Dating warning signs: Wake up to the break-up
Have you ever dated someone and thought things were going great and then out of nowhere they dump you? It’s probably not so much “out of nowhere” but because you weren’t paying attention, it felt that way. I have been there before and that whole “hindsight is 20/20″ thing came into play. There were signs and I didn’t see them.
If you aren’t the type to fight, break up, make up ..rinse/repeat, then you may end up in these situations when you couldn’t see the expiration date on your relationship. When think about a break-up you went through, did you see the beginning of the end? What were your warning signs that it was OVER?
If you figure out things are headed to splitsville, would you try to put things back on track before it all comes undone? When do you know that it’s not worth fixing? How do you figure out if it’s worth fighting for?
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324 comments Add your comment
evy
November 16th, 2010
8:59 am
first!
ah ha ha ha ha!
c’mon, fred – let’s have a look around…
fRed
November 16th, 2010
9:00 am
we find candy?
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 16th, 2010
9:06 am
g’morning…..
“What were your warning signs that it was OVER?” —- in the words of the famous, Pimp C, you know it’s over when, “all we do is fugg and fight.” Is it worth salvaging? I’on know, only YOU can answer that.
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:06 am
no! no candy…coffee. fred! don’t drink that!
fRed
November 16th, 2010
9:06 am
mmmm…cannnnndy…
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:07 am
okay, who told fred that the amaretto creamer is candy?! like he isn’t challenged enough already…
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
9:16 am
Morning Peeps!!!
Anyone that says the did not see the breakup coming is either Blind or in Denial….My best tactic??/if i see it coming early enough, i thy to get us to a better place so ther is a chance to recover….If I see it late or realize that there is no real hope… I am going to ask her to do that thing we saw on the skin flick the other day…..
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:18 am
one for the road, simple? lol
mornin, dear!
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:22 am
mornin, 2c!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
9:25 am
Morning All…..yawwwnnn….
FRED!!! What are you doing??? and why does your tail look so thin….it looks like someones been pulling hair out??….ceremony?….i am and simple….wait a minute slow down…arrggg evy, why’d you give him all that coffee, cant understand a word he’s saying!!!
on topic: i was most often the breaker-upper so not always a lot of signs to see from the other side, but seems to me a lot of times they had to see it coming. the more distance your SO puts in there, be it physical or emotional, the more likely it is they are preparing themselves for their exit strategy…
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:25 am
so, simple – were you ’standing on the sidelines watching’ during last night’s ‘ceremony’? not quite sure what went on here, but i hear there was talk of demons and witches, and it seems fred may have been ensnared…
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:26 am
@ blue: i beg your pardon, madam – i did not give fred any coffee – but he did guzzle about a pint of amaretto…i think he swallowed the container on the last one…
Kym
November 16th, 2010
9:28 am
Good Morning All,
I am gonna lurk on this one..
Sassy Me..Onward and Upward :-)
November 16th, 2010
9:32 am
When think about a break-up you went through, did you see the beginning of the end?
Yes I saw it but thought we could work it out by sharing and communication but it didn’t work out that way. We were/are in two different places in our lives…point blank. I didn’t feel like we were equally yoked, so I tried to encourage him but it didn’t work out like that.
What were your warning signs that it was OVER? Maaan I don’t want to go there so early in the morning and personally I’m moving onward and upward….refuse to lok back with sooo much to look forward to.
Sassy Me..Onward and Upward :-)
November 16th, 2010
9:33 am
*look* back…
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 16th, 2010
9:33 am
morning, evy.
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
9:36 am
Morning Lovely People!
I’m very intuitive. So I’ve never had a breakup to blindside me. Even if things are supposedly going “well”, even if you’re not fighting, most of the time I can just feel it if it’s not right, long before dude starts checking out. Now I have been blinded by the METHOD or TIMING of the breakup, but I can’t honestly sit here and say I didn’t think something was coming.
When I get these feelings, I do absolutely nothing to salvage. I’m an “either it’s working for you or it’s not”. I’m not gonna try to MAKE someone love me. It has to flow natural for me or not at all. I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me and if over the time we’ve spent together you feel I’m not it, by all means, Keep It Moving. I wish you the best!
evy
November 16th, 2010
9:38 am
@ kimmie: good morning to you, and well said.
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
9:44 am
Morning evy!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
9:44 am
@evy – a pint of amaretto? ickk, that just sounds nasty…
@Simple Man – mail call
seems to me, that a serious relationship you’ve got to know somethigns wrong, even if you cant put your finger on it. their distant, noncommunicative, sometimes just little things that seem off from where there were before, but thats assuming that you’re actually paying attention. i think a lot of times folks see the little signs along the way but convince themselves it isnt what they think it is, simply out of denial of stubborness. but when the big wham comes for them it was no surprise. now i guess there are some folks that literally it comes out of teh blue, but i cant see being that oblivious to your surroundings that you dont see anything amiss….
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
9:50 am
with my last boyfriend (been single for about a year now) I think the sign of a break up was when he was doing something out of the oridinary.
Anything that raises alarm as to red flags…yep a break up is in the horizon.
I was hurt by it (and maybe still am) but I think that maybe it saved me from future heartache later down the road.
In short: we just weren’t compatible and now I am meeting more people that I could possibly be compatible with.
I am open to the possibilities
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
9:52 am
Evy….Keep an eye on fred.
He’s been up to questionable behavior lately: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3jsWbVg2lA
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
9:53 am
Blue: amaretto sours are the bomb! Sssshh…Don’t tell Fred!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
9:54 am
Blue: Simple asked and how could I resist
blue®
November 16th, 2010
9:55 am
@i am – im with you on the amaretto sours, i like extra cherries in mine…but a whole pint of amaretto creamer sounds like bad juju…dont need a pony puking all over the place….um, so what is this about a ceremony, what did yall do to him, he’s all tweaky and wierd…well wierder
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
9:56 am
Have you ever dated someone and thought things were going great and then out of nowhere they dump you? It’s probably not so much “out of nowhere” but because you weren’t paying attention, it felt that way
Can’t say I’ve been there….as it relates to relating. Other things maybe but not theotherhalf/SO/yingtoyang stuff. Because what works on our behalf most time is natural instinct, a message or the message is always sent….if you say you didn’t get the memo you chose to ignore it. Sometimes the message is overt, sometimes subtle but none the less it’s there. At this point,I’m good at yanking the life line. I can’t say it’s always been something I wanted to end but there’s something in me that won’t let hang on…that wreaks of desperation. I don’t do pity love or mercy love. I’m not one either for doing things just for the heck of. You don’t want to be there? Then I don’t want you to be there either. Sort of felt like being “resolved” to move on. I can say though once I moved on and got over it, I found myself to be all the better for doing so.
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
9:57 am
yikes, sorry about the bold
M. (pronouced M dot)
November 16th, 2010
9:58 am
Good day.
I think after the honey moon phase goes away, people always have in their mind an expiration date if things dont get better.
I think the signs are there alot of times but we lie to ourselves and ignore the signs.
“What were your warning signs that it was OVER?”
One huge warning sign is when they start to use work as an excuse of why they are so busy, especially if they made time for you previously.
“When do you know that it’s not worth fixing? How do you figure out if it’s worth fighting for?”
I know when its not worth fixing if it seems like I am doing all the work and she is making no effort. I think it may be worth fighting for if you two are going through a wave right now. If this continues and the stress levels increase, just end it and move on.
I am actually more comfortable ending things with women now because we are both adults and our time is valuable.
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:01 am
@ i am & blue: oh, my! i hereby relinquish any and all responsibility for dear fred – i am not qualified as a camel-wrangler…did that by any chance have anything to do with last night’s ceremony?
Fion
November 16th, 2010
10:03 am
You’ve got to use your Kenny Rogers voice “you gotta know when to hold’em, know when to fold’em”
czBrat
November 16th, 2010
10:05 am
HiYas!
haven’t been dumped since i was 14. but i can answer these …
When do you know that it’s not worth fixing?
when you’re the only one who wants it fixed.
How do you figure out if it’s worth fighting for?
if you’re the only one fighting, it ain’t.
Kym, you still lurking? just “hello!”
Fion
November 16th, 2010
10:09 am
This is that fine line in dating that seems to get everyone in trouble. Investing too much time (in/with) the wrong person.
