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The waiting game

If you ask a guy how long he waited to “seal the deal” with his girlfriend and you are likely to get a very precise answer. Apparently, the waiting game is one of the few games that men look forward to losing.

Anticipating when someone is ready to take the next step can require a lot of patience. I would argue that it can become distracting to some people to the point that it’s all they ever focus on. A lot of times it can take away from the “exploration phase” of getting to know someone.

I think women may be able to contend with the waiting game a little better then men, although it’s tough on us too! How do you handle the waiting game? Do you bring it up at all or pretend the sexual tension isn’t there?

Do you think the longer the wait is, the better your chances are to have a stronger connection? Does that make a difference when you want something really meaningful?

What’s the longest you have waited to seal the deal?
(Question Disclaimer: I personally didn’t want to ask this question but my friend Eric was curious about the responses since he gave me the topic idea. You’re welcome)

473 comments Add your comment

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
8:25 am

g’morning…

“Do you think the longer the wait is, the better your chances are to have a stronger connection? Does that make a difference when you want something really meaningful?”

none of this matters….what matters is chemistry, and the vibe….with some folks, the waiting game may be til you get home from the first date, and for others it could take quite awhile…’pends on the folks involved….example – perfect evening, and everything is flowing just right….he might get some later on that night; while for some, dude may me “alright” but said something stupid, and talked his way outta the coochie, so naturally, chic gon’ wait awhile to see if dude gon’ redeem himself…he may, or he may not…..wait and connection are not proportionally dependent upon each other.

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
8:34 am

“Sup 2Can?

On topic….This is one of those areas where Women (Generally Speaking)Poison the dating game.. There are not many guys that I know that put stips on when the deed gets done. We are more inclined to go with the flow and if itjumps off the all the better!!!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
8:43 am

’sup, Simple Man…..”Petey Wheatstraw”!!! that’s whats up….mayne I love those ’70s blaxploitation films…..

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
8:53 am

Rudy Ray Moore was the MAN!!! LOL

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
8:58 am

Good Morning!

I guess I will be the first lady to step right as I’m Cleopatra Jones Baby!!! Love some 70s blaxploitation films too!!!!

Do you think the longer the wait is, the better your chances are to have a stronger connection?

Maybe/Maybe not as it depends on the people involved, personalities, and how it’s flowin’ as that will determine whether it will go to the next level.

However, I feel that double standards apply with this as men appear to think that you’re a garden tool if you do such things. Of course, I’ve never been the type to just let myself go as I’d rather for us to get to know each other as the casual thing is not for me. I know that my upbringing has a lot to do with that so I’ve stayed true to my roots for the most part. Not to knock others who enjoy a fling after the first date or two as you like what you like. I would rather find out more about you than to jump in waist deep and later ask myself “DID I DO THAT” in Urkle’s voice with regret.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
8:59 am

Good Morning All,

Happy Veterans Day! To all the men and women of our armed forces..Remember Freedom ain’t Free!

I think if the connection is stronger to start then waiting to do the do is not going to increase or decrease that connection. I agree I know couple who met date one clicked and have been inseparable every since. An despite what the guys will say again I think if a woman is jumping in the bed with you date one, you are not inclined to lean toward developing something meaningful with her as oppose to if she suggest progressing at a slower pace.

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:01 am

hmmm… did I say something wrong?

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:02 am

Let me see can we say sex?

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:03 am

Can we say tramp?

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:03 am

hmmm… what da problem iz den?

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:03 am

can we say sex and tramp in the same sentence?

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:04 am

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:04 am

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:05 am

let me try this

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:07 am

Oh well. I guess I can’t talk about this topic today….LoL

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:07 am

How about them Falcons???

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:09 am

The waiting game is ridiculous, it proves absolutely nothing. If a guy is dating you for 2, 3, 6 months and you are not giving it up.. there is a greater than 50% chance he is just getting it from somewhere else. This is not always true, but it is true that the vast majority of men do not relate or equate love and sex. Women get it twisted when they think a man is showing good character or strong interest by waiting months to get some action.
I think men don’t start to take relationships seriously before sex is involved. We go through the motions of dating and spending time together, but most men are not “all in” until we know that the sexual relations are at a certain level. While you are holding out we are still assessing other options, and if we are still dating other women, and one of them seems like a good woman, and she is proving that she can keep that man satisfied, most men are going to focus on the chick who is putting out if most other things about the two women are equal.

This also leads to an opportunity to have a heartbreak situation, when that man settles in with one woman, and then this “old”chick who was holding out for 3 months calls because she can’t wait any longer to give it up, but ole boy has moved on, but still comes by to knock the dust off since he already put in so much work. But he is no loner emotionally attached to this woman, but she is now extra attached because he was a nice dude who “waited” 3 months and then the sex turned out to be good too… But she soon finds out that he is not that into you anymore. Either he will say so, or he will just come by to have sex when possible, but he is no longer in relationship mode with you. You have fallen into the sex buddy zone, because you tried to make that dude wait. Sex buddy zone is the equivalent of when women put men in the friend zone… its almost impossible to come back from that.

All of this of course, is excluding those men who have sex with women and then call them tramps because they gave it up too soon…

I waited 3 months once to have sex with a woman, but as I stated earlier I was just getting it in with other women… but in this case it was worth the wait, and it was worth cutting off those other women…LoL

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:12 am

Please forgive me if at some point today my post is listed 5 times…LoL it ain’t my fault.

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
9:20 am

For the record, I never view a woman negatively for being aware and comfortable enough with herself to go there if she feels like thats where she wants to be and what she wants to do…. In My eyes that does not make her a Ho, it makes her self confident and That is very sexy in a woman…

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
9:21 am

Good morning!

Happy Veteran’s day to everyone who has served our country! Shout out to my favorite vet “Pops”

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
9:28 am

Well, It’s a really simple concept: It happens when it happens.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
9:29 am

East Point: your last post has the song: It ain’t my fault- Master P in my head. LOL!

Morning simple dude!

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
9:34 am

Whats good I am??? Last day of the week for me….Ready to get at this weekend!!!

Raqi V

November 11th, 2010
9:38 am

All I know is you can try to ignore that ‘tension’ once it become quite obvious that it exist but it’s gonna mess with you when you least expect. It’s going to show up in your dreams. When you are trying to relax in a warm foam bath at the end of the day it’s going to creep into your thoughts.

It’s going to make you cut conversations short so he can get in his truck and leave because you can’t even look at him straight.

It’s gonna make you accept a rainy Saturday afternoon lunch date at his house where the point will come that nothing else matters but feeling the weight of him on top of you.

That ticket to seal the deal will either eventually expire or get cashed in.

It’s up to each individual how they wish to live their lives. However…you gonna always get a slue of guys that want nothing more than to get in your panties and out the door that will say a woman not putting out is not mature or is playing games or missing up the game. Sorry guys but a woman’s goods are hers to do as she pleases. Nothing you do or say entitles you to it. You best believe that we generously share with whom we want to share. If you ain’t getting it….

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
9:38 am

Morning all –

The waiting game is hard when you are attracted to someone. But it is necessary. I don’t even try pretend that sex doesnt’ mean anything, or that I don’t get emotionally attached. Sex is supposed to be special and mean something, so yeah, I’ll wait to make sure my decision satisfies my head and heart, as well as my “needs.”

You can tell Eric the longest I’ve probably waited to “seal the deal” is 8 months or so.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
9:42 am

Good morning lovely people!

Sigh… this topic AGAIN?

Simple – The poisioning actually was done by men many years ago, for labeling a woman a garden tool if she gave it up too soon. Yall made it hard on yourselves after that.

How soon we go there, with me, depends on how comfortable I am with the man, the chemistry and how mature I feel him to be. I’m just not into casual, never have been. I’m not built that way, to just need a “release”. I’d just feel empty. If we go there, I’ll catch feelings and most men say they don’t equate physical intimacy with love. Just cause we “went there” don’t mean we are exclusive or serious, they say.

That’s really all I have to say about it. Tired of beating a dead horse. Everybody do you, we all grown.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
9:44 am

You best believe that we generously share with whom we want to share. If you ain’t getting it….

Raqi – You shut it down with this!!!

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
9:45 am

Morning All,

I personally dont have a problem with waiting or not waiting. When it comes to these chicks I’m amnidextrous (sp). I know some chicks gon make you wait just cause and some are down when you are down. Doesn’t change my opinion of you one way or another. Most Dudes I believe already know this going in. We are accustomed to the obligatory 30/60/90 day rule. Whether we’ve been on 2.6 or 6.2 dates matters only in our interaction. I appreciate the back and forth of the chase so to speak.
I will admit tho that once I know you’ve turned it into the waiting game just cause then I prolly would have ulterior motives. If we vibing and everything all good on both sides. We have each other hot n bothered and the deed looms on the horizon and then you hold back. That tells me you have made the puddy the prize. I usually then turned my focus to getting the prize. My attention has shifted from getting to know you better, enjoying your company and appreciating your smile and whatnot to smutting you out and going on about my business.

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
9:46 am

@Simple Man….In My eyes that does not make her a Ho, it makes her self confident and That is very sexy in a woman…

I appreciate your honesty and your feeling of such, however I’ve known it also to be said by some men that if you easily give up the goods then you’re giving it up easy to everyone else too.

IMO, If you wait 30,60, 90 days to see what someone is bringing while they are doin’ someone else then cool….at least I don’t have to put out ;-) If one decides to get with it on the first date or whenever you feel like it then it’s ok too.

I don’t look at it as a waiting a game I look at it as being safe for me.

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
9:46 am

Morning Ared!!! Hope you are well today!

“You can tell Eric the longest I’ve probably waited to “seal the deal” is 8 months or so.”

DAYUUUUUMMMMMMM!!!!!!!

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
9:49 am

Good morning!

