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Intentions determine attraction?

When someone is just looking to hook up, obviously there is a different approach involved in what appeals to them. You’re not that concerned about intelligence, sense of humor, or kindness. It’s pretty much all about whether or not they “do it for you” in terms of attraction.

If you actually want to meet someone that has potential, hopefully your attraction will go beyond the superficial things like their body or their face. Interestingly enough there was a study published that described the way we select mates when we want short-term or long-term connections.

Do you consider a person’s body (height, stature, etc.) before you look at their face? What if you are looking for a real relationship? Do you prioritize importance of body and face in a different way?

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blue®

October 22nd, 2010
12:34 pm

Is it true that women know that they will sleep with a guy when they first see him?

i’ll agree with I Am, we know whether or not we want to, but will we actually do it is yet to be decided….

YesSheIsCute

October 22nd, 2010
12:34 pm

@PR I think you are right about ATL with the unverifiable income. But seriously leave the nav at house and take the pinto to the welfare place. just saying…..

Purple Rain

October 22nd, 2010
12:34 pm

Hey my parents are here, with food!!!

Dig That

October 22nd, 2010
12:35 pm

@I am–So true.

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
12:35 pm

I am…for the record, I don’t care about the boodies on either Williams sister…. ( But Serena has a great Azz!!!)

I am whatever you say I am

October 22nd, 2010
12:36 pm

@ Simple dude:

turning me off…turning me off…turning me off

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
12:36 pm

Boodies = Boobies!!! Sorry!!

SexyCool

October 22nd, 2010
12:36 pm

More often than not, we know pretty quickly. And oddly enough, with TheDude, I didn’t know *for sure* for almost a month.

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
12:37 pm

I am…You know i am just teasing…..( kinda)

Purple Rain

October 22nd, 2010
12:37 pm

YesSheIsCute, I saw a lamborghini in the drive thru at Burger King, that just did not look right but if you want a whopper get a whopper

Purple Rain

October 22nd, 2010
12:38 pm

SexyCool, so the one that makes you wonder is the right one for the ladies?

YesSheIsCute

October 22nd, 2010
12:40 pm

@ PR you’re right…but I don’t think the government considers themselves a whopper.

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
12:43 pm

I knew I was ready to go there with my marido when thoughts of him would not go away one night while I was relaxing in the bath.

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
12:43 pm

speaking of food stamps and chinchillas…anyone remember when ODB was caught on camera at the food stamp office in his fur, with like a number one album on the charts, talking about how it was free money, he was gonna get it?

Mo (aka Moeisha )

October 22nd, 2010
12:44 pm

blue – I remember that about ODB, it was on MTV! I was in shock!

czBrat

October 22nd, 2010
12:44 pm

we know whether or not we want to
hmmm. i always want to, but self-discipline prevails.

reign, i’d be a bit more :shock: to see the lamb parked over on the side of the building where the employees always park.

YesSheIsCute

October 22nd, 2010
12:46 pm

@ blue come on his recipient card was on one of his CDs….surprised to see it but not surprised he did it.

SexyCool

October 22nd, 2010
12:51 pm

Not necessarily, P-lito. I was just at a point where I had no problem taking my time in getting to know him, to qualify him, if you will.

I knew that the possibility existed that I could. I just didn’t know if I would. Big difference.

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
12:59 pm

@Mo – i think they have it listed as like one of the most shocking moments in music history or something like that, saw it on one of those shows…
@Yes – wow, thats bold, didnt realize he’d done that

did they ever make him pay it back?

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
1:04 pm

@Silky Smooth ~ hey babe..long time no hear from. How have you been? You still running them streets I see. Man, I can’t believe the stamina you still have!!! Anybody cut you lately??? Or better yet, have YOU cut anybody!

czBrat

October 22nd, 2010
1:06 pm

http://www.ajc.com/news/croc-on-a-plane-688022.html

OMG! this is simultaneously so tragic and soooo hilarious!

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
1:10 pm

@czB ~ and here I thought I had a warped sense of humor…welcome to the club!

Willie Dynamite

October 22nd, 2010
1:13 pm

Afternoon All,

I see we actually have a topic (prolly already changed). Let me catch up a bit to see who’s lying, crying, begging and/or snitching today.

