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Wanted by many, taken by none

I can understand how dating multiple people can become a ego boost. You’re in high demand, people are jockeying for your time, it’s all about YOU. It’s all fun and games until somebody wants more.

This is usually when the drama starts. It’s not always easy pursuing these mini “relationships” and then you have to decide how and when to narrow things down to one…or at least TWO.

I have noticed that the younger guys I meet say that they are told to juggle many women but it gets really old, really fast for them. I’ve seen a lot of people who prefer to date one person and see how things turn out.

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?

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2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
8:35 am

g’morning…..

these are easy…

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? —– yep.

Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete? —-til I get married/committed, a line-up works.

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? —- faux paus? you can only be in one place at a time….with one person.

What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit? — no deceit; if we’re dating, we’re not obligated to one another….you can do as you please, and so can I…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:35 am

I’m FIRST bytches! (doing my “I’m First” dance…)

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:36 am

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
8:38 am

Opening the door…Turning on the lighs….

Maintaining an active rotation can be great if you are honest and upfront with everyone involved.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:38 am

Premature celebration… I feel like Leon Lett… Should have held off on the dance until after I was in the FIRST-zone…. :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
8:39 am

‘Sup 2can…..

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
8:39 am

morning swiss….

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:41 am

Rotations are great in theory, but I’ve never been able to maintain them for very long… Just too much to juggle, too many cycles to keep track of, etc… :lol: Maybe I’m just too lazy for a rotation…? :-)

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:42 am

‘Sup, fellas. D@mn… where all the women at???

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
8:42 am

What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?

Don’t have people thinking you are dating them exclusively when you are not. Be very upfront that you are dating multiple people.

Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?

For me it just depends on where I am personally in life. I have done both in cycles. With a starting line up eventually one player will stand out as the franchise player and you kind of let the others fall off the roster.

Good Morning

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:43 am

It’s a sausage-fest in here…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
8:43 am

Whew… Morning, Princess… It’s about time somebody improved the scenery (and the smell) in here… :lol:

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
8:44 am

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
8:47 am

Enter your comments here

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
8:50 am

’sup fellas….and Princess….

Dating ain’t hard….not to me, at least….go out, bring a chic along….next week, go out, bring a chic along…if it happens to be a different chic, so be it….still dating, ain’t it? What’s so hard about that?

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
8:55 am

@2Can

dating isn’t all that hard, scheduling is my issue

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
8:57 am

Good morning everyone! I hope everyone is having a great morning even though its dark and rainy…….

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete? – Yes, based off of what I read here not a lot of people are “single” in the true sense of the word. There is usually someone around whether they are kicking in or just talking whatever. I don’t even know what I prefer anymore since I actually am supposed to be single until I get my degree. Starting line up was cool for when I was younger but now its like one star athlete would be cool. It’s a lot less complicated.

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit? – The pros are the ego boost, the cons are that the potential of the multiples finding out about each other or running into one while you out with the other. That’s why its better not to do that with one or more of your multiples in the same city. The best way to do it is probably going to be to be honest about the fact that you are dating other people nothing serious and that if it gets more serious you’ll be sure to let the other person know.

My friend was telling me that the number one question that women DON’T ask is how many women are you seeing right now? They automatically assume they are the only ones and that men will generally tell you if you ask. I don’t know how true that is I will need the fellas to chime in.

SlimNumeroUno

November 4th, 2010
8:58 am

Goooooooood moooooooorning Meat Market…can I get a sausage biscuit please ;-)

‘Rotations are great in theory, but I’ve never been able to maintain them for very long’

swiss – I cosign on that…even if I start out with a few parties of interest, it gets dwindled down very quickly to no more than 2 to really see where my interest lies. Then soon after i concentrate on that one. I’m not exactly sure if that’s the best way to go but as previously discussed on here, how do you really get to know someone if your attention is split up a million different ways…

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
8:59 am

how do you really get to know someone if your attention is split up a million different ways…

@ Slim, EXACTLY

SlimNumeroUno

November 4th, 2010
9:01 am

‘My friend was telling me that the number one question that women DON’T ask is how many women are you seeing right now? They automatically assume they are the only ones and that men will generally tell you if you ask’

YSIC – I ALWAYS assume a guy that i’ve met is already dealing with at LEAST 2 other chicks. It’s very rare to meet a dude, you ask him if he’s seeing anyone, and have him say absolutely No one. I think within the last 3 years or so, only one dude has said he was totally alone. For the most part, the dudes say “I’m dating”… lol

blue®

November 4th, 2010
9:02 am

morning everybody,

are daters playing a numbers game? for the most part, yeah.
Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete? in my dating years, i was with one person, but i did usually keep my starting line populated, never really stayed single for long, cause there was always someone waiting in the wings. considering i only dated one person at a time, never had to resort to deceit, but it did get complicated keeping the line straight, lol

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
9:02 am

it ain’t about no ego boost with me……I can roll solo, and still have a good time….

the thing I’m gathering, is that somma y’all take dating to mean “a love interest.” How ’bout being friends first, and let the love interest develop. Then, when you go out with a “friend” ain’t no expectations, or the stigma of being labeled a player.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
9:05 am

@ Slim I will have to ask once I get back on the market again and see what the answers are. But yeah, even if you DO ask its nothing for people to lie these days, either outright or by omission. My friend said ask if he’s seeing anyone else and ask how many and what does he expect out of his rotation to see … I forgot the rest b/c I actually stopped listening but I don’t know why she said to ask how many :lol:

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:05 am

Morning all –

The Camp Creek Easter crash girl is getting sentenced right now. Keeping an eye on AJC…

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
9:05 am

How ’bout being friends first, and let the love interest develop

2can I definately agree with that, I’ve seen plenty of people claim to “fall” for someone they didn’t even really know, they just knew that person on the surface

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 4th, 2010
9:06 am

Yeah what 2Can said..

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
9:07 am

Like that…:) :D :)

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
9:08 am

@2CPTG not many guys approach a woman for the sole purpose of being friends or trying to be friends first. Its usually because they want to date them or do business with them (networking) so I don’t know where the ease of being “friends” can come about….

I’ve also noticed if you have conversation with a guy who seems cool and you think well he’d be great to talk to sometimes and you ask to get contact information they think you are trying to talk to him…but I guess it can be the same for women….

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
9:09 am

Yes it’s a numbers game. Me personally, my preference is one on one you getting to know me and vice versa and we deciding if it’s a go. If you like to date multiple women (or men) and hide behind the “we ain’t committed” thing, that’s cool do you but I won’t be playing. As I’ve done before and will do again, just politely remove myself from all the shenanigans. I’m an old fashion gal and I got a problem with you calling or dating or doing things with me and a number of other women. Be honest about it….yes I can respect that but really does that make it any better? IMO it’s a matter of having your cake and eating it too….usually, Imma pass in these kinds of scenes. And guess what, I won’t even go on and on and on nor rant….do you.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
9:10 am

Nik, that’s how I roll…..folks got the game backwards these days….they’ll go on a date or two, and claim that’s their man/lady….yet, don’t know jack about the person…that’s why when you get married, you’re supposed to be marrying your best friend! And that’s why I say when I get married, it’ll be to one of my friends!

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
9:15 am

2Can,

I just had a similiar conversation with my brother the other night. There is a female he has developed a friendship with over the past two years, they are really cool, and he realized he is feeling her for more than just a buddy. He was telling me all the things they do together etc.. I was like DUDE, its great that you got to know her on a friend basis first, now if you think ya’ll would make a good couple then express that to her.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
9:15 am

Good Morning All,

A pair and a spare was my motto back in the day. So my number is 3 anymore than 3 and I lose interest. Do I still play this number game? Right now I am not even in the game..and my opinon of the game is getting a bit…let’s just say the game is getting old. The pros always having someone fun to hang with a be around..the con..forgetting who you were suppose to hang with where. But 2C is right..just enjoy the company and concentrate on the present moment.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
9:16 am

@ Amazon Red I feel bad for her b/c it was an accident….no one really knows what they would do if they were in that situation…..but she should have stayed at the scene…..

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
9:17 am

Good Morning:

“people who prefer to date one person and see how things turn out.”

None or one works for me and if there is none I’m still enjoying the ride.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:18 am

Cute – I do feel bad for her too. I can even understand her leaving. But covering up and never coming forward… *sigh* She rejected 50 years… I still can’t imagine her getting more time than THAT!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
9:20 am

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:22 am

On-topic – I do believe in dating. Especially in the black community. When it comes out that you’re seeing more than one person, it’s usually frowned upon. I think folks need to learn that everyone you’ll date will not be your spouce, it’s so much pressure with that latching on to one person at a time.

That being said, it should grow old. I date pretty regularly and don’t like dating more than one at a time. However, I’ll cut my losses once I know there is not a connection, I won’t keep hanging on. There may be overlap, but it’s very slight. I do think you need to give a person undivided attention once there is something there.

And yes, friends first is best…doesn’t really happen nowadays as you’re not in school or somewhere where you have to be friends first. It’s hard when you meet someone and attraction is there, you don’t want to be just friends.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
9:22 am

Too, there’s an unspoken language that can cause things to become distorted. Men often say, ask what you want to know or state your desires but I’ll be daggone if you do that either your smothering, coming on too strong or asking them to do something they didn’t intend. If you say nothing, you can believe a dude will allow it to play just as he wishes and really you can’t complain because it’s what you allowed. If you know you like a variety then stick with chicks that are cool with that sort of behavior. By now everybody knows what they have an appetite for so just be true to what you like and don’t impose that sort of lifestyle on someone that’s not cool with it.

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
9:23 am

blue®

November 4th, 2010
9:24 am

morning peoples,
are singles playing the numbers game: most definitely
Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?
never spent my time trying to date more than one at the same time, so never had to deal with the deciet. but did usually have a starting line up as it were, so never stayed single long. it boosted my ego somewhat to be “in demand” as it were, but for the most part did not lead to any meaningful relationships. and it did get hard keeping that line straight, lol

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
9:25 am

Bom dia peoples!! Single = not married = me. I find that it depends on the goal of the individual.

The staring line-up is great if you are in a no strings attached, just having fun, variety is the spice of life,….and all those other cliches.

Then the starting line-up get cut one by one as the desire for monogamy increases. Not nuclear physics. :|

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
9:28 am

Good morning!

Had to laugh at i’m swiss’ sausage comment…sounds like something Melo would have said.

@ARed ~ I believe a life sentence is now on the table. It was reported that she could get at least 15 years for every life taken.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
9:29 am

@ Delight my friend always says single = not married so even if you have a boyfriend you are still single. You think that’s true?

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
9:30 am

Good morning!

Had to laugh at i’m swiss’ sausage comment…sounds like something Zulu would have said.

@ARed ~ I believe a life sentence is now on the table. It was reported that she could get at least 15 years for every life taken.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
9:33 am

YesSheIsCute: yes ma’am. As far as uncle sam and Kaiser are concerned I’m single. I can’t claim you. ;-)

Hey it's me - Banging Loudly to be Let In!!!!

November 4th, 2010
9:34 am

Good morning! :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:37 am

Yes, you are single until you are married, but being single doesn’t mean you’re available or not in a relationship.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
9:38 am

@ Amazon and Delight yay! Now I can start waving my hands in the air when the “single ladies” song comes on :lol: j/k

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:41 am

Uh…yeah…if he hasn’t put a ring on it…you are definitely single. :lol:

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
9:45 am

Good morning!

Rotation is always a good thing.

Choice is good!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
9:45 am

IDK asked me to pass along his greetings from a land far, far away….BBI – Banned Bloggers Island. (lol)

Kym

November 4th, 2010
9:46 am

DK got banned..why? What did I miss yesterday?

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
9:47 am

Single = not married = me.

That’s me all the way. However YSIC per your 9:29 I understand that. Some folk mean if your not married you’re still single but if you’re in a relaionship what’s that called?….cause it ain’t single…true that. For me I’m single as in me,myself and I cause there is a distinction.

As far as dating in a rotation, I’ve done it but would avoid it if possible…I’m a one man woman. I’m sure I’ll be “booed up” one day but til then I’m living the single,single….LIFE :-)

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:48 am

DK got banned?

Funny. :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
9:48 am

On behalf of Leggs… Good morning all!! Sha has paid her rent, but the Gate keeper at the entrance to Blogsville refuses to let her in!!! As of right now, she is in negotiation with the powers that be and will Join this party as soon as possible!!!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
9:49 am

I’m not sure. I didn’t blog yesterday.

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
9:50 am

Morning All, especially Wise (Just like Roger Goodell) Diva,

First thing first I think you have to know what your lane is. I personally dont understand how you can only date 1 person at a time. Grantd if things are slow and only 1 person piques your interest then maybe. However if you are actively dating then it is very possible to have 2-3 Dates back to back with different people in a relatively short time frame. That doesnt make you a player. That means you are dating. As stated earlier at some point the line up gets dwindled down and/or replacements until you find the one if that is what you are looking for.
I think fellas get it twisted because they are not upfront with these chicks. I think alot of you would be surprised if you just them know you are not looking to settle down and you like going out having fun. Nowadays more women are looking for that and will fall in line. Heyal you are more likely to be in a chicks rotation than the other way around even if they won’t admit it.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:51 am

Okay…Leggs got banned too?

What’s going on?

Chink

November 4th, 2010
9:53 am

I am a one on one type of dater ..I have too many things going on to be juggling more than 1 guy at a time. If I am dating I give them 1-3 dates then move on if need be.

Is it just me because I have never dated a guy who wasn’t trying to take all of my time…thats why it gets so cumbersome.

