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The waiting game

If you ask a guy how long he waited to “seal the deal” with his girlfriend and you are likely to get a very precise answer. Apparently, the waiting game is one of the few games that men look forward to losing.

Anticipating when someone is ready to take the next step can require a lot of patience. I would argue that it can become distracting to some people to the point that it’s all they ever focus on. A lot of times it can take away from the “exploration phase” of getting to know someone.

I think women may be able to contend with the waiting game a little better then men, although it’s tough on us too! How do you handle the waiting game? Do you bring it up at all or pretend the sexual tension isn’t there?

Do you think the longer the wait is, the better your chances are to have a stronger connection? Does that make a difference when you want something really meaningful?

What’s the longest you have waited to seal the deal?
(Question Disclaimer: I personally didn’t want to ask this question but my friend Eric was curious about the responses since he gave me the topic idea. You’re welcome)

473 comments Add your comment

Wise Diva

November 11th, 2010
10:52 am

aww come on.. No fighting!

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
10:53 am

So not necessary! :shock:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:53 am

@I am ~ what is wrong with you this morning? Do you get this vile every time you get horny and can’t release? Now you’re talking about her loose mama…that is truly uncalled for. Speak on that which you know. You’ve never met her mama, but I have and I take offense!!!!

Delight23

November 11th, 2010
10:53 am

Mrs. Winners is filing bankruptcy. Hmm, between roberries and the infusion of Popeye’s (ole exspensive behind) and KFC re-vamping their menu, it was only a matter of time.

Too bad capitalism didn’t work as well on wall-street. Could’ve saved all that dang bail-out money. :|

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:56 am

Wise: I’ve really had it with her. I’m tired of her always disrespecting me.
I don’t want to fight but at the same time I won’t let anyone disrespect me.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:57 am

Who the heck is “I am?”

How long has she even been on this blog? That’s how little I pay attention. I couldn’t give you details about her if I tried. Half the time, I forget if she’s male or female.

LMAO @ her “keeping score”

Poor thing. :lol:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
10:57 am

@I am ~ we have all been disrespected up in this camp…SO FREAKING WHAT. If you can’t play nicely, you’re about to be banned! This is exactly what WD is trying to prevent and you bring your silly trantrum on here over NOTHING!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:57 am

Ared: go play with yourself.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
10:58 am

Leggs: All I can say is that if you take offense-then it confirms it’s true.

Kym

November 11th, 2010
10:58 am

Random Thought: I wonder if voodoo hoodoo really does work. I know my friend from NOLA is not to keen on the use of Tarot cards.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
10:59 am

Leggs – No need to take offense for my mom. She’s a wonderful woman who wouldn’t give a rat’s patooty about what some internet harlot has to say.

It’s just nice to see folks true colors show when things don’t go their way. I feel sorry for ole girl. She has to result to insulting my family just because she can’t handle discussion on a message board. How does one function in life? :lol:

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:00 am

Ared: go play with yourself.

Huh? Uh…no. How’s that. :D

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:01 am

Yeah: Ared is the bomb! And that is why she is divorced!
:lol! Congrats! yep! you the bomb girl! Go head!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:02 am

Um…I’m not divorced. Get your story straight weirdo. :lol:

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:02 am

It does not confirm it’s true. I take offense to you badmouthing a woman you never met, a seemingly very happy woman in a marriage that has stood the test of time, raising her family and sticking with her man THROUGH THICK AND THIN, and you sit there calling her loose! Silly rabbit, you the trick today.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:03 am

and you sure aint’ married either !
go get your cats!
ALOL!

Stupid C*** .
Yep , she get it from her momma.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:04 am

@I am ~ you’re playing with that “fuzzy math” again! Your facts are skewed!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:04 am

Raising her family: She obviously failed miserably with Ared.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:06 am

Whatever….I’m done.
Oh yeah, watch your back. Just sayin’

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:06 am

Ha! there is actually a blog for voodoo spells..seriously you can find anything on the internet.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:07 am

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:08 am

LMAO…did this internet gangster just threaten me.

