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Do you believe in karma?

I took a quick trip to Savannah this weekend and I had a ball. I absolutely love it there and going on Halloween weekend only made it more…interesting. We took one of those ghosts and graveyard tours throughout historical parts of the city. A lot of history there!

As I was putting on a brave front, I was thinking that it was a good thing I didn’t have any bad karma coming my way. That would probably have been a good time to pay for something I had done to somebody else…well, if you believe in that sort of thing.

Do you believe in karma? Do you find comfort knowing that people that have treated you horribly in relationships will one day end up miserable?

Happy Monday! How was your weekend?!

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YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
8:41 am

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
8:47 am

My weekend was great I just came back from the caribbean. :D

Good Morning everybody! How was everyone else’s weekend?

Yes I do feel vindication in knowing that someone who has wronged me has either A. apologized and acknowledged their wrong doing or B. been served a dose of their own medicine or other misfortunate to bring balance back into the world.

I have to admit I was affected by this loser I called myself dating through a friend in 2007/2008. I just quit talking to him and never really took the chance to read him the RIOT act. Well I later found out he was in dire straights right now. He even contacted me presumably to bring more ruckus into my life….I felt bad b/c I DIDN’T feel badly about his misfortune. In fact I was reveling in it.

I think it helps to have these things happen but sometimes you got pick it up moving on and keep strollin like you never even knew them….

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
8:49 am

Gal, whatchu talkin bout? karma is a bytch!!!

and naw, it ain’t so much as me having comfort knowing somebody don’ shy tt ed on me…..it’s just the nature of the beast….you gon’ reap what you sow…ye’en gotta believe it, it’s gon happen, tho!

Stephen

November 1st, 2010
8:49 am

Nope. I believe in forgiveness. It’s a much more powerful tool. Give it a shot and see if you care later on about those people from your past the same way.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
8:51 am

Stephen, you are completely right. I guess everyone is a lot different. Some people just can’t hold grudges for the life of them. Some people hold on to grudges for dear life. It’s something that certain people have to work on and some people it comes more naturally. Sometimes just when you think you let something go, you get an in your face reminder. It can be hard. But you are still right though.

Kym

November 1st, 2010
8:51 am

Good Morning All,

I believe in karma but not in the sense of what we do as bad will come back to get us some later time..I believe that what we put out there..is what comes back. If you throw out bad vibes..then in return that is exactly what you get..bad. If you put out good vibrations–then you get good vibrations. I am just not one to believe that there is some giant scoreboard constantly keeping track of how well we are doing or not doing at this life game.

Off-Topic.. and you knew it was coming..Let me just say here and now I can’t believe we lost to the Aints..so help me I am just stunned and amazed. I am just gonna suck this lost up cause we have to..but if we lose to the Bungals on Monday night….ohhh weeee!. *Now going to find me a bit of Cola courage to get thru this day.*

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
9:00 am

Karma…..No, I don’t buy that, but I try to treat people in an honorable way because that how my mom and dad rasied me…Besides, If we got what we put out there in the dateing world, I would be the Bill gates of the dating word…Instead sometimes I feel more like the Charlie Brown LOL….

Da_Man!

November 1st, 2010
9:03 am

I agree, Karma can be a B****, especially when it occurs on I75/85 rush hour traffic with just fumes in your tank & a flat tire. However, there’s god Karma too.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
9:07 am

Simple Man, you don’t believe in Karma?

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
9:08 am

2can….Nope…..

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
9:09 am

bom dia peoples!!! I absolutely believe in Karma. Every action has a reaction. Cause and effect. With our behavior we build, repair and burn bridges or connections.

I think it’s these connections and relationships that “deliver” our Karma.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
9:12 am

“Every action has a reaction.”…..every action has an opposite, but equal, reaction…

blue®

November 1st, 2010
9:15 am

Mornin Peoples,

Karma, do i believe, most certainly. i believe it all comes back around, what you put out there is what you get back. have seen several instances that i have chalked up to karma, bad and good…and yes, its a bytch, sometimes the way it comes back around your going “d@mn somebody has a serious sense of humor”

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
9:16 am

I there is a such thing as Karma, When then do so many really SH Y TTY people end receiving so many breaks in life??? Jerk Dudess end up with Great women, Theives end up with all the loot, Liars end up getting elected, and Eddie Long gets a Bently???

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
9:21 am

Simple Man….trust, what you see ain’t always what it is…look at what the good bishop is going through right now! Akin to “what you do in the dark, always come to the light.”

Kym

November 1st, 2010
9:25 am

I see this is going to be one of these deep convo days..where is my Eckhart Tolle?

Sweet Pea

November 1st, 2010
9:27 am

Good Morning Weekend was great! I hope everyone else enjoyed theirs. Yes, I believe in karma so that is why I believe in treating others the way I would like to be treated. As for finding comfort in knowing someone who treated me bad who will end up miserable….vengeance is not mine! Just say you keep it moving and whatever will be will be…It took a minute for me to feel this way, however now I try not to dwell on the negative!

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 1st, 2010
9:27 am

Do you find comfort knowing that people that have treated you horribly in relationships will one day end up miserable?

No I wouldn’t find comfort perse but I do believe in Karma and that what goes around comes around…and back on around again. Does that mean that I’ll wait and skulk around to see it come around?….why waste my time. The best revenge is to live well and prosper.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
9:28 am

Do you believe in karma?

No…on karma…on reaping what you sow…on getting what you put out…on the secret. I think life is life. People experience it differently…hell if I know the reason.

Do you find comfort knowing that people that have treated you horribly in relationships will one day end up miserable?

No, but I do find discomfort in knowing that some good spirited people can (and do) experience misery.

All in all, I think inner peace is worth fighting for…be good whether it counts or not…love and all that good stuff…just because.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
9:28 am

“I see this is going to be one of these deep convo days”

Diva started it…..but Karma is deep….when you look at the totality of it, it delves into metaphysical science..

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
9:28 am

2Can, I can give a million examples where a person has jacked folks around and walked away free and clear…Now maybe they have contracted some terrible maledy like IBS or 5mm gallstones with a thousand sharp edges but but to me I see no retribution. Again this does not mean that won’t treat people in the best way I can, In fact I a;wasy will, but It won’t be because I am afraid of some random ass backdoor payback….

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
9:28 am

Dang…didn’t mean to bold all that!!! LOL

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
9:29 am

:?: :?: :?: a black hole emerges..where’d my post go :?:

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
9:31 am

@ Simple Man it sure does seem that way that bad people get the best of it or ill-intentioned people get the best of it. Really it seems like ballsy people with ill-intention get away with a lot.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
9:32 am

Simple Man….hey bruh, that’s what works for you….but yeah, I believe all that “stuff”….

blue®

November 1st, 2010
9:32 am

@2C@Simple Man – yeah, you dont always see how it comes back around. sometimes you do, i mean Eddie got the Bently, and then the public protest demanding he get an HIV test.

karma: gf of mine talks us into moving to GA, its great here, schools are great, and besides she has no real friends, lonely as all he!! misses us since we’ve been friends 15+ years. we move here, got no friends but her. 6 months later she moves back home cause shes tired of the south. WTH! she buys a house, car, starts talking about how much better the north is than the south. 6 months after she buys her house, her job transfers her back to Augusta. Transfer or lose your job….told her straight up: karma

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
9:34 am

I don’t believe Karma is about tit for tat but overall positive and negative experiences based on human behavior.

So yes treating people like crap and getting no sympathy as you suffer through the passing of “5mm gallstones” is definately a Karmic experience, because here you have something sh y tty happening to an overall sh y tty person.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
9:36 am

@ Sassy Me you are so right! That is definitely the best revenge. Said person may go on with their life not even thinking about the negative impact on you but when they are confronted with the fact that you are doing even better since you’ve parted ways or even BETTER than they are…I’m sure that’s gotta sting.

Who has had this experience?

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
9:39 am

Mind you, I never knock anyone for what they believe, but I just don’t buy it…Blue your girl did not get hit by the Karma train, she is a victim of her own indecisiveness… karma does not send folks to Agusta…That had to be the Devil!!! LOL

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
9:43 am

:lol: blue® I thinks that falls more in line with irony.

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
9:43 am

If karma is so strong, please explain to me how Dick Cheney gets 5 deferments to avoid serving this country and not only ends up as the Secertary of Defense under one president But the VP of the US under another????

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
9:44 am

“karma does not send folks to Augusta…That had to be the Devil!!!”

LOL……

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
9:44 am

um, “I think” “Me thinks” too fast for my fingers. :-P

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 1st, 2010
9:45 am

<emWho has had this experience?

Moi…

Kym

November 1st, 2010
9:51 am

@Simple I know it is a hard concept to get around..but everything, every event..good or bad is as it should be.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
9:52 am

Thing is that same karma that you are enjoying happening to people that have wronged you will come right back on you and your happiness in their ill will. Also, once “karma” has played it’s card you are not the judge of if it was enough “karma” going their way. And..you may only observe the karma that you witnessed in someones life…you have no idea what karma they are keeping hidden. Some people keep their struggles private and when it’s over come out to the public better than ever. Stop waiting on people to get their “due” they may have already and you not know it…they may have already grown from it and living a better life. Life your life and let them live theirs, if you are caught up on them getting karma back on them for how bad they did you, well you thats a sure sign that you still have some sort of feelings for that person. If you were over them you would not care about their Karma..thats a weakness on your part.

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
9:53 am

Good Monday Morning All,

Feeling a bit sore from hiking up Stone Mountain yesterday but it’s a good sore.

I do believe in karma…i’m just waiting for my refund check to come in from all the bs I’ve dealt with over the years. Is that wrong? lol
As far as wishing others some bad juju, I’m sure during the midst of the situation i probably wish harm to them in some form or fashion…but once my anger leaves, I tend to let the karma train handle it as it sees fit. I couldn’t function ‘normally’ if I held onto every wrong someone did to me. However, as someone previously stated, it does appear that the arseholes of the world get the biggest breaks. Make me wonder if there is truth to “NICE GUYS/GALS FINISH LAST” hmmmm???

blue®

November 1st, 2010
9:53 am

@Simple Man – “karma does not send folks to Augusta…That had to be the Devil!!!” – thats hilarious!! is Augusta that bad? and honestly, things went so down hill with her over the last year or so that i could so her being in leaugue with the devil, so something to think about, lmao
@Delight – i could see some irony there too, lol
@Yes – had that experience. must admit, i did delight in it!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 1st, 2010
9:53 am

Morning All

Its monday and Im dragging….full “Garfield” mode today

Kym – even though Im not a Steelers fan I was pissed that ya’ll lost to the Aints!

