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What’s the worst that can happen?

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to throw caution to the wind and just do whatever you wanted to do? No risk/benefit analysis, just following an impulse and do what feels good. Maybe it could lead to a new experience or a new romance!

I’m cautious with most things and I certainly have not been accused of being impulsive about dating. Maybe it’s time to switch things up, though. What’s the worst that can happen if you let your impulses dictate what you do? Would that be a brilliant idea or a slightly insane thing to try?

Sigman Freud theorized that the human personality is driven by the Id, ego, and the superego. The Id is the “irrational” part of our personality. If this is true, then my Id is all dormant! Rarely do I get irrational about dating, but maybe it’s time I did.

What’s the most impulsive thing you have ever done? How did it turn out?

Do you think our overly cautiousness sometimes cuts us off from experiencing something (or someone) important that we should really experience?

499 comments Add your comment

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
12:33 pm

“dont want Leggs to smack me…..”

Yes you do, blue. And the rest of us want to watch. And video it.

:lol:

evy

October 29th, 2010
12:34 pm

@ swiss – yeah, i saw that little piece too…un-effin-believable, huh?!

evy

October 29th, 2010
12:36 pm

how bout the whole ’smoked a cigarette to compose herself and then shook him again’?!!!

blue®

October 29th, 2010
12:43 pm

@swiss – cant have proof dude…..video, what were you thinking….

K-Diddy

October 29th, 2010
12:43 pm

Hey everyone, thought I would chime in on this topic. I’m generally the over-thinker when it comes to dating, but I also do some pretty whimsical things from time to time. I guess you could say I’m like Michigan J. Frog. I go crazy and dance a jig while one person’s watching, then when the curtain comes up…

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
12:47 pm

K-Diddy, you related to P-Diddy? You wouldn’t happen to be Kim-diddy?

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
12:49 pm

@i’m swiss ~ I instantly got mad after reading that piece. Priorities definitely not in order. Apparently she’s only a birth canal and not a parent. No parent would freak out like that over THAT!

@2C ~ I’ll see if Shaquita wants to come out of retirement. Leggs has purposely kept her under wraps.

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
12:50 pm

I’m just willing to bet most of us have an alter ego…Shaquite, Rhodesia, Bonquisha, Trazetta

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
12:52 pm

Ummmmmmm blue…. Fisrt lacy stripper boots, then jello smackdown with Leggs…. You are making me really excited about this reconsideration thing…. :D :D :D

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
12:52 pm

See, that’s the problem with my people: our names are too boring. Somebody help me come up with a good name for my alter ego… :lol:

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

October 29th, 2010
12:52 pm

aiiight then, Leggs….see what you can do…..if she looks anything like you, I know what time it is…..also……ask her if she hunches on the first date; shoot, we only live once!

SlimNumeroUno

October 29th, 2010
12:52 pm

‘what about you, Slim? any blog relations?’

2C – Sorry to disappoint cha…no blog relations under my belt but I did introduce one of our fellow blog members to the e-trade baby :lol:

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
12:52 pm

You got that right, Celisea! And, it can be fun when you let them run the evening and you take on the role of hall monitor making sure things don’t get too out of hand! Heck, we all have a bad side, and we should let come to the surface and breathe every so often!

SlimNumeroUno

October 29th, 2010
12:53 pm

I always call my alter-ego, Mimosa. LOL!

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
12:53 pm

??? Where is this jello smackdown…what did I miss??

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

October 29th, 2010
12:54 pm

Swiss…….hmmmm….lemme think…cause you got mad soul, so it’s got to be funky!

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
12:55 pm

:lol: :lol: who came up with the word “hunch?”

Mimosas can definitely get the party started!

2CPTG© - "that dude from da innanet"

October 29th, 2010
12:56 pm

Slim, I’m not disappointed….I’d be disappointed had you said yes…..38 hot woulda been more like it!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
12:56 pm

Leggs — At the next meet n’ greet… Nekkid JELLO MMA[mmary] Match between you & blue. You didn’t get the memo? Better start training… ;-) :lol:

Kym

October 29th, 2010
12:57 pm

@czBrat..duck here comes Shaquita!

blue®

October 29th, 2010
12:57 pm

@Celisea – Shaquite, Rhodesia, Bonquisha, Trazetta – thats just wrong, made me think of Girlfriends with the kid Jabari, and how they kept calling him anything but “Jabooboo, Jolly Rancher, Jumanji…” lol
@Simple – who said anything about jello??? im sure that stuff gets everywhere, like sand….

Kym

October 29th, 2010
12:58 pm

@Swiss call him Deebo..

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
12:59 pm

blue – lol…gone are the days of Kim or Pam or Sue or Nancy or Alice or Cathy…now it’s Bubblicious (and not stage name), Trebianca, LeShundawanda, Tribeca, Shimshonta…LOL

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
12:59 pm

Shimsonta is the school’s tranny and mascot

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

blue…just go with….yeah it gets in tight places, but I assure you there will always be someone willing to help you clean it up…..

