I really only have one main goal for a date: have fun. I don’t stress over the small stuff like showing cleavage, straying away from depressing topics, or staring too long at the guy’s biceps (it’s a problem sometimes!).
I never know what to expect by the end of the night but I can say that some of the best times I’ve had on a date happened because it felt natural. To me, the perfect night out is when I have laughed really hard, discovered something totally new that I like to do, or I’ve had this amazing connection with someone.
This is when I go skipping home like a high school girl all giddy about the possibilities of having another perfect night out. What’s your idea of a really great date?
When was the last time you had a really good time with friends or on a date?
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Blackfoote
November 5th, 2010
2:27 pm
Kym:
And Kym what’s on your plate tonight seems like “the perfect night out” will be “the perfect night in” today. I’ll see if Blackfoote II wants to elaborate further on that.
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:28 pm
the girl asked in so many words if its normal for her to have those
It’s not “normal” perse but I guess it can cause a self esteem issue with someone.
YesSheIsCute
November 5th, 2010
2:30 pm
@ sassy is it caused by anything or that’s just something that is either you have it or you don;t?
Willie Dynamite
November 5th, 2010
2:34 pm
Afternoon All,
Did I mention that ALL yall are some clowns. Friday indeed.
Kym
November 5th, 2010
2:35 pm
Hmmmm in Kym’s future I see..chicken dumplings..hot chocolate..electric fireplace..a pink snuggie..and Mr. Elba on the DVR.
Blackfoote
November 5th, 2010
2:36 pm
Sassy:
I like science now. But while in school could not grasp anything about it probably casue I was skipping that class too much.
Blackfoote
November 5th, 2010
2:37 pm
Is that the britsh guy you referring to?
YesSheIsCute
November 5th, 2010
2:40 pm
@ Blackfoote none other than! Elba is definitely someone who needs to be in the wanda’s playhouse lineup.
kimmie
November 5th, 2010
2:40 pm
See you guys, I’m headed out!
Be easy!
Kym
November 5th, 2010
2:40 pm
Yep I have yet to watch last week’s episode of Luther..or this week’s episode of Modern Family and The Middle.
SexyCool
November 5th, 2010
2:41 pm
B-curtains. Every time I read, see, hear, type that phrase, I keep hearing that old Wendy’s commercial in my head.
Momma, make the bad thoughts stop. (lol)
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:41 pm
is it caused by anything or that’s just something that is either you have it or you don;t?
YSIC Diva ate my last post so Imma give it to you again. That can be cause for various reasons or none at all. Some women just have them and some don’t. It could sometimes result from having alot of children(wonder what that lady with the 20 kids looks like) and also from steroids. Women who use anabolic steroids in body building experience growth of the outer labia as well as an enlarged man in the boat
Blackfoote I was a science n math junkie in school…loved it. Still loving science.
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:43 pm
*that can be caused by*
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
2:44 pm
Kym…You an Edris Elba fan???
Blackfoote
November 5th, 2010
2:44 pm
Cutie:
So I’m marking down all these alter egos so you’re Wanda, Kym/Tawanda, Leggs/Shaquita so if we meet I can know who’s who.
Delight23
November 5th, 2010
2:44 pm
Blue a beef curtain refers to(from what I understand) va jay jays that have outer lips that look like a roast beef sammich…you know how it kinda hangs outta the bun a little bit and off the sides.
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
2:45 pm
“Women who use anabolic steroids in body building experience growth of the outer labia as well as an enlarged man in the boat”
In other words, She grows a Thing with wings!!!
Celisea
November 5th, 2010
2:47 pm
Blue a beef curtain refers to(from what I understand) va jay jays that have outer lips that look like a roast beef sammich
Learn something new everyday…wonder if this is a good thing or bad thing
Celisea
November 5th, 2010
2:48 pm
In other words, She grows a Thing with wings!!!
Never mind…that’s just nasty…I think…still wondering if it’s good for some.
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
2:49 pm
“wonder if this is a good thing or bad thing”
Depends on which side of the curtain you are on…..
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:49 pm
Elba is definitely someone who needs to be in the wanda’s playhouse lineup.
Sure does…I’d give him a few dollas.
SlimNumeroUno
November 5th, 2010
2:50 pm
‘In other words, She grows a Thing with wings!!!’
I think that’s how the name of Butterfly was used to describe it…a long ‘man in the boat’ serving as the worm part of the va ja ja with two beeeeeutiful wings aka labia’s. lol
Kym
November 5th, 2010
2:50 pm
In other words, She grows a Thing with wings!!!<<<This right here just took the lead!! ROTFLMFAO!!! Sweet Christmas Crackers!!!..
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:51 pm
Delight</strong I was tryna be PC…so much for that huh
Simple you ain’t right
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
2:52 pm
Sassy, do you watch the Big C on Showtime??? I saw your body putting it down in a big azz hole in the ground where her swimming pool is supposed to be!!!
