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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Wanted by many, taken by none

I can understand how dating multiple people can become a ego boost. You’re in high demand, people are jockeying for your time, it’s all about YOU. It’s all fun and games until somebody wants more.

This is usually when the drama starts. It’s not always easy pursuing these mini “relationships” and then you have to decide how and when to narrow things down to one…or at least TWO.

I have noticed that the younger guys I meet say that they are told to juggle many women but it gets really old, really fast for them. I’ve seen a lot of people who prefer to date one person and see how things turn out.

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?

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Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:13 pm

@Blackfoote..He plays like he doesn’t know what he is saying is crass and crazy..but that is just an act..he is just a flat out..wanker!(British)

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:16 pm

Blimpie or Subway?

Which one is your fav?

I’m doing some market research….help me out.

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:17 pm

On topic: I think that it all depends on how “involved” the different interactions are between ppl…if it is casual fun without any other entanglements of sorts…then date as many as you please, as often as you please…but if there are other factors of engagement…then follow the safest options with realistic expectations.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:17 pm

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:18 pm

Kym:

He has me rollin I can’t finish doin employee evaluations.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:19 pm

@ dreams this is late but I can’t turn down Obama. Look at it this way. I’ll be making history….Yes we can! :)

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:19 pm

Kym – I know that she loves football and was once engaged to a football player and she plays piano very well. She has talked about some of her brushes with racism, think she’s from Birmingham. Very intelligent lady.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:20 pm

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:22 pm

http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/11/04/tf.inappropriate.places.to.flirt/index.html?hpt=Sbin

Too funny…and if someone needs to be told such…then that be a desperate soul…indeed.

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:23 pm

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:25 pm

Kimmie:

She was being touted as the first female fotball commisioner the same time Goodell took the job. Yeah she is intelligent she speaks six languages.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:25 pm

What does blimpie mean?

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:25 pm

YSIC

Melo asked Subway or Blimpie

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:26 pm

dreams this is late but I can’t turn down Obama. Look at it this way. I’ll be making history….Yes we can!
Yes you’re probably in the majority of women on that. all won’t admit it though. lol

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:27 pm

It means you’re about to get a good sammich! :lol:

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:27 pm

@Kimmie..yep I heard her say unless Roger Goodell was going to give up his job..that is her dream job Commissioner of the NFL. Also, she told Jon about why her daddy didn’t march with King..she said King was about non-violence and her daddy told her mom there is no way he could just stand there and take it. He would not be able to maintain that non-violent idea. Daddy Rice was a minister but he was ready to go down swinging.

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:27 pm

@ Nik oh I missed it. I thought it was some blog lingo lol

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:28 pm

YSIC,

that is funny

PrincessNik

November 4th, 2010
2:29 pm

It means you’re about to get a good sammich!

@ Leggs, when i was prego, blimpie was my spot!

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:32 pm

Blimpie leading….

YSC what’s yours?

Bring it people,hey gents which one u prefer?

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:33 pm

she said King was about non-violence and her daddy told her mom there is no way he could just stand there and take it.
She must have inherited that from her daddy they, cuz no way she could be National Security Advisor without having some violent, warlike tendencies.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:33 pm

Dreams – What I would fear about messing with BO the most – that the fantasy I have in my head would not match reality! It would be so not worth the inevitable scandal of such an affair. Because what happens in the dark WILL come to light one day, especially knowing MY luck. Now if he was free and single, even if it didn’t work out, it wouldn’t be so crushing to me! :lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:33 pm

If I ain’t mistaken, Condi said she wanted to be Baseball commissioner…..

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:34 pm

Blimpe leading…heck only 2 responded! :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:34 pm

zulu are those the only choices man? I’m not a fan of either.

Trevor0529

November 4th, 2010
2:35 pm

I prefer Publix subs myself.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:37 pm

@2C you mistaken she likes Football. She is really a very smart woman.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:38 pm

Three,including u…Kimmie,Nik and Leggs!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

@ Zulu I like Subway over Blimpie….and Quiznos over Subway :D How about you? I just went and got Quiznos on my lunch break lol

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

Dreams – What I would fear about messing with BO the most – that the fantasy I have in my head would not match reality! It would be so not worth the inevitable scandal of such an affair.
kimmie Maybe Sade doesn’t have that fiya, but I’m not gonna psyche myself out of finding out if the opportunity presented itself. She could get it anyday. If it’s wack, well I still love her music. lol

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

“@2C you mistaken she likes Football.”

I agree, however……lemme go find it.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

Trevor – Me too!

czBrat

November 4th, 2010
2:39 pm

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
2:40 pm

@ Kimmie and Dreams I don’t doubt Obama. I’m sure it will be something to write home about.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:40 pm

And if you need further proof..http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/blackhistory2007/news/story?id=2780487

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:41 pm

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:41 pm

If it’s wack, well I still love her music. lol

:lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:42 pm

yep…..you’re right….found it.

czBrat

November 4th, 2010
2:42 pm

YAY!! i guess i’m forgiven for yesterday’s veiled profanity. :oops:

on topic: i’m a one-at-a-time kinda gal. short attention span would not allow me to feign interest in multiples.

off topic: quiznos … turkey avocado sub to be exact. oh and the chicken ranch sammies are good too. oh and the black n blue salad. ok. i’m done.

miss yas!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:43 pm

@Kym…Condi’s fierce love of football is well known…never heard her speak much of baseball though…maybe she likes sports in general and football most specifically.

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:45 pm

Geez..thank you your hi-azz-ness for your approval.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:46 pm

YSC?

thanx, I don’t eat none of that.

I am just soliciting for people’s opinions.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:47 pm

“Geez..thank you your hi-azz-ness for your approval.”

whoa!!!! I was just giving you credit, and acknowledging my mistake….

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
2:48 pm

what, you think your s don’t stink and you got all the answers to everything?

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:51 pm

No I think you came out of lurks all loud and wrong after not one but 3 other people said the same thing..and then come back as if you just discovered something big..as if anyone needed your confirmation.

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
2:51 pm

@KYM…FOR WHAT AGREEING WITH YOU…heyale, I do not even follow sports but everything you read about her mentions her love for all things football…get off you high A$$ horse…geesh

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:51 pm

2C:

What day you hittin town? Come on get your party on for the weekend cause it’s going to be long trip back home.

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

are ya’ll serious? *sigh*

Simple Man!!!!

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

Co-signing with Trevor….Publix is the spot for Subs….

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
2:52 pm

Trevor/Dreams?

U got some wild card sammich places?

Bring it!