Simply, you’ve got to see things as they are and not as you would hope for them to be.
East Point's Own
November 16th, 2010
10:10 am
What about the situations where there is what seems to be a small problem to one person, but the other person is disturbed enough by that issue to break up? In such cases one might not know that a break up is pending. I have been on both ends of that situation so I can say that it is possible to not know a break up is coming. Even with good communication sometimes its hard for a person to understand how huge an issue is to you when they see it as minute.
In other words,You may know that there is an issue to deal with but you don’t know you are about to lose the other person.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
10:10 am
off topic: got a letter from the county where my custody agreement was settled, their taking my ex to task over his unpaid child support….Ah Ha!! yes a small sense of satisfaction in that, but now wondering how am i gonna get to Jersey on such short notice…..(feel like Stewie now “Victory Is Mine!!”)
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:14 am
every couple goes thru ups and downs (if they stay together long enough, anyway), but if only one of you is working on it – or if you’re in a serious downward spiral; y’know, when the downs last longer and longer and come closer and closer together…after a while, the ups can kinda become just a fond memory.
if you realize the relationship is circling the drain, i think you owe yourselves at least a reassessment, while there’s still a chance (if you can’t work it out) to perhaps end it with a little grace and amity rather than staying together because one or both of you can’t admit that you can’t make it work…why stick it out just to kill each other slowly?
imo, no relationship is better than a bad one, and there is life after breaking up – especially if you handle it without all the enmity and vindictiveness that too often accompanies (and lives on after) you say goodbye.
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:14 am
Good morning….
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:14 am
Good morning….
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
10:14 am
Three Words Daily – I love myself.
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:15 am
Sheesh….can someone come over to my office right now and give me a hug? Regis and Kelly just called and I didn’t watch the show last night (I tape it). I couldn’t answer the question and blew a trip to Hawaii……
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
10:17 am
No matter the page you on…whether with them or not…if someone don’t want to be there while at the same time something is almost a nonissue for you….the signs will still be there. Maybe BECAUSE you’re not in tune you miss it but the signs are there. I could be wrong but I can see someone wanting to leave, be done, do want to do it (the relationship) anymore and stil produce the same face and efforts as they would if they’re all in. Just my opinion though.
czBrat
November 16th, 2010
10:17 am
from the POV of a habitual dumper, it’s much like M. said. if you pay attention to the way i’m just not up for the stuff we used to do together or i always find something to do that doesn’t include you … i’m very close to canceling your contract.
blue, if jersey is anything like ga the “taking to task” could still be a process of several years. my ex makes ONE payment every time they threaten jail, license suspension or garnishment because he has figured out that ONE payment is all it takes to get them to back off. so after more than ten years of this little dance they do, he still owes tens of thousands.
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
10:18 am
Leggs – {hugs}
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
10:18 am
you’re not you….
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
10:19 am
okay….what’s wrong with me today…I meant I CAN’T see someone wanting to be done and DON’T want to do it anymore…
Kym
November 16th, 2010
10:19 am
@czBrat Hello lady! I am still lurking..trying to work today and do right
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
10:21 am
Leggs — Seriously?
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:21 am
@ blue: glad to hear that he’s being held accountable, and i hope that works well..
@.brat, dayum! really?! and you haven’t had him ’seen to’? lol yer a better man than i am, gunga din…
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:21 am
Thanks, SexyC! Lil leggs will be bummed…ok, dusting myself off, moving onto the next contest. I did win $500 as a consolation prize. Have to not dwell on Hawaii, but man it’s HAWAII….ok ok, sniff, sniff….NEXT!!!
Kym
November 16th, 2010
10:22 am
Awww Leggs….sorry…
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:23 am
@i’m swiss ~ SERIOUSLY….sniff, sniff!
Kym
November 16th, 2010
10:24 am
@Leggs you just won 500 smackers..that is wonderful! That is 500 more than what you had when you started out this morning.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
10:25 am
Yes Blue!! We are <<<<<>>>>> I also like the extra cherries.
Are you my sister from another mother?
blue®
November 16th, 2010
10:26 am
@Leggs – oooh, that stings a little (huggs)
@cz – seriously? wow, ok. well first time we’ve gotten this far, so we’ll see what the process is. he’s not as far behind as that, but doesnt mean it wouldnt help. now their saying im not obligated to attend the hearing but would be in my best interest…hmmmm….to go or not to go, that is the question….
@evy – thanx…and im with, woulda had to have cz’s pal “seen” to…lol
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
10:27 am
Are you taping it today?
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:27 am
@evy/blue ~ both of you are loveably CRAZY!!!!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
10:28 am
random: Yo Yo Ma, India Arie, and Carlos Santana collaborating – good stuff…im stuck on repeat now…wanna play air guitar, but doubt that would fly well here…..
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:29 am
@SexyC ~ I’ve been taping it everyday since September and taking notes afterwork. Since September, but didn’t take my notes last night!!! That’s what stings! I’ll play it for her this evening, then I will duck cuz she may try to throw something at me!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
10:30 am
When you are no longer the apple in their eye… a break up is inevitable.
Evy…um you are responsible for Fred. Didn’t you see the responsiblity clause in the court documents attached to his satchel?
Kym
November 16th, 2010
10:30 am
@blue are you serious…I bet that is a beautiful collaboration..I love a man who can play the guitar..
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
10:30 am
How long have you been on the list for them to call?
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
10:30 am
I have never had the breakup of a serious relationship surprise me but there were a couple of guys that I was talking to and just starting to go out with that ended abruptly. As in, they stopped calling without warning. And there are a few guys that I did the same to.
But hey that’s how the cookie crumbles.
With the Nature Guy I saw that coming to an end several months before I actually ended it. I stayed way longer than I should have. The relationship was becoming very tiresome to me.
Sassy Me..Onward and Upward :-)
November 16th, 2010
10:31 am
Awww Leggs sorry to hear that
dayum….dayum….DAYUM!!(said in my Florida Evans voice)
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
10:31 am
Oh…well…I see. LOL!
Bless ya’ heart, baby….
Kym
November 16th, 2010
10:32 am
Random Thought not that anyone else if a fan of the Royals..but Congrats Prince William on your engagement.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
10:33 am
LOL SexyCool, just reading ‘How long have you been on the list for them to call?’ I could hear the wheels in your head turning.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
10:33 am
@i am – great minds think alike
@Leggs – whatdi do now?
@Kym – yep, from Santana’s new album “Guitar Heaven”, called While My Guitar Gently Weeps….makes you wanna get out of your chair and move….they performed it live when we went to the concert on my bday, took a 6 minute song and made it 20 minutes, with India dancing around the stage! it was awesome!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
10:33 am
Leggs, I tried to send you a hug twice but it seems they are caught in the filter. LOL
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:33 am
@SexyC ~ since September. You can go to http://www.livewithRegisandkelly.com and enter the Trivia contest. This month they’re looking for Christmas pics. I sent in a pic of myself dress as an elf with my elf shoes on. Bah Humbug!!
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
10:35 am
Sorry bout that Leggs! Huggs!!
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:37 am
@ leggs: leggs, dahlin! $500 – congrats! sorry bout hawaii…but, according to popular science, it should be there for awhile yet – meantime, enjoy your win! (you will buy me a present, right? i am partial to turtle soup. hot. with lemon.)
@ i am: whoa, now, jes a-holt on there! i ain’t see nuthin, i ain’t sign nuthin – i don’t have to, i don’t want to – YOU CAN’T MAKE ME!
Sweet Pea
November 16th, 2010
10:40 am
Did you see the beginning of the end?
No as the first impression and actions appeared to be strong, however once the rep started unraveling the real person I started to see the signs.
What were your warning signs that it was OVER?
If you have discernment that something is different be it physical, communication, and/or a person’s actions you can see the writing on the wall.
Would you try to put things back on track before it all comes undone?
I would attempt to discuss what I am feeling to see if the other half is feeling the same to determine where we are going and if it’s something that can be repaired.
When do you know that it’s not worth fixing?
If no effort is put into making it work after the discussion then it’s time to cut your losses as it’s no longer salvageable. There is no need to hold on to someone that is not giving you the same in return…there is no substance
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:41 am
@ kym: yep, guitar definitely a plus…
@ blue: i saw that concert, too – was most wondermous!