Also in my experience most guys will lie and tell you they only trying to get with you…the only way I can tell a guy is really wanting to get to know me is by the time and effort they put into us.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:53 am

SCool – DK and I had words yesterday, but nothing earth shattering. It’s was tamer than previous spats. LOL

Now that Leggs can’t get in, I’m sure it’s just a blog snafu.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
9:53 am

Wonder if Purple was banned as well? He was posting nasty nursery rhymes

Mr_NYC

November 4th, 2010
9:55 am

Good morning all; great comments. I will add my 2 nickels.
What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates?
On the negative side it can make it difficult to sort out feelings if any should develop. If one potential partner catches your eye more than another and hopefully you’ve been up front from the start about the non-exclusivity (is that a word) issue; then it may take some time to show the intended that you really want to focus on just one.
On the plus side, its nice to have options when you want companionship. At the start not everyone may enjoy all the activities you enjoy. So you can have different companions to fit those many varied outings.
More people expose you to others you may wish to network with and other potential partners — its like you get to know who they know.

What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?
The best way is to be 100% honest. And stick to that even when folks ask you to be honest but don’t like the answers you give.
And be gracious about it too. Just becaue you are being honest does not give a license to be disrespectful.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
9:55 am

Willie D – I think that’s the difference in men and women. I don’t want a bunch of dudes hanging around trying to decide which one I like best. If you pique my interest, let’s see where it goes….being mindful we need to be on the same page. Now as far as friends, male friends, you can never have too many. But oftentimes, I’ve seen the tides turn in that sort of scene. I would just ask, if you’re seeing multiple people, that as we move more center and see there’s a connection you start your scaling back process. Don’t be greedy and keep the dang rotation going.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
9:55 am

Tell DK all he has to do is change the email addy that he’s using. And if that doesn’t work, just clear the cookies from his browser & he’ll be back in.

LET ME IN - My rent has been paid!

November 4th, 2010
9:57 am

I’m scared here in the dark by myself….

LET ME IN - My rent has been paid! (Leggs)

November 4th, 2010
9:58 am

Thanks i’m swiss. I used a different email address.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
9:58 am

This is funny….so no bad words, comments for real huh?

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
9:58 am

Guess we’ve all been warned

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
9:59 am

Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?
What if all of your starting lineup are star athletes? I just date and enjoy the company. I admit to liking variety.

Chink

November 4th, 2010
9:59 am

Willie

What is actively dating …sounds like a occupation.

See I don’t think I am ever actively dating…if I happen to meet someone interesting while I am single… bingo! That’s just about how it goes.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
9:59 am

Well, I said “ass” yesterday… :shock:

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
9:59 am

What in the world is going on today

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:00 am

You did…and not azz either

LET ME IN - My rent has been paid! (Leggs)

November 4th, 2010
10:01 am

I thought I might have been banned for talking about testicles at the end of the day!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
10:01 am

Maybe…it’s more of a temporary “All of his comments are going to moderation type deal”…that happens sometimes. I don’t think he’s banned-banned. idk… (lol)

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
10:01 am

Maybe…it’s more of a temporary “All of his comments are going to moderation type deal”…that happens sometimes. I don’t think he’s banned-banned. idk… (lol)

blue®

November 4th, 2010
10:01 am

morning (3rd times the charm?)

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
10:02 am

testing..testing…

My rent check is in the mail…

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
10:03 am

I used a different email address.

Me,too….

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:04 am

Seeing if my key works, nope I have not been banned. :)

I have never been one to date multiple women at one time. When you have me you have all of me.

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
10:04 am

Public Service Announcement
The 84th Annual Christmas Carol Concert at Morehouse and Spelman will be held the first weekend in December. Admission is free (so get there early). If you’ve never been, you should go. It is an awesome performance.

blue®

November 4th, 2010
10:05 am

i wasnt bad, let me in :(

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:06 am

I come on later now because I am outside working in the wee morning hours, while you all are sleeping, come in shower then I am all yours for a few hours :)

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
10:06 am

Leggs:

Are you ok how you doing? LOL………That couldn’t have been the word you used (testicles).

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 4th, 2010
10:07 am

Being a general manager in the dating world is alot of stress including the numbers game. The most women I dated at once was 4 and it was a job! Let me clear up some myths:

1. Guys want to date alot of women.

This could not be farther from the truth. It takes alot of energy to deal with different women; the different schedules, lifestyles, personalities, attitudes, stress levels, etc. If we have a choice, we want just 1 top notch woman.

2. Guys want to see and talk to you everyday.

This is also not true. We had a life before you and want to keep as much of that as possible even though you are in our lives now. We just want a balanced dating regime.

Pros:

Options
Get a feel for whats going on in dating and where you fit.
Your personality gets more well rounded by dealing with different people.

Cons:

Can cause alot of drama.
People can be mislead and catch feelings even if you are up front with them.
Your image could be slandered if you dont keep your dating life in order.
Taking 4 different women out to eat in a week can be stressful all around.

“What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?”

The best way is to be upfront with everyone from the beginning. You arent married or committed to anyone so you are free to roam and should not have to lie to try to hide that. She may not like that you are dating but she has to respect it.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:07 am

Celisea, those were Andrew Dice Clay’s version of nursery rhymes :)

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
10:07 am

Celisea/Chink – From the read of it looks like you have defined what lane you are in. It wouldnt sit too well if a dude tries to be with you that aint about being devoted to giving you the time upfront that you are willing to reciprocate. What I dont understand is how people assume that 1-3 dates means that I’m not also in the process of seeng other people for those 1-3 dates.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
10:07 am

What if all of your starting lineup are star athletes? I just date and enjoy the company. I admit to liking variety.

See DreamsMaterialize you and me are >>> here <<<. Start with quality stock and dwindle to one as needed. :-)

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:08 am

Why any man would want to deal with more than one woman is bewildering to me. One is a handful, or maybe I am just not man enough. LOL

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
10:08 am

You did…and not azz either

I’m a rebel! :lol:

blue®

November 4th, 2010
10:09 am

lets see, does this work?

SlimNumeroUno

November 4th, 2010
10:09 am

I know one of my posted posts were deleted yesterday too…looks like the blog parole officer was on the rag or something…not sure why Leggs of all ppl would’ve been banned tho

blue®

November 4th, 2010
10:10 am

hey, finally found the right key! was starting to think id never get in, lol….are we on a new filter again?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:10 am

My misunderstanding, dating is dating..thats exploratory if you are not exclusive date around until you find the one. I was mistaking dating with relationships.

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
10:11 am

Hilarious. Walking up to the blog door, wondering if your key works or…if the locks have been changed.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:11 am

You all better start bribing Wise Diva like I do :) , I am her boy toy. I stay on the shelf until she needs me. LOL

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
10:11 am

M. (pronouced M dot: based on your list I guess I have more testosterone than estrogen :? cause all though that was from a guys perspective it applies in my instance.

I take it back. I’ll just put that on the beauty of having older uncles put me down on game from an early age. :mrgreen:

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
10:12 am

looks like the blog parole officer was on the rag or something…

You better stop before you get us put in time out…

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
10:13 am

Purp:

Did you have help from your sisters that can take down steers and bail hay? I like both city and country girls.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
10:13 am

Morning All

Wow we got folks getting stopped at the gates?? :shock:

Glad I made it in, but hell Im only 3 apples high so they wouldnt have seen me anyway! :smile:

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:15 am

What I dont understand is how people assume that 1-3 dates means that I’m not also in the process of seeng other people for those 1-3 dates.

Imma have to agree here….this does not mean exclusivity

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
10:15 am

Purp – Maybe I’m misunderstanding as well. I thought all was fair in Dating. Until the Heart gets involved all you are to each other is just filling a need. Whether that involves going out having a good time to more specific things to the other person.

LET ME IN - My rent has been paid! (Leggs)

November 4th, 2010
10:16 am

Thanks ARed/SlimNU ~ I’ve never been kicked out of anywhere in my entire life….wait, I was kicked out of a restaurant/club for dancing on the table (but that’s a whole nother can of worms)!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
10:16 am

I was mistaking dating with relationships

Purple Rain – So many people make that mistake. If you were to ever admit you actually were dating other people (even on date 1!!!) some folks wouldn’t ever contact you again.

As long as your mind set is right and you’re willing to stop “dating” to date one, it’s okay. :lol:

Kym

November 4th, 2010
10:17 am

*Yawn** Excuse me..Did we clear up the blog snafu? Any word on the sentens for the Michaels woman?

LET ME IN - My rent has been paid! (Leggs)

November 4th, 2010
10:18 am

“…but hell Im only 3 apples high so they wouldnt have seen me anyway!” HYSTERICAL….TOO DANG FUNNY (but true) :lol: :lol:

Kym

November 4th, 2010
10:19 am

sentence…ok I need to wake up.

LET ME IN - My rent has been paid! (Leggs)

November 4th, 2010
10:19 am

@ARed ~ it was reported last week that she may be given 15 years for every life taken. Now, they’re talking about giving her life!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
10:21 am

Kym – Nothing yet. I’m keeping an eye on AJC and WSB TV.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
10:23 am

ARed/Kym – yeah Im waiting to heat the sentence for Aimee Michaels as well. That was such a sad incident all the way around

Leggs – im just sayin…..LOL!

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
10:23 am

What I dont understand is how people assume that 1-3 dates means that I’m not also in the process of seeng other people for those 1-3 dates.

Easy….assume. No clarification or ground rules established. I my book, by date #2, which means I enjoyed #1 enough to continue, I put it out there that I’m looking for A) Fun or B) Long-Term Relationship or as the boys would say, some Sanitized, In-House Wang. :lol:

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:23 am

Blackfoote, my sisters have gone on..1 in college, 1 to marriage, 1 is single and loving it, the other 1 runs the office side of things for the family business. But they have a lot of friends I have a bunch of single female cousins though, LOL

Leggs

November 4th, 2010
10:24 am

@Blackfoote ~ I’m good…I’m back on saddle!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:24 am

Wonder if say those 1-3 dates sex happens if it’s still dating or does it default to a relationship? Or if sex is even on the menu see it’s just exploratory.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:25 am

“seeing” not see

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:26 am

PR – Are you from Minnesota?

blue®

November 4th, 2010
10:26 am

@Mo – im fun-sized too, and my key wouldnt work…i was ssooo sad :( . now i have no idea what we’re talking about lol

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:27 am

If sex happens in those first three dates, I do not think that it means that it is an automatic relationship. For some it might, but if I had sex with you in the first three dates, I know mentally that whatever we are doing would not be long term. Maybe just the current season.

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 4th, 2010
10:27 am

@Delight23

LOL…In what instance? Do you like to date multiple people or is it a headache for you?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:29 am

Celisea, yes I am

@ms_jones74

November 4th, 2010
10:29 am

I’ve never been able to be truly interested in more than one man at a time.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:29 am

PR – Your 10:27…exactly….that’s how some women can easily confuse and not realize what lane their in or should be in. Which goes back to making things clear…crystal clear. If you know you’re getting physical that early on and you know you don’t really want more than that shouldn’t or wouldn’t that get old? I mean you’d find a new girl and repeat steps 1 – 5.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:29 am

they’re not their…oops

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
10:30 am

See DreamsMaterialize you and me are >>> here <<<. Start with quality stock and dwindle to one as needed
Delight well I like to keep multiple stocks until the returns are no longer favorable. lol Are you quality stock? ;-)

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
10:31 am

If a guy gets the goods from a serious,nice chic on the first to third date,a lot of times that creates problems with some coz feelings start developing.

Still dating phase,right?

Coz some guys out there have excellent skills of garb that peel the panties faster than a relationship develops and gets defined!

U feel me gentleman? :lol:
Shout to Simple and Blackfoote! :lol:

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 4th, 2010
10:33 am

@Everyone

Question,

What are the dating Wanted by Many, taken by none rules for long distance dating? What if you have a Long Distance Rotation?

Me and my friend were talking and she said that if she is doing a long distance relationship, she will still let guys take her out on dates in her city if her BF is not around. Thoughts?

I met a girl who said she had a BF in California and she lives here but she flies there 2 times a month and he flies to Atlanta 2 times a month. Is that really worth it? I think alot of people do long distance because they like the space and sometimes think they dont have any options where they are… IMHO.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:33 am

Celisea, you are right. People need to realize that sex does not mean you are in a relationship. But that conversation is rarely had.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
10:35 am

Celisea?

funny ur 10.24!

I was thinking of what u said earlier hence my 10.31. :lol:

U are a good girl but fatal attraction gets the best of u on date #2!

Damn she gets real horny and bites!

angst! :lol:

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
10:35 am

Morning Folks!

I’m past the point in my life where multiple dating equals fun. I did it briefly in college/early 20’s and it got old. Guess I’m just a one-man woman. That works for me.

I wonder if all of those that like to multiple date are really DATING? So many talk about how easy it is to get physical on the first few “dates”. Is there a lot of overlapping? Can you do that and still develop a good friendship too, like 2C said? I don’t know, it all gets too tangled up for me. But hey, do you.

Chink

November 4th, 2010
10:36 am

Willie

In those 1-3 dates my expectation isn’t that we are exclusive. Since I might drop them like a bad habit in those times.

Bottom line I am not going to be dating people for over a month either you going to make me your lady or we just friends without benefits.

Someone is being led on if there is drama …why would you date someone for a long time because yes the expectation is there that ya’ll are a couple …”get in and get out if you are actively dating”.

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
10:42 am

Zulu:

What’s happenin dude……….I’m not into that stuff no longer in my younger days it was nice now I can have a great time with one lady or with myself.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
10:44 am

M – Your 10:33 – I have a friend that’s in that situation, a LDR. But she was recently asked out and wonders if she should have accepted the date.

I think it depends on a lot of factors. How serious is the relationship, where are the individuals in their life(fresh out of college, early 30’s, newly divorced), etc.

If the 2 of you are really serious, I believe in being faithful. Dating others could lead to catching feelings for another person and that complicates things. I think you should behave as if the other person is in the same city with you.