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

Deebo? WTF? D@ng, Kym, that sounds like I ought to be off playing a banjo & sodomizing some livestock somewhere… :lol: What did I do to you, boo? :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

October 29th, 2010
1:02 pm

A jello smackdown sounds like it would be fun to watch. If yall hook that up, I want to be the one to pour huge cans of fruit coc ktail in it. LOL!

2C – 38 hott…I haven’t heard that in YEARS…LOL

K-Diddy

October 29th, 2010
1:03 pm

@ Celisea No relation to the “real” Diddy. Just a nickname I got because I used to roll with an entourage, and people always call me for the happenings..lol BTW, I don’t think I have an alter ego, I just try to limit the revelry to when I’m on vacation.

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
1:05 pm

@Kym ~ you done gone and messed things up. Don’t you know when one alter ego comes to the surface (Tawanda), they call on the others…Shaquita is knocking hard trying to come out and play. Well, since I’m going out tonight perhaps I’ll let her take over…someone should be a happy camper!

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
1:06 pm

@SlimNU ~ thanks for making me feel old, cuz I just heard 38 hot THIS YEAR!

blue®

October 29th, 2010
1:07 pm

@Celisea – LMAO, please tell me you made those up? when i was in HR, i reviewed hundreds of apps a week, and started keeping a running list of all those crazy names i came across…Bonequeeta, Demontravius and Maaco had me done in….
@Simple – best not be lime jello, cant stand lime jello…..

wth is 38 Hot?

SlimNumeroUno

October 29th, 2010
1:09 pm

Leggs don’t feel old…If it makes you feel any better, I just discovered 3 more gray hairs in an area on my body that’s not my head. :-( Dem gray herrs are like bebe kids…they don’t die, they multiply :shock:

blue®

October 29th, 2010
1:09 pm

@Celisea – apparently i wasnt the only one making a list

Kym

October 29th, 2010
1:10 pm

@Mr. G. Well I was looking for a strong name..you couldn’t very well call yourself Mr. Alabama Blacksnake! (Besides that name is taken) How about Snake? naw..ask Mrs. Swiss what she call you behind your back.

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
1:13 pm

blue, for you nothing but REAL RED jello!!! And slim had already offered to bring the Fruit cocktail!!!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
1:14 pm

Kym — Hmm… “WhiteSnake” would have worked, but it’s taken. And I like that band, too…. :lol:

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
1:15 pm

@blue ~ the gun .38 Special…You’re hot as hell and can shot someone! I believe that’s what it means (LOL).

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
1:15 pm

Soo slim1…are you just coming across theses gray hairs or are you actively searching?????

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
1:17 pm

can shoot someone….

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
1:17 pm

Slim… Perhaps I could interest you in some of my organic cream rinse? It won’t get rid of the grey, but it will camouflage it… :lol:

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
1:20 pm

It won’t camouflage it…it will make it shinier!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
1:21 pm

Leggs — It’s like Soul Glo for the bush… :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

October 29th, 2010
1:24 pm

Simple Man – um…i’m not exactly sure where you’re going with that line of questioning. However, as previously stated some time ago, I came across 2 simple grays…one on each side. It was a shock to me because i never even thought that those changed colors. I thought it was lint or something but the pain that ensued after tugging on it let me know it was a part of me. lol Anyhoo, I am so not happy to divulge that I haven’t tended to the hedges recently until last night…of which another few discoveries had popped up. :shock: :roll:

swiss – I know Purp was peddling some Organic Facial cream on here before…is this the same thing that serves as a multi-purpose cream…or is this something new? lololol

blue®

October 29th, 2010
1:24 pm

@Simple – REAL RED jello – lmao, the red is alwyas the best, that applys for jello, koolaid, punch, jolly ranchers, starburst, jelly beans….i think i need some sugar…..
@Leggs – oooohhh……k

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
1:24 pm

Blue – OMG…..Boomsheeka…the first fab name that jumped out at me and yes, I made those up. My daughter will ask me from time to time mama what do you think of this name…you should hear.

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
1:26 pm

:lol: Exactly, i’m swiss!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 29th, 2010
1:29 pm

Slim — I can’t speak for anyone else, but I can tell you that my Organic Cream will cure what ails you:lol:

Blackfoote

October 29th, 2010
1:33 pm

Well, since I’m going out tonight perhaps I’ll let her take over…someone should be a happy camper!

Swiss:

I’ll take 2 pounds of that Organic Cream please sir.

SlimNumeroUno

October 29th, 2010
1:33 pm

swiss – so it’ll cure everything but my initial problem…My carpet doesn’t match the drapes. lol

czBrat

October 29th, 2010
1:35 pm

did i just come in here to see blackfoote asking swiss for some of his organic cream rinse?? :shock: i think freaky friday has gone waaaay to da left today.

going back to my happy place.