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Where do you find the good guys?

One of the most common questions women ask me when they hear I write about dating is where are all the good men in Atlanta. As if I have the physical address to a magical man tree somewhere in the city that grows good men that you can just go grab off the vine. Good guys are everywhere!

I can’t guarantee that they are the type of men that will appeal to them (or vice versa). Who knows if that elusive chemistry will spark an interest or not. I just know that they are out there and you don’t have to look far.

The gym, recycle center, Trader Joes, churches, and records stores are pretty prime locations that have made me stop and think, “Ok, I must always look cute when I come here” because it’s crawling with the types I am drawn to. A lot of times women don’t realize that some of the best guys to date are already their friends!

When was the last time you were out somewhere and thought that it was hottie central?

I was hanging out in Smyrna at a wing place on karaoke night and I couldn’t believe the number of cuties that were there. Who knew!?

Where do you think the quality women are? How do quality men seek out their counterparts? What are the best places to meet someone that you think is compatible to you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

429 comments Add your comment

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:20 am

Good morning!

The quality folks are in places deemed qualified to be considered quality!

Here I is, right chea!

Beautiful

December 23rd, 2010
8:22 am

how i found my friend was to look on my married friends fb list. hehe… look at your stand up friend`s friends.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:24 am

And A Red, when you get in this morning, hand over your card key, I’m suspending you! You’ve had a tizzy with damn near everyone on the blog! This suspension is indefinite!

btw, hey….you doin aiight this mornin? Tellin ya, you really need to calm some of that pent up “angst”! Couch session discounts are available (since you’on like to pay full price!).

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:26 am

Beautiful…..so you’re a facebook friend’s page stalker? pitiful, to say the least!

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:27 am

I’mma post 10 pages my damn self today….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:37 am

since I’m on a rant, lemme see….

Ms. Diva, ummm, we gon need for you show up, every now and then….or we gon take yo gavel, you know, some’n like the judge who was messin with the stripper….yeah, we heard you like to frequent male nudy establishments…

YesSheIsCute

December 23rd, 2010
8:39 am

Good morning everyone! My philosophy…you don’t find good guys they find you.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:41 am

Cutie….you’re here? lemme see if I got any gripes with you….yeah, I do….

ummm, we’re supposed to be “married”….you need to tighten up!

Willie Dynamite

December 23rd, 2010
8:43 am

Morning folks,

I am pretty sure I qualify as a good dude. Let me rephrase that; I am pretty sure I qualify as a good dude NOW. Its not so easy to spot when you in the middle of the Game so to speak. Its not a magical place that has all good people. I can tell you that your intentions are not far behind your presentation. So whether you are in the right spot or not your actions as always will decide your fate.

YesSheIsCute

December 23rd, 2010
8:48 am

@2CPTG sorry I’ve been really really busy! I’ll try to do better….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:51 am

Busy??? ummm, we’re married! you’re ’sposed to forsake all others for me….I’ll give you a pass……this time…

Willie Dynamite

December 23rd, 2010
8:57 am

2Can – I see you the accountability Sheriff today. Boi ya better have plenty of bullets cause its alrite till they start shooting back. Keep it up.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
8:59 am

Willie D……yeah man…but it’s all good, if folks cain’t learn to laugh a little, then that’s on them…..

now lemme reload my double barrel…

Rell- I wear the black hat

December 23rd, 2010
9:01 am

Whats up peoples

Willie Dynamite

December 23rd, 2010
9:03 am

I’m withchu, just hoping its a lite fun day. I’m off to a good start already.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
9:04 am

btw….Sexy, I love your eyes!!! I’on care if you did pay $49.99 for ‘em;

Beautiful

December 23rd, 2010
9:04 am

lol @ shootn back!

@cutie… 2C cheatn on u! that ninja rang my phone the other day. smdh.

and 2C… ummmm… i was adding folks to blog with, cus uh i am a blogger. ::somebody woke up tripn fa real::

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
9:05 am

what up, Rell….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
9:07 am

“@cutie… 2C cheatn on u! that ninja rang my phone the other day. smdh.”

the other day??? shoot, I’m bout to call you now! what????? and ain’t nobody trippin, just havin a lil fun….

Derby

December 23rd, 2010
9:10 am

People always say Church……NOT! :-) Work, oh hell no! If things go bad it can get real ugly……

I met my love at a house party. Worked for me .

blue© - final day, and i'm out!!!

December 23rd, 2010
9:13 am

Morning Peoples,

Where to find the good men?i dont know for sure, but i’d say wherever you find good people in general! lol

Beautiful

December 23rd, 2010
9:16 am

giggles @ 2C!

TenderRoni

December 23rd, 2010
9:20 am

I’m sure there are some good guys still left in the world. I believe if you do the things you enjoy, you can meet people that have the same interests, and possible meet a good guy that way.
So, I’m just goin do me!

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
9:20 am

“giggles @ 2C!”

stop that….my blog wives might see you!

blue© - final day, and i'm out!!!

December 23rd, 2010
9:22 am

@2C – on a roll this morning? lol

Celisea...on on vacay

December 23rd, 2010
9:24 am

I think good men are everywhere…even this blog.

2Can – You need a “time out” this morning….you’re confined to the “couch” until further notice!

