should help out ol’ girl from yesterday who told her date to “thug it up”

Yes, down with thugs. :lol:

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
11:11 am

ARED…you and your cousin are polar opposites! Thank God!

:lol:

She had her baby last year, and now I am the ONLY woman in my entire family that has never been pregnant or have kids. (everyone else has been married tho)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:13 am

Amazon, want to practice so when it’s time for the real thing you will be ready?

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
11:14 am

@SlimNU ~ some men actually like being fussed. Receiving the basket may make him smile (esp. since it’s red). Just put some coupons in their to his favorite sports bar for wings and beer! Also, throw in the basket a nice negligee for yourself to wear for him.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
11:15 am

@PR ~ hold out your hand so I can slap it!!!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
11:15 am

Amazon, want to practice so when it’s time for the real thing you will be ready?

LMAO. Hopefully it will be like riding a bike! So I’m good. Today my baby meter reads: “remain childless forever”

But you just gotta show off those olympic swimmers huh? :lol:

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
11:15 am

SLIM… you’re trying to have me looking like Mary J. when she was on that stuff! :lol: Sunglasses inside the building.

OOOH you got yo’self an “occifer”? :lol: Assume the position!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:16 am

Leggs, here is my hand :)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:18 am

Amazon more like riding a bull and sure I will give you a nice view of the swimmers. You and Leggs. LOL

MissUnderstand

February 1st, 2011
11:18 am

Dating outside of my comfort zone has given me better results as well. I am drawn to smart guys, have always had a thing for men who can capture my attention. I’ve dated athletic men that were able to hold my attention just as well.

minime

February 1st, 2011
11:21 am

looking back i realized most of the guys i’ve dated were older guys and funny guys

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:26 am

I’ve only had trouble when I strayed away from my type.

SexyCool

February 1st, 2011
11:26 am

As a young chick, I didn’t really consider what my type was. I was just out running around choosing based on attraction, emotion, chemistry and a whole bunch of other reasons that felt good and exciting and yummy and all.

After making bad choices and learning some tough lessons, I began to actually consider my type. I came to realize that it has less to do with physical attributes and more to do with character.

Needless to say, once I actually realized the importance of determining my true relationshiop needs, my “type” changed and over time required tweeking. Sometimes, it was a case of “Be careful what you ask for.” Other times, it was a case of “As you learn better, do better.” (The problem with that last edict….some folks never learn.)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
11:27 am

‘Just put some coupons in their to his favorite sports bar for wings and beer! Also, throw in the basket a nice negligee for yourself to wear for him.’

Leggs – Yeah I was going to put coupons in there, his favorite candy, a bottle of goose (his fav licka), a nice negligee for me, some funny sexy undies for him, lovers dice and whatever else I could find to throw in there. ;-)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
11:30 am

BMW – When i have a migraine coming on and my eyes start tripping, at that point I could care less if i looked like Strange from Boomerang or The Fly. Coming from a mgr’s standpoint, i’d just be happy my employee was dedicated enough to stay at work, than to leave. lol

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
11:33 am

I’ve only had trouble when I strayed away from my type

Yeah, I’m good with keeping with my type. I’ve always paid attention to a person’s character, so I can’t imagine relaxing that standard.

And then of course, height. I could relax that…but I’on want to. I don’t think you can really go wrong with either. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:33 am

Slim, no funny man undies. LOL

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
11:41 am

@SlimNU ~ nice gift.

Hey fellows, would any of you have a problem receiving a gift like the one SlimNU is contemplating giving her SO??

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
11:43 am

Purp – I have to stay true to myself…a dayum fool…and who knows, maybe I can talk him into at least putting them on so i can get a good laugh and sneak a picture in. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
11:46 am

Slim, you are funny. LOL

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
11:48 am

SLIM…I am about to. These things are killer. I just want to close my eyes!

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
11:57 am

Purp – I think the Elephant trunk thongs would be good and FUNNY. lol He can chase me around the house with his ‘trunk’ at attention. :lol:

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
12:01 pm

OMG :lol: :lol: :lol: elephant trunk undies w trunk at attention.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:05 pm

I do not even want to know what those are.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
12:06 pm

Leggs – I already sent myself to the corner for 5 minutes. lol

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
12:08 pm

‘I do not even want to know what those are’

Purp – Sure i’d be happy to tell you.lol They are undies that look like different animals or whatever…in this case, an elephant. However, you put the slong inside the trunk part and i’m sure you can imagine the rest.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
12:08 pm

Good girl, SlimNU!!!

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
12:08 pm

Wait, SlimNU! When in corner you can’t speak! 5 Mins start now (12:08)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:12 pm

LOL, no thank you. :)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:13 pm

Now I would wear some with a Mr Snufflelupagus pair

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
12:14 pm

Leggs – I’s free, I’s free now..whoo hooo hooo!!

