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Boomerang: When BAD dating karma finds you

I think every single woman needs a male friend. It’s one of the most enlightening relationships you can have because it gives you a chance to see men in a unfiltered, uncensored state. My guy friends are fairly candid with me about what they feel, how they deal, and the way they think. It has saved me a boatload of therapy to know them!

When they are going through a tough break up, I try to be supportive. I have seen them in their player days when they didn’t care so much about heartbreak they caused. I have also witnessed the moment when they realize that a female has “their nose wide open” and they are vulnerable for the first time ever.

This is when they get a little taste of what women go through. Men deal with breakups differently then we do but they definitely feel it as deeply as we do, especially when cheating was involved!

How do men deal with break-ups? From what I can tell, a lot of booze and sport fixation. They begin to meet as many women as possible to forget the one that betrayed him. Of course, this doesn’t do anything but distract them temporarily.

Have you ever watched someone who was a player suddenly get a little taste of what they put others through? Were you a heart breaker that seemed to get a little of that heartbreak back in one bad breakup or relationship?

What did you learn when you bad karma caught up to you? Do you think it changed how you handled dating after that experience?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

443 comments Add your comment

YesSheIsCute

December 28th, 2010
8:52 am

YesSheIsCute

December 28th, 2010
8:55 am

I’ve seen it happen to an ex. I pretended to feel sorry for him b/c I didn’t want to kick him while he was down but inside I was smiling like Irish eyes. :)

I’ve heard it happen to someone I dealt with. From what I hear his life is in shambles. But then the person who told it to me…they exaggerate a bit. I don’t feel sorry for him one bit. I personally believe that these things make better people in the long run. It doesn’t have to be all out string of the worst luck but sometimes a familiar bump in a road will make you a little socially wiser than you were before.

YesSheIsCute

December 28th, 2010
8:56 am

btw Good morning everyone. It will be a new year on Saturday!!!! :)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
8:59 am

g’morning…

“Have you ever watched someone who was a player suddenly get a little taste of what they put others through? Were you a heart breaker that seemed to get a little of that heartbreak back in one bad breakup or relationship?’

yeah, it happens to the best of us! With me, I just knew I was invincible when it came to some “get-back”…but this one broad got me good!!! I mean real good….but, like R. Kelly said, “when a woman’s fed up,” you can cry a river…..it’sa wrap!

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
9:02 am

oh, and don’t cry Bird Fans…Tampa Bay will get New Orleans for y’all next week….

Beautiful

December 28th, 2010
9:06 am

gmorn ev1!

i have a few guy friends, but they’re fb friends! i like it this way. i honestly would not like them in my real life. i dont think men and women can be just friends w/o some sexual vibe/something going on. i enjoy their support and esp their candid nature with me re men.

one of them is going thru a breakup now. i tell him my pov which he needs cause he doesnt understand how selfish she is. i explained to him about order… God, husband, kids. she doesnt see how putting her friends and her baby daddys primary is hurting him.

*Of course, this doesn’t do anything but distract them temporarily.* this is what i’m hoping for… insider!

right now a player is getn a taste of his own medicine. he wants to date me, i think, but i keep rejecting his invitation to get reaquainted. i went to hs with him. i know by reading him on fb that he is on the hunt for the next smash and i’m not inviting that into my life. i dont think he has ever been rejected b4. i think i really hurt his feeling on xmas by not responding *merry xmas to you also* via text. *shrugs* he was very blunt on how me so called ignoring his text hurt him. i just dont see him on the same level as me.

Kym-wearing Black and Yellow

December 28th, 2010
9:07 am

Good Morning All,

Have you ever watched someone who was a player suddenly get a little taste of what they put others through? Ohh Yeah.. and the response is classic..Why they got to do me like that? What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. An because the player EGO is so inflated..the response of..but this is ME..is just too funny to watch.

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
9:10 am

Good morning,

Sitting back waiting to see what the men will have to say about this topic. (Slim now having my morning cup-o-joe)

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
9:13 am

Morning
I don’t wish bad things on anyone I’ve ever dated…it’s not my place. The Creator will handle all things as they should be handled. I just try to live MY life right and focus on claiming the rewards that are already waiting for me.

Beautiful

December 28th, 2010
9:13 am

happy new year Kym, Slim, 2C! i’m bringing in 2011 at church this year. :) the way i’ve been living isn’t working, so i’mma try this new beginning diff. #blessings

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
9:21 am

Bom dia peoples! Witnessed? Yes. Caused? Yes. The most painful part was the first time I realized how badly I had hurt someone. I learned that yes penises have hearts too. :oops:

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
9:25 am

Good day everybody.

“How do men handle breakups?”

Most men should handle breakups LOGICALLY. The best thing to do is to be self reflective, learn from it and move on. I know that sounds simple, but it is.

The problem is most guys have a vindictive mentality when they go through a breakup and want to repay every woman for what another woman did. You cant operate like that.

The best advice I heard was that if you know why the woman left you, you weren’t doing something right. All that means is you never know when a woman is going to break bad on you and go left.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
9:30 am

Question for the blog;

Can women be players?

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
9:34 am

Howdy Beautiful…sounds like a good plan. Let us know how this new way of living pans out for you. ;-)

Kym-wearing Black and Yellow

December 28th, 2010
9:39 am

Hey there Beautiful..Happy New Year’s!!

Kym-wearing Black and Yellow

December 28th, 2010
9:43 am

I know it’s too early..but now can I get some love on my Superbowl prediction? Cause…err..I am seeing some birds in the big show and they ain’t the Falcons..

EX- Playette

December 28th, 2010
9:46 am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Rhf5n27BGc

@M. – Ladies don’t play, We just crush a lot! :)

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
9:50 am

@Ex Playette

LOL thats the new trend now….lol women who are laying up with alot of dudes and calling themselves players lol #fail

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
9:55 am

“now can I get some love on my Superbowl prediction?”

I knew those were some picks when you posted them last week….the Falcons are a good “regular season” team…come Nov, and Dec, they crumble.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
9:55 am

Sassy Me..Fire and Desire :-)

December 28th, 2010
9:56 am

Have you ever watched someone who was a player suddenly get a little taste of what they put others through?

Yes I did and I liked it…who am I kidding…sh!t I revelled in it. Dude cheated on me with this chick who later said she was pregnant. Fast forward ~6-7 months and she has twins…one of which needed a transfusion…so he hauled azz out of state to the hospital and said “I’m here to see if I’m a match for my son’t transfusion”…the nurse looked at him and said “Sir, the father’s already been here, and left him standing there looking like :shock:

When his sister told me that I was like uh huh I told you they weren’t your babies….you suckaaaa :mrgreen:

TenderRoni

December 28th, 2010
9:57 am

gm everybody,
I really like that post Dreams, thats me.

What is the definition of a playa these days?

EX- Playette

December 28th, 2010
10:03 am

@M. it was just humor – you sound a little bitter – would you like to talk?

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
10:03 am

@Ex Play

LOL no Im good. I havent heard that song in forever, 1998! lol

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:08 am

I haven’t had the opportunity of a witnessing a player go thru dating karma.
However, I am a former player that had to (and sometimes still does) go thru dating Karma.
One event that I can recall was when I dated a really good dude and treated him like caca. Of course we broke up and I had to date other guys that treated me liike caca for me to learn my lesson. I am no longer a player. I have learned to treat others with respect
The good dude is now married to a better woman and I always felt that if I had treated him a lot better than maybe I would have been married by now instead of having single misadventures in Atlanta.
I finally had the opportunity to apologize to the dude and he forgave me. I can finally put the past to rest and if GOD seems fit, maybe he will bless me with a husband.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
10:13 am

@I am whatever you say I am

So what made you a player exactly?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:17 am

M.
I think that if I was treated better in my home life then maybe I would have treated others better and not be a player. I believe that your foundation for relationships starts off in your home. That is your only real example.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
10:22 am

@I am whatever

Oh ok. So are you saying you really could not be faithful/loyal to one guy at a time?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:24 am

M. among other things, yes.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
10:25 am

Oh ok. Understood. So in your opinion, what makes a guy a player?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:33 am

M. simply put a guy is a player if he plays games, is not sincere with intentions, tells a chick a bunch of lies just to keep her around while he bangs other chicks-keeping her under the impression that she is the one and only.

Why Lie? Just be honest. There are chicks out there who will date a guy and could care less whether or not he has someone else. If a guy wants to be a player then maybe he should play along with that chick.

After I had to come to terms with my hurt, pain, etc….being a player is not for me. I’m honest up front. If i don’t want to be in a relationship with someone, I don’t let it go there.
It’s amazing how when you respect yourself and are honest with others, you get paired up with others like-minded.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
10:33 am

Have you ever watched someone who was a player suddenly get a little taste of what they put others through?

I think we talked about this a month or so ago. I’ve witnessed a person that couldn’t catch a break and I truly believe it was because of his attitude and behavior towards the women he dealt with. As I’ve grown I don’t give a second thought to folks getting back what they’ve dished….I know for certain that it ALWAYS circle back. Not necessarily always paid back in the same form dished but returned in some form none the less.

Tancred

December 28th, 2010
10:34 am

“How do men deal with break-ups? From what I can tell, a lot of booze and sport fixation. They begin to meet as many women as possible to forget the one that betrayed him. Of course, this doesn’t do anything but distract them temporarily.”

I generally heave a sigh of relief, considering that most relationships are not really meant (evolutionarily)to go on that long anyway. I think the changes in hormones and seratonin that result from coitus do create a temnporary bond, but that bond often contradicts common sense in terms of other areas of compatibility. I’d rather be “just friends” with women rather than deal with all that emo crap and the alledged obligation to be “true” to a certain person just because you two did “the nasty.” Ever since the pill and viagra-type drugs, it seems a lot of women assume that they “deserve” a “sex life,” whatever that is. One can live a fine and happy life without having sex. If you don’t have sex, then the relationshp can grow in other ways. Didn’t the writer of this post say that such a platonic relationship is “…one of the most enlightening relationships you can have.” Why mess it up with hedonistic sex and skewed notions of sexual fidelity once you do?

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
10:39 am

@I am whatever

LOL actually thats what makes a guy a player is his ability to be honest and not deceive women and still keep them around.

Men are players because they can lock a woman down with their mouthpiece. That is his bread and butter.

Women are not players because their bread and butter is their physical. Thats what locks a guy down but the catch 22 is if you take the physical out of the picture, the guy really wont be locked down.

Your thoughts?

Beautiful

December 28th, 2010
10:41 am

if y’all lookn for something to google and jam to… Dr Hook – Sexy Eyes! #memories

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
10:46 am

Beautiful…..go back to sleep!

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:48 am

“LOL actually thats what makes a guy a player is his ability to be honest and not deceive women and still keep them around. ”
why would be be a player if he is only with one chick?
M.
I think you missed my point. A guy that is honest and upfront, not juggling multiple women, does not make him a player.