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:41 am
LOL at turtle soup, hot w/lemon…gross!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
10:41 am
@Leggs – since you have a Christmas costume already, you going to the Santa Pub Crawl with us? http://www.atlantasantapubcrawl.com/
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:44 am
@ leggs: delicious and nutritious – tastes just like chicken, lol! well, that’s what i hear, anyway…oh, alright – i will settle for a shrubbery.
p.s. -you’ve got mail
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:45 am
@blue ~ the pic I sent it was taken 10 years ago. I ain’t that skinny anymore (LOL). To go with you, I’d need a bigger costume!
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
10:45 am
Rock – I know, right?!?!? Because really, most days, I’m still at home when they call the contestant. I could very easily set my Tivo for a Season Pass. The only thing would be me actually watching the broadcast when I got home in the evenings.
Willie Dynamite
November 16th, 2010
10:47 am
Morning All,
Leggs – Congrats and awww all at the same time. I would give you a hug but you prolly got pink eye again. hahaha
On Topic – Only experienced 1 breakup that I didnt initiate or see coming. This was the one that got away. ol girl was a bonafide keeper. I had her (thought) wrapped up and on the shelf. I was still doing my thang outside of the relationship and took alot of things for granted. Needless to say I had a buddy (p.a.n.) that was I thought a road dog right along side me. Come to find out he was feeding her all the dirt I was doing all the while cozying up to her. When it hit the fan all I could do was chalk it up to the game. I learned a few valuable lessons that I really already knew but served as a reminder to read the fine print. For awhile after that I was the one giving the hooks left and right.
evy
November 16th, 2010
10:50 am
random: luminol can pick up blood trace after 112 years…
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:52 am
@SexyC ~ exactly. I took notes every night for 2 months, but didn’t last night cuz I was busy doing other things…Phooey. Go for it, it’s very easy to enter the contests. Usually a new category every 1.5 months.
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
10:54 am
@WillieD ~
Pink eye is GONE! WOO HOO!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
10:55 am
@Leggs – well get a bigger costume then! or wear that one
, you may run into an Abominable Snowman who just loves Elves!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
10:55 am
What about “Wake Up to the Make Up”? LOL
Willie Dynamite
November 16th, 2010
10:58 am
Leggs – If thats the case then come here and take this hug and then buy us a drink or three.
missy
November 16th, 2010
10:58 am
When do you know that it’s not worth fixing?
When you innocently google his name to find out he’s married…then has the balls to lie about it…yep…pretty much not worth fixing!!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
10:58 am
I am here every day and could watch but that show has never been a favorite of mine. Really once the news goes off at 7am I turn the television off.
I do sometimes watch a show that I taped earlier or will find a rerun worth seeing but other than that if the little lady is not watching something the tube is off.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
11:03 am
When do you know that it’s not worth fixing? I missed that question.
IMO it’s never worth trying to fix when you keep finding yourself at the same place having the same arguments about the same thing. That’s a sign that you are not growing in the relationship and it’s possible that the problem that keeps rearing its head is the hindrance. If that problem cannot be fixed then the relationship will always be broken.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
11:04 am
Morning all –
I can say my last break up kind of blind sided me…even though I am the one who broke it off. Things were going well, but clearly we were moving in different directions. I got intro’d to the family, then started getting phased out during gatherings. So yeah, the writing was on the wall, but it didn’t make me feel better about things!
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
11:06 am
@Raqi ~ they do give away very nice trips.
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
11:06 am
@WillieD ~ when the funds come in, you’re on!
Blackfoote II
November 16th, 2010
11:07 am
Hey:
Leggs:
Didn’t I give you the answer before I left for Nashville? Hawaii would have been fun and I’m here looking outside at a rainstorm.
Blackfoote
November 16th, 2010
11:08 am
evy:
Hi lady you work at NCIS right.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
11:11 am
Dang…sorry about that Leggs! $500 can help dry those tears.
I booked a trip to Hawaii in January during the Pro Bowl. I don’t know if I’m actually going to go tho, I should use that money for other things!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
11:11 am
I knew there was something I wanted to say on this board.
Last night I was watching Mike and Molly. The ‘couple’ was at the support group meeting when a new participate walked up and started talking to Mike. Mike introduced Molly (the woman he has been having a relationship with for a while) as “my friend Molly”. The new woman in the group from there proceeded to admire Mike and offered her number to him right there in his girlfriend’s face. The woman was innocent because she didn’t know the nature of the relationship of the two because he said “friend”.
It caused all kinds of problems for them and took my mind back to the many discussions we have had on her about the proper way to introduce the person you are in a relationship with.
Willie Dynamite
November 16th, 2010
11:12 am
Leggs – now you know I cant let you do that. Heyal, i think i still owe you some B-day NaVan from last yr that i craked open and kept for myself. Promise I’ll make it up this yr.
Blackfoote
November 16th, 2010
11:12 am
Is it raining today in the A?
evy
November 16th, 2010
11:14 am
hiya, blackfoote!
i’m sorry, that’s classified…
(speaking into 2way ‘dick tracy’ special) alright, guys – get some surveillance on this one, he’s askin questions…
Kym
November 16th, 2010
11:18 am
Off Topic-Vent
Dear Dumb Azz Robbers..College Kids do not have money..so why keep breaking in and robbing these kids for the cellphones their parents pay for or a laptop that they are using for their education…this foolishlessness really has to end!
Grace
November 16th, 2010
11:23 am
I was just there last month. And the honest truth is, even when I look back over the year we dated exclusively, I still don’t see it. Things were GREAT in the relationship! I thought we were on the same page, and then I was blindsided. Go figure.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
11:23 am
When we were in Hawaii I (by mistake) saw the most beautiful sunrise I have ever seen in my life. If you get to go Leggs and AmazonR, be sure to get up early enough one day to watch the sunrise. Just gorgeous I tell ya.
Dan - simply...Superior
November 16th, 2010
11:24 am
A note on the pillow will usually get the point across; if not, my half of the cab fare on the dresser usually does..
blue®
November 16th, 2010
11:25 am
@evy – 112 years you say….starting to wonder about you….
@Raqi – ok gotta ask how you end up in Hawaii by mistake? lol
Sweet Pea
November 16th, 2010
11:25 am
@Leggs…Congrat!!! Wrap your arms around yourself and that is a sista hug from me to you!!
@ARed….I got intro’d to the family, then started getting phased out during gatherings. So yeah, the writing was on the wall, but it didn’t make me feel better about things!
My sentiments, however only the strong survive and in the famous words of Nemo (Finding Nemo>movie)….Keep on swimming, Keep on swimming!!!:)
Stac
November 16th, 2010
11:27 am
Did anyoen see Oprah show about the men being molested. Have anyone ever been involved with a man who admitted it happen to him, did he act different than others in some ways?
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
11:30 am
LOL blue. I was not in Hawaii by mistake I saw the sunrise by mistake. Outside of being comical (which I seem to not do too well on here LOL) by mistake I mean that I got up to go to the potty really early in the morning when I would like to still have been asleep and I looked out the window of our hotel and saw the beautiful sight. It was absolutely breathtaking.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
11:30 am
@Raqi – Will do. Thanks for the tip.
@Sweat Pea – Thanks.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
11:31 am
Stac – I dated a guy who’s story was pretty much like Antoine Fisher. We got along well, but I couldn’t relate to his life (foster system, abuse) and he couldn’t relate to mine (Huxtable upbringing).
blue®
November 16th, 2010
11:32 am
@Raqi – gotcha! now i get it, lol. sounds like a wonderful view, but im with you, im partial to my sleep. so take a minute to see the sunrise, then back to dreamland for me….
evy
November 16th, 2010
11:33 am
@ blue: no need to wonder, dear – i am an open book…of course, it was heavily censored after my abduction, and i still haven’t mastered their technology to the point where i can disable it all, but i can hardly be held responsible for that…
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
11:35 am
but im with you, im partial to my sleep. so take a minute to see the sunrise, then back to dreamland for me….
blue – It’s not as hard as you think. When it’s 6 am in Hawaii, it’s like noon here in Atlanta. Your clock will be off when you get out there, so usually you will catch it regardless. That’s probably what happened with Raqi.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
11:40 am
@ARed – i could see that. hmmm, feeling “unworldy” here. havent realy been of this coast never mind out of the Contiguous US, or country period….been to Colorado for a week, thats about the extent of my travels
Stac
November 16th, 2010
11:43 am
Most men dont tell so Im sure we all know someone who suffered this abuse.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
11:46 am
blue –
Never too late to start!
