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When a man loves a woman

There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.

Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?

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SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:46 am

LOL!
Well considering the fact that I have neither confirmed nor denied whether or not I’m married, a title should be expected at this point.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
10:48 am

Raqi:

Sounds like hubby has you covered which is what it is all about. Wouldn’t doubt a bit that you have his back too.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:49 am

Love made me get up before 5am this morning to make him breakfast before his best bud got here to pick him up. LOL

Love makes me talk about him. LOL

Love made me think just a second ago, “I wonder if he will like if I baked this recipe for a sour cream pound cake for dinner?.

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
10:50 am

u know a dude loves u and is serious about you once u start (accompaning him to) or getting inside his inner family circles.

Zulu – I remember you telling me this really didn’t mean much. You said you’ve brought women around your family before that you were not serious about. :lol:

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:50 am

Melo – I knew she was a real strong heifer when we banged the whole nite long in the hotel room and we forgo breakfast in the restaurant downstairs for room service instead,coz we didn’t wanna waste time!

Folks get their backs beat out all the time and pretty much cause they want to and most times (not all) nothing to do with love….you can’t qualify a rompfeast as proof positive.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
10:52 am

Not mine. He is going to get the spare jacket that he keeps in his trunk and tell me to put it on. LOL

:idea:

That’s what my point is… I’m seeing all these lists…and it still doesn’t mean an man in love with you will do such things…

It depends on YOUR man, if you have one. If not, you can only hope he does certain things. :lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:52 am

Love makes me tolerate his occasional moodiness.

Love keeps me from bashing his head in when he makes me mad.

Love nudges me to put out when he is so wrong.

Love won’t let me spend too much of his money on useless crap.

Love teaches me to obey the marriage.

LURKER-1

November 9th, 2010
10:53 am

My wife know I must LOVE HER when she asks me to pick up a box of kotex. Especially when I only have a couple of items. When I was in college, many many decades ago, I swore to the fellas, I wouldn’t be in the line with a box of kotex :-)

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:53 am

LOL SexyCool. My email box is empty.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:55 am

That’s what my point is… I’m seeing all these lists…and it still doesn’t mean an man in love with you will do such things…

Imma have to agree here….I was sort of thinking the same. Most of the things listed is sort of what you do when you’re in a relationship of relating or cool with each other, fond of each other, etc….I wouldn’t equate to love. IMO, during ups and downs, ins and outs, the good and the bad, disagreements, coming back when for some other chick/dude you would have left…so forth and so on.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
10:55 am

Kimmie!

I said I did to as my way of ‘qualifying them’

If it only happened once or twice and she didn’t make it,then she was cut!

Consistency,at the end of the day will trump everything Kimmie.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

Purple: i said I would offer the dude a bite- I always do :-)
but I knew how much this dude loved me because all he had was $5 in his pocket and he bought me something to eat that I knew he liked as well.
Before I started eating, I asked him if he would like some and still politely declined even though I insisted.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

LURKER-1….My wife know I must LOVE HER when she asks me to pick up a box of kotex

All this time, I thought you was a woman.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

AmazonRed, why in the heck would someone tolerate sweating like a hungry horny pig in a closed up car when he can just offer you a jacket for your warmth and comfort?

See my love wouldn’t even allow me to put the one I love in certain illogical situations.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
10:56 am

It depends on YOUR man, if you have one.
ARed true indeed. I show my love how I show it, not how those before me did. I would hate for my love to be questioned because it didn’t jive with some predetermined list. How are you this morning, btw?

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
10:57 am

Celisea!

That hotel feat was not about love.

U see, I’m mixing and spicing as I move along.

Kym

November 9th, 2010
10:57 am

@SexyCool..Unless you are saving this for Day 21..I would have thought nupitals would have been a Day two thang. By the By one of my fb buddies is now doing the same thing..so your friends idea is catching on.

Da_Man!

November 9th, 2010
10:57 am

You know a man is in love when he let’s a woman wash his clothes, clean his house, & cooks his meals.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Melo – U see, I’m mixing and spicing as I move along.

Ahhh, gotcha

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Celisea, I agree too however to state what has proven to be love for you would not be unfounded.

And you know I just like to make long lists when the topic affords it. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Love is different for each party.
There is no cookie cutter definition on what love is.
Only you know what love is based on your own experiences.

For those that haven’t had love, I hope you one day find it but you have to start with yourself first.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
10:58 am

Zulu:

“I knew I loved her when I showed my mom a portrait pic of her that was in my wallet.”

Zulu in you wallet dude……….LOL

I knew I loved her when I showed my mom a portrait pic of her that was in my wallet.

AmazonRed™

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

AmazonRed, why in the heck would someone tolerate sweating like a hungry horny pig in a closed up car when he can just offer you a jacket for your warmth and comfort?

See my love wouldn’t even allow me to put the one I love in certain illogical situations

Raqi – Agreed. I looked at the list and knew my dad wouldn’t have done most of that stuff. But he came home every night, never was out in the streets and handed his paycheck over to my mom…

Even if she had to take out the trash. :lol:

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

Rock – I am always concerned about whether or not TheDude likes what I’ve cooked. I mean, I know that I can cook….but, I just like to know that he likes the taste of it..because every now and then…even those of us who can cook have an off day sometimes.

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

Raqi – And you know I just like to make long lists when the topic affords it. LOL

Ahhh, yeah…LOL It’s okay though, carry on…we understand

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
10:59 am

You know a man is in love when he let’s a woman wash his clothes, clean his house, & cooks his meals.

