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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Where do you find the good guys?

One of the most common questions women ask me when they hear I write about dating is where are all the good men in Atlanta. As if I have the physical address to a magical man tree somewhere in the city that grows good men that you can just go grab off the vine. Good guys are everywhere!

I can’t guarantee that they are the type of men that will appeal to them (or vice versa). Who knows if that elusive chemistry will spark an interest or not. I just know that they are out there and you don’t have to look far.

The gym, recycle center, Trader Joes, churches, and records stores are pretty prime locations that have made me stop and think, “Ok, I must always look cute when I come here” because it’s crawling with the types I am drawn to. A lot of times women don’t realize that some of the best guys to date are already their friends!

When was the last time you were out somewhere and thought that it was hottie central?

I was hanging out in Smyrna at a wing place on karaoke night and I couldn’t believe the number of cuties that were there. Who knew!?

Where do you think the quality women are? How do quality men seek out their counterparts? What are the best places to meet someone that you think is compatible to you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

429 comments Add your comment

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:13 pm

hey, not all men like humongous tatas!

Trust me, I know, otherwise I would never get a date!

But perhaps it is an NBA requirement. Cuz damn. :lol:

mytw♥cents

December 23rd, 2010
4:15 pm

Even if I were able to land a baller who still likes black woman :p Now wondering if there’s a particular sport where we have the edge?

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
4:20 pm

ok….lemme see if my hacking skills are up to par… A Red, if I send you a text, you gon respond?

Lady

December 23rd, 2010
4:22 pm

*★Merry★* 。 • ˚ ˚ ˛ ˚ ˛ •
•。★Christmas★ 。* 。
° 。 ° ˛˚˛ * _Π_____*。*˚
˚ ˛ •˛•˚ */______/~\。˚ ˚ ˛
˚ ˛ •˛• ˚ |田田|門| ˚And a Happy New Year•˚ *

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:22 pm

You’re sounding kind of stalkerish 2Can…. I’m just saying. ;)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
4:22 pm

and trust, you wouldn’t have to worry bout me passin stuff around….don’t roll like that!

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:22 pm

Don’tcha just hate it when you get all comfortable on the couch and realize the remote is WAAAAYYYYY over on the other side of the room?

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:23 pm

I’m going to start posting some of my past FB statuses to help with the ten pages. LOL

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
4:23 pm

“You’re sounding kind of stalkerish 2Can…. I’m just saying.”

nah, lil mama….let’s nip that right now….that ain’t even my style!

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:24 pm

“For the record, I am *not* dreaming of a white Christmas.”

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
4:24 pm

Sexy, hell yes!!!

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:24 pm

A Real Conversation:
“Did you make dinner tonight?”
“Yep.”
“What did you make?”
“Taco Bell.”

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
4:25 pm

@2C ~ actually, that will work fine w/me.

Awwww, Willow is on Ellen about to sing Whip My Hair. Not a fan of the annoying lyrics, but she can sing to be only 9.

@mytwo ~ a few years ago, I gave cassette tapes of some of my favorite recordings (I hollered when he opened the gift). The look on his face was SPECIAL….

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:26 pm

“There is nothing like watching Hoarders to make you realize that some folk are batsht crazy and in denial about it.”

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
4:26 pm

here’s one of my favorite quotes I posted on my FB page:

“I ain’t no gangster, but don’t test my gangsta!”

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
4:27 pm

@Sexyc ~ you re-heat Taco Bell??? I just threw away a Gordita that lil leggs ordered yesterday. I told her not to order 2, but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I know damn well she’s not going to reheat it (and personally, I wouldn’t want her to).

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:27 pm

“Unless you saw me do it, I didn’t do it. And if you think you saw me do it, I’m pretty sure you were just seeing things.”

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
4:28 pm

@2C ~ that sounds like you!

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:28 pm

No, Leggs. It was a phone conversation that I was having with TheDude as I was leaving the drive thru.

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:29 pm

“Okay, chick, your everyday makeup should not look like you are going to a photo shoot. In other words, you look like a caked up, overdone mess.”

mytw♥cents

December 23rd, 2010
4:29 pm

Now wait a minute, LEGGS, where did you find blank cassettes in the last 10 years? roflmao

Makes me think of the bicentennial blouse. You luvs the classics ;)

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
4:30 pm

ok….bout to run home, and log in…..brb….

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:31 pm

“It’s no wonder you never have headaches, you don’t have a brain.”

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:31 pm

‎”Hi. My name is Peggy. You are tenacious like bull. I like.”

