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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Wanted by many, taken by none

I can understand how dating multiple people can become a ego boost. You’re in high demand, people are jockeying for your time, it’s all about YOU. It’s all fun and games until somebody wants more.

This is usually when the drama starts. It’s not always easy pursuing these mini “relationships” and then you have to decide how and when to narrow things down to one…or at least TWO.

I have noticed that the younger guys I meet say that they are told to juggle many women but it gets really old, really fast for them. I’ve seen a lot of people who prefer to date one person and see how things turn out.

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?

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2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

what about this ~~~> “your hi-azz-ness” what’s all that for? and loud? how? please elaborate…..

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
2:53 pm

Quiznos!!!!! ;-p

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:54 pm

Turkey day is a coming…what love foods to you plan to make a part of the holiday meal…either on or off the table…hehehe

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
2:55 pm

I went to that motivational seminar earlier this week. It motivated me to take some action.
I’m going to become a homeowner again.
Eek!!!

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
2:55 pm

Subway Beotch!!!!

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
2:57 pm

Firehouse Subs

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:59 pm

@SexyCool…they say the now is a good time to do that with the current housing market…the buyer can get more home for the money…I was shocked at what I saw in housing prices from when I left the ATL in ‘07 and returned in ‘09…deals abound.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
3:00 pm

Good for you, SexyC. I was scheduled to go, but had too much work that day and had to come in!

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:01 pm

Celisea, Firehouse is the ish!! and kids eat free on sunday!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:02 pm

Exactly – M’Dee. My loan has been approved and I am shopping REO properties in three specific area codes first.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:03 pm

Princessnik – Is there an age limit? My kid is 15…she can take down a whole sub with sides

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:03 pm

Oprah is having a show with molested men on it and in the audience? You all know the good Bishop is going to watch it, DVR it. “…he’s making a list, he;s checking it twice…Santa Bishop is coming to town”

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:04 pm

Princess – I didn’t think I’d want a warm sub but you’re right…probably about the best I’ve had. My sister turned me on to them. I use to be a Subway girl.

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:04 pm

Celisea :lol: i think its 12

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:05 pm

PrincessNik – Celisea i think its 12

Danggit…oh well

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:06 pm

@SexyCool…you should be able to do well…some cat that I met in West End purchased 3 homes for investment and rental property…he got all three for at or less than $150,000…and these were homes that we in decent marketable shape…not dire repair eyesores…I guess with the market flooded ppl want to unload the financial burden of carry the house related expenses…good luck…I hope that you have something accomplished soon towards that goal.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:08 pm

Scool – You go girl!!

blue®

November 4th, 2010
3:09 pm

sandwiches here: i say Jasons Deli…when i was in Jersey, theres this sub place called Coopers Deli, awesome sandwichs, piled with enough meat and all to make 2 sandwiches…

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
3:12 pm

@blue ~ I am not surprised you mentioned Jason’s Deli….I still miss a nice Hero from back home!

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:13 pm

What are you favorites to put on a sandwich?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
3:18 pm

ok so what are we talking about now?

Afternoon everyone! Man im ready for this workday to end

???

November 4th, 2010
3:18 pm

Which day?!?!?! What a hateful one.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:20 pm

Zulu – Yeah check out Firehouse Subs…I love ‘em

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
3:20 pm

oh snap @ Bishop Santa..*smh* that’s so mighty wrong…but funny

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:20 pm

It’s a lady near me that has lived in the A 15 years now. Moved here from Baltimore. Even though she’s only 48, she’s basically leading the life of an elderly person. Over that time she gained quite a bit of weight, has joint and back problems and walks with a cane now. Her man is a homebody and sickly and does not get out much. They live waaayyyy out in Gwinnett.