A guy that is honest and upfront about having multiple chicks does not make him a player either. The chick that gets involved with him hoping that she can be the only chick , hoping that he will commit to only her, makes her played.

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:50 am

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
10:52 am

I havent heard that song in forever, 1998!
M did the 90’s leave a bad taste in your mouth bruh? lol

I really like that post Dreams, thats me.

What is the definition of a playa these days?
Tenderoni glad we’re on the same page. It doesn’t make sense worrying about what happens to someone else. And I always thought a playa was someone who understood the game and could navigate it successfully.

As I’ve grown I don’t give a second thought to folks getting back what they’ve dished…
Celisea Agreed. For people who do worry about this, what happens when the person who did you dirty turns around and has an awesome life? Are they bitter about that?

I am you were playin ‘em and slayin ‘em one-nightin’ them hoes, cold mackin? lol

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
10:52 am

So fellas, How do men deal with break-ups?

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
10:53 am

Damn, been trying to post for 45 mins now.

Good morning.

Just got back from court and the Judge gave the snot-nosed boy an additional 30 days in jail.

@2C ~ the blog award categories are in. Pls check mail.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
10:54 am

Ok, I took out my comment to you, I Am, and my post went through. Don’t know which word blogmaster did not like.

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
10:56 am

Leggs: Hmmm…..

Dreams: I was a cold cold woman. Glad I am not her anymore

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
10:56 am

@Slim

We deal with breakups by looking within and taking responsibility rather than blaming and feeling sorry for ourselves.

I usually take a break after a break up, travel more, work out more, tune up and get ready to get back in the game soon.

QC - Still on the Dirty Birds Bus

December 28th, 2010
10:58 am

GO TAMPA BAY!!! This is a great topic..hope you all are staying warm…have a great day :)

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:00 am

random: I think this guy may like me a little more than I like him.
He’s kewl and all but I think I want to hold out and see what’s behind door #3
I might have to go ghost a little while…….

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:00 am

LOL! why do people say this is a great topic but don’t share their thoughts on the topic.
LOL!

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:01 am

@ I am

If he wants to juggle multiple chicks and everyone is cool with it and hes not lying and sneaking around like batman, that makes him a player. He can be secure with himself knowing he has told everyone the truth and they respect that.

“A guy that is honest and upfront about having multiple chicks does not make him a player either.”

So what does that make him?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:01 am

LOL: this blog is like a group therapy session.
ALOL!!!!

BlackMagicWoman

December 28th, 2010
11:01 am

SASSY…girl I waould have laughed so hard that I would have passed out Karma is a beyotch! And she bites too…right in the a$$! :lol:

I have had guys cheat on me…..90% of them come calling after some time has passed saying that they were stupid and that I was too nice and geniune..blah blah blah. I tune out everything they say after that. Now comes the stilletto to the balls. I just torture them until they realize once you cheat on me I HATE you and there is NOTHING you can say or do to change that. The mere sight or smell of the loser sickens me. It also wakes up my evil side. So I may play the “supportive friend” if some other girl hurts them. Meanwhile I’d be giving the subliminal messages to further grease the sliding board into to misery! “Caution…slippery when wet”! :lol: Muhahahaha…and again…muhahahaha!

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:02 am

BMW: Evil one! LOL

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
11:03 am

@BMW ~ you never disappoint me with your posts…stiletto to balls…priceless!

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:05 am

@BMW

LOL did you get hurt……is your name Lynn Whitfield lol?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:06 am

M. being honest while juggling lots of women does not make you a player. It makes you a guy that happens to be getting a lot of arse. Hope that guy is practicing safe sex. Aids is a mofo!

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
11:07 am

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:05 am
@BMW

LOL did you get hurt……

Who is this to even ask that question (LOLOLOLOL).

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:08 am

@I am

LOL ok so what makes a woman a player in your eyes? Getting money out of guys? Manipulating them with sex?

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
11:08 am

One who juggles multiple of women, all women know about each other and he’s still able to sex even one of them is indeed a player! I mean playa….

QC

December 28th, 2010
11:09 am

Last time I had a guy cheat on me I became friends with his chick…he got locked up and we both went to visit him in jail at the same time…when he came out the look on his face was PRICELESS!!!! ;)

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
11:10 am

So fellas, How do men deal with break-ups?
Slim Probably like Oran Juice Jones. “You without me is like corn flakes without the milk!” lol

He’s kewl and all but I think I want to hold out and see what’s behind door #3
I am playa playaaaaaa. lol

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:12 am

Hurt for a little while, sleep with some random women if I feel like it, preferably her cute friend, sister, aunt or mom that always was a little to friendly with me or any woman that she has expressed hate to me about. Then hate all women for a little while then just jump back into dating. OR just chalk it up to experience hurt in private or just reflect that it was bound to happen sooner or later and make a better decision the next time. I’ve done a combination of it all :)

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
11:12 am

That is indeed funny, QC! Happy Holidays!

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:14 am

Morning Peoples,

dating karma? seen the dude who was a player get slapped with reality when he found the tape of his wife and new dude in the vcr…that was priceless….

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:15 am

Leggs, maybe for a woman. But I doubt that a guy will befriend another guy who his woman was cheating with. LOL

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:15 am

@blue

Dang in the VCR? Ouch….lol If that happens to me, marriage over, I will see you in court ;)

QC

December 28th, 2010
11:16 am

Yes it was Leggs…HAPPY HOLIDAYS to YOU :)

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:16 am

M., but do you save the VCR tape? LOL

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:16 am

@Purple Rain

LOL that is funny…I dated a girl who had a mom that was a tad to friendly also….they are a trip!

QC

December 28th, 2010
11:17 am

Old Dude sees New Dude in same position…WHOA!

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:18 am

@Purple Rain

My attorney will use the video tape as evidence….that’s her with the tattoo on her back right?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:18 am

M., yes some families like to share everything, even if they don’t know it. LOL

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:19 am

@I am
@Purple
@QC
@Slim

What do you do if you catch your spouse in the act with someone else? Thats the ultimate disrespect!

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
11:19 am

BMW I don’t know if you’re into anime, but I think I’m going to start calling you Sio (from Afro Samurai: Resurrection). lol

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:20 am

M., I would save the tape and use it as a party favor. LOL Once the hurt is over I would just show it all of the time and load it on the internet or something.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:21 am

Old Dude sees New Dude in same position :lol: :lol

kimmie-soon to be Mrs.

December 28th, 2010
11:21 am

Good morning blog gang!

Like Celisea and Dreams, I don’t waste my time worrying about what happens to past boyfriends. Life goes on. I’m too busy trying to live mine. I don’t wish bad on anyone, because that mess will backfire on you too. So just keep your head up. The best “revenge” is living well.

As for what constitutes a player – I can’t really describe one but I know when I come across one. And I don’t deal with those types – go rehabilitate with someone else. But everyone is entitled to live their life as they see fit. We all have to live with the consequences of our actions too. Do you.

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:21 am

@M. – oh yeah marriage was over then, crazy enough tho it was her that left him! he took that as a sign of karma, cause he knew he’d been doing her wrong for years…figured it was what he deserved! me personally – im still surprised she survived that one LOL

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:22 am

@Purple

LOL Dang!

@Blog

I was thinking about the women I have dated and everyone has an issue but some more than others. I dated a girl who had a gambling problem…it was crazy…you think she is at work, and shes at the Casino!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:23 am

M., I would TRY to walk away and stay gone for a few days to calm down or I would sneak out if they didn’t see me and set the house on fire after nailing the doors and the window shut. If I catch her with another woman I would join in and have fun then sneak out nail the doors and windows shut and set the house on fire. But seriously I would probably hold them at gunpoint go outside get the gas can, pour gas on them and set them on fire. At some point gasoline and matches will definitely be the solution.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:23 am

@blue

Lol so she wouldnt have survived? I would just call her mom to come get her stuff and text her the court day.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:24 am

Afro Samurai: Resurrection

Great movie… :-)

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:24 am

@Purple

LOL dont let her get to you. I would just relax and be glad its over and leave her alone lol.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:27 am

M., did you see i n the news about the husband who hacked his wifes email account and found out she was cheating? They got divorced and now she is taking him to court for hacking her email! Gasoline and matches would have got him a temp insanity plea!

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:28 am

@M. – im just saying, most guys i know dont have much tolerance for stuff like that lmao…..casse in point : PR – At some point gasoline and matches will definitely be the solution.LMAO

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:30 am

blue, why would a woman cheat on a guy that she knows is crazy when it comes to her. LOL Or why would a guy cheat on an woman who is the same type of crazy? LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:31 am

I just typed this REALLY long post…guess not today huh?

kimmie-soon to be Mrs.

December 28th, 2010
11:31 am

I actually think the worst karma I have witnessed others go thru happens kinda gradually. They spend some of the best years of their lives messing over good people. Fast forward some years down the road. They are lonely, no spouse, no kids, few friends if any. Life is passing them by. That’s sadder than anything to me.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:32 am

Wise, turn my post aloose please ma’am…it’s on topic :)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
11:32 am

How do guys deal with break-ups?

depends….if he was your lil boy/toy, then nine times outta ten, “he gon cry when he get in the car!”

or, if he was suspecting/initiating the death of the relationship, then it ain’t gon phase him…

or, he’ll prolly kick your ass, and tell you, he’ll kill you ‘fore he lets another nikka have you….

or, he’ll prolly call your mama, and everybody in your circle that thinks he’s a good guy, and cry on their shoulder…

or, he’ll talk to anybody that’ll listen and cry on their shoulder….

or, he’ll do some dumb sh!t and go kill himself….

see, you have alotta possibilities, and scenarios…

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
11:32 am

@PR ~ no doubt for a woman. Funny is funny. Don’t care who’s stirring the pot, funny is funny!

“What do you do if you catch your spouse in the act with someone else? Thats the ultimate disrespect!:

It’s always interesting to me when this question is asked because belief it or not it really is a hard question to answer. What a person says when not confronted with it has no bearing on what they will do when they’re actually confronted with it. It’s too easy to answer rationally when the heart/psych isn’t actually seeing/feeling the blunt of the betrayl. Ask those people who have SNAPPED. You just don’t know how you’ll react until you’re actually faced with that situation.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:33 am

:?: so we’ve gone from witnessing Karma to providing examples (just as food for thought of course)

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:33 am

@PR – ahhh see thats just it…i dont think you know just how crazy a person is until their pushed just right….u know they have crazy potential but you dont know if its “i eat tissue paper” kinda crazy or its “i like matches” kinda crazy….and if you’re already “i see leprechauns” kinda crazy you’ll push till you find out LMAO

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:34 am

Celisea, how are you :)

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:34 am

blue, why would a woman cheat on a guy that she knows is crazy when it comes to her. LOL Or why would a guy cheat on an woman who is the same type of crazy? LOL

:lol: Need that Memorex?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:36 am

blue, my wife and I have had the conversation. She told me what she would do if I cheated and I told her I would burn her up with gasoline if she cheated. I am a man of my word so she knows, so it’s her fought if she ends up burned to a crisp.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
11:36 am

Even the Sun goes down and Heroes eventually die. It happens to the best of us.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:36 am

@Blue
@PR

LOL I feel that. I think guys hate getting cheated on by women because a woman can get sex faster than a man so its not the physical that makes guys mad….its the disrespect and the fact that she did it.