Purp – I’m sure that For Real has AA undies. lol

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
12:14 pm

PURPLE…you don’t want the wife to call you donkey d*ck? :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
12:15 pm

Purp – Does that mean what I think it means….that um…your…weenie…um…cough…has HERRR on it? :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
12:16 pm

Herrr as in hair lol

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:16 pm

Black no but you can :)

Slim, I am not discussing For Reals or any other man’s underwear.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:17 pm

Slim at the base around but not on the shaft but the boys a smooth shaven :)

Realistic

February 1st, 2011
12:19 pm

You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to; it’s human nature. Attraction is built in. You can’t “overcome” it. You can try to ignore it but it’s like fighting hunger; you eventually have to eat. Don’t you watch Discovery?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:20 pm

Fion

February 1st, 2011
12:28 pm

“You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to”

I tell you what, call it karma or whatever. For me, going off menu never works out.
The women are either certifiable BATTY, Life in disarray or just down right No Good!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
12:35 pm

Fion – Do you believe in the theory “you attract what you are?”

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
12:35 pm

PURPLE….you so nasty! :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:38 pm

Black, you like? :)

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 1st, 2011
12:41 pm

Hi WD

I have a bad habit of being attracted to women that turn out to be crazy. (Hmmm, or does that mean all women are crazy as bedbugs, or do I just turn them flaky)??? Guessing that “normal” would be toooooo boring though.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
12:43 pm

@AmazonRed™

That’s my point. When I’ve gone off menu, I was somewhere I didn’t belong.
As someone stated earlier don’t fight the natural order of what you like and where you belong.. Otherwise things get all out of whack!

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
12:45 pm

Afternoon Gang!

Well, our other offices helped us out during the snow, so we are now returning the favor. All good, though.

On topic – My type is a lot like Amred’s type. So it all just boiled down to timing. This time I finally got the timing right! :)

Any time I’ve gone out of my comfort zone, just hasn’t worked out. And even those times I didn’t stray too far, just didn’t work. Times when I listened to other people instead of my heart.

The heart always wins! At least in my case!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
12:51 pm

Any time I’ve gone out of my comfort zone, just hasn’t worked out.

Yeah, everytime I allow myself to date an Alpha… it’s just totally wack. :lol: I should stick to Kappas. :lol:

MS

February 1st, 2011
12:54 pm

I had a terrible time winding up with the same version of men.
My parents once told me, “I think you’re ‘picker’ is broken.”

I was introduced to a man by a mutual friend who was at the time, “not my type”. We were married in a little under a year and celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary in December.

Since this experience i’ve realized that many of us have created this false idea of the ‘type’ of man we need. I was completely wrong. My husband is a different age, a different color, a different profession, a different background, a different everything than what I THOUGHT I wanted.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
12:54 pm

Ared – lol So do you only date Greeks?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:57 pm

Has to suck if “your type” doesn’t like you. LOL hence the creation of groupies and stalkers. LOL

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
12:58 pm

Amred – You crazy girl! LOL!!!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
12:58 pm

Ared – lol So do you only date Greeks?

No, but it’s been a trend since I moved here. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
12:59 pm

Amazon you like only Greek men?

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
1:00 pm

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:01 pm

Fraternity Greek, I was thinking real “Greeks” LOL

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
1:02 pm

Amred – When I messed up it was when I decided to go for the more creative/artsy/earthy types instead of the corporate geeks I love. I can’t go one or the other. It’s not so hard to find a combo of both – someone that is creative and appreciates the arts but is smart and responsible as well.

marvinavila

February 1st, 2011
1:08 pm

jejejejeje:-)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
1:30 pm

Speaking of Greek, i love me some Kalamata olives…and a great Greek salad…Mmmm goood

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:31 pm

Looking back down memory lane, I’ve noticed that I’ve been drawn to lightskinned, bald men that look like a lightbulb…moust steer clear of those going forward (LOL).

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:33 pm

Dang, and I meant to correct “most” to “must” but see that’s not what I did.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:35 pm

Picky women LOL

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
1:37 pm

I suppose I like brown to dark-skinned guys…love goatees too. Mmm mmm good

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
1:41 pm

I’ve noticed that I’ve been drawn to lightskinned, bald men that look like a lightbulb…moust steer clear of those going forward (LOL).

I’ve noticed that I really don’t have a pattern as far as light or dark. I’ve run the spectrum.

However, I’d say I’d prefer brown skinned like me…but I rarely get that. Either he’s lighter or darker.

I haven’t done the interracial thing…so I guess brothas are my type. :lol:

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
1:42 pm

Not big on facial hair, unless very well kept. Hate dreads & braids. Love clean cut look!

Fion

February 1st, 2011
1:42 pm

@Leggs

I used to really be into thin women, but now I’m sold on “BIG GIRLS”.
yeah, i said it, and I ain’t taking it back!

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
1:43 pm

Amred – I’ve run the spectrum too, of brothas!

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
1:44 pm

‘I haven’t done the interracial thing…so I guess brothas are my type.’

