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Dating: Should you steer clear of dirty talk?

There is something supremely creepy about a guy who talks about sex all. the. time. Listen, I’m no prude, by any stretch of the imagination. I can handle conversations about anything, but a little variety doesn’t hurt anyone. Does a person really have to bring it up every other minute to have an engaging conversation?

Have you ever met someone who constantly talks about raunchy stuff? Why do you think they honed in on that topic all the time?

I actually think that is one of the topics that you can wait to cover/discuss. If you bring up sex on the first date/encounter, you are probably not going to be taken seriously.

What do you think? Should you really jump straight to the hot and steamy talk? Doesn’t it sort of take away the fun in the build up? What do you have left to look forward to?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

Apologies for the unplanned blog break, I lost internet access and couldn’t find a safe path to my nearest coffee shop, but I’m back online now! I hope everyone has weathered the storm safely!

264 comments Add your comment

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:10 pm

Varinia are you “I AM”?

Varinia

January 13th, 2011
2:11 pm

Amazon – if you feel that talking about sex is irresponsible, then I think that says more about your self-control or lack thereof, than it says about me. Do you equate being horny to having a loaded weapon? Isn’t that like saying ‘the girl having gotten raped is at fault, because she wore a short
skirt.’

And, yes, you have several times alluded to your belief that you think getting turned on is bad, if you can’t have sex. Just go home and masturbate – I think that’s what most men do when they get turned on, instead of blaming the wom

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:14 pm

Varinia, when I’m horny I do have a loaded weapon. LOL

But the girl being raped because she has a short skirt on, I do think a persons dress does invite some unwarranted attention at times. Is it right no, but does it happen yes. You can expect everyone to be on their best behavior because you decided to wear an article of clothing to the wrong place.

Willie Dynamite

January 13th, 2011
2:19 pm

Wow, did we just jump the shark with this discussion?

Varinia

January 13th, 2011
2:19 pm

Amazon, you mentioned several times that getting turned on is bad, if you can’t have sex right away. I think that says more about you than about me. Do you equate getting horny with having a loaded gun? Isn’t that kind of like saying that it was the rape victim’s fault, because she wore a short skirt?

Frankly, I’ve lived my life pretty good thus far and all of my exes liked the way I dealt with sex, compared to other women they’ve been with. Obviously, we only click with whoever feels similar to how we are. So, there are many women that would connect with your way of thinking and there are many men that like that I’m not hiding behind an image.

Just accept it

As to my bowing out – it was not because I can’t stand my own – but because you obviously all know each other and I feel like I butted into some conversation. This just happened to have been linked from sfgate and I ended up here.

Varinia

January 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Gee, and here I thought my comment was gone and I had to start all over ;-)

Varinia

January 13th, 2011
2:22 pm

Purple – I AM? This is my first time here, I just moved back to Atlanta last week, so I don’t know who that is.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:22 pm

Some of us are still new we just get along.

Willis, the shark has been jumped. LOL

AmazonRed™ - Proud ΔΣΘ! Happy 98th!!!

January 13th, 2011
2:24 pm

Varinia – No I never stated that getting turned on is bad. Please point me to where I did. I’ll wait.

I’m speaking to responsibility. No, I don’t “blame” the woman, but I also think people shouldn’t put themselves in situations where ultimately they’ll get hurt, especially since you didn’t know the person to begin with. It may be HIS fault, but you’d still have to deal with being assaulted.

Lastly, stop your “announcing” either you’re leaving or you’re not. No one told you you weren’t welcome and you can ignore any comment you don’t want to discuss FYI.

Willie Dynamite

January 13th, 2011
2:25 pm

Purp – Who you got this weekend in the NFL? I got Steelers and Pats, GB and Chicago.

AmazonRed™ - Proud ΔΣΘ! Happy 98th!!!

January 13th, 2011
2:25 pm

But the girl being raped because she has a short skirt on, I do think a persons dress does invite some unwarranted attention at times. Is it right no, but does it happen yes. You can expect everyone to be on their best behavior because you decided to wear an article of clothing to the wrong place.

:idea: It may still be 100% his fault, but doesn’t matter much when you end up being the one hurt.

Raqi V

January 13th, 2011
2:25 pm

You almost had folks convinced. LOL

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:26 pm

Varinia, okay I will take you under my wing and show you the rope….I mean ropes. :) SOme people have been here for years and others for months. never take anything personal and we welcome you to the blog. Leggs will send you a new member package. Amazon is very passionate here on the blog and in the bedroom so don’t mind her, she is a great person.

Varinia

January 13th, 2011
2:26 pm

sorry, meant linked from AJC.com

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:28 pm

Willie, I am with you on your picks except I have the Falcons over GB and I do not even like the Falcant’s I think they have made some sort of deal with the Devil to make it to the SB. I see The Pats vs the Birds. LOL

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:29 pm

Amazon, yeah it’s sad that women to take actions to not make themselves the victim.