I think every woman has given up some revenge sex at one time or another.

@Ladies

Can you confirm/deny this? lol

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:37 am

I was promised that she would not leave me if I cheated, but I would be a Eunuch for sure! LOL

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:39 am

i have never caught anyone in the middle of the act.
Have I been cheated on? sure, who hasn’t.
If I walked in on them in the middle of the act, I am whoppin arse that day.Lawd, just don’t let my son be with me if I catch em.
I will lock all the doors and whoop some arse! Watcha think my samurai swords are for? :wink:

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:39 am

or, he’ll prolly call your mama, and everybody in your circle that thinks he’s a good guy, and cry on their shoulder…

AKA “MY DAUGHTER’S FATHER” Before my sister passed he would call her and whine to her all day about him and what he’s trying to do and where he wanted us to go and be a family…blah blah blah. Well after she died he called my BROTHER….ummm, not the same. My brother was like dude, I have a SAHM, 4 kids and handle EVERYTHING….he asked him if he thought honestly he would listen or have the slightest amount of empathy for him???? Really! Needless to say that killed off all future calls to any family member…lol

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:40 am

@PR

What does it take for you to take a woman back if you find out she is cheating?

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:40 am

or, he’ll prolly call your mama, and everybody in your circle that thinks he’s a good guy, and cry on their shoulder…

Lawd Bejebus, I had that. Nikka even recruited his mamma to call me and mine. :roll:

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:40 am

Hey PR I’m well. How was Christmas?

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:40 am

@PR – well just d@mn dude…got some Eminem in ya? Eminem married to, what was her name??? Bobbit something…chick who cut it off while dude was sleeping….scary…

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:41 am

M., I think you have a point there. I have received some revenge sex from a woman before, it rocked! Until her husband who did not go to church got the preacher involved and she started feeling bad about having sex with me. I did not bad mouth the guy but she called me after they were back together for a year saying he had cheated again. At that point I had more respect for myself so I just let her give me a hummer instead of having full blown sex with her. LOL

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
11:41 am

So do yall have a slight struggle with trying Not to call the ex in the beginning? (fellas)

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:41 am

@I am

LOL dang! I think there is a way that guys can tell if a woman is having sex with 2 guys. I know women are sneaky and good at covering their tracks lol

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:42 am

Delight – Lawd Bejebus, I had that. Nikka even recruited his mamma to call me and mine.

Ain’t that some mess? Been there, experienced that.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
11:43 am

We are up to two pages and no one has mentioned the actual movie? This movie was comedic genius.
I laugh my ass off EVERY time I see it!!!
Hell, I may go home and watch it tonight just because.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:44 am

Celisea, we were supposed to take a family trip to Matera so that she could meet my elders, but the weather cancelled all of that. Otherwise it was great!

M., if she cheated on me sexually I would not take her back at all(gas and matches). If she cheated on me emotionally it would hurt but I would try and step up to the plate and salvage it.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:45 am

@Purple

LOL dang thats crazy. Church drama! That revenge sex is alive and well. Thats like a secret with females lol

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:46 am

I have no problem not calling the EX at all. If she dumped me or if I dumped her.

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:46 am

@Delight – gotta love the ones that get their momma on you. had that happen once, and im like dude – i dont like your momma and she dont like me! sending her to talk to me did more to get me to stay away than come back!

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
11:46 am

“Maaaaaacuss, da’ling! I have no panties on…!”

BlackMagicWoman

December 28th, 2010
11:46 am

http://afrosamurai.wikia.com/index.php?title=Sio&image=Sio-jpg

I am a bit of an Anime freak….so yes…I know who Sio is. I will fondly take that name! :lol:

LEGSS…I never like to dissapoint! :lol:

M. Lynne is a great actress…especially in “A Thin Line”! Muhahaha Never play with a woman’s feelings. Things can….no will get ugly! :shock:

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:47 am

M., I agree and the women will never admit it. LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:48 am

LOL, who tells their mom to call a girl for them? LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:49 am

SexyCool, aren’t you cold?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:49 am

M. dudes are not as smart as you think

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
11:50 am

“Hey Marcus, I heard some woman at the office has you p***y whooped!”

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:50 am

@BMW

LOL but also I have seen some guys that dont take no $*&@! from women…

@Purple

Yup think about it a woman can go to QT with a lacefront, a catsuit, and somebody is going to be trying to get her lol.

When a woman decides she wants to get done up, nothing is going to stop her!

Fion

December 28th, 2010
11:51 am

‘How do men deal with break-ups? From what I can tell, a lot of booze and sport fixation.”

Wise_ I don’t know about that one. I don’t drink any more or less based on a break-up.
Sports, well that’s a constant.
If the man has a True understanding of hiimself, ususally he’s moving on in stride.
For me, whatever reason, women tend to find me the times it’s happened in my life.
I slow everything down just a half beat.

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
11:51 am

All I know is this, I’m a scorpio and the last thing you want to do is piss a scorpio off.
Revenge is a dish best served cold!

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:51 am

@I am

LOL

Thats the problem. Alot of women think they can always manipulate guys lol.

All women arent as smart as you think…Fantasia, comes to mind lol

Sassy Me..If you ask me I'm ready:-)

December 28th, 2010
11:52 am

girl I waould have laughed so hard that I would have passed out

I did BlackMagic…I did.

once you cheat on me I HATE you and there is NOTHING you can say or do to change that….It also wakes up my evil side.

We come from the same tribe fo sho….we got to be some kind of kin ;-)

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
11:52 am

“Don’t be p***y whipped. Whip that p***y! Bang bang bang bang bang!!!!”

blue®

December 28th, 2010
11:53 am

remember once with midget boys dad – he was tiny and im pulling my hair out with new momma crazies, and wanted him to take the baby for the weekend (and yes he was off work, school and everything else). when he argues how he really cant cause he had plans and needs his rest and all, i walk out. he sends his mom after me, who i dont like and dont like me, talking about how i cant expect him to take care of the kid, his time to relax is just too important and besides its just postpartum, i’ll get over it. im like d@mn your all crazy!!

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 28th, 2010
11:53 am

@SC

LOL

I am going downtown chicago today, anybody want any Garrett’s popcorn?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
11:54 am

M., guys better learn how to do a smell/tightness test or watch his ladies patterns.

I think a woman or man can tell when someone has strayed. It’s smells different, not as tight, wants to do more freaky stuff all of a sudden or doesn’t want to do anything at all. Unexplained money or gifts show up etc. LOL, or arguments go to another level or they don’t care to argue at all LOL

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:55 am

Darting in and out, but SexyCool :?:

“We are up to two pages and no one has mentioned the actual movie?”

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:55 am

In my long post that was “confiscated” I was speaking on the issue of heartbreak…sort of kinda. I dated this dude that honestly was a pretty decent dude but I could never get this “thing” for him so it could never go down. As hard as it is for people to believe, it ain’t as hard to play people as we might believe. There was NOTHING I couldn’t get out of this dude…from a down payment for a car (that I wreak 2 weeks later…payback I call it) to him signing a lease for me. I mentioned (in the other post) how all I had to do was say what he wanted to hear and it would appease him….at least for a while cause that stopped working when it realized it was just talk. I dated him pre and post baby…I could call this dude a the drop of a dime and he was there, I walked out on my daughter’s father (drama drama drama and sick to death of it) and called him and crashed at his spot for a minute. Still no azz exchanged…he tried but nothing popped off. It was something too how I could precurse everything with “this ain’t no booty swap” and he’d buy…of course even I knew better…ain’t nothing free. While I’m not proud of my actions and was truly young, I learned a serious lesson in not playing or taking for granted people’s feelings and emotions….THAT DUDE WAS HARD TO SHAKE. Calling my job, showing up, etc. Too, he wasn’t as innocent as I believed. I mean I wasn’t giving him any so I knew somebody was but it never dawned on me he had a girl…I guess cause he was always there for me. Well this chick calls me twice and said she “knew of me.” Still, him trying to get in all the while having a girl doesn’t excuse my actions. I caught so much hell after him that I would ALWAYS think I was getting paid back for how I used him and his money. Too he always led with the wallet. His dad left a pool hall and houses to him and his brother and his mom so he always flexed at money was no problem. Riiight, like I said HARD to shake that dude off.

QC

December 28th, 2010
11:56 am

@M. that’s a good question i’ve not had that happen to me; but i’ve spoke to the ‘other woman’ on several occassions….at that time i was hurt..yep she thought it was funny…he..well, could not stop saying BABE..I’M SO SORRY..what ever %$#%^&!!! :(

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
11:56 am

wreck not wreaked

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
11:57 am

blue® BUT me and his mom’s was real cool. She was a real southern belle out of NC. Very sweet, refined, pretty older lady. She was trying to marry us after 2 mos though.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:01 pm

I am going downtown chicago today…

How about some cheesecake ice cream from Ghiradelli’s round the corner from Hershey’s :?:

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
12:01 pm

@blue ~ I was flummoxed that this woman was addicted to eating toilet paper, of all things.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
12:03 pm

@Celisea ~ honest post you posted I call those types “die hards.” There’s no way a man is going to do all that for a woman and not expect some form of an award. He will continue seeking that award until he’s appeased properly in his mind or sometimes, the clinking sound of handcuffs snaps them back to reality…been there, done that.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:04 pm

“I don’t understand. How can woman that fine have Hammer-Time on her feet?!?”

blue®

December 28th, 2010
12:05 pm

@Delight – gotta hold off on the trying to marry y0u thing, but a mom whos cool can be useful lol.
@Leggs – i saw that on the commercial and just had to stare…and the chick addictd to sleeping with her blow dryer? WTH?

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:05 pm

“all of a sudden or doesn’t want to do anything at all. Unexplained money or gifts show up”

Purple, that reminds me of the story about the guy that caught his ol’ lady in the rack with ol’boy.

Her- you know the $400 tax bill, ‘he paid it”.
Her- the $300 car repair “he paid it”.
Her- that coat I wanted “he bought it”.

Him- dam baby, reach over there and pull that blanket up on him before “he gets a cold”

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:06 pm

Leggs – “die hards.”

I will NEVER do anything of the sort as long as I’m breathing. Yes, die hard is how I’d peg.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:06 pm

‘K SexyCool you talking ’bout the “Blue People” smelling of Strange. :lol:

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:07 pm

Speaking of folks that caught their old lady cheating…did you all see the story on GMA where the dude is facing prosecution for going into his wife’s email to confirm that she was cheating?