@EPO ~ you’re trigger happy this morning, but I agree with your post, esp. the 3rd paragraph.

Whether you wait or not, depends entirely on how you feel about that person and how you feel about yourself. If you want to do it on the first date you will. If you verbally put a stip on it to the guy, more than likely he will immediately become void of vesting much emotion into you and will start looking for a warmer body to connect with.

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
9:52 am

:lol: I am I am whatever you say I am , I saw “East Point’s Own” and was thinking more along the lines of
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LX4QBNxieAc

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:52 am

I had one woman tell me that when she dates a guy she hold out for 3 months (90 days) and she does not mind if he has sex with other women, because she is still having sex with other men. But she says that does not stop her from getting to know the 1 dude she is trying to get with long term. I told her that she was setting herself up for failure. If you are having sex with other folks who you don’t want to be with, you might as well be getting it on with the 1 man you want to actually invest your time into.

http://hispointofview.com

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:53 am

Oh yeah, she also said that she hopes that the dudes she is dating is having sex with someone else, so that he won’t be bothering her about it, while they get to know each other… smh I think might have written a blog about her…if not I should have.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
9:54 am

LOL. Morning Simple Man.

And moving forward, ideally I’m gonna try to wait until marriage. :)

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
9:55 am

Bom dia peoples!! @Topic. I would have to yes, the longer the wait is, the better your(my) chances are to have a stronger connection. Based on my own experience, I grew to actually like the person.

Let’s face it sometimes all seems well and then bam something is said or a personality quirk exhibits itself and puts that person in a new light. 8O

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
9:55 am

HiYas!

i thought the topic was about waiting to commit. i see from the comments it’s really about waiting to get physical. i suppose my thought would be the same either way; discuss your position and when you’re on the same page … move forward.

on another note: the guy from that viral news video actually got some spotlight on lopez tonight. i dunno whether to laugh or cry. guess i’ll just smdh.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzKtPezPsqE&feature=related

http://www.tbs.com/video/index.jsp?oid=233798&eref=sharethisUrl&ref=nf

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
9:55 am

EPO – Her rationale is ridiculous. :lol:

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
9:55 am

@Leggs I need instant gratification… can’t be waiting 30 minutes to see my post show up…LoL

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
9:56 am

I do think it’s stupid to verbally tell someone “we have to wait 30/60/90 days”! Don’t folk have more “finese” than that?

I also don’t think you should tease. It’s a tease to get each other all hot and bothered, or get yourself in situations where you KNOW it could go down – and then pull back! That’s frustrating to the both of you and is childish and silly.

If you want to get to know a person better before you go there, keep things on rather neutral turf. Get out and do things, where you can talk and interact. Be mature about it.

Raqi V

November 11th, 2010
9:56 am

LOL kimmie. They like to say something is wrong with us or we’re tripping. NOT!!! We are going to give it to who we want to have it. Period. Boys if you ain’t getting it then you ain’t that who.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
9:56 am

Let’s face it sometimes all seems well and then bam something is said or a personality quirk exhibits itself and puts that person in a new light.

Absolutely. Chemistry does not mean people can’t be total douches. And finding that out takes time.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
9:59 am

@EPO ~ all I can say is WOW…that sounds crazy to me! I can’t be sexing one dude trying to connect with another.

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
10:01 am

@EPO 9:52am…………sounds complicated to me! Too many people to juggle to really get to know that one person…WOW

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
10:01 am

Amred – In my experience, those that didn’t get “chosen” revealed their doucheness early on. It did not take it 30 days, much less 60 or 90! No need to waste each other’s time!

I am whatever you say I am (Scorpio's Reign- My birthday is Sunday Beotches!)

November 11th, 2010
10:02 am

Delight: Thank you for that musical interlude :-)

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
10:05 am

@ Kimmie….EXACTLY!!!

If you want to get to know a person better before you go there, keep things on rather neutral turf. Get out and do things, where you can talk and interact.

I am whatever you say I am (Scorpio's Reign- My birthday is Sunday Beotches!)

November 11th, 2010
10:05 am

wha happan to my post :shock:

I am whatever you say I am (Scorpio's Reign- My birthday is Sunday Beotches!)

November 11th, 2010
10:07 am

“…..You can tell Eric the longest I’ve probably waited to “seal the deal” is 8 months or so……….”

That would be more torture on me than torture on a dude I was with.
I’m a Scorpio so you can imagine any kind of waiting on my part is a challenge.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:08 am

am I blocked? :shock:

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
10:09 am

I mean really most guys who are just trying to hit it will be out after 2 or 3 dates.. the dudes who stick around after that are either interested in getting to know you…or they are just determined to do any and everything to get your goods, those type of dudes will hang around for years waiting to get some action from you.

I once dated a young lady (for a couple years) who had a male friend who I spotted early on as just hanging around waiting to get a chance, but she said that I was wrong because no man would hang around for years trying to hit it. I think it was 3 months after we broke up she said he propositioned her for sex.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:09 am

oh okay! There’s my post. Blog must not like the tag I had in my name

Delight: Thank you for that musical interlude :lol:

Simple dude: Working from home tomorrow weekend starts now!taking it mad crazy easy tomorrow if you want to call it work

East Point's Own

November 11th, 2010
10:10 am

@I am whatever you say I am Now you see how I felt this morning…LoL welcome to the club

@ajc turn down the darn filter on the blog… or put up a 21+ disclaimer for this here blog. sheesh…

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:11 am

Amred – In my experience, those that didn’t get “chosen” revealed their doucheness early on. It did not take it 30 days, much less 60 or 90! No need to waste each other’s time!

kimmie – True that. But sometimes, it does take longer to find out people’s true intentions. You might not find out in 30 days that someone doesn’t want kids, because it’s so soon, but 6 months later, when things can’t be called “casual” you’ll start finding out all types of things. :lol:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:13 am

@EPO ~ true “diehard” will stick around, waiting in the wings for years/decades. I know firsthand!

Raqi V

November 11th, 2010
10:14 am

My opinion about the 30/60/90 days rule is it’s just a baseline (that’s really not the word I am looking for) that some women work with. But that doesn’t mean should she feel compelled to do so she will not give it because of a rule, she will do whatever pleases her.

She may regret it or she may ask for more but it’s her choice.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
10:14 am

A dude can out-wait you when it comes to the puddy. If that’s all he’s after, he can play whatever role he thinks you want him to play until you give it up. What do you all think all those male “friends” have been doing all these years?

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:17 am

I try to put it a limit on when I will do the deed just so I can get to know the person better. but I don’t have a set time limit. I go by, when I feel comfortable at being intimitate that’s when it happens. YOu can’t really put a time limit though. 30/60/90 day rule whatever. If a guy knows that you are waiting for the 90 day mark he will act accordingly just to get some if that is his only goal and then once he gets it he’s out.
Sometimes I feel that if you are attracted to someone, and you are both feeling each other like that, go ahead and do the deed , get it out of the way so that there is no pressure….the real test is how does someone treat you after you’ve given it up. If you give it up and dude is there for the long haul-he’s a good dude. If you give it up and dude only comes around you for sex- you’ve found a dog.
Some people you just click with and you are able to find out a lot about them in a short time frame and other people it may take longer.
Bottom line whether you do the deed early or not SEX spells S.E.X. It does not spell I.O.U

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:17 am

What do you all think all those male “friends” have been doing all these years?

:?

Well, clearly we women can outwait the men, if they never get it.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
10:22 am

You might not find out in 30 days that someone doesn’t want kids, because it’s so soon, but 6 months later, when things can’t be called “casual” you’ll start finding out all types of things.

Amred – Now when that happens, it can be truly heartbreaking! Got experience with that too!

I am whatever you say I am ( My birthday is Sunday!) Scorpios reign

November 11th, 2010
10:22 am

Dreams: I’m how would you say…..feelin frisky for lack of a better word.
So, to help me get over that, open up the blog bar and pour me up a Bacardi and coke. Make mine a double please

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:23 am

Sometimes I feel that if you are attracted to someone, and you are both feeling each other like that, go ahead and do the deed , get it out of the way so that there is no pressure

:shock:

That’s good advice for those who don’t value themselves or know their worth.

Pressure is a state of mind. Human nature will tell you there will be plenty of people who you’ll be attracted to, doesn’t mean they get to have sex with you.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:24 am

My birthday is Sunday! Scorpios reign!!! :lol:

Dreams: Since we are on this topic, I’m feeling a bit frisky (for lack of a better word) which is not a good feeling because A) I’m at work and B) I’m still single

So to help me through this, open up the blog bar and pour me up a Bacardi and coke. Better make it a double.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
10:26 am

I Am – Your 10:17, I like. Like you, I go by when I feel comfortable. Some have been able to make me feel comfortable quicker than others.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:27 am

Ared: it has nothing to do with self worth.
If you are comfortable with yourself and you want to do it , just do it!
Sex is Sex
It does not define who you are.
I’m not saying you have to give it up to everybody that you meet but sometimes you get fortunate where you are really able to meet someone that is geniune and you have a strong connect with them .
What’s the point of holding out for 90 days but you don’t know anymore about this person than you did day 1?
Quality over Quanitity is basically what I mean now that I have broken it down Barney style for you

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:27 am

Yep kimmie WE are <<>>> there!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
10:28 am

I Am – Now I don’t like the part of your post about doing it to get it out of the way. Makes it seem like a chore rather than the special expression it should be.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:29 am

“…… true “diehard” will stick around, waiting in the wings for years/decades. I know firsthand……..”

Yep I agree….I have that experience currently going on.
I think I’ll give him a chance when I am 70 in a nursing home.

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
10:30 am

@Leggs 10:13……Hilarious!!!!!

Raqi V

November 11th, 2010
10:31 am

A dude can out-wait you when it comes to the puddy.

