Dating: Should you steer clear of dirty talk?
There is something supremely creepy about a guy who talks about sex all. the. time. Listen, I’m no prude, by any stretch of the imagination. I can handle conversations about anything, but a little variety doesn’t hurt anyone. Does a person really have to bring it up every other minute to have an engaging conversation?
Have you ever met someone who constantly talks about raunchy stuff? Why do you think they honed in on that topic all the time?
I actually think that is one of the topics that you can wait to cover/discuss. If you bring up sex on the first date/encounter, you are probably not going to be taken seriously.
What do you think? Should you really jump straight to the hot and steamy talk? Doesn’t it sort of take away the fun in the build up? What do you have left to look forward to?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog
Apologies for the unplanned blog break, I lost internet access and couldn’t find a safe path to my nearest coffee shop, but I’m back online now! I hope everyone has weathered the storm safely!
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Purple Rain
January 13th, 2011
5:35 pm
If I won the lotto, I am giving away half. With that half I am giving some to Church, a few Charities then momma, pappa, and my siblings.
czBrat
January 13th, 2011
5:47 pm
so you would give to your sibs with no qualms about whether or not they might do the wrong thing or even harm themselves with that kind of windfall?
czBrat
January 13th, 2011
5:49 pm
oh lawd did SC say the man was doing gator’s crackhead dance?
Purple Rain
January 13th, 2011
6:02 pm
czBrat, yes I would just give it to them
Purple Rain
January 13th, 2011
6:04 pm
They all held me down and took care of me when I was at my lowest. Paid my mortgage, bills, car notes while I was away for five years. I could never ever with hold from them no matter what. That’s my family
czBrat
January 13th, 2011
6:04 pm
thank you for your participation, carlito.
stay warm
ciao!
Purple Rain
January 13th, 2011
6:06 pm
ciao bella
czBrat
January 13th, 2011
6:07 pm
awwww. that’s sweet. i have plenty family members who have proven themselves incapable of doing the right thing. but they’re adults and they’re entitled to their mistakes. as much as it would pain me to bankroll some disaster in their lives, i just don’t see myself withholding or passing judgment. i’d share …. and pray.
i like your style. i often do.
DreamsMaterialize
January 13th, 2011
6:15 pm
you guys still here? lol
If I won the lotto, I wouldn’t tell anyone. I’d hire an attorney to collect on behalf so my name wouldn’t be published. I’d then give monetary or other kinds of gifts to certain family members and tell them not to ask any questions. Example: “Hey Pops, what’s the payoff on the house. Gimme your lender’s number. Don’t ask me any questions.” lol
czBrat
January 13th, 2011
6:21 pm
lol @ DM. you remind me of the guy in douglasville (?) who hit it big a few months back but never said a word. kept showing up for work as if nothing happened while he got the appropriate funds/entities set up.he collected the payout, news broke, and he never showed up again. very smart man.
Leggs
January 13th, 2011
6:32 pm
Hey you guys still here? Ran to the store. Roads are just about clean. Guess I’ll make my way to work tomorrow.
@czB ~ I would so something along those lines. Still show up at work, not say a word to anyone. Get my financial advisor in place. I will be a good conduit if I won a boatload of money. Mama would get something first, lil leggs college taken care of, and I have a list of what to do with the rest.
Now, as far as TW is concerned. He’s so focused on getting paid, I think he’s missing out on fixing what needs fixing. He offered his daughter a LV bag to make up for things. He’s operating on $$ to give since he wasn’t there for them. I can understand that to a point. However, if what he said to his daughter during their fight is accurate, he needs a lot of help and a lot of detox. They all say he’s still drinking. I hope he can rise to the occasion, but I’m not sure. One thing I do feel, is he has acting skills. All this is coming too fast for a man coming off a street corner.
SexyCool
January 13th, 2011
6:34 pm
Yep, czB. Every time I see dude he is dancing (jerking and shuffling) and looking a bit too Gatorish for my tastes. Besides, I’ve had enough exposure to crackish behavior to be able to recognize it.
And that’s not to say that I’m not rooting for TW. I am. I just hope that his story turns out with a happy ending…and not with him dead of an overdose somewhere.
czBrat
January 13th, 2011
6:48 pm
leggs, all addicts have pretty impressive acting skills.
sc, i also tend to cheer for the underdog. always hoping and praying that ‘this time’ they’ll be the victor.
thanx for the input, ladies. stay toasty!
btw, he asked about you.
SC, i’m so jealous! this weather makes me wish i had s/o full-time
enjoy your boo and have a wonderful evening!
DreamsMaterialize
January 13th, 2011
6:52 pm
you remind me of the guy in douglasville (?) who hit it big a few months back but never said a word.
czBrat I wouldn’t say anything because people base what they expect on how much you won. Let’s say I give you $20,000 and say “Hey I’m at a good place in life right now and wanted to share that with you.” You’d probably be ecstatic…util you found out I won 300 million. Then you might call me cheap and start talking about me to the family. lol