I had 2 LDR that each lasted 2 years back in my 20’s. If I had to do it over, I would have dated. I was young and didn’t have a ring on my finger. And the guys I was with were dating, just kept it from me. It’s okay, we were young.

LDR’s can be complicated. Hopefully I won’t have to be in one ever again.

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
10:44 am

Bottom line I am not going to be dating people for over a month either you going to make me your lady or we just friends without benefits.
chink so a dude has to make you his lady WITHIN a month’s time? Is this the norm ladies?

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
10:45 am

LDR’s can be complicated. Hopefully I won’t have to be in one ever again.

Kimmie, same here!!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
10:45 am

“I can have a great time with one lady or with myself.”

That’s a loaded statement!

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
10:45 am

so a dude has to make you his lady WITHIN a month’s time? Is this the norm ladies?

Dreams not for me

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
10:46 am

Zulu Zulu Zulu…not sure I understood your reference to me in your 10:35 but I’m disciplined so there will be no fatal attraction and more so no sex unless we clear as crystal. I’m a woman in every sense of the word and I will DEFINITELY catch feelings getting physical so believe me there won’t be sex on dates 1-3…just me though and I how I do it.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
10:46 am

M. Well:

1. It takes alot of energy to deal with different men. BUT theres this misconception that women are looking for a husband in each chosen date

2. Guys(Girls) want to see and talk to you everyday. I promclaimed it and stand by it, I NEED MY SPACE. Even in a relationship , I steal away and do “me” things. I like to re-charge and get perspective on things from the outside looking in; keep the rose off the glasses.

Pros:
Get a feel for whats going on in dating and where you fit = CHECK
Your personality gets more well rounded by dealing with different people = VARIETY IS SPICY

Cons:
Can cause alot of drama = CHECK
People can be mislead and catch feelings even if you are up front with them = Baby I’m on your schedule. I’m good with just being your friend. DUN DUN DUN Who was that? Why can’t I see you more often? Why don’t you answer your phone when we’re together? etc., etc., etc.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
10:46 am

Zulu – Your 10:31, in your crude way, that’s kinda what I was referring to in my 1st post.

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 4th, 2010
10:48 am

@Kimmie

I agree with you. Thats my definition of cheating…Would you still do it (whatever it is) if your bf was sitting right here?

I also think people shouldnt just go on dates even if you say its just friends because sparks can fly!

I did LDR and would not recommend it. Relationships are 90% non verbal and we need to be around each other. Also who knows what happens when the phones hang up? You call them at 12:30am and their phone goes straight to voicemail?

Kym

November 4th, 2010
10:48 am

Okay Seriously M.dot..dude are you writing a book or something?

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
10:51 am

@ M. I was in a long distance relationship with a guy but then I we saw each other every weekend either I was there or he was here due to my travel benefits lol. I would not do LDR unless I keep my travel benefits. But I like the dynamic of someone that you can just drive over their house and be like “hey I was in the neighborhood” or that they can call you and do the same. :D

@ Dreams it depends a month of spending A LOT of time together (like more than once a week) I could see it but I was dating my current beau for months before we became official or did the do….

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 4th, 2010
10:52 am

@Delight23

LOL I see where you are coming from.

@Kym

I was just expressing my thoughts. I can do that right?

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
10:53 am

Leggs:

LOL…….. you know what I mean…….you’re still frisky from yesterday huh.

Chink

November 4th, 2010
10:54 am

Dreams

No the other part of that was friends without benefits …did you miss that part??

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
10:58 am

How can someone keep their guards up on some guy but other guys can just get right pass those same guards?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
10:59 am

Kimmie,come on,that ain’t crude,that’s real! :lol:

So even where u admit u proly made a mistake,when was the earliest that u gave away the lil cherry kimmestes? :lol:

Celisea? U that romantic of a chic but u have never been got got sexually? Hmmmmmmmm

@Cink?

In a month’s time u want to be already coupled up and taken? U fall hard and quick ha? :lol:

Kimmie?

Even in marriage,I can’t do LDM.

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
11:00 am

disclaimer – The thoughts and opinions being offered by Mr.Dynamite today are in regards to the said thought process prior to being happily Married. Hey baby love ya. hahaha

Chink – I understand you POV. I however also see that if at the end of the month a decision has to be made on whether you going to be my Lady or just the FWOB then probably neither. I think thats cool that you have established the ground rules. A dude can either accept that or K.I.M. no harm no foul.

For me, it is more a process of getting a need filled. My time is just that MY TIME. I may like hanging out with you or going on a Date or two. During that time if you happen to give up your prized possession or some good Ga Dome within those first few dates then so be it. If during this process that you are catching feelings my intent is not to lead you on. I’ve always made it very clear that I wasnt ready for the responsibility of being your Man. When a Man is telling you and showing you that then the choice is yours. My heart dont pump off Sex. Thats why its called Dating.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
11:00 am

riddle me this:

why does it take forever to build a genuine friendship, but only a few weeks for a relationship? Then, spout some nonsense ’bout “I can’t go there with you because we’re friends?”

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
11:01 am

Kym:

Hello Kym have you waken now? Blackfoote II says hi he’s still hurting from that beat dwon you gave him…….LOL

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
11:01 am

2can

hmmmmmmmmmmm

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:01 am

“frisky from yesterday”…{{looking around}}…who me! I wouldn’t necessarily use “frisky” to refer to your alter ego’s attempted hookup with another! No, I’m good over here!

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
11:02 am

Purp – How can someone keep their guards up on some guy but other guys can just get right pass those same guards?

Its called ISM

DaddyDapper

November 4th, 2010
11:02 am

Hey Guys!

As is the cliche’, ” perception is reality”! The key here is honesty. I was on a date (sorta like a date) last night with a nice lady. She came over, brewed up some dinner and we ate and watched the games (for a little while, anyway *wink*). During the course of the evening, some of my other good lady friends happen to call. I’m one to always answer my phone if possible, something could be happening and you may be needed! Anyway, I answered the calls, made sure things were okay and told the ladies I was hangin’ out w/ someone at the time and to expect my call later or tomorrow. It is obvious to talk about relationship happenings when you’re getting to know someone, so I make it a point to be upfront and honest using mild discretion.

Gentlemen, ladies love it! Not all and the one’s who don’t are probably very controlling. You also have to be willing to accept the fact that they may be doing the same! No biggie! Keep it pimpin!

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:02 am

@Purple..I can answer that one. Well I can answer for myself anyway

The guys knew when to hold them and when to fold them.-They took time to figure out what made me tick..when I was barking loud or selling wolf-tickets and that requires a certain level of charm that is subtle and not forcefully.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
11:03 am

Zulu – Now you know I’m “discreet”. Yes, you were quite real!LOL!! I’m like Celisea, though. I know better than to give it up early, because I WILL catch feelings, I know ME!

Less than a month is all I will say! :)

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
11:03 am

DreamsMaterialize: Quality stock indeed. But I’ve experienced the unpleasantries of demand outpacing supply. Nothing uglier than pulling stock off the trading floor. Can be brual

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:03 am

Zulu – Celisea? U that romantic of a chic but u have never been got got sexually? Hmmmmmmmm

Ummm, I’m grown, with a kid, cohabitated, been engaged. That should state the obvious? Romance or romanticizing (which is what I think you’re eluding to) ain’t got nothing to do with what I’m saying.

Chink

November 4th, 2010
11:04 am

Zulu

Not at all but I see a pattern guys will treat you the way you let them.

Most of the time they are trying to handcuff you but they want their freedom…It don’t work like that with me.

And all of you guys are sitting on here talking about dating honesty yeah right if you meet a girl and she got it going on there is no way ya’ll going to just let her get away by letting her know she aint the only one…Thats B.S. You don’t try to hem her down you know someone else can take her…and thats real.

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 4th, 2010
11:05 am

@Purple Rain

“How can someone keep their guards up on some guy but other guys can just get right pass those same guards?”

Thats a great question and there really is no true answer. Some women are fickle. It may be just how she is feeling at the time and where you fit in potentially, she may have her mind focused on some other guy shes trying to get with etc.

My answer is that she is dealing with somebody. It may not be you at the time. I always say, “The biggest misconception that guys make when they meet a woman is they assume that she is at home baking oatmeal cookies not doing her thing.” They are doing out in the field doing their thing!

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
11:07 am

Whats up Zulu????

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:07 am

@Blackfoote and Blackfoote II I am awake and that was Tawanda..she basically said either we can either break dude off or break him down she went with the later. Tell him to just rub some Tussin on his wounds and he will be alright.

@Leggs..note to you..he apparently likes getting his azz chewed out..

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:11 am

@ 2CPTG that is actually a good question……… makes you think about the people you call your friends and the people you date (or you call you significant other)…

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:13 am

Heck everybody just do what you feel…if you can find chicks that don’t mind rotation and keeps a rotation…just do the dang thing. If you find a dude (or woman) that’s outgrown such…go with that.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:16 am

Call me crazy..but I wouldn’t think anyone would commit to being all in date wise with someone after just one date. I mean date one you meet the representative..it is thru the convo and other dates that you actually get a better picture of what you are dealing with.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:18 am

@ Kym I think you see the representative on the 1st year and on the brink of the 2nd into the 2nd you are seeing the real person. I think that’s when we get comfortable and aren’t so mindful about putting our best foot forward all the time. If you move in with them then that representative is probably gone a week after you move in 2 weeks tops.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
11:21 am

Chink

I like that 11.04.

How long have u been in the game with that one month rule,is it working or is it scaring guys off?

You are right tho that most guys want to date the best chic but still have the freedom to bed other women whilst she only commits to them.

I hope ur system works for u
U looking to get married some day?
Good luck!

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:22 am

@Yes..I am sorry but if someone is faking the funk for an entire year they are not just sendinga rep..they are flat out lying to themselves..pretending to be something they are not and a role they are not comfortable playing.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
11:23 am

How can someone keep their guards up on some guy but other guys can just get right pass those same guards?

Hey, some guys just got it! And some are lame as all get out and you decide upfront it’s never gonna happen!

Ask yourself, which guy are you?

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
11:23 am

Chink @ 11:04

You are a little off base on that one…There are alot of dudes that are ok with being honest and trusting that that woman who has got it going on will be respectful of that honesty. If I happen to be on a first date with a lady it would be CRAZY of me to assume that she is not dating anyone else too….If She is that on point then she will be in demand and should understand your position….

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
11:24 am

I’m way too lazy to keep up with Lies like that. Heyal I cant remember what I had for lunch Monday let alone trying to remember what I told you 3 mos ago. Thats why I can only deal with the truth or something very very close to it.

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
11:27 am

random: do I look like I want to hear about the hunting you have planned for the weekend ?!?!?

@ Willie D, I am so with you on that 11:24 LOL

OK

November 4th, 2010
11:28 am

dating+ sex + feelings = confusion

dating + feelings= find a person’s true intentions

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:28 am

@Yes when I say you meet the representative I don’t mean they intentionally misrepresent themselves. A lot of people put their best foot forward for awhile but I think anyone will start to be lax on that but it takes awhile…..

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:29 am

I don’t think anybody is saying you got to do a tell all to your date on the first date alongside burning your black book after a couple of dates. If though, you find you’re feeling that person you should begin your scale back process…and vice versa. Something is wrong if you don’t feel the need to do so….if you’re feeling them enough to explore where things could go. Frankly I don’t want to know how many women you’re dating but neither do I want to be date #9 on a 7 day week.

evy

November 4th, 2010
11:31 am

mornin, all – hope everyone’s doin well today.
@ swiss: took you exactly 7 minutes 2 start complaining about being bored & there being no ladies in yet…lol
on topic: good points being made this am, i think – & some of them by the men! who says they can’t think? :d dating is, at least in the beginning, an exploratory process, & ‘dating’ & ‘love interest’…’person you’re dating’ & ’s.o’ – not (necessarily)the same thing. confusion here, imo = recipe 4 hurt feelings, at least…or even…dun dun dun! friends first – marrying someone you’re already friends with – kudos on that. sharing different interests with like-minded companions – imo, a mature and perfectly reasonable practice. honesty being key – sure, in all things, & as nyc said, keep it gracious – it’s not a license 4 disrespect.
@ kym: ‘meeting the representative’ – i like that! good way to put it, & probly tru 4 most of us…
@ willie: ‘the truth or something very close to it’ – ? lol

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
11:32 am

Off topic: Looks like my new grill & flat screen for the patio room is gonna have to turn into new brakes & tires instead… :-( Boo!

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
11:33 am

See,this is what I don’t like about Obama:

Jellyback!

Cnbc headline

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:33 am

oops that was @ kym…at least I think IDK :(

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
11:34 am

OK – I like your equations.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:34 am

Did all the folks banned get in?

Chink

November 4th, 2010
11:34 am

Zulu

Now where did I state a 1 month rule…I just said I would not date 1 person for over a month without us agreeing that we going to be friends or we digging each other…

I am in a relationship (thank goodness) almost going on 2 yrs….

Ladies please don’t fall for the okie doke…with that I am passed my blogging limit.

We all should know by now how relationships happen…In my “younger” days I dated several men for a period of time ..it was fun …and thats about it.

DC Rose

November 4th, 2010
11:35 am

Hello everyone! Long time no blog.

I still have my two steady guys. One is a LDR and the other is in-town. They both know about each other. Not something I rub in their faces… just a fact about me.

I’m not looking for marriage and neither are they. They’re both different. I do different activities with them. I love the variety! All my needs are met. I know who to call for outdoor activities and who to call for museums and plays. I’m close to both, but they are free to date as well.

My plan, if one drops off, or catches feelings, they will be replaced.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
11:35 am

why does it take forever to build a genuine friendship, but only a few weeks for a relationship? Then, spout some nonsense ’bout “I can’t go there with you because we’re friends?”

I’ll take a stab at it. I like you. I’m not sexually attacted to you, but you’re such a nice guy that I don’t want to hurt your feelings?

