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Dating: Actions speak louder?

I’ve met and dated some really “charismatic” men in my day. I’m talking about the smooth, slick, totally engaging type that could convince you of just about anything. Oh they can make you swoon for days. It’s all fun and games until all that lip service they served is not backed up by actions!

I don’t know if we really grasp the idea that actions hold the most value when you are trying to get to know someone. I think it’s normal for people to talk a good game but how do you know who is playing to win?

If someone doesn’t back up their words with actions, do you think they are trustworthy?

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Leggs

January 11th, 2011
12:17 pm

@Kym ~ I’m sitting here kinda wishing I had one of those tin garbage can tops so I can go sleding down the hill to my house. Probably couldn’t stop and wind up sliding into the house directly at the bottom of the hill…still sounds like fun!

Kym

January 11th, 2011
12:32 pm

@Leggs I just saw them pull the cash three and four and five numbers.. oh yeah and in Carrollton, Cobb and Douglasville it is snowing again.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
12:40 pm

@Kym ~ too funny. You care to say what the numbers were???

SlimOne

January 11th, 2011
12:40 pm

Dreams – no prob….enjoyed

Kym – We used a cardboard box to slide down the driveway yesterday lol Sometimes just have to improvise. You can even use the top to a large plastic tote if you have one ;-)

Think it maybe nap time….Check in with yall later.

SlimOne

January 11th, 2011
12:41 pm

Oh and I do see some light snow falling again now too

kimmie

January 11th, 2011
1:06 pm

What’s up, Snow Jammers?!!

Just popped in. Leggs, I can’t believe you are out of wine!! You slippin, girl!!LOL!!!

Other than work, I don’t know where I would be going but it’s nice to be able to go somewhere. Snow & ice are for the birds. I always did prefer a more tropical envirionment!

Stay warm, gang!

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
1:30 pm

@kimmie ~ yes indeed. I concentrated on food and gas and forgot about the wine. Must have been adled minded when I went to the store.

Just tried to shovel the driveway. Think I got in a good 6 shovels and said, FORGET THIS!

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
1:31 pm

And, went back to get gas and car’s still in garage!

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
1:38 pm

that would be “addled”….

SexyCool

January 11th, 2011
1:48 pm

Hey folks. Checking in from Snowcation 2011.

All my FB friends can see my Snowcation pictures! (lol)

DreamsMaterialize

January 11th, 2011
2:21 pm

Hey kimmie and SexyCool. Hope you all aren’t going crazy in the house. Actually you all should join me in the mass blog exodus to Fiji (or anywhere else warm). Don’t worry, it’s on my dime…once I win this lotto.

kimmie

January 11th, 2011
2:26 pm

Dreams – By all means, save me a seat on the blog jet! I know you’ll have a nice tropical drink waiting when I board! No need in waiting until we land on the island, get the party started now!

And yeah, I got a little cabin fever! Don’t take much for me!

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
2:30 pm

@DreamsM ~ please have me a dbl shot of NaVan waiting. Can’t wait to shed this snowsuit. All Aboard!!!!!

Denise

January 11th, 2011
2:38 pm

This “Operation: Get Sexy”( lose weight) thing is killing me. I have no chocolate in the house and I’m snowed and iced in, too. I’m about to lose my mind!!!!! I tried to get out but I slid back down the hill on my street…after chipping ice and snow off of my car. I only have one beer left but I do have some margarita and daiquiri mix. I guess I better take another nap, read, or watch a movie…or fold some clothes.

SexyCool

January 11th, 2011
2:48 pm

No cabin fever here. We were proactive. Yesterday, we walked up the street to Greenbriar (it was closed.)

But stopped at the convenience store to buy junk food. It was a lot of fun.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
2:48 pm

@Denise ~ I ventured out too and only got as far as the next house before I started slipping and sliding. I want to wash clothes but not sure if any of the pipes will burst so I’ve nixed that idea.

Don’t you need some tequila, rum or vodka to put with the mixes?

SexyCool

January 11th, 2011
2:59 pm

Leggs – if your pipes haven’t burst by now, they should be fine for doing the laundry.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
3:04 pm

@SexyC ~ I thought so. Didn’t want to do it first thing this morning…wanted to wait until things started melting.

blue®

January 11th, 2011
3:10 pm

hola peoples. anyone still in here

Willie Dynamite

January 11th, 2011
3:11 pm

Afternoon All,

Quick Funny – Got a text from a Single buddy of mine. Says “got a Jump-off for Sun nights festivities and still stuck with the bish”

Dont know what to tell him. He stuck and to just enjoy the one you with. hahaha

Mrs. JtJ

January 11th, 2011
3:13 pm

Wow….anybody still here??? With the new job, I have no time to blog whatsoever, so I just popped in to see if anyone was here…….and Suprise!!!Suprise!! How’s it going Leggs, Kym, Sexycool, CZbrat, Slim, and Dreams.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
3:15 pm

@WillieD ~ he could be the poster child for being careful who you pick simply because you’re horny and want to use someone! Haa haa now he’s stuck with someone who he now realizes he probably doesn’t like her voice, now realizes she’s a dimwit and is drinking all his Kool-Aid!

SexyCool

January 11th, 2011
3:20 pm

At least they are both *truly* single and not semi-single. That could have been ugly.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
3:24 pm

Hey there, Mrs. JtJ. All’s good over here. Nice and toasty.