Ared – Well we are two brutha loving chicks then.. :lol:

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:45 pm

Big Girls need love too (LOL). So, you leaving us smaller framed women alone!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:46 pm

I am really feeling left out now. LOL I like women in general, race does not matter to me. I am living Martin Luther King Jr’s Dream. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
1:46 pm

I swear, I alllllways fall…for your type…for your type…

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:47 pm

Fion, how do you define big?

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:47 pm

My friend is trying to get me to swirl. Swirling just feels weird.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
1:47 pm

Speaking of Greek…there were lots of hot women at the Greek (real Greek) festival over the summer.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
1:48 pm

I was at a New Years Party. This woman had on a gown with her shoulders out, and there it was right in front of me.
There I came face to face with….. raw exposed……. it was beautiful.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:48 pm

In my mind since I haven’t actually done it!

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
1:48 pm

As far as size goes, the guys i’ve dated haven’t been big dudes or really that tall.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:49 pm

How big is big, Fion?

Fion

February 1st, 2011
1:50 pm

@Pup

Well, I didn’t take time to look it up in Funk & Wagnall’s. Let’s just well proportioned.

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
1:50 pm

I like what I like.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:52 pm

Funk & Wagnall’s wouldn’t have YOUR definition of big. Is a size 12 big to you? Is a size 18 too big for you? I believe that’s what PR is asking. He’s not interested in F&W’s or even Webster’s definition.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
1:52 pm

@Purp

You can’t talk me out of it Purp, I’m leaving thin girls alone.” BIG GIRLS”. I’m all yours!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:52 pm

Shaped like a box big, nice and plump or just big breast and a fat ass?

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
1:52 pm

slim, thick, tall, lil shorties, light, dark, love ‘em all. You all are so beautiful!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:53 pm

As long as her waist is smaller than mine we can do business. :)

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
1:53 pm

Hate dreads & braids. Love clean cut look!

Ditto.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
1:54 pm

race does not matter to me.

For many black women, we are loyal to black men to a fault…even when they aren’t loyal to us. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:54 pm

There is nothing more filthy than seeing a white person with dreads, but I do know that they will know where to get the good weed without risk of getting arrested.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:56 pm

Amazon, then when she is finally fed up she comes to us Italians to clean up his mess. She isn’t going all the way white and not totally leaving the black. We are smack dab in the middle :)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:57 pm

The way I see it, we are the best of both worlds. Got the black mans “size” and the white mans “credit”. Now who wants some italian sausage?

Fion

February 1st, 2011
1:57 pm

@ Leggs
Well, not so Big that the Toledo’s (scales) yell ouch. Dress size doesn’t really matter.
I can say this, if you are a 6. That’s ok.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:57 pm

Thank you DreamsM!

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
1:58 pm

Thank you, DreamsM!

Fion

February 1st, 2011
1:58 pm

Size 6 keep it moving.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
1:58 pm

Dreams – been listening to Jamie Foxx huh? lol

Purp – I don’t have anything against interracial dating. I just haven’t met anyone of a different race, YET, that i’ve been attracted to enough to date. My girlfriend and i have discussed this once…i dunno if I could deal with being able to see the map of veins and stuff on his wacker. lol Plus, please tell me…is if…um…PINK? :???:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:58 pm

No takers? I thought I had great selling points. LOL

Before someone logs in under an alias and reprimands me, those were just jokes, except the “who wants some italian sausage” part.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
1:59 pm

Fion, a shapely 6 is awesome. So is a size 8 that is toned and in shape with some 36 C cups, small waist. LOL

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:00 pm

“Fion, a shapely 6 is awesome. So is a size 8 that is toned and in shape with some 36 C cups, small waist. LOL”

Too samll Bro

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:01 pm

@Fion ~ you have me cracking up becuase 6 is definitely on the small size.

“Shaped like a box big” had some of my water slip from my mouth!!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:01 pm

Slim, mine is not pink and you can see no veins. The world is more than just black and white. LOL there are other races. LOL

But on that note when I have been “eye close” to women of different ethnic groups there are differences in the pinks. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:02 pm

ARed You hear about Farmer’s Insurance talking about putting up $700 million to build a new NFL stadium in LA. They just need an actual team to play in it.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:02 pm

“I can say this, if you are a 6. That’s ok.”

“Size 6 keep it moving.”

Daggonit, which one is it (LOL).

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:02 pm

The pinks all taste different too.

Pink connoisseur

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:03 pm

@SlimNU ~ I almost posted that I was afraid of that thing being pink! (Haa haaa haaa)

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:04 pm

When I say Big I mean Big. Size 16 or 18. Stacked and Packed. No Square boxes!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:04 pm

Sure ignore me when I try and have a perverted discussion. Where is Swiss? LOL

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:06 pm

You’re welcome Leggs

Dreams – been listening to Jamie Foxx huh? lol
Slim seemed perfect for the today’s topic. lol

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:06 pm

I’m swearing off thin women like Red Meat. Big Girls here I come. I’m coming to get ya baby!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:06 pm

Fion you can go hoggin by yourself, my limit is a size 10 woman.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:07 pm

Enter your comments here

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:07 pm

Fion Size 18 and short or size 18 tall?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:07 pm

Fion Size 18 and short or size 18 tall?

