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When a man loves a woman

There are scores of women who are completely clueless when it comes to recognizing how a man shows his love. Of course every man has their own unique way of expressing their affection and love. I think part of a woman’s job in a relationship is learning who her man is and how he expresses himself.

Granted, some men are hard to figure out, but aren’t there ways to tell when a man is in love?

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YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:14 am

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:15 am

There are ways…generally speaking if I feel confused it seems obvious to me he must not be feeling me like that. Even without the words I should be able to feel that he is crazy about me. But that’s just my opinion us youngins don’t really know all that much anyway….

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
8:16 am

YSIC – Good morning chica…lemme finish spraying this Lysol around the office first. I get a strange feeling something naughty went on in here last night…the desk and stuff were all in disarray, especially that one in the corner with the view. lol

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:16 am

“…can’t keep his mond on nothing else.”

Ah shucks I’m gonna have this song in my head all day :-) Bom dia peoples!!

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:17 am

*sp: mind not mond. Coffee too strong. :lol:

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:22 am

@topic: Yes, if you know your man, which comes with a little time and consistency. I had an ex who was not into flowers and candy BUT was a big fixer-upper, kept my car maintained, new tires, hire those guys that washed it at the house, would get my lawn manicured, bought me a new flat screen AND washer and dryer.

I had an ex who was big on jewelry, flowers and trips. Would call AAA befor he messed up his clothes to change a tire :lol: . You just have to know your man and appreciate the love however it is shown.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
8:36 am

Morning Ladies….I think I left something in the corner office yesterday…Did anyone see anything out of the norm this morning????

On topic….You ladies got it right…Know your man…Understand that if he loves you, he will do it inthe best way that he can, Even if it is 100% different than your old boyfriend did….

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:36 am

Good morning everyone!
@ Slim I actually came in on that didn’t know we worked so late in here lol

@ Delight you are really right I had to realize that you can’t expect everyone to love you the way you want them to…everyone has their own way of showing love either you can accept it or move on to someone who shows love the way you want. If a lot of people realized this a lot of people would be happier in their relationships.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
8:47 am

g’ morning….

when a man loves a woman…..trust me…..you’ll know it….one of them things you can’t explain; you just know it, and he’ll show it.

morning wifeys….y’all been slackin lately! But I’mma still show y’all my love….

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
8:47 am

Simple & YSIC – If yall gonna be in here all late, we expect you to put everything back the way you found it. There was something sticky on the copying maching too which I didn’t bother to touch. So one of yall need to tend to that before the day gets started. lol

Simple – so how can a chick tell when you’re IN love?

Sweet Pea

November 9th, 2010
8:50 am

Good Morning! I believe Babyface song, “As Soon As I Get Home” sums it up for some! However, it does not take all of that if they don’t have it. I feel their actions(things they do to express their love) and ultimately how they make you feel let’s you know there is love for you.

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
8:54 am

Hey slim…I will take care of that thing with the copier in a bit…How can a women tell whenI am in love….Hmmmmmmm…
I have lost people that I love dearly, so My number one thing is to make sure that I say what I feel as much as showing it, so when I am in love, in addition to all of the things that I do I make it a point to actually tell them that I love her…..And not just in passing, but I make it a point to say it in a way that at least for the moment, removes all doubt…I refuse to ever be in a position where I miss a chance to say whats in my heart again…..

Kym

November 9th, 2010
8:54 am

Good Morning All,

Happy Post Steeler Victory Day!

Why did this post remind me of that line..Learning your man while you earning your man..I agree with everyone else’s statements this morning..Why is this floor sticky? Freaks!

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
8:54 am

Good morning @ 2CPTG

@Slim that was blue and simple…I just walked in on it…:lol:

I am whatever you say I am

November 9th, 2010
8:55 am

Simple man: what is this business I hear about you wearing thigh high boots and fishnets :shock:
Son, seek therapy!

Back on topic: It is so not hard for me to tell if a man loves me.
In the beginning, they start to say the L word which is nice to hear but it’s the actions that make an impact.
You can have the hardest badest dude out there but when he is in love, he is weak in the knees when it comes to his woman. In public, he is the strong Lion but behind closed doors, he is a chihuahua when it comes to his woman that he loves.

The things that guys (that have loved me) have done for me without me asking or thinking it, let me know just how much I meant to them.
I have not been in love with that many people, but those guys will always have a special place in my heart.