DreamsMat, but does he wait without any other side action? 95% can’t.
A woman can wait and wait and wait without anything else going on but you men will find something on the side while hoping the woman believes you are in waiting. Like you said he can ‘play the role’ which means what he is allowing or wanting the woman to believe. But what he is actually doing when not in her presence is getting his needs met with someone else.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:33 am

Kimmie: I don’t mean it to sound as a chore.
What I mean is you are really feeling this guy, but your calendar is saying hold out you have X amount of days to go.
I’m saying is that if this person has should you a lot about themselves and your intuition tells you you can trust them stop looking at the calendar and go ahead, do it. But do it because you are comfortable, do it because YOU want to and do it when YOU.

Women make a mistake by thinking if I make him wait I will get my relationship. It doesn’t work that way. Sex is only sex.
That is why some guys can be committed with one girl and cheat on her the nextt. Yeah he may love his girl but the cheating was just sex to him. It fulfilled a need that he had for the moment. Kinda like a transaction if you will. Now, I don’t condone cheating. It’s just how it is with some people.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:34 am

typo: Meant to say do it when you want to

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
10:35 am

Ladies, did the men disappear? or have they decided to lurk here on out???

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:35 am

Sweet Pea: I am asking myself the same as I wait for Dreams to make my drink drank :evil:

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:38 am

I am – If you are having sex with someone to “take the pressure off” it has EVERYthing to do with self-worth!

People who are discerning don’t need to sleep with someone, and HOPE the guy they slept with will still come around.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:39 am

@Raqi ~ of course he’s waiting but has side action…he just wants to conquer that particular “patch.”

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:40 am

Ared: you are really stupid. I am not even going to go further this with you.
You have no idea what I mean. But you know it all right!?!?

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:40 am

@Raqi ~ reading is fundamental. I didn’t read your entire post.

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
10:41 am

Yeah…they threw the DEUCES up so it looks like we have to bring on the drinks and toast!!! LOL Where are they when you need em!

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
10:42 am

Ladies the Men didn’t disappear. Just not a whole lot to add to the topic. We see it as part of the game. Your personal reason/explanation does not change the playbook on our end.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:42 am

Sweat Pea: well in that case pour up a shot of Patron in addition to the Bacardi of Coke

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
10:42 am

“Sex is only sex.”

To those that only see it as such. Busting a nut entails more than the phsycial for moi. My big head rules the little man in the boat. :-)

Weird analogy, but I don’t have a little head so..

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:43 am

Ared: you are really stupid. I am not even going to go further this with you.
You have no idea what I mean. But you know it all right!?!?

Sounds like you’re the stupid one if you have to resort to name calling because you can’t handle simple discussion.

Take your ball and go home then if you can’t take opinions different than yours. :) :arrow:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:43 am

Ared : F you and your family

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:46 am

To those that only see it as such. Busting a nut entails more than the phsycial for moi. My big head rules the little man in the boat

Girl…please get that said.

But it’s interesting to get insight in to the ways of loose women. :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:46 am

Delight: there is a yiddish saying that goes when the cock get hard the brain get weak :lol:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:46 am

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:46 am

Ared : F you and your family

Yeah, you’d probably do that too to get the “pressure off”

I’ll pass tho. :D

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:47 am

Ared: yeah continue getting insight from your loose momma.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
10:47 am

I am watching I Dream of Jeannie..she just cast a spell to get Tony to fall in love and ask to marry her. I just had a thought is there one guy in my past or present who I would put the roots on to be with? Hmmmmm

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
10:47 am

“I think I’ll give him a chance when I am 70 in a nursing home.”

A’ight. Mess around and break a hip. By then we’ll have Viagra 2.1. :P

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:47 am

@I am ~ there’s no need for any of that. You don’t know her to even begin to diss her family. Let’s be nice!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:48 am

Ared: yeah continue getting insight from your loose momma.

My momma ain’t loose, but apparently your mouth is. :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:48 am

Leggs: I’ve had it with Ared.
She has done nothing but disrespect me ever since I first came up on this blog.
So yeah,….F her and her family.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:49 am

ALOL @ Delight!

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
10:50 am

Delight: there is a yiddish saying that goes when the cock get hard the brain get weak.

Physiologically speaking there is an actual reduction in blood flow to the brain…I guess mine just adapts too quickly to be “fooled” into giving up control. :mrgreen:

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
10:50 am

ahhhh just like the old days. Not even 11 yet. Goodell should be stepping in about 5,4,3,2…..

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:51 am

Oh My! Mrs. Winners is filing bankruptcy :shock:
I love their chicken strips, mac and cheese.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:52 am

LOL Delight!!! :mrgreen:

Kym

November 11th, 2010
10:52 am

Sex is mostly mental.

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
10:52 am

aww come on.. No fighting!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
10:53 am

So not necessary! :shock:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:53 am

@I am ~ what is wrong with you this morning? Do you get this vile every time you get horny and can’t release? Now you’re talking about her loose mama…that is truly uncalled for. Speak on that which you know. You’ve never met her mama, but I have and I take offense!!!!

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
10:53 am

Mrs. Winners is filing bankruptcy. Hmm, between roberries and the infusion of Popeye’s (ole exspensive behind) and KFC re-vamping their menu, it was only a matter of time.

Too bad capitalism didn’t work as well on wall-street. Could’ve saved all that dang bail-out money. :|

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:56 am

Wise: I’ve really had it with her. I’m tired of her always disrespecting me.
I don’t want to fight but at the same time I won’t let anyone disrespect me.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:57 am

Who the heck is “I am?”

How long has she even been on this blog? That’s how little I pay attention. I couldn’t give you details about her if I tried. Half the time, I forget if she’s male or female.

LMAO @ her “keeping score”

Poor thing. :lol:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:57 am

@I am ~ we have all been disrespected up in this camp…SO FREAKING WHAT. If you can’t play nicely, you’re about to be banned! This is exactly what WD is trying to prevent and you bring your silly trantrum on here over NOTHING!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:57 am

Ared: go play with yourself.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:58 am

Leggs: All I can say is that if you take offense-then it confirms it’s true.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
10:58 am

Random Thought: I wonder if voodoo hoodoo really does work. I know my friend from NOLA is not to keen on the use of Tarot cards.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:59 am

Leggs – No need to take offense for my mom. She’s a wonderful woman who wouldn’t give a rat’s patooty about what some internet harlot has to say.

It’s just nice to see folks true colors show when things don’t go their way. I feel sorry for ole girl. She has to result to insulting my family just because she can’t handle discussion on a message board. How does one function in life? :lol:

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:00 am

Ared: go play with yourself.

Huh? Uh…no. How’s that. :D

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:01 am

Yeah: Ared is the bomb! And that is why she is divorced!
:lol! Congrats! yep! you the bomb girl! Go head!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:02 am

Um…I’m not divorced. Get your story straight weirdo. :lol:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:02 am

It does not confirm it’s true. I take offense to you badmouthing a woman you never met, a seemingly very happy woman in a marriage that has stood the test of time, raising her family and sticking with her man THROUGH THICK AND THIN, and you sit there calling her loose! Silly rabbit, you the trick today.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:03 am

and you sure aint’ married either !
go get your cats!
ALOL!

Stupid C*** .
Yep , she get it from her momma.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:04 am

@I am ~ you’re playing with that “fuzzy math” again! Your facts are skewed!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:04 am

Raising her family: She obviously failed miserably with Ared.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:06 am

Whatever….I’m done.
Oh yeah, watch your back. Just sayin’

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:06 am

Ha! there is actually a blog for voodoo spells..seriously you can find anything on the internet.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:07 am

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:08 am

LMAO…did this internet gangster just threaten me.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Yeah, you should tap out. Cuz all you’ll continue to do is keep making yourself look foolish and pathetic. :lol: :lol: :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:08 am

LOL at WillieD and Roger Goodell. No sooner than you said it…

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

“…Yeah, you should tap out. Cuz all you’ll continue to do is keep making yourself look foolish and pathetic…..”

and you are much better with your responses?
Troll!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

Silly rabbit, you the trick today.

Good one Leggs. :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

Dreams: where’s my drink dammit!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

Oh, I’m the trick today?
Pot calling kettle black.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:10 am

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:11 am

Dreams: where’s my drink dammit!!!
I am 3 double shots of Patron coming right up. You might need a lil sticky icky too…

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:12 am

I am – I thought you were done? Guess not!

As for my responses…I don’t need to stoop to your level. You look pathetic enough all by yourself.

Besides, you’re such a non-factor in my life, I can’t remember a single thing about you to even go there with you… Keep on keeping score though. You know I love my fans! :)

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:12 am

Dreams: you forgot the bacardi and coke! :evil: !

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:12 am

Dreams – The NCAA could learn something from WD and Goodell. It really doesn’t take months/yrs to handle an investigation. I’m already tired of the Cam Newton situation and I’m a Gator.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:13 am

Dreams: you forgot the bacardi and coke!
I am ok here’s the bacardi…no coke though.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:13 am

Someone go play with ARed:
Obviously she needs attention.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:14 am

Dreams: you tryin to get me drunk?
LOL!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:14 am

@WillieD..I was trying to catch up on that whole Cam Newton story..I am not a big follower of college football.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:14 am

@ARed ~ two years old…dang that went fast! All those smiley faces should have you passed out by now!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:15 am

Hey Einstein, obviously you want to give me attention.

If you’re done…you should probably stop addressing me…. otherwise you just prove you’re a pathetic liar, instead of just being pathetic! :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:15 am

Ok ladies, come on back now. Blog ain’t quite right without you all in here.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:17 am

@ARed ~ two years old…dang that went fast! All those smiley faces should have you passed out by now!

:lol: It did go by fast. And my 10 month old neice is walking now. Awwww… :D

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:18 am

Sorry Dreams…I’m gonna be mocking her temper tantrum for at least a week now.

