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What’s the worst that can happen?

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to throw caution to the wind and just do whatever you wanted to do? No risk/benefit analysis, just following an impulse and do what feels good. Maybe it could lead to a new experience or a new romance!

I’m cautious with most things and I certainly have not been accused of being impulsive about dating. Maybe it’s time to switch things up, though. What’s the worst that can happen if you let your impulses dictate what you do? Would that be a brilliant idea or a slightly insane thing to try?

Sigman Freud theorized that the human personality is driven by the Id, ego, and the superego. The Id is the “irrational” part of our personality. If this is true, then my Id is all dormant! Rarely do I get irrational about dating, but maybe it’s time I did.

What’s the most impulsive thing you have ever done? How did it turn out?

Do you think our overly cautiousness sometimes cuts us off from experiencing something (or someone) important that we should really experience?

499 comments Add your comment

Willie Dynamite

October 29th, 2010
5:02 pm

Celisea aka HunnyBunn – Think its bout time for you to get off the bench as well.

M'DeePhine

October 29th, 2010
5:02 pm

Ciao peeps…may be back next week…peace!!!!

Willie Dynamite

October 29th, 2010
5:05 pm

Zulu – Aint nothin dry about these chicks. You know what kinda chicks they are. Just read/listen on most days especially Fridays. Far as I can tll they pretty live albeit on the blog. You just gotta bring it out of them.

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:07 pm

@M’DP ~ I basically was saying “being fickle” but blaming it on the hotflash!

M'DeePhine

October 29th, 2010
5:12 pm

@Leggs…lmao…well I ain’t it the flashes yet…so I still stuck with fickle…lol

2CPTG

October 29th, 2010
5:18 pm

anybody still here?

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:19 pm

MMMmmmm….You and 2Can just cuttin up when ya’ll women ain’t present….all I can do is SMH tsk tsk tsk

Now that we have an understanding….. About the breakfast…

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:21 pm

I’m still here…be careful! I ain’t napping!

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:21 pm

Willie D – Celisea aka HunnyBunn – Think its bout time for you to get off the bench as well.

IF YOU’RE STILL READING….Help me out here and break it down to me like a 4 year old. I tried to read backwards cause I saw some back and forth with you and Leggs but ummm, comments are too scattered today…LOL You’re might be right…LOL

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:21 pm

Leggs – What’s Willie D talking about…Get off the bench? Get some play?

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:22 pm

Simple Man – Breakfast sounds good…where and what time shall we meet?

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:23 pm

Celisea, I think er’body cut out on us…..

czBrat

October 29th, 2010
5:23 pm

ya’ll stop talking b’fast. got me craving thumbs up.

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:24 pm

Wait….I thought you were cooking?????

czBrat

October 29th, 2010
5:24 pm

oops. well lemme just close the door behind me and give you two some quiet time.

ciao!

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:24 pm

Simple Man…looks like it. Okay you’re here…you’re perceptive…help me out, I’m slow. Get off the bench? I’m sure Willie won’t mind you speaking in his stead.

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:25 pm

Noooo CZBrat…come baaaaack

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:25 pm

@Celisea ~ part of the problem. I always get some “play.” Looking for that person who doesn’t want to just PLAY!!!! :wink:

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:26 pm

Simple Man – Oh, me cook….no problem. What time will you come aknockin….in the morning that is?

2CPTG

October 29th, 2010
5:27 pm

get off the bench means get in the game! you been on the sidelines of the game of life/dating/hunching……time for you to speak up, and say, “put me in the game, coach!”

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:27 pm

Get in the game…Do a meet and greet…get you a blog boo!! LOL

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:27 pm

By that I DO NOT, DO NOT mean I always get play in terms of SEX. Get “play” in terms of someone wanting to have sex! Not sure if I clarified that or made it worse…no matter I know what I meant!

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:27 pm

Leggs – part of the problem. I always get some “play.” Looking for that person who doesn’t want to just PLAY!!!!

True true true. I can’t spin wheels just for the heck of it…never really been my style.

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:28 pm

Awwwww, fuggeddabtit!!!!

2CPTG

October 29th, 2010
5:28 pm

can y’all IM at work?

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:29 pm

Simple Man – Get in the game…Do a meet and greet…get you a blog boo!! LOL

I knew that…just wanted one of ya’ll to say it. So, cause I don’t really reveal as much you think I’m not? I could very well be. A woman NEVER tells.

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:29 pm

What time will you come aknockin….in the morning that is?

Let me see…last call is at 2…..How does 3am sound???

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:29 pm

Leggs – Nope, I understood…

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:30 pm

WHEW, if anyone got it, it would be YOU who understood what I was saying. We’ve been on the same page in terms of that for a long time now! {{Muah}} :lol:

Leggs ™

October 29th, 2010
5:31 pm

Gotta get ready for my date tonight…not sure if Leggs will be front and center of Shaquita!!!!

2CPTG

October 29th, 2010
5:32 pm

Leggs, I’m bout to call you since you iggin me!

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:32 pm

Simple Man – Ummm, 2 a.m. or 3 a.m. in my house means I rolled over at that time. If you there at that time it’s cause you’re STILL there…nobody showing up at that time. Gotta start folks off right…nobdy ain’t starting off at coming off 2 or 3…like ARed would say ONLY a boo, a “for real” boo getting those priviledge. I got a 15 year old and really I had to scale that sort of stuff back. I’m talking about my for real boo now. Not a random, or a friend, or a cut buddy or a FWB…I’m a bit more disciplined than that. Sorry I know that’s not a good read…LOL It’s true though.

2CPTG

October 29th, 2010
5:33 pm

how you gon’ go out wit another chump after I don’ laid the ground work,

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:33 pm

Leggs – WHEW, if anyone got it, it would be YOU who understood what I was saying. We’ve been on the same page in terms of that for a long time now

Yes ma’am…we hare <> <>

2CPTG

October 29th, 2010
5:34 pm

Celisea …..

she don’t hunch no ‘mo!

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:35 pm

Did we run Simple Man off? So I want to ask for real…we read like we ain’t getting no play?

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:37 pm

LOL…..told ya…silly

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:37 pm

Celisea, I fully and completely respect that…But all I am looking for is some eggs, maybe couple pieces of sausage and a slice or three of bacon..some cheese grits if ya got ‘em…..

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:37 pm

Am I the only one left standing?

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:38 pm

Simple Man – Celisea, I fully and completely respect that…But all I am looking for is some eggs, maybe couple pieces of sausage and a slice or three of bacon..some cheese grits if ya got ‘em…..

LOL…problem I got…getting all serious and stuff. Okay I’ll put your plate in the mailbox…you can get it anytime you want…let me know when you coming.

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:39 pm

I got raisin toast too….with apple butter. Like the waffle house does it

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:41 pm

Mail box???? can a brother at lease sit on the porch?? In fact, its supposed to be cold the weekend….Got me feeling like Bubbles from “The Wire!!” LOL

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:45 pm

LOL….front step it is……If you call me before you come I’ll keep it heated and set it out right before you get there…will that work Bubbles?

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:46 pm

Celisea, You gone????

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:47 pm

….and you know cheese ain’t right once it congeals again

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:47 pm

Damn, Kemah……. LOL

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:47 pm

I’m still here…Leggs left for her date?

Simple man!!!!

October 29th, 2010
5:52 pm

How long are you working today???

Celisea

October 29th, 2010
5:54 pm

I think I’m about to cut out in the next 10 or 15 minutes. I have a couple or reports I need to work but I think I’m going to take my laptop and do from home.