Heck I dunno. I’m just pontificating cuz’ I don’t have that issue. I need my one and only to be my friend.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:36 am

Aimee Michaels gets 36 years!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:36 am

DC Rose – My plan, if one drops off, or catches feelings, they will be replaced.

You don’t have any feelings? At all?

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:37 am

Her mother gets 8!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:37 am

I’m with Chink…I’m passed my limit….I just get so passionate about these things…LOL I need to work

Willie Dynamite

November 4th, 2010
11:38 am

Evy – (paraphrasing) sometimes you dont always have to give out the ‘whole truth and nothing but the truth’. Nothing sinister in the comment.

Swiss – Now how did we know you would take a L on that one. Part of the job description my man.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
11:38 am

Kym 11:22 am @Yes..I am sorry but if someone is faking the funk for an entire year they are not just sendinga rep..they are flat out lying to themselves

:lol: 1000% co-sign

evy

November 4th, 2010
11:38 am

@ swiss: lol!

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:39 am

@Leggs..sound good to me she will be 60 when she gets out.

evy

November 4th, 2010
11:39 am

@ willie: awww, shucks, dude – i know that…still funny…heeheehee

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
11:40 am

Frankly I don’t want to know how many women you’re dating but neither do I want to be date #9 on a 7 day week.

:?: do you or don’t you want to know.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
11:41 am

Leggs ™ 11:36 am Aimee Michaels gets 36 years

For FIVE lives? Wow. 8O

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:42 am

@Delight I think that its a good idea that one’s s/o is their friend. :)

OK

November 4th, 2010
11:42 am

@Chink I understand what you’re saying…I feelin it.

I think what your saying is>>> understanding the man’s intentions from jump street. If I know what I want (exclusive relationship) and he wants to date others, thats cool. But we not turning it into FWB..thats the okie doke.

And whoever used the line: Jump in- Jump out- thats my new motto. If you OUT…”get ta steppin” (i think thats from Martin)

evy

November 4th, 2010
11:43 am

@ leggs: smh. such a d@amn waste – all those lives lost, so many others attached to them devastated…

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:43 am

I know we cannot say what we would do for our children if in a situation like that, but hiding and covering it up like the mom did wouldn’t have been on my mind. I may not have come forward within 24 hrs, but I would have. I guess I would need some time to wrap my head around everything before turning my child in!!!

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
11:43 am

If one drops off, or catches feelings,they will be replaced.

DC?!

this is a cold,heartless biaatch right here!

:lol: :lol:

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:45 am

Delight – Frankly I don’t want to know how many women you’re dating but neither do I want to be date #9 on a 7 day week.

do you or don’t you want to know.

Let me clarify, if we’re just getting into going out, I don’t need a run down of who you’ve been seeing….naturally I’m going to make that assumption…you’ve been dating. Now if you contine to call and ask me to hang out and we’re actively dating and I’ve expressed interest in moving forward…and you agree. I’m going to assume we’re grown ups and you know that I’m not cool being rotated cause we’ve established such. Now, now that we’ve established we’re digging one another, you as well as I will need to do the needful, if we’ve had others and make the decision to scale back. Now, I’m going to trust this is what you’re doing as we move closer to establishing a relationship. I don’t need to find out (cause it will surface) that you never cut folks loose.

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
11:45 am

Morning All,

Aimee Michaels Got 36 Years!! Man, that was the saddest trial I have ever followed.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:46 am

You said it best, ms. evy!

DC Rose

November 4th, 2010
11:46 am

Celisea – I have feelings, but I still have a soft shield around my heart. I keep it protected at all times.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
11:46 am

Well, I guess it was good she turned down the plea. Wow…36 years. Can’t say that it’s harsh…

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
11:46 am

Mrs JtJ – my sentiments as well, that was a sad trial.

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
11:47 am

Leggs:

That is better than the fifty they were tryin to put on her and she will be out within 20 damn what a waste. The mother is the one who got reamed

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
11:47 am

Willie D — So I’m learning… :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:47 am

So I guess it’s good that she rejected the 50 years….will she be eligible for parole?

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:48 am

So I guess it’s good that she rejected the 50 years….will she be eligible for parole?

Isn’t it like do a 3rd of the time and then eligible for parole? Or something like?

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
11:48 am

Aimee Michaels gets 36 years!

That’s ALL? FIVE people lost their lives and that’s all she got?

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:49 am

I think the verdict is fair..but that is 36 years that those children will never have..because she was bobing and weaving for some freaking ice cream. I am not feeling the least bit sorry for her.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
11:51 am

I can’t say I feel sorry either. I hope I’m never in that situation but she left 5 folks dead. You can’t run from something like that. You might not want to face the music but it’s five lives gone

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:51 am

I have 10 weeks vacation I need to take before February 2, 2011.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
11:51 am

@ Kym so she hit those people b/c she was bobbing and weaving for ice cream while driving?

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:52 am

@Blackfoote ~ the mother didn’t get reamed…she did this to herself under the guise of helping her daughter!

DC Rose

November 4th, 2010
11:53 am

Zulu – I’m not cold and heartless. Really I’m not. I’m just smart enough to know what’s best for me right now. AND OK with putting myself first.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
11:53 am

So I guess it’s good that she rejected the 50 years….will she be eligible for parole?

She still got 50…she is eligible for parole after 36…damn.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
11:53 am

No she went to go get icecream from the store and she was heading home..

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
11:54 am

The mom got 8 years!

evy

November 4th, 2010
11:54 am

@ leggs: yeah, i hear ya – i would definitely need some time to wrap my head around my child being responsible for something like that, let alone bearing myself the responsibility to turn her in!
@ amazon: hey girl…see you enjoyed your vaca; belated welcome back. 36 years – yeah, wow, and her so young – gonna lose half her life, and who knows what she’ll be able to piece back together afterwards…but, as you said ‘can’t say that’s harsh – at least she’ll still have a life
@blackfoote: yeah, how bout that?! daughter gets 36 for actually being responsible for the deaths, and mom gets 8 for helping her hide it?! not that i think that was the right thing for her to do, but thre does seem to be some disparity there…

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
11:55 am

No, no sympathies for her or her mother. I was even more appalled to hear the father of that lost his little girl that was severed in 2 talk about how her family never acknowledged them in court and have never said they were even sorry for their loss.

All families involved are hurting and will be for a long time to come. But, more so , the families that lost their loved ones foreever. This should be a wake-up call for all drive too fast or are always in a hurry to get somewhere.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
11:56 am

How about that Derrick Yancey trial and verdict?seems it was a waste if taxpayer dollars.

They should pass a law that says’if u run or attempt to run away
from justice when ur trial is pending u shall be found guilty if all
applicable charges by default’

What was the point of putting dude on trial and wasting a million dollars?

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
11:56 am

Celisea

…Now if you contine to call and ask me to hang out and we’re actively dating and I’ve expressed interest in moving forward…and you agree.

With you now. I’m a firm believer in putting it all out there. I’m also realistic about people changing their minds and getting upset when the other party holds true to their orignal statements.

evy

November 4th, 2010
11:59 am

@ mrs. jt: hear, hear! what in the H#LL could be so D@MN important?!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
11:59 am

Kym – I dont feel sorry for her either. How could really run from something like that even after knowing they were looking for you?

Leggs – if you dont want to take all that time, lend ya girl Mo about 2weeks. I got some plans I need to make that involve travel.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
11:59 am

@Yes ~ I know my mind is warped, but your post had me thinking she was engaging in oral while drivin…bobbing for ice cream…

@Mrs. JtJ ~ I would have at least had to turn around and speak to the families…my mother would have made sure I did that!

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
12:00 pm

Leggs:

Yes that is true her mom F ed up badly to get 8 years……..Whoa. It was stated by prosecutors that girl could have got off with a year and probation had she stayed at the scene.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:00 pm

Yep 7.2 years for each life taken. Ain’t justice grand. :roll:

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
12:00 pm

Delight – With you now. I’m a firm believer in putting it all out there.I’m also realistic about people changing their minds and getting upset when the other party holds true to their orignal statements.

Yep, flipping the switch…LOL Honestly, men know and understand what’s flowing between them and a woman way before anything is stated. I think though it’s a cop out to hang on some technicality just so he can operate under a guise rather than say hey here’s how I roll. I guess though as we’ve hashed and rehashed today and as in other times…honesty is key.

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
12:01 pm

As a mother, i would that my child was involved, but when I think about the mother that lost her child and the other mother who died with her entire family, there is no way I could sit there and not come forward. If she had not left the scene or even if they had just come forward immediately, the sentences would have been less harsh.

This is why I talk to my 14 y/o son now about how dangerous automobiles are and how you have to be very careful regardless! I think I will make him wait til he is at least 18 to let him even get a learner’s permit. Too scary!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
12:02 pm

@MO ~ I would love to give you some of this time…I have to cash out 80 hours and take as much as I can now and roll over the rest…HR is a tad bit upset with me in that I didn’t take vacation this year. They claim they don’t want me to get burned out. I ain’t burned out from work, just broke from working!!! They just don’t want to cash me out! :wink:

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
12:02 pm

Okay..I can’t type for nothing today…
I meant….if that was my child that was involved….

Kym

November 4th, 2010
12:02 pm

@Leggs..Take the last two weeks in December and all of January.. do you have to forfeit the rest?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
12:02 pm

Mrs JtJ – I just heard about that child being severed in two and was horrified!

Zulu – that sheriff knew he was guilty, that is why he tried to flee. I agree with you on that. His own son even testified against him

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
12:03 pm

Mrs JtJ – I feel the same as you on this.

Leggs – They were talking about this case on Q100 this morn. Did you hear any of it? They were talking about how far you would go to help your child.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
12:04 pm

@ Blackfoote let that be a lesson to everyone don’t leave the scene of a car accident………. :(

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
12:04 pm

@Mrs. JtJ ~ lil leggs friend (15 yrs old) died in the crash off Kelly Chapel last Friday. 4 teenagers in car and lost control trying to avoid hitting a dog. Dagnabit, hit that damn dog! She said she doesn’t want to get her learner’s permit just yet…this accident hit her hard!

evy

November 4th, 2010
12:06 pm

@ leggs (re @yes: lol!

@ backfoote & delight: all hail american jurisprudence, by grace of which 5 lives are worth a year and some checking in if you hang around and say, yessir, i’m sorry, sir when the cops arrive – and 7 if you don’t. ain’t that bout a m’f errr!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
12:06 pm

@kimmie ~ I heard them tell callers to call in on whether they would turn their child and hear stories from parents who have had to do it. But, I didn’t hear any of the calls cuz I switched to another station.

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
12:08 pm

evy:

Hey evy how’s going lady you know you bring a vibrant charge here every time you show.

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
12:10 pm

@ Zulu…I agree. I mean Yancey worked in law enforcement…did he really think he could plan the perfect cover up for his wife’s murder? He knows that they have CSI and crime scene experts that can determine things the pattern of blood splatter and more to negate his claims of a robbery attempt. Maybe he thought his co-workers and sheriff buddies wouldn’t investigate any further than what he claimed. IDK…

And then blaming depression as his reason for fleeing out of the country…Lol! He had fake hair and all….he was going on a never-ending vacation for real!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
12:10 pm

Leggs – I heard about that accident and that was so upsetting. I went to SWD and hearing about that accident reminded me of a similar one that happened my senior yr (2 sophmores died). I was like Lil Leggs and didnt want to drive after that for a while either.

kimmie – I heard a little of that as well but didnt tune in for the remainder. (v-103 had Chuck Brown on and I wanted to hear something fun)

evy

November 4th, 2010
12:10 pm

@ blackfoote: hangin in there, dude, ty fer astin! vibrant change, huh? you callin me crazy? lol

Blogger formerly known as Bella

November 4th, 2010
12:12 pm

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AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
12:16 pm

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Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
12:16 pm

Cutie:

I’ve been hit and run before both cars smahsed no chance for fix up dude casually walk away from the scene while I’m tryin to call police. If not for 911 (they are a joke) I would have chased and tied his ass down.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:18 pm

On the topic of crime and child/parent how bout this one:

“Singer Mario cleared: Mother says he never hit her”

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
12:19 pm

Awwww…Leggs…I was watching the news and heard that story. I am so sorry for Lil Leggs loss. I know that had to be painful to deal with. I made my 2 oldest sit there and watch the story again at 7pm news and we talked about it. I told them even the most experienced drivers can make the simple mistake of over-correcting and losing control.

I also told them I have hit about 7-10 dogs, cats, squirrels in my lifetime. I love animals but I value my life more!

BlackMagicWoman

November 4th, 2010
12:20 pm

OOOH…..did somebody say sausage? :lol:

Good day folks! Well being as that I have not found one guy to have all the things I want…I see nothing wrong with multiple dating. But you have to be honest. Don’t lie and say that you are only dating that one person that is at your crib at 7PM as you try to usher them out because your next “date” is coming over to pick you up at 9. Be real…

evy

November 4th, 2010
12:21 pm

@ mrs. jt: good job, girl – knowledge = power; perspective = wise use of same

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:21 pm

Blackfoote 12:16PM: Had it happen to me twice. Chased the first one up I-85 until caught up with the illegal, no speak english heiffa. Second one, followed her to Lakewood, ’til cops met us too.

Both their behinds were lucky I didn’t call Ken Nuggent. :D

evy

November 4th, 2010
12:23 pm

@ leggs: my sympathies, dear, to you and your daughter – had to back up and re-read – somehow missed that earlier…

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
12:24 pm

@ Delight23 and Blackfoote I am sorry that happened to you. I have been hit 2x as a pedestrian. Luckily they didn’t drive off. My cousin was hit and dragged a couple of blocks as they continued driving until he got loose. It’s sad I don’t know why people don’t take personal accountability and just stop. :(

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
12:24 pm

@ Leggs I’m sorry for your daughter’s loss as well. Her being hesitant about driving is understandable. I hope when she does start driving that she isn’t nervous about it still.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
12:25 pm

Leggs – I’m so sorry about lil Leggs friend. I can understand her fear, but don’t let her go too long without getting her license or she’ll be afraid forever.