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:07 pm

Leggs, what about the dirt eaters?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
12:08 pm

“Thats the problem. Alot of women think they can always manipulate guys lol….”

I don’t think it’s an issue of whether or not women think they can manipulate guys.
I think that it’s a simple concept to understand that the weak minded can and will be manipulated

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:08 pm

“Is that a nipple?”
“It has to be ’cause I just drooled.”

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:08 pm

…and the chick addictd to sleeping with her blow dryer? WTH?

Dayum near choked on my cjicken breast! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:12 pm

Yup, D23!

“Strange! Stinks so good!”

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:12 pm

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:13 pm

“If you don’t have to pay a woman for sex, then why do I have to pay every time we eat? I mean, I’m paying. That’s payment!”

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:15 pm

Ladies, do not let a guy invest in you to much without rewarding him. Those guys will go over the books eventually and may just snap. LOL Giving him some may save your life and keep your bills paid. Besides, you’ve given it up for less before. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
12:15 pm

great movie
Delight yeah it was on point.

I am a bit of an Anime freak…so yes…I know who Sio is. I will fondly take that name!
BMW I knew you’d accept my compliment. ;-)

dudes are not as smart as you think
I am they’re also not as dumb as most women think.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:16 pm

Ladies, do not let a guy invest in you to much without rewarding him.

Do not let a guy invest if you’re not willing to reciprocate (in whatever means…love, affection, attention, time)….if you don’t want him and not seriously, send him on his way…and vice versa

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:18 pm

Celisea, :) . Some people see nothing wrong with taking when they have the ability to say “no”. Nothing is free.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:19 pm

Guys, if a woman is doing stuff like your laundry, cooking for you, sending you smilie face texts or sometimes sleeping with you. In her mind you are her man.

kimmie-soon to be Mrs.

December 28th, 2010
12:20 pm

Celisea/Purple – That’s one of the things my mom used to preach to us – Nothing in this world is FREE!

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:22 pm

Guys, do not let a chick invest in you too much knowing you don’t want a real relationship with her in the first place. Those ladies will find out your true intentions of find out that you already have a girlfriend or wife eventually and may just snap. LOL

Leaving her be may save your life.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:23 pm

kimmie, it shocks me when people think it is. Funny when people have been going out for a few months then the gates come crashing down. He tries to kiss her or something and she is caught off guard. He should be able to get a refund or something. LOL

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:24 pm

Ladies, if a guy is doing stuff like your oil change, taking you out to eat, sending you “Thinking of you” texts or sometimes sleeping with you. You may be a part of his rotation.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:25 pm

PR & Kimmie – Yes, yes…nothing is free. At some point you’ll pay the price. That dude would call my job and start off nice and calm and ask to go out (this was after I decided to be done with it), if I said naaah I’ll pass..just as sure as heaven is happy he’d go into his rant of how he did so much and got played….EVERYTIME, never failed. A couple of times he showed up it was like, hey we’re having a party in Alpharetta, get some of your girls to come up with you…UMMM, NOT! Honestly, I think he had always led with the wallet and got what he wanted (but not really) that he couldn’t deal with getting no real return.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:25 pm

SexyCool, I agree :) I think women are more apt to kill during fits of rage than a man. A man just wants her to hurt a woman wants him eliminated from the living. LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:28 pm

SexyCool, do you really think a person does not know when he or she is in a “rotation”?

Celisea, he had self worth issues because it seems to me that his money defined him.

I am going to go out on a limb here and choose the Vikings to win tonight. LOL

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:29 pm

Purple Rain, do you really think a person does not know if a chick thinks he’s her man?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:33 pm

SexyCool, I just think that there has to be some sort of giveaway or something.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:34 pm

Purple_ put the pipe down man. “Just say No”.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:35 pm

Fion, LOL I was right about the Falcons so I have to choose my Vikes!

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
12:36 pm

@blue ~ I am going to have to watch that show. I think it’s called “Strange Addictions.” How in the heck does one get addicted to their blow dryer. Man, I think the wrong medication is being dispensed to a lot of these folk and a new one needs to be developed.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:37 pm

Who is addicted to a blow dryer? I wonder what I have an addiction to.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:38 pm

Ladies, do not let a guy invest in you to much without rewarding him. Those guys will go over the books eventually and may just snap. LOL Giving him some may save your life and keep your bills paid. Besides, you’ve given it up for less before. LOL

THAT WHOLE FREAKIN PARAGRAPH…LMAO!! :LOL:

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:38 pm

“do you really think a person does not know when he or she is in a “rotation”?

Ladies, at the risk of being disbarred, I’ll tell ya’ll the truth.
You run up on a ddue knocking down $80k and up. He’s got his stuff together. Ya sharing.
I’m just saying.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:39 pm

I meant dude…….

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:39 pm

Hear that Ladies :?: Doling out a little cookie every now and again just may save your life. :D

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:40 pm

PR – Celisea, he had self worth issues because it seems to me that his money defined him.

Honey, you won’t believe how many conversations we had about that…in which he swore NO WAY…but yeah, you know I told him about it. Too, he’s first cousin with John Starks (who was still playing at the time) so I NEVER heard the end of that.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:41 pm

You run up on a ddue knocking down $80k and up. He’s got his stuff together.

Nu-uh Fion. You’d be amazed. Money does NOT automatically equal grown azz man. :(

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:42 pm

“Fion, LOL I was right about the Falcons so I have to choose my Vikes!”

Purple_ Too much MV7!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:42 pm

Delight23, it’s the truth.

Fion, is $80k the magic number LOL

Guys and Gals if a person has destroyed your trust before are you able to really fully ever trust another person again or do you keep some in reserve for yourself?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:44 pm

Fion – He’s got his stuff together. Ya sharing.
I’m just saying.

You better believe it and if you think you ain’t in rotation with a dude that’s deep pocket (and still on the market…and not sometimes) ya sharing. This dude I’m talking about use to joke with me if I asked a question by saying, don’t worry about what I’m doing as long as you’re covered….the other reason why I never fully submerged…along with not really digging him like that. You go in knowing how the game is played. I ain’t cut from the sharing cloth so naw, I can’t/couldn’t do it.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:44 pm

met/dated a few high-fivers and more money sometimes equaled more BS. Now the six-plus(ers) were tight. But the one I really liked was a work-a-holic. He played hard, but worked even harder. Hey, gotta make his money. Just no real balance. :-(

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:44 pm

Money don’t make a man grown…true but money funds the game.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:45 pm

Fion, Vick would have been a lock for MVP had it not been for Brady’s error free streak. I am really happy for Vick he took his second chance and ran with it and he has a super fine girlfriend who stuck by his side. He is a blessed man, indeed!

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:46 pm

Nu-uh Fion. You’d be amazed. Money does NOT automatically equal grown azz man.

Deight23_ I don’t have to be right, I’m just saying. By and large, women are searching high and for men that fall in certain categories. Usually, men in this catagory have their pick, Just saying.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:49 pm

A male with money, whether he is a man or not. Well get in far more doors than a broke male, whether HE is a man or not.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:49 pm

Money don’t make a man grown…true but money funds the game.

Celisea, I was referring to the game still being sloppy. Not that there was not one in play.

Plus it depends on his line up. $80-$100K is franchise start-up material. $150K (depending on the stability of the source) will get you a few STAR players.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:50 pm

“Fion, is $80k the magic number LOL”

Purple_ Nah, just Ghetto Physics. All those that ain’t Pimping “R’ being played.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
12:50 pm

Well, $80K sounds better than the $60K we kept hearing about!!

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:52 pm

Fion 12:46PM Not about black/white right or wrong. As I said to Celisea the game at that income level in this city is still sloppy and that doesn’t equate to having it together.

Perhaps different idea/definition of having it “togehter” :?:

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:52 pm

Fion, isn’t everyone searching for folks with the most desirable characteristics, features, traits, abilities?

And by that reasoning, wouldn’t anyone, male or female who possess an abundance of that *desirability* have more options?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:52 pm

I wonder what minimum wage gets you on the dating scene.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:53 pm

Too, while we have independent women doing their own dang thing, there are so many looking for a comeuppance that at the sparkle of gold, a lot can be swayed. Sloppy or not…if the idea is present of all she can get, get paid, get in exchange…she’s sold

Fion

December 28th, 2010
12:53 pm

…..and I’ll go one step further, ladies ya’ll really don’t want to know!
Ya really don’t and it’s cool.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:54 pm

Yep, Leggs. We are now up to $80k.
Oh inflation!
Curse the economy! (lol)

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
12:54 pm

PR – I wonder what minimum wage gets you on the dating scene.

Much…if a broke dude can pimp, minimum wage got potential

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:57 pm

Celisea, seems he is a broke pimp if it’s minimum wage being paid.

Is there a dollar amount that guys look for in a woman to be making? LOL

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
12:57 pm

@PR ~ minimum wage dates will have you sitting on the stoop licking a popsicle!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:57 pm

I have seen situations when a woman leads with giving gifts and such all of the time.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
12:57 pm

And Fion, trust me when I say, there is a LOT you dudes don’t want to know about what we females are capable of.

It irks me when *some* dudes come across as seeming to feel superior and making it seem like ALL dudes got *the game* on lock and have some kind of upper hand over ALL females because of it.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
12:58 pm

@SexyC ~ you got mail.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
12:58 pm

…..and I’ll go one step further, ladies ya’ll really don’t want to know!
Ya really don’t and it’s cool.

If you’re sharing Fion…share.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
12:59 pm

Leggs, I think that would be a fun and different date, even though it’s cheap :)

In the battle of “capable of” I think women wear the crown.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:00 pm

@PR ~ do you remember my gf who’s dating the coach of her son’s track team! She’s a prime example of a woman leading with gifts and coochie. I believe he’s now living with her.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
1:00 pm

PR – Heck yeah minimum wage is broke but jobless is “broker”…there’s some weak game out there they’re induldging in…if they ain’t working somebody’s taking care of them..even if it’s mama that’s buying into. Maybe I’m going somewhere else in this convo. Shrugs

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:01 pm

Oh inflation! Curse the economy! (lol)

See SexyCool, that’s exactly why I say in this city $60-80K is just getting by. And the line-up will reflect this based on quality of the bench.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:01 pm

Well we are supposed to be superior and have the upper hand according to the good book. LOL

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:01 pm

@PR ~ I was wondering if anyone would read between the lines with that date. Popsicle toes all the way, my man, popsicle toes all the way!

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:01 pm

so is it fair to say broke dudes have you on lock and are not involved with rotation chicks?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:02 pm

Leggs, I don’t remember her. Is she happy? So the guy is getting by just by making dyyck payments?