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:08 pm

@Purp
Fion you can go hoggin by yourself, my limit is a size 10 woman.

See, that’s somebody’s daughter you talkin bout.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:08 pm

You need a trailer hitch to haul that woman around. LOL

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:09 pm

Tall. Tall, with overflowing Breasteseseseseses!

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:09 pm

OMG PR, that wasn’t nice (but it was funny)!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:09 pm

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

@Fion ~ is it safe to say she’s never on top? :wink:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

Fion, not SOOOOOOOOO bad if she is tall.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

Purp leave Fion alone man. If he likes those manatee girls, let him be. lol

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

Saggy Belly?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:11 pm

Dreams, LOL a girl that big has to graze at least 7-8 times a day. That is over 50lbs of food daily.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:12 pm

I wonder if he brings her in during the winter?

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:12 pm

She isn’t going all the way white and not totally leaving the black. We are smack dab in the middle

:lol:

You’re all the way white…y’all just have some good seasonings. :lol:

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:13 pm

Not 6′5.
Ya know, I met Mary Peirce (tennis player) long ago in nother life. She was 6′1.
That’s the limit.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:13 pm

Amazon, proper seasoning makes the meal. Here have a taste. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:13 pm

Saggy Belly?
Purp if she’s a size 18 with washboard abs, then I’m scared. That’s like a gorilla or a big foot.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:14 pm

I bagged a tall chick once. It felt great actually having someone my same size for once.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:14 pm

@ DreamsMaterialize / Purp

That just meand it more for me! :)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:14 pm

Fion – Dang…well no need to let you know i’m in the 3 slash 5 range…In JUNIORS. :lol: Got weighed at the doctor’s office yesterday and i’m 110.

Purp – Yeah me forgetty that you’re just another brown. No pink tip for you. :lol:

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:15 pm

I meant means

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:15 pm

‘manatee girls’

Dreams – YOU ARE SO WRONG FOR THAT ONE :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

Dreams, I just googled size 18 woman in bikini……not for me.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

That just meand it more for me!
Fion absolutely. play on play on.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

“I bagged a tall chick once.” Uggg, horrible choice of words (lol)

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:17 pm

@ SlimNumeroUno

yeah you right, ain’t nothing I can do for ya baby!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:17 pm

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:18 pm

Leggs, we did not have a relationship so what word should I have used?

Fion, don’t lose a finger when you take her to dinner. LOL

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:19 pm

hey i got to run. I’ll holla

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:19 pm

Fion, make sure your fat girlfriend runs with you.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:22 pm

Ladies, how big of a guy will you date?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:22 pm

Why so some fat guys have awesome looking girlfriends?

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:25 pm

‘make sure your fat girlfriend runs with you’

Purp – Either i’m delirious right now…or that was SUPER FUNNY to me… OMG I think i’m gonna cry now :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:26 pm

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:26 pm

I don’t need a guy heavier than 180-200 range…anything more is a death trap waiting to happen for me.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:31 pm

I gathered you weren’t in a relationship. You used “ok” words, just sounds so demeaning, unfeeling, uncaring, selfish, looking out for yourself, waiting for the deed to be done so you can kick her back to the curb, etc.

I’m kidding, I’m kidding, kinda sort of.

@PR ~ bet you most fat guys with awesome looking girlfriends also have a fat bank account.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:31 pm

It was super funny….

Kym-Got 7? We do!!!

February 1st, 2011
2:33 pm

Good Afternoon All,

Dang I missed a great topic..I always go for the nerdy teddy bear dude who is built like an Offense line. What is attracted to me? Short, skinny dudes, who look like they are afraid of their own shadows. sigh!!

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:35 pm

As long as her waist is smaller than mine we can do business.

As long as your waist at 60 inches or so

Fion is a dude?!?! – I just knew it’s been a chick posting all along

I don’t need a guy heavier than 180-200 range…anything more is a death trap waiting to happen for me.

Let me just yell AAAAAAMEN. No way…you’ll get broken underneath and will break something tryna straddle on top.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:36 pm

Leggs, she got more enjoyment out of it than I did. Me and my darn great skills. LOL

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:36 pm

My type I think (cause it’s sort of always fell this way) are the corporate types. Clean, clean cut, nice build, taller than me.

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:37 pm

As long as your waist at 60 inches or so

“ain’t” 60 inches or so :)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:39 pm

Celisea, no my waist is nowhere near 60 but I weigh more than 200. LOL

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:42 pm

@PR ~ you think you’re skillful enough to tell when a woman is faking an O????

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:43 pm

ARed You hear about Farmer’s Insurance talking about putting up $700 million to build a new NFL stadium in LA. They just need an actual team to play in it.