When I got hit by that tractor trailer back in 2005, I did not want to drive again right away but I made myself. So a few days later I went on and accepted the rental car and got back behind the wheel. I’m still a little traumatized even to this day, but I really had to work thru my fear. I did not want to limit myself by not being able to drive and get around. I start my day with a prayer as soon as I get behind the wheel and I am very careful and aware of other drivers.

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
12:28 pm

Thanks Bella :)

evy

November 4th, 2010
12:29 pm

dayum – seems like everybody’s got a story about themselves or someone close to them…

@ yes: i agree, it IS sad – and that whole peronal accountability thing is, imo, at the bottom of an awful lot of ish in life…smdh…

Kym

November 4th, 2010
12:33 pm

Random Thoughts..Rubbermaid makes wayyy better plastic containers than the store brands.

Blue Cheese dressing on salad..ughh..but wings..its divine! Go figure.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
12:35 pm

Thank you guys…it’s really hard on her.

She now understands my grave concern with letting her teenage friends pick her up or bring her home. I will drive and bring her home. Many of the teenagers think cuz they have a license, they now know how to drive. That license only let’s them know how to move a car forward, backward and perhaps park properly….it takes years of experience to know how to DRIVE!

I think it’s time to tell her about my accident and how I amputated a woman’s leg. {{sniff, sniff}} It still haunts me!

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
12:36 pm

Delight:

“no speak english heiffa.”……..lucky I didn’t call Ken Nuggent……..thats too funny

Cutie:

I have been hit 2x as a pedestrian……not funny……but you now have seven lives left…..lol

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:36 pm

YSIC: have been hit 2x as a pedestrian. Luckily they didn’t drive off. :cry: DAAAANG. I can barely relate. At least I had some steel, ok well fiberglass, to shield me.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:38 pm

I have been hit 2x as a pedestrian……not funny……but you now have seven lives left…..lol

Ok you’re wrong for that, but I’m sorry YSIC because it made me chuckle.

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
12:42 pm

Kym:

How I like being chewed out? I do admit the passion creates a warm sensation. But that’s Blackfoote II talking.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
12:43 pm

@ Delight23 and Blackfoote, no harm no foul. I just hope the 7 lives left thing is true.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
12:46 pm

Thank you guys…it’s really hard on her.

She now understands my grave concern with letting her teenage friends pick her up or bring her home. I will drive and bring her home. Many of the teenagers think cuz they have a license, they now know how to drive. That license only let’s them know how to move a car forward, backward and perhaps park properly….it takes years of experience to know how to DRIVE!

Perhaps it’s time to tell her about my accident (age 26) and how I had a nurse from Kennesaw pinned against her car and mine and had to have her leg removed. {{sniff, sniff}} It still haunts me!

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
12:47 pm

This whole Aimee Michaels case reminds me of the movie Reservation Rd.

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:48 pm

Blue Cheese dressing on salad..ughh..but wings..its divine! Go figure. :lol: Yep.

I like the natural crumblled blue cheese on my salad, but not the dressing. I like the dressing on with my wing instead of Ranch.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
12:50 pm

Off topic: D@mn… looks like the Celtics are the Dream Team of trash talk… 5 out of the top 10 moufs in the league…

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
12:52 pm

Side note: Just read that Morgan Freeman(73 yrs.) is now divorced from his 2nd wife of 26 yrs. and now plans to marry his step-grandaughter(24 yrs.) AND father her children.

:shock: eeeewwwwwww

evy

November 4th, 2010
12:53 pm

speaking of justice, twisted outcomes & the like…anybody see that story about the woman who faced a felony indictment (knocked down to 2 misdemeanor charges)for allegedly attempting to poison her husband (he survived), pled guilty – and, by decision of the responsible (i use the term loosely) school authorities, RETAINS her job as a SECOND-GRADE school teacher because the incident “did not involve moral turpitude” and “she is a very good teacher”?!

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
12:53 pm

it takes years of experience to know how to DRIVE! True words spoken. AND very few drivers KNOW their vehicles.

They purchase cars they can’t handle. I know my little baby intimately. I know how much room I truly have in front, behind and beside me. I can tell if her tires are a little low based on feel of the ride. I can tell if I need to add a boost of engine cleaner. yeah, yeah gas has detergent, but I know my car and what it likes. ;p

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
12:54 pm

Sassy — To borrow a phrase from Rick James: Viagra is a helluva drug… :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
12:54 pm

@ Sassy Me I think I heard that somewhere before…. awhile ago could be mistaken.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
12:56 pm

evy — Yeah, I saw that. How much you want to bet that story would have turned out differently if she were a he…?

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
12:56 pm

Perhaps it’s time to tell her about my accident

I don’t know Leggs. You’ve said that she’s already kinda skittish about driving now(as can be expected) but I think you telling her your story may make her not want to drive at all….or for a very long time. Plus that accident was traumatic enough that it still haunts you so imagine how it might affect her at this time.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
12:58 pm

I don’t like blue cheese and didn’t believe it could cut the “bite” of hot wings…but it does and I loveit!

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
1:00 pm

Side note: Just read that Morgan Freeman(73 yrs.) is now divorced from his 2nd wife of 26 yrs. and now plans to marry his step-grandaughter(24 yrs.) AND father her children.

8O eeeewwwwwww

let me also add ewwww ewwww ewwww ewwww ewwww (((takes breath))) ewwww ewwww ewwww ewwww :x

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:01 pm

Viagra is a helluva drug…

Yeah alot of senior citizens are touting the “magic” of Viagra but I’ve also read that the STD/HIV rate among that age group has risen as well as some other things have risen

YSIC I read that a while back as well but at the time it came across as mere speculation…guess not. Wonder what Thanksgiving’s gonna be like..heyal ANY family gathering for that matter…

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:02 pm

Sassy – I’m sorry, that’s just nasty! And at 24, no 73 year old “granddaddy”, much less my STEP granddaddy, come have come near me! I don’t care that there’s no blood relation! Is that the only 20-something he could find to get with?

Just nasty!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:03 pm

You have to actually drive in order to learn how to drive. I’ve known adults (in their 30’s/40’s) who are still petrified of driving on the freeway or in busy areas. The longer you wait, the more comfortable you become with that fear.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:04 pm

To quote the late Johnie Cochran ‘ if it don’t look 73 years old(and it’s well sprung) u must yield and let it in’

:lol:

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:05 pm

You know they have porn for that..old dudes with young chicks..<<This random thought should be contributed to Tawanda..

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:05 pm

@evy ~ I heard that story this morning and thought what a lopsided stance to take on attempted murder…and her weapon of choice was Ambien???

@SassyMe ~ perhaps that wouldn’t be a very good learning tool!

@BMW – hello! Here’s a new motto “do them before they do you!”

evy

November 4th, 2010
1:05 pm

@ leggs: d@amn, sweetie – i’m sorry! that must be really hard for you to carry…

@ swiss: don’t know that i’d want to take that bet, but i’d definitely watch w/ interest from the sidelines – it does seem to me that the law is frequently harder on men…personally, if i were participating in such a decision, i’d be a little more worried about a female alleged to have done such a thing. criminal and psychological statistics show that while it’s rarer in females, it’s also usually more virulent in the females in whom it does occur…

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:05 pm

Yeah alot of senior citizens are touting the “magic” of Viagra but I’ve also read that the STD/HIV rate among that age group has risen

Sassy – Yes, and the divorce rate as well. Got these old men running around thinking they “got it” again and suddenly their little wives, that stuck by them when they “lost it” are not good enough!! SMH

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:07 pm

“Is that the only 20-something he could find to get with?” He already had her under this wing (manipulation)…he doesn’t have the strength to train/guide another, stronger minded 20-year old!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:07 pm

The longer you wait, the more comfortable you become with that fear.

Dreams – Exactly!!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:08 pm

Leggs – Your 1:07 – yeah you right!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:10 pm

“but I’ve also read that the STD/HIV rate among that age group has risen as well”

Sassy — H3ll… When you’re that old, you know death is just around the corner no matter what… Might as well be death by f__king :lol:

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:12 pm

I find it hard to believe an old dude all of a sudden had a hankering for a young chick all of a sudden in his 70s…he’s been a nasty old man all along

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:12 pm

correction…now a nasty old man but a nasty man all along

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:13 pm

@evy ~ Yes, it is. She sued me, naturally, was awarded a substantial amount, but nothing can bring back her leg. I felt ashamed for a very long time that nothing happened to me. Only the spine of the book I was reading broke! That’s it! Got home, fixed me a drink and cried amongs the ice cubes. I had to go to work the next day (Sat.). I dusted myself off and went to work). I had no choice, I couldn’t fold into my emotions. I had to keep moving or else I’d probably collapse! I worked for a law firm and they handled everything. I felt guilty cuz my defense was free, didn’t even have to pay for a freaking stamp. For some reason, this stamp think ate at me for a long time!

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:15 pm

Awwww cmon now. Ya’ll saying ya’ll wouldn’t give Joe Clark or GOD (Bruce Almighty) no a$$? What about the POTUS? Mandela? Easy Reader from Electric Company? lol If he started gettin at you with that Shawshank Redemption voice, ya’ll might be tryna have his kids too. haha

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
1:15 pm

I have had to close calls with driving

1. Told my cousin I knew how to drive (and didn’t) and she stupidly let me drive her Ford Escort with her and 3 friends and a baby in the car. The power steering was bad and I turned the corner too fast and we ended in somebody’s front yard about 2 inches away from a propane tank! I prayed and cried like a baby that night!!! I gratefully paid my whole Burger King check to her the following week for car repairs and vowed to never lie again that I could “drive” until I could get lessons.

2. 17 and driving to the mall with my sister, blasting the music in my Dodge Shadow and tried to go around a slower car and cut off this lady in a Lincoln. She lost control of her car and went into a ditch but re-gained control and came back up on the road. My heart was beating so fast, I prayed to God that I would always look before changing lanes!!!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:15 pm

He’s gonna give her worms…that’s just what I’ve always heard so I can’t substantiate that

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:15 pm

Now why does Morgan Freeman have to be a “nasty old man” just ‘cos he’s getting some young booty? He’s not partaking of the young booty because he’s a nasty old man. He’s partaking of the young booty because he CAN… I say good on you, mate.. :lol:

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:16 pm

Dreams – He’s always seemed “aged” to me….so that’s a definite NO

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:16 pm

Kimmie that is nasty for real…all kinds of nasty wrong. What’s worse is that she was one of the women he cheated on his now ex-wife with….smh @ that isht.

Leggs I get your point and maybe it will be a good learning tool and as her parent I know you’ll do what’s best.

Swiss you read like you’re either bored or hawt for some cookie.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:17 pm

Now why does Morgan Freeman have to be a “nasty old man” just ‘cos he’s getting some young booty? He’s not partaking of the young booty because he’s a nasty old man. He’s partaking of the young booty because he CAN…

Okay Swiss that was funny

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:18 pm

He CAN what? Talking dirty at cute at 75, wrinkled joy stick ain’t cute at 75, he’s got worms…so what is there? Money….ding ding ding, that’s it.

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:19 pm

Got these old men running around thinking they “got it” again and suddenly their little wives, that stuck by them when they “lost it” are not good enough!!

For real right?!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:19 pm

Celisea – Agreed – nasty all along.

Dreams – No way in H—-!!!

Now the REAL POTUS – If Michelle was out of the picture, all day long, not gonna lie!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
1:19 pm

ok im sorry but Morgan Freeman put himself in the “nasty old azz man” category for going after that young girl! So yep, nasty old man.

Dreams – so sorry, nothing about that mostly salt-n-pepper ‘fro gets me all hot-n-bothered! He couldnt get it…. if I did it would have to be reminiscent of Marcus (Eddie Murphy) in Boomerang when he slept with Lady Eloise….”its not dark enough”

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:20 pm

Who’s ready for Private Practice tonight!!! It’s going to be a doosey!

Dang Mrs. JtJ ~ there was a baby in the car?? You could have easily been the Aimee Micheals that year!

@SassyMe ~ i’m swiss is like Melo, they stay hot for cookie!

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
1:21 pm

i’m swiss™ 1:10PM Sassy — H3ll… When you’re that old, you know death is just around the corner no matter what… Might as well be death by :lol:

Reminds me of the grandfather in Little Ms. Sunshine who snorted coke at like 70-something.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
1:21 pm

Leggs – It would haunt me too, especially if my defense was free. Hopefully you were able to pay it forward for someone else in life. Maybe convincing the firm to help another person out in need or something.

I’m sorry that happened to you and the victim.

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
1:21 pm

Dang it….I meant “two”

@ Leggs….Wow.that was difficult. I am sure she has forgiven you. But like someone said before, Don’t tell you daughter about it just yet, the loss of her friend is still too fresh. She may never want to drive after that.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:22 pm

Kimmie – Now the REAL POTUS – If Michelle was out of the picture, all day long, not gonna lie!!!

Yep yep yep…come baby let me ease your political pains. There’s a difference in fine wine and moldy bread. Obama = fine wine Morgan the nasty man = moldy

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:22 pm

Legg – PP is going to be SERIOUS tonight. I didn’t like Grey’s last week.

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:22 pm

Now the REAL POTUS – If Michelle was out of the picture, all day long, not gonna lie!!!
So, kimmie if by chance you ran into B.O. and he propositioned you, saying he and Michelle have an understanding, you would decline?

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:23 pm

Dreams – I don’t do “understandings”! He’s hot & all, but so is H—!!!