“I dont’ like ARed, she is disrespecting me! Wah wah wah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
11:19 am

Dreamboat – We need you men around to make it all better! :)

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:20 am

Willie D….man that situation with Cam Newton is pathetic! yeah, everybody (that follows college football) knows what happened at UF, but why bring it up now…’specially if all that happened awhile ago….seems to me like some disgruntled folks don’t want him to get the Heisman, cause he’s clearly the favorite….or was, at least…

and y’all ladies calm down, please….

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:21 am

I am calm. :) I’m not the one making internet threats. ;)

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:22 am

“I’m not the one making internet threats.”

yeah, that is sad….’specially how “the folks” take that kinda stuff pretty seriously…

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
11:23 am

Well well well…good late morning to yall. It seems a bit smokey in here, is someone’s arse on fire? :lol:

Ared – I haven’t read the first two pages but I have just one question. How do I go about signing up to be one of your ‘fans’? And is there a pledging process as well? :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:24 am

Dreamboat – We need you men around to make it all better!
kimmie come sit by me then. you know I got you.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:25 am

hol’ up, I am….

ain’t nobody charging admission to be here, lil mama, so all the F you’s, and this and that, ain’t called for….

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:25 am

Mornin Folks:

Ladies I said there were beautiful women here in blogland which I have never met (aside for one) assuming I want to think that holds true so please “can we all get along”. At least discuss something else besides each other. I just don’t like to see or read people attacking each other.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:26 am

@ARed ~ I thought of your niece and thinking how proud you were when you first became an Aunt…sweet that she’s walking!

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
11:26 am

2Can…Do you think Cam’s dad really asked for 200 grand???

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:27 am

I haven’t read the first two pages but I have just one question. How do I go about signing up to be one of your ‘fans’? And is there a pledging process as well?

You can’t be one of my fans, Slim. You’re actually sane and don’t take this board too seriously.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:27 am

“Do you think Cam’s dad really asked for 200 grand???”

yep. if not that much, he asked for something!

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
11:27 am

so exhausting

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:28 am

Simple dude: what plans do you have have for your day off?
I’m thinking about going to the range tomorrow but I still need shoes.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:28 am

ain’t nobody charging admission to be here, lil mama, so all the F you’s, and this and that, ain’t called for….

2Can – I think someone is asking to get banned.

Or maybe at that age, it’s called “time out” :lol:

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
11:30 am

I am…kicking it with my brothers most od the day….

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:30 am

This Cam Newton story has Reggie Bush written all over it. The sad part is it will cost him the Heisman. When its all said and done the NCAA will punish the folks that have nothing to do with it.

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
11:31 am

what do you guys think of Deion Sanders getting into Falcons Ring of fame :)

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
11:31 am

so exhausting

very true.

@Simple, I don’t know if Cam Newton’s dad asked for 200 grand but I will say it does make for good drama. What would a college football season be without a story about a football star possibly getting some “benefits” to play.

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
11:31 am

On a lighter note: Funny lil story…My mom just texted my sis and i to tell me my little niece (will be 2 in January) came down the stairs with her pajama bottoms off and a tampon between her knees. When my mom went upstairs, she sees where the whole box has been emptied out and tampons everywhere. Kids are watching & listening even when you don’t think they are but i thought it was HILARIOUS :lol:

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
11:32 am

ONE HUNDRED AND SIXTY THIRD!!!

YES!!!!

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
11:33 am

what do you guys think of Deion Sanders getting into Falcons Ring of fame?

I had no idea the Falcons had a Ring of Fame.

:)

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:33 am

@Sweet Pea ~ we need Cleopatra Jones to clean up this mess and have a “rap session” putting parties back on the right soul train of happiness!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:33 am

Go Ravens!! AFC!! AFC!!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:34 am

To this day, when I hear the name Deion Sanders his song “Must Be The Money” plays in my head. :lol:

I watch his wife on Football Wives. She claims she is 28. :lol:

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
11:34 am

Wow…..morning folks. I see blog beef sparking up again. @2can that Cam situation is getting ugliest by the day. The pops is looking horrible b/c they’re saying HE chose AU for Cam….

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:34 am

WD – On the the Deion Sanders Ring of Honor. I believe he is one of the best to ever play the game. He is also one of the best to do it while in a Falcon uniform. I do however see how some folks think he didnt do it long enough as a Falcon to be honored in such a way.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:35 am

Kym:

All this time in life and I thought sex was physical. I’m still learning things everday as I go.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:35 am

@SlimNU ~ that is too funny, cute and scary all at the same time!

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:35 am

The sad part is it will cost him the Heisman
probably, but so what? The Heisman definitely isn’t an indicator for success in the NFL.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:36 am

Moe, I agree….and the tell-tale sign gon’ actually be next year, when Auburn falls back into mediocrity without him…..

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
11:36 am

HUGE Deion fan!!! That being said…He was only here for five years…Either the Falcons have Crap for history or he should not be there….I will let teh Falcon fans decide……

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:38 am

@Blackfoote..You can fake it to you make it..but to really get to that point of no return requires more than pump pump give..pump pump give.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:38 am

“Either the Falcons have Crap for history”

who else is there that really did something for the franchise??? I can see Keith Brooking being added in a few years, but other than that, who????

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

Willie – I agree with you about Deion being one of the best. It was so exciting when he was with the Falcons & Braves – remember when he played in a Falcons game & then flew to play with the Braves in the World Series or playoff game? It doesn’t matter to me if he played for 2 games or 2 years, he was great for the team and deserves the ring. Plus, really it’s not like it’s the Lombardi trophy or anything, let’s be real!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

See you didn’t have go there with the Ravens I already conceded this game to but if it’s low scoring which I believe will be it will favor the Dbirds.

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

The Falcons messed that one up. Shoulda paid the man.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

Slim: at your 11:31
Hilarious!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

Diva….we oughta have a Blog Ring of Honor……

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

2C, exactly. I agree with Willie that it’ll cost him the heisman. But I think that’s what the goal is for whoever started this anyway. Since he won’t win it for them, they don’t want him winning at all

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
11:41 am

Hey Party People, how is everyone?

I am – I was wondering why ALL the Mrs Winners were closing down. Now I know…..wow

so what are we discussing? Are we still on topic?

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:42 am

@Blackfoote..The Ravens are trying to hold my boys off..I don’t see them letting up and since the Fakecons are giving up rushing yards …damn it let me go set my roster for tonight..

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:43 am

Mo: yeah…I better get their chicken strips before it’s too late.
On a sad note: that’s going to be more people without a job :-(

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
11:43 am

My mom said she didn’t think to take a picture but it reminds me of a clip on America’s Funniest videos where a little boy had got a hold of a box of panty liners and had stuck them all over his body. LMAO!!!

On the topic of sports – I didn’t realize there was such a huge disparity between NBA players pay versus NFL…seems as if due to the hish risk of injury that the NFL would pay more and offer more benefits. After watching NFL Wives they only get insurance for up to 5yrs after they stop playing…heyal, that’s probably when they need it the most. Someone tried to explain that NBA have more opps for sponsorships with regard to the shoe game.

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
11:43 am

@WD forget Deion, I’m putting Pilar Sanders in my Ring of Fame :lol:

LURKER-1

November 11th, 2010
11:44 am

ARED, I’m old enough to be your father. I think you said they have been married 33 yrs, I’m approaching 30 yrs. I’m giving you a BIG STANDING OVATION, this morning. The man that marry you will be ” a very fortunate guy”. Obviously, your parents raised a true and decent woman.

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:44 am

Anyone going to the game tonight? I think i may just make this an out and about night. The city should be live tonight.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
11:45 am

I love Deion Sanders and I am rooting for Cam Newton. I got a chance to meet Deion when he was also playing for the Braves and the Falcons This is so old school but Nike made some of the best posters of Deion Sanders (many of which I still have).

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

@Leggs…..Girl, I was just thinking can we all just get along???? If we can just let each other be and respect each other’s opinion in blog world it would be a betta place Baby!!! I don’t want to get my sista friend, Foxy Brown with her blades to help cut the thickness up in here!

Let’s have a meeting in the Ladies Room while we work this thang out!

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

Okay…er, um…whatdahell?!?!?
(insert crazy bug-eye emoticon here)

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:47 am

Mr.Moe – cosign that Pilar statement.

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
11:49 am

Well, thank you LURKER-1

ARed

November 11th, 2010
11:50 am

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:51 am

I don’t want to get my sista friend, Foxy Brown with her blades
Sweet Pea I vote for Foxy, but just because I like the visual. ;-)

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
11:54 am

Wise you know I’m not a threat to the board. You can take me off punishment now, please.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
11:56 am

@Sweet Pea ~ thank you thank you thank you. I couldn’t think of Foxy Brown’s name…that’s me!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:56 am

I’ll say this Kym if we can get Lewis and Reed off the defense put some stops on Rice we can help ya’ll take first place.

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
11:59 am

Thank you LURKER-1. Congrats to you and your wife.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
12:00 pm

SexyCool – loving ya three words today. Goes with a quote I have on my desk:

Being happy doesnt mean that everything is perfect, it just means you have decided to see beyond the imperfections

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
12:03 pm

@Dreams~All the leading ladies were good looks soooooooo with that being said Leggs, We need a triple threat up in here ….Any takers for Christy Love??????????? They were the original bad chicks!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:04 pm

@Blackfoote..It is a dilemma for me..my loathing of Fakecons vs the need for my boys to be in first place in the AFC North……I will take the beat down of the Fakecons. I like physical defensive teams like the Ravens.

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
12:09 pm

It’s gonna be a good game Kym….those Baltimore birds are going down though

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
12:10 pm

@Sweet Pea ~ yes they were the original bad a$$ chicks!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:10 pm

Naw Mr Moe…the Fakecons luck is due to run out tonight.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
12:12 pm

It will be a good game indeed. Go Ravens!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
12:12 pm

Ok take the beat down but it wont help if ya’ll lose on Sunday.

