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When a man loves a woman

There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.

Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?

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YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:14 am

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:15 am

There are ways…generally speaking if I feel confused it seems obvious to me he must not be feeling me like that. Even without the words I should be able to feel that he is crazy about me. But that’s just my opinion us youngins don’t really know all that much anyway….

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
8:16 am

YSIC – Good morning chica…lemme finish spraying this Lysol around the office first. I get a strange feeling something naughty went on in here last night…the desk and stuff were all in disarray, especially that one in the corner with the view. lol

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:16 am

“…can’t keep his mond on nothing else.”

Ah shucks I’m gonna have this song in my head all day :-) Bom dia peoples!!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:17 am

*sp: mind not mond. Coffee too strong. :lol:

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:22 am

@topic: Yes, if you know your man, which comes with a little time and consistency. I had an ex who was not into flowers and candy BUT was a big fixer-upper, kept my car maintained, new tires, hire those guys that washed it at the house, would get my lawn manicured, bought me a new flat screen AND washer and dryer.

I had an ex who was big on jewelry, flowers and trips. Would call AAA befor he messed up his clothes to change a tire :lol: . You just have to know your man and appreciate the love however it is shown.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
8:36 am

Morning Ladies….I think I left something in the corner office yesterday…Did anyone see anything out of the norm this morning????

On topic….You ladies got it right…Know your man…Understand that if he loves you, he will do it inthe best way that he can, Even if it is 100% different than your old boyfriend did….

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:36 am

Good morning everyone!
@ Slim I actually came in on that didn’t know we worked so late in here lol

@ Delight you are really right I had to realize that you can’t expect everyone to love you the way you want them to…everyone has their own way of showing love either you can accept it or move on to someone who shows love the way you want. If a lot of people realized this a lot of people would be happier in their relationships.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
8:47 am

g’ morning….

when a man loves a woman…..trust me…..you’ll know it….one of them things you can’t explain; you just know it, and he’ll show it.

morning wifeys….y’all been slackin lately! But I’mma still show y’all my love….

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
8:47 am

Simple & YSIC – If yall gonna be in here all late, we expect you to put everything back the way you found it. There was something sticky on the copying maching too which I didn’t bother to touch. So one of yall need to tend to that before the day gets started. lol

Simple – so how can a chick tell when you’re IN love?

Sweet Pea

November 9th, 2010
8:50 am

Good Morning! I believe Babyface song, “As Soon As I Get Home” sums it up for some! However, it does not take all of that if they don’t have it. I feel their actions(things they do to express their love) and ultimately how they make you feel let’s you know there is love for you.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
8:54 am

Hey slim…I will take care of that thing with the copier in a bit…How can a women tell whenI am in love….Hmmmmmmm…
I have lost people that I love dearly, so My number one thing is to make sure that I say what I feel as much as showing it, so when I am in love, in addition to all of the things that I do I make it a point to actually tell them that I love her…..And not just in passing, but I make it a point to say it in a way that at least for the moment, removes all doubt…I refuse to ever be in a position where I miss a chance to say whats in my heart again…..

Kym

November 9th, 2010
8:54 am

Good Morning All,

Happy Post Steeler Victory Day!

Why did this post remind me of that line..Learning your man while you earning your man..I agree with everyone else’s statements this morning..Why is this floor sticky? Freaks!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:54 am

Good morning @ 2CPTG

@Slim that was blue and simple…I just walked in on it…:lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
8:55 am

Simple man: what is this business I hear about you wearing thigh high boots and fishnets :shock:
Son, seek therapy!

Back on topic: It is so not hard for me to tell if a man loves me.
In the beginning, they start to say the L word which is nice to hear but it’s the actions that make an impact.
You can have the hardest badest dude out there but when he is in love, he is weak in the knees when it comes to his woman. In public, he is the strong Lion but behind closed doors, he is a chihuahua when it comes to his woman that he loves.

The things that guys (that have loved me) have done for me without me asking or thinking it, let me know just how much I meant to them.
I have not been in love with that many people, but those guys will always have a special place in my heart.

Off topic: Dear blog,
I am very very saddened over the death of that innocent young man that was beat to death over no reason. I am sick and tired of all the killing that is going on between the youth. I feel so powerless. I want to do something about it. :-(
I am so scared now for when my 2 year old becomes a teenager. We have to do something about this : these are the kids that our young kids may look up to and these are the kids that (sadly) will be taking care us, making decisions that affect us while we try to collect medicare in our old age.
I’m just asking that we all pray for the youth and if you have the opportunity-mentor a child.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:57 am

“Morning Ladies….I think I left something in the corner office yesterday…Did anyone see anything out of the norm this morning????”

See I’m still new, but I know NOT to wander into any corners up in this blog. Can’t help ya. :mrgreen:

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
8:59 am

Damn Cuteness….Do you have to tell EVERYBODY????

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
9:02 am

When a man loves a woman? You just know. I agree can’t really be explained. And how he expresses is unique to him and is driven by it.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
9:15 am

@ Simple Man I thought it was common knowledge my bad

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
9:17 am

Good morning!

@SweatPea ~ you came with the right song.

There are many ways to tell when your man loves you. Not necessarily with his words, but with his actions and his eyes. When he looks at look you can basically read his mind!!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
9:18 am

Morning peoples…yawwwnnnn…
whats the topic? when a man loves a woman….hmmmm…im a big believer in the idea that the little things do matter. little things that they didnt used to do, that really there is no reason for them to do x,y,z except for you. also, as far as women interpreting it, i think a big thing we need to understand is that their not all the same, just because one had flowers delivered to you all the time doesnt mean the one your with now doesnt love you cause he only gets flowers on your birthday. let them be themselves not copies of your past….

jerry

November 9th, 2010
9:18 am

Ladies if a man loves a woman he will put up with almost anything cause he loves her. In return all he wants is a smile, a hug, a kiss, a kind word and a laugh. If other things come along then it is that much better. Looks fade away over time, but a heart and soul lives for eternity .

too bad I’m older than my wife of 40 and she thinks a bit different but one day as she grows wiser with age she will understand those roses cut and placed by her bed side and those gentle touches
were shared because I loved her. Too bad she has missed out on the last year of our life because pride always gets in each others way.

If for some reason she reads this let her know Tiger, Jack and I still love her . A tune I wrote not so long ago went like this “Do you see me in the stars when you go out at night, Are you there wishing I was holding you tight. Do you remember me. This old ghost can’t hold you when I die.
The experts say diamonds never die and maybe that why the sky is full or them.
Do you see my in the sky when you go out at night. That old man in the moon is just a picture of me little old me. *Love is found in many strange places and time has love stories to tell.
Love songs are written in tears and smiles and I hope some day darling each of you will understand.Love is meant to last an eternity and in my prayers I pray that you are safe.

Come back if you so choose. The walk down the roads of life are just directions blowing in the wind. Honey one day you will figure out what “Love’ really is.

To Veronica form that one man that really does love her. Jerry

The song above can be shared with someone special all you have to do is hum it .

Wise Diva

November 9th, 2010
9:19 am

Good morning! Headed back to Atlanta today, there’s no place like home!

Would it be easier to define when a man is NOT in love? LOL. I want to know what kind of behavior a man tends to show when he knows he “met the one” though.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
9:19 am

Morning
I’m a doer, not a talker. So, my actions will clearly show that I’m all into you.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
9:26 am

I am whatever you say I am 8:55 am
Simple man: what is this business I hear about you wearing thigh high boots and fishnets
Son, seek therapy!

^^^ That right there is why I stay outta da corners. :?

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
9:31 am

@ Dreams what actions are consistent with being in love as opposed to just caring?

Mrs. JtJ

November 9th, 2010
9:32 am

Morning All,

Well, I am a women that values actions over words, and I believe men like to “show” you how much they love you better than they can tell you! I have heard “I Love You” thrown around so loosely, so if I hear the words, I am expecting some actions that will further drive that notion home. And it will be reciprocated on my part as well.

If you love something, you crave it, you care for it, you nurture the desire for it, you feed into it, and tend to it, and watch it grow before your very eyes!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:37 am

How do I know my man loves me? Let me count the ways.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:38 am

First of all, if he doesn’t he has an odd way of showing that.

He makes sure I am taken care of in all areas.

He doesn’t hold my past against me.

He shares his FruitLoops with me.

He is here for me when I need him. And even when I don’t.

He tells me sometimes

He listens to me ramble on about nothing.

He has taken time to know the symptoms of when I am not feeling well.

He tells me “you are not supposed to be eating that”.

He keeps coming back for more.

He laughs at my corny jokes.

He was genuinely okay with that mishap that happened Sunday and told me there is no need to apologize.

He’ll sometimes let me hold the remote. LOL

He occasionally gives me a piggyback ride.

He only complains sometimes when I hog the covers.

He lets me sit in the front sometimes when we take a bath together.

He never lets the seat down.

He sometimes apologizes even when he knows he is not the one wrong.

He hasn’t thrown my clothes from his side of the closet. Yet.

He will leave me a sip when he drinks from my bottle of Snapple.

Mrs. JtJ

November 9th, 2010
9:39 am

The actions of man who “loves” a woman may be some the same things he will do when “likes” or “ cares” for her a lot. ( I know, I know….not every guy) …But, the difference with those actions are now that he does these things sometimes without even thinking about and without expecting anything in return. And he is not keeping tabs of “all that I have done for you”…….

Love is a very splendid thing indeed! Just feeling lovely this morning!!!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:40 am

WiseDiva, why is Radiant Ardent Quaint Intensity not allowed on this blog? LOL

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
9:40 am

Delight…Having the fishnets stockings on my head with he crotch across my face does not constitute WEARING them…. (I hate it when they get the story wrong…)

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
9:41 am

Good Morning:

How to tell a man is in love: he will take you to meet Mom and family if available, will show chivalry is not dead and, will massage your feet and help you put your boots on, will shield you from any type of harm.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
9:42 am

Too many ladies in here anwering this question. Where da men at? :?: :?

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:43 am

Blackfoote, I have found that a man will put his own mother in her place when it comes to the woman he loves.

Delvin

November 9th, 2010
9:46 am

That’s one of my favorite Percy Sledge songs.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
9:47 am

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
9:47 am

Raqi:

That is correct some Moms can try and hijack a mans love for another woman.

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
9:48 am

‘Too many ladies in here anwering this question. Where da men at?’

Delight – Great observation…lololol MEN SPEAK UP!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
9:50 am

@Raqi – i love your list – esp. this one – He shares his FruitLoops with me – now thats love, lol

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
9:52 am

Ok..I just hung up the phne withthe last woman I was in love with and I asked her how did she know I was serious about hhow I felt about her and her answer surprised me…. She said that while she always knew I cared…One day when we were in Florida, She caught me looking at her and there was something in my eyes that was not there before…She said she looked into my eyes and saw a piece of my soul that she had never seen and that was teh moment that changed everthing for her….That was the moment that she knew I loved her and that she had to end our realtionship because was not sure if she would ever be able to look at me in that manner….

Kym

November 9th, 2010
9:52 am

Hmmm would taking a day off work to play naked hide and seek count as love or lust? I say both

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
9:53 am

Morning blue…. How you doing this morning girl????

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
9:54 am

“MEN SPEAK UP!”

Look, women…..we don’ tol’ y’all….you’ll know it when it occurs…..to sit here and say, I show my love cause I do this, that, and the other, is asinine….you gotta be in love to see love….

LovelessinATL

November 9th, 2010
9:54 am

jerry your post was so sweet, it made tears well up. good luck with her coming back, man!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:55 am

A woman becomes a priority in the life of the man that loves her.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:56 am

LOL Blue Yep. He loves his FruitLoops so he must really loves me to share them with me.

HotMess

November 9th, 2010
9:58 am

Whatever….love woulda brought your as$ home last night!

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
9:58 am

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
9:59 am

Mrs. A, you prolly banned ’cause of them long ass soliloquys…..you know Diva don’t play that no ‘mo……

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:00 am

I know he loves me because he is gentler with me, but stronger at the same time than he is with anyone else.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:00 am

Kym, that’s funny and so true. Just like my hub loves his FruitLoops he loves his money 100 times more so to stay home from making money to play hide the willie in with me has to be love.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:00 am

Simple man: you can lie all you want but when you leave pictures of yourself on the copier- the truth come out

http://www.flickr.com/photos/robh/477141864/

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:00 am

2CPTG, I kinda agree with you. I think the biggest challenge is the woman recognizing what’s love and what is not.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:01 am

LOL 2CPTG, maybe so. WiseDiva what is word count limit on here?

blue®

November 9th, 2010
10:02 am

@Simple Man – trying to wake up here, already getting phone calls that make me wanna curse like a sailor….

as far as love and all, one of the most surpirsing signs, for anyway – maybe was inexperience idk, was when mr.blue and i were younger b4 getting hitched. i was hanging out with a mutual male friend of ours waiting for him to show, and while we’re talking he comes walking from the end of hte hall. the friend looks up, sees the way he looks at me, turns to me and says “see how his face lights up when he sees you, you know he loves you right?” . seemed such a strange convo to be having with a guy about another guy, but it sure was true.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
10:03 am

I am…why you gotta treat me like that????

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
10:04 am

“the biggest challenge is the woman recognizing what’s love and what is not.”

yep….having the ability to differentiate between love, lust, and like….love is enduring, while the others are temporary….

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
10:05 am

Morning People!

A woman becomes a priority in the life of the man that loves her.

That statement pretty much sums it up for me. You are a priority, not an option.

As for actions versus words, it really must be both, with me anyway. I have in the past mistaken a man’s kind actions toward me as love, when they really were not. He was just being his kind self. So yes, he must show it, but he’s needs to say it too. I learned to take nothing for granted and pretend I can read a man’s mind. And yes, I am receptive of a man’s unique style of showing his love, too. There is no one right or wrong way.

Yes, I have seen the “look” of a man in love, whether it was with me or a man looking at someone else he loves. I can “feel” the presence of love between two people. They don’t have to be all touchy-feely either. You know how in some situations you can feel tension among people? It’s the same with love.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
10:09 am

Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.

