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Naughty, nice, or somewhere in between

It’s almost time to say goodbye to 2010! I can’t believe how much difference one year makes. I have to say that I had moments of clarity. I have been naughty, nice, and then somewhere in between the two. Thankfully I don’t have many regrets and looking back over the past year, dating has been fairly pleasant!

How would you describe your dating misadventures and adventures this year? Naughty, nice, or a little in between? Have you thought about making any changes to your approach or attitude for 2011?

Is there something new you didn’t try that you are thinking of exploring? Maybe we can inspire one another to shake things up for the new year!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

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SlimNumeroUno

December 27th, 2010
8:16 am

(Slim walking in turning on all the lights, turning the heat up, firing up all the fireplaces and starting the coffee pots & hot chocolate)

GOOOD FREEZING MORNING TO ALL!! Brrrrr

Kym-RIP Lovergirl

December 27th, 2010
8:38 am

Good Morning All,

Hmmmm I have most def been on a bit of in between when it comes to dating this year..started off naughty..stayed on that list for awhile..moved over to that little gray area on the scale and finally ended the year on the nice list! I know my attitude has changed in recent weeks..because I had to make some tough decisions..regarding some relationships..but all the better. I will lurk around a read what others are calling new and fresh..to shake up the New Year.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 27th, 2010
8:39 am

g’morning….

yeah, new things are on the horizon..

morning Sexy Slim…did you enjoy your Christmas?

SlimNumeroUno

December 27th, 2010
8:57 am

Morning 2C,

My Crimmus was cool, spent time with my pops, two sisters and my niece. Almost thought I was not going to be able to make it back to GA due to the snowy & icy weather conditions.

TenderRoni

December 27th, 2010
9:48 am

My dating adventure in 2010 was bittersweet. I meet and know a great guy. Unfortunely we didn’t make to a committed relationship, so in the new year i’m going to chill and do me.
I do want to try and date out of my race.

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 27th, 2010
9:49 am

My dating scene this year was interesting. I really only met 2 women that I thought about getting into serious relationships with. It really did not work out but I learned alot about myself this year.

My biggest goal is to be fearless and bold in dating. If its someone I am interested in, just go for it.

Also my rule around NYE is to start deleting phone numbers of women who arent talking about anything and not bring them into the New Year!

DreamsMaterialize

December 27th, 2010
9:52 am

Morning ya’ll.

Expecting the New Year to bring some Old Year stuff to a close. We’ll see what happens.

Looks like everybody is still out. Sup Slim, Kym, 2Can.

Leggs ~ Square Biz

December 27th, 2010
9:57 am

My dating experiences this year has been less than pathetic. Not really complaining, just know I some things I need to do differently. Like circulate a little more amongst other human beings.

@M. ~ I got you beat. I all numbers that needed to be deleted this past Thursday. Moving onward with a lighter outlook and much need space in my phone. :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

December 27th, 2010
9:58 am

I do want to try and date out of my race.
Tenderoni Que pasa mami! Vente aqui. Dame un minuto de tu tiempo para hablarte. ;-)

Leggs ~ Square Biz

December 27th, 2010
9:58 am

Well, one thing I need to do better is convey my thoughts when typing!!!!

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 27th, 2010
10:01 am

’sup Dreams….

Mo (aka Moeisha - Casanova Brown)

December 27th, 2010
10:05 am

Morning All!

Had a great holiday, big brother and family made it in and surprised everyone so that made it even better.

Right now Im at work and they cut the freakin heat off over the weekend….. :mad:

How is everyone this AM?

SlimNumeroUno

December 27th, 2010
10:08 am

‘Also my rule around NYE is to start deleting phone numbers of women who arent talking about anything and not bring them into the New Year’

Mdot – do you really need to wait until the NY to delete “don’t matter chicks”….I often wonder why folks need to wait till Jan 1st just to do something. If it’s that important to you, would you want to Git er done asap?

Dreams – what’s happening?! How was your Christmas?

