You know the moment your hot new romance takes a nosedive? When one or both of you let things get stale. When the novelty wears off and you become completely comfortable with one another, it’s natural that things slip into some degree of..well boredom.
This happens to every couple at some point. There is no need to panic and do something stupid like break up or go hook up with someone else. If you are committed to making the relationship last, you have to spice things up!
I know a lot of single people that have a fear of marriage because they believe they would be bored to tears after the first five years. Whether you are dating or married, there will have to be some kind of “work” involved to keep your relationship from getting stale.
Do you ever worry about boredom and staleness in your relationship or marriage? How would you handle that if it were to happen to you?
Should you be willing to do anything, within reason, to get things red hot again? I’m not a huge fan of relationship rules but I would not mind some kind of rule about keeping things hot, what do you think?
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