I guess I can’t play today, because I am single.

But it’s nice to see how my Dad, Grandad and men married to my girlfriends express their love to their wives. :)

Morning all.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:12 am

Yeah 2CPTG. One thing is for sure a man does not have to love a woman to blow her back out. Love would be him rubbing that back to comfort her. It does not count as love to put in the time needed to get in the panties. But love will make him stick around and be just as happy when that panty door is closed. Heck it doesn’t even take a man’s love to loan a woman money, but when he forgives that loan just because…well something very similar to love is starting to brew. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:12 am

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DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
10:14 am

but when he forgives that loan just because…
Raqi or how about when it’s not a loan to begin with…just gives it without ever thinking twice about getting it back.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
10:15 am

I do not think that there are set things that defines when a man loves a woman, but she will know if she pays attention. Here are a few things but not all, in regards to my love for my wife.

I tell her stuff that I would usually keep to myself, just to be on the level and honest all of the time
If she is upset, no matter how trivial I think the matter is…deep down Im upset because my lady is not at peace.
I am always kind with her even though I am a “turd” with everyone else
I always think of her first.
If I see her exerting herself I always try and help…unless basketball is on. LOL
I value her opinion and will actually try things her way sometimes
I smile whenever I think about her.
I always want to show her some of my manliness…fixing this..fixing that…you don’t need to call anyone to come fix it. I can do it myself
I will endure watching girlie shows/movies(even though my mind is way somewhere else..I will sit there for her and hug her) I don’t like paying attention to them because for some reason my eyes get leaky…lol
I am just all around concerned about her happiness and well being all of the time and I just am a silly guy when I am with her.
..that’s enough, I could go on but I am sure I am not making any sense.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
10:19 am

…you gotta be in love to see love….

Nothing like the vague leading the blind. :roll: C’mon now you know this leaves the door open to mis-interpreation and just missed signals altogether.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
10:20 am

Purple Olive – Very sweet! :)

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:21 am

Yes DreamMat, I agree with that. But I used loan for a reason. An actual event that took place while we were dating.

If I ask you to loan me money I have every intention of paying back and I will pay it back. In my mind it is a loan. Now whether he has no intention of accepting the money back is not my concern because I will hand it out to him until he tells be to keep it.

Of all the things he has done for me while dating and now while married (monetary gifts), when I say I am going to pay it back I make that effort. I have never been of the mind that just because I am your woman it’s an automatic gift. When I borrow I repay. And yes even with my husband.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:22 am

and man that loves you will spend his last dime on meal for you and won’t ask you for a bite because he wants you to enjoy it while he sits there hungry. He will even turn down your offer because he wants to make sure you are full

and man that loves you won’t tell you that you need new tires but instead will tell you as he is putting them on your car or driving your car to the tire shop to get them put on.

A man that loves you will put anyone in their place should they disrepect you to your face or behind your back-

A man that loves you will let you put the heat on full blast in the car while he’s in the next seat sweating like a roasted pig.
He may curse a little under his breath but he will still let you make him sweat.

A man that loves you, will throw down in the kitchen for you often regardless of whether or not you cook

And lastly…
A man that loves you will protect you , provide for you, and you won’t even have to question whether or not he loves you. You just know.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
10:22 am

@Raqi/blue ~ I liked when he leaves her a sip of her own dang drink. :lol:

Where the heck are the men this beautiful morning?

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
10:24 am

There are many expressions a man can show he is in love (words + actions) it’s up to the woman to interpret how it affect and comforts her. It is smiling at the thought of her. It’s about puting her first.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
10:24 am

I Am, I want to change one of the things in your list. You said a man that loves you will put anyone in their place.. A MAN, that see’s any woman being disrespected will put anyone in their place. A man would not turn his head.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:25 am

ARed – A man has loved you…prior to being single

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
10:25 am

Leggs:

Happy morning to you.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
10:26 am

..that’s enough, I could go on but I am sure I am not making any sense.

Clearer than Strass Crystal. ;)

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
10:26 am

ARed – A man has loved you…prior to being single

Clearly he didn’t love me enough, or I wouldn’t be single. :lol: So I don’t think I should harp on how I THINK it should be.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
10:26 am

Raqi — Not able to post under you’re old moniker? Just use a different fake email addy & you should be good to go.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
10:27 am

Ooops… your — not you’re

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
10:28 am

“Where the heck are the men this beautiful morning?”

We’re busy working on our “honey-do” lists so our women know we love them….

;-)

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:28 am

So I don’t think I should harp on how I THINK it should be.

Okay, you’re right

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:28 am

You would sit and eat a meal in front of a man (or anybody, for that matter) who is hungry but has nothing to eat?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
10:29 am

Good morning!

When a man loves a woman:
he’s gon ask,respectfully,’baby,can I come over?’ and not just show up,unannounced,as if taking her for granted! :lol:

When he luvs ya, he’s gon go,but holla back or better yet,come back running.

when he luvs it,he gon be coming back for more and more servings.

when he luvs ya,for real for real, he’s gon tell his male buddies,’hey,that’s my chick!

When he luvs ya,he may not tell ya in the face,but he treats u right!

When he luvs ya,he makes sure the bills are paid,there is food on the stove and pantry,has a calming presence about him and makes sure u are well fed,down stairs and upstairs!

:lol:

When he luvs u,it’s gon stand the test of Time!

That’s the ultimate test if he luv ya,for real for real!

good day anglers and lovers!

Cutie and Celisea,’comeon ladies!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
10:29 am

I am whatever you say I am:

“A man that loves you will let you put the heat on full blast in the car while he’s in the next seat sweating like a roasted pig.”

:lol: yep! yep! or already have the temp for your seat set when he comes to pick you up. Loved that Rover. :-)

blue®

November 9th, 2010
10:30 am

@Leggs/Raqi – oh i understand that one perfectly. mr.blue will ask for a bite of my sandwich (which i cut in halves) and eat damn near a whole half in one bite, but he leaves me just enough to be able to say he didnt eat tit all, lmao

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:31 am

Is it love…

When he lets me use his razor to shave my pits and legs?

When he lets me stand under the shower head first and it’s chilly in the bathroom?

When he sleeps in the wet spot?

When he becomes adamant about me “getting mine” one those days it just ain’t gonna happen?

When he boldly stands on “that” aisle to find the right blue box of rods that he knows I like?

When he is eating my ice cream and reach over to offer me a spoonful?

When he cuts coupons with me one Sunday afternoon?

When he straddles me and rub that knot out of my back?

When he will miss the last play of the game so I can see if my show recorded?

When he insists on talking to me while he sits on the toilet?

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:31 am

Cutie and Celisea,’comeon ladies!

Hey Melo – Whatchu want?

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
10:33 am

Swiss 10:28AM: Good answer!!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
10:33 am

I am just realizing that you can not put a clear cut definition on how love is shown.

I just saw on HLN about the young man who got beaten to death down there. That is sad, and uncalled for. What happened to one on one fights and the guy did not want to hit a girl so he hit the next guy that walked by? Sad Sad Sad.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
10:35 am

Delight, what’s vague about what I said? should I have said,….you’ll know it when you see it…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
10:35 am

Raqi — To answer your questions:

1) Yes.
2) Yes.
3) Yes.
4) Yes.
5) Yes.
6) Yes.
7) Yes.
8) Yes.
9) Yes.
10) No. That’s just nasty. :lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:36 am

You would sit and eat a meal in front of a man (or anybody, for that matter) who is hungry but has nothing to eat?

I mean really? LOL Heck a 12″ at Publix costs $8. You get half and he gets half. If a man can’t afford an $8 sandwich to be shared he shouldn’t be dating nor in a relationship.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:37 am

Purple: that may be true but a man that loves you won’t even let his family talk bad about you

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:38 am

A man that loves you will let you put the heat on full blast in the car while he’s in the next seat sweating like a roasted pig.

Not mine. He is going to get the spare jacket that he keeps in his trunk and tell me to put it on. LOL

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
10:40 am

I Am, a man wont let anyone including family do anything to disrespect his woman. LOL, where is the guy whose wife slept with his cousin?

Kym

November 9th, 2010
10:40 am

Good Morning Leggs..waving from the corner behind the screen so you can’t hit me with your shoe.

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:40 am

And I am…I’m just messing…I know what you meant.

M.elo – “when he luvs ya,for real for real, he’s gon tell his male buddies,’hey,that’s my chick!”

This is true. A few weeks ago, TheDude and I were headed to a Thrashers game. We ran into some of his buddies and he struck up a conversation with one of them, while he was talking, the other two introduced themselves to me. After he and his buddy finished greeting the first guy, he turns to the others and says, “Did y’all meet my girl? Let me introduce you.”

(Warm Fuzzies…..)

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
10:42 am

If I am hot and she is cold, she better get a coat and if she eats a whole meal without offering me any and I am hungry I would question if she loved me. Being in love does not mean that the man has lost his spine. LOL

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:43 am

LOL I’m Swiss. Thanks for answering my rhetorical questions.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
10:43 am

2CPTG©: Delight, what’s vague about what I said? should I have said,….you’ll know it when you see it…

Well, if I have to tell you then nevermind. (((huff)))

See…like that ^^^^. :|

Too much room for assuming you’re both on the same page.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:44 am

Did y’all meet my girl?

What, SexyCool, he gave you a label? Now you know that is not allowed on this blog. LOL

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
10:45 am

Single ladies:

u know a dude loves u and is serious about you once u start (accompaning him to) or getting inside his inner family circles.

I knew I loved her when I showed my mom a portrait pic of her that was in my wallet.

I knew she was a real strong heifer when we banged the whole nite long in the hotel room and we forgo breakfast in the restaurant downstairs for room service instead,coz we didn’t wanna waste time!

:lol:

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:46 am

LOL!
Well considering the fact that I have neither confirmed nor denied whether or not I’m married, a title should be expected at this point.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
10:48 am

Raqi:

Sounds like hubby has you covered which is what it is all about. Wouldn’t doubt a bit that you have his back too.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:49 am

Love made me get up before 5am this morning to make him breakfast before his best bud got here to pick him up. LOL

Love makes me talk about him. LOL

Love made me think just a second ago, “I wonder if he will like if I baked this recipe for a sour cream pound cake for dinner?.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
10:50 am

u know a dude loves u and is serious about you once u start (accompaning him to) or getting inside his inner family circles.

Zulu – I remember you telling me this really didn’t mean much. You said you’ve brought women around your family before that you were not serious about. :lol:

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:50 am

Melo – I knew she was a real strong heifer when we banged the whole nite long in the hotel room and we forgo breakfast in the restaurant downstairs for room service instead,coz we didn’t wanna waste time!

Folks get their backs beat out all the time and pretty much cause they want to and most times (not all) nothing to do with love….you can’t qualify a rompfeast as proof positive.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
10:52 am

Not mine. He is going to get the spare jacket that he keeps in his trunk and tell me to put it on. LOL

:idea:

That’s what my point is… I’m seeing all these lists…and it still doesn’t mean an man in love with you will do such things…

It depends on YOUR man, if you have one. If not, you can only hope he does certain things. :lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:52 am

Love makes me tolerate his occasional moodiness.

Love keeps me from bashing his head in when he makes me mad.

Love nudges me to put out when he is so wrong.

Love won’t let me spend too much of his money on useless crap.

Love teaches me to obey the marriage.

LURKER-1

November 9th, 2010
10:53 am

My wife know I must LOVE HER when she asks me to pick up a box of kotex. Especially when I only have a couple of items. When I was in college, many many decades ago, I swore to the fellas, I wouldn’t be in the line with a box of kotex :-)

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:53 am

LOL SexyCool. My email box is empty.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:55 am

That’s what my point is… I’m seeing all these lists…and it still doesn’t mean an man in love with you will do such things…

Imma have to agree here….I was sort of thinking the same. Most of the things listed is sort of what you do when you’re in a relationship of relating or cool with each other, fond of each other, etc….I wouldn’t equate to love. IMO, during ups and downs, ins and outs, the good and the bad, disagreements, coming back when for some other chick/dude you would have left…so forth and so on.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
10:55 am

Kimmie!

I said I did to as my way of ‘qualifying them’

If it only happened once or twice and she didn’t make it,then she was cut!

Consistency,at the end of the day will trump everything Kimmie.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

Purple: i said I would offer the dude a bite- I always do :-)
but I knew how much this dude loved me because all he had was $5 in his pocket and he bought me something to eat that I knew he liked as well.
Before I started eating, I asked him if he would like some and still politely declined even though I insisted.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

LURKER-1….My wife know I must LOVE HER when she asks me to pick up a box of kotex

All this time, I thought you was a woman.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

AmazonRed, why in the heck would someone tolerate sweating like a hungry horny pig in a closed up car when he can just offer you a jacket for your warmth and comfort?

See my love wouldn’t even allow me to put the one I love in certain illogical situations.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

It depends on YOUR man, if you have one.
ARed true indeed. I show my love how I show it, not how those before me did. I would hate for my love to be questioned because it didn’t jive with some predetermined list. How are you this morning, btw?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
10:57 am

Celisea!

That hotel feat was not about love.

U see, I’m mixing and spicing as I move along.

Kym

November 9th, 2010
10:57 am

@SexyCool..Unless you are saving this for Day 21..I would have thought nupitals would have been a Day two thang. By the By one of my fb buddies is now doing the same thing..so your friends idea is catching on.

Da_Man!

November 9th, 2010
10:57 am

You know a man is in love when he let’s a woman wash his clothes, clean his house, & cooks his meals.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Melo – U see, I’m mixing and spicing as I move along.

Ahhh, gotcha

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Celisea, I agree too however to state what has proven to be love for you would not be unfounded.

And you know I just like to make long lists when the topic affords it. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Love is different for each party.
There is no cookie cutter definition on what love is.
Only you know what love is based on your own experiences.

For those that haven’t had love, I hope you one day find it but you have to start with yourself first.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Zulu:

“I knew I loved her when I showed my mom a portrait pic of her that was in my wallet.”

