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The waiting game

If you ask a guy how long he waited to “seal the deal” with his girlfriend and you are likely to get a very precise answer. Apparently, the waiting game is one of the few games that men look forward to losing.

Anticipating when someone is ready to take the next step can require a lot of patience. I would argue that it can become distracting to some people to the point that it’s all they ever focus on. A lot of times it can take away from the “exploration phase” of getting to know someone.

I think women may be able to contend with the waiting game a little better then men, although it’s tough on us too! How do you handle the waiting game? Do you bring it up at all or pretend the sexual tension isn’t there?

Do you think the longer the wait is, the better your chances are to have a stronger connection? Does that make a difference when you want something really meaningful?

What’s the longest you have waited to seal the deal?
(Question Disclaimer: I personally didn’t want to ask this question but my friend Eric was curious about the responses since he gave me the topic idea. You’re welcome)

473 comments Add your comment

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
11:26 am

2Can…Do you think Cam’s dad really asked for 200 grand???

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:27 am

I haven’t read the first two pages but I have just one question. How do I go about signing up to be one of your ‘fans’? And is there a pledging process as well?

You can’t be one of my fans, Slim. You’re actually sane and don’t take this board too seriously.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:27 am

“Do you think Cam’s dad really asked for 200 grand???”

yep. if not that much, he asked for something!

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
11:27 am

so exhausting

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:28 am

Simple dude: what plans do you have have for your day off?
I’m thinking about going to the range tomorrow but I still need shoes.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:28 am

ain’t nobody charging admission to be here, lil mama, so all the F you’s, and this and that, ain’t called for….

2Can – I think someone is asking to get banned.

Or maybe at that age, it’s called “time out” :lol:

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
11:30 am

I am…kicking it with my brothers most od the day….

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:30 am

This Cam Newton story has Reggie Bush written all over it. The sad part is it will cost him the Heisman. When its all said and done the NCAA will punish the folks that have nothing to do with it.

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
11:31 am

what do you guys think of Deion Sanders getting into Falcons Ring of fame :)

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
11:31 am

so exhausting

very true.

@Simple, I don’t know if Cam Newton’s dad asked for 200 grand but I will say it does make for good drama. What would a college football season be without a story about a football star possibly getting some “benefits” to play.

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
11:31 am

On a lighter note: Funny lil story…My mom just texted my sis and i to tell me my little niece (will be 2 in January) came down the stairs with her pajama bottoms off and a tampon between her knees. When my mom went upstairs, she sees where the whole box has been emptied out and tampons everywhere. Kids are watching & listening even when you don’t think they are but i thought it was HILARIOUS :lol:

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
11:32 am

ONE HUNDRED AND SIXTY THIRD!!!

YES!!!!

Trevor0529

November 11th, 2010
11:33 am

what do you guys think of Deion Sanders getting into Falcons Ring of fame?

I had no idea the Falcons had a Ring of Fame.

:)

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:33 am

@Sweet Pea ~ we need Cleopatra Jones to clean up this mess and have a “rap session” putting parties back on the right soul train of happiness!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:33 am

Go Ravens!! AFC!! AFC!!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:34 am

To this day, when I hear the name Deion Sanders his song “Must Be The Money” plays in my head. :lol:

I watch his wife on Football Wives. She claims she is 28. :lol:

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
11:34 am

Wow…..morning folks. I see blog beef sparking up again. @2can that Cam situation is getting ugliest by the day. The pops is looking horrible b/c they’re saying HE chose AU for Cam….

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:34 am

WD – On the the Deion Sanders Ring of Honor. I believe he is one of the best to ever play the game. He is also one of the best to do it while in a Falcon uniform. I do however see how some folks think he didnt do it long enough as a Falcon to be honored in such a way.

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:35 am

Kym:

All this time in life and I thought sex was physical. I’m still learning things everday as I go.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:35 am

@SlimNU ~ that is too funny, cute and scary all at the same time!

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:35 am

The sad part is it will cost him the Heisman
probably, but so what? The Heisman definitely isn’t an indicator for success in the NFL.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:36 am

Moe, I agree….and the tell-tale sign gon’ actually be next year, when Auburn falls back into mediocrity without him…..

Simple Man!!! Now being played By Petey Wheatstraw The devils Son in law!!!!

