8:07 am November 9, 2010, by Wise Diva
There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.
Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?
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591 comments Add your comment
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
1:55 pm
2C – DEDICATED, DETERMINED, DEPENDABLE!!
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
1:55 pm
Purple Rain: “I choke my wife often….she likes it”
SexyCool
November 9th, 2010
1:55 pm
Whodahell said anything about hunting?
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:56 pm
Delight23, choking at the right time is one of my signature moves. It’s hit or miss though, there is a life in the balance. On one end there is death on the other end it’s pure happiness.
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
1:57 pm
“and is not afraid to dress that days hunt”
um, eeeewww. I don’t even clean fish. Besides, why would I deprive Melvin the Butcher of his claim to fame. :p
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
1:57 pm
zulu you are mean b/c u busted ared’s bubble that karma doesn’t happen. ur funny though
Yes sometimes it doesn’t happen the way envision it. I know this chick whose boyfriend was on drugs, used to beat her, didn’t work, the whole nine. Eventually, she left him and got her life back on track. some years later she ran into him, and he had gotten help, kicked the habit, started his own business, and was married to a nice girl. She was actually a little upset because she always thought karma would make things end up badly for him.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:57 pm
SexyCool, me
Kym
November 9th, 2010
1:58 pm
@Leggs..Are you still listening to Kiss 104 for the names? And I don’t know why you don’t believe me..I was trying.
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
1:58 pm
2CPTG, that’s the problem, you trying to have 5 Foxes. LOL
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
1:58 pm
kimmie…..the ingredients for a winning team…..
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:59 pm
Delight23 to many critters around her not to take some shots at them and then place them on the table and deep freezer.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:59 pm
here
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
1:59 pm
Purple Rain: Delight23, choking at the right time is one of my signature moves. It’s hit or miss though, there is a life in the balance. On one end there is death on the other end it’s pure happiness
Uh, huh.
I will stick with a palm stained arse or a few loose strands of hair. Blessings to you and the Misses, I like O2 too much.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:00 pm
Dreams, that is great the he got his life back together, obviously the gal he was with was a bad combination for the both of them.
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
2:00 pm
@Dreams – another shot, please!
blue I can do supply your needs all day.
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
2:01 pm
I just left Wally World and got approached about selling Mary Kay! For the upteenth time this year!LOL!!
And no, asking me have I been approached about the MANAGEMENT side of Mary Kay won’t help either. Still not interested. It breaks me out anyway, so can’t sell a product I can’t get behind!
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:02 pm
Delight, as any man. Doing a nice soft choke on his woman is a turn on. Or if she gags a little during………things get even hotter
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:02 pm
Well PR, I grew up around a G’ Ma who had a small farm in the islands. Had my fill of watching fish and chicken make it from the sea/land onto my plate. I’m koooool for a looooonnnngggg time.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:03 pm
Oxygen is over rated!!
Delight, that was the best fish and chicken you ever tasted wasn’t it?
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:03 pm
Power excites huh PR? It corrupts too. Angry make-ups sex for y’all takes on a whole new dimension.
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
2:03 pm
Dreams, that is great the he got his life back together, obviously the gal he was with was a bad combination for the both of them.
Purp yeah and she hard time being happy for him at first. she would just keep asking “why couldn’t he be like that when he was with me?” She was cool with it once she completely moved on though.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm
Karma shouldn’t happen the way we envision it. If it did, more people would spontaneously combust.
But it’s okay to admit that you don’t think good things should happen to people who wronged you. Doesn’t mean you’re obsessed with justice or anything. Well…those who are are the ones who throw bricks.
I was smug when my ex got left by the girl he lied to me about. But years have passed and I hear he’s had a child and married his baby’s mama. Good for him.
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm
Kym
November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm
@kimmie you can throw a rock and hit a real estate agent and a Mary Kay Consultant.
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:05 pm
Cutie!
Oh, I see. Did u send it?
Celisea,come on girl!
Kimmie?
Blimpie won but I want to eat both and see(taste) for myself,
I suspect both are cold subs…..hmmmmmm
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:07 pm
Delight23, she slaps me around and is rough with me as well. I like it when she “smothers” me. LOL
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
2:07 pm
Zulu – Celisea,come on girl!
You rang?
