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Dating: Should you steer clear of dirty talk?

There is something supremely creepy about a guy who talks about sex all. the. time. Listen, I’m no prude, by any stretch of the imagination. I can handle conversations about anything, but a little variety doesn’t hurt anyone. Does a person really have to bring it up every other minute to have an engaging conversation?

Have you ever met someone who constantly talks about raunchy stuff? Why do you think they honed in on that topic all the time?

I actually think that is one of the topics that you can wait to cover/discuss. If you bring up sex on the first date/encounter, you are probably not going to be taken seriously.

What do you think? Should you really jump straight to the hot and steamy talk? Doesn’t it sort of take away the fun in the build up? What do you have left to look forward to?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

Apologies for the unplanned blog break, I lost internet access and couldn’t find a safe path to my nearest coffee shop, but I’m back online now! I hope everyone has weathered the storm safely!

264 comments Add your comment

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
3:18 pm

And him too……..Whoa you can’t say his name ya’ll know who I’m talking about…….LOL

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
3:20 pm

Can’t even type his name Damn WTH………LOL

DreamsMaterialize

January 13th, 2011
3:23 pm

Are they now null and void?
Raqi There were always null and void…just like the new ones! lol

Ok, so now conversations about sex on the first date lead to assault?

I am still a Sag damnit! “Ophiuchus – is the serpent bearer” Now I do dance/perform with a snake from time to time…
BMW serpents are associated with wisdom, so you’re still in good company if you decide to roll with the switch. Now what’s this about the snake dance? ;-)

I am here for you, anytime you want to discuss the reasons why you are having such a hard time finding jeans just let me know.
Willie D Be careful man. You know you’re headed down that dark rocky road to Assaultsville.

DreamsMaterialize

January 13th, 2011
3:28 pm

That didn’t come out right. (I shoot my arrow to you)
Blackfoote Your ACS (Assault Credit Score) just went up.

Willie Dynamite

January 13th, 2011
3:33 pm

DreamsMat – Thanks for the heads up. Please tell me my ACS is still in good standing. Wouldn’t want this new Cliff Huxtable mentality I’m working on to be compromised.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
3:35 pm

I actually have been doing some work.

@Varina ~ it’s not that you found a blog filled with friends. We’ve been blogging with each other for many, many years and we simply know each other’s style. True, this blog isn’t for the thin-skinned, which it doesn’t appear you are, so stay and add your valued point of view. Each and every one of us will have a bad day from time to time here. Stay awhile. There are lots of jokes, tears, clutching of your pearls, side eye looks and sometimes you’ll even hear crickets…one big dysfunctional family. We are always able to adopt newbies! There are frenemies to galore here, but we all co-exist. P.S., when we blog “bootleg” style, we have lots of fun!

@Raqi ~ I’m so glad you guys enjoyed the pizza. All prices have been raised, why not pizza (LOL)

@BMW ~ Sag for life!!!!! If my new birthstone is a diamond, I may consider adoption!

@Blackfoote ~ nope, can’t say his name, but we all know who he is…He’ll be Back!

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
3:45 pm

Dreams…….LOL

Leggs:

Isn’t our birthstone Turqouise I don’t think I spelled it right but hell it could our color as far as I know.

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
3:47 pm

Of course I left my laptop here Friday so I’m the only one on the floor and why did I do that. I have pinged, emailed, called, done favors….cause I’m the one person present…everybody else is at home working online…I tell ya. I might not come tomorrow cause I’ve been the go get it, come hither, take this yond, scan this over to me….girl all day. I’m down though to 16 emails from 160.00….dang I’m good

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
3:50 pm

Ummm, it’s time to go…that should have been 160 not 160.00

BlackMagicWoman

January 13th, 2011
3:51 pm

BLACKFOOTE…I got you chica! I know SWISS & PURPLE & he who shall remain nameless was about to have a field day with that one! Yes I am still a Sag. Although I always said that I had Scorpio tendencies! :lol:

WILLE….Yeah, ok! :lol: You get a time out!

DREAMS…you know I have been known to shimmy with a serpent a few times. ;-)

LEGGS…too late, Diamond belongs to April I think. Now if we are the Canary yellow diamond…I may have to switch! :lol:

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
3:52 pm

@Celisea ~ you have dollars on your mind.

@Blackfoote ~ yes, that’s our birthstone. And, I believe you spelled it right.