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
12:13 pm

Deion’s wife claims she is 28 years old. :lol: :arrow:

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:14 pm

You kidding right New England? Tom Brady is off his feed…I think we can take the Patty Cakes. Plus they are coming to our house..

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
12:15 pm

Ok heard a funny story. This chick I know had a UPS package delivered to her house. The UPS guy comes, has her sign, is cordial, but doesn’t say too much else. A few minutes after he leaves she gets a text saying “UPS dude. save this”. lol Do ya’ll deal with this lameness on a regular?

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
12:16 pm

@ARed ~ I never watch that show, but had it on this past weekend. I laughed when I heard that!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:16 pm

@Dreams yes..yes we do.

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
12:19 pm

I’d probably report his ass. :lol:

The Real Lurker

November 11th, 2010
12:22 pm

I have been a lurker for quite some time and I am whatever you say I am: I have had the most respect for you as a blogger and you are a great person. Let the haters hate.
It’s obvious they see the light in you and don’t want you to succeed which is why they tear you down. Don’t feed into this. don’t stoop to their level.

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
12:23 pm

Mo – head nod….(lol)

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:25 pm

Is it possible we could just ban the name lurker so that folks could at least become more original in their foolishness?

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
12:26 pm

@DreamsM ~ if he’s that shy and couldn’t say anything while standing in my presence, I probably wouldn’t save the #. Wait, I would be curious enough to ask why he wasted a missed opportunity to speak!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
12:27 pm

somewhat to the left:

Do y’all think sex is a right, or a priviledge? Reason I ask, just had a discussion with a co-worker, and inmates came up…..do y’all think they (male and female, alike) should be allowed conjugal visits? Just curious….

DaddyDapper

November 11th, 2010
12:27 pm

YEEEAAAH!

What it do Pimps and Pimpettes!?!?

Its been my experience that women who are “holding out” have already done it with you, multiple times and often (use your imagination…all my real playa’s know what I’m talkin). The game is simple, if I’m at your house or vice versa, whether we do somethin or not that night, I know I got it! So technically baby, I ain’t trippin either way! Yeah, we can chill and go out, etc..I’d love it, prolly more than you, just don’t flex about your thoughts and feelings baby! You know I know! At the same time pimps, women are crafty and can use there sense of longevity to capture the uncapturable…been there! So, b/4 the sack be sure you advise her of your intentions b/c they typically think “tomorrow morning” we typically think tonight!

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
12:27 pm

LOL @ Kym. Just don’t touch LURKER-1 though. He’s obviously brilliant! :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
12:28 pm

Dreams yes..yes we do.
Kym no wonder you always referring to cats as “jokers”…cuz a dude like that must SURELY be joking or is a joke himself. lol

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
12:30 pm

Dreams:…another double please.
I’m here till 630 :-(

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
12:31 pm

“It’s obvious they see the light in you and don’t want you to succeed which is why they tear you down.”

and how is that, exactly?

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
12:33 pm

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
12:34 pm

Do y’all think sex is a right, or a priviledge?
2C man they already got cable and a bunch of other ish that’s considered a privilege, so why not conjugal visits? I could argue the other side too.

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
12:36 pm

What looks like crazy on an ordinary day. Just wow….

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
12:37 pm

Dreams – Yeah, that’s regular stupidity we deal with. Alot of ya boys try to act all cool & confident and like they are hard players in front of the guys, but one-on-one interaction with a woman, they are stumbling idiots!

It usually trips me out when one will barely say anything, yet later I find out he “likes” me!LOL!!! If you can’t open your mouth and speak and say hello, what am I suppose to think????? And I’m not the unapproachable type either!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
12:38 pm

Dreams, I was thinking the same….why not conjugal visits….

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
12:39 pm

as someone said on the first page: thought the topic was about waiting to commit, its funny how its about waiting/or not on sex..

Anyho..this question is sort of on topic. Question for the ladies (men can answer too, so i can understand ya’ll)…if a guy admits he has trust issues with women because of past relationships and you have been dating being understanding to his issues how long would you wait for the commitment?

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
12:39 pm

Speaking of Pearl Cleage, her play “The Nacirema Society….” is on at the Alliance Theater through Sunday. One of the stars, Trezana Beverley won a Tony Award for her performance in “For Colored Girls” in 1977.

Here is a review…
http://www.accessatlanta.com/AccessAtlanta-sharing_/pearl-cleages-nacirema-puts-701039.html

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
12:40 pm

Personally: I don’t think conjugal visits should be warranted.
you did the crime but as I tax payer -my taxes go towards your “luxuries”
I could care less as to what someone locked up is entitled to.

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
12:41 pm

*Trust issues* = cop-out/lame excuse for wanting to get the cookie without making a commitment.

I would withhold relations until his trust built up.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:42 pm

Prozac is a helluva drug.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
12:42 pm

Dreams: Son you are late with my drink!

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
12:44 pm

@sexycool thanks for your input

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
12:50 pm

@Baffled…..if a guy admits he has trust issues with women because of past relationships and you have been dating being understanding to his issues how long would you wait for the commitment?

Hmmmmmmmm I am not sure about the waiting to commit as he’s telling me he has issues with trusting to me means that he doesn’t need to be dating until he knows that he can leave the baggage behind and start anew…I may start off being understanding but if you keep doubting and comparing me to someone else because of your past, I am not too sure I could deal with it.

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
12:51 pm

Baffled – I agree with SCool.

And I am over people letting their “issues” get in the way of their relationships. Everything in life is a risk. Don’t date if you are just going to be gun shy about everything.

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
12:51 pm

Baffled, we must be on the same page cuz that was my thought on today’s topic. to answer your question … wait until he fully recognizes you are NOT that last chick(s). in my case, that took about a year. seriously.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:53 pm

Hi Czbrat!! QVC is at it again!

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
12:53 pm

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
12:54 pm

Wasn’t there just a discussion earlier this week about how folks with issues should not be dating?

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
12:54 pm

Baffled – I agree with SCool and Sweet Pea.

I’m also tired of folks letting their “issues” get in the way of having a relationship. Everything in life is a risk. Don’t date if you’re going to be gun shy about everything.

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
12:56 pm

hm? huh? QV-who???
:lol:
this is the time of year i have to ban that channel from my cable box or i’ll be in $$$$$ debt come january.

how are ya, sweetness?

Kym

November 11th, 2010
12:59 pm

@Czbrat I am off work today so It is either QVC or cartoons..I watched Scooby Doo earlier and TVLand. I feel a nap coming on.

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
1:01 pm

i do admit i toured the site briefly last night; very tempted to order some junior’s cheesecake, mrs. prindables apples and chesapeake bay crabcakes. :)

Kym

November 11th, 2010
1:02 pm

@czBrat they are doing an hour of Sweet Treats right now..Godiva Chocolates..and the apples, and y’all NYC Cheesecake

Kym

November 11th, 2010
1:02 pm

And remember its only an addiction if the boxes show up everyday.

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
1:06 pm

um. it’s also an addiction if the boxes pile up, unopened, because you’re buying stuff you don’t need. :(

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
1:06 pm

@ARed~I’m tired too! I think it’s called BALANCE…you can work on your issues while maintaining a relationship that’s if you acknowledge you have issues as some people don’t and want to point fingers at you.

If you can’t balance/multi-task then you need to remain alone and don’t involve other people where feelings develops then they are as a result of your crap.

Good People I’m out!!! Have great day ;)

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
1:09 pm

Well…I am back in for correction: I am human!!! LOL

If you can’t balance/multi-task then you need to remain alone and don’t involve other people where feelings develop, and as result someone gets hurt because of your crap!!

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:09 pm

thanks for the input ladies…i think you can date and have issues,its up to the other person whether they want to deal with and see u through the issues. I commend him for being honest..but i do think he is holding his own self back ..its sad cuz he is a great guy otherwise.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
1:10 pm

Jokes of the Day!–as stolen from the Onion.

Do you know why bra makers measure cup size by “A B C D E F “?

A – almost gone

B – barely noticeable

C – comfortable

D – damn good

E – extremely big

F – Fake

Teacher: Write a short story in a few words discussing Religion, Sexuality and Mystery.

Student wrote: “My God! I’m pregnant. I wonder who the father is?”

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
1:13 pm

@Baffled~I hope it works out for you if you decide it’s worth working through. Like Madear say, Just WATCH and guard your heart as well!

Zulu!

November 11th, 2010
1:13 pm

If a guy lies that he has trust issues,he is basically asking u to put that coochie on a long leash.
At some point,after he has banged enough,hes gon step.

I pity u ladies, but thatts how the game is played.

Happy Veterans Day..shame on ur uall bosses for asking u to work today!

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
1:18 pm

but one-on-one interaction with a woman, they are stumbling idiots!
kimmie I’d like to think I’m no lamo, but I’ve definitely been the bumbling dude before, kicking myself afterward. Some of ya’ll have that affect on us…dang I mean Effect…see what I mean? ;-)

Dreams, I was thinking the same….why not conjugal visits…
2C another side of the discussion might be whether the state can force them to use protection during conjugal visits? If not, then who’s gonna support those babies conceived during the visits…surely not the pops in prison.

Dreams: Son you are late with my drink!
I am hey hey hey, settle down ma. I give drinks as a means to weaken defenses calm the nerves, but you’re sounding belligerent. Are you sure you can handle another? If so, I got lots more where that came from. ;-)

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:22 pm

@Sweet Pea..i don’t know what im going to do.. i date others but he is the one i have the best connection with we are compatible…so idk

@zulu!..so you think all men run game?

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
1:25 pm

Baffled – Have you slept with him yet?

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
1:26 pm

Baffled It depends on your situation. Sometimes you meet a wonderful person when you really weren’t looking for a relationship at all. You know that person has some issues, but you all really connect. What are you to do?