I saw the headline this morning but didn’t read the details. L.A. definitely needs something. The Coliseum is crap!!!

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:44 pm

PR – Celisea, no my waist is nowhere near 60 but I weigh more than 200

I said that cause you know how folks will have requirements and stuff that they can’t live up to themselves…LOL I was cosigning Slim but as long as your weight is proportioned to your height than typically I’m good.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:44 pm

(Slim pulling up a chair waiting for Purps answer)

Leggs – Good one…let all the blog men respond :-D

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:46 pm

There are plenty of women sized 16 or 18 who keep a rotation, so someone is digging them.

You’d be mad if your girl was Jennifer Hudson tho. :lol:

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:47 pm

if she’s a size 18 with washboard abs, then I’m scared. That’s like a gorilla or a big foot.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:49 pm

As long as your waist at 60 inches or so

That is obese!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:50 pm

Leggs, once I have learned her I could tell. But if it were short term I couldn’t and I probably would not care. Some women have certain “traits” that happen when they reach the big O and make a mess. :)

SexyCool

February 1st, 2011
2:51 pm

Well, dern…I’m a size 12 fatty?!?!? Who knew?!?!?

Oh…and….Kill yo’self…..twice.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:52 pm

SCool – At least you’re tall.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:52 pm

SexyCool, but you are active you run and do stuff. You are not a lazy lard.

SexyCool

February 1st, 2011
2:53 pm

True….(lol)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:54 pm

SexyCool, come on up here and let me sex you down to a size 10. I am a calorie burner. :)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:54 pm

‘Some women have certain “traits” that happen when they reach the big O and make a mess’

Purp – Do you notice of trend of drinking too much liquid prior to blast off? Might be something else, but not the something else you may want to think it is. lol (Chick go back home laughing with her friend about how she took a full p!ss in yo bed) :lol:

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
2:54 pm

“I am really feeling left out now. LOL I like women in general, race does not matter to me.

I LOVES ya PURPLE! You know I am an International Dater! :lol:

“For many black women, we are loyal to black men to a fault…even when they aren’t loyal to us”

I guess I missed that lesson! :lol:

“The way I see it, we are the best of both worlds. Got the black mans “size” and the white mans “credit”. Now who wants some italian sausage?”

OH LAWD…I just died! :lol: Purple you are crazy!

DREAMS…….”manatee girls”? :shock: :lol: Jesus take the wheel!

PSSST…hey Purple. I am a size 8 or 10 depends on how the garment is made (hey a girl neds booty space). But I haven’t seen a C-cup in years. :lol:

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:55 pm

@PR ~ hmmmm, even if you have learned her”, you won’t always know when she’s faking.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:58 pm

Leggs, is she can make it get moist and contract or squirt all while faking it..well its not like its a fake gucci bag or something. I am fine with that and I expect my woman to correct me to get her to the O if I am doing it wrong. LOL

Slim, that would not bother me one bit. :)

Black, I think a closer inspection of you is now in order.

SexyCool

February 1st, 2011
3:00 pm

P-Lito – Let me lovingly refer you back to the last line of my 251p post.
:)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:01 pm

SexyCool, you have a killer nana? Well I;m ready to die….twice. LOL

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
3:02 pm

Me and dude discussed faking before…at this point in life, not really sure how faking it will give me pleasure. I want the other person know that Slim is just not there yet.

So what are some valid reasons to fake?

1. Ready for him to hurry up so you can finish polishing your toenails.
2. ?

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:02 pm

I guess I missed that lesson!

That’s why I said “many” and not all.

Besides, we’ve got a good number of beautiful sistas celebs getting their swirl on! Halle Berry, Paula Patton, Iman, Garcelle Beauvais, Alfre Woodard, Aisha Tyler…

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
3:04 pm

The selfish part of me says that if you can fake it good enough for me to feel like it’s real, then I’m cool with that. But alas, I like to please, so I’ll do what I need to to make you gimme that O.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:07 pm

Dreams, I agree. We have about a 6 to 1 ratio in this house. Her 6 “O”’s to my every 1

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:07 pm

I’m not a plumber but I lay pipe…….well

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
3:09 pm

Halle Berry, Paula Patton, Iman, Garcelle Beauvais, Alfre Woodard, Aisha Tyler…
Garcelle Beauvais and Paula Patton must be cheating then because they are married to me…in my dreams.

SexyCool

February 1st, 2011
3:10 pm

Observation: P-Lito obviously suffers from zero insecurity about his size and/or skill. Has completely bought into the “Italian Stallion” of it all…and displays an almost laughable degree of cockiness. (Pun intended.)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
3:12 pm

I heard on the radio this morn that Halle Berry is about to start a custody battle for her daughter, with the baby daddy. So she actually dropped out of a film she was working on, to dedicate time for the litigation process.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:12 pm

Dreams – In your dreams, they belong to you and only you!