Karma – yep I believe in it. Moreso like Kym said, that what you put out there is what you get back. You wrong me and you will be wronged, I may not witness it or anything but again its what you put out there.

Okay where is some no-doz when you need it…..

blue®

November 1st, 2010
9:57 am

Do you find comfort knowing that people that have treated you horribly in relationships will one day end up miserable? i dont know if comfort is the right word, but maybe some relief in the hope that they’ll get what they deserve. not sitting outside waiting to see them fall down the stairs, but its easier for me to let go and live my life with the idea that the universe will deal them the cards they have earned…

For Real

November 1st, 2010
9:58 am

What blog fam…..

I do not believe in karma and I would never revel in someone else misfortunes (except for Kym), that’s small and petty behavior which speaks volumes about your character (unless you are directing it towards Kym). Dayum did I just channel abc? Whew!

Karma is just one of the many excuses people use to justify their poor decision making. Make better decision and watch how much better your life becomes. No magic needed.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
9:59 am

What person determines if someone gets what they deserve? Who the hell are you to determine that? LOL

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:00 am

“Feeling a bit sore from hiking up Stone Mountain yesterday but it’s a good sore.” Zippppppppppppp aka Stone Mountain”

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:00 am

@For Real.. bite me joker!..we beat your little chickens..

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
10:01 am

Purp – how you holding up….cold enough for you yet? ;-)

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
10:01 am

The truth of the matter is while Karma may very well exist not everyone will experience it. Or rather not to the extent that some of us may wish it to be experienced by someone else.

Everyone wants to think and believe the one person that mucked them up the worse will be tortured with a life of hell and brimstone here on earth, but that just is not the case. Heck some people are more miserable wanting and waiting for the hammer to come down on an offender than the offender will ever be for what they did to that person.

What goes around may come around in a sense but it will not always be in the exact form or sometimes not even a recognizable form to many.

Just because someone broke my heart doesn’t necessary mean their heart will be broken. And even if it does they may have the strength to bounce back much easier than I did making not that drastic revenge I may have hoped for them.

So stop waiting for the wrath of God to fall on your exes for your revenge. It doesn’t work like that.

We all must face our consequences but truly it will only be for the wrong doing and not as an act of revenge on your part by a higher power.

Da_Man!

November 1st, 2010
10:03 am

Karma is deep and can be somewhat considered metaphysical … but you can also look at it in a simpler term. Bad karma can ties into bad deeds which is more often afilliated with a bad group/influences (vice versa for good).

When something unfortunate happens to someone, we can always tie it back to either their overall character, who they hang out with, or what kind of mess they’re always into … I guess we considered it deserving or expected. We often consider the same thing for the people struck with good fortune.

So whether you believe or don’t believe, we’re all thinking along the same line …

blue®

November 1st, 2010
10:04 am

@Raqi – The truth of the matter is while Karma may very well exist not everyone will experience it. Or rather not to the extent that some of us may wish it to be experienced by someone else.

well said. we dont decide what comes their way, or if its what they deserve, or even all of what they deserve. we have our opinions, but karma, universe, God, coincidence, whatever you consider the governing factor, does not run our schedule. for those who have accepted that, imo, things flow easier. you just trust that it will even out and move on your way…

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
10:04 am

For Real – I think you had a typing error this morn…lemme fix it for you—> ‘Zippppppppppppp aka Pebble Rock’ No need to thank me, you know I likes to look out for my homies ;-)

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:05 am

There is no such thing as karma. All you get in life is the consequences of YOUR decisions and your faith. Speaking of faith, how you believe in a God and believe in karma at the sametime?

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:07 am

Slim: “‘Zippppppppppppp aka Pebble Rock’” – But it’s still a good sore right?

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:07 am

“Favor ain’t Fair”

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:09 am

Kym I am loving the cold :)

Are we talking about Karma like burning incense in your house and worshipping some little doll for good things to happen or karma in the sense of just reaping what you sow whether it be good or bad?

Raqi, I love what you just typed.

Sassy Me...feeling like new!! :-)

November 1st, 2010
10:10 am

you just trust that it will even out and move on your way…

Couldn’t have said it any better…live your life :)

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:11 am

Raqi: “We all must face our consequences but truly it will only be for the wrong doing and not as an act of revenge on your part by a higher power.” – If people would stop believing their pain is the greatest pain ever witnessed by mankind then they wouldn’t sit around hoping, praying, or voodooing on some dude cause he left you.

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
10:11 am

‘Speaking of faith, how you believe in a God and believe in karma at the sametime?’

For Real – isn’t that pretty much saying the same thing….You reap what you sow aka karma?? Anyhoo, yeah you’re right…it’s still a good sore. Could be a great sore but I don’t mind taking baby steps. lol

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
10:12 am

Now have I heard of something bad happening to someone that I felt wronged me and thought “that’s what you get dog for hurting me”? Yes I have. But the truth remains that what happened to them is not necessarily a result of what they did to me.

Will I ever have that thought again? Yes, most definitely.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:13 am

For Real, I agree with your 10:11 and will add that most people did not think that whatever bad happened to them in the first place…may just be something coming back on them. LOL

Trevor0529

November 1st, 2010
10:13 am

Do you believe in karma? Do you find comfort knowing that people that have treated you horribly in relationships will one day end up miserable?

While I do believe in karma? I find no comfort in those who have wronged me ending up miserable. If someone has wronged me, I wish them the best in life. I just get up, brush myself off, forgive myself and move on.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
10:14 am

Delight — Are you a Brasileira??? Eu amo Brasileiras!!! ;-)

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:17 am

@For Real..we all like to believe that the world stops for our pain..misery loves company and all that. That is why I said..we have to wrap our minds around that everything that has happen and will happen are the way they should be.

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:18 am

@Purple R..glad you are enjoying the cold..(just don’t send any this way.) I would like a mild winter please.

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:19 am

Slim: “isn’t that pretty much saying the same thing” – Karma according to hinduism and buddhism means the effects of a person’s actions that determine his destiny in his next incarnation or the theory of inevitable consequence. Now how does that jive with Christianity and Jesus death on the cross for out sins?

Oh I do good helluva alot more times than I can do great.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
10:20 am

On topic: Karma? Uh, no. All you have to do is take a look around you to know there’s no such thing. How many azzh0les do you see who are living the good life? And how many genuinely good people do you see struggling to get by? Karma is BS. Just another jedi mind trick by those who make (and break) the rules to keep the masses in submission.

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
10:23 am

For Real – I see you trying to go deep on me…wish you would’ve done that last night. lmao But for real, point taken even though i was merely speaking in terms of reaping what you sow being equivalent to karma–> getting back what you put out. ;-)

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:24 am

Kym: “That is why I said..we have to wrap our minds around that everything that has happen and will happen are the way they should be.” – Maybe I’m interpreting your post wrong because you are a Stealers fan but how does “free will” come into play with your assessment? So a poor decision was made because that’s way it should be?

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
10:26 am

I have come to learn that many things we hang onto because it makes us feel better. Like believing in absolute karma. And that very belief can make you miserable also.

I have many things that I have faced and am still dealing with in my life as a consequence of a choice that I made.

All those years of me having to care for my youngest son alone is the consequence of me dealing with his father. Yeah there are some folks out that I don’t even dang know that would like to believe that something worse should and will happen to me. But the truth is I am living my consequences for my action. My life may seem too happy now for them but who are they to say what I should or shouldn’t be faced with. Heck for 9 months I wished I didn’t have to go thru what I was going thru. And several years pass that I “suffered”.

Playing with fire can get your burned. Who I am to say that fire should have consumed you rather than just leave you with a scar? And why would any sane person choose to live in misery because another person has gotten pass playing with fire and is living quite well with their scar?

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
10:26 am

For those of you that believe some stones goes unturned…read the 37th Psalm. God ain’t like me and you….so no folks ain’t cut off the first they do wrong…heck we ain’t cut off the first time we do wrong…he would be God if he did that. In his own time and at the right time does people get their just rewards. Many many times we won’t see it and as 2Can has stated just because that’s not the picture you see doesn’t mean it’s not going on. No stones go unturned.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
10:27 am

“wouldn’t” be God…is what I meant.

joe

November 1st, 2010
10:28 am

YES. I like to think that the bi-atch who keyed my car will get hers, since I couldn’t get her back, Karma has my back…That is precisely why I don’t ever ‘wrong’ anyone and treat others as I would like to be treated…esp in the dating world. Remember, what comes around goes around.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
10:29 am

Raqi – I have many things that I have faced and am still dealing with in my life as a consequence of a choice that I made.

Me too…amen amen and amen. My daugther just asked me something in the car Saturday and I told her it’s a result of a bad decision I made. True so true lady.

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
10:33 am

Good morning lovely folks!

Scary topic for a Monday, but okay!

I am human, so yes while I don’t like to wish bad on people, I have hoped that people who have wronged me get theirs. I have. But I don’t waste much time worrying about that. I just try to be the best person I can be and, like 4Real says, make the best decisions I can. I truly believe I am one of those people that gets their “karma” right away, no years down the road stuff! I gets mine immediately!LOL!! So I’m too busy tryin to do right to worry about some tired joker or some other slicker that’s done me wrong. Things have a way of catching up with you. For example, it’s a lady that lives near me that owes me money. I ran into her the other day and she couldn’t even look me in my smiling eyes!

Hope everyone had a fabulous weekend! I did!

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:33 am

Slim: “I see you trying to go deep on me…wish you would’ve done that last night.” – See that’s why I like you. And I can’t come up a snappy comeback for that one.

Seven

November 1st, 2010
10:35 am

Karma can be bad…or extremely good. My life has just been wonderful since I started GIVING more back to the ‘universe’ vs. taking, taking, taking (or whining). By giving, I mean volunteering and helping out with community projects, helping older citizens, etc. I’ve met some very nice people along the way.
A long time ago, I realized that waiting for bad things to happen to people who did me wrong was a complete waste of time. How does the old saying go? “The best revenge is living well.” And I’ve been doing that ever since. :-)

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
10:38 am

“The best revenge is living well.”

Seven – High 5!!! That’s me all the way!!!

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:39 am

@For Real..I am gonna let you have your Steeler jokes today..because for all I know my boys were in the French Quarter Saturday night..but I digress. If you believe in anything or nothing at all..how could you not believe that everything is as it should be? Name one situation in your life you could have changed..or better yet would have changed. From all experience we should gain something good or bad.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:41 am

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
10:43 am

I’m not sure about the Bible, but is grace and forgiveness in there? How does it apply to karma? Actually, how do you determine when you or God is responsible for your blessings (or curse or learning experience)?