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:28 pm

@amazonred-yes

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
1:29 pm

Did the information about trust issues come out before or after?

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
1:29 pm

Baffled, i can say from personal experience that all of the issues i called myself working through during my single years, i could not possibly have learned what was truly unresolved until i was forced to face it in that moment in the relationship. in my case, control issues and an (apparent) indifference toward commitment. i could have gone my whole life believing i love being independent and in control. it took being with someone like s/o to realize it’s ok (good even) to let a man lead me.

so, i guess what i’m saying is that sometimes you do find yourself in a situation where one or both have unresolved issues. maybe you were fully aware of that going into the relationship, or perhaps you realized it along the way. it’s only a dealbreaker if you just don’t feel like dealing with it. otherwise, it’s growth.

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:31 pm

@dreamsmaterialze…that is this situation…he definitely was unexpected. I mean i enjoy dating, but ultimely i want a committed relationshop. I just hate when guys let the opportunity for some great pass them by.

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:32 pm

@sexycool- before, i knew what i was getting into…i think its much deeper than i initially thought.

Zulu!

November 11th, 2010
1:34 pm

@Baffled?

so i think all men run game…see this is where uall women get get.

If your man had no game what so ever, u wldnt even have confusion in ur head coz he wld break it down to ur satisfaction.

u are a girl right?..i assume…

he has no desire for anything serious or longterm..hes using u more or less like what a trucker does to a truck stop……get some place(woman) quiet, soft and tender,clear the head and then move on when hes feeling better.

How du u like being a truck stop?

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
1:35 pm

Baffled – We’ve been there, at least I have. Dudes in my past with unresolved issues due to the one who broke their heart, or due to their divorce. There are plenty of guys out there who want a committed relationship and will state that plainly. I don’t know how long you’ve known your guy, but if he’s not really warming up yet, I’d take that as a sign that things won’t go the way you want them to.

I Want My Girlfriend Back

November 11th, 2010
1:35 pm

What should you do if you get dumped? How about start a blog detail to the world how you plan to get your girlfriend back: http://iwantmygirlfriendback.blogspot.com/

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
1:36 pm

Well….in that case….you can’t say you didn’t know what program you were signing up for.

I will say this…if you want a committed relationship….and he does not, for WHATever reason, you have a choice to make – stay in a situation where you are not getting what you want…and *hope* for a change of heart…or…ease on down the road.

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:37 pm

@cbrat for sharing that…i do hope even if a relationship doesnt develop, I have shown him he can trust. and that not all women play games, or lie. he has to be the change he wants to see!
If you want trust, you have to give trust

I Want My Girlfriend Back

November 11th, 2010
1:40 pm

The longest I’ve waited to seal the deal is four hours. And that one was a stretch.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
1:41 pm

ZULU:

A truck stop……….LOL you have an analogy for everything on the planet……..LOL

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
1:42 pm

And…if these were my feet that were in those shoes…I would pull up some. Give him some space and an opportunity to step up and make some decisions.

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:45 pm

Lately I have been easing on down the road..thats a good one. I am at a point of decision. He has to see it, I’m sure we will remain friends, i have no ill will towards him.
Sometimes we block our own blessing!

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
1:46 pm

How du u like being a truck stop?
Zulu reason, season, lifetime. sometimes you have to recognize when you’re seasonal to someone else.

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
1:47 pm

@sexycool- thats what i have been leaning towards. cuz even good guys have issues.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
1:50 pm

Lately I have been easing on down the road..
Baffled no need in depriving yourself of joy. matter of fact, come and hang out with me while he makes up his mind. let him take all the time he wants. ;-)

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
1:51 pm

@Baffled ~ I ate entirely too much for lunch. I feel like a bloated pig!!

@Baffled ~ why be baffled? Why even put yourself or whoever it may be into such a position of uncertainty and, as Zulu would say, angst. That’s what’s wrong with a lot of women…THEY DON’T LISTEN. He told you UPFRONT he has trust issues. That should tell you, you will not be able to appease him into being comfortable enough with you to fully trust you. SO, why are you waiting on him to commitment? I would say you’d be waiting until a black man becomes President but since we’ve achieved that, you’ll be waiting until the moon turns magenta!

Zulu!

November 11th, 2010
1:51 pm

I am sure we will remain friends……

Daaamn..hes kicking it good,aint he?

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
1:56 pm

Leggs:

Just made me hungry and I got nine hours to go and no lunch or dinner just a football game to watch.

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
1:57 pm

I have used that line in the past. But from my standpoint, it was more like, “I ain’t gone believe sht you say ’cause the last lied and you gon’ lie too. Yo’ ass is gon’ have to walk across fire before I trust you.”

Not realizing that I was way too damaged and not enough healed to visit that madness on anyone.

Then I got to a point where I would say, “I will believe what you tell me until I believe that I can trust you.” Progress……

With TheDude, from Day One, I committed myself to trusting who he said he was, while getting to know who he showed himself to be.

czB – head nod. (I am so flawed. LOL!)

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:01 pm

@Blackfoote, then I better not tell you what I had for lunch. Why didn’t you bring any food/snacks with you to work?

Baffled

November 11th, 2010
2:03 pm

@Leggs, i will say i agree with you, i did know what i getting into..all i can say is some people are worth the risk…i took a chance and it just hasn’t paned out. is that what we all go through, till the M-word.

@zulu i don’t know your deal, but friends as in just friends, no sex. we have haven’t done it lately

@dreams-how you doin?

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
2:04 pm

Leggs:

Please don’t say rib-eye…….I ate everything for breakfast now I must pay for that.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
2:06 pm

Thanks Dreams! Eh….you got any menu’s behind the bar for sushi?

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
2:10 pm

Damn I shouldn’t have said rib-eye my mouth is drooling for a Ruth Chris.

Zulu!

November 11th, 2010
2:11 pm

@Baffled?

wld he be the type of friend u allow to come over to watch a movie with u at ur crib and he may bring u a bottle of chardonnay…as a special friend?……

good girl!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:12 pm

“…all i can say is some people are worth the risk…”

I understand that statement, Baffled. But honestly, when we tell ourselves that, it usually isn’t worth the risk. If we start believing our own hype, we wouldn’t hurt as much.

@Blackfoote ~ ok, I won’t say anything!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:13 pm

If we STOP believing our own hype….

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
2:17 pm

Sup Melo!
how have you been love?

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
2:17 pm

omg…bad case of the itis…turkey, dressing, sweet potato soufflee, green bean casserole, potato salad, pasta salad, collards, deviled eggs…and can’t leave off the desert.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:19 pm

@SlimNU ~ did you go to Piccadilly for lunch???

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
2:20 pm

i completely agree with “reason, season or lifetime”. also, be careful what you pray for ……
fact is, any one of us might pray for someone honest, trustworthy, spontaneous, wealthy, etc. what will we do if we actually get what we pray for? the fact that Baffled’s guy does not quite know what to do with a trustworthy woman doesn’t automatically mean he’s a lost cause.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
2:21 pm

Baffled – He’s not blocking his “blessing” if he doesn’t see you as a blessing!

I hate to be negative, but this is the very type of dude that will work thru his “issues” with you for however long you put up with it and then go meet some other lady the next week and propose to her within a few months.

Like I quoted yesterday: go rehabilitate with someone else! He might be a nice guy, just not nice for you at this time.

Tangie

November 11th, 2010
2:25 pm

We are all grown ups, but I would rather get to know somebody before I take that step. I would like to find out what we have in common besides sex. You never know they (woman or man)could be really crazy.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:26 pm

Although the title infers something else, Baffled is beginning to wake up from playing her own form of the “waiting game.”

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
2:26 pm

Leggs – No, we had our Employee Thanksgiving Luncheon today since many folks will be taking off within the next week for the holiday. I heard gluttony is one of the 7 deadly sins and now I feel like i’m being punished for committing it. Stick a fork in me because I am DONE, DONE, DONE! (I look like a little Ethiopian or Somalian kid…slim with the pot belly) :shock:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
2:28 pm

Slim: Don’t come back to the blog till you make me a plate :lol:

Zulu!

November 11th, 2010
2:30 pm

whats up I am?

now lemme go watch some Italian soccer……
and Ill be on the VIP seats,watching the falcons tonite…..on my couch.

have a great day guys!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:31 pm

Well, SlimNU ~ you can join me in the corner cuz that’s how I feel as well. Yet, as full as I am, I want a nice cold glass of water!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
2:31 pm

Have a good one melo

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
2:32 pm

Slim:

Can I have a plate……cause silly me ate my lunch, dinner for breakfast now I’m goin to feel silly again round eight o clock watching the game without a bag of popcorn.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
2:33 pm

Naps Rock!

So what did I miss?

@Blackfoote..are you chain to your desk you can’t go get you a sub or wings or something? Football without wings.well that would just suck.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:35 pm

What did you have for lunch/dinner that you could eat that early in the morning for breakfast????

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
2:40 pm

Kym:

I’m filling in for one my employees tonight of all nights (should be tailgating) my day began at five and ends at eleven. I can’t leave out cause I have to monitor all the fire alarms, gas, and oxygen tanks. Those wings sounds good too.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:42 pm

That’s a difference between a man and a woman. We never would have been at work that long without a couple of things in the fridge, desk drawers or cabinet!!! Heck, we would have recruited another co-worker to go get us something if we ate our food too early in the day!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
2:44 pm

@Leggs agreed!

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
2:45 pm

I am – you’re about an hour too late…however, you may welcome yourself to the carrot cake and brownie I have on my dessert plate if you like. I’ve only nibbled a little of the brownie so it’s all good. lol

Hey have any of you seen the Paranormal Activity 2 movie yet? (just wanted some feedback before I paid to go see it)

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
2:46 pm

speaking of b-fast. am i the only one who didn’t know they charge an extra 2 dang dollars and 49 friggin cents to add one more lousy egg to your sandwich at einstein bros? bet i’ll never do THAT again!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
2:47 pm

Leggs:

I had two deli sliced chicken sandwichs, then come around ten thirty hungry again Mrs. Calenders frozen shrimp scampi dinner I just knew it last me all day but now I’m out.