Reality however… :lol: I think Garcelle’s man did her dirty and she might be available for ya. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:15 pm

SexyCool, I can’t be mad if my wife strokes my ego…whether if she is lying to me or not..it works :)

Kym-Got 7? We do!!!

February 1st, 2011
3:16 pm

I thought Garcelle had twins just a few years back..what happen to her marriage?

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:18 pm

http://socialmediaseo.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/mike-nilon-5.jpg

That goofy looking dude had the nerve to cheat on her? *tsk*

Kym – They had been together for 9 years and he had some mistress for 5 of em. Garcelle caught wind and sent our a mass email to his job that went viral. The email asked what her husband had in common with Tiger and Jesse James. :lol:

Kym-Got 7? We do!!!

February 1st, 2011
3:20 pm

LOL he does look goofy..awww silly swiss boy..she gave you a chance…dang

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:23 pm

He probably had money and she always seemed a little ditzy to me.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:24 pm

PR – He’s a hollywood agent.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
3:25 pm

@SlimNU ~ grounds for faking:

1. Just want him off you! (I would imagine this occurs when it feels more like a chore than pleasure.)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:26 pm

Garcelle’s first husband was white too? She does not like us darker brothers.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
3:27 pm

So she actually dropped out of a film she was working on, to dedicate time for the litigation process.
Must be nice to be able to put your career on hold like that.

I think Garcelle’s man did her dirty and she might be available for ya.
YES!!!! I mean shoot that’s just horrible. lol

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:27 pm

If she is faking or not she still gets to sleep in the wet spot. LOL

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
3:27 pm

Damn, ARed, and she’s lovingly looking at him. Some men are just stupid and greedy!

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
3:28 pm

Just never met anyone else that attracted me. Love the brothas!

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
3:28 pm

Goofy isn’t the word for how this dude looks…Looks like he’d be the type of guy who like to dress like a baby, have his big azz diaper changed, wearing a bib with a pacifier in his mouth. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:29 pm

Is it the skin tone or just character of a brother? Because I know some brothers and sisters who are lighter than me.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
3:30 pm

‘I can’t be mad if my wife strokes my ego’

Purp – Well she can’t help than but to stroke it if you always keep it stashed away in your undies. ;-)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:30 pm

Hey, his goofy looking self caught Garcelle, he must be doing something right.

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
3:31 pm

“Garcelle’s first husband was white too? She does not like us darker brothers.”

PURPLE….you are simply crazy! :lol:

SLIM…..thanks for the bad visual of that newborn chicken looking dude in s diaper and bib! :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:32 pm

Slim, your new name should be SlimCrazy. LOL you are funny.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:33 pm

She does not like us darker brothers.

:lol: :lol: :lol: Shut up PR

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:34 pm

Black, I can pass on either side. LOL

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
3:34 pm

Purple – For me the whole package. It’s not even conscious. Don’t get me wrong, I love men & find some attractive in all nationalities. None of those others that I have found attractive were ever in a position to date me. They could be someone in the public eye or someone I saw in passing. But only the brothers seem drawn to me and I them. I like who likes me. Not just those who find me attractive, but those that are actually drawn.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:34 pm

Looks like he’d be the type of guy who like to dress like a baby, have his big azz diaper changed, wearing a bib with a pacifier in his mouth.

Slim – That was a lil TOO detailed. Is there something you want to share with the class? :lol:

SexyCool

February 1st, 2011
3:37 pm

I feel like I just got GOT by an applicant or just learned a lesson that I still need to work on my “conclusion drawing abilities”.

Based on the information in her resume (community college around the time I graduated, plus a history on her resume that only went back ten years), I concluded that this chick would be around my age. When I called to schedule an interview, she mentioned something about having grandchildren….(which I sided-eyed, but thought, “Mmm..yeah…okay…they start making babies young in this family.)

Noooooooo…..chick walks in the door and is older than MY momma…..

Naw…hell naw….she advantageously MISrepresented herself on her resume….I’m kinda ticked. (lol)

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
3:37 pm

Hey, his goofy looking self caught Garcelle, he must be doing something right.
Purp or she could have some self-loathing issues, a complex about herself.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:38 pm

Amazon, since you took it there. It does seem like that rolled right out of Slim like she likes that kind of thing. LOL

kimmie, I am drawn to you. Told yall I was a brother. LOL

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:40 pm

Dreams, well you should exploit her self esteem issues. LOL

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
3:40 pm

Purple Olive – :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
3:42 pm

Ared – Nope, nothing for me to disclose to yall. The only diapers I will change is my nieces and she has moved on to pull-ups now. ;-)

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:42 pm

SC – Maybe she didnt’ go to school and start working until 10 years ago… maybe she was independently wealthy…or on the county before. :lol:

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
3:42 pm

Getting pissed over here. I met this guy. We exchanged phone numbers. He has called me perhaps 1x. He texts me Good morning for the past 4 days, as well as Good night. Even during the day he sends little text messages asking what’s going on, how am I, etc. Two days of this with no response back from me. Just received a text asking why I’m not responding to any of his messages. Told him what I said in the beginning. I’m not going to carry on a conversation via text! Pick up the phone and actually carry on a conversation. DAMN!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:43 pm

The only diapers I will change is my nieces and she has moved on to pull-ups now

I negotiated that in my auntie contract. No changing diapers. :lol:

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:45 pm

Leggs – I’d give him a pink slip too. I always respond “the number was given so that you may CALL me.”