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:43 am

Why do people even care what happens with someone who they no longer deal with good or bad?

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
10:44 am

For Real

November 1st, 2010
10:45 am

Kym: “Name one situation in your life you could have changed..or better yet would have changed.” – Not betting on the Stealers to beat the Saints but I digress too. I can name 100 situations in my life that I could have or would have changed. I’m sure you can too.

“how could you not believe that everything is as it should be?” – Not sure I understand this statement cause I name alot of things in my life that’s not way it should be.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:46 am

Luvbug, it’s you when you can explain it from your own dealings. It’s God when you have no explanation except that it is God. I really try not to get into religious discussions on here since the last debacle of which I was involved in.
“God’s last name is not dammit”

Seven

November 1st, 2010
10:47 am

@kimmie: High 5 right back at ya! I’m a positive woman; there is enough negativity in the world already. I just feel like if you put the positive ‘vibes’ out there, you will get that (and more) in return in your life.
Not saying I haven’t had some bad experiences, but the bad times only last for a while. I give those situations the necessary attention and then I move on. Besides, there are always ‘worry warts’ who can worry enough for everyone. LMAO

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
10:47 am

LuvBug….I’ve been trying to stay on the sidelines with this…..but think about it….if we (humans) could bless ourselves, then nobody would ever be in a state of misery.

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
10:47 am

Morning:

Karma is a stae of mind for any person who chooses to believe in it, they way you live will not govern how another will be subjected to good or bad consequences however we all have instances in our own lives where we felt wronged by some unseen force or person which begs us to believe in something.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
10:49 am

@Seven – A long time ago, I realized that waiting for bad things to happen to people who did me wrong was a complete waste of time – so true, fastest way to stop living.

A.M. quote:
How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours.
Wayne Dyer

KarmaMochaLatte

November 1st, 2010
10:49 am

There is most certainly karma on this mortal coil, evidenced in every facet of life. What good or bad we do is countered with the like reaction somewhere down the road. Like the bridegroom in SW Atlanta that killed his young bride of 2 weeks, he will face his bad karma for his actions. Too bad we have to invoke the “hindsight is 20/20″ rule when stories of this nature surface. Did anyone see what this evil man was capable of before he killed? Were there any signs of abuse in his past or present relationships? Did the young bride have any inclination of her groom’s troubled mind? It is not as simple as saying that many interracial relationships come ingrained with difficulties, but could this have been prevented? Let this be a lesson to young women to make absolutely sure of their boyfriend’s past before giving their heart to someone else. Can you always know everything? Of course not, but check, double check, and gauge your friends’ reactions to your new boyfriend before allowing yourself to fall in love. “an ounce of prevention…”

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:51 am

@For Real..considering that none of us really have any control over our own destiny..what other way is there to live but in the present moment..now..knowing that everything is as it should be.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
10:51 am

Purple – Thanks for the clarification. I was sitting here thinking my worldly accomplishments are obviously me and God must be chipping in the rest…boy was I on the wrong path…now asking for forgiveness. :lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:52 am

KarmaMochaLatte, your 10:49 is BS.

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:53 am

@Blue..I like Dr. Dwyer..I have his book Living the Wisdom of the Tao @ home.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
10:53 am

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
10:55 am

‘if we (humans) could bless ourselves’

2C – I bless myself every now and then when there isn’t anyone else to do it for me….does that count? :lol: :lol:

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
10:57 am

“considering that none of us really have any control over our own destiny.”

Oh really????? So who or what controls our destiny????

Kym

November 1st, 2010
10:58 am

@Karma..I don’t know the whole story on that..but I do know a wealthy affluent man in Milton held his whole family hostage yesterday..because he losted his job..and when the po-po’s got there he was passed out drunk and the kids were safe. All the checking in the world could not have prepared his wife or his family for that trama yesterday. And I am sure when his wife married him and popped out the babies she didn’t think he was capable of taking them thru that kind of hell either.

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
11:01 am

We may not have control over the cards we are dealt but you do control the way you play your hand….

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
11:01 am

Ahhhh, Slim, you’re in the doghouse….you do know we’re married right? How you gon offer MY goods to someone else….

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:02 am

2CPTG, those are recycled goods many times over. Like those grocery bags that you buy…you can use them over and over…let a friend or a stranger use them sometimes. They just serve their purpose…and are good at it. LOL

Georgia Brown

November 1st, 2010
11:04 am

This is a deep subject…Simple Man where have you been…

blue®

November 1st, 2010
11:06 am

@Kym – i havent really read any of his writing, but the quote seemed dead on to me
@Slim – you do control the way you play your hand….i like that :)

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
11:06 am

2C – The way you were galavanting with all the other female bloggers had me assuming that you secretly annulled our union. What was I sposed to thank? Maybe we should upgrade to Open Marriage status. lol

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
11:09 am

2C- I would probably be miserable if I were a slave or in a sex trade or a natural disaster victim, whether I forgave myself or not.

I was referring to the concept of karma being your choice coming back to bite you not meshing well (to me) with the concept of God forgiving and gracing a person who has made a bad choice. If God has forgiven you and/or graced you, no karma…no (forgiveness based) misery to continue. If you want to live in a state of misery, you can, but it may or may not change your circumstance. If you want to hate someone who is blessed and graced despite their so called ‘crimes’, same goes…it won’t change their circumstance.

IMO, the best you can do is change your mind.

In all, my point was there is a sizable part of life that is not in your control.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
11:13 am

Well since the principle of Karma ties into the “golden rule”…why does it seem like people don’t treat people how they would like to be treated? Sometimes it seems like you get farther in the world treating people how they treat you situationally….

For Real

November 1st, 2010
11:13 am

2C: Human can bless themselves and should as much as possible.

KarmaMochaLatte : Calling BS on your post.

Kym: “For Real..considering that none of us really have any control over our own destiny.” – Sorry life is not a free fall. You have total control over your destiny. It’s called “Free Will”.

“what other way is there to live but in the present moment..now” – You say that as if the present is a direct result of the past with an eye for the future. Human’s are made to live in the present moment. Hell even animal have a conceptual understanding of how the past and future are components of the present.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:14 am

Yep there are different levels of consequences some levels are greater than others.

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
11:14 am

Kym:

I felt for your boys (Steeler Fan) I actually wanted them to win. Damn Aints, they inched closer to the top of the division but we controll it especially when we put the Bucs back in their place this week.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:15 am

For Real thank you for agreeing with my 10:52. LOL

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
11:15 am

Swiss: Great GMA is Portuegese. Grandpa is Portugese/Kittisian and still “gently” reminding me to embrace. Promised him I make effort to learn. :-)

For Real

November 1st, 2010
11:17 am

Luvbug: “In all, my point was there is a sizable part of life that is not in your control.” – Care to expound upon those sizable parts?

YSIC: “Well since the principle of Karma ties into the “golden rule” – Not true, karma is tied to your after life

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
11:19 am

Wow. Guess my idea of Karma is pretty simplistic. It’s all about the actions have reactions, that are not dictated by the sender. Assumptions are made that no one is affected, but we do not know wbout the totality of the lives of strangers.

One persons High Life maybe anothers hell. It’s all relatively qualitative.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:20 am

I think people have different definitions of karma.

and with plastic surgery you can now make sizable differences to your life.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
11:20 am

@ For Real If we were to keep the integrity of the concept of Karma you are right. As far as the limited westernized concept of Karma it seems to tie into the golden rule. Treat people as you would like to be treated because you reap what you sow. It seems to be related subjects but its just my opinion.

Be that as it may doesn’t it seem that way that people do not treat others how they know they would like to be treated? Doesn’t it sometimes seem on average like people get better results or desired results if they treat people the way that specific person treats them? (Not saying it’s right but after observation it seems that way).

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
11:22 am

blue®: How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours.
Wayne Dyer

:!: Like I said earlier, realationships and interactions with others.

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
11:24 am

(((kiciking rocks))) I can spell…I swear :-(

For Real

November 1st, 2010
11:24 am

YSIC: “Doesn’t it sometimes seem on average like people get better results or desired results if they treat people the way that specific person treats them?” – That’s called good decision making. Turning the other cheek only works when everyone is using a cheek. Not so much when the other person has a bat.

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
11:24 am

pssht. I’m going back to work. Can’t even kick rocks correctly. :oops:

For Real

November 1st, 2010
11:27 am

Purp: “I think people have different definitions of karma.” – Yep and instead of looking up the actual definition people like to go with what they think or have been taught.

Off topic but on the topic of having different definitions of words; when people decide to change the meaning of a word to suit their needs then how can two people communicate when one person believes up means down?

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
11:28 am

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:28 am

Turning the other cheek does not always be peaceful and walking away.. It means showing another side of you. If you are always mean showing the other cheek means show some peace. If you are always peaceful showing the other cheek means you have to “get with it” IMO

Kym

November 1st, 2010
11:29 am

For Real..Did you have any idea you were going to wake up this morning? or Did you just free will your way up? I mean we all hope to wake up and get going..but what proof do we have that we will. Heck who’s to say one of us won’t make it home tonight?(Not wishing or placing that out in the universe on anyone.)

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:30 am

For Real, how do people even decide to change words. LOL. That’s funny now that I think about it and some of those words.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
11:32 am

Care to expound upon those sizable parts?

4Real – Sure…an example…I see life similar to the road. The longer the travel distance the greater the chance of a vehicular accident. If you don’t drive, your chance greatly diminishes, but the cost is experiencing less. The less people (cars) on the road…the less your chances of incident…but, but, but…you’re never alone, so it’s never only your choice when you’re sharing a space. Others can crash into you and change your life around whether you’re on the road or not…house, people get hit by cars and planes going haywire…it happens…natural disasters happens.

It’s made that we need help each other to lesson the chance of being the victims of each other and ourselves.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
11:34 am

Slim…..I was only kidding sweetheart……my heart belongs to you and Mo….

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:34 am

Luvbug, in regards to your life and road example. I tend to thing the longer you live the wiser you get lessoning the chances for repeating the things you did as a reckless life. A longer life should help you have a wreckless road trip. IMO

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
11:34 am

“Yep and instead of looking up the actual definition people like to go with what they think or have been taught.”

For Real — Don’t you just love that? And trying to have a rational discussion with folks like that is even more fun… ;-)

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:35 am

2CPTG, put her on the corner. LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
11:36 am

@ For Real our whole lives are shaped by perception include language and culture. The good thing about most words are reasonably malleable in casual conversation within reason. I think there’s a difference between taking a word and/or phrase and making it your own and just using a word incorrectly.