@Varina, you still here???

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
3:56 pm

Oops, Blackfoote, just realized you put the “o” after the “q”. So, my dear friend, you did spell it wrong (lol).

BlackMagicWoman

January 13th, 2011
3:56 pm

For my Sags/OPHIUCHUS…here is our description: (I find a 97% of it to be true for me)

LIST OF KEY WORDS DESCRIBING THE SIGN OF OPHIUCHUS

interpreter of dreams, vivid premonitions,

attracts good luck and fruitful blessings,

serpent holder, lofty ideals,

a seeker of peace and harmony,

doctor of medicine or science, natural-pathic,

adds, increases, joins, or gathers together

poetical, inventive nature, expanding qualities,

seeks higher education and wisdom,

overseer, supervisor of work,

fame – either grand, or completely misunderstood,

longevity, aspirations of healing the ills of man,

architect, builder, reaches for the stars, figuratively and literally,

tax assessor, or levys taxes,

astrological talents, intuitive,

large family indicated, but apt to be separated from them when young,

the number twelve holds great significance,

foresight and good fortune to benefit from hard times,

has secret enemies in family or close associations,

many jealous of this subject,

notable father, apple of father’s eye when young,

high position in life expected [depending on aspects] highest fame and legend comes after death

feelings of granular, wise, genius mentality,

likes to wear clothing of vibrant colors, and plaids in particular,

receives the favor of those in authority.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
3:58 pm

Did you guys see the icicle javelins being thrown through the sky by the high winds? People were play dodge icicle….

DreamsMaterialize

January 13th, 2011
3:59 pm

Please tell me my ACS is still in good standing.
Willie D Man ya ACS took a hit, but over time if you only talk about shopping and the latest tv shows, then your score will rebound. Oh, and you have to go see “Eat Pray Love” two times. lol

DreamsMaterialize

January 13th, 2011
4:02 pm

you know I have been known to shimmy with a serpent a few times.
BMW I’m staying away from that one…trying to clean up my credit. lol

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:03 pm

thanx for the laughs, reign. exactly what my loooooong day needed.

V, don’t slam the door. this blog is always good for interesting convo. you don’t have to be part of the “in” crowd to teach new things and learn a few along the way.

BLACKFOOTE…I got you chica!
chica? now i’m confused

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:06 pm

so, BMW, who’s been messing with the zodiac? same folks that shook up the solar system and renamed the dinosaurs?

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:08 pm

“has secret enemies in family or close associations” – So very true in my case.

And this one :arrow: foresight and good fortune to benefit from hard times, among many others.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:10 pm

I rented Eat, Pray Love yesterday. Had it on for about 10 mins when I had to turn it off..too slow for what I was looking for. Perhaps will look at it this evening.

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
4:13 pm

@Celisea ~ you have dollars on your mind.

Yes indeedy…my motivation for braving the streets today :)

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
4:14 pm

V, don’t slam the door. this blog is always good for interesting convo. you don’t have to be part of the “in” crowd to teach new things and learn a few along the way.

I’m gonna cosign this for you Varinia, just do you and come with grit. Say what you gotta and K.I.M. :)

Raqi V

January 13th, 2011
4:23 pm

Leggs, I haven’t found one person that has seen and/or liked that movie yet.

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:29 pm

raqi, you can add me to your list of people who won’t even see it. i don’t do chick flicks. i nearly stabbed myself in the ear with a drinking straw just sitting through “for colored girls …”.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:30 pm

@Raqi V ~ it’s very slow…

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:32 pm

Staying at home makes me eat more…must use discipline. Thank goodness whatever I really want to eat I need to cook so that helps a lot. I want a tuna fish sammich, but have everything I need for it, except TUNA FISH!!!!

Raqi V

January 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

CzBrat and Leggs, the hub and I are watching Avatar tonight. I hear it’s very long.

Dan - Simply...Superior

January 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

Reason # 752 I love my job: telework, and Above the Rim

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:36 pm

leggs, i’m sitting here listening to the icicles breaking off the gutters and i catch glimpses of them as they fall past the second floor windows. and it sounds like they’re landing with deadly force. at least this means the crap is finally melting.

after several months of conscientious eating, i literally felt the sugar rush of the m&ms i just downed. gotta put these suckers down.