Zulu in you wallet dude……….LOL

I knew I loved her when I showed my mom a portrait pic of her that was in my wallet.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

AmazonRed, why in the heck would someone tolerate sweating like a hungry horny pig in a closed up car when he can just offer you a jacket for your warmth and comfort?

See my love wouldn’t even allow me to put the one I love in certain illogical situations

Raqi – Agreed. I looked at the list and knew my dad wouldn’t have done most of that stuff. But he came home every night, never was out in the streets and handed his paycheck over to my mom…

Even if she had to take out the trash. :lol:

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

Rock – I am always concerned about whether or not TheDude likes what I’ve cooked. I mean, I know that I can cook….but, I just like to know that he likes the taste of it..because every now and then…even those of us who can cook have an off day sometimes.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

Raqi – And you know I just like to make long lists when the topic affords it. LOL

Ahhh, yeah…LOL It’s okay though, carry on…we understand

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

You know a man is in love when he let’s a woman wash his clothes, clean his house, & cooks his meals.

Da_Man, in other words when he marries her. LOL

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:02 am

Zulu – I guess that’s just your way. Cause with most that I know of, if he doesn’t take you around the family that’s a SURE sign he’s not into you. It won’t even happen 1 or 2 times. At the same time, most of the guys I’ve dealt with consistently took me around the family, but I didn’t get a ring. So I don’t really use that as a measure anymore, unless he didn’t take me around them AT ALL.

You are right, consistency is a key component when it comes to most things in a relationship though.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
11:02 am

anyone know where I can find discount sterling silver jewerly in the perimeter area?

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:03 am

SexyCool, yeah. See to so many something like that does not even matter. YourDude can easily say he knows his SexyCool one loves him because she wants to prepare her meals to his liking. A lot of men can’t say that about his woman.

So while many may not see some of the humor in my lists acts of love is love to the one it is to.

evy

November 9th, 2010
11:04 am

mornin, all!

evy

November 9th, 2010
11:05 am

the specific expressions differ from one man – one person – to another, of course, but one sign that i think is usually pretty reliable is if/how far outside of his comfort zone he is willing to step for her. from little things like trying a food that is new to him (or something he actually dislikes!) that he would never try on his own just because she cooked it for him to maintaining a relationship with her that has most of his family & friends up in arms and on his back because she’s older/younger/different race or religion…people are much less likely to do such things for those who are not genuinely important to them. sex is easy – no need to go there just for sex, and, as far as i’ve ever been able to observe, most people won’t. but if your man is out on a limb for you, take a moment and look deeply into his eyes…

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:05 am

Da-Man!

A woman with 3/4 kids will wash ur clothes, no problem!

@Blackfoote.. U know us married folks keep our kids in our wallets. When u still maintaing a rotation of chics, u can’t risk a single portrait in ur wallet coz it might drop at the least opportune time and u get busted! :lol:

:lol: and she cooks for u too

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
11:06 am

AmazonRed: “That’s what my point is… I’m seeing all these lists…and it still doesn’t mean an man in love with you will do such things…”

Like I was telling 2G, I need explicit. Non of that you have to see it to believe it. :?: I need to know from you how you express your love. We could be on totally different pages.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:07 am

cooks for u was for Da-Man!

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:07 am

Aufton – You took the words right out of my mouth, cause that sounds like married lady stuff Da Man listed.

Da Man – Plenty guys “let” women do all that stuff and they are not a bit in love with her!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
11:07 am

“Even if she had to take out the trash.”

:lol: yep. that’s what that check was for. :P

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
11:09 am

I am whatever you say I am: “Love is different for each party.
There is no cookie cutter definition on what love is.”

Clear and Explicit. This is how I do it….

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:12 am

I knew I lived her when I agreed to buy her her menstrual stuff when I went to public to grab some milk and bread.

Standing in the feminie isle looking at the different kinds of vaginal seals,I never felt any bit insecure comparing prices.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:15 am

Delight….love is in the eye of the beholder, babygirl……I mean it could be something simple that he does to display his love….ain’t necessarily gotta be an all consuming list…as Ared said, any random dude can do any of those things on Raqi’s list, but it doesn’t equate to love….

love will make you put up with some stuff that lust won’t tolerate….

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:18 am

kimmie, exactly. While many of my tongue in cheek listed acts does not imply love, the lack there of for many is a guarantee that the love is not there.

My oldest brother has a saying of “it’s not all the time so much of what you do that tells the story but more of what you don’t do”.

It’s something like that, but I think you understand what I mean.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
11:18 am

Zulu:

The feminine aile is awkward for a man to be in but shows a lot of love………LOL

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
11:19 am

looked at the list and knew my dad wouldn’t have done most of that stuff. But he came home every night, never was out in the streets and handed his paycheck over to my mom…

Frankly, mine either…LOL Married 54 years and 7 mos to moms and no way in the world he would do most of what was listed…maybe before the kids came and maybe before I was born as I was the last of 8 and born during their “middle age” years….maybe maybe not. When I came along maybe it was too many kids by then, too many bills and too much work to be had for being romantic…maybe maybe not. But from what I knew of him, I doubt he ever did. One thing I know for certain, he loooooved himself some mama.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:20 am

2CPTG, you do know my lists are usually laden in corny humor right?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
11:20 am

My wife loves me enough to not even ask me to go get her lady products.

Da_Man!

November 9th, 2010
11:20 am

Enter your comments here

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:22 am

Love is action. Deeds. It makes a man come home and pay the bills. It makes a woman have his back.

In whatever form it displays itself it is what it is to the one it matters to.

Fion

November 9th, 2010
11:22 am

Morning Folks,
I’ve been posted up over on the wall for a minute checking out the flow. Some of the ladies have asked, “how can I be sure’? “How can I know when a man is in love with me”?
There is a certain Universality to it ladies. At the risk of losing my card to the Club (man) and being disbarred here it goes.
When a man is in love with you ladies he gives:
his Love, his Honor, his Affection and his Protection to you.
Now, you’re right, you can be shown 1of the 4, or even 2 or 3 of the 4, but unless you have 4 of 4 your man ain’t all in.
When you have 4 of 4 he’s all in “Full Monty”. And I’m off (British).

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
11:24 am

Purp:

LOL……..It shows she really loves you man.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
11:26 am

I never understood why buying feminine products for your girl was such an embarrassment. I mean, it basically shows:

1) I’m not gay

2) In about 4 days, I’m gonna be getting regular puddy again

What am I supposed to be embarrassed about again? :lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:28 am

“2CPTG, you do know my lists are usually laden in corny humor right?”

might be another reason “Raqi” got banned…..corny humor don’t cut it, either……I’m jus’ sayin….

Da_Man!

November 9th, 2010
11:29 am

@Kimmie –
Not true … plenty of guys don’t “let” women do anything they can already do for themselves. Dudes that let women cook, clean, wash are either whipped or living with their mama.

How many women on this board would “slave” for a man and know that he’s not in love with you??? Even if you doubted, you wouldn’t let it go down. You all have come too far.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
11:29 am

Some of the ladies have asked, “how can I be sure’? “How can I know when a man is in love with me”?

Not me.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
11:31 am

^^^ 5 ^^^^^ to Swiss on his 11:26….. Never been that big a deal to me….

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:32 am

2CPTG, why are you being so sharp with me? Are you retaliating?

I had my reasons for being short with you and I told you those reasons. What have I done to deserve your tone?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:35 am

Mrs. A…..simmer down, sweetie….wasn’t trynna get you riled up…

and retaliation….nah, never that…

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:35 am

Sometimes I feel like we may have really been married in another life. LOL

Imma have to ask you like I ask the marido sometimes, “who put nails in your grits this morning?”

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:38 am

“Sometimes I feel like we may have really been married in another life.”

you know I believe in that kinda “stuff” so don’t make me go into transcendental meditation, and go see….

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
11:38 am

2CPTG, why are you being so sharp with me? Are you retaliating?
Raqi that’s his way of showing how much he loves you. you mean it’s not on your list?!? lol

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:38 am

Ladies!

u know he’s in love if he cuts u the spare key to his home,u go to his home unannounced,do chores in there or take his dirty clothes do u can wash them at ur crib and it’s no big deal with him.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:39 am

blue®

November 9th, 2010
11:40 am

ok, have no idea what you guys are talking abotu now, not going back to read it all…just wanna know if the bar is open yet? its 5pm somewhere….

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
11:41 am

What does it mean if an SO invites you to a work event (picnic/bbq/gathering)???

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:41 am

and is it because of the petty arguing we do, or the “connection” we share? be honest….

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
11:42 am

just wanna know if the bar is open yet?
blue what’ll it be today?

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:42 am

Da Man – That’s a way to look at it, but still plenty lazy dudes let women do all that and are not in love with her. And there are gullible women out there that will do it thinking that will bring him closer to her. 9 times out of 10 it won’t. In fact, I’ve seen men go to the ends of the earth and back for women that did not lift a finger.

I can only speak for myself, but it takes more than me being in love to do all those things for a guy, it takes being a wife. Most on here know cooking is my passion, so I’ll do that for anyone. Some blog friends have had my cooking. But laundry and major house-cleaning are husband benefits.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
11:44 am

Hello Eva’body!

okay blue Im with you, I cannot try and catch up on 4 pages!

I just know the topic and mu contribution is this: my ex-hubby said he knew I loved him when I let him read my magazines first. (Cause if you know me then you know I will bout gut ya for reading my magazine before me)

So whats good everybody

Sassy Me :-)

November 9th, 2010
11:44 am

just wanna know if the bar is open yet? its 5pm somewhere….

If so can a girl get a mimosa…I got isht going on over huurrr…

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:44 am

Not necessarily much Slim,in my view.

Work people don’t mean a thing to me,especially when I’m single.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
11:46 am

this love thing is crazy

Sassy Me :-)

November 9th, 2010
11:48 am

But laundry and major house-cleaning are husband benefits.

My ex expected those things from me as well but wasn’t giving me what I needed so I dind’t do it/them. I tried to hang in there but dude wanted me to mommy him and his chirren and I didn’t want that.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
11:48 am

@ Slim absolutely nothing unless you know your man. A man can do all those things and still not feel a thing for you. My friend thought she was being taken on a whirlwind romance until one day she called dude and he was like look i dont have feelings for you i was just using you to make my ex jealous and take me back and now that she has you’ve served your purpose *deuces*. very cold but people can be that way (men).

blue®

November 9th, 2010
11:48 am

@Dreams – today im going with a shot of 151, coke back…that’ll work….

blue®

November 9th, 2010
11:49 am

are we still on topic? lol

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
11:49 am

@Zulu/Melo what about if you know where the spare key is but you don’t have one per se? loollllllll

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:50 am

SCool/Aufton – I get your earlier post about cooking for your man and wanting it to be right. As experienced as I am, I get a little insecure about my cooking as well. And yes, I have my off days.

With a guy I dated in the past, it was not about whether I prepared a certain dish “right” or if it tasted good. It was about the way his mother prepared a certain dish and how he was used to the way something tasted. He hurt my feelings many a times and he explained that it was not that my dish wasn’t good, it just wasn’t the way his mama made it. I told him to go on back home to mama then!LOL!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
11:50 am

Sup Mo. How’s your week going?

If so can a girl get a mimosa…I got isht going on over huurrr…
Sassy what you got going on over thrrrrrr? Let me make you this mimosa first.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:52 am

Kiimie!

u abdolutel right. A dude will want to get comforts of laundry and food from an easy chic but go(wine and dine with) for the sophisticates who won’t cook or insist on not messing up their hair(weave) or make up in bed coz they present a challenge…a
hunting challenge.

Men like to chase

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:56 am

Sassy – I just have to draw the line somewhere! That’s just me. That’s my version of “why buy the cow”!

YES – To your 11:48, I’ve never had a guy be THAT cold, but yes, with some none of that means a thing! Sometimes a guy is just being nice or doing something to benefit himself in the short term, but it doesn’t mean he’s in love with you.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:56 am

Yes!

what if he just tells u that in pretense but will put it elsewhere?

Don’t u want the comfort and luxury of knowing u are the One!?

Try ur luck and ask to keep it(spare key) if u want to test ur exclusivity!

:lol:

I hope that won’t break u two up!

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
11:57 am

Dreams – today im going with a shot of 151, coke back…that’ll work…
blue feeling courageous today huh. wouldn’t expect anything less from a .45 totin’, knee high boots wearing chick though. 151 it is……………………………..oh dang almost forgot the coke. ;-)

I told him to go on back home to mama then!LOL!!
kimmie gotta avoid those oedipus dudes.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
11:57 am

Dreams – hey there, how are you? My week is going okay aside from the fact that I may have to put a 5yr old on Ebay (Lil Mo is working my last good nerve as da old folk say). Work is Work!

I’ll take a SoCo-Lime please….for now.

kimmie – “He hurt my feelings many a times and he explained that it was not that my dish wasn’t good, it just wasn’t the way his mama made it. I told him to go on back home to mama then!LOL!!” I did that as well! Hell you can eat out err’day or at her house but I dont want to hear it anymore

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
11:57 am

YSIC – dayum that was COLD…ice Cold!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:59 am

This what I am going to do. I am going to love my husband. Within myself support him. Have his back when faced with that time.

But what I will no longer do is clean his area of the house (his office, his side of the closet and the tv room), wash and fold his clothing, cook anything with him in mind, pay the bills for his company, sort thru the week’s worth of mail he brings home from the office every Friday. I will no longer put my friends on the back burner to go out with him or sit home and do nothing with him. I will no longer give him sexual favors, no longer give him sex when I don’t feel up to it, no longer fry pork chops in the morning to make him paper bag lunches to take to work. I will no longer be a sounding board for him when he wants to talk a 3am in the morning.

But I will love him and support him.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
12:00 pm

Well 2G I said I need to know from YOU. Your “list” could be short or 15 pages long, but you have certain things that you outwardly use to display “love” versus “like” or simple infactuation. Those are the things that should be explicit such that both parties are aware of the signals being sent and received.