I do agree that a lot of people do not do their research however the westernized concept of Karma is different from Karma within the confines of Hindu/Bhuddist theology. Slightly different because we as westerners have taken the term and made it our own.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
11:37 am

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
11:38 am

.

Karma is belief for the weak minded!

For Real

November 1st, 2010
11:39 am

“For Real..Did you have any idea you were going to wake up this morning?” – I knew I would be waking up this morning.

“I mean we all hope to wake up and get going” – I have never, ever in my entire life hope that I would wake up in the morning. I know I will rise every morning.

“but what proof do we have that we will.” – I have a lifetime of proof and so do you. Since we asking “what proof do you have that you will not wake up”

“Heck who’s to say one of us won’t make it home tonight?” – I say I will make it home tonight. Look there are no such things as accidents, there are only consequences of human actions or in-actions. Your job as a human being is to navigate your actions or in-actions along with those actions and in-actions of your fellow man. I bet you cannot name one event in the history of all mankind that did not involve human interaction.

Kym

November 1st, 2010
11:40 am

@Blackfoote..I am trying to get over the hurt and pain of that loss..but I was just telling a coworker..I become a straight dude when it comes to football. I don’t know how many ways I cussed Heath Miller out..but his ears have got to be burning..has not fumbled like that in forever and at the critical point..that joker..let me calm down..we better not lose to the Bungals.

evy

November 1st, 2010
11:40 am

@ for real 11:39: the tunguska event

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
11:41 am

Purple – If that experience was on the road, you’ve probably mistakenly hit or almost hit a few people while you were earning that experience. Your chance of injury decreases, but other people were affected in you were learning and some other joker may drive you in a ditch while earning his stripes…although you have all that experience.

evy

November 1st, 2010
11:41 am

Mornin, all – hope everyone enjoyed their weekend

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
11:44 am

Of course, in the specific case of “karma” the word has become generally accepted to apply not only to its strict Buddhist / Hindu origins, but also to the more generic concept of good or bad consequences to prior actions.

From dictionary.com:

kar·ma
   /ˈkɑrmə/ Show Spelled[kahr-muh] Show IPA
–noun
1.
Hinduism, Buddhism. action, seen as bringing upon oneself inevitable results, good or bad, either in this life or in a reincarnation: in Hinduism one of the means of reaching Brahman.Compare bhakti (def. 1), jnana.
2.
Theosophy. the cosmic principle according to which each person is rewarded or punished in one incarnation according to that person’s deeds in the previous incarnation.
3.
fate; destiny.
4.
the good or bad emanations felt to be generated by someone or something.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
11:45 am

@swiss – ahhh, you beat me to it, was just about to copy and paste, lol

Kym

November 1st, 2010
11:46 am

@For Real..I am just gonna agree to disagree with you and move on. I like a good arguement as much as the next but when it comes to issues of belief…especially regarding spritual or metaphysical..or religious..we all believe..in something..and the end game is not to change others beliefs but to simple listen, respect..take a bit a new knowledge and push the hell on.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:48 am

Luvbug, I am trying to understand if you are saying the longer you live the greater chance you will have an “accident’? I am saying the longer you live the greater chance that you will have smoother roads because you learned how to navigate better the longer you live.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
11:48 am

traded my tootsie rolls for kit-kats…awesssome…and flavor tootsie rolls are a work of the Devil….

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
11:49 am

‘put her on the corner’

Purp – You turning on me now? :cry:

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:50 am

Eric Benet’s new song is NICE! I was programming the stations in my tractor and heard it this morning. Made me go wake up my wife and tell her I love her. When does that album come out?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
11:50 am

“we all believe..in something..and the end game is not to change others beliefs but to simple listen, respect..take a bit a new knowledge and push the hell on.”

yep.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
11:50 am

@evy – missing the Tunguska correlation?

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:51 am

Slim you know we have always conducted business first. You have about 3 husbands and few “johns” and who knows what else. As long as you bring it back home every now and then we are cool. :)

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:52 am

Slim, Kym and kimmie keep me busy :)

evy

November 1st, 2010
11:52 am

@blue: agreed! i unwrapped a ‘tootsie roll’ by the dim flicker of the tv one night, popped in my mouth – expecting chocolate – and got…i don’t know what it was – but it wasn’t a tootsie roll. i thought i was having a stroke or sumthin…real tootsie rolls are chocolate.

evy

November 1st, 2010
11:53 am

@ blue: for real said “I bet you cannot name one event in the history of all mankind that did not involve human interaction”; i suggested the tunguska event as one such.

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
11:53 am

Kym:

Ya’ll do fine against Ciny it’s the Ravens you need to worry about……….now speaking of Karma I can help you through your hurt and pain.

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
11:54 am

” I was programming the stations in my tractor”

You know you are my boy, but something about this is sounds soooooooooo wrong!!! LMAO!!!

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
11:55 am

Purple – The longer the distance = the more you make of life, jumping in, or having a dream that’s harder to accomplish than most…but yeah, I agree it may be easier to navigate the longer you’ve been on the road…although, as I’ve stated, you’ve probably greatly affected people…and you won’t stop being affected by others on the road.

Now Purple, you’ve got me all lost in this mess I’ve created. You do know I just like to BS around on this blog right? LOL

For Real

November 1st, 2010
11:56 am

Luv: Read my 11:39

Swiss: “And trying to have a rational discussion with folks like that is even more fun” – I tried last night and show we do not get to just change the definition of words all willie nilly I told her I be “ummm” means touch my breast.

YISC: “For Real our whole lives are shaped by perception.” – Gotta disagree with you here. Perception is someone’s else’s interpretation and I don’t live my life by what other think. “Slightly different because we as westerners have taken the term and made it our own.” – ummm, that kinda proves my point of change the definition of words to suit your purpose. Then what’s a fact?

evy: Let me correct myself “except for natural disasters” but the tunguska event is one of my favorites still haven’t come to a conclusion as to what took place. I lean toward a gas filled meteorite.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
11:57 am

@PR – programming the stations in my tractor – honestly, not two things i expected in the same sentence….
@evy – lol, oh i see. was wondering what meteoric explosions had to do with it, lmao.

Laurie

November 1st, 2010
11:59 am

Actually, the last guy to really do me wrong hasn’t suffered any consequences. He finally married the girl he cheated on me with, and they are expecting their first child. Sometimes the best things happen to the crapiest people. My advice, pick yourself up off the floor, shake the anger off, and move with your life. Something better is bound to come along.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
11:59 am

Simple Man, lol I have XM Radio, CD ac/heater a seat warmer in it and everything. I was doing some crop stuff before the heavy snow came. Around 4am I am walking out the door every morning now getting in my brand new John Deere :) We are trying to get these silos constructed so I can store some feed before it spoils so the livestock will be set.

For Real

November 1st, 2010
12:02 pm

Kym: “the end game is not to change others beliefs but to simple listen, respect..take a bit a new knowledge and push the hell on.” – True that!!!

“I was programming the stations in my tractor” – That’s the first time I have ever heard that before.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
12:03 pm

@PR – i musta passed out for a minute there, did you say 4AM 8O ??? that is sssoooo not right, id never survive the farm life….and waking me up at 4 am would soooo not be classified as love, lmao, or safe….

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:03 pm

Laurie, how do you know what he has or hasnt suffered?

Luvbug, I was wonder why you were getting serious today. LOL

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
12:04 pm

‘You have about 3 husbands and few “johns” and who knows what else’

Purp – I resent the above statements….I’m not a freak, I just crush a lot. LOL!

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
12:05 pm

Purple – Me serious? NEVAAA!! The topic is serious…I just like to tinker. LOL

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:07 pm

blue, you get used to it. My wife wakes up around 7:30, but we are usually at my parents home around 830 eating breakfast with all the farm hands. (somedays she joins us somedays she has to be at her job) We always eat breakfast and lunch at my parents. Lunch is cool because some of the other peoples family come out.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
12:07 pm

“I’m not a freak, I just crush a lot.”

damn…..maybe this is my Karma, marrying a chic who openly admits to infidelity….

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:08 pm

Slim, you “smashed the homies” LOL. Yep I remembered that saying. :)

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
12:08 pm

Laurie?

Just live ur life and stop worrying about him. He cheated on you for a reason.

Why do females(some) think being benched is being wronged?

Smdh

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:08 pm

2CPTG, she has never admitted to “fidelity” LOL

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
12:09 pm

farm hands??

Un-Huh…

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:10 pm

Zulu, Laurie is one of those cases of being heartbroken and still emotionally tied to her ex. The proof is in her post.

Simple man!!!!

November 1st, 2010
12:10 pm

Purp…You have tured into our very own living and breathing Charles Wilder from Little House on the Prarie!!! All you need now is to tell us that you went and got sugar from Mr. Olson and I will be set!!! ( ‘Cept Mr. Ingles never had a tractor with Xm and heated seats…I now buddies that dont have apartments that nice!!! LOL

Kym

November 1st, 2010
12:10 pm

@Blackfoote..the Ravens already got us for one game this season..and now we both have the same record 5-2..I think this lost pushes them ahead…in the AFC North. Ughhh!!! I respect the Ravens but still..ughhh!!

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
12:11 pm

“Gotta disagree with you here. Perception is someone’s else’s interpretation and I don’t live my life by what other think.” – Actually if you have any religious, philosophical or cultural beliefs otherwise this is based on the perception of how life should be, will be, or could be lived by the ones who existed before us. Everyone perceives life differently there is a difference between what actually happens and how we perceive it. 5 people from 5 different countries can interpret one event 5 different ways. Doesn’t mean any of them are lying. It is there perception…..

“Slightly different because we as westerners have taken the term and made it our own.” – ummm, that kinda proves my point of change the definition of words to suit your purpose. Then what’s a fact?” – etymology wise there are tons of words in the english language that have changed meaning from its true english meaning either or because they are language borrow words. Many people from different countries especially the UK can say most of our language is “changing it to suit an american purpose”….in that case the whole american dialect of english is a fraud.

But I agree to disagree with you.

Please ... Help!!!

November 1st, 2010
12:11 pm

Whose karma is it when I catch my wife in the bed with my 1st cousin … His (good) b/c he lucked up on a good piece of A**, Her’s (bad) b/c she let a dude that still live with his mama slide in and score … or me (bad) for my years of running the streets with lil regards about her even knowing my misdeeds … keep in mind … I’ve been faithful for the past two yrs.

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
12:11 pm

Purp – we are not about to start chanting Slim smashed the homies…if you do I’ll simply ball up in the corner with my hands over my ears singing Na na ne boo boo I can’t hear you!!!