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
1:14 pm

Random…. I am watching this show calle “The Big C” on showtime, And its really funny!!!

czBrat

October 22nd, 2010
1:14 pm

Leggs, the loss of human life was tragic indeed. but i’m picturing that sole survivor realizing the croc made it out alive … and then the fact that the rescuers had to finish the job. i’m rolling!!! :lol:

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
1:16 pm

@cz- making me think of “Snakes on a Plane”, lol

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
1:17 pm

@czB ~ you’re still sick!

czBrat

October 22nd, 2010
1:18 pm

my compassion bone is not missing entirely, but it is fractured. :twisted:

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
1:21 pm

i want a chocolate pie….whered everybody go?

L

October 22nd, 2010
1:21 pm

Kym

October 22nd, 2010
1:23 pm

Random Thought#3….Whateva happen to Tone Loc..Funky Cold Medina..

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
1:25 pm

I’ m here…..Whats good???

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
1:25 pm

Mrs. Tazzee, I know you are not reading but I just got a really good idea from you.

Since the boy’s friend girl is coming to the house Sunday I am going to let him cook.

Over baked bbq chicken…imma make him cut the chicken but I will at least wash it. He will have the honor of shredding and melting the cheese for the macaroni and he will have the honor of snapping and stringing the green beans.

Thanks for the idea. LOL

Mo (aka Moeisha )

October 22nd, 2010
1:25 pm

It must be lunchtime….everybody dipped out

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
1:26 pm

@blue ~ my boss’ church has a fundraiser every year where they sell various cheesecakes, frozen pizza, pretzel frankfuthers, and their infamous Deep Dish Caramel Walnut Apple Pie. I get one every year! I believe there’s chocolate pie on there. I say all that just to make you salivate! :lol:

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
1:27 pm

Leggs:

A nice smooch will smooth things over and I can get off these train tracks kicking rocks with Simple and come on home.

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
1:29 pm

Random Fact # 569352,3 and 4:

My sleep number is 65.

I have a paper cut and it really hurts

I am too sexy for my shirt….

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
1:30 pm

@Mo – i think so, seems like everyone dissappeared all of a sudden
@Leggs – see, thats just wrong…thats ok, wheni start making my carrot cakes and cheesecakse (cause its getting to be that time, requests are coming in) you gets none :p

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
1:31 pm

Damn Blackfoote..Whatever happened to fellas sticking together???

For Real

October 22nd, 2010
1:31 pm

mmmmmm passion bones

Whomever putting the blog get together, together count me in. I really enjoy the last one.

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
1:31 pm

since we’r spitting out random things:

how, in this day and age, does a business line ring busy?

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
1:32 pm

@blackfoote ~ you have me cracking up over here…smooches. Get off dem tracks.

@SimpleMan ~ you get off them too…ARed will be coming around, and when she do, she will not give her time to a pitiful shell of a man. Staighten out that spine, smile and know you’re the cat’s meow!

Willie Dynamite

October 22nd, 2010
1:33 pm

It seems these Blog Marriages were quite short-lived like in HollyWood.

Kym

October 22nd, 2010
1:33 pm

For Real you were at the last get together..was I there? Were you invisible?

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
1:34 pm

@Raqi ~ too funny, I used that number when SimpleMan asked the WLBs if we knew what our “number” was earlier this week. He was talking about how many partners we’ve had in our life time, but I gave him my sleep number of 65.

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
1:35 pm

Simple:

LOL………I got to thinking bout 2C he’s trying to hook Leggs up with his boy, gotta keep my eye’s on the prize.

For Real

October 22nd, 2010
1:35 pm

Kym: “Were you invisible?” – No, I’m shy but I was there…

Melo!

October 22nd, 2010
1:35 pm

Mothers of boys?

do u feel a sense of pride when your son is kicking it with a ( local ) chic you absolutely like?

……like hmmmmmmmm,my son is getting that!

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
1:35 pm

Leggs…You got a point!!! Let me go to the good closet and throw on some fly gear and get with the getting!!!!

SexyCool

October 22nd, 2010
1:36 pm

Oh yeah…I forgot to email about that get together – cscfromajc@yahoo.com