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
11:50 am
Everybody should go to Hawai’i at least once… there’s gorgeous scenery of just about every kind there: black sand beaches, white sand beaches, coral reefs, snow-topped (yes, snow) mountains, rain forest, active volcanoes… amazing place…
blue®
November 16th, 2010
11:56 am
@ARed – tis true, tis true….gets interesting what with mr.blue being military and all, he gets to talking about how he’s been to Greece, Turkey, Italy on and on and im like aaahhh Shut Up! lol
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:02 pm
blue – Mr. blue should take you along! I don’t know if he’s active now, but dating a military man is one of the best ways to see the world!
I’m just obsessed with travel, so don’t mind me. I’d rather hold off on having kids even, so I can go to all the places I want to go. I’m way behind in my travel goals. But I’m stockpiling my frequent flyer miles!
Melo!!
November 16th, 2010
12:07 pm
Vick was smoking last nite….
feel sorry for the terrible abused DeAngelo Hall
blue®
November 16th, 2010
12:13 pm
@ARed – oh naww, he finished his tours in ‘04, and even so had done most of his travel before we got hitched. once we tied the knot, it was actualy war deployments, and i aint goign there lol!
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:16 pm
once we tied the knot, it was actualy war deployments, and i aint goign there lol!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:17 pm
There are only a few other places that I want to go in and outside of the USA. We’ll eventually get around to them.
On out hiking trip this weekend we are supposed to being some of the many waterfalls in the NC mountains. I bet being near that water takes at least 10 degrees off of the temp.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:18 pm
Blue, is Mr. Blue mean and irritable most days?
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
12:23 pm
Places I want to go in the US:
Seattle, San Francisco(done southern Cal alot already), New Mexico & Hawaii
Outside of the US:
Italy,Spain, really the entire Mediterranean region, London, Japan, Egypt, Bermuda
blue®
November 16th, 2010
12:26 pm
@ARed – LOL, exxxactly. i’ll send a box full of Gatorade, Ramen Noodles and pics from the kids, and stay stateside thank you very much…(those boxes were expensive as he!! tho, lol)
@Raqi – i wouldnt say most days and not mean, but irritable at times, oh yeah. weird question, lol, why?
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
12:28 pm
I admire that traveler about you, Amred. A lot of folks say they want to travel, but few actually do it. I mean, actually make it happen instead of waiting to win the lottery to be able to do it!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:31 pm
Kimmie, Spain and Italy are on my list as well as Israel.
In the US of A I plan to go to Vegas.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:32 pm
I am really afraid of military men. They are trained killers. Growing up I heard so many bad things about how they could snap at any given minute. I know the information I was being given came from a person that knew one that was crazy and another person knew one that snapped and beat his girlfriend nearly to death, but still they scare me.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:33 pm
Thanks kimmie, I appreciate that. Most of my travel is domestic though, so it doesn’t count. I did treat myself to a trip to Seattle though last November, it was great!
The only time I’ve left the country though is to got to Paris, Cancun and the Caribbean. I’d love to go more places, but I am wary of traveling as a single woman. And I really don’t have the money to do it right! Which is why I’ll probably hold off on Hawaii.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:35 pm
Oh yeah…I did just get back from Vegas huh? I do make sure I take at least a nice trip once a year, even if it is here in the states.
Last year I went a lot of places because I had to go to 6 weddings and none of them were here in Atlanta!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:37 pm
AmazonR, I agree with doing it right if you are going to do it. My husband agree that any place we go by plane outside of the US we will plan to be there for 2 weeks at the least. Being that those places are not somewhere you can jump in the car and drive to we will take our time and see the place.
Our short cruise to the caribbean doesn’t really count. LOL
blue®
November 16th, 2010
12:39 pm
@Raqi – i will say he’s special, not like anyone else ive been with. it took a lot of adjustment and education on certain things. military certainly had a profound effect on him, good and bad. i think it helped that we already knew each other b4 he went into the military, and that i had so many uncles already in to kind of be an example of what to expect. had one uncle specifically who was so much like mr.blue, also a Marine with the same skill assignment, that as the years have gone by gotta wonder if they knew each other, lol. marrying a military guy, imo, definitely not for everyone.
…for years after he got out, he’d take all the laundry i folded and refold them into perfect squares and insisted all his stuff be covered in starch…weird…
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
12:40 pm
Amred – I took advantage of my flying benefits as much as I could when I worked for an airline. But I was in grad school at the time and broke, so I didn’t get to do as much as I wanted. Even if you fly free, you still need room & board!
But there are great places in the US to see, so we should all try whenever we can. The only places out of the country I’ve been are Montreal, Canada, Mexico & the Carribean.
It’s really time for me to get to get to Europe & beyond!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:40 pm
I have heard that some of the gondola rides really aren’t that nice but I am still looking forward to taking one when we go to Italy.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:42 pm
My husband agree that any place we go by plane outside of the US we will plan to be there for 2 weeks at the least
Now that IS how you do it. Funny thing, after about 5 days or so, I’m ready to come home. But that’s probably because I start remembering how much it’s costing me to be in paradise! LOL
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:43 pm
he’d take all the laundry i folded and refold them
If for no other reason to marry a military man him doing laundry would be a good one. LOL
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:43 pm
for years after he got out, he’d take all the laundry i folded and refold them into perfect squares and insisted all his stuff be covered in starch…
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:47 pm
kimmie – I feel you on not having the money to travel, even when the flight is free!
Does your s/o like to travel? I really look forward to traveling with a partner. Hopefully I’ll find one who is into it!
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
12:47 pm
Raqi – I am not really psyched about going to Venice, Italy as much as other parts. I’m looking more forward to Milan(shopping), Tuscany(food) and Rome(sight-seeing).
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
12:49 pm
Amred – Yes, fortunately he loves to travel and is looking forward to going to some of the places I want to go! His wife liked to travel too.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:50 pm
One of my girlfriends has a boyfriend who is a flight attendent so they fly free. He flew her to Venice and proposed on a gondola.
I asked her to keep an eye out for a pilot for me.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:51 pm
AmazonRed, when we do go somewhere “big” (i.e. $$$$$) like that we will do so with the aid of a travel agent. We will have an itinerary rather than winging it the whole time. That way we will know the best places to visit and sights to see.
Maybe like and every other day type thing. One day we freestyle the next we go by recommendation.
And where we do go it would really help if the hotels are nice. LOL
We truly need to use these amex points before amex does away with them. It’s only a matter of time. It will save us a lot of money using them.
We used them on our last cruise and saved a couple thousand dollars on the cost. More than likely would not have taken that particular cruise line if we didn’t use the rewards.
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
12:51 pm
LOL @ you WillieD. After all this time, I gathered you drank it….good stuff, right???
@Sweet Pea ~ thank you. {smile}
Here’s the kicker…had to run to Wally World for toothpaste. Got a sample of their ranch wings and while walking was looking for a garbage can to discard the bone. I saw one to the left of me so I walked over to it. Lo and behold, I walked into the men’s room and two were standing there doing their thing…EWWWWWWWWWWWW. The teller yelled and laughed at me! My mind ain’t right today!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:52 pm
kimmie, Venice would only be for the gondola rides. You know growing up seeing it on television and how romantic it looked. LOL
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:54 pm
We truly need to use these amex points before amex does away with them. It’s only a matter of time
Oh yeah…please use those!
The only reservation I have about saving my miles is that tomorrow isn’t promised. I’m saving them all up and would hate to not have cashed them in cuz I wanted to “do it right!”
blue®
November 16th, 2010
12:54 pm
@Raqi/ARed – went from odd, to funny, to stop messing up my work!! lol. it has its down sides too, cant watch a military movie or anythign involving any kind of weapons without him crticizing technique, uniforms and firepower. sometimes i gotta be like “mr.potatoe head…you’re doing it again!”. those are the light sides of it, sure you can imagine the greyer areas…
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
12:56 pm
I asked her to keep an eye out for a pilot for me
My friend Deni dated a guy that worked for Delta and she got to fly free
as his spouseall the time. The only deal was she had to fly standby a lot times but that was fine with her. She got pretty decent seats and got to go a lot of places at no travel costs.AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
12:58 pm
@Raqi – Yes, my friend has to go EVERYwhere stand by. She was going to come on our trip to Vegas that way too. And because he’s working she’s sometimes only there for a day! She went to Egypt for 2 days, she was in Venice for like 40 hours! Enough to get engaged and then come back home.