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
2:48 pm

Leggs – as nice as I am, it irritates me when a whole bunch of folk try to run and give me their orders for food whenever I go out to pick up something for lunch. I have a two additional order maximun. Then most times the folks that try to ask at the last minute, are people I don’t even talk to. So when they send their little gopher to find out where i’m going i tell them I don’t know yet. I’m just going to ride around until i see somewhere I want to stop. :lol:

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:50 pm

@czB ~ are you having our typical NY breakfast, bagel and egg sammich?

Kym

November 11th, 2010
2:52 pm

@Slim when I worked downtown there were certain places you didn’t tell a soul you are going for lunch..one was the Varsity, the other was Chik-fil-la. One should not have to leave fast food establishments with shopping bags. LOL!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
2:53 pm

@Blackfoote ~ go ask someone to get you something since you can’t leave. Heck pay to get them something as well.

As your blog wife, I must put my foot down. You’ve saddled me with these chillren and I can’t leave nor bring them with me to bring you another plate of food. You are going to have to do better going forward cuz you’re whittling away to nuffin and I don’t like skinny men! Immediate grounds for D I V O R C E!!!

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
2:58 pm

LOL @ Leggs. yes, ma’am, i certainly did.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
3:00 pm

The cafeteria is open til eight but once I went in there and got one piece of chicken (a breast) and some fries they wanted ninefifty since I was stuck with the food I paid and havent been back since. Didn’t even include bread or a soda, aint no way I’m going back in there I’ll go hungry.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
3:02 pm

Slim: no thanks greedy! LOL

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
3:03 pm

Okay, I have lost my mind. I just at an entire 4 oz box of Junior Mints! That’s movie theatre size!

:shock:

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
3:09 pm

Okay why wont the day come to an end so I can be ready for football. I got my food ready, drinks ready…c’mon time, cooperate!!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
3:10 pm

Leggs:

Don’t worry sweetness you know at 255 I can drop a few and still wont be skinny.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
3:10 pm

meant to say – so I can watch football, not be ready….GEESH!

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
3:11 pm

Kym – you are right about Chick-fil-a…come back looking like you’re having lunch catered by them with all those bags. Plus the drive-thru will only allow so many orders before they make you come inside. I don’t wanna be doin all that…get out to order my food…where dey do dat at? lol

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
3:11 pm

I hate to be negative, but this is the very type of dude that will work thru his “issues” with you for however long you put up with it and then go meet some other lady the next week and propose to her within a few months

kimmie for the WIN! And it’s not being negative. This comes from experience…learning the hard way!

I’ll tell you this. The man who truly wants to be with you won’t leave you “baffled” as to what your status is.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
3:25 pm

The man who truly wants to be with you won’t leave you “baffled” as to what your status is.

Amred – This is a winner too, girl!!!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:25 pm

Say it again, ARED!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:26 pm

@Slim ohh one more place I forgot Popeye’s. I am not going there either with orders.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:28 pm

@Ared agreed!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:32 pm

Okay this couple on TLC are having their first baby Hubby 64 and wife 55. Wow!!!

For Real

November 11th, 2010
3:34 pm

The man who truly don’t want to be with you won’t leave you “baffled” as to what your status is.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:34 pm

People should put at least 20 years on themselves when deciding if they want to have children. He will be 84 and she 75 when their child reaches age 20!…He won’t be able to handle those teenage years.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
3:35 pm

Kym – I saw that on TLC and immediately wanted to scream! I wouldve cried had that been me

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:36 pm

Baffle wouldn’t be a factor if that same man wasn’t lying about what he wants, hence one being “baffled.”

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:39 pm

@Leggs this is just wild..she has had fibroid surgery and her hubby works on an oil tanker..so he is not even home but 3 months a year. They tried for like 12 years and she final got preggie. But seriously she looks lost in this baby store.

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
3:40 pm

Kym – the Popeyes off Camp Creek is ALWAYS busy.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:42 pm

@Mo I just can’t see it.. lord…

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:43 pm

Haa haa haa, everything off Camp Creek is always busy.

For Real

November 11th, 2010
3:43 pm

I want your sex is not a lie.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:43 pm

Slim the best Popeye’s chicken is West End..line for the drive thru is always backed up.

For Real

November 11th, 2010
3:45 pm

baffibility (yeah I made that one up) only comes to into play when she can’t figure out why he want marry her.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:48 pm

It is when he camouflages it with concern for her mind, body and soul. Telling her he cares deeply for her and wants to be with her and has no intentions of hurting her!!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:49 pm

Sorry, that’s not the only time it comes into play.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
3:53 pm

Kym – Im just sayin….55 and having a baby?!?! I can barely imagine it at 35 so you know I was dayum near on the floor when they said her age

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
3:56 pm

let’s say two bloggers were dating…and kept it on the low…..would it be cool to propose on the blog?

don’t ask me where I come up with this stuff….

Kym

November 11th, 2010
3:56 pm

@Mo–The hubby has a 35 year old daughter from his first marriage. He will be 80 when the kid is 16..at 80 you don’t fight with a teenager you just shoot them and get it over with..

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
3:58 pm

@2C ~ I don’t think so. They’ve kept it on the low, he should propose to her off the blog. It would be cool for them to come on the blog and announce their engagement. Hell, propose to me in person, not through a computer screen. We might as well go the entire 9 yards and have a blog wedding and blog reception!!!

For Real

November 11th, 2010
3:59 pm

Can’t have sex with her if mind, body and soul ain’t right. Thus, caring for those things leads to what he wants from her. SEX!!! Of course he cares deeply for and wants to be with her and has no intentions of hurting her how else does he get what he wants from her? SEX!!!!

Again, she only baffled by him not wanting to just have sex with her. Not her status…..

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
3:59 pm

Kym – LMBAO!!! “….at 80 you don’t fight with a teenager you just shoot them and get it over with..” I am in tears from laughing but you are sooo right! Hilarious!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
3:59 pm

2Can – It won’t be on the low if proposal is on the blog.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:01 pm

Well, ForReal, everything leads to SEX!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:01 pm

In the male’s mind….

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
4:01 pm

Kimmie, and Leggs….I agree….

fool….you see that ^^^^^^^^^

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:03 pm

The man who truly don’t want to be with you won’t leave you “baffled” as to what your status is.

:lol:

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:06 pm

let’s say two bloggers were dating…and kept it on the low…..would it be cool to propose on the blog?

Uh..unless they plan to have their entire relationship on the blog. No. Tap out of the Matrix. :lol:

Besides, no one would probably believe it if was put on here anyway.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:07 pm

2Can – We’ve had blog marriages & blog divorces, so a blog proposal wouldn’t really raise any eyebrows! :lol:

Folks would probably think they were teasing even if it was for real!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:08 pm

Amred – Looks like you & I were thinking the same thing!LOL!!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:09 pm

@kimmie..Have you ever made individual peach cobblers? Damn you QVC I need those au gratin bakers..

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:10 pm

Kym – No, but I have 6 of those little ramekins. Cool idea though.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
4:11 pm

Uh..unless they plan to have their entire relationship on the blog. No. Tap out of the Matrix.
ARed dang I was just about to propose to you. glad i didn’t play myself. ;-)

Folks would probably think they were teasing even if it was for real!
kimmie will you be my wife and forsake all other blog boos? Oh, and please strike the above comment to ARed from your mental record. ;-)

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:11 pm

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
4:13 pm

My dear Hope Diamond…Will You Marry Me????

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:13 pm

Dreams – I do

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:14 pm

It’s very funny that those WLBs saying no are being proposed to…see, men don’t listen!! :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:14 pm

Yes! Simple! Yes!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:16 pm

Kym – That is so cool! You should not have shown me that!!!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:18 pm

:lol: :lol: proposals flying through the air and people snatching them up!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:18 pm

I know kimmie..I have an addiction..I am trying to get help but that set is just to awesome..did you see the cool colors I want the yellow or red..leaning toward red.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:19 pm

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:20 pm

Kym – I had several additions. I go from cooking stuff to shoes to junior mints then back to cooking stuff….. I need help!!LOL!!!

I want the blue – favorite color!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:22 pm

Leggs – Hey, what’s that song? “When love calls, you better answer. Cause it might be a big mistake, if you, decide to he-si-tate”!!LOL!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:24 pm

<—–admiring my ring

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:24 pm

@kimmie….I feel your pain..right now I am adding mysteries to my book collection. Damn you amazon used books.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
4:25 pm

Dreams – I do
kimmie YES! Meet me at Waffle House for the reception. You can even get cheese on those hash browns…

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:26 pm

Dreams – OMG, we will be the blog POWER COUPLE!!! :cool:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:26 pm

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:27 pm

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
4:27 pm

Smiles, smiles everyone!!!!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:29 pm

See what you started 2CAN?!!! LOL!!!

Blog proposals, tacky wedding dress, low-budget receptions, what’s the blog world coming to?!!!!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:29 pm

OMG, I am on the floor in tears!!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
4:29 pm

Dreams – OMG, we will be the blog POWER COUPLE!!!
kimmie building an empire. ;-)

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
4:30 pm

Hey!!! When is the blog wedding?? I need to get my tuxedo shirt out of the closet?

:)

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:30 pm

@kimmie ~ yes indeed, but the person who the love call is being made to should answer. :lol: :lol: Whew!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:30 pm

Kimmie: dreams asked me to keep it a secret but he has this in mind for your honeymoon

http://www.tlhagalosi.co.za/images/gallery/large/shooting-range.jpg

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
4:31 pm

I need to get my tuxedo shirt out of the closet?
Trevor make sure to get that really classy one…you know the one with the bowtie sewn on. lol

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:32 pm

Treveor: by the looks of it, Dreams and Kimmie are having the wedding any day now.