I appreciated my fixer-upper because when we first started dating he let it be known flowers die and candy makes you fat. He’ll break a sweat fixing things around the house or purchase practical things like appliances.

Same with Mr. flowers and jewelry. If money can get he’ll spend it. Flowers make the house smell nice when he comes over and he likes the way the jewelry looks on me when we went out OR stayed home. ;)

I recognized the depths of their feelings by the extent that each went in their own ways to make me happy. I stand by my assertion that I don’t do vague airy statements like “you’ll know it when you see it”.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:00 pm

2CPTG, mainly because we have our short words but neva really fall out of like. You grate my nerves just like he does some days but not enough to make me not want to keep talking to you.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
12:01 pm

Sorry all late 2G….working.

blue®

November 9th, 2010
12:05 pm

@Dreams – courageous is my middle name! ;)
@Mo – the fact that I may have to put a 5yr old on Ebay – LMAO…i remember driving back to NC from NY, stopped in MD with little boy blue, he was like 5 or 6, called my mom said “i’m leaving your grandson in the ladies room, stall number 2, at the Maryland welcome center. you better come get him cause he has worked my LAST nerve and we aint even half way finished driving yet”

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
12:07 pm

Cutie!

I wanted to tell Slim same thing..11.48!

He may deliberately be trying to rile up in angst, another heifer he
really likes.
Men are evil!
Women are sensitive!

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
12:07 pm

@Blackfoote ~ good afternoon to you matey!

@Kym ~ don’t worry, this shoe will hit you!!!

@2C ~ perhaps that’s why I was banned, you know I’m corny as heck!

My eyes are clearing, my eyes are clearing. Doc says it’s time to wane myself of the steroids! Yippee!!!!

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
12:08 pm

Dayum Aufton…you okay over there? Tell me you were just being sarcastic about your 12:00

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:09 pm

Swiss: I’ve always been told that just because it’s raining doesn’t mean you have to cancel the football game :lol:

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
12:10 pm

Slim absolutely nothing unless you know your man.

:idea: :idea: :idea: :!: :!: :!:

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:11 pm

Dreams
Since 5′o’clock came early today….Let me get a gibson martini straight up!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:11 pm

i am… — That’s how I feel about it as well… Mrs. Swiss feels differently, though… so it takes a lot — and I mean a lot — of convincing to get her to play in the rain… :lol:

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:12 pm

I mean, I keep red towels handy for a reason…

:lol:

Kym

November 9th, 2010
12:13 pm

@Leggs..well I tried..I really really did try.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:14 pm

Leggs — You ‘roiding up over there?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
12:14 pm

It’s not that complicated. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
12:15 pm

I’ll take a SoCo-Lime please….for now.
Mo you got it. maybe I need to start a business where I buy kids off ebay and sell them back to their parents at a higher price. lol

Dreams – courageous is my middle name!
blue I see that. Now if you’re really courageous, I got some Don Julio in the back. lol

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:15 pm

LOL kimmie. I dumped a whole pot of mac-n-cheese in the sink once with my first husband because it was not the way his mother made it. Not only was my pregnancy hormones in action but that was all we had to eat for dinner that evening.

Considering the one you that will share the meal with you counts for something. I don’t care what folks say. Heck most days I can eat a bowl of salad and be satisfied so me cooking everyday and making sure it tasty is for those I love. Husband and mis bebes.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
12:16 pm

blue – LOL! Oh thats funny! My BFF, who is also Lil Mo’s godfather, lives around the corner from me. I have called him and said “Lil Mo just might show up at your door with a backpack on and in feet-in pajamas if the behavior doesnt straighten up!”

Im Swiss – :shock:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:17 pm

benefit himself in the short term

That’s the key right there “short term”. When it is not done for love or genuine care it will eventually taper off.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:18 pm

Swiss: On day one of the playoffs (so to speak) there is no game playing. The players are usually in pain due to muscle cramps.
Day 2 is usually good unless players still have extreme muscle crampls
Day 3 it’s on like Donkey Kong.
and usually, the rain stops log enough so that extra rain gear is not needed.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:19 pm

Mo — What did I say? Why are you clutching the pearls? :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:20 pm

Swiss: now the flip side of playing football in the rain is that the rainy season last longer after the players have won the playoffs :-(

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
12:20 pm

Since 5′o’clock came early today….Let me get a gibson martini straight up!
I am you got it. so what you doing with the rest of your day?

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
12:20 pm

Playing in the rain….oh my :|

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:20 pm

“On day one of the playoffs (so to speak) there is no game playing. The players are usually in pain due to muscle cramps.
Day 2 is usually good unless players still have extreme muscle crampls”

I’ve got your muscle relaxer right here:lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:20 pm

Slim, are you talking about my statement to 2Can? No I am not being facetious. My husband do grate my nerves sometimes but I still love him. 2Can does rub me the wrong way sometimes but I still like chatting with him.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
12:21 pm

so, I get on your nerves some days???? noooooo…..you’re kidding…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:22 pm

“Swiss: now the flip side of playing football in the rain is that the rainy season last longer after the players have won the playoffs “

That should tell you something. Y’all need a good plunging to fully clean you out… We’re here to help each other… :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:22 pm

Dreams: for the rest of the day, I will be working on Gibson martinis #2 thru # 5 :lol:
oh, and I’ll manage to squeeze in work only after I’ve completed my quest for Sterling Silver jewerly :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:24 pm

Swiss: as long as the players are well hydrated with rum (bacardi) or Martinis, they usually don’t suffer muscle cramps!
:lol:

Dang! all this talk about football wants me to play right now!
Recruitment is now in full session!!! :lol:

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
12:25 pm

@Kym ~ I don’t believe you! :lol:

@im swiss ~ yes I am, you need some? :lol:

@Raqi ~ had to laugh at throwing the mac and cheese in the sink. Never understood why men compared the wife’s cooking to their mother’s. Sure fire way to get it tossed in lap, sink or on their head!!!

PLAYING IN THE RAIN IS ALWAYS FUN! Wait, FROLICKING IN THE RAIN IS ALWAYS FUN!!!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
12:27 pm

raqi….I do blame you for me and Mo’s divorce though…..she followed your lead…..yeah, I’m still salty about that!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
12:28 pm

@Dreams – well, you know, tequila is my usual drink ;)
@Mo – lmao, yeah they push you to the limit. i’ll be honest, having a spell here where i wanna call boy blues dad and say in my whiniest little kid voice “its your turn!!!”
@swiss/i am – smdh, they do say playing in the rain works wonders on all the muscles cramps, tho Bacardi is always a good home rememdy too, lol…

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:29 pm

2CPTG, let me share something with you. When I cut people off and out of my life I do it permanently. I have done it right here on this blog if you have noticed. I find it healthy to have an exchange of disagreeing words but still be able to go on. When I no longer have 2 syllables to say to a person I don’t like that person and no longer care to associate myself with that person.

So yeah I compared you to the days my marido make me want to throat punch him because in my mind that’s not a bad thing. And yes you do get on my nerves sometimes but I will not state how. But I don’t dislike you.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
12:31 pm

I do not play in the rain, mainly because I always like to open my mouth every game day.

Anyone else read the first nine words of today’s topic and almost start typing? LOL

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
12:31 pm

Blue: Playing in the rain leads to singin in the rain :lol: (look at office space scence where he shows the “O:” face )

Off to lernch shop

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:31 pm

LOL Leggs. Yep.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:32 pm

2CPTG, don’t blame me for that, you were getting too big for your britches. LOL

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
12:34 pm

Leggs:

They still have you in the grind or you just up for a breather?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
12:36 pm

“yes you do get on my nerves sometimes but I will not state how.”

look, how many times I gotta apologize….told you, I woulda been married you, had I known you were on the market….you disappeared, then came back married….so ummm, yeah…….take that, take that!!!!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:37 pm

2CPTG, you like spaghetti? I think that is what I will make for dinner tonight. My marido hates it but what do I care? As long as I love and support him he has to accept whatever is put before him. I ain’t going out of my way for him. My spoken love is enough.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
12:40 pm

Kym:

I can’t forget good win for the black and yellow, sorry but I don’t believe the birds will be helping ya’ll out on Thursday I think the Rvaens will pick this one up but we can afford a loss.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
12:40 pm

I will be back once there is another off topic, topic. :)

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
12:41 pm

Purp…..throw some’n out there, bruh…..

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
12:42 pm

Dreams: for the rest of the day, I will be working on Gibson martinis #2 thru # 5
Dang! all this talk about football wants me to play right now!
Recruitment is now in full session!!!

I am since I’m supplying #2 thru #5, I nominate myself for recruitment. ;-)

Dreams – well, you know, tequila is my usual drink
blue mine too. you ain’t ready…well you might be. ;-)

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
12:43 pm

When a man puts u on a pedestal and other heifers are looking and watching,he’s in luv!

When a man hands u or devotes to u and ur comfort, his whole
paycheck,he’s in luv.

When a man jelly backs’ and agrees to be on a weekly measly financial allowance,he’s in love.

A man in love is a ‘YES’ men inside the kitchen, :!: in bed and carries a serious manly look outside the home.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
12:45 pm

“…So yeah I compared you to the days my marido make me want to throat punch him…”

:lol: instance silence. RIP Bernie.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
12:47 pm

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
12:51 pm

2CPTG, you marry me? You couldn’t have handled me. LOL I admit to having a quirky and sometimes fiery demeanor.

And by the time I was blogging here I was already head over heels over mountains for this man. Once he finally got thru the steel box I had around my heart he took time and patience to help me put the pieces back together. Those parts that were destroyed beyond repair he replaced with his “him” and put it under new lock and key. Took that key melted it down and made it into the wedding band that he wears around his finger.

I told him one day that he thinks he’s got me but I got news for him. He laughed and said “sit your behind down you ain’t going no where”. That was about 6 or 7 years ago. LOL

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
12:51 pm

Swiss – not clutching pearls! LOL! But you are truly a WILD BOY (in my best Martin Lawrence voice). “That should tell you something. Y’all need a good plunging to fully clean you out… We’re here to help each other…” Oh and this was FUN-KNEE!!

blue – LOL!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
12:53 pm

@Dreams – you ain’t ready…well you might be – you should see my birthday photos from this year or last, lol…see what you say then, lol

- lunch -

Sassy Me :-)

November 9th, 2010
12:55 pm

Sassy what you got going on over thrrrrrr? Let me make you this mimosa first.

Just switched teams at work and doing a butt load of training/reading…I’m on info overload.

Kimmie I understand the whole “why buy the cow” rationale and that was another reason I didn’t go there with the ex but showed him the door.

Gotta go back in the lab..I’m running my first experiment with my new team… :-)

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
12:55 pm

I sure hope this Firehouse beef sub is as good as u people said it is…

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
12:57 pm

“You couldn’t have handled me.”

you got me f ugged up!!!!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
12:57 pm

He laughed and said “sit your behind down you ain’t going no where”.
Raqi that’s a beautiful thing right there. lol

Dreams – you ain’t ready…well you might be – you should see my birthday photos from this year or last, lol…see what you say then, lol
blue now you know you can’t throw that lil bit of info out there without being prepared to share pics details. out with it…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
12:59 pm

This just p!sses me off more & more the more I read about it…

Those four punks should be lined up against a wall & shot. psychopaths…

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
12:59 pm

Zulu – I sure hope this Firehouse beef sub is as good as u people said it is…

Tell me what you think

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:00 pm

Gotta go back in the lab..I’m running my first experiment with my new team…
sassy you wear a lab coat and goggles?

I sure hope this Firehouse beef sub is as good as u people said it is…
Zulu I didn’t like firehouse the one time I went, but I hope your experience is better than mine…might even give it another shot.

Kym

November 9th, 2010
1:01 pm

@Blackfoote…thank you very much..Yeah I think the Ravens are going to beat the brakes off the falcons.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:03 pm

Raqi – Your 12:51 was super sweet. :)

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
1:03 pm

I’m late sorry but

@ Zulu I don’t know if it’s that serious that I should ask for one I already the code to get in and out of the place so I’m good :lol: besides his people had to harp on him to get the spare that he currently has. b/c they don’t want him calling them to get him back into the house if he locks himself out.

@ Kimmie, slim ared yes girl he was taking her out to shows and restaurants bouquet of flowers turns out he was just taking her places he knew his ex would be at….zulu is right men can be evil but a woman scorned is worse than that!

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
1:05 pm

Swizzbeats…the whole thing makes me sad.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
1:05 pm

Im Swiss – oh dont even get my blood pressure up anymore about those for ingrates!! How dare you take someone’s life so carelessly! How do you become that desensitized?!?!? GEESH!

2CTPG – hmmmm we may need to talk. I didnt follow Raqi’s lead, you left me out there. Have a glass of wine on me, not literally, and lets discuss

Dreams – Im gon need another SoCo-Lime in a sec…..WOO-SAH!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
1:06 pm

@ 2CPTG wait so mo and raqi are out of the picture? So does that mean I’m #1 now? :lol:

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:06 pm

Cute – OMG. I don’t know how I’d react if I got played like that. Well, I know I would just count my blessings to be rid of such a huge ass, like how I feel about some of my exes. :lol:

But boy, I’d wait for the day karma did a number on his ass. Isn’t there some song out there right now…”I hope she cheats?” LMAO.

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
1:07 pm

Just sad. And what about them silly behind chicks that started fighting in the first place.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:12 pm

Those four punks should be lined up against a wall & shot. psychopaths…
swiss this would be too light of a punishment. Disemboweling them would be more like it. And why did 57 people sit and watch it happen?

turns out he was just taking her places he knew his ex would be at…
Yes dang that’s alot of prep work, finding out where and when your ex will be somewhere, plan to be there at the same time with your pawn chick. See that’s the kind of thing that gets people hurt. If she turned around and squeezed his nuts ’til he blacked out, he really couldn’t be mad.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
1:12 pm

@Blackfoote ~ the grind was only yesterday. I worked 12.5 hrs yesterday. I was whipped by time I put the key in my door!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
1:14 pm

@ ARED how about years later she saw him she was walking out a story and looking hotter than a fresh new prada bag that left unattended at a bus stop.

he was in his car and he stopped in front of her all “remember me yo you look better than i remembered” she was like “keeps it rolling”….he was all let by gones be bygones and she was liek “keeps it moving” and went to her car…. so i’m glad it came full circle for her. she’s a good person.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
1:16 pm

Celisea/Dreams?

