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Dating: Actions speak louder?

I’ve met and dated some really “charismatic” men in my day. I’m talking about the smooth, slick, totally engaging type that could convince you of just about anything. Oh they can make you swoon for days. It’s all fun and games until all that lip service they served is not backed up by actions!

I don’t know if we really grasp the idea that actions hold the most value when you are trying to get to know someone. I think it’s normal for people to talk a good game but how do you know who is playing to win?

If someone doesn’t back up their words with actions, do you think they are trustworthy?

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Leggs

January 12th, 2011
10:22 am

@ARed ~ I was surprised to see Sheree. All they’re doing is feeding her huge ego. I can hear her telling her peeps she’s an actress now. That cameo walking across the screen was nothing. I saw her hair before I recognized it was her. Please help the diva she’s about to become. I see the white girl (don’t remember her name) has toned up her body! But she needs to get rid of Kate Plus 8 hairdo.

@PrincessNik ~ she’s going to do so much damage by sitting on that info. It reeks of jealousy, and her marriage already seems fractured.

czBrat

January 12th, 2011
10:23 am

Kym, i’m keeping it together …. by a string.

will you bake me some brownies.
LOL. i made the mistake of posting on FB that i was feenin for brownies. had all these so-called friends responding ‘what a great idea! i’m gonna make brownies’ ‘oh yeah. i have brownies in the pantry!’. i think i’ll be schlepping to kroger here shortly.

PrincessNik

January 12th, 2011
10:26 am

Leggs, If they had not called the name Sheree it would not have registered with me that it was here, she passed by so fast, with her one line LOL.

Yes, she is going to do major damage……………….

Leggs

January 12th, 2011
10:30 am

@WillieD ~ how’s your boy doing? Was he able to get her on her way this morning, that is after he one more humpy humpy in???

AmazonRed™ - happy snow bunny

January 12th, 2011
10:34 am

Honestly, I blinked and missed Sheree. Really. I only knew she was on there cuz folks said it on FB!

Leggs

January 12th, 2011
10:38 am

A half blink and you still would have missed her.

czBrat

January 12th, 2011
10:42 am

seriously though, as inconvenient as it may be to be stuck at home for days on end, it does not compare to the folks who got stuck at work and have not been able to get home to their families or even take a break from working since sunday.

DreamsMaterialize

January 12th, 2011
10:42 am

I didn’t know The Game had a following like that. Folks was on that joint last night like it was New York Undercover.

PrincessNik

January 12th, 2011
10:52 am

Dreams M, yeah it has a big following, big enough to have it brought back from cancellation………….

AmazonRed™ - happy snow bunny

January 12th, 2011
10:55 am

Dreams M, yeah it has a big following, big enough to have it brought back from cancellation………….

Which it’s why it’s kinda sad if it only lasts this one season! Bring it back only to cancel it again! But it was pretty disappointing for many!

Were they really trying to pass off Atlantic Station as San Diego? LOL

Leggs

January 12th, 2011
10:58 am

@DreamsM ~ apparently, a litany of fans staged an uprising and wrote in to have The Game back on tv. They moved from CW69 to BET where, supposedly, they will have a broader canvas to put more compelling (haa haaa, compelling) story lines on.

TenderRoni

January 12th, 2011
11:14 am

How is everyone on the 3rd boot-legging day,

At work, luckily for me the roads are not that bad, and I work close to home.

@The Game- it was hyped up, but i was let down. It wasn’t as funny, and storyline needs improving, its so predictable. Except that Melaine and Derwin baby ituation- wheeeww that got me. Thats the only part I’m interested in so far, guess cuz I been through something similiar. I wonder would I have pulled a Melaine, darn what she going do!

Leggs

January 12th, 2011
11:23 am

@TenderRoni ~ she needs to do the right thing and tell him and let the chips fall where they may. However, that’s not good tv so it will be dragged on. And, when it comes to light in the next few episodes, we may find her seeking legal advice toward her pending divorce.

Ok, any of you snow bunnies watch Bad Girls Club? The chicks this season are a hot mess, esp. the thick girl that plays football. She’s trying to run the house right out the gait. One girl went home during the first 45 mins. She was drunk, too young to hang, and immediately got into a fight. Next Monday’s show will have a knock down fight with someone going to the hospital.

Leggs

January 12th, 2011
11:35 am

It’s definitely a trainwreck that I can’t stop watching….

TenderRoni

January 12th, 2011
11:51 am

@Leggs I agree with you…it will start the back and forth Derwin & Melanie has always had in their relationship. Say-la-ve (i know i said that wrong)…back to work!

PrincessNik

January 12th, 2011
12:05 pm

Anybody watch Teen Mom 2? I haven’t had the chance to watch last nights episode yet.

DreamsMaterialize

January 12th, 2011
12:15 pm

Well I hope the fans get what they’re expecting. Of course, what reasoning would BET have to cancel the show…not like they have anything better to show.