8:07 am November 9, 2010, by Wise Diva
There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.
Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?
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591 comments Add your comment
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
1:12 pm
@Blackfoote ~ the grind was only yesterday. I worked 12.5 hrs yesterday. I was whipped by time I put the key in my door!
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
1:14 pm
@ ARED how about years later she saw him she was walking out a story and looking hotter than a fresh new prada bag that left unattended at a bus stop.
he was in his car and he stopped in front of her all “remember me yo you look better than i remembered” she was like “keeps it rolling”….he was all let by gones be bygones and she was liek “keeps it moving” and went to her car…. so i’m glad it came full circle for her. she’s a good person.
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
1:16 pm
Celisea/Dreams?
I ain’t a sub guy but I’ll admit,if I had to take a new girl to a cheap date and am angling for a first date hit, I’ll whisk her to Firehouse restaurant,get some cheap wine from Publix after she’s full,then take her to her crib,take my shoes off,siton the couch, then just hold my two hands,blow on them like Kobie,about to take a free
throw,hoping shell come sit next to me as we serenade each
other with some cheap chardonay(praying for the nikkas to come off)It’s hot and healthy.
This one I had was real nice.
Tasted like a real meal…next I’m onto Subway.
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
1:16 pm
2CPTG, when I say “handle me” I mean all of me. I am like a cup of Aztec Hot Cocoa. Sweet, smooth, strong, savory and spicy. Head to toe. Inside and out. From the sway of my hips, to the pout in my lips. From the form of my thighs to the flirt in my eyes. I am brain, I am heart, I am beauty, I am smart. I am bittersweet…and I am HIS.
SexyCool
November 9th, 2010
1:17 pm
There is an interview with *one* chick who says she tried to stop them.
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
1:17 pm
Zulu – told ya…good ain’t it? I’m not really into subs either but Firehouse, I like
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
1:20 pm
LOL DreamsMat.
AmazonR, and yet he still grates my nerves sometimes. LOL
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
1:20 pm
Cute – So that guy and his ex did indeed break up? I would have been smug over it too. I’m keeping an eye on couple of mine. Cuz stuff they did was just unnecessary.
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
LOL DreamsMat.
Raqi lol I’m just saying, you can’t be playing with people’s emotions like that. You never know if the straw that breaks the camel’s back is YOU. Mess around and end up on an episode of Snapped. lol
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
2CPTG, how is that for throwing something out there? LOL
That was from a recent Katt Williams video chat when he just started chirping on a girl. LOL
Willie Dynamite
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
Afternoon All,
Leggs – Glad to see you shaking the pink eye off. Just so you know, ifn I get a slight bit of redness in my eyes for the next 4 mos I’m blaming yo ‘getthepinkeyeeveryfourmonths’ azz.
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
sorry about the bold
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
Ared!
keep an eye on ur own dating life…those playas will proly have the best lives,do font stress on that coz u will if u choose too.
A lot of the karma people speak of here is fake.
It’s all feel good karma for good story telling purposes.
Much like Lifetime movies y’all watch!
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
Gouda, when I heard that news story I asked what is this world coming too. Outside of an evil heart what would make someone do that to an innocent person? smh
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:24 pm
But a true champion, face to face with his darkest hour, will do whatever it takes to rise above. A man fights, and fights, and then fights some more. Because surrender is death, and death is for sissies.
SlimNumeroUno
November 9th, 2010
1:26 pm
YSIC – um…I can’t speak for who is #1 persay but i’m still married to the mob…oops I meant 2C
Blackfoote
November 9th, 2010
1:28 pm
Good you got that done and over with. I’m there to catch you falling in door.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
1:29 pm
AmazonR, and yet he still grates my nerves sometimes. LOL
Raqi – Of course, it wouldn’t be true love otherwise.
If you haven’t contemplated murder, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t seriously thought about killing a mofo, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t had a can of rat poison in your hand and looked at it for forty-five minutes straight, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t bought a shovel and a bag and a rug to roll their ass up in, you ain’t been in love. If you haven’t practiced your alibi in front of the mirror, you ain’t been in love. And the only thing that’s stopped you from killing this mofi was a episode of CSI: “Oh man, they thorough. I better make up. They might catch my ass.” – Chris Rock
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
1:31 pm
For those of you who play V103 Kitty, $11,556 is too low and $11,687 is too high!
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:31 pm
Waiting on and finding joy in Karma having a bad effect on someone is worthy enough of getting some bad karma coming your way
SlimNumeroUno
November 9th, 2010
1:32 pm
Ared
but still
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
1:32 pm
@ zulu see that’s why I’m not sending you my picture. you are ornery! LOL
@ ared it does come full circle don’t listen to zulu/melo….i usually predict when the losers come back after they leave. I be like !@#$% you’ll be back! All the ones I said that about came back. I didn’t want them but they came back.
