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Fact or fiction: Men don’t mind being single

I can attest to the fact that “the art of being single” isn’t perfected by everyone. Some people are the type that has to have someone in their life at all times. You know, the serial monogamists who go from one relationship to the next with little to no break between. I don’t think it’s a good thing or bad thing, personally. It’s a matter of personal preference and really great timing, but it’s rare that I meet a man who admits to needing a woman in his life.

I have, however, met and dated newly single divorcees who have that whole “nestling” thing going. This is when they immediately want someone to feel the void of their ex-wife. Almost anyone one will do, really. It’s like being the ultimate rebound girl, except with home-cooked meal requests.

Do you believe men dislike being single? Is it a myth that having all that freedom is the reason why men delay marriage?

Ladies, has a man ever told you that he doesn’t mind being single? Do you meet men who actively seek a relationship and don’t mind admitting it?

Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

282 comments Add your comment

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 23rd, 2010
3:44 pm

Bring on Part Deux, Melo

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
3:45 pm

BUMBALACLOT!!!!!

:twisted:

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
3:46 pm

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
3:47 pm

swiss – you ever play hide-n-go-get with yourself?

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
3:47 pm

“…Federal or State? Just saying…….”"”

LMAO!!! I’m still laughing over this

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
3:59 pm

I have reached a point of delirium…will this day ever end?!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
4:01 pm

Wikipedia is the bomb! you can learn alot about the Kings and Queens of Africa just thru Wikipedia alone. Wow!

Melo!!

November 23rd, 2010
4:02 pm

Slim?

u be in Conyers 4 thanxgiving..can I stop by by for a thigh?

A turkey thigh….what were u thinking now?

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
4:05 pm

Turkey’s have thigh’s :shock:
Well, only seems fair if chicken’s have legs
now the real question I ponder is do chickens have lips

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
4:07 pm

I am whatever you say I am

November 23rd, 2010
4:07 pm

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
4:08 pm

Melo – Nope you won’t find anyone there but the cat. Have fun chasing him around the house for one of his…thighs. ;-)

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
4:15 pm

and my Cracker Jack prize isss……a foldover paper puzzle of Benjamin Franklin??? really??? these prizes so should have upgraded by now…

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
4:18 pm

what if i want the caramel popcorn wothout the peanuts? is there a brand name for that?

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
4:28 pm

Fiddle Faddle comes w/o nuts…

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
4:29 pm

…i think anyway ;-)

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
4:31 pm

Awww schucks, it looks like Doom & Gloom over here…in comes the wind and the rain….then on top of that guess what???——> my umbrella is IN DA FREAKIN CAR!!!!!!!!!!!!

Melo!!

November 23rd, 2010
4:32 pm

Blue?

what good is anything without nutts?

:lol:

nutts spicy up everything….nutts bring out the Ooomph!

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
4:33 pm

fiddle faddle…gotta go look for that hten..not feeling the peanuts….

was checking that out Slim, looking nasty out there…you better curl up in a hot blanket when you get home..may have to give you some of what The Blues call toxic tea, lol. it does everything from cure the flu to help you pass a p!ss test lol

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
4:37 pm

melo – dont want oomph, i want sweet!!! and these peanuts are interfering with that lolol

Celisea

November 23rd, 2010
4:38 pm

Rell – Great posts today, sounds like he’s evolving

Melo – Cut it out man

Random….somewhat: Transparency shines through more ways than one. No matter if you don’t own it, the style and content is always unique to you Reindeer games = BS

Sassy Me..I Feel like bustin' loose :-)

November 23rd, 2010
4:41 pm

then on top of that guess what???——> my umbrella is IN DA FREAKIN CAR!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me,too… :oops:

Sugar melts when it gets wet so I don’t know what Imma doooo

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
4:43 pm

blue – is that anything like a hot tottie?

Melo!!

November 23rd, 2010
4:44 pm

Blue?

u unlike me,can’t get enough of peanuts!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 23rd, 2010
4:44 pm

Slim — I have. It always ends up a draw… ;-)

SexyCool

November 23rd, 2010
4:49 pm

Sassy…that was funny. Good to know your own sweetness, ain’t it?

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
4:50 pm

@Slim – no, no alcohol involved…(pondering to myself – tho i suppose that would be an interesting addition). all natural – its a tea made out of fresh ginger root and some form of citrus fruit (whatever you wanna use). chop em up, throw in a big pot of water and stew for at least 90 minutes, a bit longer if you have the time (you want it to be nice and strong, i usually do between 2 and 3 hours, add a little more water as it boils down). add a little honey and drink as hot as you can. it wont be the best tasting stuff, what medicine is, but it’ll clear up the stuffiness and let you sleep, wake up a brand new Slim. works wonders over here, one of the few good things i got from the BD, lol.

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
4:51 pm

had one of mr.blues service friends drink it for the flu when he had to 24 hour duty the next day, added perk he passed his random p!ss test when there was no wayyy in he!! he should have ;) lol

SlimNumeroUno

November 23rd, 2010
4:56 pm

Hmmmm…..sounds like a recipe I may need to hold onto. Do you have to grind the ginger root up or just throw the whole shibang in there?

men lie, women lie

November 23rd, 2010
5:01 pm

the real problem is when we (men and women) want the cake to eat it too, don’t commit if your not willing to sacrafice, being with someone takes maturity because you can’t always have it your way, I’m a guy and the one problem I have with ladies is ya’ll preach that I want a good man, but when you atain that man, you stop doing the things that got him, we will never say it but if you take the time to make us feel like a king you WILL feel like a queen, if you nagg and make us feel like ya’ll do boy’s, then we will be up in someone else who does make us feel good.

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
5:02 pm

dont throw it in whole, just cut it in like 1/2 inch or so slices or chunks, makes it easier to stew down. the fruit just cut it like you would if you were gonna eat it, in half or quarters or whatever, try and squeeze a little of the juice out and just throw em in peel and all. for like a spaghetti type pot (what is that like 4 quarts or so) i usually use about 2/3 of a hand of ginger and 3 or 4 pieces of fruit.

blue®

November 23rd, 2010
5:03 pm

whatever you dont drink this bout, just bottle up and put in the fridge or freezer…it keeps well.