So there are definitely downsides.
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
12:59 pm
Is that a hint???
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:01 pm
Melo!!
November 16th, 2010
1:03 pm
U don’t want a pilot Ared…I shuttled pilots onetime when I was broke..
some of the most rotated,girlfriend GPS spacing playas ull ever find.
and they all seemed to have a side hustle,to make cash-flow coz those lil Msises need maintenance!
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
1:04 pm
Pick a place and date….
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:04 pm
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:05 pm
Greece….for my birthday in December!
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:05 pm
Oh…or maybe Spain
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:06 pm
Or Monte Carlo
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:06 pm
Or Thailand
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:06 pm
Or Sydney
Leggs
November 16th, 2010
1:07 pm
Take it off the blog unless we’re invited!
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:07 pm
Or Tanzania
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:07 pm
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
1:09 pm
Yeah AmazonR it’s only a matter of time until Amex feel they are losing money despite the fact the consumer only gets one point per dollar spent. And it takes a whooooooole lot of points to go anywhere worth going, or buy anything worth buying. LOL But even in that someone in the amex corp will say they are losing money.
The best thing with us is my marido uses the card for most of his purchases of equipment and materials for his business. He racks up 15-20,000 pts any given month easily. After we got married I started using the card for major purchases and repairs here at the house so we can get the points. I bought a nice handbag that cost over 30,000 pts and end up giving it to a young girl at my church because she liked so. That was 30,000 one dollars bills that was spent to get that bag.
They have Dyson that I have been wanting but it’s about 65,000 pts. That’s taken to much away from our trip “money”. LOL However I can’t see me paying $350.00 for it either in the store.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:11 pm
I want a Dyson too! And a Shark Steam Mop.
I just switched banks cuz SunTrust has a check card that gives you points for every purchase. It’s not a credit card AND they give you 15,000 skymiles on Delta for signing up. Chaching!!!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
1:12 pm
Chaching!!! Yep. LOL
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
1:13 pm
That Dyson is nice! I have one of the originals. I got it on sale at Walmart years after all the different versions came out.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
1:15 pm
kimmie, the one I want is the one with the ball.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:20 pm
Evy at your 10:37: YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-c2bqx2GYE
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
1:20 pm
Kym are you still lurking?
I am actually a bit of a royal watcher. I liked Princess Diana. I am happy for William & Kate. Looks like it will be a real marriage based on love & respect. Not one like Charles & Di, which seemed forced just so they could have some royal heirs. William is losing his hair, got that from his daddy I guess. I read he gave Kate Di’s engagement ring.
Amred – Make Simple take you to the royal wedding in London next year!LOL!!!
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:21 pm
I read he gave Kate Di’s engagement ring.
I know her ring is lovely, but I’d want my own! Especially since ole Willy can afford it!
kimmie
November 16th, 2010
1:24 pm
Amred – I was thinking the same. But I guess they are more concerned with the symbolism of it all.
But with Willy’s millions, I would want a rare pink or blue diamond!
See, that’s why I’m not a princess, I guess!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:29 pm
“….I asked her to keep an eye out for a pilot for me…….”
I used to fly for Delta..trust me you don’t want to date a pilot. Most of them are married and are cheating on their wives. There may a small few that aren’t but then already have girlfriends.
Now if you do want free travel, date a pilot for FedEX or UPS. You will see get dicounted travel (dirt cheap) on other domestic airlines but the beauty is that when you fly on their planes, in the cargo area, you get to rest on goose down comforter beds. Kinda worth it for a cheating pilot
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:29 pm
typo: meant to say you will still get discounted travel
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:30 pm
Kimmie: at your 12:40.
I had the best hook up ever! I would fly for Delta and on my off days, I would bartend for a major hotel. Can you say dirt cheap hotel fare
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:32 pm
oh and Kimmie: by bartending off days, what I mean to say I would bartend at least no more than once or twice a month.
Still full hotel perks and 401K
evy
November 16th, 2010
1:37 pm
@ i am 1:20: :O
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:39 pm
LOL!
evy
November 16th, 2010
1:40 pm
d@mn uncooperative smileys…suffice to say i protest!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
1:47 pm
kimmie, why stop at pink or blue? Get a black one. LOL
When I marry 2CPTG in our next life he will have to present me with a 3.6 ct pure black diamond. That should only set him back about $5…6…700,000. LOL
blue®
November 16th, 2010
1:53 pm
random thought courtesy of Fresh Prince of Bel Air:
trapped in a basement
sitting on a tricycle
girl getting on my nerves
going out of my mind
i thought she was fine
dont know if her body is hers….
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 16th, 2010
1:53 pm
see….I was lurking just fine, til this:
“When I marry 2CPTG in our next life he will have to present me with a 3.6 ct pure black diamond. That should only set him back about $5…6…700,000. LOL”
all things considered, I guess that’s good….least you didn’t ask for that pink diamond I saw on CNN the other night….whew!
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:56 pm
I used to fly for Delta..trust me you don’t want to date a pilot. Most of them are married and are cheating on their wives. There may a small few that aren’t but then already have girlfriends.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:57 pm
Evy: no protesting. That was also mentioned in microscopic print in the clause
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
1:57 pm
blue – That was one of the funniest episodes ever!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:58 pm
Blue: your 1:53 for some reason reminds me of that I’m gonna get your sucka scene when the chick had fake hair, fake eyes, and a fake leg.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
1:59 pm
Blackfoote: it was raining earlier but it stopped. Not in the “A” today?
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:01 pm
@ARed – oh yeah, remember him sitting on that stupid bike with her hairpiece hanging in his eyes, lmao
@i am – sounds about right, chick had fake hair, eyelashes, and fingernails….when she snapped off the nails and put them in his hand he d@mn near puked, lmao
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:03 pm
LOL Blue! And the part when she was hopping after dude yelling “come Baaaaaack!”
LOL!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:05 pm
LOL!!!! Too funny!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-1C6QlvHl8
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:05 pm
LOL 2CPTG, I don’t even know how much a black diamond is or if they are really worth anything. The word “black diamond” just sounds exotic.
My ex boss’ wife has a pink diamond. I do know that set him back a grip.
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:07 pm
And we all know Kobe’s wife has a purple diamond.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:08 pm
i like the part where shes trying to get him to open the can of juice:
girl (all pouty lipped): open tthis fur meeee (eyelashes batting)?
Wil: whats the magic word?
girl (with attitude): NOWW!!
Wil: EERRRRRR….guess again….
ok, that show was always good for a laugh…
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:10 pm
@ARed – is that the one he gave her to apologize for the tramp scandal? how do you look at that thing everyday without thinking about why you got it?
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:10 pm
LOL!!!!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:12 pm
Blue: speaking on cheating scandals:
THis one just makes me sick.
I want to say poor wife but then again , she’s the one that chose to stay
http://blacksportsonline.com/home/index.php/2010/03/ex-nba-winston-bennett-i-gave-my-wife-2-stds-but-if-she-cheats-i-am-leaving/
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:13 pm
@ARed – is that the one he gave her to apologize for the tramp scandal? how do you look at that thing everyday without thinking about why you got it?
blue – Yup and yup. She probably never wears that thing! And it’s not like she can pawn it for the cash
(cost 4 million)
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:17 pm
Though Bennett said he was faithful to his wife Peggy for “exactly one day,” the two are still somehow together after 20 years. Even after Bennett admitted “dozens” of affairs to her and gave her two sexually-transmitted diseases. (Bennett said he “never” wore a condom.)
But it’s far from a happy ending. Bennett at the end of the interview inexplicably said he’d leave his wife if she cheated on him once.
8O 
…..ok, some people are just meant to be used for target practice, cause that sure enough would be theonly way we stayed together, improving my aim with the weapon of my choice….
@ARed – LMAO…i dont see how they do it, if theres any hope of me staying after that i cant be constantly reminded of what yuo did….