2C – I haven’t cheated on you yet. ;-)

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
12:13 pm

@ please help how long you’ve been married if you’ve been faithful for two years?

White Man

November 1st, 2010
12:14 pm

Yessheiscute….that is a great point!

evy

November 1st, 2010
12:14 pm

@ for real: language (any language) either evolves or dies. while i am not an advocate of such drastic and self-serving changes as using ‘ummm’ – generally, i believe, a sort of verbal tic used, for example, when one is distracted or needs a moment to think – to mean instead ‘touch my breast’, if you check out the etymology on any dozen random words you wil probably see a difference in application over time. languages incorporate words and phrases originally of foreign origin into their own everyday vernacular all the time, are ‘updated’ with newly invented slang, abbreviations and such. and ” perception is someone else’s interpretation”? do you have no perceptions of your own?

Butterricanpecan

November 1st, 2010
12:15 pm

Law of karma is designed to encourage people to beg for forgiveness – this guilt conscious and an aptitude to request for help and forgiveness the first step towards being spiritual – its almost impossible to be good in this world and catch is that all of our actions will have negative reaction – so it behooves a reasonably intelligent person to seek mercy from the infinite – but this has to be at the cost of change of heart and seeking higher state of existance finding bliss in service than enjoyment.

Exit stage right!

abc

November 1st, 2010
12:15 pm

Christianity is incompatible with the idea of karma. Otherwise, since we’re all sinners and have done bad or terrible things, we’d all get nothing but grief. Due to the Lord’s grace, we don’t. Karma’s origins are along the lines of being reincarnated to a higher or lower state of being based on your own actions, which also contradicts Christianity.

One can’t believe in both Christianity and karma.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
12:15 pm

Slim, so you’re telling me you’re going to cheat? Damn Slim…..and I thought I found a winner in you!

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
12:20 pm

@ Butterpecanrican Me gustas :D

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
12:20 pm

Pleasehelp?

It is your (false) Karma coz u don’t learned how to ;) 6:@9ck a woman good!

U and Laurie need to team up coz u both lame in bed!

:lol:

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:21 pm

Simple Man, it’s not for pleasure it will have a good return on investment. It took over a month to get the loans done, the easy part was that my family gave me the land but putting the equipment in was the hard part.

Luv Bug, I don’t have any hands yet. But my parents have about 9, they make good money. Next Year I am hoping to be able to hire some people on. But everyone is helping put up the silos.

Slim, :)

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:22 pm

2CPTG, bro I am trying to tell you Slim is like a time share property. LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
12:22 pm

@ White Man thanks! How are you doing?

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
12:36 pm

Purple – Gotcha. That title teleportered me to a short montage of Buckwheat and Roots. LOL. I thought the name would have changed by now.

(Luvbug now wondering if she has the stamina to be a farm hand)…I think I can do it.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:37 pm

Please, so your wife slept with your 1st cousin? You have some problems bro. Did you tell your Aunt? And how have you been faithful for two years? You can’t get mad at someone doing to you what you did to them. I would stomp a mudhole in my family member and leave her for even messing with a family member. Thats your only legit fight is that your family betrayed you and your wife got with your cousin. But her cheating on you, well you did that to her so those are offsetting penalties. You cant be to mad and they probably started while you were out in those streets, so you can approximate that he has been doing your wife for a atleast 2 to 4 years. She really kept it in the family…LOL

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:38 pm

LuvBug? I don’t understand

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
12:39 pm

Purp:

You got a road handle? That’s got to be the freshest air in the country to breath.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
12:41 pm

Please Help — I believe it is actually Jerry Springer’s (good) karma for an endless supply of programming material… ;-)

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
12:43 pm

Purp:

She really kept it in the family

That is staright funny……..LOL

DaddyDapper

November 1st, 2010
12:44 pm

Hey Guys!

Not only do I believe it, I experience it everyday! Its pretty fascinating once you open your eyes to the reality of it. One thing I’ve managed to pick up in life is that in any type of relationship, there will be issues. Some of these issues are cause by deliberate exertions and some are just due to the clashing of differing opinions. However, when there is a decision to move on you gotta leave it in a blessed place, regardless! You know, no different than leaving your job in a blessed state by submitting a “two-week” notice. Its just considerate, unselfish and plain right.

A good name is to be preferred more than wealth!…but, shoot let me have them both! lol

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
12:44 pm

Purple – Nevermind.

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:45 pm

Blackfoote, no I don’t have a cb. It’s a farm tractor not a semi. It;s nice and clean up here. God’s Country unmolested, at night you can see the star trails clearly, hiking the red river is awesome too

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
12:49 pm

Nap time :)

a presto!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
12:54 pm

WiseDiva, what happened to the pages?

Please ... Help!!!

November 1st, 2010
12:57 pm

@YesSheIsCute – Been married going on 6 yrs.
@Purple Rain – I figured that much (her doing the same for some time) but with my cousin??? Never been 1 to fight over punanny b/c I only own my “tools”. Leaving the situation is the 1st thought but it’s easier said than done & no I wouldn’t go to my Aunt & get her involved b/c she may already know. May not be approving but who side would she really have. She lets a grown man live with her rent free and at times brags about him – mother’s love I guess. But that’s my delimma, I believe I’ll get through it. Any lovely young ladies on this blog wanna help me get through this (even)???

ETG

November 1st, 2010
12:57 pm

You know what? I believe in forgiveness and that is ultimately a gift to one’s self and not the other person/people involved in hurting you. However, I have to admit that knowing that every dog has his/her day is comforting to me.

evy

November 1st, 2010
12:57 pm

@ for real 11:56: (catching up…) ahhh – exception noted! as for theories – aliens!

Da_Man!

November 1st, 2010
1:00 pm

@Please Help … trust me, I could be worse. You’ll get over it, may even help build a stronger relationship with your wife.

SlimNumeroUno

November 1st, 2010
1:03 pm

’so you’re telling me you’re going to cheat? Damn Slim…..and I thought I found a winner in you!’

2C – I am a winner so don’t fret my pet. You know i’m a seriel manogamist. I was just trying to make you jealous. shame shame shame on me…bad girl I am. :-(

‘Slim is like a time share property’

Purp – you and me are going to fight :evil:

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:08 pm

Everyone cheats, it is just a matter of time.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
1:08 pm

Please?

another man has slept with your wife and u asking for advice on what to do?!

Dahell!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
1:10 pm

Christianity is incompatible with itself. “As you sow, so shall you reap” — and yet one’s salvation is through god’s grace alone (and has nothing to do with the life one has lived — apart from “accepting” god’s grace, whatever that means).

evy

November 1st, 2010
1:14 pm

@swiss: interesting comment, especially considering the maxim ‘truth doesw not contradict itself’…hmmm…

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
1:15 pm

Please, you are not fighting over the punnany you are fighting because he violated your trust and family crest in a huge way!

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:17 pm

Purple Rain…..Haha you said “punnany”!! hahah

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
1:22 pm

Can a relationship recover from sexual indiscretion?

“Honey, something does not feel right…seems a little loose”

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
1:23 pm

Any lovely young ladies on this blog wanna help me get through this (even)???

Please – You’re kidding, right?????

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:23 pm

If it feels alittle loose kick her in the caboose!

Purple Rain

November 1st, 2010
1:27 pm

White Man, LOL

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:28 pm

Seriously….haha

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
1:34 pm

Awww yeah. The pages are showing now!! My scroll finger thanks you…in the kindest way. :lol:

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
1:35 pm

I take that last part back…forgot the audience. LOL

Just thank you.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
1:36 pm

Kimmie?

please help a brother out,why are uall so stingy with your stuff?
Recreational s3x ain’t a bad thing.

Somebody needs to give dude a lay-a-way Plan.

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
1:36 pm

Beautiful day out today.

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
1:39 pm

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:39 pm

Why do most women act on blogs like they are afraid of s3x but in real life they talk about it more than we do, act on it almost as much as we do and typically need it more than we do.

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
1:40 pm

:lol: “Recreational s3x ain’t a bad thing.” If only the snap-back was permanent…this would be a non-issue.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:41 pm

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
1:41 pm

:?: Thought lay-a-way stuff was frowned upon as it was akin to being a prosti-.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
1:42 pm

White man?

because they like secrets,they prefer to keep it(s3x) under wraps(no pun intended). Ask abc!

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
1:43 pm

Snap-back = Elasticity. Many want recreational, yet very few want to swim in the atlantic. Eventually the two shall meet. :mrgreen:

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:43 pm

Some do and some dont.

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
1:44 pm

Zulu:

Man that happening too many respectable ladies are here. Well some might fantasize with it.

Delight23

November 1st, 2010
1:45 pm

Explains the use of “Many,” versus all.

A Hindu

November 1st, 2010
1:47 pm

You Americans have no idea what karma is.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
1:48 pm

@ White Man really? No reason to be in a relationship then if that’s all we can aspire to….eventual infidelity.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
1:51 pm

YesSheisCute…..are you married?

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
1:56 pm

Zulu – Why are you worrying about whether some other dude get’s “help” or not? And why don’t you worry about your own “recreation” with Queen?

:lol:

blue®

November 1st, 2010
1:57 pm

@Delight – Snap-back = Elasticity. Many want recreational, yet very few want to swim in the atlantic. Eventually the two shall meet – now that was funny, lmao

evy

November 1st, 2010
1:59 pm

@ a hindu: hiya – i think maybe that’s a matter of ‘adaption’, akin to that which accompanies most attempts by people of one culture to understand beliefs and customs of another.

to the best of my recollection, there are, within the hindu belief system (in which, i believe, the tenet of ‘karma’ originated) several types of karma. one (prarabadha) refers to the basic staging of an individual’s current life – things external to that individual such as birthplace, the social or economic strata into which one is born, etc. it is believed that this sort of karma is based on indelible impressions carried over from one’s previous life.

another (samchita) refers to the role these impressions play in the formation of one’s personality and character – this type of karma is somewhat malleable, in that it can be affected by one’s actions in one’s current life.

there is also a karma (agami) that is constructed during any one life, completely malleable, in that it is not only affected, but created by one’s actions in that life. THIS karma, it seems, is the one most of us are talking about today.

there are variations, of course, within the buddhist belief system, western new-age theosophies, etc. – just as there are variations – more commonly called denominations – of christianity, or dialects of language.

altho reincarnation or transmigration of the soul is implicit in some belief systems with regard to certain types of karma, karma does not MEAN reincarnation.

karma means ‘action-seed-result’, and in the context of western – frequently philosophical or spiritual as opposed to religious – belief, has been adapted (or misunderstood?) to express simply the basic principle of cause and effect as regards one’s character, behavior and choices. this does not necessitate a belief in reincarnation, a disbelief in any god or gods, or a diametrical opposition to christianity.

am i close?