AmazonRed™ - Proud ΔΣΘ! Happy 98th!!!

January 13th, 2011
2:29 pm

Amazon is very passionate here on the blog and in the bedroom

:lol: Go away! :lol:

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:31 pm

Amazon, sorry I let that slip. LOL

blue®

January 13th, 2011
2:32 pm

@PR – are you becoming the welcoming committee now? lmao

1000 Ways To Die – idiot put a lavalamp in teh microwave and watched it spin….this show is hilarious!!! got me believing in the process of natural selection….

BlackMagicWoman

January 13th, 2011
2:33 pm

LEGGS…I am flabergasted! I am still a Sag damnit! :lol: “Ophiuchus – is the serpent bearer” Now I do dance/perform with a snake from time to time…but to take away my Archer is no bueno! :evil:

I understand if a guy thinks a lady is very attractive and his normal hetero-male instincts begin to flow. But a real man are supposed to be able to control these things. You can think it…but you don’t have to say everything. You can tell me that you think I am attractive without talking about my booty or my boobs..heck my body period.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:33 pm

Are you all ready for some jokes? I haven’t done any in a long time

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:34 pm

blue, no I just know that if I meet her we can talk about sex on the first date. LOL

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:35 pm

Q. What’s the definition of ‘Macho’?

A. Jogging home from your vasectomy.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:36 pm

Q.What is the difference between ‘ooooooh’and ‘aaaaaaah’?

A. About three inches

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:36 pm

Q. Why do women rub their eyes when they get up in the morning?
A . They don’t have balls to scratch

Willie Dynamite

January 13th, 2011
2:37 pm

Purp – I actually want the Birds to win but I just dont think they will.

Blue – they should put about 950 of those into one category – Being a complete Dumb-azz.

BMW – Still a sag as well. Also, I think you have beautiful eyes and you personaluty is so charming. Nawwww that didnt do anything for me. Now tell me how did you get all that in them Jeans?

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:37 pm

Q: What’s the difference between a Girlfriend and a Wife?

A: 45 pounds.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:37 pm

Q. How do you find a Blind Man in a nudist colony?

A. It’s not hard.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:38 pm

Q: What’s the difference between purple and pink?

A. The grip.

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
2:39 pm

Willie D:

After we beat the NFL darlings (Packers) I guess we’ll have to hear how great the Bears are next week. Bring ‘em on down from Chi Town we’ll be waiting. Hold it they have to beat the SeaChickens first.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:39 pm

Q What’s the height of conceit?

A. Having an orgasm and calling out your own name.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:39 pm

Q. What’s a mixed feeling?

A. When you see your Mother-In-Law backing off a cliff in your new car

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:40 pm

Q. What is the difference between a Drug Dealer and a Hooker?

A. A Hooker can wash her crack and sell it again.

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
2:40 pm

Alright PR, I laughed…this was funny

Q. What’s a mixed feeling?

A. When you see your Mother-In-Law backing off a cliff in your new car

blue®

January 13th, 2011
2:42 pm

@Willie D – yeam im with you. most of em are idiots, but ooh so funny

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:42 pm

Celisea, I feel I have done well even if only one person laughed.

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
2:42 pm

Ok Purp that 2:37 is the one……..LOL

Raqi V

January 13th, 2011
2:44 pm

Purple, here’s one for you.

He who laughs last thinks the slowest.

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
2:45 pm

There you have it PR…me and Blackfoote laughed…

Celisea

January 13th, 2011
2:46 pm

PR – You wouldn’t be typing from a book of jokes would you? I heard the drug dealer/hooker joke before

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:46 pm

Raqi, LOL

Blackfoot and Celisea, Thank You! LOL

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:49 pm

Celisea, no I am copying and pasting the ones I think are funny. No reading from a book though. LOL

Varinia

January 13th, 2011
2:53 pm

Purple – thank you. For some reason I thought Amazon was a guy – oh, well….

AmazonRed™ - Proud ΔΣΘ! Happy 98th!!!

January 13th, 2011
2:55 pm

*still waiting….*

BlackMagicWoman

January 13th, 2011
2:56 pm

PURPLE… you are one sick man! :lol:

Willie…I am gonna get you man! :lol: Leave my jeans out of this! You know I have trouble finding jeans! Sniff sniff!

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
2:56 pm

BMW:

Hi Lady you’re a Sag too should have known cause you put it out there like Ared and Leggs. We are known to be outspoken folks but people are drawn toward us because of our kindness. I shoot my arrow to you.

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:59 pm

Varinia no she is a split tail

Purple Rain

January 13th, 2011
2:59 pm

Willie Dynamite

January 13th, 2011
3:03 pm

BMW – I am here for you, anytime you want to discuss the reasons why you are having such a hard time finding jeans just let me know. I’m here for you. hahaha

Blackfoote

January 13th, 2011
3:11 pm

BMW:

That didn’t come out right. (I shoot my arrow to you) sounds like something Purp or Swiss would say…….LOL