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:24 pm

i’m swiss is like Melo, they stay hot for cookie!

I see….he probably needs to take a bathroom break or sumthin. ;)

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:25 pm

Dreams – I don’t do “understandings”! He’s hot & all, but so is H—!!!
kimmie I already knew your response. You know that right? lol

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
1:26 pm

Leggs- I know, we could have all been dead! I can truly say I have learned!!!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:26 pm

I thought I was being pretty tame today, by my standards… :?:

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:26 pm

Dreams – Of course, you know we are SOUL MATES!! :wink:

evy

November 4th, 2010
1:27 pm

@ leggs: agreed, lopsided!

well, hun, i’ll pass on to you a couple of things i try to keep in mind when i’m going thru something horrid to which i myself have contributed – no mistake is a total loss if you learn from it, and the shame and/or other such awful emotions that afflict you are, while painful, actually a good thing – it means your conscience is working. far worse for you and those around you if you can walk away unmoved…the stamp thing is probably your mind’s attempt to balance experiencing the event and aftermath between allowing yourself to become detached and overwhelmed. (((leggs)))

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:28 pm

Now kimmie..we not talking about someone joker on the corner..this is the leader of the free world. Come on now.. LBJ..had sex in one of the white house closets, they actually say he was worse than JFK(Marilyn Monroe)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
1:29 pm

ok so whats supposed to happen on PP tonight?? I love that show.

Also Oprah is going to be interesting tomorrow. Audience full of men who were molested.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:29 pm

Maybe the 24 year young chic started off Morgan with a sympathy the one Kym was telling me about a week or so ago.

U chics know that better than I do or maybe Kym will explain.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:33 pm

Kym – err yeah. Either way he’s just a man, his ish stank just like err other man in the free world!!LOL!!! Yeah, I heard ole LBJ was a garden tool!!! Yuck to him too. LOL!!

I tell you this, if that 24 year old was my daughter, I would be heartbroken. What a waste.

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:33 pm

thought I was being pretty tame today, by my standards…

You are…but you go so hard even when you’re tame you’re still hard….hence the “bathroom break”. ;-)

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

Yeah, I heard ole LBJ was a garden tool!!! Yuck to him too. LOL!!

Why did the vision of a little pig in the blanket come to mind?…more eewwww.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

“Also Oprah is going to be interesting tomorrow. Audience full of men who were molested.”

Oprah: “AUUUUUUDIENCE! I have a surprise for youuuuuu! Look under your chairs… EVERYBODY GETS A CATHOLIC PRIEST!”

Entire audience:
:lol:

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

Also Oprah is going to be interesting tomorrow. Audience full of men who were molested

Hmmmm…this I think I’d watch

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

@ARed ~ Thanks. I have paid it forward on so many levels over the years.
Thanks!

@kimmie ~ Grey’s was boring to meet too!

@evy ~ I agree with what you said. It truly bothered my soul that I didn’t have to pay for anything, not even a stamp to mail the papers off. I basically ruined another person’s life and my life went on as usual (at least on the surface)!

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:36 pm

@Zulu..you brought it up you explain…don’t attach my name to whateva jackleg point you are trying to make!

@kimmie..I love presidental history. I think one of our early presidents might have been gay.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:36 pm

SassyThat’s what she said

:lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:37 pm

Dreams – Of course, you know we are SOUL MATES!!
kimmie yeah I know, but you’re off limits because you got Mr. kimmie offline and like 8 blog husbands online. Now, if you told me ya’ll have an “understanding”, then I might not be as noble as you. ;-)

Now kimmie..we not talking about someone joker on the corner..this is the leader of the free world. Come on now..
Kym I see you picked up on my leading question. lol So, how much a$$ on the side you think B.O. is getting?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:38 pm

Kimmie?

IRS so easy to say coz u not in there.
U could be her mom living in the hood and son in law is providing u with all the comforts….mortgage check,food check,clothes for occasional red carpet check,utilities check!

Change ur mind yet?

:lol:

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:39 pm

It is easy to say

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:42 pm

Re: Oprah, not sure if I can watch an hour of wounded souls!!!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:45 pm

Zulu – I realize it’s a different mentality at play and if I was a mother of that mentality, it would be easy to roll with it. Especially when someone may be putting a roof over your head or food on the table. Survival at stake. Dang, I heard one of those underage girls that R Kelly messed with was driven over to his place by her mother. A lot of ghetto mothers promote this type of thing, money at all cost.

Luckily, I was blessed with a better life, therefore a different mindset.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:46 pm

@Zulu ~ I was thinking something along those lines. Giving your position in life, your 24 year old daughter dating a rich elderly man may be accepted to some! Everybody has their hand out for something….just like everyone has a price!!!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:48 pm

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:49 pm

Kym – I collect biographies of famous people – entertainers, political figures, athletes, etc. NOBODY is like they seem or are portrayed in the media. Absolutely nothing surprises me about people. It is all very facinating, peoples life stories and how they came into their success.

DC Rose

November 4th, 2010
1:49 pm

Swiss – Betty White likes if rough. Are you up for the challenge?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:52 pm

U know when u are a parent sometimes God hands u a bad break.
‘The one who is truly good with kids is the one without any.’(a Zulu folklore saying)

There folks out there whose kids(girls) are prostitutes(lol) but they the parents lead upstanding lives. I bet the parents have come to accept it.

That’s life!

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
1:53 pm

Leggs:

Sorry for your pain it’s good it’s all behind you but some memories good or bad always stay stuck in your mind. Please don’t hold the guilt that effect is worse than the memory.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:54 pm

Hey, Faith Evans new CD is NICE, REAL NICE…

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:55 pm

@Dreams..I have no idea what the POTUS is getting on the side..but I wouldn’t be surprised if someone didnt’t offer to toss it up for him. That Oval office has some stories to tell for sure.

@kimmie Did you get Condi Rice’s book?

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:58 pm

I’m in a decent enough place. I think of her often, especially with the Amiee Michaels’ case and the SWD accident last week, but overall I’m ok!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:00 pm

It’s being reported that the judge kept the fact that they found a joint in the ashtray form the jurors. It had Aimee Michaels’ DNA on it!!!

evy

November 4th, 2010
2:00 pm

@ swiss 1:48: 2 bros. talking about older woman puttin the moves on one of em, sweetening the pot with substantial fiscal remuneration (trying to be delicate here, lol) big bro says to lil: well, let’s see – you’d do her for free if she was young and hot, right? lil bro: well, sure. bb: and you’d probably out your dingus in a beehive for a million $, right? lb: oh, i don’t – a MILLION $…i guess…probably…why? bb: well, we’ve established that you’re a mn-whore – now we’re just trying to zero in on your price.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:01 pm

Zulu – Your 1:52 I agree. A lot of times, bad kids are NOT a reflection of their parents. You can do all you can and they still take a different path than the one you would have chosen.

But the me that is me, being blessed to have access to better, it would hurt me to see my young daughter with a married (at the start of the affair) old man that is her stepgrandfather. Even a rich old single unrelated man would be easier to handle.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:01 pm

@Zulu ~ I don’t need a pimp! I’m more than capable of finding my own D….!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:03 pm

Kym – Not yet, but I’m going to. I read some exerts from it.

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:08 pm

Zulu:

How do you do it? There’s no filter for you is it?

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:10 pm

I saw her interview with Jon Stewart…she was really charming and funny.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:13 pm

@Blackfoote..He plays like he doesn’t know what he is saying is crass and crazy..but that is just an act..he is just a flat out..wanker!(British)

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:16 pm

Blimpie or Subway?

Which one is your fav?

I’m doing some market research….help me out.

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:17 pm

On topic: I think that it all depends on how “involved” the different interactions are between ppl…if it is casual fun without any other entanglements of sorts…then date as many as you please, as often as you please…but if there are other factors of engagement…then follow the safest options with realistic expectations.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:17 pm

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:18 pm

Kym:

He has me rollin I can’t finish doin employee evaluations.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:19 pm

@ dreams this is late but I can’t turn down Obama. Look at it this way. I’ll be making history….Yes we can! :)

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:19 pm

Kym – I know that she loves football and was once engaged to a football player and she plays piano very well. She has talked about some of her brushes with racism, think she’s from Birmingham. Very intelligent lady.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:20 pm

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:22 pm

http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/11/04/tf.inappropriate.places.to.flirt/index.html?hpt=Sbin

Too funny…and if someone needs to be told such…then that be a desperate soul…indeed.

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:23 pm

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:25 pm

Kimmie:

She was being touted as the first female fotball commisioner the same time Goodell took the job. Yeah she is intelligent she speaks six languages.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:25 pm

What does blimpie mean?

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:25 pm

YSIC

Melo asked Subway or Blimpie

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:26 pm

dreams this is late but I can’t turn down Obama. Look at it this way. I’ll be making history….Yes we can!
Yes you’re probably in the majority of women on that. all won’t admit it though. lol

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:27 pm

It means you’re about to get a good sammich! :lol:

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:27 pm

@Kimmie..yep I heard her say unless Roger Goodell was going to give up his job..that is her dream job Commissioner of the NFL. Also, she told Jon about why her daddy didn’t march with King..she said King was about non-violence and her daddy told her mom there is no way he could just stand there and take it. He would not be able to maintain that non-violent idea. Daddy Rice was a minister but he was ready to go down swinging.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:27 pm

@ Nik oh I missed it. I thought it was some blog lingo lol

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:28 pm

YSIC,

that is funny

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:29 pm

It means you’re about to get a good sammich!

@ Leggs, when i was prego, blimpie was my spot!

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:32 pm

Blimpie leading….

YSC what’s yours?

Bring it people,hey gents which one u prefer?

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:33 pm

she said King was about non-violence and her daddy told her mom there is no way he could just stand there and take it.
She must have inherited that from her daddy they, cuz no way she could be National Security Advisor without having some violent, warlike tendencies.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:33 pm

Dreams – What I would fear about messing with BO the most – that the fantasy I have in my head would not match reality! It would be so not worth the inevitable scandal of such an affair. Because what happens in the dark WILL come to light one day, especially knowing MY luck. Now if he was free and single, even if it didn’t work out, it wouldn’t be so crushing to me! :lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:33 pm

If I ain’t mistaken, Condi said she wanted to be Baseball commissioner…..

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:34 pm

Blimpe leading…heck only 2 responded! :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:34 pm

zulu are those the only choices man? I’m not a fan of either.

Trevor0529

November 4th, 2010
2:35 pm

I prefer Publix subs myself.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:37 pm

@2C you mistaken she likes Football. She is really a very smart woman.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:38 pm

Three,including u…Kimmie,Nik and Leggs!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

@ Zulu I like Subway over Blimpie….and Quiznos over Subway :D How about you? I just went and got Quiznos on my lunch break lol

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

Dreams – What I would fear about messing with BO the most – that the fantasy I have in my head would not match reality! It would be so not worth the inevitable scandal of such an affair.
kimmie Maybe Sade doesn’t have that fiya, but I’m not gonna psyche myself out of finding out if the opportunity presented itself. She could get it anyday. If it’s wack, well I still love her music. lol

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

“@2C you mistaken she likes Football.”

I agree, however……lemme go find it.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

Trevor – Me too!

czBrat

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:40 pm

@ Kimmie and Dreams I don’t doubt Obama. I’m sure it will be something to write home about.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:40 pm

And if you need further proof..http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/blackhistory2007/news/story?id=2780487

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:41 pm

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:41 pm

If it’s wack, well I still love her music. lol

:lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:42 pm

yep…..you’re right….found it.

czBrat

November 4th, 2010
2:42 pm

YAY!! i guess i’m forgiven for yesterday’s veiled profanity. :oops:

on topic: i’m a one-at-a-time kinda gal. short attention span would not allow me to feign interest in multiples.

off topic: quiznos … turkey avocado sub to be exact. oh and the chicken ranch sammies are good too. oh and the black n blue salad. ok. i’m done.

miss yas!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:43 pm

@Kym…Condi’s fierce love of football is well known…never heard her speak much of baseball though…maybe she likes sports in general and football most specifically.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:45 pm

Geez..thank you your hi-azz-ness for your approval.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:46 pm

YSC?

thanx, I don’t eat none of that.

I am just soliciting for people’s opinions.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:47 pm

“Geez..thank you your hi-azz-ness for your approval.”

whoa!!!! I was just giving you credit, and acknowledging my mistake….

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:48 pm

what, you think your s don’t stink and you got all the answers to everything?

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:51 pm

No I think you came out of lurks all loud and wrong after not one but 3 other people said the same thing..and then come back as if you just discovered something big..as if anyone needed your confirmation.

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:51 pm

@KYM…FOR WHAT AGREEING WITH YOU…heyale, I do not even follow sports but everything you read about her mentions her love for all things football…get off you high A$$ horse…geesh

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:51 pm

2C:

What day you hittin town? Come on get your party on for the weekend cause it’s going to be long trip back home.

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

are ya’ll serious? *sigh*

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

Co-signing with Trevor….Publix is the spot for Subs….

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

Trevor/Dreams?

U got some wild card sammich places?

Bring it!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

what about this ~~~> “your hi-azz-ness” what’s all that for? and loud? how? please elaborate…..

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
2:53 pm

Quiznos!!!!! ;-p

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:54 pm

Turkey day is a coming…what love foods to you plan to make a part of the holiday meal…either on or off the table…hehehe

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
2:55 pm

I went to that motivational seminar earlier this week. It motivated me to take some action.
I’m going to become a homeowner again.
Eek!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
2:55 pm

Subway Beotch!!!!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
2:57 pm

Firehouse Subs

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:59 pm

@SexyCool…they say the now is a good time to do that with the current housing market…the buyer can get more home for the money…I was shocked at what I saw in housing prices from when I left the ATL in ‘07 and returned in ‘09…deals abound.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
3:00 pm

Good for you, SexyC. I was scheduled to go, but had too much work that day and had to come in!