Kym

November 1st, 2010
2:02 pm

Oh wow the 2pm crash has set in..one more hour..just one more..

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
2:04 pm

WhiteMan when has a woman on here acted as if she is afraid of sex? Are you speaking in terms of none of them wanting to take your bait and run with it?

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:05 pm

evy:

You WIn!

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:05 pm

Nope not at all. Have you not noticed what I am talking about?

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
2:06 pm

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:07 pm

@ White Man no I am not married but the way you are talking maybe I should set up a back up plan and adopt some kids or something on my own sheesh

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:07 pm

Kym:

Need a place to lie your head/body down?

Kym

November 1st, 2010
2:08 pm

@White Man and Zulu…how in the heck did a topic on Karma get to sex?

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
2:08 pm

Good afternoon to all!!

If you guy are still on topic, all I can say is what you emanate is what you get in all facets of your life!!! For everything you do there is a cause and effect that may or may not be beneficial. There’s a reaction to all that we do. Even when we sit quietly, there’s a cause and effect.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:08 pm

“You Americans have no idea what karma is.”

Malcolm X said some’n like that too…..’cept he said the chickens comin home to roost (when JFK got shot.)

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:09 pm

YesSheisCute….haha. I am just saying you will not find many people who have been married 10+ years that have not had an affair. Havent you heard of the 7 year itch?

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:11 pm

@ Blackfoote I like you. You are shrewd :cool:

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:12 pm

There is a reason Malcolm X is dead.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:13 pm

white dude….don’t start no sh yt!

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:13 pm

Hey man you brought him up….not me.

evy

November 1st, 2010
2:14 pm

@ blackfoote 2:05: oooo, goody! is there a prize? evy likes prizes! :D

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:15 pm

I brought him up in relation to “karma”! chickens comin home to roost is analogous to karma….as he stated, that was an old black folks saying…..

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:15 pm

ok….good point….but bad analogy.

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
2:16 pm

Raqi – That’s it in a nutshell, none will take the tired, weak bait!LOL!!

Kym – Now how can you ask that question? :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:18 pm

@White Man I don’t believe everyone who has been married 7+ years has had an itch at 7 years AND have in any case acted on any of their “itches”. Not saying people don’t have “itches” but I don’t believe every person cheats or will cheat. But I do believe a large proportion of the general public does….

Kym

November 1st, 2010
2:19 pm

I am thinking of climbing under my desk….so I can hide from crazy phone calls and drunk clients.

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
2:19 pm

@Blackfoote ~ {{clearing my throat}} whatcha doing hubby? Why you asking anothing if she’s looking for a place to lay her body down cuz you know if you get the head, you get the body (let’s keep it real). Dagnabit, I don’t have funds for a lawyer…who on here will be willing to do so pro bono work???

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:19 pm

YesSheIs:

Thanks dear, I do have a hardheaded intelligence for sharp and practical matters.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:19 pm

@ @CPTG lol! I’m hoping that doesn’t become an argument in itself……. btw what does your moniker mean?

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:20 pm

I just did’t have last Friday……..LOL

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
2:20 pm

LOL kimmie. Kym should know better.

Not only are they men which makes it obvious, but they are those two men that she named which makes it even worse.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:21 pm

YesSheisCute…..I agree 100%

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:22 pm

Leggs:

Hi darlin, I thought you were off today what are you doin here?

Kym

November 1st, 2010
2:24 pm

@Raqi..I mean we had a deep convo going on and next thing I know dude is talking sex..I was flipping pages like..how did we get here. Sorry I wasn’t thinking..

Trevor0529

November 1st, 2010
2:24 pm

@Blackfoote,

your wife is talking to you, bruh.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:24 pm

@ White Man its sad really. How do you know who you can trust? Specifically, what are the behaviours that would lead a person to believe that person cannot be trusted in terms of fidelity (this is before you become officia)? I have female friends who people probably would never believe are habitual cheaters….

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:26 pm

yessheiscute…..it is usually the ones that you suspect least. It is a hard behavior to diagnose. The problems is for most people, if they do it once they become almost addicted.

Trevor0529

November 1st, 2010
2:27 pm

@Blackfoote, ignore my last comment. :LOL:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:27 pm

no arguing from me, Cutie….who would I swing at, my monitor?

but my moniker stems from blogging back in the day (Day 1)……when the original moderator started this, she liked to bash all of her dates, makin it seem as if everything were the dudes’ fault…so after reading a few comments, I jumped in….with that name; Hadn’t seen the movie or anything, just said to myself…..ok, 2 can play this game….and kept it ever since…

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
2:28 pm

@Blackfoote ~ you made me think of those men who believe their woman is going out of town for the weekend (heck even the day). He sets up his thing, but his wife actually pivots back after awhile and catches him redhanded……sloppy work!!!

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:29 pm

Trevor:

What can you say when you get blind sided.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
2:29 pm

Kym!

Pleasehelp started it.

Kimmie?
I’m good just trying to help another brother

YesshesCute?

u very smart on that cheating thang now please convince Raqi.

Whiteman?

I have been telling them same thing for five years about the cheating thing. All the women do t believe me but most AA men believe me and urge me on privately to the the truth but won’t say so publicly! :lol:

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
2:31 pm

To tell the truth

Most AA blog men

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:33 pm

Leggs:

Oh here we go………You know it’s about time for me to leave I was just trying to enjoy myself. Plus make someone feel better we are talking about Karma aren’t we………….LOL

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:35 pm

Cutie…..what does your moniker mean….I mean whose to judge? can I have proof?

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:36 pm

@ White Man I don’t think so….I think moreso in the case of men than women. There are a lot of reasons that people in general cheat. I don’t know if it’s addictive…unless they get a thrill out of it….but there’s no way to determine that….

millionaire1

November 1st, 2010
2:37 pm

Purple Rain! you are so right, individuals shouldn’t expect that the person who wrong them should get their just reward or get paid back for what they did, if you will. It is a sign of immaturity on their part. What ever a person do to harm or mistreat another God is the judge of everyone whether we like it or not. No one should wish for something bad to happed to a person even if they are wrong. One day they will learn from their mistake and move on.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:38 pm

YesSheisCute….ok why would they do it if they didnt get a thrill out of it??? I think your opinion of men versus women is biased. Trust me women are just as naughty and just as adventurous as men.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:41 pm

@2CPTG I love the movie own it and I own 3 can play that game even though it wasn’t as entertaining and the acting was BAD! But I still bought it b/c it was in the the $5 bin at walmart.

I stole my moniker. My other friend made a moniker for this girl we both knew for blackplanet (that was awhile ago when it was hot) so I use it now but usually my moniker is my name. The most creative thing I ever came up with was “sweet_lovergirl” or “pretty4me” that’s about it….lol

You can get proof. Do not expect beyonce b/c all I’m saying is I’m cute…. :D

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:44 pm

@ White Man you know I guess you can’t expect little old me to understand the mechanics of that stuff so I’m gonna let you just have that one. But I’m coming back once we start getting existential again! :p

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:45 pm

Yessheiscute……there are a few other questions that I could ask you to help prove my point but this blog is not the right forum.

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:46 pm

evy:

I do have a prize but I better keep it under wraps for now. I may be having some problems with Karma right now……..LOL

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:46 pm

send it to tnymcky2000@yahoo.com

and any lurkers, or bloggers who wish to remain anonymous, by all means…..indulge!

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
2:46 pm

“…all I’m saying is I’m cute….”

I recently used the same line on someone. :lol: :lol: Wouldn’t give any other details!

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:46 pm

@ White Man its ok. I won’t agree to disagree b/c quite frankly I think you are right about my bias but my bias comes from not knowing better I just decided its easier to let you have it.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
2:47 pm

@Yes – all I’m saying is I’m cute – lmao….

White Man

November 1st, 2010
2:50 pm

I bet she is.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
2:51 pm

<~~~~ waitin…….patiently.

evy

November 1st, 2010
2:51 pm

@ blackfoote: lol – evy is intrigued…

blue®

November 1st, 2010
2:52 pm

my toes is froze….

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
2:53 pm

Dontuall wish that that pastor that demonstrated against and is asking EL to step down at least shave his beard first be4 we can lend him some ears?

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
2:53 pm

Afternoon All-

I have no idea what yall are talking about now so i’ll jump in on the last few posts.

Cute and Cool is 80% of the battle.

evy

November 1st, 2010
2:57 pm

@ blue: moses supposes his toeses are roses…

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
2:58 pm

@ Leggs please I bet you are amazing!
@ 2CPTG I will try to remember to send it later on this evening when I get back from classes. Please return the favor :D

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
2:59 pm

Leggs:

When I saw for myself you were much more than you claimed.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
3:00 pm

@evy – moses supposes erroneously
@2C – lol, collecting photos now? lol

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:01 pm

I see the excuse are already comin out……but ummm, yeah, ok…..shoot, you should know what I look like….Kym don’ already tol’ ya I’mma smurf….so imagine a cool ass lil blue dude!

Blackfoote

November 1st, 2010
3:01 pm

evy:

Stay intrigued……..LOL

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:02 pm

2C -You tiny? How tall?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:02 pm

” lol, collecting photos now?” nope…..

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:02 pm

Is Leggs a MILF?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:03 pm

LuvBug….just shawt….

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:03 pm

Awww don’t be shame 2C. You can tell me. :lol:

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
3:05 pm

Ya’ll have been a wild and crazy bunch today :) I’m not gonna even try and jump in or understand the current conversation

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:05 pm

who said I was shame…..boo, I’m ghud over here!

blue®

November 1st, 2010
3:06 pm

@2C – so imagine a cool ass lil blue dude – lmao

verdict rendered in Easter Crash – Michaels guilty on all counts.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:06 pm

Okay, 2C. Guess I’ll never know. LOL

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
3:06 pm

2C is not short!!!

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:07 pm

join the club.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:08 pm

LuvBug….my email addy on the other page…..hit me up.

Kym

November 1st, 2010
3:11 pm

@blue thanks for the update…on the easter trial.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:13 pm

Sorry 2C. The blog is as far as I will go…and no, I don’t think you are trying to scoop me up or anything…it’s just the limit for me.