I ain’t a sub guy but I’ll admit,if I had to take a new girl to a cheap date and am angling for a first date hit, I’ll whisk her to Firehouse restaurant,get some cheap wine from Publix after she’s full,then take her to her crib,take my shoes off,siton the couch, then just hold my two hands,blow on them like Kobie,about to take a free
throw,hoping shell come sit next to me as we serenade each
other with some cheap chardonay(praying for the nikkas to come off)It’s hot and healthy.

This one I had was real nice.
Tasted like a real meal…next I’m onto Subway.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
1:16 pm

2CPTG, when I say “handle me” I mean all of me. I am like a cup of Aztec Hot Cocoa. Sweet, smooth, strong, savory and spicy. Head to toe. Inside and out. From the sway of my hips, to the pout in my lips. From the form of my thighs to the flirt in my eyes. I am brain, I am heart, I am beauty, I am smart. I am bittersweet…and I am HIS.

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
1:17 pm

There is an interview with *one* chick who says she tried to stop them.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
1:17 pm

Zulu – told ya…good ain’t it? I’m not really into subs either but Firehouse, I like

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
1:20 pm

LOL DreamsMat.

AmazonR, and yet he still grates my nerves sometimes. LOL

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:20 pm

Cute – So that guy and his ex did indeed break up? I would have been smug over it too. I’m keeping an eye on couple of mine. Cuz stuff they did was just unnecessary. :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

LOL DreamsMat.
Raqi lol I’m just saying, you can’t be playing with people’s emotions like that. You never know if the straw that breaks the camel’s back is YOU. Mess around and end up on an episode of Snapped. lol

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

2CPTG, how is that for throwing something out there? LOL

That was from a recent Katt Williams video chat when he just started chirping on a girl. LOL

Willie Dynamite

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

Afternoon All,

Leggs – Glad to see you shaking the pink eye off. Just so you know, ifn I get a slight bit of redness in my eyes for the next 4 mos I’m blaming yo ‘getthepinkeyeeveryfourmonths’ azz.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

sorry about the bold

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

Ared!

keep an eye on ur own dating life…those playas will proly have the best lives,do font stress on that coz u will if u choose too.

A lot of the karma people speak of here is fake.

It’s all feel good karma for good story telling purposes.

Much like Lifetime movies y’all watch! :lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

Gouda, when I heard that news story I asked what is this world coming too. Outside of an evil heart what would make someone do that to an innocent person? smh

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm

But a true champion, face to face with his darkest hour, will do whatever it takes to rise above. A man fights, and fights, and then fights some more. Because surrender is death, and death is for sissies.

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
1:26 pm

YSIC – um…I can’t speak for who is #1 persay but i’m still married to the mob…oops I meant 2C

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
1:28 pm

Good you got that done and over with. I’m there to catch you falling in door.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:29 pm

AmazonR, and yet he still grates my nerves sometimes. LOL

Raqi – Of course, it wouldn’t be true love otherwise. :lol:

If you haven’t contemplated murder, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t seriously thought about killing a mofo, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t had a can of rat poison in your hand and looked at it for forty-five minutes straight, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t bought a shovel and a bag and a rug to roll their ass up in, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t practiced your alibi in front of the mirror, you ain’t been in love. And the only thing that’s stopped you from killing this mofi was a episode of CSI: “Oh man, they thorough. I better make up. They might catch my ass.” – Chris Rock

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
1:31 pm

For those of you who play V103 Kitty, $11,556 is too low and $11,687 is too high!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:31 pm

Waiting on and finding joy in Karma having a bad effect on someone is worthy enough of getting some bad karma coming your way

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
1:32 pm

Ared :lol: :lol: :shock: but still :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
1:32 pm

@ zulu see that’s why I’m not sending you my picture. you are ornery! LOL

@ ared it does come full circle don’t listen to zulu/melo….i usually predict when the losers come back after they leave. I be like !@#$% you’ll be back! All the ones I said that about came back. I didn’t want them but they came back.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:33 pm

keep an eye on ur own dating life…those playas will proly have the best lives,do font stress on that coz u will if u choose too.

Melo – There isn’t any stress nor worry. There is Facebook.

One of my exes is saddled with a broad on medication for depression after her ex-husband beat her ass and left her and her two kids.. Hey…the heart wants what it wants! :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
1:34 pm

@ ared yes you are so right…I remember the first time I wanted to actually choke him was on labor day. he was working on his car while I was grilling and preparing the food in his normal oblivion. I was like UGH let me go in this house before the neighbors witness some drama. I’m sure he’s been wanting to choke me for a couple weeks now but i think as of yesterday we are good :lol:

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:35 pm

“Besides getting shot on the back of the head, do you know what else Abraham Lincoln did? He was a champion wrestler in high school. And I’m not making that up…”

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:36 pm

I choke my wife often….she likes it :)

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
1:37 pm

Dreams: At your 12:42….BOTTOMS UP!!!!! :lol:

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm

@WillieD ~ I know, I know! :lol: :lol: :lol:

@Blackfoote ~ that was cute!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm

DeramsMat, Mase leaned on me to hold his gun and get the feel of it. He also taught me how to shoot. He did it so that I can try to protect myself and the kids if he ever has to go out of town without us. I was telling one of my girlfriends and she said of all the good my husband has ever done for me teaching me to shoot his gun is at the very top of the list because I just may need to point it at him one day. LOL

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm

“She is sitting there, waiving her cervix around like its the hottest ticket in town.”

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm

Cutie?

Ornery?

I’m real! Why waste time thinking about what ‘revenge’ punishment, if any, God is gon use?

Be blessed a move the heck on and bless the next lucky dude.

now,send me the delivery!

evy

November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm

@ purp 1:24: dying is easy – comedy is hard.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:41 pm

“If you need me I’ll be cruising in my Escalade, err — Denali.”

LURKER-1

November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm

About 5 yrs ago, one of my neighbors was having a sweet 16 party for his daughter and more people showed up than invited. He was trying to get some of the people to leave his house, same as the parent in Douglasville. Well, one bad azz decided to flex his manhood and my neighor shot him. Dead on the spot. Neighbor spent a couple months in jail, but today he’s a free man.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm

Zulu – Are you doing a market survey?

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm

Cute – I agree. All the exes have come back. And that’s part of the problem. There are girls who drag along the drama and there are ones like me, who will leave you the hell alone. So when you come back and still try to play games, you’re just asking for it. :lol:

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm

“I mean, no offense, but you got a crappy job, you’re not quite as tall as me, nobody really respects you. You have me on the other hand. I got the glory, I got the fame, the money, the jewels, the cash, the Denali. Getting drunk on the reg, good times on the reg, yachts on the reg, sex on the reg…” ‘

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:43 pm

Dreams: At your 12:42….BOTTOMS UP!!!!!
I am show me what ya workin wit! lol

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:43 pm

“And please, please, please don’t let the fact that Ms. Carol is a lesbian put you off to her. You know how you all think there are 2 kinds of lesbians? There’s the kind on Cinemax that get it on and are hot, and there’s the mean kind? Well, Ms. Carol is neither of those.”

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
1:46 pm

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:46 pm

Okay that’s all of my Kenny Power’s quotes for the day. LOL, my wife ordered me the first season :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:48 pm

teaching me to shoot his gun is at the very top of the list because I just may need to point it at him one day.
Raqi I think all the blog women know how to handle a firearm. Gotta admit I’m turned on by that. lol

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
1:50 pm

@ zulu you are mean b/c u busted ared’s bubble that karma doesn’t happen. :lol: ur funny though

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
1:50 pm

“@ 2CPTG wait so mo and raqi are out of the picture? So does that mean I’m #1 now?” —
Determination

” um…I can’t speak for who is #1 persay but i’m still married to the mob…oops I meant 2C” —–Dedication

How can you NOT love this….a bonafide TEAM!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:50 pm

Anyone can hold and fire a gun, get me a woman who can handle a rifle and hit a target at 50,75 and 100 yards! LOL..and is not afraid to dress that days hunt :)

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:51 pm

Karma does not happen when you are waiting on it to happen. LOL

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
1:52 pm

and Mo, of course we can talk, sweetie…..you can always come home!

and that bottle of wine you talkin bout……baby, I ain’t hard to please, shoot, I still love Boone’s Farm
Fuzzy Navel….what!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm

alright popping back in, what are we dealing with now?
@Dreams – another shot, please!

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm

@ zulu you are mean b/c u busted ared’s bubble that karma doesn’t happen

Cute – You know I don’t listen to him. :lol:

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm

Zulu – Who won Subway versus Blimpie?

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
1:55 pm

2C – DEDICATED, DETERMINED, DEPENDABLE!!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
1:55 pm

Purple Rain: “I choke my wife often….she likes it”

8O I miss a lot in a few minutes…

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
1:55 pm

Whodahell said anything about hunting?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:56 pm

Delight23, choking at the right time is one of my signature moves. It’s hit or miss though, there is a life in the balance. On one end there is death on the other end it’s pure happiness.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
1:57 pm

“and is not afraid to dress that days hunt”

um, eeeewww. I don’t even clean fish. Besides, why would I deprive Melvin the Butcher of his claim to fame. :p

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
1:57 pm

zulu you are mean b/c u busted ared’s bubble that karma doesn’t happen. ur funny though
Yes sometimes it doesn’t happen the way envision it. I know this chick whose boyfriend was on drugs, used to beat her, didn’t work, the whole nine. Eventually, she left him and got her life back on track. some years later she ran into him, and he had gotten help, kicked the habit, started his own business, and was married to a nice girl. She was actually a little upset because she always thought karma would make things end up badly for him.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:57 pm

SexyCool, me :)

Kym

November 9th, 2010
1:58 pm

@Leggs..Are you still listening to Kiss 104 for the names? And I don’t know why you don’t believe me..I was trying.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
1:58 pm

2CPTG, that’s the problem, you trying to have 5 Foxes. LOL

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
1:58 pm

kimmie…..the ingredients for a winning team…..

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:59 pm

Delight23 to many critters around her not to take some shots at them and then place them on the table and deep freezer.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
1:59 pm

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
1:59 pm

Purple Rain: Delight23, choking at the right time is one of my signature moves. It’s hit or miss though, there is a life in the balance. On one end there is death on the other end it’s pure happiness

Uh, huh. :? I will stick with a palm stained arse or a few loose strands of hair. Blessings to you and the Misses, I like O2 too much. :-)

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:00 pm

Dreams, that is great the he got his life back together, obviously the gal he was with was a bad combination for the both of them.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:00 pm

@Dreams – another shot, please!
blue I can do supply your needs all day.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
2:01 pm

I just left Wally World and got approached about selling Mary Kay! For the upteenth time this year!LOL!!

And no, asking me have I been approached about the MANAGEMENT side of Mary Kay won’t help either. Still not interested. It breaks me out anyway, so can’t sell a product I can’t get behind!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:02 pm

Delight, as any man. Doing a nice soft choke on his woman is a turn on. Or if she gags a little during………things get even hotter

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:02 pm

Well PR, I grew up around a G’ Ma who had a small farm in the islands. Had my fill of watching fish and chicken make it from the sea/land onto my plate. I’m koooool for a looooonnnngggg time. :D

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:03 pm

Oxygen is over rated!!

Delight, that was the best fish and chicken you ever tasted wasn’t it?

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:03 pm

Power excites huh PR? It corrupts too. Angry make-ups sex for y’all takes on a whole new dimension. :mrgreen:

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:03 pm

Dreams, that is great the he got his life back together, obviously the gal he was with was a bad combination for the both of them.
Purp yeah and she hard time being happy for him at first. she would just keep asking “why couldn’t he be like that when he was with me?” She was cool with it once she completely moved on though.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm

Karma shouldn’t happen the way we envision it. If it did, more people would spontaneously combust.

But it’s okay to admit that you don’t think good things should happen to people who wronged you. Doesn’t mean you’re obsessed with justice or anything. Well…those who are are the ones who throw bricks. :lol:

I was smug when my ex got left by the girl he lied to me about. But years have passed and I hear he’s had a child and married his baby’s mama. Good for him.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm

:lol: Kimmie. What? Pink is a pretty color.

Kym

November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm

@kimmie you can throw a rock and hit a real estate agent and a Mary Kay Consultant.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm

Cutie!

Oh, I see. Did u send it?

Celisea,come on girl!

Kimmie?

Blimpie won but I want to eat both and see(taste) for myself,

I suspect both are cold subs…..hmmmmmm

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:07 pm

Delight23, she slaps me around and is rough with me as well. I like it when she “smothers” me. LOL

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
2:07 pm

Zulu – Celisea,come on girl!

You rang?

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
2:07 pm

@ dreams everything is not what it seems. I was in a similar situation but actually realized later his life was in shambles and he was just fronting to make his life look like it was going well….a slew of bad things happened to him and on top of that he started trying to contact me to bring drama into MY life b/c he thought MY life was so much better apparently……sad part is he used to be in the remote circle that the new bf is in…..i kept my dealings with him on the so low that no one knew. I did not want that out in the open. no way.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
2:09 pm

blue®

November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm
alright popping back in, what are we dealing with now?
@Dreams – another shot, please

Blue…too many more of those And we might be here late again…..

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:09 pm

While in the powder room I had a quick “caution to the wind moment” and told myself I should do a Britney and cut all my hair off. Myself said “you a damn fool”.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:10 pm

Cutie?

I forgot I’m not on speaking terms with one of my Aunties right now(my dads sister)
Evil woman,that’s my perception if get now but one if my fav people,growing up.

She’s in the states right now and will be fir the next six months,visiting her kids up north.

But I ain’t gon to lift my phone to speak to her. I don’t wish her no bad karma,but just rewards,whatever God deems is appropriate in her life.

