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Wanted by many, taken by none

I can understand how dating multiple people can become a ego boost. You’re in high demand, people are jockeying for your time, it’s all about YOU. It’s all fun and games until somebody wants more.

This is usually when the drama starts. It’s not always easy pursuing these mini “relationships” and then you have to decide how and when to narrow things down to one…or at least TWO.

I have noticed that the younger guys I meet say that they are told to juggle many women but it gets really old, really fast for them. I’ve seen a lot of people who prefer to date one person and see how things turn out.

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?

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Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:18 pm

He CAN what? Talking dirty at cute at 75, wrinkled joy stick ain’t cute at 75, he’s got worms…so what is there? Money….ding ding ding, that’s it.

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:19 pm

Got these old men running around thinking they “got it” again and suddenly their little wives, that stuck by them when they “lost it” are not good enough!!

For real right?!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:19 pm

Celisea – Agreed – nasty all along.

Dreams – No way in H—-!!!

Now the REAL POTUS – If Michelle was out of the picture, all day long, not gonna lie!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
1:19 pm

ok im sorry but Morgan Freeman put himself in the “nasty old azz man” category for going after that young girl! So yep, nasty old man.

Dreams – so sorry, nothing about that mostly salt-n-pepper ‘fro gets me all hot-n-bothered! He couldnt get it…. if I did it would have to be reminiscent of Marcus (Eddie Murphy) in Boomerang when he slept with Lady Eloise….”its not dark enough”

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:20 pm

Who’s ready for Private Practice tonight!!! It’s going to be a doosey!

Dang Mrs. JtJ ~ there was a baby in the car?? You could have easily been the Aimee Micheals that year!

@SassyMe ~ i’m swiss is like Melo, they stay hot for cookie!

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
1:21 pm

i’m swiss™ 1:10PM Sassy — H3ll… When you’re that old, you know death is just around the corner no matter what… Might as well be death by :lol:

Reminds me of the grandfather in Little Ms. Sunshine who snorted coke at like 70-something.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
1:21 pm

Leggs – It would haunt me too, especially if my defense was free. Hopefully you were able to pay it forward for someone else in life. Maybe convincing the firm to help another person out in need or something.

I’m sorry that happened to you and the victim.

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
1:21 pm

Dang it….I meant “two”

@ Leggs….Wow.that was difficult. I am sure she has forgiven you. But like someone said before, Don’t tell you daughter about it just yet, the loss of her friend is still too fresh. She may never want to drive after that.

Celisea

November 4th, 2010
1:22 pm

Kimmie – Now the REAL POTUS – If Michelle was out of the picture, all day long, not gonna lie!!!

Yep yep yep…come baby let me ease your political pains. There’s a difference in fine wine and moldy bread. Obama = fine wine Morgan the nasty man = moldy

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:22 pm

Legg – PP is going to be SERIOUS tonight. I didn’t like Grey’s last week.

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:22 pm

Now the REAL POTUS – If Michelle was out of the picture, all day long, not gonna lie!!!
So, kimmie if by chance you ran into B.O. and he propositioned you, saying he and Michelle have an understanding, you would decline?

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:23 pm

Dreams – I don’t do “understandings”! He’s hot & all, but so is H—!!!

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:24 pm

i’m swiss is like Melo, they stay hot for cookie!

I see….he probably needs to take a bathroom break or sumthin. ;)

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:25 pm

Dreams – I don’t do “understandings”! He’s hot & all, but so is H—!!!
kimmie I already knew your response. You know that right? lol

Mrs. JtJ

November 4th, 2010
1:26 pm

Leggs- I know, we could have all been dead! I can truly say I have learned!!!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:26 pm

I thought I was being pretty tame today, by my standards… :?:

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:26 pm

Dreams – Of course, you know we are SOUL MATES!! :wink:

evy

November 4th, 2010
1:27 pm

@ leggs: agreed, lopsided!

well, hun, i’ll pass on to you a couple of things i try to keep in mind when i’m going thru something horrid to which i myself have contributed – no mistake is a total loss if you learn from it, and the shame and/or other such awful emotions that afflict you are, while painful, actually a good thing – it means your conscience is working. far worse for you and those around you if you can walk away unmoved…the stamp thing is probably your mind’s attempt to balance experiencing the event and aftermath between allowing yourself to become detached and overwhelmed. (((leggs)))

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:28 pm

Now kimmie..we not talking about someone joker on the corner..this is the leader of the free world. Come on now.. LBJ..had sex in one of the white house closets, they actually say he was worse than JFK(Marilyn Monroe)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 4th, 2010
1:29 pm

ok so whats supposed to happen on PP tonight?? I love that show.

Also Oprah is going to be interesting tomorrow. Audience full of men who were molested.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:29 pm

Maybe the 24 year young chic started off Morgan with a sympathy the one Kym was telling me about a week or so ago.

U chics know that better than I do or maybe Kym will explain.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:33 pm

Kym – err yeah. Either way he’s just a man, his ish stank just like err other man in the free world!!LOL!!! Yeah, I heard ole LBJ was a garden tool!!! Yuck to him too. LOL!!

I tell you this, if that 24 year old was my daughter, I would be heartbroken. What a waste.

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:33 pm

thought I was being pretty tame today, by my standards…

You are…but you go so hard even when you’re tame you’re still hard….hence the “bathroom break”. ;-)

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

Yeah, I heard ole LBJ was a garden tool!!! Yuck to him too. LOL!!

