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Wanted by many, taken by none

I can understand how dating multiple people can become a ego boost. You’re in high demand, people are jockeying for your time, it’s all about YOU. It’s all fun and games until somebody wants more.

This is usually when the drama starts. It’s not always easy pursuing these mini “relationships” and then you have to decide how and when to narrow things down to one…or at least TWO.

I have noticed that the younger guys I meet say that they are told to juggle many women but it gets really old, really fast for them. I’ve seen a lot of people who prefer to date one person and see how things turn out.

Do you think single people are still playing the numbers game? Do you prefer to have a starting line up or work with your one star athlete?

What are the pros and cons to juggling multiple dates? What’s the best way to do it without causing unnecessary drama and using deceit?

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SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:12 pm

Who said I changed my mind?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:13 pm

@DM…that is what is so mind blowing about the woof tickets being slung…a common “enemy” initiated the differences between and amongst the ppl…smdh

@Evy…thanks for the info…I know the Ottoman Empire ticked many ppl off in their heyday of reign, terror and takeover.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:14 pm

Oh…I didn’t know you got married!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:14 pm

He dangled a mighty big carrot in front of you…why would he divulge something like that to you?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 4th, 2010
4:15 pm

“Thanks so much for coming through and helping a sister out.”

yeah…..shoulda hunched Diva while I had the chance……sigh…..

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:15 pm

U and Ared harped on the change!

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:15 pm

:lol: :lol: @ARed! Look at it another from a different angle.

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:16 pm

And for the record…I KNOW that I CAN buy a house by myself. I’ve done it before. My position is that I have NO DESIRE to be a single female owning a house again. I did not want the added responsibilty of home maintenance ALONE.

Big difference between not thinking I could and not wanting to.

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:16 pm

Read w/o the word “another” in it….sheesh!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:17 pm

@ evy are you british? where are you from?

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:17 pm

I LOVE world history

blue®

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

ok, wait, who got married?

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

@Leggs…kinda was thinking the same thing me-self…and you know me…I ain’t jumpin’ without seeing the real deal done and in front of me…no doubt…he has always had big money dreams and hopes that he thought would happen with his music career…never happened though…his own fault…this is suppose to be from a wrongful arrest lawsuit from 2006…all truth be told…if he wants to throw me some change..cool…if there would be strings…uh..NOT!…he done got too old…lol.

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

and what’s changing now,unless u know some about the nuptials that we don’t.

Or maybe Raqi convinced u that Dude can move in like she did with Mason!

:lol:

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:18 pm

Who got married?

AmazonRed, I don’t know where she is. Ever since that last spat I have not seen her on here.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:20 pm

And for the record…I KNOW that I CAN buy a house by myself. I’ve done it before. My position is that I have NO DESIRE to be a single female owning a house again. I did not want the added responsibilty of home maintenance ALONE.

Big difference between not thinking I could and not wanting to.

Why are you screaming? :lol:

I’m just saying you said you wouldn’t buy again until you were married. I didn’t think you were married yet. If you are congrats on top of congrats. No one said you didn’t have the means.

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:22 pm

@ yes: nope – born & raised in nyc…why?

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:23 pm

Was actually addressing M.el.o.
Wasn’t screaming, just emphasizing.
(I don’t know why I let the adolescent tone of his posts irk me.)

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:24 pm

Most who brag about getting a 3 mil lawsuit, usually DON’T….

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:24 pm

SexyCool are you married yes or no? Do I need to scratch you off of my bucket list?

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
4:25 pm

*dead* @ shoulda hunched Diva while I had the chance

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:26 pm

@Ared ~ Sexxycool is screaming at Melo’s 3.59 comment.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:26 pm

Well 2C, since Diva is dead let me get a turn after you.

3Million lawsuit? In dollars? How YOU doing?!!!

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
4:26 pm

SexyCool are you married yes or no? Do I need to scratch you off of my bucket list?
SexyC you mentioned something a couple weeks ago that made me think you got married. I offered you congrats, but you didn’t respond. Is ya hitched or ain’t ya?

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:27 pm

@Ared ~ Sexxycool is screaming at Melo’s 3.59 comment

Well, she’s emphasizing… reminds me of a scene from the tv show “The Game” “”I’m dancing and emphasizing” :lol:

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:28 pm

You guys are funny on this marriage thing!

