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Dating warning signs: Wake up to the break-up

Have you ever dated someone and thought things were going great and then out of nowhere they dump you? It’s probably not so much “out of nowhere” but because you weren’t paying attention, it felt that way. I have been there before and that whole “hindsight is 20/20″ thing came into play. There were signs and I didn’t see them.

If you aren’t the type to fight, break up, make up ..rinse/repeat, then you may end up in these situations when you couldn’t see the expiration date on your relationship. When think about a break-up you went through, did you see the beginning of the end? What were your warning signs that it was OVER?

If you figure out things are headed to splitsville, would you try to put things back on track before it all comes undone? When do you know that it’s not worth fixing? How do you figure out if it’s worth fighting for?

Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

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AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:04 pm

:lol: Thanks for the bubble burst melo!

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:05 pm

Greece….for my birthday in December!

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:05 pm

Oh…or maybe Spain

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:06 pm

Or Monte Carlo

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:06 pm

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:06 pm

Leggs

November 16th, 2010
1:07 pm

Take it off the blog unless we’re invited! :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:07 pm

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:07 pm

Raqi V

November 16th, 2010
1:09 pm

Yeah AmazonR it’s only a matter of time until Amex feel they are losing money despite the fact the consumer only gets one point per dollar spent. And it takes a whooooooole lot of points to go anywhere worth going, or buy anything worth buying. LOL But even in that someone in the amex corp will say they are losing money.

The best thing with us is my marido uses the card for most of his purchases of equipment and materials for his business. He racks up 15-20,000 pts any given month easily. After we got married I started using the card for major purchases and repairs here at the house so we can get the points. I bought a nice handbag that cost over 30,000 pts and end up giving it to a young girl at my church because she liked so. That was 30,000 one dollars bills that was spent to get that bag.

They have Dyson that I have been wanting but it’s about 65,000 pts. That’s taken to much away from our trip “money”. LOL However I can’t see me paying $350.00 for it either in the store.

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:11 pm

I want a Dyson too! And a Shark Steam Mop. :lol:

I just switched banks cuz SunTrust has a check card that gives you points for every purchase. It’s not a credit card AND they give you 15,000 skymiles on Delta for signing up. Chaching!!!

Raqi V

November 16th, 2010
1:12 pm

Chaching!!! Yep. LOL

kimmie

November 16th, 2010
1:13 pm

That Dyson is nice! I have one of the originals. I got it on sale at Walmart years after all the different versions came out.

Raqi V

November 16th, 2010
1:15 pm

kimmie, the one I want is the one with the ball.

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:20 pm

kimmie

November 16th, 2010
1:20 pm

Kym are you still lurking?

I am actually a bit of a royal watcher. I liked Princess Diana. I am happy for William & Kate. Looks like it will be a real marriage based on love & respect. Not one like Charles & Di, which seemed forced just so they could have some royal heirs. William is losing his hair, got that from his daddy I guess. I read he gave Kate Di’s engagement ring.

Amred – Make Simple take you to the royal wedding in London next year!LOL!!!

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:21 pm

I read he gave Kate Di’s engagement ring.

I know her ring is lovely, but I’d want my own! Especially since ole Willy can afford it! :lol:

kimmie

November 16th, 2010
1:24 pm

Amred – I was thinking the same. But I guess they are more concerned with the symbolism of it all.

But with Willy’s millions, I would want a rare pink or blue diamond!

See, that’s why I’m not a princess, I guess! :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:29 pm

“….I asked her to keep an eye out for a pilot for me…….”

I used to fly for Delta..trust me you don’t want to date a pilot. Most of them are married and are cheating on their wives. There may a small few that aren’t but then already have girlfriends.

Now if you do want free travel, date a pilot for FedEX or UPS. You will see get dicounted travel (dirt cheap) on other domestic airlines but the beauty is that when you fly on their planes, in the cargo area, you get to rest on goose down comforter beds. Kinda worth it for a cheating pilot :wink:

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:29 pm

typo: meant to say you will still get discounted travel

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:30 pm

Kimmie: at your 12:40.
I had the best hook up ever! I would fly for Delta and on my off days, I would bartend for a major hotel. Can you say dirt cheap hotel fare :wink:

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:32 pm

oh and Kimmie: by bartending off days, what I mean to say I would bartend at least no more than once or twice a month.
Still full hotel perks and 401K

evy

November 16th, 2010
1:37 pm

@ i am 1:20: :O

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:39 pm

evy

November 16th, 2010
1:40 pm

d@mn uncooperative smileys…suffice to say i protest!

