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Dating: Are you in the wrong relationship?

If you are having doubts about the person you are dating, does it mean you are in the wrong relationship? I ask because a couple of different people have told me that they want to end their relationship because of a few doubts they have.

One guy told me that he pursued a woman for months and thought he wanted to be exclusive with her. When the realized they had zero chemistry in the bedroom, suddenly she’s the wrong person for him.

Interestingly enough, a woman I know from yoga told me that she doubts her boyfriend is the one because he doesn’t show any affection whatsoever. She is the type that needs that from a relationship.

Do you think we have these ideas about what relationships should be about and bail out too fast when we don’t get it? Are you in the wrong relationship because they aren’t satisfying an important need?

How do you rank those needs in importance? What do you think you have to have in a relationship that would make you want to stick it out?

Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

261 comments Add your comment

Melo!!

December 17th, 2010
3:20 pm

Compromise on big belly and no energy….?

Leggs,I ain’t never heard of a mouf with no energy! He’s good!

:lol: :lol: ull be pleased trust me!

Leggs

December 17th, 2010
3:22 pm

@ARed ~ we would look like the number 11 while walking away from you, but will look like the number 10 walking toward you.

AmazonRed™

December 17th, 2010
3:23 pm

Leggs

December 17th, 2010
3:23 pm

@Melo ~ although I’m wasting keystrokes responding, but there’s more to life and my very existence than having a mouf w/energy.

AmazonRed™

December 17th, 2010
3:26 pm

DreamsMaterialize

December 17th, 2010
3:32 pm

melo you serving up a recipe for disaster to Leggs. You can’t force something that’s not there. If you do, you can pretty much set your watch to the failure of the relationship.

cba

December 17th, 2010
3:32 pm

10, that’s imaginative and funny. What about a capital “o” 1O :-)

Melo!!

December 17th, 2010
3:34 pm

Don’t mind me Leggs, I’m thinking of that blogger/lurked yesterday who expressed ‘ate, or being eaten good’ thoughts.

Gutter for Friday..

U know of a slow but cool nice spot for 40+ folks Leggs?

I wanna get my rugged behind on a dance floor tonite….no, don’t want the usual suspects on the east side.

Rell - 4000 degreez

December 17th, 2010
3:38 pm

#np geto boys – scarface…what!!!!!!!!!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 17th, 2010
3:41 pm

Afternoon All!! TGIF!!

Im trying to catch up after spending the day with Lil Mo at school yesterday. WHEW! Gotta love educators!!

so what are we discussing??

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
3:42 pm

BlackMagicWoman (Staceye)

damn….I didn’t know BMW was Staceye….hey you, if you’re lurkin!!!!

AmazonRed™

December 17th, 2010
3:50 pm

I didn’t know BMW was Staceye….

*slow bus pulls up, 2Can gets on* :lol:

AmazonRed™

December 17th, 2010
3:50 pm

I didn’t know BMW was Staceye….

*slow bus pulls up, 2Can gets on* :lol:

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 17th, 2010
3:53 pm

ARed – LMAO!! WOW

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:02 pm

“*slow bus pulls up, 2Can gets on*”

hahahahahah…that was funny…..how can I make a smiley that flips you off???

For Real

December 17th, 2010
4:04 pm

What up blog fam!!! Let me see what the happs are…

On topic: The brain is the most powerful thing on the planet, use it instead of your heart.

Let me see if I can translate what Mdot is saying, “I don’t care what the ratio is, married men need to keep dey ass at home! And married men STANK!!!!”

Melo has talked Leggs into wasting some key strokes on a pimp belly.

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:05 pm

I’m hungry

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 17th, 2010
4:07 pm

okay so this caramel iced cupcake from A Piece of Cake is sooooo dayum good, WOW!

Melo!!

December 17th, 2010
4:08 pm

wait a minute….

u are Celisea?

Damn,dam girls are talking this week…

yesterday it was Sheena, today Celisea!

2Can.. BMW can belly dance too….bro?

bro????

sleeping in here! :lol:

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:10 pm

Melo – yesterday it was Sheena, today Celisea!

Man don’t go there. I wouldn’t share there here..like Sheena did, uh uh
You’re always waiting on that entrance huh?

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:11 pm

“2Can.. BMW can belly dance too….”

now that I know it’s Staceye, yeah…she’s mentioned that before….amongst other things….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:16 pm

That would be cool if Sheena was a regular….

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:17 pm

That would be cool if Sheena was a regular….