Celisea, no since in being a broke pimp or broke dealer. LOL

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:02 pm

Maybe I’m going somewhere else in this convo. Shrugs

Naw, I’m following… :-)

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:03 pm

Well we are supposed to be superior and have the upper hand according to the good book. LOL

Which is why y’all followed us into the Garden right? I mean according to the very same good book. :P

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:04 pm

I Am, good point. According to theory the ladies should want a broke dude if they want a faithful man. LOL

Leggs, Yes I was over here thinking that would be a great date, with popsicles….plus you can check out her “popsicle” skills.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:05 pm

Plito – we must be reading different books. My *good* book does not say that.

Or…more likely, you are interpreting it to your benefit.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:06 pm

Delight, I was talking about the book of pimps, not the Bible. LOL But since you brought it up he didn’t follower her into the garden he left her un tended to and was out of place when someone came against his woman. He left, fact of the matter is that if you spend your time with your mate there is no room for any misdeeds or anything to happen. BOOM, that just happened. LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
1:08 pm

Delight – Naw, I’m following…

:)

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:08 pm

the things I get myself into.

Dude I’m not really into (no matter how much I try to convince myself otherwise) is on his way over
Guess I should go shower :-(

Fion

December 28th, 2010
1:09 pm

Sexy_ I was being funny with the Ghetto Physics comment. But your statement presupposes all experiences are bad.
Nothing wrong with looking for quality people. If you are of Quality the more people are seeking you out.By default you have more options.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:09 pm

Uh Oh, we are about to get into gender roles. LOL

The man is the leader, a woman wants to be led, yes she can have her say but the truth is..it is never equal because when stuff goes wrong she looks to the man to fix it. Can’t have two leaders, the majority has to be with one of them. Okay, ladies bring it! LOL

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
1:10 pm

I wonder what minimum wage gets you on the dating scene.
PR a Rucker Park bench player or a And 1 reject.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
1:10 pm

Alright, Imma pass today on what could become the battle of the sexes I’m going to get lunch. Maybe when I come back the topic will have turned :)

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:11 pm

pbbbbbllllltttttt :P

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:11 pm

Can’t figure what word the blogmaster has stuck in its throat!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:11 pm

Celisea, is our date 2012 or 2038..You know with the world ending and all, I just need to have my popscicles ready There is one christian group that is paying for billboards that read “Jesus is coming on May 21, 2011″

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:13 pm

The art of leading is to do so without actually appearing to do so. Delegation with the appearance of power…just saying. :D

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
1:13 pm

Awww KIMMMMMMMMIIEEEE! I super swear that I thought of you this past weekend and that you may have been asked a certain question… so I decided to check in today. CONGRATULATIONS, girl! I know you’re so excited. :)

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:13 pm

@PR ~I don’t know if she’s happy. She doesn’t share her relationship with me anymore. She never told me they were living together, another friend told me. She probably didn’t share the info with me because I told her what I thought of him when she first asked. Told her he probably was only interested in tackling her jungle. Some are truly fine with mere d…. payments…there’s someone for everyone!

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:14 pm

WOW, a word I used all the time now offends the Blogmaster! Go figure.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
1:14 pm

“If you’re sharing Fion…share.”

Delight23… Me , I’m just a “Garden Varity River Rat”

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:14 pm

Delight23, and that is the art that a real man masters until it gets to the “Would you just sit down and shut up!” stage. LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
1:15 pm

PR – Now you know I’on believe it’s given to any man/group/persons to predict the return of Christ but I’on joke about that stuff either…I’m a believer :)

Aside from that slight chastisement, we’re still on love for 2038. I like quality dudes, you gotta bring more than popscicles though right?

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:15 pm

I will not debate gender roles as I am one that believes in the whole “man as the head of household, submission” deal.

However, the thought of it as “superiority” or as an “upper-hand” grates on me in a crazy way.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:16 pm

There is somebody for everybody. I am just happy we are happy. I don’t care about anyone else. LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:16 pm

SexyCool, I am just trying to get you riled up for some makeup sexy time. LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
1:17 pm

PR – And if popscicles is the best you can do, I’ll still be present for the date….bring a box though…and sugar free

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:18 pm

“Would you just sit down and shut up!”

^THAT reminded me of TheDude this weekend. (Well, not the shut up part.)

I was trying to carry a box from the truck, up floor flights of stairs and dropped it. He looked at me and said, “Just leave it. Gone upstairs. I got this. You always trying to do too much.”

The authority in his tone was hot!!!

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:18 pm

Delight23, and that is the art that a real man masters until it gets to the “Would you just sit down and shut up!” stage. LOL

:lol: :lol: :lol: That’s when “we” break out the popsicle and get to the naked apology. Just need a little time to re-group and adjust the strategy :P

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:19 pm

Sorry for the interruption: Here are the blog award categories. If any of you are interested in playing along, I’ve set up an email address. Please send all votes to :arrow: Leggs52@yahoo.com. All votes will be tallied by two individuals and winners will be announced Thursday afternoon. The categories are as follows:

Best Posts
Best comebacks
Most creative
Most serious
Most Beloved
Most Analytical
Most “Huh” moments
Best Moniker
Worst Moniker
Most wittiest
Best Recap
Most Combative
Most loved for their understanding of life
Most don’t care what they say
Most Intellectual
Knows everything google doesn’t know
Most corniest
Most realist
Most horn iest
Most likely to live up to their blog persona
Most clueless
Most chattiest
Most friendliest
Longevity
Most Popular

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:19 pm

We can sit on a curb and eat popsicles, but we can’t go to a pool hall and have drinks?

Wait…it’s cool as long as the curb is in Vinings, right?

(teasing….)

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:20 pm

…my blood doesn’t flow south at the same rate as yours.

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:26 pm

Leggs! I wanna play

all bloggers are welcome to vote for me

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:27 pm

Leggs, I don’t know that many people to vote for all of those categories.

SexyCool, I haven’t told her to shut up but I have said be quiet. Sometimes you all just try and do to much. LOL

Celisea, sugar free :)

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:28 pm

If I don’t win the “huh” moment category or the Don’t care what they say category. I will have a Kanye moment!

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:31 pm

I’m not into dude but I just asked if I could check him out while he dj’s tonight
smh

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
1:31 pm

Leggs – Can we vote the same person for different categories?

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:32 pm

@SexyC ~ yep. I can sit on a stoop and eat popsicles and have a lot of fun talking than sitting up in a dirty pool hall reeking of cigarettes and liquor…yep, that’s what I’m saying. The stoop could be at 1206 Franklin Avenue, Bronx NY. Still would be a better date.

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
1:33 pm

DREAMS But he’d still be a baller, with a baller’s build, right? lol She’ll probably still be happy, then.

I think lotsa times men paint the women’s intentions (must be an NBA groupie) rather than take us at face value. Then after parting ways it becomes crystal clear and that’s when the boomerang really happens. Dudes will point out your stellar qualities (to you)as if they’ve just suddenly appeared.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:35 pm

You can nominate as many people as you want for any particular category. Some people definitely fall into many categories.

@PR ~ vote for those you know that will fit the category.

@SexyC ~ I know you’re making fun of me in a fun way…no sweat!

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:35 pm

As long as he asks you if you like popsicles right, though, right?

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
1:38 pm

in this city $60-80K is just getting by.
Delight When did Atlanta get so uppity?
Median income for a male according to the census:
Dunwoody – $70k.
Alpharetta – $69k
Sandy Springs – $60k.

A single person in Atlanta making $60k-$80k should be doing quite well for themselves. They can buy a decent house in a decent neighborhood, drive a nice car, travel, etc. Unless they’re just financially irresponsible, they’re hardly “getting by”. Now if this were NY or San Fran, I’d say you were right on the money.

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
1:39 pm

I AM – Do you think getting lots of immediate attention from anyone, even if they’re of little consequence is equal to or better than waiting and getting some attention from a person who actually matters to you?

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:43 pm

Okay. Sometimes, I don’t know what gets this blog filter going.

What in theheck could be wrong with saying that I like grape popsicles and would be swinging my feet off the stoop besides Leggs and her date?!?!?

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:44 pm

He wouldn’t have to ask, everyone who meets me knows popsicles and pizza are two of my favorites…it finds it’s way into the convo pretty early on (LOL).

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:45 pm

Go on den, TeeTee! (lol)

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:46 pm

Shyyyyyyttttttttttttt… (long draw like Bunk from the Wire) dude on his way and I’m not dressed.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:46 pm

@SexyC ~ :lol: :lol: I like orange and grape. Come sit down. My date would love to talk to the both of us outside watching the people go by.

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:48 pm

Two pennies: dude has some qualities I like in a mate and other qualities I can do without.
Right now, I’m just having fun enjoying his company. No, I am not sleeping with him.

Leggs ~ Just Like You (Sapphire CD)

December 28th, 2010
1:52 pm

@I am ~ how do you go from “needing some so badly” you’re about to scream to not sleeping with dude who has a working part and wants to be with you and you’re liking some of his qualities? Just asking…

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
1:52 pm

SEXXY I wait with bated breath for the answer. (Prolly gon pass out hahahaaaaa!)

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
1:54 pm

Delight When did Atlanta get so uppity?

Um, what’s decent to some is getting by to others. By the time one maxes out their deductions, pays mortgage (not rent) in a market where home values have yet to bottom out, sets aside property taxes, HOA fees, water, electric (or gas with monopolistic rates) day to day upkeep (lawncare,appliance upkeep) insurance (health, home and auto), food, gas, clothing, etc. just how much “disposable” income are you looking at for entertainment for two?

If Blockbuster and Pizza Hut works, then Kudos. I like to travel and am working on some foreign investment property. $60K ain’t covering all of that. TRUST.

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
1:55 pm

I AM Of course, I’ve been MIA so I don’t know the history, but he didn’t seem to have more Pros than Cons. So if the qualities you like are not specific to him and the ones you don’t outweigh, is it more about just getting an attention fix or are you really tryna give him a chance? And are they one in the same to you?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
1:57 pm

I Am, you have a guy on the way over and you are here with us still. Nope you do not think to much of him. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
1:57 pm

Leggs: just because I have moments when I feel like hunching does not mean I actually act on it.
I sorta kinda made a vow that I wouldn’t hunch unless I was married but wouldn’t punish myself if i did it as long as I was in a committed relationship.
After being saved (I was saved in July) it’s been hard for me to go thru with the act of hunching.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
1:57 pm

Delight23_ hey i need an accountant. Wondered where my money was going! lol

RUserious

December 28th, 2010
1:58 pm

I have few guy friends, and if what they tell me about men is true;I will continue to stay single!

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
1:59 pm

Does he know that you are not that into him? Or is he hanging out thinking you have the potential to be all in?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
2:00 pm

my two pennies: I’m just trying to sit back and observe on this situation with dude. I’ve known him for awhile but didn’t start hanging with him till recently.
There’s something about him that’s a deal breaker in terms of being serious with him.
I will not disclose that to him because I don’t want a representative to appear.
i want him to figure this out on his own and make changes on his own free will.

