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Fall for your type

It can be daunting trying to figure out why we are always drawn to a certain type of person. Honestly, sometimes it feels like one of life’s great mysteries, with no rhyme or reason to it.

Attraction has a way of making us forget that we have met and dated a certain type before..even when it ended badly. I’m guilty of having relationship amnesia and I end up right back in the same predicament. It’s an awful deja vu moment to think that you have chosen the wrong type of person to invest time in.

Do you have a type that you always seem drawn to? Do you ever wonder why?

This is why I am such a big fan of going against type and leaving your comfort zone in dating. I have had good experiences when I give it a try! If you were to date someone totally opposite of who you usually are drawn to, what do you think would happen?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

319 comments Add your comment

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:31 pm

What? Smushing and Squishing have to different meanings?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:31 pm

WHAT'S YO SIGN??

February 1st, 2011
4:37 pm

YOUR TYPE IS YOU. STAY WITH WHAT YOU KNOW. THE WEATHER GIRLS NEED NOT NOT APPLY HERE AND THEM BUS SIZE PLAYAS LOOKING TO DIME PIECES NEEDS A REALITY CHECK. IT’S JUST WISHFUL THINK IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
4:39 pm

Dang, now my ears are ringing.

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
4:45 pm

DREAMS…what’s your specialty…GYN? :lol:

“Leggs, making him cry at the drop of a dime? That sounds like something Black Magic would be into”

PURPLE…babe, you know me so well.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:47 pm

Black, I really believe you are the dominatrix time and making a man feel pain before pleasure brings you joy. Not saying you won’t give him any pleasure but he better learn how to enjoy pain as well.

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:48 pm

there’s actually squishing sessions????

:shock:

Glad I missed the memo for that…apparently I don’t even know what it means so cool beans.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:48 pm

Black’s boyfriend:”OUCH”
BlackMagicWoman:”I smash your balls because I love you!”

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:49 pm

Sassy, that was new to me too. I’ll pass.

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:49 pm

making a man feel pain before pleasure brings you joy.

Ain’t nothing wrong with a little good pain ;-)

Sassy Me :-)

February 1st, 2011
4:51 pm

Yeah Purp I’ll have to pass on that,too.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:52 pm

Good pain, sounds good. Kind of like Sweet and Sour. LOL

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:54 pm

I would really like to spend some time with Nicki Minaj

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:55 pm

“The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, personal and family history, belief systems, and often political, nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications. None of these is you”.
Eckhart Tolle

BlackMagicWoman

February 1st, 2011
4:55 pm

”I smash your balls because I love you!”

ROTFLMAO…good Purple! Now come over here kick my stilletto! :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
4:58 pm

Yes your highness!

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
5:25 pm

Wouldn’t it be super if we could skype while blogging…it would be reeeal interesting…

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
5:36 pm

Good night! I may be feeling some pain in the morning…WHEW

“For many black women, we are loyal to black men to a fault…even when they aren’t loyal to us.” ~ ARed

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
5:37 pm

Oh, and on skype headshots ARE NOT ALLOWED