8:07 am November 9, 2010, by Wise Diva
There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.
Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?
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591 comments Add your comment
SlimNumeroUno
November 9th, 2010
3:55 pm
For Real I know you didn’t just shake your w@ang at us?!
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
3:55 pm
Mo….sweetie…haven’t you had enough to drink for one day?
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
3:56 pm
dude Mike P how bout you fall back a bit? k? I’m the last one need a 10 paragraph post on what I need to do….I’m good turst me. I “waiting” on nothing and neither do I prescribe to “fluff”…aka “stuff guys do for women” Yeen gotta tell me. Having a man doing nice gestures is okay but heck I know that ain’t proof positive to love. Since you wanna go there…how bout one woman, when a million passes you by. You can resist? You on your way. How bout both feet hitting the floor EVERYDAY to make a living and home? How about sticking out through the good the bad and the ugly…cuase you love me and comitted and I’m/it’s worth it? I ain’t one for listing warm fuzzies cause a scandalous dude can do that better than a true blue on most days.
blue®
November 9th, 2010
4:00 pm
@yES – for shame, now i want choclate turnovers….
@Mo – oh we’re doing rounds, another one please!
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
4:00 pm
@ simple man and @ zulu my ex called me when he saw my status on facebook about my bestie dying and he called me from some unknown number was like yeah this my number no one has it not even my mom so you should feel special//i was like ummm ok?
For Real
November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm
“But, you must past drug test so don’t waste your time if your pee ain’t clean or your hair strand is tainted!!!!” – Reminds me of these Outkast lyrics:
Can’t gamble feeding baby on that dope money
might not always be sufficient but the Untied Parcel Services and
the people at the Post Office didn’t call you back
because you had cloudy piss.
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm
I think all of us ladies will be just fine
DITT-FREAKIN-O…bet Mike P still got milk on his breath
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm
how you gon’ have a number yo mama ain’t even got…….shoot, that’s lame in itself!
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:01 pm
@SlimNU ~ I had to look at the acronym twice then say to myself OH NO HE DIDN’T, then see him offering black cake cuz his zipper is open!
@Mo ~ yes it is the devil and I can’t believe it’s still on the market, along with Thunderbird!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 9th, 2010
4:03 pm
2CPTG – LOL! well….maybe since I normally dont drink during working hours. However its been a helluva day so I think I deserve one more.
I am not liking these shorter days already…..
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
4:04 pm
For Real…..you ever fail a drug test…..then, some Dr. from Maryland or somewhere calls you, and you act all surprised….like, ” huh…..what, I failed? I don’t even smoke….I be around people that smoke…”
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:05 pm
LOL
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:06 pm
@For Real ~ on point!
SexyCool
November 9th, 2010
4:06 pm
For Real – A note from Friday – YO ass is colorblind. LOL!
And where are my journals?
Simple Man!!!!
November 9th, 2010
4:07 pm
Ok cuteness…I know you did not fall for that….He was attempting to catch you at a moment of weakness and hit you with the “banana in the tailpipe trick” Yuor next question should have been,” what are you, Ten???” Why are you hididng phone numbers from your mom???
For Real
November 9th, 2010
4:07 pm
Don’t give your moms your phone nimber???? Dang who is his mom Maud?
Slim: Yes I did cause I have been sitting for awhile.
Celisea: “cause a scandalous dude can do that better than a true blue on most days.” – That was some real big girl talk right there. For Real now giving you a special SMDW.
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:08 pm
We have one more hour…anybody got a situation they need help with? The blog couch is unoccupied….
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
4:08 pm
@ 2CPTG I think the ex wants me back or something idk no big deal….but i got my bf’s number, both his sister’s number, his dad’s cell phone and his parent’s house number…..so I think I’m good
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
4:09 pm
Is it true,record companies won’t sign a budding rapper unless he flunks his drug tests or has a decent rap sheet?
Why do clean folks like Akon,Kanye,etc pretend they have rap sheets?
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
4:09 pm
Dreams – can I get one more please?
Mo you know I got you. as long as you good, I’m good.
Mo – oh we’re doing rounds, another one please!
blue I done lost count on how many you had…of course it could be because I been doing two for every one of yours.
Wise Diva
November 9th, 2010
4:10 pm
Leggs, ohhhgirl, that blog couch needs a disclaimer on it LOL
For Real
November 9th, 2010
4:10 pm
“anybody got a situation they need help with?” – Yes I c.a.n.’.t s.e.e.m t.o g.e.t t.h.i.s Z.i.p.p.e.r down.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 9th, 2010
4:12 pm
Our phones are down at work, I still have and hour and 45mins left at work AND Im sleepy as heck!!