Da_Man, in other words when he marries her. LOL

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:02 am

Zulu – I guess that’s just your way. Cause with most that I know of, if he doesn’t take you around the family that’s a SURE sign he’s not into you. It won’t even happen 1 or 2 times. At the same time, most of the guys I’ve dealt with consistently took me around the family, but I didn’t get a ring. So I don’t really use that as a measure anymore, unless he didn’t take me around them AT ALL.

You are right, consistency is a key component when it comes to most things in a relationship though.

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
11:02 am

anyone know where I can find discount sterling silver jewerly in the perimeter area?

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:03 am

SexyCool, yeah. See to so many something like that does not even matter. YourDude can easily say he knows his SexyCool one loves him because she wants to prepare her meals to his liking. A lot of men can’t say that about his woman.

So while many may not see some of the humor in my lists acts of love is love to the one it is to.

evy

November 9th, 2010
11:04 am

mornin, all!

evy

November 9th, 2010
11:05 am

the specific expressions differ from one man – one person – to another, of course, but one sign that i think is usually pretty reliable is if/how far outside of his comfort zone he is willing to step for her. from little things like trying a food that is new to him (or something he actually dislikes!) that he would never try on his own just because she cooked it for him to maintaining a relationship with her that has most of his family & friends up in arms and on his back because she’s older/younger/different race or religion…people are much less likely to do such things for those who are not genuinely important to them. sex is easy – no need to go there just for sex, and, as far as i’ve ever been able to observe, most people won’t. but if your man is out on a limb for you, take a moment and look deeply into his eyes…

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:05 am

Da-Man!

A woman with 3/4 kids will wash ur clothes, no problem!

@Blackfoote.. U know us married folks keep our kids in our wallets. When u still maintaing a rotation of chics, u can’t risk a single portrait in ur wallet coz it might drop at the least opportune time and u get busted! :lol:

:lol: and she cooks for u too

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
11:06 am

AmazonRed: “That’s what my point is… I’m seeing all these lists…and it still doesn’t mean an man in love with you will do such things…”

Like I was telling 2G, I need explicit. Non of that you have to see it to believe it. :?: I need to know from you how you express your love. We could be on totally different pages.

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:07 am

cooks for u was for Da-Man!

kimmie

November 9th, 2010
11:07 am

Aufton – You took the words right out of my mouth, cause that sounds like married lady stuff Da Man listed.

Da Man – Plenty guys “let” women do all that stuff and they are not a bit in love with her!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
11:07 am

“Even if she had to take out the trash.”

:lol: yep. that’s what that check was for. :P

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
11:09 am

I am whatever you say I am: “Love is different for each party.
There is no cookie cutter definition on what love is.”

Clear and Explicit. This is how I do it….

Zulu!

November 9th, 2010
11:12 am

I knew I lived her when I agreed to buy her her menstrual stuff when I went to public to grab some milk and bread.

Standing in the feminie isle looking at the different kinds of vaginal seals,I never felt any bit insecure comparing prices.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:15 am

Delight….love is in the eye of the beholder, babygirl……I mean it could be something simple that he does to display his love….ain’t necessarily gotta be an all consuming list…as Ared said, any random dude can do any of those things on Raqi’s list, but it doesn’t equate to love….

love will make you put up with some stuff that lust won’t tolerate….

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:18 am

kimmie, exactly. While many of my tongue in cheek listed acts does not imply love, the lack there of for many is a guarantee that the love is not there.

My oldest brother has a saying of “it’s not all the time so much of what you do that tells the story but more of what you don’t do”.

It’s something like that, but I think you understand what I mean.

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
11:18 am

Zulu:

The feminine aile is awkward for a man to be in but shows a lot of love………LOL

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
11:19 am

looked at the list and knew my dad wouldn’t have done most of that stuff. But he came home every night, never was out in the streets and handed his paycheck over to my mom…

Frankly, mine either…LOL Married 54 years and 7 mos to moms and no way in the world he would do most of what was listed…maybe before the kids came and maybe before I was born as I was the last of 8 and born during their “middle age” years….maybe maybe not. When I came along maybe it was too many kids by then, too many bills and too much work to be had for being romantic…maybe maybe not. But from what I knew of him, I doubt he ever did. One thing I know for certain, he loooooved himself some mama.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:20 am

2CPTG, you do know my lists are usually laden in corny humor right?

Purple Rain

November 9th, 2010
11:20 am

My wife loves me enough to not even ask me to go get her lady products.

Da_Man!

November 9th, 2010
11:20 am

Enter your comments here

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
11:22 am

Love is action. Deeds. It makes a man come home and pay the bills. It makes a woman have his back.

In whatever form it displays itself it is what it is to the one it matters to.

Fion

November 9th, 2010
11:22 am

Morning Folks,
I’ve been posted up over on the wall for a minute checking out the flow. Some of the ladies have asked, “how can I be sure’? “How can I know when a man is in love with me”?
There is a certain Universality to it ladies. At the risk of losing my card to the Club (man) and being disbarred here it goes.
When a man is in love with you ladies he gives:
his Love, his Honor, his Affection and his Protection to you.
Now, you’re right, you can be shown 1of the 4, or even 2 or 3 of the 4, but unless you have 4 of 4 your man ain’t all in.
When you have 4 of 4 he’s all in “Full Monty”. And I’m off (British).

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
11:24 am

Purp:

LOL……..It shows she really loves you man.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 9th, 2010
11:26 am

I never understood why buying feminine products for your girl was such an embarrassment. I mean, it basically shows:

1) I’m not gay

2) In about 4 days, I’m gonna be getting regular puddy again

What am I supposed to be embarrassed about again? :lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
11:28 am

“2CPTG, you do know my lists are usually laden in corny humor right?”

might be another reason “Raqi” got banned…..corny humor don’t cut it, either……I’m jus’ sayin….