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
1:33 pm
keep an eye on ur own dating life…those playas will proly have the best lives,do font stress on that coz u will if u choose too.
Melo – There isn’t any stress nor worry. There is Facebook.
One of my exes is saddled with a broad on medication for depression after her ex-husband beat her ass and left her and her two kids.. Hey…the heart wants what it wants!
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
1:34 pm
@ ared yes you are so right…I remember the first time I wanted to actually choke him was on labor day. he was working on his car while I was grilling and preparing the food in his normal oblivion. I was like UGH let me go in this house before the neighbors witness some drama. I’m sure he’s been wanting to choke me for a couple weeks now but i think as of yesterday we are good
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:35 pm
“Besides getting shot on the back of the head, do you know what else Abraham Lincoln did? He was a champion wrestler in high school. And I’m not making that up…”
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:36 pm
I choke my wife often….she likes it
I am whatever you say I am
November 9th, 2010
1:37 pm
Dreams: At your 12:42….BOTTOMS UP!!!!!
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm
@WillieD ~ I know, I know!
@Blackfoote ~ that was cute!
Mrs. Aufton Izzabich
November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm
DeramsMat, Mase leaned on me to hold his gun and get the feel of it. He also taught me how to shoot. He did it so that I can try to protect myself and the kids if he ever has to go out of town without us. I was telling one of my girlfriends and she said of all the good my husband has ever done for me teaching me to shoot his gun is at the very top of the list because I just may need to point it at him one day. LOL
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm
“She is sitting there, waiving her cervix around like its the hottest ticket in town.”
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm
Cutie?
Ornery?
I’m real! Why waste time thinking about what ‘revenge’ punishment, if any, God is gon use?
Be blessed a move the heck on and bless the next lucky dude.
now,send me the delivery!
evy
November 9th, 2010
1:39 pm
@ purp 1:24: dying is easy – comedy is hard.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:41 pm
“If you need me I’ll be cruising in my Escalade, err — Denali.”
LURKER-1
November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm
About 5 yrs ago, one of my neighbors was having a sweet 16 party for his daughter and more people showed up than invited. He was trying to get some of the people to leave his house, same as the parent in Douglasville. Well, one bad azz decided to flex his manhood and my neighor shot him. Dead on the spot. Neighbor spent a couple months in jail, but today he’s a free man.
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm
Zulu – Are you doing a market survey?
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm
Cute – I agree. All the exes have come back. And that’s part of the problem. There are girls who drag along the drama and there are ones like me, who will leave you the hell alone. So when you come back and still try to play games, you’re just asking for it.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:42 pm
“I mean, no offense, but you got a crappy job, you’re not quite as tall as me, nobody really respects you. You have me on the other hand. I got the glory, I got the fame, the money, the jewels, the cash, the Denali. Getting drunk on the reg, good times on the reg, yachts on the reg, sex on the reg…” ‘
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
1:43 pm
Dreams: At your 12:42….BOTTOMS UP!!!!!
I am show me what ya workin wit! lol
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:43 pm
“And please, please, please don’t let the fact that Ms. Carol is a lesbian put you off to her. You know how you all think there are 2 kinds of lesbians? There’s the kind on Cinemax that get it on and are hot, and there’s the mean kind? Well, Ms. Carol is neither of those.”
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
1:46 pm
Yes Kimmie?
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:46 pm
Okay that’s all of my Kenny Power’s quotes for the day. LOL, my wife ordered me the first season
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
1:48 pm
teaching me to shoot his gun is at the very top of the list because I just may need to point it at him one day.
Raqi I think all the blog women know how to handle a firearm. Gotta admit I’m turned on by that. lol
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
1:50 pm
@ zulu you are mean b/c u busted ared’s bubble that karma doesn’t happen.
ur funny though
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
1:50 pm
“@ 2CPTG wait so mo and raqi are out of the picture? So does that mean I’m #1 now?” —
Determination
” um…I can’t speak for who is #1 persay but i’m still married to the mob…oops I meant 2C” —–Dedication
How can you NOT love this….a bonafide TEAM!
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:50 pm
Anyone can hold and fire a gun, get me a woman who can handle a rifle and hit a target at 50,75 and 100 yards! LOL..and is not afraid to dress that days hunt
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
1:51 pm
Karma does not happen when you are waiting on it to happen. LOL
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
1:52 pm
and Mo, of course we can talk, sweetie…..you can always come home!
and that bottle of wine you talkin bout……baby, I ain’t hard to please, shoot, I still love Boone’s Farm
Fuzzy Navel….what!
blue®
November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm
alright popping back in, what are we dealing with now?
@Dreams – another shot, please!
AmazonRed™
November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm
@ zulu you are mean b/c u busted ared’s bubble that karma doesn’t happen
Cute – You know I don’t listen to him.
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
1:53 pm
Zulu – Who won Subway versus Blimpie?