SlimNumeroUno
November 16th, 2010
2:18 pm
It really should be 5:00 already…..yaaaawwwwwwwwn!
What’s the haps in here?
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:19 pm
Pink, black and purple diamonds???? I don’t need all of that. I am happy with what I have.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:21 pm
Slim: since I still have the key to the blog bar (my bad for not giving it back to Dreams) Let’s go ahead and get this party started.
What will it be?
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:22 pm
Blue: 2 std’s and she still forgives him and stays
Was his wang really worth it
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:22 pm
Raqi – You’re a real housewife…I am CERTAIN you are blinged out!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:23 pm
and with HIV going around…how the heck are you not gonna wrap your wang when you are getting in on with complete strangers
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:24 pm
random: my cooworker tries so hard to be like Nikki Minaj….
SMH
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:26 pm
bad enough the STD’s, but the idea that he will leave her if she steps out even once?? got to be a special kind of he!! for folks like that…..
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:30 pm
AmazonR, I don’t know about all that. I’ll just say I am happy with what he gave me.
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
2:30 pm
blue – But it’s far from a happy ending. Bennett at the end of the interview inexplicably said he’d leave his wife if she cheated on him once.
…..ok, some people are just meant to be used for target practice, cause that sure enough would be theonly way we stayed together, improving my aim with the weapon of my choice….
Just wow…just plain ole wow…I don’t see it nor get it. It’s gotta be the money or something because in spite of what she’s labeled as a forgiving spirit (right), at this point it’s just outright nasty and disrespectful to give or receive that kind of treatment. Contracting STDs? Yeah I’d forgive his azz from across the way but Idda done it when it would have been effective…leaving after he’s done all he can do will do what? Nothing. Not saying she should continue but she showed no grit in that she kept dealing. Not keeping true to his marriage, his body and hers as well is something he’s obviously convinced not only himself but her as well that he cannot master. Lie. It ain’t that hard…mind over matter. Well, there are folks out there like that, that’s convinced themselves they can’t behave any better. Again, lie. I don’t know if she’s got a prenup (obviously not for dealing with that crap) but my favorite line is “you’re a woman scorned without a prenup, that’s a recipe for good living.”
Kym
November 16th, 2010
2:30 pm
@Kimmie I just tagged back in and saw your info on Prince William. I am so proud of him. Kate is not royalty so I am so glad its not a business or family arrangement but because he really loves and likes her. They make a cute couple. He looks so much like his mother.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:31 pm
This is what she should have done:
Followed thru with the divorce attorney.
Prior to filing papers, move undisclosed amount of money in Swiss bank account.
Find herself a playboy, have sex with him in the marital bed and climax just as hubby is walking thru the door.
evy
November 16th, 2010
2:32 pm
@ blue 1:53/2:05: ROFLMFAO!!
SlimNumeroUno
November 16th, 2010
2:32 pm
I am – I think i’ll go for a lemon drop martini…and as strange as it sounds, give me a sidecar of green olives too please.
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
2:32 pm
I am out…yaaaaah
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:33 pm
Raqi – I expected you to be modest.
But being happy with what he gave you is always good. One of my sisters has a lil bitty ring, but she loves it to pieces and I’m glad she appreicates it!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:34 pm
I do believe that people can and do suffer from sex addictions but when you find that out about a person, do you really want to deal with it?
It’s an addiction just like alcohol, drugs, etc….but it is only the symptom of bigger issues.
Again, do you really want to go thru that with someone after their actions have put you in harms way?
Now that I think of it, what if she caught HIV from him and that is the reason why she is still with him? I mean, once you catch that, isn’t your dating life for the most part shot?
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:36 pm
random: roundtrip nonstop flight to Newark, NJ the week of the hearing is $998!!!! oh he!! no…..
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:36 pm
AJC is such a crap paper. “Fulton” is spelled wrong on the homepage right now.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:37 pm
Lemon Drop: All grain vodka, sorry I’m out of lemon juice
Oh, and here’s your sidecar.
Bottom’s up! Alcoholic superhero!
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:38 pm
“… roundtrip nonstop flight to Newark, NJ the week of the hearing is $998!!!! …”
The hell!?!?! The city cesspool is going all big willy style for airline rates? Er?
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:41 pm
Kym, how would you feel if your son and his admired father figure was keeping a secret from you?
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:42 pm
AmazonR, you know I do drive a 1976 Pinto and all….LOL
DaddyDapper
November 16th, 2010
2:42 pm
Pimpin!
I love women! Dat’s my s_ _ _!
Keep it Pimpin!
SlimNumeroUno
November 16th, 2010
2:43 pm
I am – daaaaaang, what sort of establishment is this. I feel like I walked into a jukejoint of some sort. lol
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:45 pm
@Celisea – Just wow…just plain ole wow…I don’t see it nor get it. It’s gotta be the money or something because in spite of what she’s labeled as a forgiving spirit (right), at this point it’s just outright nasty and disrespectful to give or receive that kind of treatment – i say she’s doing her own thing already and just hasnt gotten caught like him. cause really, if she wasnt, how do you keep from smothering him in his sleep?
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:46 pm
Yeah,,,, while dreams was away, I was able to upgrade and get a dj
strippers and polesdon’t forget to tip your DJ
make it rainblue®
November 16th, 2010
2:46 pm
@i am – im wondering on that one too. problem is they scheduled the hearing for Christmas week, now flying in or out is crazy expensive, unless your willing to do a layover…
Kym
November 16th, 2010
2:46 pm
Oh I am nosy Raqi I would about beat it out my son..because I would wonder what kind of secret. I mean if it involved my son’s health or something I most def need to know what is going on. But if it is something like they are planning a surprise for me..I might not be as stressed. But I still would like to know.
Why your hubby and your son keeping you out of the loop on something?
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:46 pm
Raqi: did the marido ever get you floor boards, seatbelts, and brakes yet>
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:46 pm
how do you keep from smothering him in his sleep
Easy. You set the whole bed with him in it on fire.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:47 pm
Blue: see if you can fly into Philly and make the drive the rest of the way
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
2:50 pm
random: lovin’ how next year’s holidays mainly fall on a Monday
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:51 pm
Raqi – Maybe you’re gonna be a grandma again.
Just kidding.
You know your hubby will tell you what’s up eventually!
czBrat
November 16th, 2010
2:53 pm
in case any of you have an opportunity to step outside for a moment; the temp is perfect, the breeze is amazing and the fall leaves swirling about are absolutely beautiful. it’s a breathtaking autumn day out there. enjoy it!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:54 pm
Kym, yeah. When the boy came home yesterday I sensed there is something going on with him. I got him to finally admit that it was something but I cannot get out of him what it is. I asked my marido to talk to him, which he did, but neither will tell me what’s going on. I have asked the marido 3 times and he tells me it’s none of my business.
I did carry the boy for 9 months and gave birth to him so yeah it is my business. However I do know that my husband would never lead the boy wrong so I do trust that he has a handle on it.
But still I want to know what it is. Part of me feels like it should not be kept from me since I am the mother.
After I asked him the 3rd time to tell me he asked me if I am going to tell him everything Elizabeth tells me in confidence. I told him yeah if I feel like it’s something he needs to know. He said ‘okay that’s why I am not telling you because you don’t need to know’.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
2:55 pm
Raqi – Maybe you’re gonna be a grandma again.
x_x
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
2:56 pm
Ladies, speaking of travel… May I interest you in a cruise?
Kym
November 16th, 2010
2:57 pm
@Raqi..maybe it involves the girlfriend..and he felt better talking to a male about what is going on than you do. Now if it involves sex..I think you should know. There is no need to know when it comes to sex..and teenagers.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
2:57 pm
@Raqi – 246:that’l work too
@i am – i suppose thats a possibility…may just call in and say have fun without me, lol. not interested in seeing him anyway, lmao
AmazonRed™
November 16th, 2010
2:58 pm
Kym
November 16th, 2010
3:02 pm
Enter your comments here
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:03 pm
Kym, I asked him if the boy is having sex now and he just says, ‘it’s none of your business’.
He was fine when he left for school yesterday morning. (shrug)
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:03 pm
Raqi — How old is your boy, out of curiosity?
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:04 pm
it’s probably some testiscular related issue
AmazonR, yeah, like blueballs. I hope that it is blueballs. LOL
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:04 pm
Gouda, 15.
