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Do you believe in karma?

I took a quick trip to Savannah this weekend and I had a ball. I absolutely love it there and going on Halloween weekend only made it more…interesting. We took one of those ghosts and graveyard tours throughout historical parts of the city. A lot of history there!

As I was putting on a brave front, I was thinking that it was a good thing I didn’t have any bad karma coming my way. That would probably have been a good time to pay for something I had done to somebody else…well, if you believe in that sort of thing.

Do you believe in karma? Do you find comfort knowing that people that have treated you horribly in relationships will one day end up miserable?

Happy Monday! How was your weekend?!

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Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
3:45 pm

Raqi – Thanks (dayum she gave a play by play), looks like yall enjoyed it congrats. My weekend was wonderful. Me and the missus actually had a grownup nite ourselves Friday without the munchkins. Weekend was real good.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:46 pm

But I’ll let you redeem yourself……but you gotta “do some’n to make me feel good.”

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:46 pm

Celisea, exactly. How the heck you live in a place for 3 years or more dealing with people and don’t know simple stuff. And most of the “what’s that” don’t even be white/black/red/yellow stuff but merely every day people stuff.

The nationalities aren’t really that far removed when dealing in the same cities and what not. Really they aren’t.

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
3:49 pm

Raqi – Celisea, exactly. How the heck you live in a place for 3 years or more dealing with people and don’t know simple stuff. And most of the “what’s that” don’t even be white/black/red/yellow stuff but merely every day people stuff.

The nationalities aren’t really that far removed when dealing in the same cities and what not. Really they aren’t.

EEZACTAMUNDO!!

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:49 pm

@ Zulu of course I can’t do it now! I’m saying in the future b/c who knows when I will be single again. I never said I wasn’t giving him any. I just said I pulled the tired card on him a couple of times because I was! is that wrong? :oops:

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:50 pm

WillieD, LOL. I gave the play by play because it was just an ordinary day in the MaseRaqi household. We hung out together and got some stuff done that we needed to do.

The weekend before Thanksgiving we are going hiking in Highland, NC and then staying at the Old Edwards Inn.

That would have been nice to do for our anniversary but I had just as nice of a time hanging out with the love of my doing every day stuff.

Our hiking trip will be with two other couples. One of my friends invited us to join them.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:51 pm

YesSheisCute…..that is the first sign of a relationship beginning to fail…..the “tired” card.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:51 pm

@ 2can I did! Showed you what I looked like! That should count as some points

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:52 pm

YesSheisCute….I would like to see as well.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:53 pm

@ White Man so wait wait….y’all saying I can’t be tired? I mean for real though I have a lot on my plate sometimes I’d rather have 20 more mins of sleep then be up doing the do. I think that’s reasonable and not an indication that my relationship is failing.

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
3:53 pm

In the future?
girl u not in love,I doubt u that practical. Most females aren’t….but if u have that ‘maybe’ complex then u probably date like a man.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

YesSheisCute…..I know you are probably right. However when the relationship was new and thriving would you have been too tired for the “do” then?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

aiiight Cutie……but ummm, don’t show white dude nuttin!!! We keep our family business in the family!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

Oh yeah, and those kid-free weekends don’t happen that often so you better make the best of them. LOL

When the kids are away the grown folks get to play.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
3:56 pm

2CPTG……what is wrong are you worried that you may be missing out?

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

@ Zulu you are right I am not in love nor am I trying to be. The last time was the most heart wrenching ish ever and I don’t EVER want to go through that again….but yeah I do feel strongly about him but I just can’t let myself get in love with him I will end up bald headed on tv like britney spears crying. Um no can’t do it.

@ White Man sorry gotta do what the boss says. But maybe one of these days when if get blog divorced :lol: But as far as the tired thing that was different that was back when it was shiny and new and plus it had been awhile. But now we on regular rotation so I’m good

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

white dude…..listen homie….even tho this is a blog, lemme say this…..you couldn’t pull one of my gals even if they had a handle attached to their ass!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

I’d rather have 20 more mins of sleep then be up doing the do

YesShe, that’s that real life stuff that some folks are oblivious to.

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
3:59 pm

Raqi – That sounds real cool. Enjoy to the fullest. I know what you saying about the kid-free times. Lets just say we played hard.

White Man

November 1st, 2010
4:00 pm

2CPTG…….you act like everyone wants them hahaha. I am outta here. You guys will never learn!

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:03 pm

Yes?

that’s what’s up 3.58!

I give my blessings,2Can can hit it.
He’s a good dude,if not better!

LURKER-1

November 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

Dang Purple, the Vikes released Moss. Oh, he’s their problem. smdh

blue®

November 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

@Yes/Raqi – y’all saying I can’t be tired? I mean for real though I have a lot on my plate sometimes I’d rather have 20 more mins of sleep then be up doing the do. – so true, so true. yeah, in the beginning of my relationship, and imo most, it wastnt this way. but i also didnt ahve all the responsibilities then that i do now, alot of us dont at the outset or early stages. later on, when your schedule and load get more crammed, yeah, youre tired…whats so wrong with that? not necessarily a sign of failure, a sign of being human imo….