6 feet it is. LOL

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:13 pm

Luvbug….what is 6 feet?

evy

November 1st, 2010
3:14 pm

@ blue: moses he knowses the toes blue supposes are froze will thaw out eventually

Kym

November 1st, 2010
3:14 pm

@Leggs..to you maybe..

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:15 pm

White Man – The height I imagine 2C to be. LOL

Nothing nasty WHITE MAN!!!

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:15 pm

oh hahahah i am 6′4″

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
3:15 pm

@Kym ~ haa, haa…never met him.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:16 pm

@ 2Can just for you its sent. Enjoy!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:16 pm

Kym….Karma gon’ bite you in da ass……hope you swept off yo feet by a short dude!

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
3:17 pm

Luvbug?

If u hit up 2Can,nobody but u two will know.

Come on,take some initiative. U chics don’t give dudes any chance.

U got a man now?

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
3:17 pm

@WhiteMan ~ let me answer for you NO, I AM NOT!

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:18 pm

Leggs….just wondering?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:18 pm

“If u hit up 2Can,nobody but u two will know.”

you’re right, cause I don’t kiss and tell…..

blue®

November 1st, 2010
3:20 pm

@Kym – no prob. looking as if she shoulda took the 50 year deal. he’s facing 12 counts that are each punishable by up to 15 years…then there are still the charges of tampering with evidence and the reckless driving….just d@mn
@evy – no they wont, its all lies i tell you!!

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:22 pm

nobody but u two will know.

Melo – I wouldn’t care if others knew. Plus, 2C wasn’t asking for a chance.

No, I don’t have a man.

Kym

November 1st, 2010
3:23 pm

@2C….I don’t care how smooth the little ankle biter thinks he is..not happening.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:23 pm

6′4…Dang!! That’s pretty tall White Man.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:24 pm

“Plus, 2C wasn’t asking for a chance”……..”No, I don’t have a man.”

subliminal messages can be a mu’fvcka….

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:25 pm

@ Kym & @ blue I do feel sorry for her….that could happen to anyone. I haven’t been keeping up with the case but I haven’t heard anything about her being inebriated so I don’t know if that’s what the problem was :( This is why I hate driving! I also am scared to fly as well but the way I jet set people don’t know it.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
3:25 pm

White Man – You kill me playing dumb. Everything posted is “what’s that” or “what’s this” or “what does that mean”….really ain’t NOBODY that dumb. Really dude, you should probably be on a match making site.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:26 pm

Luvbug……I guess it is somewhat above average.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:28 pm

Plus, I’ve already had a not so fortunate run in with the only ‘person’ I’ve ever met on this blog, Fred. We never got close or did anything, but I suspect he lifted a box of edible panties I had in my purse when he treated me to coffee.

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:28 pm

6′4…Dang!! That’s pretty tall

Luvbug, only the first few times you have to look up at 6′4″. LOL My husband is 6′4″ and it doesn’t really seem that tall now that it’s what I look at every day.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:28 pm

Celisea….I have no idea what you are talking about.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
3:29 pm

Luvbug?

So u ruling out 2Can becoming ur friend(in a tame way)?

If not 2Can then shoot ur face pic to me then..

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
3:29 pm

Okay Whiteman

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:30 pm

@ Luvbug if you change your mind he did post his email a couple of pages :lol:

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
3:31 pm

Randy Moss waived,uall seen that?

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:31 pm

Everything posted is “what’s that”…

Celisea, he is not the only one. Another male blogger does not that and it is so fake. Just because you claim to be a different nationality doesn’t put you on another planet. Trying too doggone hard. LOL

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:31 pm

Raqi- I am 5′2…6′4 would be quit a climb for me. LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:32 pm

@ Raqi where did you find him? I’d like to try a 6′4 man for once!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:32 pm

Zulu, I’d like to think I was friends with everyone…..even my boo, Kym….she keeps me on my toes….literally!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:34 pm

Luvbug, I am almost 5′6″. I guess those extra 4″ does make a difference. LOL

But seriously at one time my husband seems a lot taller than he does now. I guess that is about like him being nice looking to me. He is a nice looking man but I don’t take note of it every day. Day to day he is a common face that I look at. LOL

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
3:35 pm

Raqi – forgive me if you posted this already but how did the Anny go? What did you decide to give Mase (gift that is)?

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:35 pm

YesShe, we found each other. LOL

blue®

November 1st, 2010
3:36 pm

@Yes – i do too. her whole life has just been signed away. shes only 24. the prosecutor said basically that her running from the scene and attempts to hide the evidence where signs that she knew she was guilty.

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
3:37 pm

No, Melo – It’s a blog…and I haven’t placed it yet…so it’s on block til I can…or until I am comfortable with it.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:37 pm

and Cutie, don’t be trynna hook me up….she mess ’round and tell you some’n good, then you gon wanna kick ya ownself in da ass….sayin to yaself, “damn, and he did ask me to join his “family”….

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:38 pm

@ Raqi I guess I will have to wait for someone to find me. :S my current beau was a fix up…its actually a funny story how it began but he’s only 5′10. not that I’m all that tall I’m only 5′4 I just have a thing for tall men. I’ve never dated a guy taller than 6 though. I lucked up only once on that.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
3:39 pm

Raqi – Celisea, he is not the only one. Another male blogger does not that and it is so fake. Just because you claim to be a different nationality doesn’t put you on another planet. Trying too doggone hard. LOL

I was tryna be nice but right you are….even to the other person. If you’re that ethinically challenged either get a self help book or listen and learn. LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:39 pm

@2can I thought I was in your family???? :(

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
3:40 pm

Raqi?!

U one female person here who don’t understand me…I blame part of ur Mexican heritage.

Yes?
U want to try a 6′4 how about ur truck driver Decatur dude? I saw the signs when u said u weren’t giving him any… :lol:

Africa and Mexico are proly polar opposites

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:41 pm

Yessheiscute….you should.

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:41 pm

Hey WillieD.

The anniversary was nice. We went to breakfast after dropping the boy at school, then we went to the mall to drop of the boy’s iPhone. Looked at some gadgets in Brookstone and Radio Shack. We went by the bank. But the time we got back home it was after noon. He wanted to watch the Apprentice from the night before. It was not OnDemand yet so we had to watch it in our room where I record it.

Sitting on the bed watching tv…(yada,yada,grownupstuff,yada,yada)

We didn’t even think about having lunch until after 3pm which threw us later in the evening for going out. We had dinner at Waffle House around 9pm and then went bowling.

It was a very nice day.

And I gave him a box for his small personal items.

How was your weekend?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:42 pm

“2can I thought I was in your family??”

I cain’t tell…..you and Slim need remedial courses…..but I see where the State of Georgia says only ’bout 22% of y’all pass remedial courses…..so it may not even be worth it….

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
3:45 pm

Raqi – Thanks (dayum she gave a play by play), looks like yall enjoyed it congrats. My weekend was wonderful. Me and the missus actually had a grownup nite ourselves Friday without the munchkins. Weekend was real good.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:46 pm

But I’ll let you redeem yourself……but you gotta “do some’n to make me feel good.”

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:46 pm

Celisea, exactly. How the heck you live in a place for 3 years or more dealing with people and don’t know simple stuff. And most of the “what’s that” don’t even be white/black/red/yellow stuff but merely every day people stuff.

The nationalities aren’t really that far removed when dealing in the same cities and what not. Really they aren’t.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
3:49 pm

Raqi – Celisea, exactly. How the heck you live in a place for 3 years or more dealing with people and don’t know simple stuff. And most of the “what’s that” don’t even be white/black/red/yellow stuff but merely every day people stuff.

The nationalities aren’t really that far removed when dealing in the same cities and what not. Really they aren’t.

EEZACTAMUNDO!!

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:49 pm

@ Zulu of course I can’t do it now! I’m saying in the future b/c who knows when I will be single again. I never said I wasn’t giving him any. I just said I pulled the tired card on him a couple of times because I was! is that wrong? :oops:

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:50 pm

WillieD, LOL. I gave the play by play because it was just an ordinary day in the MaseRaqi household. We hung out together and got some stuff done that we needed to do.

The weekend before Thanksgiving we are going hiking in Highland, NC and then staying at the Old Edwards Inn.

That would have been nice to do for our anniversary but I had just as nice of a time hanging out with the love of my doing every day stuff.

Our hiking trip will be with two other couples. One of my friends invited us to join them.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:51 pm

YesSheisCute…..that is the first sign of a relationship beginning to fail…..the “tired” card.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:51 pm

@ 2can I did! Showed you what I looked like! That should count as some points

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:52 pm

YesSheisCute….I would like to see as well.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:53 pm

@ White Man so wait wait….y’all saying I can’t be tired? I mean for real though I have a lot on my plate sometimes I’d rather have 20 more mins of sleep then be up doing the do. I think that’s reasonable and not an indication that my relationship is failing.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
3:53 pm

In the future?
girl u not in love,I doubt u that practical. Most females aren’t….but if u have that ‘maybe’ complex then u probably date like a man.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

YesSheisCute…..I know you are probably right. However when the relationship was new and thriving would you have been too tired for the “do” then?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

aiiight Cutie……but ummm, don’t show white dude nuttin!!! We keep our family business in the family!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

Oh yeah, and those kid-free weekends don’t happen that often so you better make the best of them. LOL

When the kids are away the grown folks get to play.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:56 pm

2CPTG……what is wrong are you worried that you may be missing out?

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

@ Zulu you are right I am not in love nor am I trying to be. The last time was the most heart wrenching ish ever and I don’t EVER want to go through that again….but yeah I do feel strongly about him but I just can’t let myself get in love with him I will end up bald headed on tv like britney spears crying. Um no can’t do it.

@ White Man sorry gotta do what the boss says. But maybe one of these days when if get blog divorced :lol: But as far as the tired thing that was different that was back when it was shiny and new and plus it had been awhile. But now we on regular rotation so I’m good

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

white dude…..listen homie….even tho this is a blog, lemme say this…..you couldn’t pull one of my gals even if they had a handle attached to their ass!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

I’d rather have 20 more mins of sleep then be up doing the do

YesShe, that’s that real life stuff that some folks are oblivious to.

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
3:59 pm

Raqi – That sounds real cool. Enjoy to the fullest. I know what you saying about the kid-free times. Lets just say we played hard.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
4:00 pm

2CPTG…….you act like everyone wants them hahaha. I am outta here. You guys will never learn!

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:03 pm

Yes?

that’s what’s up 3.58!

I give my blessings,2Can can hit it.
He’s a good dude,if not better!