I’m almost willing to bet she is

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:19 pm

Celisea, you think?

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:20 pm

C’mon, nobody “stumbles” this blog’s way and then say something way to the left like that…at least I don’t think. I mean I think it can be said cause it was but somebody just walking up? Naaah, that’s somebody that was someboy that needed to get that off their chest.

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:21 pm

That was somebody that needed to get that off their chest…maybe it was bait…I dunno

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:21 pm

If you beckon for her, how much you want to bet she’ll appear? If not today Monday…LOL

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:23 pm

ain’t no tellin….

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:23 pm

I’m going for a snack…I’m hungry. I probably should have eaten more wings. I know good and well 8 ain’t enough…sigh

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:23 pm

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:23 pm

“wasn’t”

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:24 pm

C..she prolly been lurkin forever…look how long you lurked before jumping in….btw, did you ever state why you waited so long?

Rell - 4000 degreez

December 17th, 2010
4:27 pm

Have a good weekend folks…i am out!

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:28 pm

Be easy, playboy.

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:28 pm

C..she prolly been lurkin forever…look how long you lurked before jumping in…btw, did you ever state why you waited so long?

Yeah, that’s probably true. I lurked a looong time. I dunno, somebody turned me on to the blog so I really didn’t even think about jumping in for a while. You remember back then it was a riot everyday so I mainly read and passed the time while I worked…and laughed waaay too loud (folks would send me IMs asking “whatchu laffing at”). Back then too it was Mia blogging from her experience and people would speak from that. Once Wise started post sort of “general” entries, I started feeling like, “hmmm I can relate to that”…

Leggs

December 17th, 2010
4:32 pm

Dang, someone left me out in the cold for a long time.

@ARed ~ that was funny (short bus). Picture my head co*cked to the side like a dog’s while reading 2C not knowing.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:34 pm

yeah, it is kinda funny when you think about how many “unknown” participants we have; like we’re on a damn stage somewhere….I say we do like the Ga prisoners and start a protest in this som’bytch ‘less some of our demands are met…..

Leggs

December 17th, 2010
4:35 pm

@2C ~ they protest via their cell phones by texting…wait, wait a glorified hot dayum minute…we’s a texting via computer. Ok, ok, let’s do this!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 17th, 2010
4:35 pm

2CPTG – I saw a personalized tag this AM with your name on it. I just knew it was you in that big body benz! LOL!

Celisea – I lurked for a while too before I jumped in.

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:36 pm

Mo – how long have you been blogging..if you can remember? It was a hoot when I first got here…I was almost addicted

Sassy Me..my neck..my back :-)

December 17th, 2010
4:38 pm

….I say we do like the Ga prisoners and start a protest in this som’bytch ‘less some of our demands are met…..

:lol:

Make it do what it do….

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:39 pm

2CPTG – I saw a personalized tag this AM with your name on it. I just knew it was you in that big body benz! LOL!

shhhh……

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 17th, 2010
4:43 pm

Celisea – Ive been on here about 3-4yrs. I lurked for about a year, when i was ‘going through’ my divorce.

2CPTG – I see ya big timer, I gotcha :wink:

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:43 pm

Sassy….I long for days when our email addy’s were linked to our monikers….that way you could “tap” somebody on the shoulder without it being on front street…..

how can we protest though….

Leggs

December 17th, 2010
4:45 pm

Rather they organized via text.

Celisea

December 17th, 2010
4:47 pm

I long for days when our email addy’s were linked to our monikers

yep..remember that

Sassy Me..my neck..my back :-)

December 17th, 2010
4:49 pm

I don’t know 2C but for some reason folks feel it necessary to change monikers to either start some isht,call someone out on the sly or just to spark convo on the blog… The changes made were done for a reason but like you said who are we to say anything.

Sassy Me..my neck..my back :-)

December 17th, 2010
4:50 pm

Peace n Blessings y’all!!!!

Mrs. JtJ

December 17th, 2010
4:52 pm

I remember when we used to be able to call “sidebar” and send someone an e-mail to clarify what they meant/said….back around ‘05..i believe.

2CPTG©--"that dude from da innanet"

December 17th, 2010
4:53 pm

sh yt tin me, I’m feelin rebellious….

who wanted Spartacus….you got it!

Leggs, come up with us a list of “requests”…we’ll present ‘em to Diva; and if the majority of ‘em ain’t met, we gon’ tear da roof off this som’bytch!!!! who wit me?