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
2:02 pm

Sexy cool: I could be wrong but I have a feeling that he is waiting for me to cave in.
don’t get me wrong, dude is a nice guy and I have a lot of fun with him.
I don’t know if it’s enough to take it to the next level though.

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:02 pm

@I am ~ I hear what your saying, hmmmm, OK.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
2:03 pm

RUSerious – what kind of guys are you around that make you want to swear off men?!? If your male friends are *that* horrible, maybe you need to get some new ones.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
2:03 pm

I am_ Now I I know I’m missed up, but I can’t make that make sense in my own mind.

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:03 pm

But if he makes the necessary “changes” will that take him out of “deal breaker” status?

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
2:04 pm

Okay, now you’re sounding like you may, possibly, could, kinda, ALMOST be into him after all.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
2:04 pm

Dam! Dam! Dam! (Florida Evans voice)

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
2:06 pm

Delight23_ hey i need an accountant. Wondered where my money was going! lol

Shoot, Fion I wish I could open up some offshore account cuz nobody’s paying isht over here. Investments are just stagnant. Da h3ll I’m suppose to do with a 1.75% return on bal of $15K-$50K in cash??!! Liquid! Not portion tied up in CD’s and Bonds. The Money Market piece.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
2:09 pm

Leggs…nice categories….perhaps you should post ‘em again tomorrow, so folks can digest ‘em….

and I am…….you’ve been saved since July? interesting.

Sassy Me..If you ask me I'm ready:-)

December 28th, 2010
2:10 pm

now you’re sounding like you may, possibly, could, kinda, ALMOST be into him after all.

ummm sorta…

I will not disclose that to him because I don’t want a representative to appear.
i want him to figure this out on his own and make changes on his own free will.

Talk about mixed signals…how is he supposed to know and correct the situation if he doesn’t know. It’s like you’re expecting him to read your mind and that’s not fair.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
2:11 pm

Delight23_ you wait to QE2 hits and you’ll see under 1% on cash.

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
2:11 pm

Are we allowed to vote for ourselves in as many categories, regardless if they apply to us or not? lol

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:13 pm

Slim, how is your male friend situation going?

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:16 pm

@2C ~ thanks. Yeah, I’ll repost in the early part of the day because I won’t be on the blog after 12 noon tomorrow. But, will be back on Thursday to give the results.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
2:16 pm

Who is certifying the results? What does the trophy look like? Will there be ceremony swag bags given out?
Is there a dress code?
How much time for acceptance speeches?
Who the mc’ing the show?

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:17 pm

@SlimNU ~ put it this way, I voted for myself in a couple of the categories (LOL)

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
2:17 pm

yes, if he makes the necessary changes, that takes him out of deal breaker status

Fion

December 28th, 2010
2:17 pm

I am_ i’m throwing the flag on you. # 00 is ejected and ordered to leave the field of play!

Sassy Me..If you ask me I'm ready:-)

December 28th, 2010
2:18 pm

if he makes the necessary changes, that takes him out of deal breaker status

But how can he correct something he has no knowledge of?

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
2:19 pm

Sassy Me:

I don’t want a guy to change just in hopes that I will be with him, then once he gets me he’s back to old ways.
If he discusses with me that he wants to take things to another level, then I may bring it up.
right now, it’s too premature

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:19 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol:

No dress code since I will be in my pjs. One short post for acceptance speech (3 sentences only).

The trophy will be a mental one. Just pleasure in knowing what your blog peers, oops, bloggers think of you.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:19 pm

I Am, so he has a deal breaker quality that he doesn’t know about but if it changes then it is no longer a deal breaker? C’mon man, you are crazy. LOL What if it just changes for a short time or something. LOL. Congrats on faith since July, remember the road is a hard one so don’t beat yourself up if you slip and fall a few times

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:21 pm

“There’s something about him that’s a deal breaker in terms of being serious with him.” You made this sound definitive. Now, you’re saying you can work with him if he changes…THEN TELL HIM!!!

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
2:21 pm

In my aunt esther voice to Fion: Well fugggggggggggggggggg you!!!!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:21 pm

I AM, your new male friend wears Pajama Jeans doesn’t he? I don’t blame you for that being a deal breaker

Fion

December 28th, 2010
2:21 pm

Again (Florida Evans voice) “Dam! Dam! Dam!”

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
2:22 pm

uggghh…blog monster got me. :cry:

I am whatever you say I am

December 28th, 2010
2:23 pm

Purple: people change. Meaning that one day , the thing he does now may not be what he does in the future.
If people looked at me the same way as 10 years ago, there would be no hope for me.
I’m not that same person.
The only thing that remains constant is change

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
2:23 pm

Congrats on faith since July, remember the road is a hard one so don’t beat yourself up if you slip and fall a few times

Amen here and just a repeat…being saved ain’t hard the dealing with and in the flesh ain’t no cake walk…stand strong “sister”

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:23 pm

Well damn! What if he wakes up one morning and realizes this particular trait in his personality is a negative one and rectifies it. What happens when its replaced with another deal breaker in your eyes?

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
2:23 pm

:lol: Fion, I was replying to your QE2 predictions…we’re already there. Average daily balance of cash <$10K are paying 0.5% – 0.75%

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
2:24 pm

Best bet right are your non-traditional brick and mortars.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:24 pm

Where is Swiss so he can sing some Night Ranger with me?
Sister Christian
Oh, the time has come And you know That you’re the only one to say Okay..Where you going…What you looking for..You know those boys…Don’t want to play no more..With you it’s true
You’re mooootoorinnnnggggggggg
What’s your price for flightIn finding mister righ…tYou’ll be all right tonight

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
2:25 pm

No, I am not sleeping with him.
I am well since you ain’t dressed yet and he’s on his way over, you might as well gon’ ‘head and get that outta the way. lol

$60K ain’t covering all of that. TRUST.
Delight Hmmmm, I can attest that LESS than $60k can cover all that and some. When I finished grad school, I worked for the Air Force in California (way more expensive than Atlanta) making about $50k, and I owned a home, had two paid for vehicles, traveled, invested (stocks, mutual funds, 401k), and I was very active on the LA dating scene. I never had to eat Pizza Hut because I usually cooked, but I could eat out when I wanted. I also maintained my own lawn instead of paying someone to do it. No HOA fees because I did the legwork to find a nice neighborhood where they didn’t have any. If someone is making $60k-$80k in Atlanta and just getting by, then they need to come see me…let me put them on the right path. I won’t even charge…much. lol

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:26 pm

@I am ~ seriously, he may not even know it’s a deal breaker. If you see he wants to be with him, let him know. If he changes, it may not be just for you. He may also see the light and change for himself because going forward it may still hinder him in the eyes of another (even if you’re not the right one for him).

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
2:28 pm

I used to think that way. “Don’t tell a dude what you’re looking for and he will become that dude.”

However, if you are clear upfront what your expectations are, then a person has an opportunity to make a decision about whether or not they are willing or even able to meet those expectations.

I mean, you wouldn’t take a job without knowing the job description, would you? And you wouldn’t be on that job without knowing with criteria upon which your performance will be reviewed….at least not if you want to be a good employee, right?

Communicating with a person about your relationship needs should be done. It is then up to you to keep a reign on your emotions and avoid jumping in before they have been proven, qualified.

Perhaps, you should tell dude what the deal is. Then, take the opportunity to perform your due diligence, should he be willing to accomodate your request.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:28 pm

I AM, you are in a spiritual vs flesh paradigm…old mind vs new mind, I will pray for you darling :)

Jay Z does not know what to do with Beyonce, she needs to come spend some time with “The Rain”. LOL That Vizio commercial with her in it has me wanting to spend some time with her!

Sassy Me..If you ask me I'm ready:-)

December 28th, 2010
2:28 pm

I don’t want a guy to change just in hopes that I will be with him, then once he gets me he’s back to old ways.

How do you know he’s going to do that? You’re setting this dude up for failure already. So what if he changes for real and on the up and up then what….another hoop to jump through. Usually if you genuinely care about someone and WANT to be with them then you’ll let them know that there’s something bothering you. But it sounds like you’re gonna lay in the cut and watch him eff up or something…

You made this sound definitive. Now, you’re saying you can work with him if he changes…THEN TELL HIM!!!

Ditto…

Either way do what works best for you…hopefully he won’t get tired of you being all luke warm/tepid and call that his dealbreaker with you…only you didn’t know it. Best of luck to ya :mrgreen:

Fion

December 28th, 2010
2:29 pm

Delight23_ I here ya. For real though, I wish I understood the commdities and currency markets better. 2011 should be hot there.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:29 pm

Dreams, how was the dating scene in L.A?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:31 pm

I am very upfront and tell them what may be a deal breaker. Darling, I really like you but you can’t fix ugly…and unfortunately ugly is a deal breaker for me.

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
2:31 pm

DreamsMat – I have to agree. If folks are struggling on $60K (especially if they are single), then they have some pss poor money management skills and/or some misplaced priorities.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
2:31 pm

Dreams….I can attest to this too ~~~~~> “that LESS than $60k can cover all that and some.”

conversely, all that tells me is that Delight is a big spender!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:35 pm

(As I see Delight and her new man)
I see you driving ’round town
With the girl i love and i’m like,
F you!
Oo, oo, ooo
I guess the change in my pocket
Wasn’t enough i’m like,
F you!
And f her too!
I said, if i was richer, i’d still be with ya
Ha, now ain’t that some shhhh?
And although there’s pain in my chest
I still wish you the best with a…
F you!
Oo, oo, ooo

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:36 pm

Delight is related to the Professor, you got to have some money to mess with those women LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:39 pm

Maybe, it’s me, maybe I bore u
No no, it’s my fault, cos I can’t afford u
Maybe baby, puffy, jay z
would all be better for u
Cos all I can do is luv u

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:42 pm

She takes my money, when I’m in need. Yes she’s a trifling, friend indeed. Oh, she’s a gold digger way over town that digs on me…Now I ain’t saying she a gold digger

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
2:43 pm

Yup, a good soundtrack for that mindset.

QC

December 28th, 2010
2:44 pm

Who ever said ‘having a heater blow on you in a cold office don’t make you sleepy was a liar’ HELP ME….I’M SOOOOOOOO SLEEPY :(

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
2:45 pm

After being saved (I was saved in July) it’s been hard for me to go thru with the act of hunching.
I am What does being saved have to do with sex?

For real though, I wish I understood the commdities and currency markets better. 2011 should be hot there.
Fion Emerging markets usually promise strong returns, although they tend to present substantially more risk because of their high volatility. If your older and have a family, it’s not the best option because you have too much to lose. If your young and have a little cash, I’d say do your research and go for it all day.

Dreams, how was the dating scene in L.A?
PR Off the chains! Think of your ideal type (whatever that is) and there’s a ton of those to choose from. You say you like Beyonce…well you could safely wake up one morning and decide you only wanted to date Beyonce types for the next year, and there would always be a fresh supply available.

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
2:45 pm

‘how is your male friend situation going?’

