Dating: Are you in the wrong relationship?
If you are having doubts about the person you are dating, does it mean you are in the wrong relationship? I ask because a couple of different people have told me that they want to end their relationship because of a few doubts they have.
One guy told me that he pursued a woman for months and thought he wanted to be exclusive with her. When the realized they had zero chemistry in the bedroom, suddenly she’s the wrong person for him.
Interestingly enough, a woman I know from yoga told me that she doubts her boyfriend is the one because he doesn’t show any affection whatsoever. She is the type that needs that from a relationship.
Do you think we have these ideas about what relationships should be about and bail out too fast when we don’t get it? Are you in the wrong relationship because they aren’t satisfying an important need?
How do you rank those needs in importance? What do you think you have to have in a relationship that would make you want to stick it out?
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261 comments Add your comment
2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"
December 17th, 2010
4:54 pm
I’m just playin, Diva…..please don’t ban me…….again!
Leggs
December 17th, 2010
5:05 pm
That was funny 2C ~ chest all poked out only to run behind mama’s leg apologizing!
Leggs
December 17th, 2010
5:06 pm
Good night! Hope all of you have a Merry Christmas…see you on the 28th.
“The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.” ~ Vince Lombardi
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 17th, 2010
5:14 pm
alright everyone, have a great weekend!
c
December 18th, 2010
6:11 pm
sexy cool – what you say is true but I have to wonder just how many kids did you make in the process and are you responsible for each one of them?
Danielle
December 18th, 2010
9:50 pm
I married a gay so called man in Atlanta so I am leaving the gay capital in the US.
jill
December 18th, 2010
9:52 pm
Gays have taken over this city. I detest them too.
Jughead Obama
December 19th, 2010
1:50 am
It’s cheaper to find a woman you hate and buy her a house. Trust me, I-Nothing Michelle. Yes dear, I pooper scoopered the dog. Have a nice time wasting taxpayer money, dear/
Ron Hyatt
December 19th, 2010
1:52 am
All women are prostitutes. Some want the money directly, others want it indirectly, like a house, half the assets after the planned from the beginning divorce, etc.
Jay
December 19th, 2010
10:53 am
Maybe Rell and Simple Man ought to be discussing what attracts women – not just what or who they’re after.
Stevereeno
December 19th, 2010
12:41 pm
I met my wife at a summer fair in Marietta,…we got trashed and woke up together the next day. We’ve never been appart since. We laugh,…we yell, mostly about silly things like cooking. We’ve been through tough times and great times. Humor and laughter is a very big part of it. We have fun together. Generousity is important, generous of the heart, meaning you don’t always have to have the last word. We still sit together on the love seat and rub one anothers back. We still go for walks. We’re together 10 years and I still feel like it’s the first….this Christmas she said; ‘lets go see your Mom.’ Most everyone place looks first. That’s the first mistake. Looks and attraction are important but not so nearly as much as the god given gifts that lay under the surface of the skin.
Look for someone who smiles and laughs, who is comfortable in their own skin. Then, how does her Mother treat her Daddy? Visa versa.