Raqi V

November 16th, 2010
1:47 pm

kimmie, why stop at pink or blue? Get a black one. LOL

When I marry 2CPTG in our next life he will have to present me with a 3.6 ct pure black diamond. That should only set him back about $5…6…700,000. LOL

blue®

November 16th, 2010
1:53 pm

random thought courtesy of Fresh Prince of Bel Air:

trapped in a basement
sitting on a tricycle
girl getting on my nerves

going out of my mind
i thought she was fine
dont know if her body is hers….

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 16th, 2010
1:53 pm

see….I was lurking just fine, til this:

“When I marry 2CPTG in our next life he will have to present me with a 3.6 ct pure black diamond. That should only set him back about $5…6…700,000. LOL”

all things considered, I guess that’s good….least you didn’t ask for that pink diamond I saw on CNN the other night….whew!

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:56 pm

I used to fly for Delta..trust me you don’t want to date a pilot. Most of them are married and are cheating on their wives. There may a small few that aren’t but then already have girlfriends.

:roll: Do you keep the records or something?

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:57 pm

Evy: no protesting. That was also mentioned in microscopic print in the clause

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
1:57 pm

blue – That was one of the funniest episodes ever! :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:58 pm

Blue: your 1:53 for some reason reminds me of that I’m gonna get your sucka scene when the chick had fake hair, fake eyes, and a fake leg.

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
1:59 pm

Blackfoote: it was raining earlier but it stopped. Not in the “A” today?

blue®

November 16th, 2010
2:01 pm

@ARed – oh yeah, remember him sitting on that stupid bike with her hairpiece hanging in his eyes, lmao
@i am – sounds about right, chick had fake hair, eyelashes, and fingernails….when she snapped off the nails and put them in his hand he d@mn near puked, lmao

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:03 pm

LOL Blue! And the part when she was hopping after dude yelling “come Baaaaaack!”
LOL!

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:05 pm

Raqi V

November 16th, 2010
2:05 pm

LOL 2CPTG, I don’t even know how much a black diamond is or if they are really worth anything. The word “black diamond” just sounds exotic.

My ex boss’ wife has a pink diamond. I do know that set him back a grip.

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
2:07 pm

And we all know Kobe’s wife has a purple diamond. :lol:

blue®

November 16th, 2010
2:08 pm

i like the part where shes trying to get him to open the can of juice:
girl (all pouty lipped): open tthis fur meeee (eyelashes batting)?
Wil: whats the magic word?
girl (with attitude): NOWW!!
Wil: EERRRRRR….guess again….

ok, that show was always good for a laugh…

blue®

November 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

@ARed – is that the one he gave her to apologize for the tramp scandal? how do you look at that thing everyday without thinking about why you got it?

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:12 pm

Blue: speaking on cheating scandals:
THis one just makes me sick.
I want to say poor wife but then again , she’s the one that chose to stay

http://blacksportsonline.com/home/index.php/2010/03/ex-nba-winston-bennett-i-gave-my-wife-2-stds-but-if-she-cheats-i-am-leaving/

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
2:13 pm

@ARed – is that the one he gave her to apologize for the tramp scandal? how do you look at that thing everyday without thinking about why you got it?

blue – Yup and yup. She probably never wears that thing! And it’s not like she can pawn it for the cash :lol: (cost 4 million)

blue®

November 16th, 2010
2:17 pm

Though Bennett said he was faithful to his wife Peggy for “exactly one day,” the two are still somehow together after 20 years. Even after Bennett admitted “dozens” of affairs to her and gave her two sexually-transmitted diseases. (Bennett said he “never” wore a condom.)

But it’s far from a happy ending. Bennett at the end of the interview inexplicably said he’d leave his wife if she cheated on him once.
8O 8O 8O …..ok, some people are just meant to be used for target practice, cause that sure enough would be theonly way we stayed together, improving my aim with the weapon of my choice….

@ARed – LMAO…i dont see how they do it, if theres any hope of me staying after that i cant be constantly reminded of what yuo did….

SlimNumeroUno

November 16th, 2010
2:18 pm

It really should be 5:00 already…..yaaaawwwwwwwwn!

What’s the haps in here?

Raqi V

November 16th, 2010
2:19 pm

Pink, black and purple diamonds???? I don’t need all of that. I am happy with what I have.

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:21 pm

Slim: since I still have the key to the blog bar (my bad for not giving it back to Dreams) Let’s go ahead and get this party started.

What will it be?

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:22 pm

Blue: 2 std’s and she still forgives him and stays :shock:
Was his wang really worth it :?:

AmazonRed™

November 16th, 2010
2:22 pm

Raqi – You’re a real housewife…I am CERTAIN you are blinged out! :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 16th, 2010
2:23 pm

and with HIV going around…how the heck are you not gonna wrap your wang when you are getting in on with complete strangers :shock: