8:07 am November 9, 2010, by Wise Diva
There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.
Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?
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Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
2:20 pm
lovemakingmore like sexual prowess…kimmie
November 9th, 2010
2:21 pm
Aufton – The only thing I can think I’ve ever used it in is in chili recipes. It’s already in chili powder though. The ground mustard is used in sauces and egg dishes mainly.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm
Purple Rain – Where are you getting this “wishing bad on others” from? Wanting someone to own up to past wrongs doesn’t mean you want something bad to happen to them.
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm
“why couldn’t he be that way with me”
kimmie, I do think a small part of it is being matched well. You know how you have a fly skirt and some killer shoes but they do nothing for each other. They don’t complement each other at all. But matched with different skirt and a different pair of shoes it works great.
I know that is not what you are talking about but I am guilty of taking segments of comments and running with it. LOL
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm
Ared?
no,that’s not it.
See with me,I’m a snob that they talk about but I won’t give them no time.
That is what hurts most folks.They talk about me and I hear that they were talking about mr but I never talk about them.
That what hurts most folks.
My motto is,if it ain’t in my yard,I isn’t worried about it(them)
My Belived Auntie included!
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
2:22 pm
But it’s okay to admit that you don’t think good things should happen to people who wronged you.
ARed I feel you, but I don’t worry about what happens to people who have wronged me. I believe that everything happens exactly the way it’s supposed to, and whatever happens to you (good or bad) after dealing with me is just fine. At least I try to have that outlook…sometimes it’s hard though! lol
dreams everything is not what it seems. I was in a similar situation but actually realized later his life was in shambles and he was just fronting to make his life look like it was going well
Yes yeah you never know what’s actually going on. I can only relay what I’ve been told. If you wrong me, I’m out. What happens to you after that won’t affect me, hopefully.
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:23 pm
Thanks kimmie. This chili weather so I may give it a try in some dishes.
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:24 pm
PR at least every other year. Dying to go back to St. Kitts. $$$ high right now
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:25 pm
AmazonRed, everyday life is where I get it from. What is your definition of owning up to past wrongs? I mean if someone does not apologize to a person or not own up to it, just file it away with every other thing that is disliked about a person. 9 times out of 10 the wronged person is not going to think that the “owning up” is sincere. If God forgives a person who cares if man does not?
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:25 pm
I feel you, but I don’t worry about what happens to people who have wronged me
Dreams – I wouldn’t use the word “worry.” If you feel me, you feel me or you don’t.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:26 pm
I just think a lot of energy is misplaced while waiting on someone to own up to however you think they wronged you.
Delight, I bet the food is good there.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:27 pm
If God forgives a person who cares if man does not?
People care…that’s my point. I’m not saying that it’s right…I’m saying it happens.
You didn’t commit to your wife for YEARS after you got wronged by some other woman.
So I’m saying…it happens. Lets stop acting like people’s bad behavior towards us don’t manifest itself in other ways.
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
2:29 pm
See with me,I’m a snob that they talk about but I won’t give them no time.
That is what hurts most folks.They talk about me and I hear that they were talking about mr but I never talk about them.
Zulu – You & I think alike on this, because I’m the same way with some family members. They talk about me like a dog and speculate, but I just go right on living my life like it’s golden, ignoring them!
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:30 pm
this chili weather ?!
I been wanting some these past two days,I’m in bed,hard as a rock,dude almost giving me a headache,only to be told:
the visiting cleaning lady from Mars ain’t done yet cleaning the chambers!
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:30 pm
it’s a slight pressure
Exactly. But it only takes one time for someone to get too excited. That’s how folks find out they are sadist and others find out they just laid with one.
Besides your breath is already taken while you are climaxing anyway
Exactly again. That’s I don’t need you squeezing my damn neck stopping my air flow.
I talked about this on here with someone else several months back. I didn’t get then and I don’t get it now. But whatever floats your boat. LOL
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:30 pm
Amazon, but I looked at myself first and saw the reasoning for me being wronged and my role in it, I did not commit to my wife because I was loving my single life style and did not know if I was really a man for marriage.(I was very selfish). Not once was I waiting on the woman who wronged me to apologize or for karma to take her down. I just went on with my own healing. Nobody said that other peoples behavior does not manifest in other ways, but waiting on them to do something to “heal” you is just silly.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:31 pm
See with me,I’m a snob that they talk about but I won’t give them no time.
That is what hurts most folks.They talk about me and I hear that they were talking about mr but I never talk about them.
Zulu – You were talking about her on here. Yes, it may never get back to her, but she was on your mind to the point you wanted to vent to a board full of strangers.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:32 pm
but waiting on them to do something to “heal” you is just silly.
No one was talking about that either tho.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:32 pm
“It’s not what your enemies say during the attack that bothers you, it’s what you friends don’t say..their silence that really breaks a person down..whether it be to you or your attackers”
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
2:32 pm
kimmie, how do you usually use cumin? I was just looking thru my spice rack and noticed I have used the cumin hardly ever.