LURKER-1

November 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

Dang Purple, the Vikes released Moss. Oh, he’s their problem. smdh

blue®

November 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

@Yes/Raqi – y’all saying I can’t be tired? I mean for real though I have a lot on my plate sometimes I’d rather have 20 more mins of sleep then be up doing the do. – so true, so true. yeah, in the beginning of my relationship, and imo most, it wastnt this way. but i also didnt ahve all the responsibilities then that i do now, alot of us dont at the outset or early stages. later on, when your schedule and load get more crammed, yeah, youre tired…whats so wrong with that? not necessarily a sign of failure, a sign of being human imo….

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:06 pm

“You guys “…..uh huh…told ya…..what is that suppose to mean??

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:07 pm

Don’t uall think a Man is the greatest creation God ever created…even u females will agree.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:08 pm

@ blue and @ raqi glad it wasn’t me….so raqi hablas espanol?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:10 pm

Celisea, don’t pay that guy any attention….

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:11 pm

Blue, you damn skippy.

I am not ashamed to say that sometimes us doing the do is merely out of obligation as a spousal duty ‘cause he or I may not be feeling up to it at the time. We do what we do ‘cause we know the other has needs. And sometimes the do don’t get done. That’s doesn’t mean we love each other less, it means as you said we are human.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:11 pm

Zulu…..imagine how cool it woulda been to just walk around the wilderness butt ass naked…..and everything bow down to you!!!!! That’s what’s up!!!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:12 pm

“You guys “…..uh huh…told ya…..what is that suppose to mean??

Celisea, it’s an attempt to get you riled up.

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
4:14 pm

YES – Remember when I told you about not revealing too many details about your personal relationship on here? That was just a week ago, and it’s already been thrown back up in your face! :)

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:14 pm

Too tired what is that? There’s more than one way to skin a Cat. Maybe you’d be a lil more open if it wasnt a full frontal assault. I mean who can resist the ‘baby I know you tired let me give you a rubdown’ or no problem baby just lay ya head cross my chest and we can drift off together. Before you know it the juices flowing and the boom chicka wow wow hapn. You fellas going about it the wrong way. Don’t argue the point of whether she tired or not. Convince her that tired is only a state of mind that we can be in together. hahaha

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:15 pm

Si senorita y French demasiado

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:15 pm

Raqi….since you kinda like my wife-emeritus, school Cutie on what she needs to do in order to keep a happy home…..

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:17 pm

LOL WillieD, yes any one can be persuaded. I know, I have persuaded and have been persuaded. But exhausted is exhausted and you just want to sleep.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

@WillieD – lol, i’ll admit that has worked on me. but there are times, none of it matters, im just too d@mn tired, or my head really does hurt. dont love him any less, but catch me in the morning instead ;)

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

@ raqi y yo tambien! puedo hablar aleman tambien

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:20 pm

Kimmie?

Why,ShesCute ain’t 17! She’s game. Lol

Willie?

I do the same. If she says she’s tired I compromise and give her a lil lick…I’ll leave the rest to her and if she wants me to be closer, I will oblige! Lol
Sometimes the ‘look that way’ approach works best too.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:21 pm

@ kimmie you are so right i’m making one last point and then mum’s the word
@ willie d yes and no. my ex used to do that too i used to shut him down hard bodied but then what you said :lol: I think you are very right and guys are going about it all wrong…..

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:22 pm

or that old school line…..”lemme just put the head in…”

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
4:22 pm

Hmph… That’s what ‘Tussin is for. One dose of that & she’ll be out for the count & you can handle your bidness without her knowing… :lol: (I kid, I kid… or do I…?) :lol:

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:22 pm

I understand ladies. I’m just saying I WILL find out if you exhausted or just tired.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:23 pm

@ willie d but yeah sometimes tired is tired and until 15 dec tired is tired! after that im on winter break :lol:

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:23 pm

#Two, that would somewhat depend on the makeup of her house.

#One likes to come home to a clean house, hot home cooked meals, good and regular relations and good conversation and communication. I don’t try to wear his pants and he would rather be set fire than try to wear my skirt.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:24 pm

@ swiss :shock: I have an anecdote about that but I’m keeping mum from now on….

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:24 pm

German? Wow. I never tried to learn that one.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:26 pm

@ Raqi I used to live in Germany. visited france twice. Guess you could say I’m a cunning linguist :D

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:27 pm

2Can?

I used the 4.22 (lemme just put the head)with girlfriends mostly way back?

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:27 pm

2Can and WillieD, it will inappropriate to tell you about waking up with a hand stuff in my Hanes.

I can only remember one time being really, really pissed at him for doing it but I am not going to talk about it. LOL

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:28 pm

Cutie – (2can hope u dont mind me calling ya chick that) – Umm 15Dec, thats 45 mo days. We got a problem unless you dont mind me subbing off the bench.We really gotta get you in the game if for nothing more than to take a foul shot.

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:29 pm

LOL YesShe. My father is Dominican and my grandmother was French. My grandmother lived with us for several years before she died so we got to learn both languages. I was my grandmother’s “baby” so she taught me a lot.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:31 pm

Raqi & 2Can ya’ll right….on here faking like he’s down

Oh, Raqi did they tell you your blog husband was cuttin’ up Friday? Just wondered. Ain’t tryna start nothing but I gotta keep true to my word….said I was telling.

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
4:31 pm

YES – Whatever goes down with you and this guy, it will always go back to those 2 times you were “tired”, according to the blog men, especially Zulu. You could discover your guy is messing around so much he put Tiger Woods to shame. Know what? It’s all YOUR fault cause you didn’t give him some those 2 times! Don’t waste your breath trying to explain anything else!

That’s what I was talking about!!

Leave a little mystery. They won’t have anything on you so they’ll have to make up stuff, like they do with me! :lol:

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:32 pm

YSIC…girl, go head and take one (some) for the team :)

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:33 pm

Celisea, no they didn’t. Thanks for the info. LOL

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:35 pm

Ladies – During those times when yall have ya thing going on we dont complain about only being able to get the hot-mouth. We Man up and accept it for what it is. Now for the few occasions you wake up with a hand in ya Hanes or the Morning Woody poking ya back out we ask that you just chalk it up to Nature.

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:35 pm

Know what? It’s all YOUR fault cause you didn’t give him some those 2 times!

LMBO kimmie, you are so right, you are so right.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:36 pm

Kimmie?

her guy is a trucker so I won’t blame it on that.
What do U think he ‘eats’ whilst on the road?

:lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:37 pm

@ Willie D it’s not a habit just saying if I pull that card between now and 15dec I’m most likely probably exhausted.

@ Raqi c’est mignon….je ne sais pas….je pense que tu peux ton francais c’est tres bien actuellement….

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:37 pm

WillieD, not that I am counting, but I know I have went there enough times when I really was not wanting to get at pass when I need one. LOL

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:39 pm

I’ve gone at it a number of times and didn’t feel like it. A couple times I’ve resisted but for the most part if it will keep peace, honey gon and do what you need to do. I know that sounds bad but part of that attitude was attributed to the fact that I had left emotionally long before I left physically.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:42 pm

Know what? It’s all YOUR fault cause you didn’t give him some those 2 times!

you are SO RIGHT Kimmie! Now I can’t even defend myself against Zulu without giving more information. Then I’ll be deeper in the hole with giving information. I should have listened oh well you live and you learn. Blame my blog naivete :)

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
4:42 pm

Zulu – It’s not my concern and it shouldn’t be yours either!LOL!!

Leggs ™

November 1st, 2010
4:43 pm

I have to break my own rule about posting E.O.D’s early. Hope you all have a great evening.

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant with the weak…because in your life you will have been all of these. ~ George Washington Carver

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:43 pm

@ kimmie its zulu today but who knows who it will be tomorrow. At least I made some interesting blog news for you all today :D

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:44 pm

Kimmie/Yes?

we all accountable for what we write.

U write,we analyze,critique and respond

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
4:45 pm

YES -That’s okay, I learned the hard way too on this blog!! It’s all in fun, though.

Just trying to look out for a blog sister! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:45 pm

Cutie (pending approval) – oh ok I read that wrong. i bet you already looking at the schedule tryn to see when you gonna be exhausted.LOL

Raqi – I’m sure that number is written down and a tally sheet is kept close by just in case.

Celisea aka HunnyBunn – umm thats anotha story altogether.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
4:45 pm

@kimmie – 431:LMAO, soo true….you know those times you were tired or sick, or “During those times when yall have ya thing going on we dont complain” that give them a blank check to do whatever! LMAO

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:46 pm

Willie Dynamite – Celisea aka HunnyBunn – umm thats anotha story altogether.

Yes you’re right….absolutely

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
4:46 pm

Day to day he is a common face that I look at. LOL

Raqi – Yeah that would take me some time to get comfortable with…but I’m sure that I could over a long period of time. LOL

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:47 pm

“Cutie (pending approval)”……..YesSheisCute!

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:48 pm

But Willie D – It’s been some good times…I’ve obliged the joystick in my back…at the crack of dawn or after a middle of the night bathroom run. Some folks stir real easily..LOL You come back and folks primed and ready…LOL

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
4:48 pm

Gotta roll out!

Be easy!

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:49 pm

Let me stop….I try to be VERY limited with what I disclose to the public…LOL

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:50 pm

@ Willie D lol I don’t plan in advance for that. But assuming one did should you just let them know from jump I am so tired I’m going straight to bed or just wait for it and then be like “I’m tired”?

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:57 pm

Ladies- Ok Ok, You win. I know sometimes you just get tired. But quit acting like yall passing out Scooby Snacks and saying good boy when yall decide to give us a lil bit. Its not that kinda party. We know just as much as we like it yall love it.

HunnyBunn – You can stop now, besides we don already seen it in ya. We can tell how you type the letter o. hahahaha

Cutie (approved) – Prolly best to head it off before it gets too hard to say no (pun intended).

Luvbug

November 1st, 2010
4:58 pm

catching up…

LOLOLOLOL…boy has the convo shifted.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:58 pm

HunnyBunn – You can stop now, besides we don already seen it in ya. We can tell how you type the letter o. hahahaha

Whatever man…yeen seen nuthing :)

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
5:04 pm

Whatever man…yeen seen nuthing

dont try to hide the o’s now!!!!!

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
5:07 pm

WillieD – What OOOOOs? :| Right…never mind

blue®

November 1st, 2010
5:16 pm

applesauce is a very unsatisfactory snack…just sayin….

anybody still in here or did you all just leave the lights on?

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
5:22 pm

coupla folks still mingling around, Trying to finish a few things.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
5:29 pm

everytime i think i have the place to myself…..

blue®

November 1st, 2010
5:57 pm

thinking i should probably turn off the lights now, and set the alarm……