And Iam at peace,leading my own life.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:11 pm

Delight23, she slaps me around and is rough with me as well. I like it when she “smothers” me. LOL

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:11 pm

kimmie, how do you usually use cumin? I was just looking thru my spice rack and noticed I have used the cumin hardly ever.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
2:12 pm

Kym:

Kym come out of hiding I was trying to be nince we (might) lose but now we aint trying to get no butt whooping. Ben-gals had a chance at the end to win Thursday could be SB preview. I had gang-green and ATL at first but I like Ravens and ATL.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
2:12 pm

@Kym ~ yes my ears are peeled to Kiss 104. The Kitty info is being relayed to me. I can’t listen to Frank and Wanda anymore!

@Kym ~ hhhrrrmmmpp!!

I do not understand “choking.” I cannot wrap my hands around that tactic in lovemaking…

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
2:12 pm

“Myself said “you a damn fool”.”

why does this sound like something Mr. Brown…..or, SexyCool would say……

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:13 pm

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich: DONT LISTEN TO THE VOICES!!! 8O

Cut 3″ off one Saturday. Looking in the mirror, voices told me go back the just below the shoulder. Psshhh. Waiting on 2 of those inches to come back. :cry:

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:14 pm

Delight23, where are you from? Which island?

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:14 pm

The ground yellow mustard is not used either.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:14 pm

melo – You were just trying to rid yourself of you own baby mama a few weeks ago. You’re not fooling anyone with this “kumbaya” stuff. :lol:

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:15 pm

blue®

November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm

@Dreams – thank you sir, now what was your problem earlier, saw something about me not giving details, what now?
@PR – i understand ya, just a little pressure at the right moment can do wonders, tho i am a fan of oxygen, lol
@Simple Man – looks like im gonna be here lte anyway, now i’ll just be even funnier than usual ;)

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm

Delight, do you make it back there often?

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm

YES/Dreams – See that’s why vengence is the Lord’s.

I used to wonder sometimes the ole “why couldn’t he be that way with me”. Didn’t waste too much time wondering it, but wondered just the same, I’m human. My mom schooled me hard though about things are often not how they seem from the outside looking in. You don’t know what’s going on in peoples house. So what’s for you is for you. In spite of what looks like a charmed life this person is now living without you, you still could have dodged a bullet. So I don’t allow folks from the past take up any more of my time & stress. That’s giving them way too much power they don’t deserve.

I want what is meant for me!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm

@ zulu I see what you mean…you shouldn’t harp on it. It will happen but you can’t expect it to happen the way you want it to…they should be doing better and be better not necessarily have their life in shambles as punishment….

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm

I do not understand “choking.” I cannot wrap my hands around that tactic in lovemaking

Leggs, I know. I am satisfied having my breath taken away from a good round of rolling O’s, I don’t need him to stop me from breathing literally.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:17 pm

I use ground yellow mustard in some of my casseroles.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:17 pm

LOL 2Can. I actually watched an episode of Meet the Browns the other night. It actually made me LOL. A little.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:20 pm

I find it funny that when some people wish bad on you …and you have moved on to clean yourself up and live better….they are still doing the same old thing and are mad that you are doing better.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
2:20 pm

lovemaking more like sexual prowess…

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
2:21 pm

Aufton – The only thing I can think I’ve ever used it in is in chili recipes. It’s already in chili powder though. The ground mustard is used in sauces and egg dishes mainly.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm

Purple Rain – Where are you getting this “wishing bad on others” from? Wanting someone to own up to past wrongs doesn’t mean you want something bad to happen to them.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm

“why couldn’t he be that way with me”

kimmie, I do think a small part of it is being matched well. You know how you have a fly skirt and some killer shoes but they do nothing for each other. They don’t complement each other at all. But matched with different skirt and a different pair of shoes it works great.

I know that is not what you are talking about but I am guilty of taking segments of comments and running with it. LOL

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm

Ared?

no,that’s not it.

See with me,I’m a snob that they talk about but I won’t give them no time.
That is what hurts most folks.They talk about me and I hear that they were talking about mr but I never talk about them.

That what hurts most folks.
My motto is,if it ain’t in my yard,I isn’t worried about it(them)

My Belived Auntie included!

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm

But it’s okay to admit that you don’t think good things should happen to people who wronged you.
ARed I feel you, but I don’t worry about what happens to people who have wronged me. I believe that everything happens exactly the way it’s supposed to, and whatever happens to you (good or bad) after dealing with me is just fine. At least I try to have that outlook…sometimes it’s hard though! lol

dreams everything is not what it seems. I was in a similar situation but actually realized later his life was in shambles and he was just fronting to make his life look like it was going well
Yes yeah you never know what’s actually going on. I can only relay what I’ve been told. If you wrong me, I’m out. What happens to you after that won’t affect me, hopefully.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:23 pm

Thanks kimmie. This chili weather so I may give it a try in some dishes.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
2:24 pm

PR at least every other year. Dying to go back to St. Kitts. $$$ high right now :-(

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:25 pm

AmazonRed, everyday life is where I get it from. What is your definition of owning up to past wrongs? I mean if someone does not apologize to a person or not own up to it, just file it away with every other thing that is disliked about a person. 9 times out of 10 the wronged person is not going to think that the “owning up” is sincere. If God forgives a person who cares if man does not?

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:25 pm

I feel you, but I don’t worry about what happens to people who have wronged me

Dreams – I wouldn’t use the word “worry.” If you feel me, you feel me or you don’t.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:26 pm

I just think a lot of energy is misplaced while waiting on someone to own up to however you think they wronged you.

Delight, I bet the food is good there.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:27 pm

If God forgives a person who cares if man does not?

People care…that’s my point. I’m not saying that it’s right…I’m saying it happens.

You didn’t commit to your wife for YEARS after you got wronged by some other woman.

So I’m saying…it happens. Lets stop acting like people’s bad behavior towards us don’t manifest itself in other ways.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
2:29 pm

See with me,I’m a snob that they talk about but I won’t give them no time.
That is what hurts most folks.They talk about me and I hear that they were talking about mr but I never talk about them.

Zulu – You & I think alike on this, because I’m the same way with some family members. They talk about me like a dog and speculate, but I just go right on living my life like it’s golden, ignoring them!

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:30 pm

this chili weather ?!

I been wanting some these past two days,I’m in bed,hard as a rock,dude almost giving me a headache,only to be told:

the visiting cleaning lady from Mars ain’t done yet cleaning the chambers!

:evil: :shock:
:roll:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:30 pm

it’s a slight pressure

Exactly. But it only takes one time for someone to get too excited. That’s how folks find out they are sadist and others find out they just laid with one.

Besides your breath is already taken while you are climaxing anyway

Exactly again. That’s I don’t need you squeezing my damn neck stopping my air flow.

I talked about this on here with someone else several months back. I didn’t get then and I don’t get it now. But whatever floats your boat. LOL

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:30 pm

Amazon, but I looked at myself first and saw the reasoning for me being wronged and my role in it, I did not commit to my wife because I was loving my single life style and did not know if I was really a man for marriage.(I was very selfish). Not once was I waiting on the woman who wronged me to apologize or for karma to take her down. I just went on with my own healing. Nobody said that other peoples behavior does not manifest in other ways, but waiting on them to do something to “heal” you is just silly.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:31 pm

See with me,I’m a snob that they talk about but I won’t give them no time.
That is what hurts most folks.They talk about me and I hear that they were talking about mr but I never talk about them.

Zulu – You were talking about her on here. Yes, it may never get back to her, but she was on your mind to the point you wanted to vent to a board full of strangers.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:32 pm

but waiting on them to do something to “heal” you is just silly.

No one was talking about that either tho.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:32 pm

“It’s not what your enemies say during the attack that bothers you, it’s what you friends don’t say..their silence that really breaks a person down..whether it be to you or your attackers”

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:32 pm

kimmie, how do you usually use cumin? I was just looking thru my spice rack and noticed I have used the cumin hardly ever.
Raqi tacos, fajitas, different stews, beans (especially black beans). As far as the ground mustrard seed, I like to mix it with some brown sugar & honey and use it as a glaze for corned beef.

Dreams – thank you sir, now what was your problem earlier, saw something about me not giving details, what now?
blue you mentioned some birthday pics in reference to tequila. I was saying you need to go on ahead and share those with me.

I want what is meant for me!
kimmie this is the key. what happens to you after your dealings with me is not really my concern. If I focus too much on that, I may be neglecting my own affairs.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
2:33 pm

Aufton – You are right, sometimes, most of the time, it was just a bad matchup to begin with. You brought out the worst in each other!

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:34 pm

Ared?

What is it u talking about again?

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:35 pm

Zulu – You saying you’re too much of a snob to talk about your baby mama. Not buying that.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:35 pm

LOL, melo you are the most sex minded dude in the world. LOL, give the wife a break to get her chambers cleaned. LOL

Kym

November 9th, 2010
2:36 pm

@Blackfoote..I am not hiding..I am running for the computer to the typewriter..to meetings to outside and back.. Dude..you don’t seriously think the Fakecons are going to the Superbowl. I mean this year is a toss up (I mean good grief the Raiders are winning) but come on the Superbowl..that’s okay dream big..dream big..ya’ll barely got by the Young Bucs..

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
2:36 pm

@Zulu ~ that indeed was TMI!!!!!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:36 pm

Celisea, where are you?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
2:37 pm

The Steelers are not going to the Super Bowl either. LOL

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
2:38 pm

Besides your breath is already taken while you are climaxing anyway

Exactly again. That’s I don’t need you squeezing my damn neck stopping my air flow.

Deserved repeating! :lol: :lol:

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
2:38 pm

PR – Present

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
2:39 pm

ZULU really :S she doesn’t have an appointment with dentist too I suppose?

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
2:40 pm

PR – working and lurking….I can’t post nonstop on this thing and work

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:40 pm

Ared!

it’s true tho. Not even with Queen.

I think about her when I see her phone number flash on the tv screen on Sunday nites when she’s calling her baby.

And surprisingly, I talk about her only on the blog.

Hardly with my fam or friends.

She’s not in any way a problem(pain),just some discomfort dealing with occasionally!

Kym

November 9th, 2010
2:41 pm

@PurpleRain..whateva..the Brett Farves are talking about firing the coach over..speaking of which..its about time Wade Phillps its about time..now fire some players and the Cowgirls might win at least two of their next 8 games.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
2:41 pm

Zulu:

Cleaning the chambers……….LOL

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
2:41 pm

Yeah kimmie about like wearing my crocodile pumps with a hounds tooth skirt. A match that should never take place. LOL

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
2:42 pm

There was a chick that called into the radio station the other morning about this guy she knows. He actually keeps a written list of folks that have wronged him…He’ll keep a grudge with the people on the list until he hears of something bad that has happened to them. Once he gets that news, he marks them off the list. Talking about crazy

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:43 pm

If you feel me, you feel me or you don’t.
ARed ok

Dying to go back to St. Kitts
Delight would love to be there right now.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:43 pm

Zulu – My point is talking about her on the blog is still talking about her. She was a problem the day you interrupted the blog to vent.

Everyone on here is like “don’t worry about your past” blah blah blah. Yeah, I agree. It’s not about worry, no one is saying you spend your days worrying.

But what I’m saying is the times we vent about our past is very much the same in the days we are wronged by others and think (for a moment) “yeah, what goes around comes around.”

Human nature.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:44 pm

Leggs!?

TMI?

u kidding,I thought I was speaking in code.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
2:45 pm

Slim….sounds like dude playin with a ouija board or some’n……

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:45 pm

Easily decifered code. :lol:

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:46 pm

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:46 pm

I know that is not what you are talking about but I am guilty of taking segments of comments and running with it.
Raqi I think you can segue any topic into shopping and fashion. lol

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
2:47 pm

@SlimNU ~ that dude is crazy. A bucket list for your enemies!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
2:47 pm

A Red…..can I say some’n and hope you don’t hold it against me?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:48 pm

No Ared,were talking about Karma to those who did wrong to us.

I don’t think my baby mama would even fit the topic, maybe my Auntie,coz I really feel she has wronged me,among others.

My baby mama is somebody I ‘wronged’ but she won’t let go.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:49 pm

2Can – I’m going to say “no” for the hell of it and for asking dumbass questions. :lol:

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:50 pm

My baby mama is somebody I ‘wronged’ but she won’t let go.

Maybe that’s your karma. :lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
2:51 pm

ok….I won’t say it then…..

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
2:51 pm

My baby mama is somebody I ‘wronged’ but she won’t let go.
Zulu sounds like she’s determined to take karma into her own hands. lol

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
2:52 pm

I’m surprised homeboy doesn’t have a garage full of voodoo dolls that he plays with on a daily basis like the Witches of Eastwick lol

blue®

November 9th, 2010
2:53 pm

@Dreams – i’ll email ya later ;)
@Leggs – i prob missed it, but was wondering why Kym was hiding from your boomerang shoe, why you after her lol?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
2:55 pm

Maybe that’s my karma!

U damn right that’s why u gotta be careful where u shyyt(or allow to shyyt in ur chambers) coz u may not like that heifer,10 years later!

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
2:56 pm

U damn right that’s why u gotta be careful where u shyyt(or allow to shyyt in ur chambers) coz u may not like that heifer,10 years later!

:lol:

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
2:58 pm

@Zulu ~ first and foremost, you have no code! You have to be kidding if you thought that was in “code.” You are funny!

Kym

November 9th, 2010
3:00 pm

@blue..because I listened to Tawanda instead of Leggs.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
3:01 pm

I think you can segue any topic into shopping and fashion

Well DreamsMat when it’s one of many things I do well it’s not that difficult. And my analogy is the perfect one if you are into looking good.

I have a fabulous shoe collector and have put much thought into my wardrobe but I can’t just walk into my closet blindly grab a shirt, a skirt and a pair of shoes and have it automatically work right together. You have to coordinate. LOL And then you accessorize for added enhancement which would be the little things that do matter that a couple does for each other.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
3:01 pm

well dayum its been busy in here the last hour!! I come back to 3 full pages more than when I left!