For Real
November 9th, 2010
4:13 pm
“And where are my journals” – Zippppppppppppp… Right here but you will need to use white ink and write really small.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 9th, 2010
4:13 pm
LMBAO! Leave it up to For Real!!
kimmie
November 9th, 2010
4:14 pm
Zulu – Now you know thats all part of the act! They gotta come at you all hard from the mean streets to prison to parole!LOL!!!
DreamsMaterialize
November 9th, 2010
4:15 pm
I don’t even smoke….I be around people that smoke…”
HAHAHA this excuse never dies.
Why do clean folks like Akon,Kanye,etc pretend they have rap sheets?
Zulu same reason Rick Ross denied being a corrections officer. The silent truth is that alot of those dudes are clean and get this……….smart. There’s so much dumbing down in the industry it’s a shame. Of course they would argue that they’re just giving the people what they want…in other words calling their fans dumb.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:16 pm
Celisea, do you know that I love you? LOL
I have a number that my mother does not have, she would talk me to death if she had my cell number
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:16 pm
Dad has it my mother does not. LOL
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:16 pm
@WD ~ you’re absolutely correct. Common sense should tell all to leave the murder plots, money heists (even puddy/wang heists), drug issues and such away from the couch….don’t need the police shutting us down! Just everyday relationship issues. Dr. Ruth has closed her offices. (LOL)!
2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"
November 9th, 2010
4:17 pm
“@ 2CPTG I think the ex wants me back or something idk no big deal….”
tell him you are happily blog married! And if he has a problem with it, to give me a call…..and I’ll happily tell him some lies and he won’t bother you anymoe.
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
4:18 pm
PR – Celisea, do you know that I love you? LOL
Yep so much so that I kill it and dress it fer ya
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:18 pm
@ForReal ~ OMG, I walked right into that!
SexyCool
November 9th, 2010
4:18 pm
I’m not talking to you anymore today…
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:19 pm
I don’t think any rapper keeps it street? If they were why are they rapping?
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
4:20 pm
Dreams!
calling fans dumb?
kinda sad seeing that a lot of people in america,kids included, are celebrity stuck.
Now I really hate a grown man or woman that swears by a celebrity,follow their every tit bit.
Heifer!..read a book!
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:22 pm
I have a big bowl of 3 Musketeers on my desk that my boss brought in. Thank goodness I don’t like 3 Musketeers!!!
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:24 pm
I think if you your kids are celeb struck always on twitter or blogging about some star, you have failed as a parent. Nothing wrong with being a fan etc, but there should be a balance and the parent the biggest influence
YesSheIsCute
November 9th, 2010
4:24 pm
@ Dreams I had that conversation before with a couple of people. One of my friends worships Jay-Z I told him he said he dumbs down for his fans so he can double his dollars calling you, a fan, essentially stupid. Speaking on your behalf that you don’t have enough nerve endings in your brain to decide what you want and on top of that not enough nerve endings to desire a musician who talks about topics that mean something…..he basically was like “whatever I like him” i was like case-in-point….
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
4:24 pm
random: My friend is interviewing…3rd one. I thought she was 90% guaranteed for the job. Well, folks have beening doing their 3rd interview all day…all of them I know except one. All of them I now sharp folks. While I think my friend has the edge on job knowledge, there was one chick that I know is good and carries a rep for being good at what she does. As it relates to interacting and having that “thing” I think she edges out ahead of my friend. Got my fingers crossed…c’mon you can get it…
Zulu!
November 9th, 2010
4:25 pm
Cutie?
unknown number? To who?
Are u talking about a private,not disclosed line?
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:25 pm
Leggs, is one Musketeer more your speed?
Celisea
November 9th, 2010
4:26 pm
know not now
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 9th, 2010
4:27 pm
PR – I agree totally with you on your last post. There were plenty of artists I was a fan of as a kid but never like some of these kids.
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:27 pm
Jay Z has been selling the some dope in just different packages for years. But yet people still buy it likes it’s new. Smart business man though..
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:28 pm
Mo, some kids are obsessed. Let’s not even talk about adults who are. LOL
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:29 pm
I don’t idolize anyone, but I do like Diana Ross and Cher!
SlimNumeroUno
November 9th, 2010
4:29 pm
I think Almond Joy and Mounds are a Candy Couple…Almond Joy has nuts, Mounds don’t. lol
Purple Rain
November 9th, 2010
4:29 pm
(4:27)selling the same dope
Leggs ™
November 9th, 2010
4:30 pm
And I’ve never seen either one in concert! I use to work with a girl that has seen Bon Jovie in concert 15 tims. She tries to get to as many of his shows as she possibly can even if it means buying a plane ticket…hell to the NOT!