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
4:36 pm

CZ – For Colored Girls was too heavy for me. I get the message but that movie is a damper.

Leggs – I was eating myself out of house and home. Yesterday I had all teenagers watching movies and they made pizza rolls, burgers, fries, noodles. They ain’t a sinful amount of sweets and sodas and left the fruit. But um yeah, I needed to get out of there because I was eating small bits but all day….alllll day. Eating just to be eating.

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
4:39 pm

ate…not ain’t

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:41 pm

raqi, it’s good if you can get behind movies that make the white man out to be the devil. (you know what i mean). the storyline is older than dirt, but the cinematography is very impressive. enjoy!!

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:41 pm

@Celisea ~ hmmmm, how does noodles fit in with the other food items?

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

@Raqi V ~ I reluctantly went to see Avatar, and was very glad I did. Excellent movie.

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

C, i found myself counting down every soliloquy. i just wanted them all to get their dang sob story out so i could take my azz home already.

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

how does noodles fit in with the other food items? ——–> teenagers.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:49 pm

:lol: :lol: gotcha czB!!

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

Leggs – @Celisea ~ hmmmm, how does noodles fit in with the other food items?

They don’t….those little jokers was eating everything not nailed down. Actually one of the other girls brough with her. If it was edible, they ate it. Did I say chicken. Oh, wings too.

CZ – I know right. Wasn’t it just drab? Talk about hurry up already. It was too depressing. Not a glimmer of “up beat” in that entire movie.

BlackMagicWoman

January 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

DREAMS…you scurred of a snake? :lol:

CZ BRAT…I tell you. Folks have changed it from 12 signs to 13. Granted 13 is my lucky number and I have always had a fascination with snakes. But to change a sista’s sign to an unknown…and throw of a few other folks is just down right wrong! :lol:

BlackMagicWoman

January 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

So BLACKFOOTE is a guy? :shock: My bad. Well if it makes you feel better, this Viral respirartory infection I have make me sound Tranny-ish. And some trick on the phone called me sir! :lol: I should beat her down….I could blame it on “R0id Rage” since my Dr. has me on them to help my asthmatic culo breathe! :lol:

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

I like a good love story but not the sappy kind and not the predictable kind but I’d rather see a good mystery or dramatic. No gruesome or gothic stuff either. Nothing like a good movie that holds your attention from start to finish. One of my favs was A Perfect Movie…those kinds of movies

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:58 pm

Must admit this, I saw the original “For Colored Girls” back in ‘76 (?). It was inspiring, uplifting and engrossing. I have no idea how this adaptation will be be, but from your two reviews, doesn’t sound good.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
4:59 pm

I think I’ll lay a fire tonight and watch “Imitation of Life.” Yeah, that sounds good!

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
5:08 pm

drab and depressing just about sums it up. i mean, i realize our people have it rough but damn! “uplifting” it most certainly is not. but maybe that’s just me. i am, after all, incredibly impatient and of a very short attention span.

i like horror movies, but i’ve tried to get away from that recently (thanx to s/o) :) along those lines, one of my faves is “the decent”. i also love action movies like “wanted”. and i like mysteries with a hitchcock-style twist. but sci-fi will always and forever be my top picks.

can’t stand musicals, barely tolerate comedies, and deeply dislike romance flicks.

Leggs

January 13th, 2011
5:18 pm

The Ted Williams story with Dr. Phil and his children is so very interesting. Can’t figure out who’s lying. Well, it isn’t hard. But, it’s very interesting.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
5:19 pm

Getting my arrow ready

SexyCool

January 13th, 2011
5:20 pm

I think they are all lying. I think the daughter is trying to capitalize on her father’s 15minutes. And I had been telling TheDude all along that TW still had that crack demon on him because he was still doing too much Gator I’m a Crackhead-like dancing and jumping around during his interviews.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
5:21 pm

I shoot my arrow to you you and you, LOL

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
5:23 pm

I just hope they don’t give that guy to much money to soon.

czBrat

January 13th, 2011
5:30 pm

brings to mind a convo s/o & i had a while back. if you hit lotto for multi millions, how would you handle it among family?

i said i would divide it among my sibs and their offspring. what they do is on them. i am not comfortable saying to any one person “you can’t handle it so you’re not gonna get like he/she got”.

s/o says he would not give $$ to those who have proven themselves irresponsible. he would set up a trust instead. your thoughts?