Purp – It’s going…will keep you posted of any craziness.

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:48 pm

@QC ~ after lunch, these heaters are thy enemy!

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
2:49 pm

Well, I meant the John Legend cuz it sounds to me like a No Romance without Finance 2011 mentality regarding what she feels it’ll take to support a chosen lifestyle. Not that she wants to just life off anybody.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:51 pm

Dreams, are the women out there to get along with or are they damaged mentally?

QC

December 28th, 2010
2:51 pm

@ Leggs…yes they are but this one had it in for me before lunch and now i can’t stop yawning…..let me turn this thang off!!!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:51 pm

Easy to get along with

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:52 pm

Thank you for the votes that have already come in…this is interesting and fun!

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
2:53 pm

I know someone who’s super saved and employs hunching to control her base desires b/c she is contantly reminded to “Stay Saved!” via text and everyday conversation. Her efforts have led to two baby daddies, multiple broken engagements, and a constant struggle with living up to the lofty expectations of others. Apparently if the aim is to only hunch you wouldn’t have any actual birth control as they would suggest an intent for completion of the act? I guess.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:54 pm

If I am dating, that person would not have a clue to how much I make until we were well into the relationship. Appearances can not be what they seem. The broke guy could be rich, the rich guy could be broke

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:54 pm

@WD ~ hope you decide to vote as well.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
2:56 pm

$60K ain’t covering all of that. TRUST.
Delight Hmmmm, I can attest that LESS than $60k can cover all that and some. When I finished grad school, I worked for the Air Force in California (way more expensive than Atlanta) making about $50k, and I owned a home, had two paid for vehicles, traveled, invested (stocks, mutual funds, 401k), and I was very active on the LA dating scene. I never had to eat Pizza Hut because I usually cooked, but I could eat out when I wanted. I also maintained my own lawn instead of paying someone to do it. No HOA fees because I did the legwork to find a nice neighborhood where they didn’t have any. If someone is making $60k-$80k in Atlanta and just getting by, then they need to come see me…let me put them on the right path. I won’t even charge…much. lol

*********

You are comparing a gov’t salary and benefits with that of one in the private sector.

What I want out of my health plan may not what you want.

The amounts that I choose to invest, maxing out, may not be the amount you chose to invest, nor may be the total number of investments.

I want a “nice” neighborhood WITH an HOA for the security of my property values. I don’t need that one family who decides a Purple exterior with a water fountain 2/3 the size of the front lawn is their idea of a home improvement.

When I travel I certainly make the effort to obtain the best deals, BUT I have no acess to the readily given military discount. This includes the discounts afforded to you by shopping on base for everything from a set of tires to a lof of bread.

You can’t compare Uncle Sam to private sector. I stand by my assessment that comfortable for some is getting by for others.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
2:56 pm

I see right now this gonna be a bashing session for saved folks. For all that don’t know being saved ain’t an out of body experience and nope God does not remove anything you felt before you got save. Subsequent to believing, you start making choices based on your faith and belief but never do you cross over into becoming perfect. Too, good thing God is a forgiving God cause humans can be something else

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:57 pm

I would think that the act of sex is only one of many obstacles in a path of being “saved”. Nobody is perfect so why try to be..just do your best in every situation.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
2:57 pm

I would think that the act of sex is only one of many obstacles in a path of being “saved”. Nobody is perfect so why try to be..just do your best in every situation.

Let me just repost this…it bears repeating

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
2:58 pm

How do you stay “saved” but can still hunch??? Why hunch if you have no intention of pentration. I do not, I do not, I do not believe in working myself up nor him only to turn around and O in my clothes or even worse, to stop in the middle of a hunch burn. I don’t get it!!! I don’t start what I have no intention of finishing. Now, that’s playing with my nerves! If you can hunch you can go all the way. Just because you haven’t taken your clothes off doesn’t make you more of a person….WTH????

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
2:59 pm

Celisea, I don’t think anyone is bashing “saved” folks. I know what salvation is and the choice of obtaining salvations and I know that you can not lose salvation. If someone is worried about what others are saying about their salvation, they need to question themselves on if they really have salvation

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:00 pm

….and if you’re hunching…the Good Lord would tell you gon head and gitcha some…come on back, repent and start over (on your path to abstinence). The act, thought or intention all places you in the same place. If you get that far into, gon head and start over tomorrow. Okay, I’m backing off and lurking….

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:00 pm

conversely, all that tells me is that Delight is a big spender!

2G You need to READ both sides of the discussion. My spending is in my savings. I pay me first. Additionally I am working on investment property outside of the US.

Ultimately what your statement tells me is you have selective reading and lazily run with it.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:01 pm

Celisea, I don’t think anyone is bashing “saved” folks

I said that’s where it was heading

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:01 pm

@Celisea ~ don’t get me wrong…I truly am bashing hunching, not being saved! You’re absolutely right, the feeling remains whether you saved or not, just don’t use “being saved” as the reason why you’re hunching.

Hey, perhaps it’s me. Maybe I don’t have the right definition to hunching. To me, it means dry humping while in your clothes, busting slob all over the place but no penetration of female to male appendage. The end result was still reached, but now you have wet panties? So, I’m only bashing hunching.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:02 pm

Leggs, do you act on every action that you think about? Because in some circles if you think it you might as well do it.

Fion

December 28th, 2010
3:03 pm

“I see right now this gonna be a bashing session for saved folks.”

All hethens to the left please. let’s keep the lines moving folks!

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
3:04 pm

I am LMAO. We are discussing *hunching*.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:04 pm

Celisea,…well it’s almost 2012/2038 and a hunch will not suffice. Lord forgive me but I am going to fornicate and adulturate and penetrate that woman. LOL

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:05 pm

@PR ~ no, I don’t.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:05 pm

SexyCool, LOL It just crossed my mind what adult still hunches?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:05 pm

Which is better catching your kid hunching or having sex?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:06 pm

Leggs – I was agreeing with you 2:58.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:06 pm

Leggs, so you saying that you thought of hunching me but just didnt? :(

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:07 pm

How many hunch dates do you have before the sex date?

Fion

December 28th, 2010
3:08 pm

I’ve never read so many sexual repressed folks in my life. And ya’ll cracked on me about giving therpy as a gift! “Why I outta!”

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:08 pm

Please do not confuse hunching with humping. BIG DIFFERENCE

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
3:08 pm

PR – I have a hunch that this topic is taking on a life of its own.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:08 pm

Which is better catching your kid hunching or having sex?

:lol: Penis in OR just about to go in?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:08 pm

PR – I’m just speaking to have full knowledge that one is no worse than the other. Not saying we don’t have bad thoughts…we all do. But knowlegdge is knowing taking or allowing myself to the brink void of penetr@tion AND BELIEVING it’s “not quite as bad” was my point…it’s all the same level of “bad” I ain’t knocking nobody cause I know my weaknesses…heck I LOVE sex…

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:09 pm

It just crossed my mind what adult still hunches?

<<<—thinking same thing. Da h3ll?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:09 pm

I have a hunch that this topic is taking on a life of its own.

LOL ba domp domp

kimmie-soon to be Mrs.

December 28th, 2010
3:09 pm

That saved “no intention of following thru” thus not using birth control mindset is classic DL behavior also. It means admitting that you are going to do something you profess not to believe in doing outside of marriage.

It gets a lot of people in trouble. Like Leggs said and what I’ve said before, don’t put yourself in that situation to begin with. No need in looking crazy later when you have to pay the consequences.

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:09 pm

@Celisea ~ I know you were. I commented on your 2:56 not your 3:00. No problem.

@PR ~ Exactly! :lol: :lol:

@PR ~ both is sad because with hunching you realize they may already be sexing! I don’t want to catch either situation.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:09 pm

SexyCool, I have a hunch that it’s going to lead to some humping. LOL

Delight, LOL :)

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:11 pm

@Fion ~ now, that was my first cover my mouth and laugh today joke….”why I otta.” :lol: :lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:11 pm

Celisea, would you please tell me what your weakness is again? :)

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:11 pm

PR – Celisea,…well it’s almost 2012/2038 and a hunch will not suffice. Lord forgive me but I am going to fornicate and adulturate and penetrate that woman. LOL

Boy you silly :)

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
3:12 pm

Please explain how ‘hunching’ is greatly different than ‘humping’????

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
3:12 pm

You should hunch a bunch during lunch.
You can call in Hunch in a Crunch.
Do you munch while you hunch?
Does your hunch pack a punch?

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:13 pm

@PR ~ see in my book, hunching and humping is the same thing. Over by my old stomping grounds, we used both words interchangeably. Perhaps that’s why I don’t know which one you guys are really talking about. :lol:

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:13 pm

You should hunch a bunch during lunch.
You can call in Hunch in a Crunch.
Do you munch while you hunch?
Does your hunch pack a punch?

Okay, I’m rolling over here…ya’ll silly

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
3:14 pm

Just call me the Dr. Suess of hunching.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:15 pm

SexyCool, I munch before I hunch

Slim, hunching is clothes on. Humping is actual penetration. Can I have two volunteers? Okay thank you Fion and Leggs for stepping up. See Slim, Fion had intentions on just hunching on Leggs booty, but Leggs said darn that and went full gusto and pulled up her dress, now Fion is officially humping legs

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:15 pm

Thank you, SlimNU for your question at 3:12. I’m getting a headache! :lol:

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:16 pm

Please do not confuse hunching with humping. BIG DIFFERENCE

Hmmm….angle of the hips versus force used, or number of “storkes” what :?:

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:17 pm

@PR ~ :lol: :lol: guess you broke that down. Alrighty then, NEXT….

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:17 pm

Hunching, you can be hunching while dancing. But when you are inside of her you start to hump that thing!

The views expressed in my posting are mine soley and do no represent the entire male population!

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:17 pm

Just call me the Dr. Suess of hunching.

No kidding…I honestly thought “Dr Seuss”

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:17 pm

strokes. dayum mis-spelled it and put it in quotes. :lol:

oh, well. who holds late afternoon conference calls last week of the year. pssshhh.

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
3:18 pm

I think I am said a few days ago that “hunching” to her is actually having sex, and that’s why I wanted the clarification.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:19 pm

Delight, if you need to come back after class for some one on one tutorials please let me know. LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:19 pm

During a hunch slapping the booty is not acceptable, but during a hump it is.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:20 pm

What’s up with clients sending emails void of phone numbers? Gheesh…

(did that take ya’lls minds off hunching)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
3:20 pm

“Ultimately what your statement tells me is you have selective reading and lazily run with it.”

yep, pretty much….what was that again bout you and me goin overseas, and gettin a rental?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:22 pm

Celisea, “Ain’t nobody humping around” – Bobby Brown. LOL

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:23 pm

Elton John just became a father. I do not want to read that article.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:23 pm

yep, pretty much….what was that again bout you and me goin overseas, and gettin a rental?

:lol: see, *thwap* right up the back of your head.