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:01 pm

Celisea, Firehouse is the ish!! and kids eat free on sunday!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:02 pm

Exactly – M’Dee. My loan has been approved and I am shopping REO properties in three specific area codes first.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:03 pm

Princessnik – Is there an age limit? My kid is 15…she can take down a whole sub with sides

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:03 pm

Oprah is having a show with molested men on it and in the audience? You all know the good Bishop is going to watch it, DVR it. “…he’s making a list, he;s checking it twice…Santa Bishop is coming to town”

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:04 pm

Princess – I didn’t think I’d want a warm sub but you’re right…probably about the best I’ve had. My sister turned me on to them. I use to be a Subway girl.

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:04 pm

Celisea :lol: i think its 12

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:05 pm

PrincessNik – Celisea i think its 12

Danggit…oh well

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:06 pm

@SexyCool…you should be able to do well…some cat that I met in West End purchased 3 homes for investment and rental property…he got all three for at or less than $150,000…and these were homes that we in decent marketable shape…not dire repair eyesores…I guess with the market flooded ppl want to unload the financial burden of carry the house related expenses…good luck…I hope that you have something accomplished soon towards that goal.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:08 pm

Scool – You go girl!!

blue®

November 4th, 2010
3:09 pm

sandwiches here: i say Jasons Deli…when i was in Jersey, theres this sub place called Coopers Deli, awesome sandwichs, piled with enough meat and all to make 2 sandwiches…

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
3:12 pm

@blue ~ I am not surprised you mentioned Jason’s Deli….I still miss a nice Hero from back home!

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:13 pm

What are you favorites to put on a sandwich?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
3:18 pm

ok so what are we talking about now?

Afternoon everyone! Man im ready for this workday to end

???

November 4th, 2010
3:18 pm

Which day?!?!?! What a hateful one.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:20 pm

Zulu – Yeah check out Firehouse Subs…I love ‘em

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
3:20 pm

oh snap @ Bishop Santa..*smh* that’s so mighty wrong…but funny

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:20 pm

It’s a lady near me that has lived in the A 15 years now. Moved here from Baltimore. Even though she’s only 48, she’s basically leading the life of an elderly person. Over that time she gained quite a bit of weight, has joint and back problems and walks with a cane now. Her man is a homebody and sickly and does not get out much. They live waaayyyy out in Gwinnett.

All I hear all day is how she can’t find certain things “down here”. I’m not talking stuff unique to where she came from, like Maryland crab cakes. I’m talking BASIC stuff! She asked me was there a Neiman Marcus. Old school soulfood places. Baptist churches that are not megachurches. Come on lady! I love her to death, but if she would get out more, she would know! After 15 years! Living in the boonies in Gwinnett, but looking for Lenox/Phipps or ‘hood stuff!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
3:21 pm

question mark, some folks are just miserable souls….they can try to pretend all they want, but it clearly shows….all you can do is pray for them kinda folks….

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
3:22 pm

I love looking at houses! Sexycool, let me know when you go, I can keep you company :)

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:23 pm

Okay, what happened to Zulu’s comments on having never heard of Firehouse…ooooh, he referenced something tawdry…never mind

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
3:24 pm

@ BLUE I love the baklava! :) @ Jason’s Deli what I would do for some baklava…I need some to cheer me up anyway.

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
3:24 pm

I recant my earlier statement and I will concur with Celisea.
Firehouse subs.

But if you want an opionion of which is better between Subway or Blimpie, then it’s Subway beotches!

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
3:24 pm

Mo?
get ur eat on,Blimpie,Subway or what?

Kimmie?

How u know that lady,works with u?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:25 pm

Wise, you know people are going to be watching that show for the wrong reasons. LOL. I wonder if being molested as a child has something to do with why some grown men are homosexual.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:25 pm

It’s a Firehouse over here by my job. I’ve been meaning to check it out. I’m not much of a sub person, but every now and then I want a good one.

I like Jasons – it’s two over here, but I usually get the salad bar.

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
3:26 pm

My palate is lusting over Firehouse Subs as I type this.
Will someone swan dive and go get me one?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
3:27 pm

Celisea?

I saw that too!

Coz I complimented I am?

Come on Diva,get over ur damn self..geeeez !

Sexycool?

Where u want to buy ur crib?

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:27 pm

Zulu – Yeah, coworker. Remember the one I told yall about awhile back, when the Tiger story broke? All day I heard “poor Tiger, poor Tiger”!LOL

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:27 pm

@ I am,

I was just thinking dang do I want Firehouse for dinner, I try to be frugal and hold out for Sunday if i’m outta free kids meal coupons but it is definately tempting………….

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:29 pm

@kimmie…the ATL metro is soooo sprawled out…one does indeed have to venture into other territories to find things here…and some thangs you ain’t gonna find in Gwinnett…lol

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:29 pm

Gotcha, WD!
I want something similiar in size to my last house. But I want the floor plan to be a bit more open.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:30 pm

Zulu – Coz I complimented I am?

Ummm, I think not! Well I guess in your own mind. Guess I gotta be you to understand that :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
3:30 pm

I like Jason’s. Spot by me (Sabbaba’s) makes a good gyro. gutbusters (in the old location) used to make the best philly in atlanta.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:30 pm

SexyCool, you can buy my house down there :)

blue®

November 4th, 2010
3:31 pm

@Leggs – Jasons – love their sandwiches, and they have these giant baked potatoes, the one with teh brocolli and cheese, awesome!
@YSIC – havent tried the baklava, now i think i gotta next time i go :)

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:31 pm

Isn’t Baklava Armenian food or something? Where did I get that?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:32 pm

Baklava is Greek

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:32 pm

ppl love those Gutbusters subs in West End…but something about the name just don’t make my baby kick…lol…I prefer to eat at Hong Kong City next door.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:33 pm

Ahhh, thanks Purple

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
3:33 pm

Princess: you are thinking the same thing I am!!!!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:35 pm

Baklava is one of my favorite Greek foods…I can eat it by the dozen pieces…as sweet as it is…there was one place I went to some years back that had a variety of Baklava types, some a bit more savory…all delicious…definitely a sneaky high calorie food…seems so small that one more piece ain’t gonna matter.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:35 pm

Okay, Imma have to try Baklava

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
3:35 pm

@PR ~ I do think that is why some men turn into homosexual. The mental hold and the shame they harbor, then the desire to be with this person leaves them befuddled and full with angst (good place for this word). As time goes by, that guilty pleasure is all they have to associate with and. After the initial shock wears off, and the start of “mind control” factors in, one is left to believe that they’re normal. Much like “Stockholm Syndrom” where the kidnapped victime becomes close/falls in love with their kidnapper!!! Mind control at its finest!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
3:35 pm

SCool – Good for you. You’re in your 30s…owning is good.

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:36 pm

P-lito – thanks, but I’m sure your asking price is more than what I am going to spend and is not in the part of town that I want to remain.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
3:36 pm

Guys h know u really giving mr some valuable tut bits coz I don’t eat that kinda food.

When this project pops off ima throw a big bock party and uall will be on top of the invite list.

I know all my friends and you too my enemies, I keep u close too.

Gents,u slacking! :lol:

Celisea, come on baby,that was a bedroom compliment. :lol:

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
3:37 pm

Athens Pizza has really great Baklava yummy

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:37 pm

M’Dee – I told her that. But she and another friend from Miami that has also lived in Gwinnett boonies for 10 years, are the same. If something is not right down the street from them, then it doesn’t exist! Get out and look! And both are scared to go to big, bad Downtown or even Buckhead!!!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:37 pm

@Celisea…I think that the Armenian and Greek ppl are tied together in some sort of ethnic differences…the Armenians were enslaved or something by the Greeks…the Greeks see them as inferior…Cher is Armenian

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:39 pm

SexyCool, I am going to drop the price soon, yes it is way north of Atlanta.

Baklava is good but not as good as a panino or as most call it a panini…lol

Celisea, you are welcome

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:39 pm

M’DeePhine – I think you’re right. I was trying to remember where I heard Baklava and Armenian mentioned and it was one episode of the Kardashians. I think Kim was being set up with an Armenian guy and was amazed that he hadn’t had Baklava as she said it was part of their heritage…or something like that.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
3:40 pm

SCool – There are tons of great houses in your current area. We have 2700 sq foot homes in my subdivision that are a straight STEAL now.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
3:40 pm

Sexy…..shhhhh….don’t tell Diva I’m going house huntin with you….then, when we stop by and pick her up, I can jump out the back seat, and yell……BOOM!!!!!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:40 pm

ARed – This will be my second time buying a house. The first time I had to sell due to changes in my financial situation. I was laid off and out of work for several months.
It was very educational. I am taking what I learned and making better decisions this time around.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:41 pm

I’m ashamed to say, I don’t like Gyros either…wonder how Baklava will sit with me?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:42 pm

@WD…it may have been Athens that had the wide selection of Baklava…it seems to ring a bell…dang, now I want some Greek food.

@Kimmie…well then she will just have to suffer and whine…I understand that most ppl are territorial in their bearings and that they do not like to travel too far outside of a known and familiar comfort zone…so they can miss out on so much in the metro area…the ATL is one of the areas that you HAVE to explore to find things outside of chains and other big box entities…some areas have some very unique finds located specifically to that place.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
3:43 pm

@ Celisea baklava is actually greek/turkish food (depending on who you ask :lol: ) I love it! I haven’t had baklava in a year I need to go get some.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
3:43 pm

” I am taking what I learned and making better decisions this time around.”

wanna sell anything?

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
3:43 pm

SCool – I remember you’ve owned before. And I also remember saying you’d wouldn’t by again til you married or something. I’m glad you changed your mind is my point.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:44 pm

Gotta go to the salon! All this food talk is making me hungry tho!

Be easy!!

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:44 pm

The Greeks and Armenians, are tied together by land, history and religion. They have been co-existed together since the start of both of their ancient societies. One did not enslave the other. They fought together against the Turks

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:45 pm

@Celisea…Baklava is a very sweet filo pastry dough with pistachio nuts…real sticky kind of sweetness…maybe like a pecan pie familiarity in a flaky pastry…sort of,kind of…maybe…lol

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
3:46 pm

@ PR yes and also Turks/Greeks still have animosity. I remember my one friends got into an argument with each other and it was just a slew of historically rooted ethnic comments back and forth. All because I mentioned one’s nationality…. I can’t believe they still hate each other like that (at least in Europe they do)

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
3:46 pm

Isn’t Baklava Armenian food or something? Where did I get that?
Turkish, but you can find it in greek restaurants too.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
3:46 pm

@ celisea think of the chocolate turnover at arbys instead of chocolate its like a honey nut type of glaze I guess is the best way to describe it. If you don’t like it I’ll take it :)

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
3:47 pm

@ Dreams if you tell a Greek person that it is a turkish dish they will go off and tell you how they stole culture from them due to the war. If you do vice versa you will hear the same.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:47 pm

Okay I’m sold…Imma try it…based on ya’ll good experiences :)

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:47 pm

You have one helluva memory. (lol)

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:48 pm

YSIC – Okay…I’m slow, I’m thinking meat. Okay now you know if it’s sweet or in the “sweet” family, I’m willing.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
3:49 pm

I thought baklava was a dessert or a pastry. Hmmm…love Gyros but it sits in my belly like a ton a bricks.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:49 pm

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
3:49 pm

SCool – LOL. That stuck out to me. I didn’t like to hear that kind of talk! Especially with the amount of cheap real estate around these parts! lol

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:50 pm

YesSheIsCute, neither one of them get along with Turks to well, I mean the Turks committed Genocide against the both of them. There have been flare up between the Greek Orthodox and Armeninan Christions though

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:50 pm

Gyros – I tried it, honestly I did…no can do

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:51 pm

Celisea,

I don’t do the gyro’s either

Baklava–eh

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:51 pm

Princessnik – I’ll let you know after the weekend if I liked. I’ll get some then.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:51 pm

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:52 pm

@Purple Rain…one of my Armenian acquaintances mentioned that the Armenians were at some point subordinated by the Greeks…if I am not mistaken…and that the differences came out of the Armenians wanted some sort of independent nation existence or something…similar to the Ethiopians and the Eritreans…vague recollection though…facts maybe obscured by time and age…lol.

@Dreams…are they some significant similarities with the Turks and Greeks on food, etc…the crossover influence that between the countries????

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:52 pm

Gyro’s, love them!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:53 pm

Toucan – you bought up a lot of my sht the last time. (lol) Thanks so much for coming through and helping a sister out.
{hugs to you, WD and Taz}

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:53 pm

Celisea

I don’t absolutely dislike it, but it doesn’t “speak to me” either ;)

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:55 pm

@YSIC…uh-huh…been there, made that mistake…and it ain’t no better with Mexican/Guatemalan or Ethiopian/Eritrean…lol…one would have thought WWIII was going to break out.

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:55 pm

I’m outta here,

If i don’t make it back to blogsville tomorrow, ya’ll have a good weekend!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:56 pm

I right behind you…cutting out early

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:58 pm

In like 200 BC or something there was a Greek King then an Armenian King took over other than that and before that it was honky dory.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
3:59 pm

Sexxycool?

Like Ared I remember that story about the house but lemme ask this:why did it take u do long to realize u can buy a house by ur damn self?

I hate to imagine that Dude is enslaving ur brains like that, he must he putting it down on u real good!

Ha? Sweet

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:03 pm

Otay…so last week I mentioned the old latino flame I re-encountered after 25 years…the then absolute love of my life…he mentioned to me last week that he is expecting a $3mil settlement in January from a lawsuit…hmmmm.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:03 pm

@ PR my Turkish friend was dating this Armenian guy but Armenian dialect is understandable to Turkish so they would talk in their language. I just assumed he was speaking Turkish so one day I asked his name and he said Sammy. I said Sammy doesnt sound Turkish he goes IM NOT TURKISH!!!!!!!!!! I thought he was gonna kill me lol I felt so bad for assuming

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
4:09 pm

and it ain’t no better with Mexican/Guatemalan or Ethiopian/Eritrean…
M’Dee never fails that ethinicities will fight bitterly over differences that a common oppressor created in the first place.

