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Fall for your type

It can be daunting trying to figure out why we are always drawn to a certain type of person. Honestly, sometimes it feels like one of life’s great mysteries, with no rhyme or reason to it.

Attraction has a way of making us forget that we have met and dated a certain type before..even when it ended badly. I’m guilty of having relationship amnesia and I end up right back in the same predicament. It’s an awful deja vu moment to think that you have chosen the wrong type of person to invest time in.

Do you have a type that you always seem drawn to? Do you ever wonder why?

This is why I am such a big fan of going against type and leaving your comfort zone in dating. I have had good experiences when I give it a try! If you were to date someone totally opposite of who you usually are drawn to, what do you think would happen?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

319 comments Add your comment

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:06 pm

I’m swearing off thin women like Red Meat. Big Girls here I come. I’m coming to get ya baby!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:06 pm

Fion you can go hoggin by yourself, my limit is a size 10 woman.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:07 pm

Enter your comments here

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:07 pm

Fion Size 18 and short or size 18 tall?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:07 pm

Fion Size 18 and short or size 18 tall?

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:08 pm

@Purp
Fion you can go hoggin by yourself, my limit is a size 10 woman.

See, that’s somebody’s daughter you talkin bout.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:08 pm

You need a trailer hitch to haul that woman around. LOL

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:09 pm

Tall. Tall, with overflowing Breasteseseseseses!

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:09 pm

OMG PR, that wasn’t nice (but it was funny)!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:09 pm

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

@Fion ~ is it safe to say she’s never on top? :wink:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

Fion, not SOOOOOOOOO bad if she is tall.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

Purp leave Fion alone man. If he likes those manatee girls, let him be. lol

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:10 pm

Saggy Belly?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:11 pm

Dreams, LOL a girl that big has to graze at least 7-8 times a day. That is over 50lbs of food daily.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:12 pm

I wonder if he brings her in during the winter?

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:12 pm

She isn’t going all the way white and not totally leaving the black. We are smack dab in the middle

:lol:

You’re all the way white…y’all just have some good seasonings. :lol:

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:13 pm

Not 6′5.
Ya know, I met Mary Peirce (tennis player) long ago in nother life. She was 6′1.
That’s the limit.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:13 pm

Amazon, proper seasoning makes the meal. Here have a taste. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:13 pm

Saggy Belly?
Purp if she’s a size 18 with washboard abs, then I’m scared. That’s like a gorilla or a big foot.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:14 pm

I bagged a tall chick once. It felt great actually having someone my same size for once.

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:14 pm

@ DreamsMaterialize / Purp

That just meand it more for me! :)

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:14 pm

Fion – Dang…well no need to let you know i’m in the 3 slash 5 range…In JUNIORS. :lol: Got weighed at the doctor’s office yesterday and i’m 110.

Purp – Yeah me forgetty that you’re just another brown. No pink tip for you. :lol:

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:15 pm

I meant means

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:15 pm

‘manatee girls’

Dreams – YOU ARE SO WRONG FOR THAT ONE :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

Dreams, I just googled size 18 woman in bikini……not for me.

DreamsMaterialize

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

That just meand it more for me!
Fion absolutely. play on play on.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:16 pm

“I bagged a tall chick once.” Uggg, horrible choice of words (lol)

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:17 pm

@ SlimNumeroUno

yeah you right, ain’t nothing I can do for ya baby!

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:17 pm

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:18 pm

Leggs, we did not have a relationship so what word should I have used?

Fion, don’t lose a finger when you take her to dinner. LOL

Fion

February 1st, 2011
2:19 pm

hey i got to run. I’ll holla

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:19 pm

Fion, make sure your fat girlfriend runs with you.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:22 pm

Ladies, how big of a guy will you date?

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:22 pm

Why so some fat guys have awesome looking girlfriends?

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:25 pm

‘make sure your fat girlfriend runs with you’

Purp – Either i’m delirious right now…or that was SUPER FUNNY to me… OMG I think i’m gonna cry now :lol:

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:26 pm

SlimNumeroUno

February 1st, 2011
2:26 pm

I don’t need a guy heavier than 180-200 range…anything more is a death trap waiting to happen for me.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:31 pm

I gathered you weren’t in a relationship. You used “ok” words, just sounds so demeaning, unfeeling, uncaring, selfish, looking out for yourself, waiting for the deed to be done so you can kick her back to the curb, etc.

I’m kidding, I’m kidding, kinda sort of.

@PR ~ bet you most fat guys with awesome looking girlfriends also have a fat bank account.

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:31 pm

It was super funny….

Kym-Got 7? We do!!!

February 1st, 2011
2:33 pm

Good Afternoon All,

Dang I missed a great topic..I always go for the nerdy teddy bear dude who is built like an Offense line. What is attracted to me? Short, skinny dudes, who look like they are afraid of their own shadows. sigh!!

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:35 pm

As long as her waist is smaller than mine we can do business.

As long as your waist at 60 inches or so

Fion is a dude?!?! – I just knew it’s been a chick posting all along

I don’t need a guy heavier than 180-200 range…anything more is a death trap waiting to happen for me.

Let me just yell AAAAAAMEN. No way…you’ll get broken underneath and will break something tryna straddle on top.

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:36 pm

Leggs, she got more enjoyment out of it than I did. Me and my darn great skills. LOL

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:36 pm

My type I think (cause it’s sort of always fell this way) are the corporate types. Clean, clean cut, nice build, taller than me.

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:37 pm

As long as your waist at 60 inches or so

“ain’t” 60 inches or so :)

Purple Rain

February 1st, 2011
2:39 pm

Celisea, no my waist is nowhere near 60 but I weigh more than 200. LOL

Leggs

February 1st, 2011
2:42 pm

@PR ~ you think you’re skillful enough to tell when a woman is faking an O????

AmazonRed™

February 1st, 2011
2:43 pm

ARed You hear about Farmer’s Insurance talking about putting up $700 million to build a new NFL stadium in LA. They just need an actual team to play in it.

I saw the headline this morning but didn’t read the details. L.A. definitely needs something. The Coliseum is crap!!!

Celisea

February 1st, 2011
2:44 pm

PR – Celisea, no my waist is nowhere near 60 but I weigh more than 200

I said that cause you know how folks will have requirements and stuff that they can’t live up to themselves…LOL I was cosigning Slim but as long as your weight is proportioned to your height than typically I’m good.