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The perfect night out

I really only have one main goal for a date: have fun. I don’t stress over the small stuff like showing cleavage, straying away from depressing topics, or staring too long at the guy’s biceps (it’s a problem sometimes!).

I never know what to expect by the end of the night but I can say that some of the best times I’ve had on a date happened because it felt natural. To me, the perfect night out is when I have laughed really hard, discovered something totally new that I like to do, or I’ve had this amazing connection with someone.

This is when I go skipping home like a high school girl all giddy about the possibilities of having another perfect night out. What’s your idea of a really great date?

When was the last time you had a really good time with friends or on a date?

325 comments Add your comment

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:17 pm

Kym:

I’m here late on a Friday not the usual or on any other day for that matter but if you don’t want me to get Blackfoote II for you I’ll just fanagle on out here he’s still locked away upstairs.

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:19 pm

Speaking of alter egos (Twanda, Maa Shu Shu, Tarzanda)…..I use to have a bad habit if labeling folks if they didn’t conduct business on a professional level (and not knocking the job itself, just the interaction) after they’d step away with “what a Bonquesha” or something of the sort. One day eating at IHOP, our Waitress ooozing ghettofab albeit nice, took the order and walked. Out of the blue, my baby looked at me, being about 4 or 5 and said “Momma, that’s BONQUESHA, SHAQUITA ANNNNND KELOLO….although it was fuuuunnneee at the time, seeing her size it up almost made me fall out of the booth. From that day forward I stopped.

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:19 pm

Damn how do I always wind up at the top of the next page?

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:20 pm

And I just bet Blackfoote I and Blackfoote II are identical and resembles so much so that no one can tell ‘em apart

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
3:22 pm

Sail across theee waaaaaaaater…
better stop playing with fiya…

Dreams – um…errrrr….wow
slim awww cut it out. You the one who tossed the ball up…so I slammed it.

dreams you are not right! lol
Yes my bad. lol I better stay clear of the banishment line.

would you eat that beef curtain the way you eat “steaks butterflied, juicy and oh so slightly pink in the middle”
Hot who are you? do YOU have a beef curtain? ;-)

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:23 pm

Celisea:

Now that’s hitting below the belt……..LOL

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:24 pm

Blackfoote – Now that’s hitting below the belt……..LOL

What skeptical about you and #2?

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:26 pm

I’m the good boy…….he’s the bad one……why he has to stay locked away.

YesSheIsCute

November 5th, 2010
3:30 pm

so Blackfoote II is the man under the stairs? Ok… is there a happy medium like a Blackfoote 1 ½ I need that one my blog husband abandoned me.

HotMess

November 5th, 2010
3:31 pm

Dont worry bout who I be…would ya eatit?
watch out cuz all beef don’t taste the same

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:33 pm

Blackfoote – since YSIC is asking about Blackfoote 1.5 would there also be a Blackfoote 1.5 II? It seems Mr.Moe and Mr.Elijah hadn’t made an appearance since I was drafted…I’m a widow :(

Simple Man!!!!

November 5th, 2010
3:35 pm

“watch out cuz all beef don’t taste the same”
Well, well, well……Sounds like we have a real beef expert among us!!! And since we are all carnivors……:D :) :D

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:35 pm

Cutie:

I believe we can facilitate a happy medium for everyone……..I don’t know how you did that half of one but we can fit him in anywhere…….LOL

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:36 pm

I see the tide is turning….it’s Friday and anything goes

HotMess

November 5th, 2010
3:37 pm

Wheeeerrree isssss the Beef?

Simple Man!!!!

November 5th, 2010
3:37 pm

Damn Blackfoote…. they keep coming like that, you may have to invest in supply of “lil Blue Magic!!!”

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
3:39 pm

Dont worry bout who I be…would ya eatit?
watch out cuz all beef don’t taste the same

Awwwww Hot that ain’t right. You know me, but you get to remain blog anonymous. Just know that I’m selective about what I eat, but I always finish the meal…

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:40 pm

Keep in mind number one is for Leggs if she haven’t divorced me yet but hell I got a bag full of them…….just name your number we come in order recieved……..LOL

Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)

November 5th, 2010
3:40 pm

Just know that I’m selective about what I eat, but I always finish the meal…

Hercules…Hercules..Herculeees

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:41 pm

Simple Man:

LOL

paper thin :-)

November 5th, 2010
3:42 pm

Wheeeerrree isssss the Beef?

Still thinking about the commercial,huh?

I am whatever you say I am

November 5th, 2010
3:46 pm

Swiss: at your 1:25 comment, I knew I left the door wide open by typing that.
I meant food got daggit!

Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)

November 5th, 2010
3:48 pm

it’s Friday and anything goes

Yeah I think all was good till the curtain thing came up…

YesSheIsCute

November 5th, 2010
3:49 pm

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
3:50 pm

I see the tide is turning….it’s Friday and anything goes
it ain’t my fault…

Hercules…Hercules..Herculeees…
That’s funny. Hey I don’t apologize for my apetite.