November 11th, 2010
11:36 am

HUGE Deion fan!!! That being said…He was only here for five years…Either the Falcons have Crap for history or he should not be there….I will let teh Falcon fans decide……

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:38 am

@Blackfoote..You can fake it to you make it..but to really get to that point of no return requires more than pump pump give..pump pump give.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:38 am

“Either the Falcons have Crap for history”

who else is there that really did something for the franchise??? I can see Keith Brooking being added in a few years, but other than that, who????

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

Willie – I agree with you about Deion being one of the best. It was so exciting when he was with the Falcons & Braves – remember when he played in a Falcons game & then flew to play with the Braves in the World Series or playoff game? It doesn’t matter to me if he played for 2 games or 2 years, he was great for the team and deserves the ring. Plus, really it’s not like it’s the Lombardi trophy or anything, let’s be real!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

See you didn’t have go there with the Ravens I already conceded this game to but if it’s low scoring which I believe will be it will favor the Dbirds.

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

The Falcons messed that one up. Shoulda paid the man.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

Slim: at your 11:31
Hilarious!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

Diva….we oughta have a Blog Ring of Honor……

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
11:40 am

2C, exactly. I agree with Willie that it’ll cost him the heisman. But I think that’s what the goal is for whoever started this anyway. Since he won’t win it for them, they don’t want him winning at all

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
11:41 am

Hey Party People, how is everyone?

I am – I was wondering why ALL the Mrs Winners were closing down. Now I know…..wow

so what are we discussing? Are we still on topic?

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:42 am

@Blackfoote..The Ravens are trying to hold my boys off..I don’t see them letting up and since the Fakecons are giving up rushing yards …damn it let me go set my roster for tonight..

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:43 am

Mo: yeah…I better get their chicken strips before it’s too late.
On a sad note: that’s going to be more people without a job :-(

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
11:43 am

My mom said she didn’t think to take a picture but it reminds me of a clip on America’s Funniest videos where a little boy had got a hold of a box of panty liners and had stuck them all over his body. LMAO!!!

On the topic of sports – I didn’t realize there was such a huge disparity between NBA players pay versus NFL…seems as if due to the hish risk of injury that the NFL would pay more and offer more benefits. After watching NFL Wives they only get insurance for up to 5yrs after they stop playing…heyal, that’s probably when they need it the most. Someone tried to explain that NBA have more opps for sponsorships with regard to the shoe game.

Mr. Moe

November 11th, 2010
11:43 am

@WD forget Deion, I’m putting Pilar Sanders in my Ring of Fame :lol:

LURKER-1

November 11th, 2010
11:44 am

ARED, I’m old enough to be your father. I think you said they have been married 33 yrs, I’m approaching 30 yrs. I’m giving you a BIG STANDING OVATION, this morning. The man that marry you will be ” a very fortunate guy”. Obviously, your parents raised a true and decent woman.

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:44 am

Anyone going to the game tonight? I think i may just make this an out and about night. The city should be live tonight.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 11th, 2010
11:45 am

I love Deion Sanders and I am rooting for Cam Newton. I got a chance to meet Deion when he was also playing for the Braves and the Falcons This is so old school but Nike made some of the best posters of Deion Sanders (many of which I still have).

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

Sweet Pea

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

@Leggs…..Girl, I was just thinking can we all just get along???? If we can just let each other be and respect each other’s opinion in blog world it would be a betta place Baby!!! I don’t want to get my sista friend, Foxy Brown with her blades to help cut the thickness up in here!

Let’s have a meeting in the Ladies Room while we work this thang out!

SexyCool

November 11th, 2010
11:46 am

Okay…er, um…whatdahell?!?!?
(insert crazy bug-eye emoticon here)

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:47 am

Mr.Moe – cosign that Pilar statement.

AmazonRed™

November 11th, 2010
11:49 am

Well, thank you LURKER-1

ARed

November 11th, 2010
11:50 am

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:51 am

I don’t want to get my sista friend, Foxy Brown with her blades
Sweet Pea I vote for Foxy, but just because I like the visual. ;-)

AmazonRed

November 11th, 2010
11:54 am

Wise you know I’m not a threat to the board. You can take me off punishment now, please.

Leggs

November 11th, 2010
11:56 am

@Sweet Pea ~ thank you thank you thank you. I couldn’t think of Foxy Brown’s name…that’s me!

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:56 am

I’ll say this Kym if we can get Lewis and Reed off the defense put some stops on Rice we can help ya’ll take first place.