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:05 pm
Yeah, it’s probably a “guy thing” that he’s embarrassed about.
Kym
November 16th, 2010
3:09 pm
@Raqi..hmmm well if he is having sex..is he having it at school cause if he gets caught it becomes a displine issue. I would think your hubby would tell you if he was having sex given that you are already a g-mama.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:11 pm
I concur with Swiss. He may have a crush on a girl, problems with getting a woody an impromptu moments, yeah that sort of thing.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:13 pm
If I have to hear the word cougar one more time ….
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:13 pm
Guys never like talking to their moms about anything involving their dude parts, no matter how old they are. I got embarrassed telling my mom I had testicular cancer & I was 25 at the time…
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:14 pm
Cougar.
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:14 pm
Now what?
Kym
November 16th, 2010
3:15 pm
I told my son you can try sex if you wanna but I am no ones grandma..ole girl and her parents are in for a treat coming at me with that. You getting a job and possible a new place to live..me I’m going to Disney World.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:15 pm
If women are cougars, then men should be dingoes
blue®
November 16th, 2010
3:17 pm
a dingo ate my baby (said in my best australian accent)
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:20 pm
Gouda, it has to be a guy thing.
Kym, my husband has an agreement with the boy that he would go to him when he thinks he is ready to take that step. Mase has assured him that he will not ‘punish’ him or anything for telling him. At the age he is the only acceptable answer for him would be “don’t do it”. However I don’t want another grandchild so making sure he is protected is the next best thing to do.
My husband has already talked to him about the use of condoms and how to properly use and dispose of them.
I am hoping, hoping, hoping, that he did not tell him he is ready and wants to buy condoms.
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:21 pm
Pump your brakes, blue. You know that’s a true story. Lady lost her kid…
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:22 pm
(said in my Robert Downey from Tropic Thunder voice)
blue®
November 16th, 2010
3:23 pm
@swiss – well i was thinking specifically of the Seinfeld episode where that was Elaines line…but yeah, there was a true story along those lines…all kinds of oddball trivia stuck in both our heads i see
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:24 pm
me I’m going to Disney World
LOL Kym.
Girl, it ain’t fun at all. My oldest AND the baby’s mother used to try those tricks of dropping the grandbabe off here. I told them I don’t think so. They don’t live in Georgia anymore so no need to drop lil Jr. off. When he had to move in a one bedroom apartment when I stopped helping him pay rent he was saying how there was no where for the grandbabe to sleep. I told him put him the bed between yall.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:25 pm
Dingo!!!
Dingo!!!
Dingo!!!
Dingo needing viagra. Bwahahahha!!!!1
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:25 pm
“I am hoping, hoping, hoping, that he did not tell him he is ready and wants to buy condoms.”
But if that is the case, you should be relieved that he actually came to talk about it & is approaching it in as responsible a manor as possible. Most kids would just not say anything & go raw.
Kym
November 16th, 2010
3:26 pm
@Raqi..I told my son I would get him condoms or make sure he had condoms if he got to that point..he knows all about HIV, herpes, and has seen more than enough pictures of the results of sexually transmitted dieases(I am all about reality) I told him with sex comes responsiblility. So if he goes out there doing the do..be prepared for the reality of what happens when he does. We even talked about bjs(can I say that here) because apparently that is the new form of not having sex..and these little girls are doing all kinds of stuff to get attention. I already found him looking at porn and according to one of my friends her son was copying his Dad’s DVD’s(porn) and trading them with friends at school.
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:27 pm
blue — Oh I don’t know if that’s really true or not, I was just quoting from Tropic Thunder…
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:31 pm
“We even talked about bjs(can I say that here) because apparently that is the new form of not having sex..and these little girls are doing all kinds of stuff to get attention.”
Yeah, young folks don’t consider oral s3x to really be s3x. (Thanks, Bill.)
I read an article a few years back about these “virginity pledges” that were a big thing a while back (maybe still are?). They did a study and found that girls who took these virginity pledges, while less likely to have vaginal intercourse, were many times more likely to have anal intercourse.
I guess everybody always looks for a loophole…
Kym
November 16th, 2010
3:31 pm
@Raqi..sounds good to me. Again you made that youngin not me..good luck homie!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
3:32 pm
@Raqi/Kym – the boy is 12, and im too scared to think about the conversation you two are having, so i have chosen to stick my fingers in my ears, hum to myself, and act like it doesnt exist….lala la….
@swiss – now i saw Tropic Thunder, and cant remember that part for nothing, lol. but yeah, true story. mom swore up and down it had been the dingos, nobody believed her. she actually did time, 4 years, till they found the babies clothes in a dingo den, and then she was finally released.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:32 pm
Gouda, yeah I know but I still would rather that he not did it all right now.
Him choosing the lesser of the two evils is best I can ask for I guess.
He’ll be 16 in February. I do know that my husband did tell him how he tried it for the first time at 14 and it didn’t go that well. He didn’t do it again until he was 16.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:35 pm
Yes Kym, we have discussed the oral favors also. You are right about kids now days thinking that as long as there is no genital penetration it’s not really sex.
I personally told him that he can have a baby and only have to take care of it for 21 years, but AIDS is something he will die with.
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:36 pm
And the other thing, Raqi… If that is what he talked to your hubby about & your hubby told you, he’d never tell either one of you anything else ever again…
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:37 pm
he’d never tell either one of you anything else ever again
Gouda, I know.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:39 pm
“….her son was copying his Dad’s DVD’s(porn) and trading them with friends at school……….”
At that is why there is the Internet
Mental note to self: Delete cookies for when little I am gets old enough to surf the net
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:40 pm
Blue, you keep right on doing that and see what it gets you. My oldest son started at 14 with the very little that I told him he was going to want to do it with. He denied that he would want to do it with her and he denied doing it with her up until I caught them. And I talked to him about sex.
What do you think not talking is going to do? 12 is the perfect age to start talking. In fact in this day and time you are 2 years behind.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:42 pm
It’s sad the times that we are living in.
Growing up…the worst that would really happen would be the girl would get pregnant or you would have to go get a dose of penicillin.
Nowadays, I am fearful thinking of the time my son decides to have sex. Lucky me he’s only 2 but the thought of him having sex terrifies me because so many more people now have HIV.
Scary thought.
I will have the talk with him early. I will preach abstinence, but I am not stupid. I will teach him about condoms
blue®
November 16th, 2010
3:42 pm
@Raqi – in seriousness tho, how did you and or your husband approach the topic with your son? tried to get mr.blue to talk to the boy and he shys away from it saying he’s still got time. pressured him into one day cause the boy had come home talking about girls in his 6th grade class were pregnant…and lets say that did not go well…the 3 of us in the living room, and i try to drop the hint of talk to him and make my discreet exit, and mr.blue just blurts out with me right there “so, you having any jimmy problems?”…was all down hill from there, finally had to jump ship altogether cause the boy was obviously confused/mortified
Melo!!
November 16th, 2010
3:45 pm
Raqi-maybe u gonna be a grandma again!
Hilarious really!
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
3:47 pm
“so, you having any jimmy problems?”
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:50 pm
I think 8 year old is a good time to start to talk about it but leaving out the graphicness for when they get a little older.
Honestly, if you think about it, you begin talking about sex when you introduce potty training…. So as they go up in age, you should progress more with the topics-age appropriate of course.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
3:52 pm
Blue, one night I heard the boy up and went to see what he was doing. He was changing the sheets on his bed. Something happened and he didn’t understand what so he tried to hide it by changing his sheets. The next morning I told my husband what happened and that I thought the boy had a nocturnal emission. He said he would find out and I was right.
He told him exactly what it was that happened and why it happens and all that. We just started by telling him how the body changes and the feelings he will start to get and how to handle those feelings.
With my oldest I don’t when his n/e started but I do know when he started liking his son’s mother and that’s when I started talking to him about sex. I think where I went wrong with him is I told him about condoms but I was not willing to offer to buy them. So when he started having sex he didn’t use anything but a condom here and there that the girl took from her dad’s nightstand. I didn’t keep condoms in my house so even if he looked he didn’t find any.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
3:53 pm
If you are really tongue tied about the subject, you can always enlist the help of Dave Chappelle
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZHTFsw2Eqg
Melo!!