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:09 pm

to the best of my knowledge, the greeks and armenians were both subjected to ‘ethnic cleansing’ (gotta love euphimisms; pretty up the ugliest ish) by the ottoman empire (predecessor of modern turkey), officially recognize and affirm each other’s role in that event, campaigned jointly for wider recognition of same, recognize each other’s independence, maintain embassies and communities in each other’s country, partner each other in international organisations such as the u.n. and b.s.e.c. and have bilateral treaties regarding economics, military endeavors and science & technology

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:09 pm

@ M’Dee I’m glad for that tip you just gave I will not make that mistake. LOL

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:10 pm

Where is Dirty Diana/Professor? Did she change blog names or get banned or something?

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:12 pm

Who said I changed my mind?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:13 pm

@DM…that is what is so mind blowing about the woof tickets being slung…a common “enemy” initiated the differences between and amongst the ppl…smdh

@Evy…thanks for the info…I know the Ottoman Empire ticked many ppl off in their heyday of reign, terror and takeover.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:14 pm

Oh…I didn’t know you got married!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:14 pm

He dangled a mighty big carrot in front of you…why would he divulge something like that to you?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
4:15 pm

“Thanks so much for coming through and helping a sister out.”

yeah…..shoulda hunched Diva while I had the chance……sigh…..

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:15 pm

U and Ared harped on the change!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:15 pm

:lol: :lol: @ARed! Look at it another from a different angle.

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:16 pm

And for the record…I KNOW that I CAN buy a house by myself. I’ve done it before. My position is that I have NO DESIRE to be a single female owning a house again. I did not want the added responsibilty of home maintenance ALONE.

Big difference between not thinking I could and not wanting to.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:16 pm

Read w/o the word “another” in it….sheesh!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:17 pm

@ evy are you british? where are you from?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:17 pm

I LOVE world history

blue®

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

ok, wait, who got married?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

@Leggs…kinda was thinking the same thing me-self…and you know me…I ain’t jumpin’ without seeing the real deal done and in front of me…no doubt…he has always had big money dreams and hopes that he thought would happen with his music career…never happened though…his own fault…this is suppose to be from a wrongful arrest lawsuit from 2006…all truth be told…if he wants to throw me some change..cool…if there would be strings…uh..NOT!…he done got too old…lol.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

and what’s changing now,unless u know some about the nuptials that we don’t.

Or maybe Raqi convinced u that Dude can move in like she did with Mason!

:lol:

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

Who got married?

AmazonRed, I don’t know where she is. Ever since that last spat I have not seen her on here.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:20 pm

And for the record…I KNOW that I CAN buy a house by myself. I’ve done it before. My position is that I have NO DESIRE to be a single female owning a house again. I did not want the added responsibilty of home maintenance ALONE.

Big difference between not thinking I could and not wanting to.

Why are you screaming? :lol:

I’m just saying you said you wouldn’t buy again until you were married. I didn’t think you were married yet. If you are congrats on top of congrats. No one said you didn’t have the means.

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:22 pm

@ yes: nope – born & raised in nyc…why?

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:23 pm

Was actually addressing M.el.o.
Wasn’t screaming, just emphasizing.
(I don’t know why I let the adolescent tone of his posts irk me.)

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:24 pm

Most who brag about getting a 3 mil lawsuit, usually DON’T….

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:24 pm

SexyCool are you married yes or no? Do I need to scratch you off of my bucket list?

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
4:25 pm

*dead* @ shoulda hunched Diva while I had the chance

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:26 pm

@Ared ~ Sexxycool is screaming at Melo’s 3.59 comment.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:26 pm

Well 2C, since Diva is dead let me get a turn after you.

3Million lawsuit? In dollars? How YOU doing?!!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
4:26 pm

SexyCool are you married yes or no? Do I need to scratch you off of my bucket list?
SexyC you mentioned something a couple weeks ago that made me think you got married. I offered you congrats, but you didn’t respond. Is ya hitched or ain’t ya?

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:27 pm

@Ared ~ Sexxycool is screaming at Melo’s 3.59 comment

Well, she’s emphasizing… reminds me of a scene from the tv show “The Game” “”I’m dancing and emphasizing” :lol:

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:28 pm

You guys are funny on this marriage thing!

@SexyC ~ you started it! :lol: :lol: :lol:

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:28 pm

@Leggs…well he was not bragging about it…he mentioned something to me a few weeks back about the lawsuit and what had happened when he returned to GA from Chicago…then last week he texted me to tell me that he had met with his lawyers and the settlement release date is January 21, 2011…still is a wait and see sorta thing…he has tendencies to be hyperbolic…but I have never known him to be a blatant liar…it could be that he is getting a settlement…but it may not be quite that much.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:28 pm

SexyCool have you married some “Dude”? LOL

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:29 pm

ARed – Tasha gone get her gun. WE scared! We scared!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:29 pm

I just read me.lo’s 3:59. How’d I’d miss that foolishness? :lol: :lol: :lol:

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:30 pm

psssstttt…SexyC done ran and got hitched in Las Vegas…there, I couldn’t keep it in the bag any longer. Pls send all gifts to WiseDiva c/o The AJC. SexyC is in the process of finding a home and doesn’t have a current address at the moment!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:30 pm

Purple Rain – I was messing with her.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:31 pm

Things People will not answer on this blog when asked:

Is somebody banned? (Nobody ever answers)
Is SexyCool married? (SexyCool won’t answer)
Want to go on a date? (Wise Diva won’t answer)
Can I get some? (Nobody ever answers)

What’s wrong with me?(Please don’t answer)

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:31 pm

@M’Dee ~ cool to hear he’s probably isn’t lying. He still wanted to latch you onto something…3 Mil will do it for the average joe blow!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:31 pm

@ evy b/c u wrote organisation which is the british way of spelling. but i do that too i write “favourite” and other things but thats just the europeanization coming out

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

ARed – Tasha gone get her gun. WE scared! We scared!

Yes!!! :lol:

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

One of our former MIA bloggers just got married…saw it today on FB.

@PR…you too funny…I ain’t seen no $$$$ yet…and January 21st is still some time away…heyale…he may disappear again for another 25 years…lol

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

Thank you, PR, thank you. That made me laugh!

Purple Rain (SexyCool got married w/o checking with me first!)

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

AmazonRed, until she tells me she did not get married I am telling everyone she is married

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
4:34 pm

Amazingly observant you are, Purple

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:34 pm

Lil Wayne is FREE!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:35 pm

Drake will now have to find something else to yell out at his concerts! LOL!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

@Leggs…naw, I do not think that he was trying to latch me on to anything…we are both pretty clear that a friendship of sorts has been the only sustaining value between us after all of these years…which in and of itself is not a bad thing…and IF he does get something…he would do something for me…he always has…but I am still gonna do a wait and see…not planning to bank it.

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

@ yes: ! very astute of you! i din’t realize that myself – but yeah, i spell ‘colour’, ‘grey’ – stuff like that…similar reason, probly – english and european lit and history during my ‘formative’ years, lol

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

Ared?

u know I made sense on there right,3.59?

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

when I hit that $100mil lotto, I’m not telling a soul.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:37 pm

Hmm…didn’t miss that lil gnome at all.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:37 pm

M’DeePhine, the only Bloggers that are not here by my memory are Lady J and Diana. Which one of them got married?

SexyCool, you are married since you will not tell me you aren’t. Sorry you slipped away from me. You will be okay though he will treat you well. LOL

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:38 pm

@M’Dee ~ thanks for the correction! Ok, you wait and see while I huff and puff to which which of my male friends are about to bank 3Mil. I’ll be the sweetest little vixen known to mankind (LOL)!

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:39 pm

Zulu, will get you ladies to answer. LOL

Wise Diva, it’s okay I still love you and your power :)

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:39 pm

Thank you, ARed, neither did I.

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
4:40 pm

So when is Weezy coming out of the closet?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:40 pm

@PR…this sister used to be on here a while back…can not remember her blog name now…and do not want to use her gubberment name without permission…but she stopped blogging about a year or so ago…since I came back to the ATL.

Lil Wayne is free…and TI is going back…do they have free recording studios in prison or sumthin’…lol

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:41 pm

Here is a question maybe someone will answer. Is today Thursday? LOL

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:42 pm

Dreams, Weezy is gay? NO!!!!!!!!!! I like Weezy

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:44 pm

I would think Drake was Gay before Weezy…wait they both do a lot of songs together…probably in the studio alone…..man they better not be on that Oprah show

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:44 pm

@ purp: lol…poor baby

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:45 pm

@ yes: i am aghast is what i am! lol

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:46 pm

know a smattering of several different languages, but not fluent in any of them

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:46 pm

Weezy is not gay, he got all of his girlfriends pregnant.

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:49 pm

@Leggs…I ain’t throwing away no free dozen eggs…lol…but I ain’t trying to make a batch of scrambled either…hehehe…we go back a very long way together…shared a lot…and we are still friends today…even his ex does not know he is getting this settlement as he says he does not want her to get her hands on a dime of his cash…I suppose if he takes me to meet with his lawyers as he has ask me to do…then I will know sumthin’ anyway.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:50 pm

MDeePhine, it’s good that you can not be bought.

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
4:50 pm

watch it Purple, don’t make me go pull out my black latex suit LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:50 pm

@ evy what languages do you speak?

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:51 pm

@ evy are you conversationally fluent and which ones?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:51 pm

Wise Diva, yes ma’am, your highness!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:53 pm

@PR…anybody who knows me also knows that my integrity and intentions are not for sale…period…$$$ is important when it is earned by the proper channels or received as such…but integrity has no price tag as far as I am concerned…and my friend knows this about me too.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:54 pm

@M’Dee ~ excellent…good to see a friendship like the one you two have…cha chink! Seriously, I’m joking, I really am! Or is it cha ching! hmmmm…

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:54 pm

am i banned?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:56 pm

@Leggs..it is CHAAAAAAA CHIIIIIIIINNNGGG…lmao…it would be too ironic if this was the only reason I came back to the ATL…hehehe…but it would sure make it worth the while…cause I woulda nevah run into him in the VA.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:57 pm

Enter your comments here

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:57 pm

Zulu – Woman law will not allow me to cosign on your foolishness!

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:57 pm

Ever touch a screen over and over only to realize that it’s not a touch screen? Yes I feel dumb….very

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:58 pm

@PR…uh, I know plenty of gay dudes dat be daddy’s…lol…ain’t even gonna go there…lmao.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:59 pm

:lol: thanks M’Dee!

By being yourself, you put something wonderful in the world that was not there before ~ Edwin Elliot

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:59 pm

Ared, if it werent close to truth, the response elf have been tamer,

I know women!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
5:00 pm

@ EVY which languages do you speak?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
5:00 pm

@Leggs…mwuah!!!…btw…does little leggs still wear her necklace????

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
5:01 pm

The greatest risk in life is…never taking one. ~ Unknown

Dedicated to the one I hold the gatekey for!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
5:01 pm

The blog has been turned off everyday this week. If ya’ll knew how to act we could keep it going after 5!!! :P

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
5:02 pm

:lol: :lol: We both wear it!!!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
5:06 pm

The blog has been turned off everyday this week. If ya’ll knew how to act we could keep it going after 5!!!

I’m suggesting everybody Woosah before entering tomorrow or take something to calm the nerves

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
5:09 pm

@leggs…kewl…lovin that

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
5:09 pm

And if the topic is going and flowing please don’t interrupt because you have no interest…please wait until the tide changes. Or frequent a site where something piques your interest until the topic changes. Even if it a bit heated at least there’s a flow and we’re on the subject.

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
5:10 pm

@ARed…know how to act…here???…uh, really…lol

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
5:12 pm

oh NO! I don’t close up @ 5 pm to punish The old blog platform closed automatically and I’ve always forgotten to manually close up because I’m usually in a staff meeting.

Going forward, though, I have no problem keeping an eye on the comments for the late shift LOL at least till 6:00? you’re welcome :)

Kym

November 4th, 2010
5:13 pm

Kimmie are you still here..only California would do this…

http://www.11alive.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=161346&catid=40

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
5:17 pm

Kym — Actually, it’s happened before. In Missouri in 2000, John Ashcroft lost a Senate race to a dead guy. Of course, that didn’t stop W from appointing him Atty. General…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
5:18 pm

Kym — Actually, it’s happened before. In Missouri in 2000, John Ashcroft lost a Senate race to a dead guy. Of course, that didn’t stop W from appointing him Attorney General…

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
5:18 pm

Kym

November 4th, 2010
5:20 pm

Well the Dems could brag that it is one seat they won from the grave.

evy

November 4th, 2010
5:25 pm

@ yes: not fluent in any but english (it’s been suggested that i overcompensate there, lol)…you know how it is – use it or lose it; i do not have much opportunity to use foreign languages in my current milieu (like how i slipped that one in on ya? heeheehee). and more of my ability (past & present both) is related to reading and writing (conducted alot of e-business in french when i worked at pru) than the spoken language – i’ve been told by native speakers that my accent is maravillosa, but i am shy about it nonetheless…spanish, italian, greek, french, german, russian, mandarin, japanese…i think that’s it…

evy

November 4th, 2010
5:26 pm

@ yes: p.s. – wasn’t iggin u – was away 4 a bit

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
5:34 pm

Y’all know I was kidding, Diva!

And we don’t need no stinkin hall monitor! Give us free! LOL

evy

November 4th, 2010
5:39 pm

@ amazon: lol, girl!