Besides, unless the “good morning” has my name specifically, I’m going to assume it’s a mass text. :)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:47 pm

Leggs, you need to come up here and get you a farm man. We have nice brothers here as well if thats your thing.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:49 pm

I watched this episode of Entourage where Turtle meets this chick that is a “furry.” People who like to do it in animal costumes. In her case, a pink bunny costume for her and her dude. Furries refer to sex as “boinking.” I almost wet my pants laughing so hard.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:50 pm

Amazon, now that is weird.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
3:50 pm

The whole costume or just the head piece?

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
3:50 pm

Leggs – Early this morning they talked about the role of texting in dating on Q100. Bert said he talked to a 24 yr old female friend about how she felt about texting versus calling. She said she actually preferred texting in the beginning, so if she didn’t like the guy it was easier to let him down that way versus talking on the phone. Bert said women that go along with that line of thinking have set the bar too low and made it hard for all!

Yeah, we need to actually talk if you plan on things going anywhere!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
3:51 pm

The whole costume!

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
3:55 pm

Dreams, well you should exploit her self esteem issues. LOL
Purp riiiight I’ll tell her I’m Danish. That’s my story and I’m stickin to it. lol

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
3:58 pm

LEGGS…that bothers me too. You are a grown a$$ man…texting is NOT a conversation unless you are a teenager!

Furries…I have seen that on Rex Sex on HBO. I am into a lot of things…but that ain’t one! Hell I love a good costume…but that is a bit much!

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
3:58 pm

The whole costume!
hahaha gives “baby I’m about to let the beast out” a whole new meaning. lol I do have a wolfman mask though…just sayin’.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
4:00 pm

I am into a lot of things…but that ain’t one! Hell I love a good costume…
BMW I got a stethoscope and a lab coat. lol

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:00 pm

Amazon, how do they do that?

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:01 pm

And, BTW, I didn’t responde via text. Icalled him and relayed my msg to him! He told me I was “scolding” him. I don’t have time for this BS. I don’t think I’ve ever heard a grown man tell me I was scolding him!!!

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:03 pm

@kimmie ~ I turned to Q100 this morning, but some woman was talking and her voice irritated me so I turned again (lol).

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
4:04 pm

DREAMS…me too! ;-)

LEGGS…scolding him? GTFOH! He has issues! :lol: Lucky for you…you did not waste too much time.

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
4:05 pm

Amazon, how do they do that?

Perhaps Staceye can explain better, Entourage is a sitcom so they are just going for comedic effect.

But it seems that there are cutouts for the areas that need it. :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:06 pm

Dream, LOL. that should work.

I need to get me a big costume like Howard the Duck. LOL

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:06 pm

You are a grown a$$ man…texting is NOT a conversation unless you are a teenager!

Worth repeating.

I despise it when grown men don’t have the cajones and or confidence to hold a conversation…that’s so juvenile.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:06 pm

@PR ~ sounds great except it seems to get colder there than here. It’s already pretty bad here for me. I couldn’t handle any more cold weather.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:08 pm

Exactly, BMW. Scolding. Come on, Son! I’m now tired and don’teven wanting to get to know him!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:08 pm

Leggs, love will keep you warm :)

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
4:09 pm

DREAMS…me too!
BMW oh well I need to schedule an appointment ;-)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:09 pm

Leggs, he sounds like a wimp or he is married.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:10 pm

Please excuse my bad typing today.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:11 pm

@PR ~ makes me think I can make his grown a$$ cry at the drop of a dime!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:13 pm

Leggs, making him cry at the drop of a dime? That sounds like something Black Magic would be into. LOL

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
4:13 pm

I despise it when grown men don’t have the cajones and or confidence to hold a conversation…that’s so juvenile.

Sassy – Say it again! I have ZERO patience with that. My SO’s 5th grade son asked this little 5th grade girl to be his girlfriend a few weeks ago. (Granted they broke up 4 days later,but that’s not the point, lol). The point is, don’t bring me “he’s shy, give him a chance”! If a 5th grader can do it, a grown man can! Open you mouth and talk to a woman. If you’re too scared, go home to your mommy until you grow up!!!!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
4:15 pm

Leggs, he sounds like a wimp or he is married.