2CPTG – “I still love Boone’s Farm” WOW! Thats funny!!

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:02 pm

Although they’ve shortened the number of posts per page, it’s still nice to see a lot of pages!

@blue ~ only Kym can reveal why she’s ducking and a weaving….but my shoe will land upside her head!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
3:03 pm

wow you guys

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
3:04 pm

Mo, I do……so whatcha wanna talk about, sweetie…..

when you comin back home?

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
3:05 pm

Leggs:

Ya’ll gonna make Zulu hurt somebody get off that man………LOL

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
3:08 pm

2CPTG – who says I want to come back? Why cant you come over to me? Im jus sayin…..

And I dont have any Boones Farm but Im sure a Fuzzy Navel can be done

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
3:09 pm

Dreams – i’ll email ya later
blue don’t be playin with me now. ;-)

Well DreamsMat when it’s one of many things I do well it’s not that difficult.
Raqi yeah you do make the trasitions rather seamlessly. lol

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:09 pm

@Blackfoote ~ whatcha talking ’bout Willis?

Mike P

November 9th, 2010
3:12 pm

I was just reading some of the earlier posts by the women on this blog regarding how y’all can tell when a man loves you or not…. smdh, you all were pretty much just stating what y’all “Think or Want” a man to show you love. Based on what I’ve gathered here, If I’d know you all in person and was in love with one of you, you’d never know it. SMDH!!!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
3:13 pm

Leggs ™: @Zulu ~ first and foremost, you have no code! You have to be kidding if you thought that was in “code.” You are funny!

:!: :lol: ‘cuz I’ve been MIA for ’bout 20min and it took 2sec to figure that out. :lol:

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
3:15 pm

Mo (aka Moeisha) “…2CPTG – “I still love Boone’s Farm” WOW! Thats funny!!”

Made me think of Champ-pipple (Champagne & Ripple). XD

Mike P

November 9th, 2010
3:16 pm

2CPTG was on point about when a man loves a women… you’d have to know the man personally, individually to really get “it” and NOT some pre-defined cookie-cutting notions of love y’all been talking about.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:16 pm

:lol: Exactly, Delight23! :lol:

blue®

November 9th, 2010
3:17 pm

@Kym – awww d@mn, thought we talked about that, cant let her out with normal folk…
@Leggs – thats the Boomerang shoe, it finds you wherever you are and bounces back
@Dreams – still aint posted my pics from this years bday, debating on those lol

Boones Farm? that stuff is dangerous! Strawberry Daiquari!!!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
3:17 pm

Mike P…..man, they ain’t heard me in 6 years, so I know they ain’t gon’ hear me now…..oh well….

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
3:17 pm

I dream big and black & yellow aint in it but they can be in the tournament a game or two but I see black, purple, and red in Dallas.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
3:18 pm

Reading, though tedious at times, it truly fundamental. :roll:

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:20 pm

Nothing wrong with Boone’s Farm, but the dangerous stuff is Mad Dog 20/20..neither of which I would ever put to my lips again!

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
3:23 pm

you’d have to know the man personally, individually to really get “it”

Most of the women seemed to have said that – most were describing how THEIR men loved them.

Reading is fundamental.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
3:23 pm

Hmmm, considering we’re 300+ comments deep before the generalizations show up, guess today’s post was a good one.

<<<— outie. Adios good peopl. :-)

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
3:27 pm

Reading is fundamental…

that’s for dang sure…folks kill me popping in here and skimming and then say “you ladies this that and the other” dude…Mike P some didn’t give cookie cutter answers…some of us know a dude tryna get azz will perform just like the real thing…

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
3:27 pm

I just asked my babe brother about “love”. He says in this day and time love is more than just paying the rent and coming home. He says it’s the extras. The way he put it is a man has to have somewhere to live and somewhere to lay his head so if he is responsible and about his business is going to keep the rent paid for his own comfort and wellbeing if nothing else. She is just there until she is not there anymore.

He said many men are still living with women they don’t love paying the mortgage but she is not getting much of anything else out of him. She is not getting his time, she is not getting his laughter and she is not getting his “best”. But he is there.

He says he shows his wife-to-be love by catering to her desire. Doing the little extras. He said paying the mortgage is a no brainer but getting him to give up his chair or watch what she wants to watch is done because he loves her. He said a man shows his love by taking away from himself and giving to her. Giving up his time he could be doing one thing to do something with her.

He ended by saying people do most things for their own benefit, happiness and gain but when you do for the benefit, happiness and gain of someone else that’s love.

On that note, I am out. I have carpool today so I gotta run.

Percy Sledge said it best…

When a man loves a woman
Can’t keep his mind on nothing else
He’ll trade the world
For the good thing he’s found

If she’s bad he can’t see it
She can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend
If he put her down

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
3:29 pm

Http://espn.go.com/sports/soccer/news/_/I’d/5766929/Wayne-Rooney

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
3:29 pm

Leggs – the smell of that stuff makes me wanna gag.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
3:32 pm

Yeah right Mrs izzabiatch!

I give up the big screen tv downstairs coz she wants to watch lifetime and go watch my soccer upstairs instead!

:lol:

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:33 pm

Nice post, Raqi!!! What struck me the most was “not getting his laughter.” I can feel that one!!!

OK

November 9th, 2010
3:38 pm

“but when you do for the benefit, happiness and gain of someone else that’s love.”- where are these men that prescribe to this in the ATL?

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:39 pm

@Zulu ~ with that example, lil leggs must know I love her deeply cuz I give up the big screen so she can watch that dumb arse show Vampire Diaries while I watch the 13″ in the kitchen! :lol: :lol:

blue®

November 9th, 2010
3:41 pm

these cherry jolly ranchers aint gonna cut it, i need chocolate…

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
3:43 pm

@ blue the chocolate turnover at arby’s is so good. It tastes like hazelnut chocolate almost and all of that for just $1. mmmm i think i’m gonna go get one after work.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
3:43 pm

what about when he gives you his secret number his mama doesn’t even have :lol:

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
3:45 pm

Actually 3.37 is not luv but infatuation.

The man hasn’t even been married yet(3rd paragraph)….just sweet nothings.

U chicks know those!

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
3:46 pm

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:47 pm

Post from Kym: Amtrack is hiring for track workers. Very physical work. Must be 18 or older. Pay rate starts $19.36/hr to $25.14 an hour. Apply at http://www.csx.com. But, you must past drug test so don’t waste your time if your pee ain’t clean or your hair strand is tainted!!!! :lol: :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
3:48 pm

Cuteness that secret number is not what he calls momma on..that number is the next step in giving you a false sense of security….

Mike P

November 9th, 2010
3:49 pm

“some of us know a dude tryna get azz will perform just like the real thing…”

proof positive u still don’t get “it” you can’t perform it, Love isn’t a performance piece (rather you realize dudes be trying to fake it or not). either it IS or it ISN’T period. all the stuff guys do for their women isn’t love, it isn’t proof that he loves you, but rather “it” is the reason WHY he does the special things for you, “it” is the reason why men “put-up” with women for long haul.

Waiting for a man to “show” you he loves you is the reason why dudes (fakers) be gaming ya’ll in the first place. You should come to a point of knowing that he loves you before you accepting what he does or what he says…

For Real

November 9th, 2010
3:49 pm

Raqi: Good post but I don’t know about the trading the world tho. Oh and Mrs. Aufton Izzabich? Are you back on the coffee?

“but when you do for the benefit, happiness and gain of someone else that’s love.”- where are these men that prescribe to this in the ATL?” – Where are all these women that prescribe to this in the ATL?

For Real now SMDW at the blog ladies.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
3:49 pm

Exactly SimpleMan, exactly…false sense of security at its best!

For Real

November 9th, 2010
3:51 pm

“these cherry jolly ranchers aint gonna cut it, i need chocolate…” Zipppppppppppppp Black Cake!!!

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
3:53 pm

Cutie?

What number?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
3:54 pm

Dreams – can I get one more please?

Leggs – Mad Dog 20/20 is the Devil!! EEEWWW!

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
3:54 pm

Mike P – We moved on from the topic awhile back, but whatever way YOU choose to love the one YOU’RE with, if you have someone to love, DO YOU!

I think all of us ladies will be just fine. :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
3:55 pm

For Real I know you didn’t just shake your w@ang at us?!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
3:55 pm

Mo….sweetie…haven’t you had enough to drink for one day?

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
3:56 pm

dude Mike P how bout you fall back a bit? k? I’m the last one need a 10 paragraph post on what I need to do….I’m good turst me. I “waiting” on nothing and neither do I prescribe to “fluff”…aka “stuff guys do for women” Yeen gotta tell me. Having a man doing nice gestures is okay but heck I know that ain’t proof positive to love. Since you wanna go there…how bout one woman, when a million passes you by. You can resist? You on your way. How bout both feet hitting the floor EVERYDAY to make a living and home? How about sticking out through the good the bad and the ugly…cuase you love me and comitted and I’m/it’s worth it? I ain’t one for listing warm fuzzies cause a scandalous dude can do that better than a true blue on most days.

blue®

November 9th, 2010
4:00 pm

@yES – for shame, now i want choclate turnovers….
@Mo – oh we’re doing rounds, another one please!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:00 pm

@ simple man and @ zulu my ex called me when he saw my status on facebook about my bestie dying and he called me from some unknown number was like yeah this my number no one has it not even my mom so you should feel special//i was like ummm ok?

For Real

November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm

“But, you must past drug test so don’t waste your time if your pee ain’t clean or your hair strand is tainted!!!!” – Reminds me of these Outkast lyrics:

Can’t gamble feeding baby on that dope money
might not always be sufficient but the Untied Parcel Services and
the people at the Post Office didn’t call you back
because you had cloudy piss.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm

I think all of us ladies will be just fine

DITT-FREAKIN-O…bet Mike P still got milk on his breath

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm

how you gon’ have a number yo mama ain’t even got…….shoot, that’s lame in itself!

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm

@SlimNU ~ I had to look at the acronym twice then say to myself OH NO HE DIDN’T, then see him offering black cake cuz his zipper is open!

@Mo ~ yes it is the devil and I can’t believe it’s still on the market, along with Thunderbird!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:03 pm

2CPTG – LOL! well….maybe since I normally dont drink during working hours. However its been a helluva day so I think I deserve one more.

I am not liking these shorter days already…..

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
4:04 pm

For Real…..you ever fail a drug test…..then, some Dr. from Maryland or somewhere calls you, and you act all surprised….like, ” huh…..what, I failed? I don’t even smoke….I be around people that smoke…”

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:05 pm

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:06 pm

@For Real ~ on point!

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
4:06 pm

For Real – A note from Friday – YO ass is colorblind. LOL!
And where are my journals?

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
4:07 pm

Ok cuteness…I know you did not fall for that….He was attempting to catch you at a moment of weakness and hit you with the “banana in the tailpipe trick” Yuor next question should have been,” what are you, Ten???” Why are you hididng phone numbers from your mom???

For Real

November 9th, 2010
4:07 pm

Don’t give your moms your phone nimber???? Dang who is his mom Maud?

Slim: Yes I did cause I have been sitting for awhile.

Celisea: “cause a scandalous dude can do that better than a true blue on most days.” – That was some real big girl talk right there. For Real now giving you a special SMDW.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:08 pm

We have one more hour…anybody got a situation they need help with? The blog couch is unoccupied….

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:08 pm

@ 2CPTG I think the ex wants me back or something idk no big deal….but i got my bf’s number, both his sister’s number, his dad’s cell phone and his parent’s house number…..so I think I’m good :lol:

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:09 pm

Is it true,record companies won’t sign a budding rapper unless he flunks his drug tests or has a decent rap sheet?

Why do clean folks like Akon,Kanye,etc pretend they have rap sheets?

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
4:09 pm

Dreams – can I get one more please?
Mo you know I got you. as long as you good, I’m good.

Mo – oh we’re doing rounds, another one please!
blue I done lost count on how many you had…of course it could be because I been doing two for every one of yours. ;-)

Wise Diva

November 9th, 2010
4:10 pm

Leggs, ohhhgirl, that blog couch needs a disclaimer on it LOL

For Real

November 9th, 2010
4:10 pm

“anybody got a situation they need help with?” – Yes I c.a.n.’.t s.e.e.m t.o g.e.t t.h.i.s Z.i.p.p.e.r down.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:12 pm

Our phones are down at work, I still have and hour and 45mins left at work AND Im sleepy as heck!!

For Real

November 9th, 2010
4:13 pm

“And where are my journals” – Zippppppppppppp… Right here but you will need to use white ink and write really small.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:13 pm

LMBAO! Leave it up to For Real!!

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
4:14 pm

Zulu – Now you know thats all part of the act! They gotta come at you all hard from the mean streets to prison to parole!LOL!!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
4:15 pm

I don’t even smoke….I be around people that smoke…”
HAHAHA this excuse never dies.

Why do clean folks like Akon,Kanye,etc pretend they have rap sheets?

Zulu same reason Rick Ross denied being a corrections officer. The silent truth is that alot of those dudes are clean and get this……….smart. There’s so much dumbing down in the industry it’s a shame. Of course they would argue that they’re just giving the people what they want…in other words calling their fans dumb.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:16 pm

Celisea, do you know that I love you? LOL

I have a number that my mother does not have, she would talk me to death if she had my cell number

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:16 pm

Dad has it my mother does not. LOL

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:16 pm

@WD ~ you’re absolutely correct. Common sense should tell all to leave the murder plots, money heists (even puddy/wang heists), drug issues and such away from the couch….don’t need the police shutting us down! Just everyday relationship issues. Dr. Ruth has closed her offices. (LOL)!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
4:17 pm

“@ 2CPTG I think the ex wants me back or something idk no big deal….”

tell him you are happily blog married! And if he has a problem with it, to give me a call…..and I’ll happily tell him some lies and he won’t bother you anymoe.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:18 pm

PR – Celisea, do you know that I love you? LOL

Yep so much so that I kill it and dress it fer ya :)

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:18 pm

@ForReal ~ OMG, I walked right into that! :lol: :lol:

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
4:18 pm

I’m not talking to you anymore today…

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:19 pm

I don’t think any rapper keeps it street? If they were why are they rapping?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:20 pm

Dreams!

calling fans dumb?

kinda sad seeing that a lot of people in america,kids included, are celebrity stuck.
Now I really hate a grown man or woman that swears by a celebrity,follow their every tit bit.