Lady

December 23rd, 2010
4:31 pm

cool Ms Leggs! I like the Fox and me some Maze! This will be a 1st for Ms Teena! Still pondering though we will see! An interesting holiday is approaching *wink* ;)

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:33 pm

“I’ve always wanted to be a contestant on The Price Is Right and submit a bid of $13.”

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:33 pm

“Chris Tucker, come’on, son. Them NYE tix are too damn high!”

Kym-From the Road

December 23rd, 2010
4:34 pm

Okay the Bama award for today goes to the either the old player rolling them up in the Crown Vic. Or the dude with the tie dyed goatee. Comedy thou name is Walmart’s parking lot

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:35 pm

I do really miss going to L.A. for the holidays. Christmas just ain’t Christmas without Santa on a surfboard. :lol:

Hopefully Lowe’s has gotten some rock salt in stock again for this predicted snowfall. *screw face*

Simple Man!!!!

December 23rd, 2010
4:36 pm

Soooo.can.. Are you the only fella left in this camp with all the blog ladies????

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:36 pm

Kym – I’d vote for tie dyed dude. He seems like he would have a better acceptance speech.

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:37 pm

“This dude on the train is so stAnkin’ that his funk is standing beside him announcing that his ass in IN THE BUILDING! Help me, white geezus. Smelling like Dave the Dope Fiend.”

mytw♥cents

December 23rd, 2010
4:37 pm

I quite enjoyed this one: It’s no wonder you never have headaches, you don’t have a brain.

WalMart? Booo! Team TARJAY!

SexyCool

December 23rd, 2010
4:38 pm

“I should have called the law. My senses have been assaulted.”

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:38 pm

“LADIES’ TIP: An unnecessary half naked profile pic is like slangin’ the vajay on ebay … don’t be mad when men approach you for the image you project”

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
4:39 pm

@SexyC ~ ok, I better understand. :lol:

@mytwo ~ leave my bicentennial clothing out of the mix. :lol: :lol: :lol: I’m still wearing those 2 blouses. One has a teeny tiny hole when a burning seed dropped on me. :lol: :lol:

Only a few of the tapes were blank. Some had music on them.

@SexyC ~ I’m surprised I never entered to appear on Wheel of Fortune.

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:39 pm

GENTLEMAN’S TIP: You think you’re single and she thinks you two are together? Treating her like your like a girlfriend will eventually make her act like it so you better make up your mind

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:40 pm

LADIES’ & GENTLEMAN’S TIP: If someone needs clarification but asks you to be more “pacific” – direct them toward the ocean.

Kym-From the Road

December 23rd, 2010
4:40 pm

@Sexy I just know one day I am gonna wind up on the news. It is so hard to resist the urge to go up to folks and ask Excuse me but WTF were you thinking. LMAO

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:41 pm

LADIES’ TIP: The winter season exposes false sex appeal … if you can’t keep it cute in the cold, you’re probably not too cute.

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:41 pm

LADIES’ & GENTLEMAN’S TIP: A relationship should support your life’s purpose – evaluate yours … if it’s doing the opposite, walk the opposite way … away.

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:43 pm

GENTLEMAN’S TIP: The only thing you should wanna change about a good woman is her last name

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:43 pm

GENTLEMAN’S TIP: On a dinner date, the more you analyze the bill, the less attracted to you she becomes. Pay w/o ur eyes leaving hers.

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:44 pm

GENTLEMAN’S TIP: Even with Facebook, Twitter, text and email – she still likes being asked on a proper date.

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
4:44 pm

No need for E.O.D…ARed is coverning it.

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:45 pm

LADIES’ TIP: Try being a GOAL-digger … there are simply too many others trying to be gold-diggers.

AmazonRed™ - yay vacay!

December 23rd, 2010
4:46 pm

Words of wisdom were taken from “BEREOLAESQUE” The Gentleman & Etiquette Book for the Urban Sophisticate”

Check him out!

mytw♥cents

December 23rd, 2010
4:46 pm

Tickled by these tips… Very RELL-ian with the Art of War excerpts.

Everybody have a lovely, happy, merry whatever you want. Make sure to express your love to your loved ones and count your Blessings twice!

Toodles

mytw♥cents

December 23rd, 2010
4:48 pm

Plus, I just saw the episode of Different World with Cha-za (sp?) and his lil love booklet set the campus on fire lol. We’ll still be tryna figure this out for generations to come…

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
4:48 pm

Come on ARed, bring us to page 9.