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
2:07 pm
@ dreams everything is not what it seems. I was in a similar situation but actually realized later his life was in shambles and he was just fronting to make his life look like it was going well….a slew of bad things happened to him and on top of that he started trying to contact me to bring drama into MY life b/c he thought MY life was so much better apparently……sad part is he used to be in the remote circle that the new bf is in…..i kept my dealings with him on the so low that no one knew. I did not want that out in the open. no way.
Simple Man!!!!
November 9th, 2010
2:09 pm
blue®
November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm
alright popping back in, what are we dealing with now?
@Dreams – another shot, please
Blue…too many more of those And we might be here late again…..
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:09 pm
While in the powder room I had a quick “caution to the wind moment” and told myself I should do a Britney and cut all my hair off. Myself said “you a damn fool”.
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
2:10 pm
Cutie?
I forgot I’m not on speaking terms with one of my Aunties right now(my dads sister)
Evil woman,that’s my perception if get now but one if my fav people,growing up.
She’s in the states right now and will be fir the next six months,visiting her kids up north.
But I ain’t gon to lift my phone to speak to her. I don’t wish her no bad karma,but just rewards,whatever God deems is appropriate in her life.
And Iam at peace,leading my own life.
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:11 pm
Delight23, she slaps me around and is rough with me as well. I like it when she “smothers” me. LOL
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:11 pm
kimmie, how do you usually use cumin? I was just looking thru my spice rack and noticed I have used the cumin hardly ever.
Blackfoote
November 9th, 2010
2:12 pm
Kym:
Kym come out of hiding I was trying to be nince we (might) lose but now we aint trying to get no butt whooping. Ben-gals had a chance at the end to win Thursday could be SB preview. I had gang-green and ATL at first but I like Ravens and ATL.
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
2:12 pm
@Kym ~ yes my ears are peeled to Kiss 104. The Kitty info is being relayed to me. I can’t listen to Frank and Wanda anymore!
@Kym ~ hhhrrrmmmpp!!
I do not understand “choking.” I cannot wrap my hands around that tactic in lovemaking…
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
2:12 pm
“Myself said “you a damn fool”.”
why does this sound like something Mr. Brown…..or, SexyCool would say……
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:13 pm
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich: DONT LISTEN TO THE VOICES!!!
Cut 3″ off one Saturday. Looking in the mirror, voices told me go back the just below the shoulder. Psshhh. Waiting on 2 of those inches to come back.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:14 pm
Delight23, where are you from? Which island?
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:14 pm
The ground yellow mustard is not used either.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:14 pm
melo – You were just trying to rid yourself of you own baby mama a few weeks ago. You’re not fooling anyone with this “kumbaya” stuff.
Delight23
November 9th, 2010
2:15 pm
VI/St.Kitts
blue®
November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm
@Dreams – thank you sir, now what was your problem earlier, saw something about me not giving details, what now?
@PR – i understand ya, just a little pressure at the right moment can do wonders, tho i am a fan of oxygen, lol
@Simple Man – looks like im gonna be here lte anyway, now i’ll just be even funnier than usual
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm
Delight, do you make it back there often?
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm
YES/Dreams – See that’s why vengence is the Lord’s.
I used to wonder sometimes the ole “why couldn’t he be that way with me”. Didn’t waste too much time wondering it, but wondered just the same, I’m human. My mom schooled me hard though about things are often not how they seem from the outside looking in. You don’t know what’s going on in peoples house. So what’s for you is for you. In spite of what looks like a charmed life this person is now living without you, you still could have dodged a bullet. So I don’t allow folks from the past take up any more of my time & stress. That’s giving them way too much power they don’t deserve.
I want what is meant for me!
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm
@ zulu I see what you mean…you shouldn’t harp on it. It will happen but you can’t expect it to happen the way you want it to…they should be doing better and be better not necessarily have their life in shambles as punishment….
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm
blue,
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:16 pm
I do not understand “choking.” I cannot wrap my hands around that tactic in lovemaking
Leggs, I know. I am satisfied having my breath taken away from a good round of rolling O’s, I don’t need him to stop me from breathing literally.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
2:17 pm
I use ground yellow mustard in some of my casseroles.
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
2:17 pm
LOL 2Can. I actually watched an episode of Meet the Browns the other night. It actually made me LOL. A little.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
2:20 pm
I find it funny that when some people wish bad on you …and you have moved on to clean yourself up and live better….they are still doing the same old thing and are mad that you are doing better.