Heifer!..read a book!

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:22 pm

I have a big bowl of 3 Musketeers on my desk that my boss brought in. Thank goodness I don’t like 3 Musketeers!!!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:24 pm

I think if you your kids are celeb struck always on twitter or blogging about some star, you have failed as a parent. Nothing wrong with being a fan etc, but there should be a balance and the parent the biggest influence

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:24 pm

@ Dreams I had that conversation before with a couple of people. One of my friends worships Jay-Z I told him he said he dumbs down for his fans so he can double his dollars calling you, a fan, essentially stupid. Speaking on your behalf that you don’t have enough nerve endings in your brain to decide what you want and on top of that not enough nerve endings to desire a musician who talks about topics that mean something…..he basically was like “whatever I like him” i was like case-in-point….

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:24 pm

random: My friend is interviewing…3rd one. I thought she was 90% guaranteed for the job. Well, folks have beening doing their 3rd interview all day…all of them I know except one. All of them I now sharp folks. While I think my friend has the edge on job knowledge, there was one chick that I know is good and carries a rep for being good at what she does. As it relates to interacting and having that “thing” I think she edges out ahead of my friend. Got my fingers crossed…c’mon you can get it…

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:25 pm

Cutie?

unknown number? To who?

Are u talking about a private,not disclosed line?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:25 pm

Leggs, is one Musketeer more your speed?

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:26 pm

know not now

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:27 pm

PR – I agree totally with you on your last post. There were plenty of artists I was a fan of as a kid but never like some of these kids.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:27 pm

Jay Z has been selling the some dope in just different packages for years. But yet people still buy it likes it’s new. Smart business man though..

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:28 pm

Mo, some kids are obsessed. Let’s not even talk about adults who are. LOL

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:29 pm

I don’t idolize anyone, but I do like Diana Ross and Cher!

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
4:29 pm

I think Almond Joy and Mounds are a Candy Couple…Almond Joy has nuts, Mounds don’t. lol

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:29 pm

(4:27)selling the same dope

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:30 pm

And I’ve never seen either one in concert! I use to work with a girl that has seen Bon Jovie in concert 15 tims. She tries to get to as many of his shows as she possibly can even if it means buying a plane ticket…hell to the NOT!

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
4:30 pm

Dreams I had that conversation before with a couple of people.
Yes well these rappers know the consequence of “kickin knowledge” on a track…NO $$$. I personally am into cats like Black Thought, Talib, Mos Def, Common, Cee Lo, Jean Gray, Little Brother and the list goes on. I say they’re head and shoulders above most cats in the game in terms of flows, but they don’t make any money rapping. Young aspiring rappers see that and act accordingly…dumbing down.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:30 pm

Celisea?

If u need some Zulu rubbing juju charm fir ur friend,I’ll hook u up.

That’s what I use to keep the immigration folks at bay…they keep procastinating when my name comes up!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:31 pm

@ Zulu he has two numbers that ring to the same phone his google voice number and his real cell phone. His mom has his google number that way if they have an argument he can block her (sad but true)…don’t get me wrong I can ONLY take my mom in doses too…but she has to have my actual cell number in case of emergencies….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:33 pm

Dreams – I agree with you, I am into some of those same artists, especially when you talk about BUYING music. some of this stuff on the radio (and Im being nice) aint worth the few pennies in Lil Mo’s piggy bank

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:33 pm

@ Zulu where are you from?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:33 pm

My Favorite rappers are Lupe Fiasco, Tech N9ne and Common

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:33 pm

Cutie?
So who u luv more,me or 2Can?

I hope ur boyfriend is last!

:lol:

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:35 pm

Zulu – If u need some Zulu rubbing juju charm fir ur friend,I’ll hook u up.

Melo – Why don’t we just hope this is “meant” for her, hope for the best and she lands the job? Yeah, let’s do.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
4:35 pm

My Favorite rappers are Lupe Fiasco, Tech N9ne and Common
Lupe is tight no doubt. He has some new stuff out.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:35 pm

send me the pic and I will answer that question,exclusively to u!

:lol:

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:35 pm

Zulu, are you an illegal or just here on a work visa? You have a greater interest in politics than some people who can vote.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:36 pm

Dreams, his remixes and unreleased stuff are the best. I like listening to him!!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:37 pm

@ Zulu :lol: wouldn’t you like to know lol

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:38 pm

Celisea?
What kinda job is it?

or maybe u wanna tell me that exclusively as well.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:39 pm

@ PR I thought he was american b/c he was oversexed but then certain context clues lead me to believe he is not american after all I would like to know where he’s from….?

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
4:39 pm

Dreams, his remixes and unreleased stuff are the best. I like listening to him!!
Purp he’s one of those dudes you have to rewind sometimes like “wait what did he just say, lemme hear that again”. To me that’s what hip hop is all about.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:39 pm

Dreams listen to this when you get a chance, his changing of styles , his painting of a picture and different personalities all in one song. This one is awesome!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qx5lXgqFewM

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:40 pm

Zulu – Celisea?
What kinda job is it? or maybe u wanna tell me that exclusively as
well.

You know, I’m convinced some things you do and say is just for the heck of it.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:40 pm

are u an ilegal?

U know Kym works for the Feds,I ain’t stupid!

:lol:

Thank u tho PR.

I ain’t on work visa tho,never been.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
4:41 pm

yeah, Cuteness……answer his question…..

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:42 pm

YesSheIsCute, I don’t know where he is from.

LOL, listening to music in the club is hard for me sometimes. When a popular song comes on and everyone is dancing and rapping the words along with the song…..everyone knows when the “n” word is about to be said and they look my way, like I am going to say it NO NO NO I don’t fall for that one. LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:42 pm

@ Zulu but you ARE illegal :lol: give me a hint is it in Europe? do you speak another language. Sorry I’m on my cunninglinguist multi-lingual ish again :)

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
4:42 pm

U know Kym works for the Feds,I ain’t stupid!

Now that was funny..

blue®

November 9th, 2010
4:43 pm

@Dreams – blue I done lost count on how many you had…of course it could be because I been doing two for every one of yours – see now, when its time for after hours Jenga your gonna lose (said in my best hiccupy-tipsy voice) lol
@Leggs – pass the 3 musketeers, those are my favorites! and whats this about the blog couch, yall offering therapy now?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:45 pm

PR!

I remembered,I was gon say,if I were with u and the paw paw stopped us to look at our papers,they’re going to look u , up and down twice but let melo proceed unhindered!

:lol:

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
4:46 pm

Sooooo we doing Blog happy hour today???

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
4:46 pm

hur’rup Cuteness….your answer will determine your status within the family….

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:47 pm

Cutie?

Write me,I’ll tell u

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
4:47 pm

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:47 pm

okay seriously I am really digging this Floetic Soul cd by the Floacist (one half of Floetry). Now I need Marsha Ambrosious to come on…..

ok sorry for the tangent……

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:48 pm

Zulu, I owe the State nothing I am clean as a whistle and a citizen. LOL

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:49 pm

2 quick questions…anybody been to the Ultimate Bar & Grill at SoDeKalb Mall yet? What do you think?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:51 pm

SexyCool, you just made me pause and grab my scrotum. Then I got to thinking. A persons internal temperature is 98.6 degrees so that means a mouth is that temp and so is the vaginal area…and during sex all of that motion has to cause more heat. SO, should we stay away from that also? LOL I guess lesbians are safe. There I have found one good reason for a woman to be a lesbian. :)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 9th, 2010
4:51 pm

Leggs – I havent been but I may be going Thursday to catch the Falcons game. I heard that it was pretty cool though

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
4:51 pm

ALOL @ For Real’s 4:01! ALOL!!!!
I once was surprised I past a hair strand test :shock:
and that’s all I’m going to say on that.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:52 pm

I am going to invent a nutt cooler that attaches to the bottom of laptops

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
4:55 pm

@I am ~ I’ve only had one drug test and it’s for the job I presently have. I passed too! Yes indeedy, yes indeedy!

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
4:57 pm

Leggs: the pee one, that didn’t get me worried at all

But my first hair test? I was like Black Rob saying Whoa when I passed.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
4:57 pm

Cutie?

Still here?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
4:58 pm

Is it Jenga time?

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
4:59 pm

@i am, i know for pee test if you take phentermine or any other weight loss drugs they show up positive. is that the same for strand test?

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
5:01 pm

YSIC: no honey, once it’s in your system, you can’t get it out of your hair.
I’m thinking that from the hair test, most recent use will be at the strand closest to the root (hair folicle thing – when you pull your hair out and you see the white tip)

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
5:02 pm

But I’m not worried: I no longer partake in those activities of my youth.

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
5:04 pm

An untrained solider is nothing more than a target for the enemy! ~ Church bulletin

Enjoy your evening. I’m going to go get some real drinks cuz these blog drinks are leaving me thirsty!

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
5:05 pm

Google is really TMI sometimes.

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
5:06 pm

LOL, shave your head to get a job.

Kym

November 9th, 2010
5:07 pm

I do not work for the Feds I work for the man sitting next to the man.

Most employers now require drug testing. Which is why some folks can’t get employed.

Thanks Leggs for posting for me.

CSX is hiring for track workers, foreperson(women can work on the railroad too) Apart of the stimulus money for infrastructure did include rail line work so for any physical capable folk you may know this might be an opportunity. No degree required. High School or GED

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
5:10 pm

@ I am right but I’m saying if they pull a strand of hair that they can tell the difference between phentermine or poppy seeds from real drugs right? or is it just gonna be positive for drugs?

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
5:13 pm

@PR ~ I love Jenga!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:24 pm

jenga jenga jenga….

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:30 pm

ok, bruno mars’s pompador (sp?) makes me shake my head, but i kinda like this “Grenade” song….

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
5:31 pm

Sooooo whos still here???

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
5:33 pm

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:33 pm

should i raise my hand now?

NoNonsense

November 9th, 2010
5:35 pm

When a man loves a woman he doesn’t lie to her nor place her in a position to have to lie for him.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
5:39 pm

We palynig Jenga tonight or what???? I have this bottle of Crown in my desk and I have been sipping on the sly all day!!! Now, i am ready to cut loose!!!

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
5:39 pm

No Nonsense…I know you don’t remember me but I remember you……yep on point too

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:41 pm

jenga jenga jenga…wondering how the crown will mix with the 151…

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:49 pm

ok, Cee Lo is hilarious….”i really hate your @ss right now….forget you, forget her tooo…”

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
5:50 pm

Blue we need to be careful…They already came in talking this morning and if we start mixing thsi light and dark likka, they might find us passed out naked in the janitors closet….

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
5:51 pm

I see you riding around town with the girl I love and Im like………

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
5:51 pm

Simple and Blue, I am no snitch….please proceed. :)

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:55 pm

im looking at boots, i dont know what Simple Mans doing…(grabbing another shot, how many is that now….avoiding the Crown…)

blue®

November 9th, 2010
5:58 pm

hot d@mn – and their blue !!! jackpot!!!

For Real

November 9th, 2010
6:03 pm

“When a man loves a woman he doesn’t lie to her” – Like does my butt look big in these jeans? Like have I gained any weight? Like do you like my hair? Like do you understand me?

“nor place her in a position to have to lie for him.” – Like having to lie to the police that your man was speeding cause you are preggo and the only reason he was speeding is because your mother gets crazy if you are five minutes late for dinner.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:07 pm

let me see blue….You know we do boots together…

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:08 pm

OK blue those are nice but the 2nd pair from last night were a lot sexier….

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:09 pm

check em out, theirr blllueee

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:10 pm

oh wait, i did do the link right the first time, lol….lets see what else i can find…2nd pair…those were like the thigh highs right? yeah those were nice….

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:12 pm

more like these i think

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:13 pm

I went home and had a dream about those boots last night…They were walking around my house with just some super legs inside…Just a body fromthe waist down stalking me…and I think I liked it!!! LOL

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:14 pm

There you go!!! Just teh boots and a long black duster like Condi Rice wore in that one pic….

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
6:15 pm

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:15 pm

lol, now thats funny…dont think ive had that affect on a guy b4, lol

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:16 pm

looky here, yesterday it was Kathleen Turner, now Condi Rice…do you realize im only 31…you’re making me old! lol

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
6:19 pm

I have had this camera on for a while and no action. I am about to pack it up and go home.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:20 pm

Condi Is 51 But she is powerful and That is SOOOOO sexy!!! Not as sexy as you in those thigh high black boots but sexy nontheless!!!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:21 pm

psst…that corner office is empty today…..

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:21 pm

Ok Blue the camera is about to leave….We soiled the corner office yesterday…Lets go for the conference room tonight!!!

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:23 pm

In the immortal words of one of my blog bothers..”ZIIIIIIIIIIIIPPPPPPP”

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:26 pm

lmao….not your style man, lol…got a pick a conference room, we have like 5…lets go for the big one….

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:30 pm

The Big one it is!!!! Hey…You ever seen one do this before????

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:33 pm

Speaking of big one……..:) :D :)

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:38 pm

hey, wait i think theres someone in there already….

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:39 pm

seen one do what? wait, your not like gonna fold origami with it or anything are you?? cause i had a particular thing in mind, now im wondering……

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:47 pm

How about this …Since I am a gentleman…You can do with it whatever you want!!!!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:49 pm

oooohhh, ok then…lets hope you dont regret that…. ;)

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
6:54 pm

Yeah…thats its……:D :D :D slow down…..Perrrrrrrrrrfect!!!!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
6:58 pm

lol…bringing my paddle next time!!

time for to head on out…nite nite ;)

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
7:01 pm

See ya 2morrow night!!!!LOL

Kym

November 9th, 2010
7:07 pm

Y’all nasty..and I am selling this footage to X-tube!