Celisea

January 11th, 2011
3:28 pm

Ha ha ha…good for ya boy. I can’t even feel bad for him. I bet he ain’t wanting no more to do all the fun freaky stuff they did while creating their fun freak fest. I love it :)

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
3:29 pm

@SexyC ~ good point…that would have been very, very ugly! When playing the field, many don’t bother to think of the “what if’s” until it’s too late.

Celisea

January 11th, 2011
3:31 pm

It is funny though

SexyCool

January 11th, 2011
3:32 pm

And she must not have any kids…cause that text would have been a heck of a lot more interesting.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
3:32 pm

@Celisea ~ now, he has to show her at least a small decorum of respect. His entire past 3 days have probably been built on lies (unless he’s been mean to her). Bet she wish she could call the cops for an escort out of there.

Mrs. JtJ

January 11th, 2011
3:32 pm

Glad to hear it Leggs. I got my mojito freezing in the fridge and waiting for the new season of The Game tonight and folding and ironing clothes.

We were all excited to see and play in the snow, now I wish it would just melt away.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
3:39 pm

Now, wish I did buy that bucket of maragritas last week. Any of ever been to a bucket party? A blast!

Celisea

January 11th, 2011
3:41 pm

Hey Leggs I was thinking along the same lines. He’s probably being nice and polite but ready as heck to get ole girl up out of there. Guess it’s safe to affirm he didn’t have a contingency plan…lol Yeah he probably sent that text cause he needs to say that but can’t cause he’s gotta play nice. Too funny.

mytw♥cents

January 11th, 2011
3:54 pm

Who said margaritas??? Mmm makes me think Fajitas! Maybe that’s what I can make. I’ve got some shrimp and salmon thawing but can’t think of what to make. Could I possibly have tortillas in the pantry…

DreamsMaterialize

January 11th, 2011
4:11 pm

Willie D that’s some funny ish. it’s probably like a hangover though. while you’re in it, you say you’ll never do it again…but you do. lol

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
4:14 pm

Dang, did she have to wash out her undies and wear a pair of his? UUGGGH, or did she simply just walk around in his shirt nekkid underneath?

Willie Dynamite

January 11th, 2011
4:28 pm

I been laughing at his azz for a few hrs now. I cant imagine being stuck with somebody for a few days that I only could stomach for a few hours.

Willie Dynamite

January 11th, 2011
4:38 pm

ok got the update which is just as funny. He says she’s a freaks freak. Walking around bucket nekkid or just a T-Shirt on. Problem is now he about tapped out and tired of even looking at the puddy but she stay on ready. Says he dont want to even think about fugging for bout another Month.

DreamsMaterialize

January 11th, 2011
4:44 pm

Says he dont want to even think about fugging for bout another Month.
He’ll be fugging by the weekend…just like the hangover. lol

mytw♥cents

January 11th, 2011
4:45 pm

WILLIED Ya boy gots-to-be-mo-careful bout what he wishes for. He should’ve sent her on her way Sunday evening, outta “concern” that she’d get stuck in this weather…

Celisea

January 11th, 2011
4:45 pm

…..and to that, let me redirect you to my 3:28….that’s waaay too funny. Bet he took all her freaking abilities into consideration when he hand selected her to accomodate Sunday’s festivities. I hope she pounce and get til that thing breaks….lololol. Ya’ll should get this story engraved and bronzed.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
4:48 pm

I’m in hysterics. He’s tapped out. She’s now using him the way he used her…it’s there for her to take and she’s taking it all until there’s not even a drop left. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

The tables have turned, he’s now just a piece of meat!

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
4:53 pm

Ok, I’ll take this back, he didn’t necessarily use her….she went willingly!

DreamsMaterialize

January 11th, 2011
4:54 pm

He should’ve sent her on her way Sunday evening, outta “concern” that she’d get stuck in this weather…
mytwo naw he KEPT her around out of “concern” that he might want more booty. lol

The tables have turned, he’s now just a piece of meat!
Leggs I promise you he’ll get over it…rather quickly I might add. lol

DreamsMaterialize

January 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

Celisea what’s up? cabin fever getting to you?

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
5:02 pm

@DreamsM ~ no doubt he’ll get over it rather quickly. But, bet right now he wants his place back to himself. WillieD says he’s tired of looking at the puddy, but she stays on ready. He’s only complaining to himself (and WillieD) because he’s riding her like she’s riding him!

mytw♥cents

January 11th, 2011
5:03 pm

DREAMS Hahahaaaaa! Oh, I’m so naive, but when you put it like that…

Sometimes it’s less headache to seduce yourself :)

mytw♥cents

January 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

LEGGS I can tell you’re ticklin’ yourself to death over there. No sympathy! lololol

Celisea

January 11th, 2011
5:05 pm

Hey Dreams…actually I’m good. Had to hop on a conference call this morning but otherwise I watching movies and eating. I have been eating more fruit and and cheese rather than junk. I’m about to pop in another.

Leggs

January 11th, 2011
5:13 pm

@mytwo ~ you know I am. He bit off a little more than he could chew. Wait, wait, his gums are sore, but he’s still licking. Sorry, a bit too raw! :lol:

Celisea

January 11th, 2011
5:13 pm

I believe ole boy is sick of her….why else would he be talking out of his head…lol He ain’t swearing off sex he’s just tired of her. But, ummm yeah he’s the gracious host and probably obliging every time she’s ready. Why else would he be burned out? Heck he’ll do her again in a couple of days…just got to be a sunny day though…lol