I know. It sounds like some kind of flu bug that you catch, right? Maybe it’s harsh to think that your new romance is just a fling. Nobody wants to be “boo’d” up for the winter months only to find out that once the temps return to above freezing (seriously Atlanta?!) , you’re going to be swiftly dismissed. It happens to the best of us!
It’s sort of a running joke with this guy I am seeing now. We both have a sarcastic, sometimes dark humor, so when I actually call him my winter dude, he chuckles. I don’t truly think there is an expiration date on the romance, but that little joke we have going sort of takes off any pressure to commit too soon.
Do you think that you date in seasons? Do you have a tendency to couple up and get close to someone just to snuggle with them? Is that necessarily a bad thing?
How do you know if you are just a fling to someone? If that is all that you are interested in, should you let the person know? Do you think that would prevent them from becoming too attached or is that just what we tell ourselves?
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