Off topic: Dear blog,
I am very very saddened over the death of that innocent young man that was beat to death over no reason. I am sick and tired of all the killing that is going on between the youth. I feel so powerless. I want to do something about it. :-(
I am so scared now for when my 2 year old becomes a teenager. We have to do something about this : these are the kids that our young kids may look up to and these are the kids that (sadly) will be taking care us, making decisions that affect us while we try to collect medicare in our old age.
I’m just asking that we all pray for the youth and if you have the opportunity-mentor a child.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
8:57 am

“Morning Ladies….I think I left something in the corner office yesterday…Did anyone see anything out of the norm this morning????”

See I’m still new, but I know NOT to wander into any corners up in this blog. Can’t help ya. :mrgreen:

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
8:59 am

Damn Cuteness….Do you have to tell EVERYBODY????

Celisea

November 9th, 2010
9:02 am

When a man loves a woman? You just know. I agree can’t really be explained. And how he expresses is unique to him and is driven by it.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
9:15 am

@ Simple Man I thought it was common knowledge my bad

Leggs ™

November 9th, 2010
9:17 am

Good morning!

@SweatPea ~ you came with the right song.

There are many ways to tell when your man loves you. Not necessarily with his words, but with his actions and his eyes. When he looks at look you can basically read his mind!!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
9:18 am

Morning peoples…yawwwnnnn…
whats the topic? when a man loves a woman….hmmmm…im a big believer in the idea that the little things do matter. little things that they didnt used to do, that really there is no reason for them to do x,y,z except for you. also, as far as women interpreting it, i think a big thing we need to understand is that their not all the same, just because one had flowers delivered to you all the time doesnt mean the one your with now doesnt love you cause he only gets flowers on your birthday. let them be themselves not copies of your past….

jerry

November 9th, 2010
9:18 am

Ladies if a man loves a woman he will put up with almost anything cause he loves her. In return all he wants is a smile, a hug, a kiss, a kind word and a laugh. If other things come along then it is that much better. Looks fade away over time, but a heart and soul lives for eternity .

too bad I’m older than my wife of 40 and she thinks a bit different but one day as she grows wiser with age she will understand those roses cut and placed by her bed side and those gentle touches
were shared because I loved her. Too bad she has missed out on the last year of our life because pride always gets in each others way.

If for some reason she reads this let her know Tiger, Jack and I still love her . A tune I wrote not so long ago went like this “Do you see me in the stars when you go out at night, Are you there wishing I was holding you tight. Do you remember me. This old ghost can’t hold you when I die.
The experts say diamonds never die and maybe that why the sky is full or them.
Do you see my in the sky when you go out at night. That old man in the moon is just a picture of me little old me. *Love is found in many strange places and time has love stories to tell.
Love songs are written in tears and smiles and I hope some day darling each of you will understand.Love is meant to last an eternity and in my prayers I pray that you are safe.

Come back if you so choose. The walk down the roads of life are just directions blowing in the wind. Honey one day you will figure out what “Love’ really is.

To Veronica form that one man that really does love her. Jerry

The song above can be shared with someone special all you have to do is hum it .

Wise Diva

November 9th, 2010
9:19 am

Good morning! Headed back to Atlanta today, there’s no place like home!

Would it be easier to define when a man is NOT in love? LOL. I want to know what kind of behavior a man tends to show when he knows he “met the one” though.

DreamsMaterialize

November 9th, 2010
9:19 am

Morning
I’m a doer, not a talker. So, my actions will clearly show that I’m all into you.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
9:26 am

I am whatever you say I am 8:55 am
Simple man: what is this business I hear about you wearing thigh high boots and fishnets
Son, seek therapy!

^^^ That right there is why I stay outta da corners. :?

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
9:31 am

@ Dreams what actions are consistent with being in love as opposed to just caring?

Mrs. JtJ

November 9th, 2010
9:32 am

Morning All,

Well, I am a women that values actions over words, and I believe men like to “show” you how much they love you better than they can tell you! I have heard “I Love You” thrown around so loosely, so if I hear the words, I am expecting some actions that will further drive that notion home. And it will be reciprocated on my part as well.

If you love something, you crave it, you care for it, you nurture the desire for it, you feed into it, and tend to it, and watch it grow before your very eyes!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:37 am

How do I know my man loves me? Let me count the ways.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:38 am

First of all, if he doesn’t he has an odd way of showing that.