My 2010 dating life has been an interesting slow simmer to say the least but still going…So I’m still hopeful for good things to happen in the next year (not just in dating but in life in general)

DreamsMaterialize

December 27th, 2010
10:10 am

Hey Mo how’s it going? Instead of the usual pepsi, let me pass you this hot chocolate (spiced rum optional). ;-)

YourThoughts

December 27th, 2010
10:10 am

Good Morning. I had two potential adventures, but didn’t make it into the trifecta. Heading into the new year single and socially adventurous. I’m with Leggs … the deleting has already taken place, moving forward to 2011.

blue®

December 27th, 2010
10:11 am

Morning Peoples…

survived Christmas, woohoo! had fun but glad its over….got no dating adventures, but can relate with clearing my phone out, lol

@Leggs – have you heard, something like 2 feet back home, some places got snow up to the second floor?!!

TenderRoni

December 27th, 2010
10:13 am

@Dreams, my spanish is a bit rusty, i’ve out of practice. But I want to expand my dating pool of men, I have to stop putting limits on myself. And I think you said lets speak…well I’m listening.

Note to self: brush up on spanish for the new year! thanks Dreams for bringing that to my attention

TenderRoni

December 27th, 2010
10:16 am

@Leggs, I like the moniker this morning, is it in memory of Teena M. How did she die?

SexyCool

December 27th, 2010
10:19 am

Oddly enough, TheDude and I started the year facing our first really big relationship hurdle. For about a month or so, I didn’t think we were going to get past it. Well, we did and we continue to move forward.

That being said, I don’t see myself doing too much differently. We like the course that we are on and I am content to just let it flow.

Love and respect to Miss Teena.

Leggs ~ Ooo La La La

December 27th, 2010
10:20 am

@TenderRoni ~ yes, in remembrance of our one and only “Ivory Queen of Soul.” At age 54, they’re saying she died of natural causes. Impossible. She was addicted to pain killers due to a back injury. She had at least 2 seizures (from what’s been reported) last week, and has had health issues. Nothing natural about all that!!

SexyCool

December 27th, 2010
10:23 am

Leggs – I interpreted the “natural causes” to mean that she wasn’t killed and didn’t overdose. I do agree that the cause were most likely associated with her lifestyle choices.

Leggs ~ Ooo La La La

December 27th, 2010
10:23 am

@blue ~ I love the sprinkling we got here…that’s about all I can handle. You should have seen me wracking my brain trying to figure out what warm skirt or pant suit to wear to work when it dawned on me. It’s the last week of the year….jeans is the only thing to wear! DUH! So, I’m here at work, in my jeans and turtleneck mighty comfy.

Fion

December 27th, 2010
10:25 am

Have you thought about making any changes to your approach or attitude for 2011?

Yeah, I learned that I need to take more time before I wear the Cowboy boots and Spurs to bed
with new folk!

Leggs ~ Ooo La La La

December 27th, 2010
10:28 am

@SexyC ~ point taken!

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:28 am

Off topic…I just booked my first travel for a January conference for 2011…it’s the place where Carrie Underwood was married…it’s beautiful! I love free trips!

blue®

December 27th, 2010
10:30 am

@Leggs – yeah, thats about all i can handle…the kids made a midget snowman, and calld it a day lol

TenderRoni

December 27th, 2010
10:31 am

@Leggs & SexyC, I was surprised to see she died, wasn’t she going to be in concert somewhere. Well, her music well live on, RIP Teena.

I recently turned my daughter on to her, she was shocked when she went on youtube and saw she was white. She was like, she sings like a black gal. T had that soul.

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:33 am

On topic: I’m sure I’ve been more good than desired and not quite as naughty as probably wanted…LOL This year, I’m riding with the flow of things…wherever that takes me:)

Leggs ~ Ooo La La La

December 27th, 2010
10:34 am

@TenderRoni ~ she was going to be in concert here at The Fox Theatre New Year’s Day (or NYE). I am so sad! Never got a chance to see her in concert. Yes, indeed, “T had that soul.”

They’re playing Ooo La La La now on the radio!