Celisea

November 1st, 2010
4:06 pm

“You guys “…..uh huh…told ya…..what is that suppose to mean??

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:07 pm

Don’t uall think a Man is the greatest creation God ever created…even u females will agree.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:08 pm

@ blue and @ raqi glad it wasn’t me….so raqi hablas espanol?

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:10 pm

Celisea, don’t pay that guy any attention….

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:11 pm

Blue, you damn skippy.

I am not ashamed to say that sometimes us doing the do is merely out of obligation as a spousal duty ‘cause he or I may not be feeling up to it at the time. We do what we do ‘cause we know the other has needs. And sometimes the do don’t get done. That’s doesn’t mean we love each other less, it means as you said we are human.

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:11 pm

Zulu…..imagine how cool it woulda been to just walk around the wilderness butt ass naked…..and everything bow down to you!!!!! That’s what’s up!!!

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:12 pm

“You guys “…..uh huh…told ya…..what is that suppose to mean??

Celisea, it’s an attempt to get you riled up.

kimmie

November 1st, 2010
4:14 pm

YES – Remember when I told you about not revealing too many details about your personal relationship on here? That was just a week ago, and it’s already been thrown back up in your face! :)

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:14 pm

Too tired what is that? There’s more than one way to skin a Cat. Maybe you’d be a lil more open if it wasnt a full frontal assault. I mean who can resist the ‘baby I know you tired let me give you a rubdown’ or no problem baby just lay ya head cross my chest and we can drift off together. Before you know it the juices flowing and the boom chicka wow wow hapn. You fellas going about it the wrong way. Don’t argue the point of whether she tired or not. Convince her that tired is only a state of mind that we can be in together. hahaha

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:15 pm

Si senorita y French demasiado

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:15 pm

Raqi….since you kinda like my wife-emeritus, school Cutie on what she needs to do in order to keep a happy home…..

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:17 pm

LOL WillieD, yes any one can be persuaded. I know, I have persuaded and have been persuaded. But exhausted is exhausted and you just want to sleep.

blue®

November 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

@WillieD – lol, i’ll admit that has worked on me. but there are times, none of it matters, im just too d@mn tired, or my head really does hurt. dont love him any less, but catch me in the morning instead ;)

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

@ raqi y yo tambien! puedo hablar aleman tambien

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:20 pm

Kimmie?

Why,ShesCute ain’t 17! She’s game. Lol

Willie?

I do the same. If she says she’s tired I compromise and give her a lil lick…I’ll leave the rest to her and if she wants me to be closer, I will oblige! Lol
Sometimes the ‘look that way’ approach works best too.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:21 pm

@ kimmie you are so right i’m making one last point and then mum’s the word
@ willie d yes and no. my ex used to do that too i used to shut him down hard bodied but then what you said :lol: I think you are very right and guys are going about it all wrong…..

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

November 1st, 2010
4:22 pm

or that old school line…..”lemme just put the head in…”

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

November 1st, 2010
4:22 pm

Hmph… That’s what ‘Tussin is for. One dose of that & she’ll be out for the count & you can handle your bidness without her knowing… :lol: (I kid, I kid… or do I…?) :lol:

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:22 pm

I understand ladies. I’m just saying I WILL find out if you exhausted or just tired.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:23 pm

@ willie d but yeah sometimes tired is tired and until 15 dec tired is tired! after that im on winter break :lol:

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:23 pm

#Two, that would somewhat depend on the makeup of her house.

#One likes to come home to a clean house, hot home cooked meals, good and regular relations and good conversation and communication. I don’t try to wear his pants and he would rather be set fire than try to wear my skirt.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:24 pm

@ swiss :shock: I have an anecdote about that but I’m keeping mum from now on….

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:24 pm

German? Wow. I never tried to learn that one.

YesSheIsCute

November 1st, 2010
4:26 pm

@ Raqi I used to live in Germany. visited france twice. Guess you could say I’m a cunning linguist :D

Zulu!

November 1st, 2010
4:27 pm

2Can?

I used the 4.22 (lemme just put the head)with girlfriends mostly way back?

Raqi V

November 1st, 2010
4:27 pm

2Can and WillieD, it will inappropriate to tell you about waking up with a hand stuff in my Hanes.

I can only remember one time being really, really pissed at him for doing it but I am not going to talk about it. LOL

Willie Dynamite

November 1st, 2010
4:28 pm

Cutie – (2can hope u dont mind me calling ya chick that) – Umm 15Dec, thats 45 mo days. We got a problem unless you dont mind me subbing off the bench.We really gotta get you in the game if for nothing more than to take a foul shot.