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
9:24 am

Good morning, everyone!

@2C ~ you’re patrolling hard this morning!

Good guys are everywhere. Church is not the place to find one. Too many wolves in sheep clothing are sitting in the pews.

Beautiful

December 23rd, 2010
9:25 am

@2C… im wondering if ur a bomb a** kisser.

if a guy cant kiss, is that a deal breaker?

czBrat

December 23rd, 2010
9:29 am

HiYas!

Beautiful, i like that fb suggestion. never really thought about it, but it makes perfect sense.
good guys? they’re all over the place. just be you and, like a good neighbor, he will be there. :)

SlimNumeroUno

December 23rd, 2010
9:30 am

I’s here too….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 23rd, 2010
9:31 am

“@2C… im wondering if ur a bomb a** kisser.”

since Celisea sentenced me to the couch, c’mere, and lemme show you…

Leggs, I’m at work just watching the clock…silly rabbits wanna pay me to do nothin…fine!

Lady

December 23rd, 2010
9:32 am

Morning…..how about a conference or seminar…… ;)

blue© - final day, and i'm out!!!

December 23rd, 2010
9:35 am

Hiii Slimmm!!!

czBrat

December 23rd, 2010
9:35 am

LOL @ Derby & Leggs. that was my first thought (about NOT finding good guys at church), but you know i kinda thought it best not to offend. HAHAHA!!!

Willie Dynamite

December 23rd, 2010
9:38 am

good men good women – 1st off lemme say that alot of folks dont have the qualifications to even spot or recognize something good. These Bum azz dudes out here trying to be playas just corrupting the pool for the true good guys. By the time these chicks meet a good dude they are so gun shy cause these bums have beat them down and done em wrong that they just want to give up. Now being equal opportunity I will say that its some trifling azz chicks out here. We see yall everyday talking bout I’m a good girl when we know you 2 drinks away from scuffing up ya knees. Get ya hair done everyweek and you looking fly but cant pay the light bill without a sponsor.

I say all that to say, Get yourself right first. Stop worrying bout the next man/woman. If you are a good Man or Woman then its a given you will eventually be chosen. Work on being able to recognize the things you want just as easily as you can recognize the things you don’t want. Then Just stay outta your own way.

Celisea...on vacay

December 23rd, 2010
9:40 am

Had to fix my moniker…since I ain’t “changing channels” nor coming as Celisea. Any cards “confiscated” for bad behavior will NOT be returned until after Christmas. It will be light and light hearted!

Trevor0529

December 23rd, 2010
9:43 am

Good Morning,

Definitely won’t find them at church or at the strip club.

Merry Christmas everyone!!

:)

Lady

December 23rd, 2010
9:44 am

Willie good post of the day…….

Peace!

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
9:45 am

SlimNU and czB are in the house, let the games begin!

@2C ~ whatcha doing behind that couch?

Celisea...on vacay

December 23rd, 2010
9:45 am

My last post was janky because I’m trying to explain “The Book of Eli” to my mommie :) I was trying to say I’m not ShirleyLocks nor “Celisea Changing Chanels”

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
9:47 am

Merry Christmas Mr. Trevor0529!

Kym--Live from Holiday Central

December 23rd, 2010
9:48 am

Good Morning All,

I think you run into a good guy when you least expect it. Actually I am in the mindset to flat out stop looking, just lay back kick and enjoy the ride. Willie D..I am going to second your comments..that is kind of the place I am in right now..bummed out from the jokers so I am just concentrating on me and enjoying good times with the guy I like.

Simple Man!!!!

December 23rd, 2010
9:48 am

Good dude / Bad dude….I guess its in the eye of the beholder….Sometimes the bad guy is as good as it gets!!!

Kym--Live from Holiday Central

December 23rd, 2010
9:50 am

Happy Holidays Trevor!!

Raqi V

December 23rd, 2010
9:50 am

IMO The secret to finding a good guy is being willing to accept his “bads” with his good.

Good men and women are all around. You just have stop dismissing them because of minor flaws and imperfections.

SlimNumeroUno

December 23rd, 2010
9:50 am

Howdy blue

(slim giving 2C the mean mug side eye) Give you a foot and you take a yard. Did you even brush yo teef yet while you all up in somebody’s grill tombout tonguing and such?

Leggs

December 23rd, 2010
9:54 am

@Kym ~ I have that mindset as well. I’m going to do me. The right one will come along with he’s suppose to. I’m not looking for him, and I’m not praying for him. I keep myself together, my mind right and my heart open. We all get a chance to love again.

Kym--Live from Holiday Central

December 23rd, 2010
9:54 am

@Raqi..this means I have to overlook height..huh? Damn Damn Damn!

Beautiful

December 23rd, 2010
9:54 am

lol @ behind the couch!

gmorn ladies!!! @Willie… i hear u.

blue© - final day, and i'm out!!!

December 23rd, 2010
9:57 am

has it already been said? i think all this “where do you find em” like your hunting for quail or something, is just too much work. do your own thing, and you’ll find the ones your looking for, cause you need someone who at least overlaps your interests somewhat. you get so keyed up on the idea that they should be in a certain place, that you miss him when he comes along outside of that place…