Kym
November 5th, 2010
2:52 pm
@Simple..yes I am! Well of him in this serious on BBCA..
YesSheIsCute
November 5th, 2010
2:53 pm
@ Blackfoote wanda’s playhouse is the monthly male revue hosted by wanda of v103 there’s some fine men in that lineup and Elba should be one of them would definitely pay for a lap dance from THAT. But just FYI my alters names are Adina/Vanessa and Inga
@ Sassy I think I would shell out enough to where I owned him for that duration of the revue lol
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:53 pm
I dind’t mean to bold all of that…hard to type while laughing.
Now see Slim you had to really give a visual…that’s a hairy butterfly….okay that was just wrong…
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:56 pm
Simple you lost me… No I don’t watch the show..clue me in por favor..
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
2:57 pm
Its funny to here ladies Talk about Edris….He opens his moth and one expects to here Stringer Bell but HIs voice is High Like a British Mike Tyson!!!
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
2:57 pm
YSIC what if he turned out to be a blooper….would you demand a refund?
Delight23
November 5th, 2010
2:57 pm
Depends on which side of the curtain you are on…
Blackfoote
November 5th, 2010
2:59 pm
Cutie:
Ok dear you have three got them……….I already like Vanessa…..LOL
Celisea
November 5th, 2010
2:59 pm
Simple Man – Depends on which side of the curtain you are on…..
LOL…true so true. Guess if it ain’t a hindrance….
Delight23
November 5th, 2010
3:01 pm
Celisea: LOL…true so true. Guess if it ain’t a hindrance….
Hindrance? um, that’s more than a mouthful.
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
3:02 pm
Ok, Sassy, the show is about this lady that finds out she has cancer…She is married but does not want any one in her family to know. She teaches in this school and teh big girl from Precious is her favorite student . Well Her and Precious bout have a Crush on your boy who plays like teh school painter or something. The teacher ends up having an affair with him and in one scene, She is getting a pool installed and tehre is this big hole in her back yard. They are naked laying on one of those pool floaties and he is BRINGING THE WOOD!!! LOL
YesSheIsCute
November 5th, 2010
3:03 pm
@ Sassy there’s no wrong way to do it! lol
@ Simple I love his accent…. I find British/Aussie/Irish/Scottish/South African/Zimbabwean accents to be sexy. I like other accents too but those are the top of the list. LOL!
@Blackfoote wait til you meet Adina lol
Blackfoote
November 5th, 2010
3:04 pm
Ok I get the beef curtain looks like Celisea described it well where a dufus like me could understand. Thanks Celisea.
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
3:06 pm
Very detailed synopsis Simple especially the last part… but now you got me thinking bout backsliding again….dammyt.
Oh well wonder what movie I’m gonna watch whilst I sip my adult cocoa in my snuggie?
OK
November 5th, 2010
3:07 pm
Idris Elba is fine as heck!…I would love to see him at the playhouse, make him say’cheerio’ in that sexy accent. Damn..time to daydream!
DreamsMaterialize
November 5th, 2010
3:08 pm
va ja ja with two beeeeeutiful wings aka labia’s.
Kinda how I like my steaks butterflied, juicy and oh so slightly pink in the middle.
Black butterflyyyyyyyyyyyyy…
Celisea
November 5th, 2010
3:08 pm
Actually Blackfoote, those kudos in their rights belong to Simple Man. I think a couple was trying to understand so he sort of painted a picture and we all get it…LOL Hey today’s my first ever hearing of such a thing
Simple Man!!!!
November 5th, 2010
3:09 pm
Sassy…go on and backslide just this last time…..You can make up for it next week!!!
Celisea
November 5th, 2010
3:11 pm
Delight – Hindrance? um, that’s more than a mouthful.
I bet
Celisea
November 5th, 2010
3:11 pm
Delight – Just saying, if a brother can work all that extra guess it wouldn’t be a problem.
Sassy Me...TGIF!! :-)
November 5th, 2010
3:12 pm
Black butterflyyyyyyyyyyyyy…
Sail across theee waaaaaaaater….
Simple I’m not gonna do it…I’m not…
SlimNumeroUno
November 5th, 2010
3:12 pm
‘Kinda how I like my steaks butterflied, juicy and oh so slightly pink in the middle’
Dreams – um…errrrr….wow
YesSheIsCute
November 5th, 2010
3:12 pm
@ dreams you are not right! lol
DreamsMaterialize
November 5th, 2010
3:14 pm
African/Zimbabwean accents to be sexy. I like other accents too but those are the top of the list.
natty dread in-a Zimbabwe…
mash it up in-a Zimbabwe!
HotMess
November 5th, 2010
3:15 pm
would you eat that beef curtain the way you eat “steaks butterflied, juicy and oh so slightly pink in the middle”