All I hear all day is how she can’t find certain things “down here”. I’m not talking stuff unique to where she came from, like Maryland crab cakes. I’m talking BASIC stuff! She asked me was there a Neiman Marcus. Old school soulfood places. Baptist churches that are not megachurches. Come on lady! I love her to death, but if she would get out more, she would know! After 15 years! Living in the boonies in Gwinnett, but looking for Lenox/Phipps or ‘hood stuff!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
3:21 pm

question mark, some folks are just miserable souls….they can try to pretend all they want, but it clearly shows….all you can do is pray for them kinda folks….

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
3:22 pm

I love looking at houses! Sexycool, let me know when you go, I can keep you company :)

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:23 pm

Okay, what happened to Zulu’s comments on having never heard of Firehouse…ooooh, he referenced something tawdry…never mind

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
3:24 pm

@ BLUE I love the baklava! :) @ Jason’s Deli what I would do for some baklava…I need some to cheer me up anyway.

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
3:24 pm

I recant my earlier statement and I will concur with Celisea.
Firehouse subs.

But if you want an opionion of which is better between Subway or Blimpie, then it’s Subway beotches!

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
3:24 pm

Mo?
get ur eat on,Blimpie,Subway or what?

Kimmie?

How u know that lady,works with u?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:25 pm

Wise, you know people are going to be watching that show for the wrong reasons. LOL. I wonder if being molested as a child has something to do with why some grown men are homosexual.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:25 pm

It’s a Firehouse over here by my job. I’ve been meaning to check it out. I’m not much of a sub person, but every now and then I want a good one.

I like Jasons – it’s two over here, but I usually get the salad bar.

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
3:26 pm

My palate is lusting over Firehouse Subs as I type this.
Will someone swan dive and go get me one?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
3:27 pm

Celisea?

I saw that too!

Coz I complimented I am?

Come on Diva,get over ur damn self..geeeez !

Sexycool?

Where u want to buy ur crib?

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
3:27 pm

Zulu – Yeah, coworker. Remember the one I told yall about awhile back, when the Tiger story broke? All day I heard “poor Tiger, poor Tiger”!LOL

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
3:27 pm

@ I am,

I was just thinking dang do I want Firehouse for dinner, I try to be frugal and hold out for Sunday if i’m outta free kids meal coupons but it is definately tempting………….

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:29 pm

@kimmie…the ATL metro is soooo sprawled out…one does indeed have to venture into other territories to find things here…and some thangs you ain’t gonna find in Gwinnett…lol

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
3:29 pm

Gotcha, WD!
I want something similiar in size to my last house. But I want the floor plan to be a bit more open.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:30 pm

Zulu – Coz I complimented I am?

Ummm, I think not! Well I guess in your own mind. Guess I gotta be you to understand that :)

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
3:30 pm

I like Jason’s. Spot by me (Sabbaba’s) makes a good gyro. gutbusters (in the old location) used to make the best philly in atlanta.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:30 pm

SexyCool, you can buy my house down there :)

blue®

November 4th, 2010
3:31 pm

@Leggs – Jasons – love their sandwiches, and they have these giant baked potatoes, the one with teh brocolli and cheese, awesome!
@YSIC – havent tried the baklava, now i think i gotta next time i go :)

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:31 pm

Isn’t Baklava Armenian food or something? Where did I get that?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
3:32 pm

Baklava is Greek

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:32 pm

ppl love those Gutbusters subs in West End…but something about the name just don’t make my baby kick…lol…I prefer to eat at Hong Kong City next door.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:33 pm

Ahhh, thanks Purple

I am whatever you say I am

November 4th, 2010
3:33 pm

Princess: you are thinking the same thing I am!!!!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
3:35 pm

Baklava is one of my favorite Greek foods…I can eat it by the dozen pieces…as sweet as it is…there was one place I went to some years back that had a variety of Baklava types, some a bit more savory…all delicious…definitely a sneaky high calorie food…seems so small that one more piece ain’t gonna matter.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
3:35 pm

Okay, Imma have to try Baklava