November 16th, 2010
3:56 pm
my co-worker has two adopted kids,a 10 year old boy and an older girl.
the boy was found out byrne house nanny looking at porn. They both go to a Christian pvt school.
The dad gave him a buttock nicety.
He(dad) was telling me,a girl from his school had been calling the house…..and be4 the porn incident,one day when dad was within earshot,lil dude asked for privacy so he could talk to chic on the phone!
these spolit brats!
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
4:02 pm
blue – Your 2:45….yeah I guess if doing her own thing makes her feel better about allowing a dude to straight piss all over her is a high price to pay. Forget payback, get back and revenge. It’s just sweet enough for me that no matter what you say or ask for that matter I’m done and have eternally dismissed you….of course being that’s done prior to the STDs and babies and when he felt she was worth keeping. Heck after all this time and about time to get off the ride, taking a stand probably little to nil effect.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
4:03 pm
@swiss – it was funny and sad at all the same time…im trying not to bust out laughing, giving mr.blue the WTF look, and he keeps going “jimmy problems, wang trouble, stiffies, woodies…stop me any time here if its ringing any bells” and the boy is looking confused and like he’s gonna be sick all at the same time. i started to excuse myself and the boy gives me the ”
DONT LEAVE ME” look. we got absolutely nowhere.
@Raqi – when do they start having those n/e’s? havent seen any signs that theres anything going on with him that he doesnt understand, but never know what exactly is running thru his head. may need to borrow your hubbie, mine says his dad grabbed a playboy and left it at that, lol. told him thats probably how mr.blue himself got here, using playboy as the sole educational tool. we’re not heading that route
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
4:03 pm
One of my ex sister-in-law’s son was suspended from school at 6 for putting his hands in one of the girls panties. She let him but he got suspended. And then she caught him emulating sex (dry humping) with another little girl in their back yard. So even at a young age you have to teach them like it is. Yes age appropriate but real all the same.
Imma tell Elizabeth when she goes to preschool don’t let those little boys (or girls) touch her anywhere that is a private place. I am going to show what those private places are. And I am going to tell her don’t let anyone tell her to touch them in their private place. Boys, girls and TEACHERS. If they do let me and her father know. This will start at preschool age.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
4:03 pm
Anyone remember how when you’re a freshmen in college, they are throwing condoms in your face left and right?
Well, my first break home from school as a freshman, I had a suitcase filled with them. My younger brother was watching me unpack and was like a little boy gone wild in a candy store when I gave him the condoms.
LOL!
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
4:05 pm
And here comes that little secret keeper now. LOL And there he goes up the stairs.
He gone tell me what his problem is. LOL
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
4:05 pm
It’s also important to teach boys not to let anyone touch them.
We have to warn them about child molesters
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
4:07 pm
Blue, my husband said they start at different ages. As young as 10. Had the boy not been up changing his sheets I would not have known.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
4:12 pm
Heck as much time as that boy spends in the shower now I would be surprised that he has anything left in him (seaman and energy) to do anything with any girl. LOL
I used to have to make him get back in the shower and bath for real after his 1 minute bird baths, now I have to make him come out after being in there close to an hour.
You all have a great evening.
Raqi V
November 16th, 2010
4:14 pm
Yes I know I spelled it wrong. LOL
Good night.
I am whatever you say I am
November 16th, 2010
4:15 pm
“…his 1 minute bird baths…”
LOL! What is with guys and bird baths. LOL!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
4:17 pm
@Raqi – thanks for the info. gotta push mr.blue at it again. told him we may have to look up something on youtube or somewhere lol, of some Leave it to Beaver type dad having the convo, give him a model to follow, lol
Celisea
November 16th, 2010
4:18 pm
That’s what I told my baby. I lifted skirts, shirts and pulled down pants and said these are all private places and NOBODY sees or touches but mommie…teachers, preachers, friends, kinfolks….NOBODY. I remember her looking at me sooo strange when her pediatrician lifted her shirt after her boobies/knots started growing. I had to tell her the doctor can look as long as mommie is present. Now I gotta teach hey, those same secret places are still secret places and not for expose for the teenage dude tryna get peek/touch/touch/feel.
Melo!!
November 16th, 2010
4:21 pm
how would a daddy be viewed, writing like Raqi is,(4.12) about his daughter?
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
November 16th, 2010
4:22 pm
“I would be surprised that he has anything left in him (seaman and energy)…”
Speaking as a former 15-year-old boy, I can tell you that they have an unlimited supply of both.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
4:43 pm
>>> tap dancing around in all this here empty space <<<
Kym
November 16th, 2010
4:45 pm
Are we still on teen sex or have we moved on.. I don’t want to cook tonight.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
4:49 pm
got no topic Kym, just me tap dancing around……trying to convnce myself into staying an extra hour…arrggg
Kym
November 16th, 2010
4:52 pm
Awww…hang in there..
SlimNumeroUno
November 16th, 2010
4:53 pm
Raqi – my 9 year old lil cousin is in the bird bath taking stages. It’s so funny when i hear his mom yelling to him, “I don’t hear no water running”. And if he exits too fast she’ll go in there and be like, “Your back is not even wet!…nor is the soap!” ..funky lil behind..So I told him I would nickname him Triple D for Doo-Doo Drawers and threatened to make t-shirts for him too.
Kym
November 16th, 2010
4:54 pm
Apparently little boys are only into being clean when they start liking little girls. Then again some of these little girls are funky too.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
4:57 pm
@Slim/Kym – i was gonna say that whole “Your back is not even wet!…nor is the soap!” gotta do that with my older daughter, just turned 10. gotta sniff her when she comes out “how come i dont smell any soap, only on your hands?”. never thought id have that convo with the girls . had to remind her, gonna be some things around the corner that she cant survive without washing, lol
Kym
November 16th, 2010
5:04 pm
My niece does the same thing will not fully wash…I always tell her when she is here…little girls should not smell like puppies.
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:13 pm
sunny day..sweeping the clouds away…on my way to where the air is sweet……
evy
November 16th, 2010
5:17 pm
you can make it, blue – you can make it!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:20 pm
c is for cookie, thats good enough for me…..
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:22 pm
cookie cookie cookie starts with C… LOL
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:27 pm
Simple Man!! you’ve come to sing with me?
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:33 pm
(getting in touch with my inner child) rubber duckie, you’re the one…♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:33 pm
LOL…You are 2 funny!!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:37 pm
♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪ its not that easy being green….
E-neeg-mah
November 16th, 2010
5:37 pm
Riddle me this Simple Man, which regular blogger r u?
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:38 pm
E-neeg-mah
What do you mean???
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:40 pm
I am the same Simple Man I have always been…. No need to pull a switch a roo…
E-neeg-mah
November 16th, 2010
5:41 pm
Which regular blogger r u?
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:41 pm
why are there so many, songs about rainbows? and whats on the oooother siiide?……(wait…that could have double meaning these days couldnt it…aww screw it, i like the song)…..someday we’ll find it, the rainbow connection ♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:43 pm
blue…be carefull of those Ernie and Bert songs….they were nastier than this blog after five!!!!
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
5:46 pm
LAST!!!
(lol)
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:46 pm
yeah, thats why i stayed away from berts “Doin’ the Pigeon”….too many jokes there…..
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:47 pm
how about this one
Put down the duckie!! i said put down the duckie ( put it down )!! put down the duckie if you wanna play the saxaphone!!!!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:48 pm
i think that was the old Owl critter….the one with the jazz band…
SexyCool
November 16th, 2010
5:50 pm
Okay…maybe not…
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:51 pm
I a boy muppet is singing about wanting to “blow a sax”…It lends itself to way to many jokes!!!
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:53 pm
lol, i suppose so. well, enough of Blues Renditions today, time to check out…Simple Man – walk me to my car? im a-scared of the dark
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:55 pm
Get close darlin…i will protect you…. and don’t be alarmed When i rub against you its for your protection….
blue®
November 16th, 2010
5:57 pm
lol, protection it is then, shoulda figured what with the raincoat and all, i mean it is raining right? turning off the lights and setting the alarm! better not be anybody left in the back!!
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
5:59 pm
Come on….Lets walk slowly…
blue®
November 16th, 2010
6:01 pm
gotta walk slowly, im wearing heels!
Simple Man!!!! Standing on the sidelines......Watching.....
November 16th, 2010
6:07 pm
Even better!!!!