Luvlafin

November 5th, 2010
3:52 pm

Date? What’s that? I am telling you that everyone I meet wants to come over my house so I can cook them dinner and they can watch my cable! I think I’d be so happy to find someone who wanted to do ANYTHING, the date would be considered a good one (nto really). I agree; the best dates are those that are low pressure and you just relax and enjoy!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 5th, 2010
3:53 pm

Oh I see ya’ll have gone all the way left on this friday! LOL!

Umm lets see, do I really want to jump into this???

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
3:57 pm

Cutie:

That’s weird and troubling at the same time. They should have kept that under wraps. I can just see an insurgent or suicide bomber trying that on an american plane.

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:57 pm

Dreams – We blaming you and your food analogy. Bringing folks from the shadows

Blackfoote – Keep in mind number one is for Leggs

Alright now, let’s see….I see some gaps and holes in your claim of man I and II and 1.5 and 1.5 II. Since it’s just you and not man #2, Leggs shouldn’t be number one but number only….no need ot have folks lining up…right? Or no? Uh huh you been role playing.

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
3:57 pm

Umm lets see, do I really want to jump into this???
What’s up Mo? I think I need to come sit by you so I can stay outta trouble.

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
3:58 pm

Sassy – Yeah I think all was good till the curtain thing came up…

Probably waiting on the turn just to jump in…

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
4:00 pm

Dreams – We blaming you and your food analogy. Bringing folks from the shadows
Celisea I didn’t start all this. I just offered my two cents here and there. didn’t swiss bring this up? where is he now? lol

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:01 pm

Luvlafin – If folks eating and watching t.v. at your place, you should invoke a cover charge

YesSheIsCute

November 5th, 2010
4:02 pm

@ Blackfoote yes! They done messed it up for err body. Now I can’t go to Cuba!

Simple Man!!!!

November 5th, 2010
4:02 pm

Blackfoote…See what happens uyou get to many blog boos…..You should be like me and just stand on the sidelines and wait until the ladies start drafting….

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:02 pm

Dreams – Celisea I didn’t start all this. I just offered my two cents here and there. didn’t swiss bring this up? where is he now? lol

You’re probably right. You just did’t mind getting creative and running with it huh? :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
4:03 pm

I am telling you that everyone I meet wants to come over my house so I can cook them dinner and they can watch my cable!
Luvlafin well YOU could always come over to MY house and cook for me and watch cable… ;-)

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:04 pm

YSIC – You going/from CUBA?

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
4:05 pm

You’re probably right. You just did’t mind getting creative and running with it huh?
Celisea touche. wouldn’t you rather I be creative though?

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
4:05 pm

Hold up Celisea remember I’m the good one and we are totally independent of each other and we all have own skills……….LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 5th, 2010
4:06 pm

@ Simple Man I didn’t know we could draft? lol I think I rather be drafted…

@ Celisea not anymore! I was trying to think of a clever way like go through mexico or something but I can forget a disguise. I have the luxury of being american so you know we can’t go. And my Spanglish is not even gonna cut it in pretending to be afrocuban. well actually it might…

DreamsMaterialize

November 5th, 2010
4:07 pm

Hold up Celisea remember I’m the good one and we are totally independent of each other and we all have own skills
Blackfoote man you sound like multiplicity. is one of you retarded too? lol

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:08 pm

Dreams – Celisea touche. wouldn’t you rather I be creative though?

Oh, absolutely. Nothing seeing your creative juices flowing on screen and being all artsy and crafty and multi-dimensional….oh talented one :)

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:09 pm

“nothing like” is what I meant

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
4:10 pm

Simple Man:

Good advice cause Leggs is going to chop my head off with words when she gets wind of this……….LOL

Simple Man!!!!

November 5th, 2010
4:11 pm

Cuteness….I spent all morninig reading the blog chics going on and on abouth their skills with a gun…If ya’ll wanna draft, Ya’ll can Draft!!! I am game as long as I go in the Lottery…..

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:11 pm

Blackfoote – Hold up Celisea remember I’m the good one and we are totally independent of each other and we all have own skills

Tear this one up and start over from scratch. This time build a tin man to stand in for men 1.5 – 2…LOL

YSIC – If you don’t mind me asking, why CUBA? I watched a documentary the other day….very good piece. I like that sort of thing though. Learning about different cultures, people, countries

Blackfoote

November 5th, 2010
4:12 pm

Dreams:

Just foolish as hell……LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 5th, 2010
4:13 pm

@SIMPLE MAN got skills but not gun skills that’s why i stayed OUT of that conversation.

Celisea

November 5th, 2010
4:13 pm

Let me get back to work…I’m suppose to be doing a report