Why did the vision of a little pig in the blanket come to mind?…more eewwww.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

“Also Oprah is going to be interesting tomorrow. Audience full of men who were molested.”

Oprah: “AUUUUUUDIENCE! I have a surprise for youuuuuu! Look under your chairs… EVERYBODY GETS A CATHOLIC PRIEST!”

Entire audience:
:lol:

Delight23

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

Also Oprah is going to be interesting tomorrow. Audience full of men who were molested

Hmmmm…this I think I’d watch

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:35 pm

@ARed ~ Thanks. I have paid it forward on so many levels over the years.
Thanks!

@kimmie ~ Grey’s was boring to meet too!

@evy ~ I agree with what you said. It truly bothered my soul that I didn’t have to pay for anything, not even a stamp to mail the papers off. I basically ruined another person’s life and my life went on as usual (at least on the surface)!

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:36 pm

@Zulu..you brought it up you explain…don’t attach my name to whateva jackleg point you are trying to make!

@kimmie..I love presidental history. I think one of our early presidents might have been gay.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 4th, 2010
1:36 pm

SassyThat’s what she said

:lol:

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
1:37 pm

Dreams – Of course, you know we are SOUL MATES!!
kimmie yeah I know, but you’re off limits because you got Mr. kimmie offline and like 8 blog husbands online. Now, if you told me ya’ll have an “understanding”, then I might not be as noble as you. ;-)

Now kimmie..we not talking about someone joker on the corner..this is the leader of the free world. Come on now..
Kym I see you picked up on my leading question. lol So, how much a$$ on the side you think B.O. is getting?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:38 pm

Kimmie?

IRS so easy to say coz u not in there.
U could be her mom living in the hood and son in law is providing u with all the comforts….mortgage check,food check,clothes for occasional red carpet check,utilities check!

Change ur mind yet?

:lol:

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:39 pm

It is easy to say

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:42 pm

Re: Oprah, not sure if I can watch an hour of wounded souls!!!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:45 pm

Zulu – I realize it’s a different mentality at play and if I was a mother of that mentality, it would be easy to roll with it. Especially when someone may be putting a roof over your head or food on the table. Survival at stake. Dang, I heard one of those underage girls that R Kelly messed with was driven over to his place by her mother. A lot of ghetto mothers promote this type of thing, money at all cost.

Luckily, I was blessed with a better life, therefore a different mindset.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:46 pm

@Zulu ~ I was thinking something along those lines. Giving your position in life, your 24 year old daughter dating a rich elderly man may be accepted to some! Everybody has their hand out for something….just like everyone has a price!!!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:48 pm

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
1:49 pm

Kym – I collect biographies of famous people – entertainers, political figures, athletes, etc. NOBODY is like they seem or are portrayed in the media. Absolutely nothing surprises me about people. It is all very facinating, peoples life stories and how they came into their success.

DC Rose

November 4th, 2010
1:49 pm

Swiss – Betty White likes if rough. Are you up for the challenge?

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
1:52 pm

U know when u are a parent sometimes God hands u a bad break.
‘The one who is truly good with kids is the one without any.’(a Zulu folklore saying)

There folks out there whose kids(girls) are prostitutes(lol) but they the parents lead upstanding lives. I bet the parents have come to accept it.

That’s life!

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
1:53 pm

Leggs:

Sorry for your pain it’s good it’s all behind you but some memories good or bad always stay stuck in your mind. Please don’t hold the guilt that effect is worse than the memory.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:54 pm

Hey, Faith Evans new CD is NICE, REAL NICE…

Kym

November 4th, 2010
1:55 pm

@Dreams..I have no idea what the POTUS is getting on the side..but I wouldn’t be surprised if someone didnt’t offer to toss it up for him. That Oval office has some stories to tell for sure.

@kimmie Did you get Condi Rice’s book?

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
1:58 pm

I’m in a decent enough place. I think of her often, especially with the Amiee Michaels’ case and the SWD accident last week, but overall I’m ok!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:00 pm

It’s being reported that the judge kept the fact that they found a joint in the ashtray form the jurors. It had Aimee Michaels’ DNA on it!!!

evy

November 4th, 2010
2:00 pm

@ swiss 1:48: 2 bros. talking about older woman puttin the moves on one of em, sweetening the pot with substantial fiscal remuneration (trying to be delicate here, lol) big bro says to lil: well, let’s see – you’d do her for free if she was young and hot, right? lil bro: well, sure. bb: and you’d probably out your dingus in a beehive for a million $, right? lb: oh, i don’t – a MILLION $…i guess…probably…why? bb: well, we’ve established that you’re a mn-whore – now we’re just trying to zero in on your price.

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:01 pm

Zulu – Your 1:52 I agree. A lot of times, bad kids are NOT a reflection of their parents. You can do all you can and they still take a different path than the one you would have chosen.

But the me that is me, being blessed to have access to better, it would hurt me to see my young daughter with a married (at the start of the affair) old man that is her stepgrandfather. Even a rich old single unrelated man would be easier to handle.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
2:01 pm

@Zulu ~ I don’t need a pimp! I’m more than capable of finding my own D….!

kimmie

November 4th, 2010
2:03 pm

Kym – Not yet, but I’m going to. I read some exerts from it.

Blackfoote

November 4th, 2010
2:08 pm

Zulu:

How do you do it? There’s no filter for you is it?

Kym

November 4th, 2010
2:10 pm

I saw her interview with Jon Stewart…she was really charming and funny.