Simple and I are still working out details pre-nup

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:32 pm

Now, a best man has stood up for anyone who may need his services.

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:34 pm

Bey & J Z – Now THAT’S a Power Couple$$$$$

Dreams – I’m Crazy in Love!!!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:34 pm

@kimmie put that set on your blog registry..!

@Leggs I flat lined about 20 mins ago..

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
4:35 pm

another impromptu division meeting …. last time they announced the company moving to the north side of town; today they announce phasing out our department. great!

next time i get one of those “division meeting” emails i’m just gonna grab my stuff and jet. :mad:
brat is now officially using the blog to network.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:35 pm

@Kym, I know you did. I know you did!!!!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:36 pm

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:37 pm

LMAO @ I am taking my proposal. Chile please. Step aside.

Thank you as well, Dreams. :lol:

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:37 pm

Brat – What field are you in? Sorry about that.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:38 pm

@Czbrat sorry to hear that.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:38 pm

OMG!!! Fred can be my ring brearer!!!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:39 pm

@Kym ~ I grabbed the nearest defibrillator when I saw you going down.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:40 pm

@ARed ~ I am in hysterics. I knew you’ll “Stand by Your Man!”

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
4:40 pm

no worries, ladies, but thanx :)
property/casualty insurance now but background mainly in property mgmt. much as i hate to babysit hundreds of adults, i just may go back to prop mgmt after this.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:41 pm

I’m going to pee on myself…brb!

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:42 pm

Stop playing yourself. :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:43 pm

Speaking of Fred: Trevor where has he been lately?

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
4:43 pm

Ared returns to claim the blog marriage proposal taken by I am

Ahhhhhhhhhh sookie sookie, now!!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
4:44 pm

Aw shucks I’m back in time enough to crash some weddings. Who are the happy couples?

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:45 pm

Are we sure she’s aware the proposal was for another woman???

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
4:46 pm

I am not sure where Fred is. I thought I saw him in the black hole in Oakland at the Raiders/Chiefs game last Sunday. Never knew that pony was a Raider fan.

:)

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:46 pm

Words of wisdom ared, kym, 2Cyeah whatever.

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:47 pm

Are we sure she’s aware the proposal was for another woman???

She knew it wasn’t for her.

My tag line a few days ago was “the hope diamond.” :)

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:47 pm

Seriously what is it with men and midgets??? Always about the midgets!!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
4:47 pm

Gotta go gang! Don’t want to miss my own reception!!!

Be easy!

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:47 pm

Why is there wedding cake all over Fred?

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:48 pm

yeah Ared keep hope alive
Good luck with that.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:48 pm

Hey Swiss!
How are you and the Mrs?

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:49 pm

@ARed ~ not everyone may have remembered that. Just like you don’t remember everything she’s spoken on.

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:49 pm

Said by the chick who no one wants to claim…even on a blog for fun. :lol:

Good luck with THAT! :lol:

Night lovelies. ;)

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:50 pm

Leggs – I didn’t expect anyone to remember that. My point is, it wasn’t for her eager ass and she knows it.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 11th, 2010
4:51 pm

“Seriously what is it with men and midgets??? Always about the midgets!!”

Kym — You know it, shawty;-) :lol:

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
4:52 pm

No happy couples here guess I’ll go run with Fred.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:52 pm

I’m laughing too much to pull out a quote.

@Words of Wisdom ~ would you be kind and leave an end of the day quote? I’m liking your moniker.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
4:52 pm

Wait a minute I leave for a second and its wedding cake all over the place! What is going on?

I mean I know its almost 5pm but man……

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
4:53 pm

final thought: tomorrow is our pot luck Xgiving luncheon. i WAS gonna bring pumpkin cheesecake. in light of today’s announcement, shall i bring nothing at all or add a lil sumpn extra to the filling? hmmmmm.

j/k :lol:

ciao!

(seriously, though … i also have an A.S. in finance so fellow bloggers please let me know if your companies are looking for people in the accounting dept) thank you in advance!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:53 pm

What the ??? Leave me out of this here foolishness.. I already received sanction from my last blog dust up..one more and I will be cited by the Department of Justice for violation of the ADA Act 0f 1990.

Apparently blog battles with the mental ill are frowned upon.

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
4:54 pm

Leggs – I got one:

“If you even dream of beating me, you better wake up and apologize” – Muhammed Ali.

:lol:

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
4:54 pm

Oh yeah Kym watching all the analyst they are picking DBirds tonight but I’m still not buying it.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 11th, 2010
4:54 pm

i am… — Mrs. Swiss and I are both doing well, thanks… I am a bit confused, but that’s not unusual — and I’m not interested enough to go back & read… ;-) :lol:

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
4:54 pm

@Blackfoote ~ you need to jump on Fred’s back and get something to eat. Wait, you 255 lbs on a pigmy pony…this reeks of a lawsuit!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:55 pm

Cbrat: I am sorry for your news..
Keep your head up.
A woman at my church lost her job but things worked out for the better.
She now has a new job closer to home and she makes more money.
Many GOD has a better plan coming your way.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
4:56 pm

@Blackfoote..dude they said you would beat the Steelers too didn’t happen.

czBrat

November 11th, 2010
4:57 pm

absolutely, I am. that has been my outlook all along. i’m not worried, just looking forward to the right opportunity.

thank you so much for your support. :)

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
4:58 pm

Cbrat: You are a good person. Things will turn back around for you :-)

Words of Wisdom

November 11th, 2010
4:58 pm

Part of being a winner is knowing when enough is enough. Sometimes you have to give up the fight and walk away, and move on to something that’s more productive.
Donald Trump

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:00 pm

Ok sweetheart I’m taking Fred (not riding him) to the feed store while I go get some KFC.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:01 pm

Thank you, WofW!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:02 pm

Okay Wisdom then why don’t you start.
Don’t stick your nose where it don’t belong.
And better yet, stop hiding under a fake moniker coward.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:03 pm

DANG, she was giving you PROPS!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:05 pm

Fake names and then a coward whoa……come on Fred lets go.

The Real Lurker

November 11th, 2010
5:05 pm

Why do you keep attacking I am? That does not look like props whatsoever.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:06 pm

The hell?
Why don’t people use their real monikers versus fake ones!

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:06 pm

She was commending her on her fortitude on always attempting to be nice. :lol:

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:06 pm

Kym sweety I am with you tonight I don’t think it will be a beat down but I expect them to lose.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:09 pm

That wasn’t even close to an attack.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:10 pm

Meaning my earlier post wasn’t even close to an attack!!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:12 pm

Damn I should be tailgating with the buddies, but sitting here watching the damn tv when should be enjoying vodka and pineapple.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:16 pm

Leggs:

Has everyone gone? Since I am here all alone I need some company.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:19 pm

Yeah right, you’re just trying to have me bring you a plate of food!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
5:21 pm

Okay party people, off to watch the game! Ya’ll be easy, whoemever is left in here!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:22 pm

I have a right to blog just as much as anyone.
And no, I will not leave “gracefully” because I do not have the popular vote.
If folks don’t like me, they can leave the blog.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:22 pm

Enjoy the game Mo. I know you’ve been waiting all day for the day to end!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:22 pm

No darling I mean I’m here all alone in the office we stay here the rest of the night no interruptions.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
5:26 pm

Too funny, I got what you meant. You and Fred are all alone in the office. All that “braying” will soon get on your last nerve…

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:27 pm

I AM:
“I have a right to blog just as much as anyone.”

All bs aside you do sweetheart and I commend you for that stance.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:29 pm

Thank you Blackfoote.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:33 pm

Leggs:

You’re right I can’t listen to this crap allnight.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:34 pm

I AM:

You are welcome dear.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:36 pm

Blackfoote: If you send him on a chocolate run, he usually relaxes.
Keep him away from stuffed animals, porn, and log poles :shock:

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
5:36 pm

Ya’ll are funny. guess it’s blog after hours huh?

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:40 pm

Dreams: open the blog bar again!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:44 pm

What the hell I have company I am not alone………well I AM I do have a snickers and a Mr Goodbar, a dvd for the porn I just can’t see watching a porn with him though.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
5:45 pm

I am I gotta run, but here’s the keys. lock up when you leave. don’t drink all the good stuff either.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:45 pm

Blackfoote: if you have a thing for animals do your thing. I won’t judge :shock:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:46 pm

Thanks Dreams whatever happens after I leave tonight, I am not responsible for . I didn’t do it;as I load bottles up into my van

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:48 pm

I don’t know a few of those vodkas and pineapples that I should be enjoying right about now at my tailgating I’m missing I’ll watch a porn with anything.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:49 pm

I will not judge :shock:
Again, I will not judge

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:50 pm

Damn left alone again.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:53 pm

time for me to rummage around people’s things :twisted:
Blackfoote: do you know who own’s these handcuffs?

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:53 pm

EEEEEEWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!! WHO LEFT TO DOOKIE IN THE TOILET!!!!!!!!!!! :evil:

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:56 pm

You are not alone I AM here with you tho wer’e far apart you’re always in my heart. Just the other night thought I heard you cry asking me come hold you in my arms.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:57 pm

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:57 pm

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
5:58 pm

Handcuffs……..HMMMMMMMMMMMMMM I’ll take em

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:58 pm

fine you take the handcuffs, but I’m keeping the whips and chains :mrgreen:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
5:59 pm

um…blackfoote…why in da hell are you performing a citizen’s arrest on Fred: :shock:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
6:00 pm

this is not broke back mountain or deliverance!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
6:01 pm

Since you’re here I AM would you like some of this Mr. Goodbar?

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
6:04 pm

Ok I AM no no no not for Fred. We can do some things with the whip,chain, and handcuffs.