:lol:

It’s the era of the “lazy dater.” Sad thing is, he’ll meet some chick that will eat that up and think it’s a sign he really cares… like Angie.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
4:16 pm

‘I negotiated that in my auntie contract. No changing diapers’

Ared – Good call because lawd knows I’ve had some diaper changes that really should’ve been carried out weating a CDC suit. Ewwww

Trya Banks had a show on the topic of Furries…it was weird to say the least….They also discussed SQUISHING…or is it SQUATING? (Big women sitting or bearing all their weight on a little dude

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
4:18 pm

:lol: My money is on “squishing” :lol:

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:19 pm

@PR ~ I actually thought of her while I typed that. Thinking what if he was trying to talk to her. She would have shut him down probably on day 2! :lol: :lol: :wink:

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
4:20 pm

Purp – I had a crush on Howard the Duck back when I was younger….This whole Furries thing might not be so bad after all. lol

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:21 pm

It’s the era of the “lazy dater.”

Yes indeed, but I’m not going for it. No comment on the last part of your email except to say I laughed!!!!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:23 pm

Slim, LOL a crush?

Squishing?

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:23 pm

For real right Kimmie?!

I really find it to be a turn off when trying to get to know someone…how the heyal you supposed to do that if you don’t talk. I’ve never understood “textversations” and they seem so impersonal…it’s either that or the person doesn’t think you’re worth a conversation. Either way, miss me with that ’cause if a man really wants to talk to a woman he will…trust mi p’on dat…seen?!

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
4:24 pm

No comment on the last part of your email except to say I laughed!!!!

I mean, that bull has to work on someone, or they wouldn’t do it. :lol:

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
4:25 pm

I had a crush on Howard the Duck back when I was younger

*blank stare* :|

:lol:

kimmie

February 1st, 2011
4:25 pm

I mean, that bull has to work on someone, or they wouldn’t do it.

Amred – That’s exactly what someone said on Q100 this morning!!!

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:26 pm

Exactly, ARed!

@SassyMe ~ hmmmmm, textversations. I will have to remember that one!

Ok, ciao, Zumba is calling my name. Loving this gym at work!

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:26 pm

They also discussed SQUISHING…or is it SQUATING?

Huh,really?

I’ve heard them also refer to it as smushing on The Jersey Shore.

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
4:28 pm

Purp – Yes a little school girl crush on Howard. I thought he was soooo cute!! And, yes squishing as I’ve been informed by Ared. It’s when HUGE HUGE HUGE women 300lbs and up lay, jump, sit, bounce up and down on top of little skinny men. For whatever reason the men like being engulfed in flesh. They actually pay for squishing sessions.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:29 pm

I’ve searched for squishing and furries on a site. Nothing came up, but I am determined. LOL

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
4:29 pm

Ewwwwww, there’s actually squishing sessions????

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
4:30 pm

Sassy – Um, SMUSHing is actually doing the do…in Squishing, no sex is taking place.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:31 pm

What? Smushing and Squishing have to different meanings?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:31 pm

WHAT'S YO SIGN??

February 1st, 2011
4:37 pm

YOUR TYPE IS YOU. STAY WITH WHAT YOU KNOW. THE WEATHER GIRLS NEED NOT NOT APPLY HERE AND THEM BUS SIZE PLAYAS LOOKING TO DIME PIECES NEEDS A REALITY CHECK. IT’S JUST WISHFUL THINK IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
4:39 pm

Dang, now my ears are ringing.

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
4:45 pm

DREAMS…what’s your specialty…GYN? :lol:

“Leggs, making him cry at the drop of a dime? That sounds like something Black Magic would be into”

PURPLE…babe, you know me so well.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:47 pm

Black, I really believe you are the dominatrix time and making a man feel pain before pleasure brings you joy. Not saying you won’t give him any pleasure but he better learn how to enjoy pain as well.

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:48 pm

there’s actually squishing sessions????

:shock:

Glad I missed the memo for that…apparently I don’t even know what it means so cool beans.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:48 pm

Black’s boyfriend:”OUCH”
BlackMagicWoman:”I smash your balls because I love you!”

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:49 pm

Sassy, that was new to me too. I’ll pass.

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:49 pm

making a man feel pain before pleasure brings you joy.

Ain’t nothing wrong with a little good pain ;-)

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:51 pm

Yeah Purp I’ll have to pass on that,too.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:52 pm

Good pain, sounds good. Kind of like Sweet and Sour. LOL

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:54 pm

I would really like to spend some time with Nicki Minaj

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:55 pm

“The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, personal and family history, belief systems, and often political, nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications. None of these is you”.
Eckhart Tolle

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
4:55 pm

”I smash your balls because I love you!”

ROTFLMAO…good Purple! Now come over here kick my stilletto! :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:58 pm

Yes your highness!

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
5:25 pm

Wouldn’t it be super if we could skype while blogging…it would be reeeal interesting…

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
5:36 pm

Good night! I may be feeling some pain in the morning…WHEW

“For many black women, we are loyal to black men to a fault…even when they aren’t loyal to us.” ~ ARed

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
5:37 pm

Oh, and on skype headshots ARE NOT ALLOWED