Raqi tacos, fajitas, different stews, beans (especially black beans). As far as the ground mustrard seed, I like to mix it with some brown sugar & honey and use it as a glaze for corned beef.
Dreams – thank you sir, now what was your problem earlier, saw something about me not giving details, what now?
blue you mentioned some birthday pics in reference to tequila. I was saying you need to go on ahead and share those with me.
I want what is meant for me!
kimmie this is the key. what happens to you after your dealings with me is not really my concern. If I focus too much on that, I may be neglecting my own affairs.
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
2:33 pm
Aufton – You are right, sometimes, most of the time, it was just a bad matchup to begin with. You brought out the worst in each other!
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:34 pm
Ared?
What is it u talking about again?
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:35 pm
Zulu – You saying you’re too much of a snob to talk about your baby mama. Not buying that.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:35 pm
LOL, melo you are the most sex minded dude in the world. LOL, give the wife a break to get her chambers cleaned. LOL
Kym
November 9th, 2010
2:36 pm
@Blackfoote..I am not hiding..I am running for the computer to the typewriter..to meetings to outside and back.. Dude..you don’t seriously think the Fakecons are going to the Superbowl. I mean this year is a toss up (I mean good grief the Raiders are winning) but come on the Superbowl..that’s okay dream big..dream big..ya’ll barely got by the Young Bucs..
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
2:36 pm
@Zulu ~ that indeed was TMI!!!!!
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:36 pm
Celisea, where are you?
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:37 pm
The Steelers are not going to the Super Bowl either. LOL
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
2:38 pm
Besides your breath is already taken while you are climaxing anyway
Exactly again. That’s I don’t need you squeezing my damn neck stopping my air flow.
Deserved repeating!
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
2:38 pm
PR – Present
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
2:39 pm
ZULU really :S she doesn’t have an appointment with dentist too I suppose?
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
2:40 pm
PR – working and lurking….I can’t post nonstop on this thing and work
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:40 pm
Ared!
it’s true tho. Not even with Queen.
I think about her when I see her phone number flash on the tv screen on Sunday nites when she’s calling her baby.
And surprisingly, I talk about her only on the blog.
Hardly with my fam or friends.
She’s not in any way a problem(pain),just some discomfort dealing with occasionally!
Kym
November 9th, 2010
2:41 pm
@PurpleRain..whateva..the Brett Farves are talking about firing the coach over..speaking of which..its about time Wade Phillps its about time..now fire some players and the Cowgirls might win at least two of their next 8 games.
Blackfoote
November 9th, 2010
2:41 pm
Zulu:
Cleaning the chambers……….LOL
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:41 pm
Yeah kimmie about like wearing my crocodile pumps with a hounds tooth skirt. A match that should never take place. LOL
SlimNumeroUno
November 9th, 2010
2:42 pm
There was a chick that called into the radio station the other morning about this guy she knows. He actually keeps a written list of folks that have wronged him…He’ll keep a grudge with the people on the list until he hears of something bad that has happened to them. Once he gets that news, he marks them off the list. Talking about crazy
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
2:43 pm
If you feel me, you feel me or you don’t.
ARed ok
Dying to go back to St. Kitts
Delight would love to be there right now.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:43 pm
Zulu – My point is talking about her on the blog is still talking about her. She was a problem the day you interrupted the blog to vent.
Everyone on here is like “don’t worry about your past” blah blah blah. Yeah, I agree. It’s not about worry, no one is saying you spend your days worrying.
But what I’m saying is the times we vent about our past is very much the same in the days we are wronged by others and think (for a moment) “yeah, what goes around comes around.”
Human nature.
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:44 pm
Leggs!?
TMI?
u kidding,I thought I was speaking in code.
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
2:45 pm
Slim….sounds like dude playin with a ouija board or some’n……
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:45 pm
Easily decifered code.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:46 pm
*deciphered
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
2:46 pm
I know that is not what you are talking about but I am guilty of taking segments of comments and running with it.
Raqi I think you can segue any topic into shopping and fashion. lol
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
2:47 pm
@SlimNU ~ that dude is crazy. A bucket list for your enemies!
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
2:47 pm
A Red…..can I say some’n and hope you don’t hold it against me?
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:48 pm
No Ared,were talking about Karma to those who did wrong to us.
I don’t think my baby mama would even fit the topic, maybe my Auntie,coz I really feel she has wronged me,among others.
My baby mama is somebody I ‘wronged’ but she won’t let go.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:49 pm
2Can – I’m going to say “no” for the hell of it and for asking dumbass questions.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:50 pm
My baby mama is somebody I ‘wronged’ but she won’t let go.
Maybe that’s your karma.
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
2:51 pm
ok….I won’t say it then…..