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Yeah, you should tap out. Cuz all you’ll continue to do is keep making yourself look foolish and pathetic. :lol: :lol: :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:08 am

LOL at WillieD and Roger Goodell. No sooner than you said it…

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

“…Yeah, you should tap out. Cuz all you’ll continue to do is keep making yourself look foolish and pathetic…..”

and you are much better with your responses?
Troll!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

Silly rabbit, you the trick today.

Good one Leggs. :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

Dreams: where’s my drink dammit!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:09 am

Oh, I’m the trick today?
Pot calling kettle black.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:10 am

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:11 am

Dreams: where’s my drink dammit!!!
I am 3 double shots of Patron coming right up. You might need a lil sticky icky too…

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:12 am

I am – I thought you were done? Guess not!

As for my responses…I don’t need to stoop to your level. You look pathetic enough all by yourself.

Besides, you’re such a non-factor in my life, I can’t remember a single thing about you to even go there with you… Keep on keeping score though. You know I love my fans! :)

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:12 am

Dreams: you forgot the bacardi and coke! :evil: !

Willie Dynamite

November 11th, 2010
11:12 am

Dreams – The NCAA could learn something from WD and Goodell. It really doesn’t take months/yrs to handle an investigation. I’m already tired of the Cam Newton situation and I’m a Gator.

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:13 am

Dreams: you forgot the bacardi and coke!
I am ok here’s the bacardi…no coke though.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:13 am

Someone go play with ARed:
Obviously she needs attention.

I am whatever you say I am

November 11th, 2010
11:14 am

Dreams: you tryin to get me drunk?
LOL!

Kym

November 11th, 2010
11:14 am

@WillieD..I was trying to catch up on that whole Cam Newton story..I am not a big follower of college football.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:14 am

@ARed ~ two years old…dang that went fast! All those smiley faces should have you passed out by now!

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:15 am

Hey Einstein, obviously you want to give me attention.

If you’re done…you should probably stop addressing me…. otherwise you just prove you’re a pathetic liar, instead of just being pathetic! :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:15 am

Ok ladies, come on back now. Blog ain’t quite right without you all in here.

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:17 am

@ARed ~ two years old…dang that went fast! All those smiley faces should have you passed out by now!

:lol: It did go by fast. And my 10 month old neice is walking now. Awwww… :D

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:18 am

Sorry Dreams…I’m gonna be mocking her temper tantrum for at least a week now.

“I dont’ like ARed, she is disrespecting me! Wah wah wah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

kimmie

November 11th, 2010
11:19 am

Dreamboat – We need you men around to make it all better! :)

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:20 am

Willie D….man that situation with Cam Newton is pathetic! yeah, everybody (that follows college football) knows what happened at UF, but why bring it up now…’specially if all that happened awhile ago….seems to me like some disgruntled folks don’t want him to get the Heisman, cause he’s clearly the favorite….or was, at least…

and y’all ladies calm down, please….

AmazonRed™ - The nephew is TWO today!

November 11th, 2010
11:21 am

I am calm. :) I’m not the one making internet threats. ;)

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:22 am

“I’m not the one making internet threats.”

yeah, that is sad….’specially how “the folks” take that kinda stuff pretty seriously…

SlimNumeroUno

November 11th, 2010
11:23 am

Well well well…good late morning to yall. It seems a bit smokey in here, is someone’s arse on fire? :lol:

Ared – I haven’t read the first two pages but I have just one question. How do I go about signing up to be one of your ‘fans’? And is there a pledging process as well? :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 11th, 2010
11:24 am

Dreamboat – We need you men around to make it all better!
kimmie come sit by me then. you know I got you.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 11th, 2010
11:25 am

hol’ up, I am….

ain’t nobody charging admission to be here, lil mama, so all the F you’s, and this and that, ain’t called for….

Blackfoote

November 11th, 2010
11:25 am

Mornin Folks:

Ladies I said there were beautiful women here in blogland which I have never met (aside for one) assuming I want to think that holds true so please “can we all get along”. At least discuss something else besides each other. I just don’t like to see or read people attacking each other.

Leggs ™

November 11th, 2010
11:26 am

@ARed ~ I thought of your niece and thinking how proud you were when you first became an Aunt…sweet that she’s walking!