Delight23...resolving early

December 28th, 2010
3:25 pm

Purple Rain: Elton John just became a father. I do not want to read that article.

:roll: Saw that. Don’t want it, but want what it produces :?:

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
3:29 pm

Leggs, you forgot a category…

blogger(s) you’d like to hunch!

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
3:31 pm

Now Purp, I’ve heard the term ‘dry humping’…so is that not the correct verbage?

SexyCool – Horton Hears a Hunch & a Humpin’ followed by a little munching. Next sound was a little crunching to cover up that long johnson. lol Okay I think i’ll leave that alone, especially since i’ve been reading my niece Dr Seuss books all weekend.

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
3:32 pm

You can’t compare Uncle Sam to private sector. I stand by my assessment that comfortable for some is getting by for others.
Delight I wasn’t in the military. I was a civilian employee, so I didn’t have access to travel discounts or shopping on base. Those were reserved for actual military personnel. The benefits I got later working in the private sector were much better than the ones I had as a civilian employee.

HOA or no HOA is personal preference. There are countless cases of HOA’s doing more harm than good for their neighborhoods. Of course the whole “homeownership” concept is generally a farce anyway since most people don’t actually own the home they’re living in. All they’re doing is paying a debt that they hope will appreciate enough for them to acquire a larger debt (bigger home). A financially astute renter is actually in a much better position to accumulate liquid assets than is the average homeownerfinancer.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:39 pm

A few words about myself…..culminating, finest, first, first-class, first-rate, foremost, greatest, highest, incomparable, inimitable, leading, matchless, nonpareil, number 1, optimum, out-of-sight, outstanding, paramount, peerless, perfect, preeminent, premium, prime, primo, principal, sans pareil, second to none, super, superlative, supreme, terrific, tops, tough, transcendent, unequaled, unparalleled, unrivaled, unsurpassed

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
3:39 pm

I skip hunching all together these days. Who needs it?!? What urge did hunching ever satisfy…just sayin’. lol

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
3:42 pm

C….have you reconsidered “our” offer?

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
3:42 pm

P-lito – you forgot one – modest.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:43 pm

SexyCool, I seem to have left modest out…I wonder why. LOL

Fion

December 28th, 2010
3:43 pm

Sexy_ now that’s funny! lol.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:46 pm

So if you ask about a person and that post does not come through that means that they are banned?

Fion

December 28th, 2010
3:49 pm

“Come and get me Mother I’m through.”

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:50 pm

2Can – I actually opted to pass on the offer. Eh, can you sweeten the deal?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:50 pm

Just WOW PR – you are some kind of wonderful!!! :)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
3:51 pm

“Eh, can you sweeten the deal?”

sure can….and if anyone asks you anything about our negotiations, just pulla Cam Newton, and tell ‘em you’on know nuttin!

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:52 pm

Celisea, adding “wonderful” to the list. LOL

Sassy Me..If you ask me I'm ready:-)

December 28th, 2010
3:54 pm

just pulla Cam Newton, and tell ‘em you’on know nuttin!

:lol:

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:57 pm

2Can – sure can….and if anyone asks you anything about our negotiations, just pulla Cam Newton, and tell ‘em you’on know nuttin!

Alright let’s do the dang thing…get the negotiations started. Don’t be bringing none of your other wives or I’ll change my mind on the spot. Out of sight out of mind in order to get through the deal.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
3:58 pm

PR – “freaking wonderful?” Too much?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
3:58 pm

There is always room for “freaking wonderful”

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
3:58 pm

Toucan – that’s just like my FB post from the other day, “Unless you saw me do it, I didn’t do it. And if you *think* you saw me do it, I’m pretty sure you were just seeing things.”

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:00 pm

Sexy Cool can I borrow that please?

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
4:01 pm

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
4:02 pm

Wait so are we adding “bloggers you’d like to bone hunch” to the list?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:02 pm

Leggs – I actually did my list from my phone cause you know they got us blocked here but my email didn’t go through, at least that was the error message. So, if you get 2 from me go with the latter.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:03 pm

“Toucan – that’s just like my FB post from the other day, “Unless you saw me do it, I didn’t do it. And if you *think* you saw me do it, I’m pretty sure you were just seeing things.”

touche’….”believe none of what you hear, and only some of what you see!”

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:05 pm

Blogger we’d like to hunch? Ok I will do my list here in the open for every category. LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:06 pm

I’ve actually gotten a good bit of work done today :) I feel guilty like a mug when I blog and hardly work…for real…I do

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
4:07 pm

Ok so I’m campaigning for
“Blogger you’d like to give some” from the ladies.
That one’s not on the list, so you can just send your vote to me personally. hahaha

Leggs

December 28th, 2010
4:08 pm

@Celisea ~ ok, I’ll go with the latter.

I have to skiddaddle. Boss in Mississippi and just pdf me a questionnaire with about 150 revisions. Check in on you guys tomorrow. Keep sending me your award nominations. Thank yhou.

ATL Guy

December 28th, 2010
4:09 pm

Celisea just typed what I was thinking … you all need to get a Life & Do Something Productive !!! How bout that for Dating Karma …

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:12 pm

aiiight, C, here’s my initial offer:

Your own wing in the house, weekly allowance, own personal assistant, car with driver, healthcare, and “family” credit card for your own incidentals and expenses.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:16 pm

2Can – Deal…where do I sign?

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:17 pm

“2Can – Deal…where do I sign?”

a handshake still works for me!

ATL Guy

December 28th, 2010
4:19 pm

What is this … Mail Order Bride !?!?

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:20 pm

Celisea, what are the nights that 2CPTG, lets you have off?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:20 pm

Atl Guy…no mail order here, we’re sealing the deal in person…2Can don’t know it yet.

2Can – No handshakes, you might renig…I need paper contracts and we need to meet somewhere in the middle so I can sign hard copies….K?

mytw♥cents

December 28th, 2010
4:21 pm

LEGGS I never heard that term till I got down here and went to college. Sounds like a hump is a hump is a hunch. And I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment about the futuility of it all. I don’t think most get involved with it unless it’s categorized under foreplay.

TenderRoni

December 28th, 2010
4:21 pm

sweet deal…lol

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:22 pm

PR – Celisea, what are the nights that 2CPTG, lets you have off?

Seeing I just became betrothed (I think…ain’t that what we were doing), Imma start off right and let him take the reigns…I can’t go in all bossy and overstepping my hubby to be. Dear (2Can) you can to answer. If you get no response PR I guess the silence would be the obvious answer

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
4:23 pm

“What is this … Mail Order Bride !?!?”

See…this is what happens when individuals come in on the tail-end of a conversation.

All up in the Kool-Aid…..

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:23 pm

Celisea, I have a feeling that I should have picked a year that was sooner than 2038, 2CPTG leave some for me. LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:23 pm

….and don’t know the flava…k that was corny but that’s how we use to say it

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:25 pm

PR – No worries…dear By year 2038 I will have had a new everything added/put in/replaced. You shouldn’t have to work with seconds. Nothing but the nu nu for you….dear

DreamsMaterialize

December 28th, 2010
4:25 pm

2Can – Deal…where do I sign?
Dang Celisea that was too easy. Negotiation 101: whoever makes the first offer loses. There was nowhere but up to go for you. Instead of a wing in the house, might have asked for the guest house. Could have also thrown in flexibility to have visitors of your choosing. You’ll want to personally choose your personal assistant, driver, and type of car. Make sure incidentals also covers personal vacations as well as “accidentals”. lol Come on now…

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
4:25 pm

‘“bloggers you’d like to bone hunch’

I’d like to see the list of nominated person(s) lol

SexyCool

December 28th, 2010
4:26 pm

Celisea – you can always add riders to the contract.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:28 pm

Dreams – your 4:25 is actually okay. You’re my first husband and those are a few small additions for us to enjoy at the expense of 2Can and all his other gals….don’t fret, I got this

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:28 pm

Purp, in our family the ladies come and go as they please; We have weekly meetings to see if everyone has met, or is on par to meet, their budget, and go over new business ventures.

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:28 pm

SexyCool – you can always add riders to the contract.

Shhh, don’t say nothing but 2Can was an “add-on”

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
4:29 pm

2C – I know i’ve been in and out today but um….is there something you failed to let me know? Hmmmm

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:29 pm

SexyCool are you under contract?

Slim?

LOL

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:31 pm

See Dreams…Purp, in our family the ladies come and go as they please; he ain’t watching like he should. We got off good I’d say :)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:31 pm

hol’ up….ye’en trynna juice me, are you, C? I recruited you because I see the potential in you! Now, if you wanna go back to that “alley cat, hush puppy shoe wearin” dude, be my guest….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:33 pm

Slim….trust me, boo….I got it all under control….just stay at the ready, in the event all hell breaks loose….you know I’d never put YOU in harm’s way….I got it, boo…

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:34 pm

2Can – hol’ up….ye’en trynna juice me, are you, C? I recruited you because I see the potential in you! Now, if you wanna go back to that “alley cat, hush puppy shoe wearin” dude, be my guest….

Oh Lawd, don’t make me go back! I’z sorry…I’m staying I would juice you….”daddy” never!

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:35 pm

BTW…that was funny…..”alley cat, hush puppy shoe wearin”…Celisea don’t like hush puppy wearing dudes…ut uh

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:36 pm

LOL, okay
Seems as if I’ve lost my stable since I have been gone

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:36 pm

Sorry Dreams…I’m staying put….unless you can sweeten his deal…eh?

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:40 pm

See….C, already lil mama, we almost got off to a bad start….like I said the other day, “I ain’t no gangster, but don’t test my gangsta!” You almost made me get gangsta, and that ain’t how we operate over here…this is a well oiled machine, baby!!! All you gotta do is play your part, and I’ll apply the oil….we good?

SlimNumeroUno

December 28th, 2010
4:47 pm

2C – not really about being in harm’s way but woulda been nice to have gotten the New Edition Memo, that’s all. I think I feel a spa day coming on lol

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:49 pm

2Can – Yes sir…we’re good.

Purple Rain

December 28th, 2010
4:52 pm

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:52 pm

Slim, in order to seal the deal, I had to go alone, proxy wouldn’t work in this situation; spa day? that’s all? your Christmas gift wasn’t your only gift….go look outside! then look in the glove compartment…

Bay, 2011 is our year! I think C gon’ be an added bonus to the fam….

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
4:54 pm

2Can – Bay, 2011 is our year! I think C gon’ be an added bonus to the fam….

You just let me know where you need me and need me to fill in…I’m there…for the family :)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 28th, 2010
4:56 pm

“You just let me know where you need me and need me to fill in…I’m there…for the family”

Now that’s what’s up….we’ll talk more tomorrow; gotta go home and prepare next year’s agenda, and set goals….

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
5:00 pm

blue – where are you today?

Celisea

December 28th, 2010
5:39 pm

I can’t get my email to go through to Leggs…anybody else (still here) having problems?