He makes sure I am taken care of in all areas.

He doesn’t hold my past against me.

He shares his FruitLoops with me.

He is here for me when I need him. And even when I don’t.

He tells me sometimes

He listens to me ramble on about nothing.

He has taken time to know the symptoms of when I am not feeling well.

He tells me “you are not supposed to be eating that”.

He keeps coming back for more.

He laughs at my corny jokes.

He was genuinely okay with that mishap that happened Sunday and told me there is no need to apologize.

He’ll sometimes let me hold the remote. LOL

He occasionally gives me a piggyback ride.

He only complains sometimes when I hog the covers.

He lets me sit in the front sometimes when we take a bath together.

He never lets the seat down.

He sometimes apologizes even when he knows he is not the one wrong.

He hasn’t thrown my clothes from his side of the closet. Yet.

He will leave me a sip when he drinks from my bottle of Snapple.

Mrs. JtJ

November 9th, 2010
9:39 am

The actions of man who “loves” a woman may be some the same things he will do when “likes” or “ cares” for her a lot. ( I know, I know….not every guy) …But, the difference with those actions are now that he does these things sometimes without even thinking about and without expecting anything in return. And he is not keeping tabs of “all that I have done for you”…….

Love is a very splendid thing indeed! Just feeling lovely this morning!!!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:40 am

WiseDiva, why is Radiant Ardent Quaint Intensity not allowed on this blog? LOL

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
9:40 am

Delight…Having the fishnets stockings on my head with he crotch across my face does not constitute WEARING them…. (I hate it when they get the story wrong…)

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
9:41 am

Good Morning:

How to tell a man is in love: he will take you to meet Mom and family if available, will show chivalry is not dead and, will massage your feet and help you put your boots on, will shield you from any type of harm.

Delight23

November 9th, 2010
9:42 am

Too many ladies in here anwering this question. Where da men at? :?: :?

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:43 am

Blackfoote, I have found that a man will put his own mother in her place when it comes to the woman he loves.

Delvin

November 9th, 2010
9:46 am

That’s one of my favorite Percy Sledge songs.

YesSheIsCute

November 9th, 2010
9:47 am

Blackfoote

November 9th, 2010
9:47 am

Raqi:

That is correct some Moms can try and hijack a mans love for another woman.

SlimNumeroUno

November 9th, 2010
9:48 am

‘Too many ladies in here anwering this question. Where da men at?’

Delight – Great observation…lololol MEN SPEAK UP!

blue®

November 9th, 2010
9:50 am

@Raqi – i love your list – esp. this one – He shares his FruitLoops with me – now thats love, lol

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
9:52 am

Ok..I just hung up the phne withthe last woman I was in love with and I asked her how did she know I was serious about hhow I felt about her and her answer surprised me…. She said that while she always knew I cared…One day when we were in Florida, She caught me looking at her and there was something in my eyes that was not there before…She said she looked into my eyes and saw a piece of my soul that she had never seen and that was teh moment that changed everthing for her….That was the moment that she knew I loved her and that she had to end our realtionship because was not sure if she would ever be able to look at me in that manner….

Kym

November 9th, 2010
9:52 am

Hmmm would taking a day off work to play naked hide and seek count as love or lust? I say both

Simple Man!!!!

November 9th, 2010
9:53 am

Morning blue…. How you doing this morning girl????

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
9:54 am

“MEN SPEAK UP!”

Look, women…..we don’ tol’ y’all….you’ll know it when it occurs…..to sit here and say, I show my love cause I do this, that, and the other, is asinine….you gotta be in love to see love….

LovelessinATL

November 9th, 2010
9:54 am

jerry your post was so sweet, it made tears well up. good luck with her coming back, man!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:55 am

A woman becomes a priority in the life of the man that loves her.

Mrs. Aufton Izzabich

November 9th, 2010
9:56 am

LOL Blue Yep. He loves his FruitLoops so he must really loves me to share them with me.

HotMess

November 9th, 2010
9:58 am

Whatever….love woulda brought your as$ home last night!

SexyCool

November 9th, 2010
9:58 am

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 9th, 2010
9:59 am

Mrs. A, you prolly banned ’cause of them long ass soliloquys…..you know Diva don’t play that no ‘mo……