Leggs ~ Ooo La La La

December 27th, 2010
10:35 am

@Celisea ~ I wasn’t naughty at all this year. Well, that’s about to change for 2011.

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:38 am

Leggs – I’m sooo there with you. I’ve had a couple of occasions where the squeeze was put on me to step out of the box a bit and had reservations and inhibitions….Ummmm, I’m with you. Not this year :)

Sassy Me..Fire and Desire :-)

December 27th, 2010
10:40 am

Also my rule around NYE is to start deleting phone numbers of women who arent talking about anything and not bring them into the New Year!

I do that year round but I go into hyper-drive with it towards the end of the year…be it friends or fam. I refuse to take old stuff into the New Year..refuse to.

How would you describe your dating misadventures and adventures this year? Naughty, nice, or a little in between?
My datng life this year was as dead as drift wood…what I did do was clean out my emotional closet and got rid of things/people I didn’t want/need around who weren’t good for/to me. Gotta make room for the stuff/things/people that really matter…starting with ME.

Have you thought about making any changes to your approach or attitude for 2011? Yes..I plan to step further out of my box and go for things that I wouldn’t normally. I plan to live/love/smile more and roll with it instead of always swimming upstream…life gives me plenty of chances to do that as is so I want to have more fun in the meantime.

Sassy Me..Fire and Desire :-)

December 27th, 2010
10:41 am

I wasn’t naughty at all this year. Well, that’s about to change for 2011.

Me,too!! I’m sooo ready :mrgreen:

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:43 am

Between me Leggs and Sassy “holding back” if I was a man, I might be scurrred…LOL

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:43 am

Fion

December 27th, 2010
10:45 am

“Between me Leggs and Sassy “holding back” if I was a man, I might be scurrred”…LOL

yeah, me thinks I may those spurs after all!

Luvbug

December 27th, 2010
10:46 am

How would you describe your dating misadventures and adventures this year? Naughty!!

shake things up for the new year? Maybe…hopefully…maybe

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:47 am

Leggs ~ You Blow Me Away

December 27th, 2010
10:50 am

Hmmm, those spurs might had some nice sweet pain to the mix…ok, ok, back on topic. ↓

Although I’m not necessarily a pool hall type of gal, I have been invited to a few, just declined 2x when it was the first date…not acceptable!

NY2GA

December 27th, 2010
10:52 am

It’s been a hell’eva year, I can’t wait to see what 2011 brings …lol ..

Celisea – j/k/b/n/r ? Ok, I am lost? Inside msg?

Sassy Me..Fire and Desire :-)

December 27th, 2010
10:54 am

Between me Leggs and Sassy “holding back” if I was a man, I might be scurrred…

Maybe so…but then again it’d be a little bit of that mixed with excitement and who knows what else.

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:54 am

Hey there NY2GA…jkbnr…just kidding but not really

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:55 am

Maybe so…but then again it’d be a little bit of that mixed with excitement and who knows what else.

Most definitely…not just a physical thing…ut uh, no can do!

Leggs ~ You Blow Me Away

December 27th, 2010
10:55 am

@Celisea ~ what do you mean by your moniker…you’re going to be bigger in 2011??? :lol: :lol:

Sassy Me..Fire and Desire :-)

December 27th, 2010
10:56 am

those spurs might had some nice sweet pain to the mix…

Don’t forget the riding crop and chaps

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:56 am

“cause imma laaaady” (said in sha ne ne’s voice)

Celisea....bigger and better 2011

December 27th, 2010
10:57 am

Leggs – @Celisea ~ what do you mean by your moniker…you’re going to be bigger in 2011???

Yes ma’am…pulling out all the stops. As best I can anyway :)

Sassy Me..Fire and Desire :-)

December 27th, 2010
10:58 am

not just a physical thing…

Ditto…

Fion

December 27th, 2010
10:58 am

Leggs_ what’s was wrong with that? There are some nice pool rooms.
Not a dive,

Leggs ~ You Blow Me Away

December 27th, 2010
10:59 am

Hmmmm, which one of us is reading this wrong. Guess it’s me (lol).