@SexyC ~ you started it! :lol: :lol: :lol:

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:28 pm

@Leggs…well he was not bragging about it…he mentioned something to me a few weeks back about the lawsuit and what had happened when he returned to GA from Chicago…then last week he texted me to tell me that he had met with his lawyers and the settlement release date is January 21, 2011…still is a wait and see sorta thing…he has tendencies to be hyperbolic…but I have never known him to be a blatant liar…it could be that he is getting a settlement…but it may not be quite that much.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:28 pm

SexyCool have you married some “Dude”? LOL

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:29 pm

ARed – Tasha gone get her gun. WE scared! We scared!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:29 pm

I just read me.lo’s 3:59. How’d I’d miss that foolishness? :lol: :lol: :lol:

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:30 pm

psssstttt…SexyC done ran and got hitched in Las Vegas…there, I couldn’t keep it in the bag any longer. Pls send all gifts to WiseDiva c/o The AJC. SexyC is in the process of finding a home and doesn’t have a current address at the moment!

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:30 pm

Purple Rain – I was messing with her.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:31 pm

Things People will not answer on this blog when asked:

Is somebody banned? (Nobody ever answers)
Is SexyCool married? (SexyCool won’t answer)
Want to go on a date? (Wise Diva won’t answer)
Can I get some? (Nobody ever answers)

What’s wrong with me?(Please don’t answer)

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:31 pm

@M’Dee ~ cool to hear he’s probably isn’t lying. He still wanted to latch you onto something…3 Mil will do it for the average joe blow!

YesSheIsCute

November 4th, 2010
4:31 pm

@ evy b/c u wrote organisation which is the british way of spelling. but i do that too i write “favourite” and other things but thats just the europeanization coming out

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

ARed – Tasha gone get her gun. WE scared! We scared!

Yes!!! :lol:

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

One of our former MIA bloggers just got married…saw it today on FB.

@PR…you too funny…I ain’t seen no $$$$ yet…and January 21st is still some time away…heyale…he may disappear again for another 25 years…lol

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

Thank you, PR, thank you. That made me laugh!

Purple Rain (SexyCool got married w/o checking with me first!)

November 4th, 2010
4:32 pm

AmazonRed, until she tells me she did not get married I am telling everyone she is married

Wise Diva

November 4th, 2010
4:34 pm

Amazingly observant you are, Purple

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:34 pm

Lil Wayne is FREE!

SexyCool

November 4th, 2010
4:35 pm

Drake will now have to find something else to yell out at his concerts! LOL!

M'DeePhine

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

@Leggs…naw, I do not think that he was trying to latch me on to anything…we are both pretty clear that a friendship of sorts has been the only sustaining value between us after all of these years…which in and of itself is not a bad thing…and IF he does get something…he would do something for me…he always has…but I am still gonna do a wait and see…not planning to bank it.

evy

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

@ yes: ! very astute of you! i din’t realize that myself – but yeah, i spell ‘colour’, ‘grey’ – stuff like that…similar reason, probly – english and european lit and history during my ‘formative’ years, lol

Zulu!

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

Ared?

u know I made sense on there right,3.59?

DreamsMaterialize

November 4th, 2010
4:36 pm

when I hit that $100mil lotto, I’m not telling a soul.

AmazonRed™ - the hope diamond

November 4th, 2010
4:37 pm

Hmm…didn’t miss that lil gnome at all.

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:37 pm

M’DeePhine, the only Bloggers that are not here by my memory are Lady J and Diana. Which one of them got married?

SexyCool, you are married since you will not tell me you aren’t. Sorry you slipped away from me. You will be okay though he will treat you well. LOL

Leggs ™

November 4th, 2010
4:38 pm

@M’Dee ~ thanks for the correction! Ok, you wait and see while I huff and puff to which which of my male friends are about to bank 3Mil. I’ll be the sweetest little vixen known to mankind (LOL)!

Purple Rain

November 4th, 2010
4:39 pm

Zulu, will get you ladies to answer. LOL

Wise Diva, it’s okay I still love you and your power :)