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Intentions determine attraction?

When someone is just looking to hook up, obviously there is a different approach involved in what appeals to them. You’re not that concerned about intelligence, sense of humor, or kindness. It’s pretty much all about whether or not they “do it for you” in terms of attraction.

If you actually want to meet someone that has potential, hopefully your attraction will go beyond the superficial things like their body or their face. Interestingly enough there was a study published that described the way we select mates when we want short-term or long-term connections.

Do you consider a person’s body (height, stature, etc.) before you look at their face? What if you are looking for a real relationship? Do you prioritize importance of body and face in a different way?

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kimmie

October 22nd, 2010
10:08 am

Kym – I love that song!

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
10:13 am

@Yes – Ross is a good place to go, i love most of the Steve Maddens they have..if they are cute and fit just right if they are ugly – thats too funny, but true!
@PR/Yes – those baby teeth are creepy, its like talking to Chucky in the flesh….

(-__-)

October 22nd, 2010
10:15 am

Congrats DD you made history!!

Melo!

October 22nd, 2010
10:15 am

So Cz?

are u going to dump your boo for me when you start thinking longterm?
Hmmmmmmmm

Hey Blackfoote!

Raqi,why don’t u talk about you and not broadstroake…….noone wants to be with a person….blah blah blah?!

who told u that????

Wise Diva

October 22nd, 2010
10:16 am

2CPTG©

October 22nd, 2010
10:16 am

Raqi…..I think you need a wife-n-law…whatcha say I bring Cutie on board….

Cutie….you wanna join the family?

Kym

October 22nd, 2010
10:19 am

I say next blog meetup should be Karaoke…

SexyCool

October 22nd, 2010
10:20 am

Mo (aka Moeisha )

October 22nd, 2010
10:20 am

TGIF ya’ll!! What it do!! As you can tell Im happy as heck its friday! (See WD I followed the rules)

okay what attracts me – eyes (a nice pair, Im a sucka for)
a nice walk (i.e Denzel)
great smile
smells good (which most me ive encountered do)
great personality/sense of humor

What I cannot stand – bad teeth
you = 8′10, me = 5′0 :confused:
negative attitude
overly affectionate

there are more but thats all I could think of! LOL!

So is everybody ready for the weekend?

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
10:21 am

Purp:

Since you have relenquished your sexy throne I nominate Melo as your succesor.

Kym

October 22nd, 2010
10:23 am

@Blackfoote..if Melo is on the throne..he will be dethrone and beheaded within two days.

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
10:24 am

@Kym – Karaoke. shame on you….lol

SexyCool

October 22nd, 2010
10:24 am

K to tha – I like that idea. Karaoke.

As to the topic – I can honestly say that the fact that TheDude was very upfront about the fact that he was ready to be in a relationship and made it known fairly soon that he wanted to explore a serious relationship with me was very attractive.

In fact, he is the one that brought up the “What are your intentions?” conversation. And initially, I was the one who was more like, “Well, I’m looking forward to getting to know you and let’s see what happens.” (Looking back, THAT is hilarious TO ME!!!!)

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
10:24 am

Damn melo…You have not even completed teh nomination process and kym got your head chopped off already!!!

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
10:25 am

2CPTG, she got $200,000,000,001.00 to give me???

czBrat

October 22nd, 2010
10:26 am

are u going to dump your boo for me when you start thinking longterm?
sorry, sweetie. harem’s are not my thing. besides, haven’t you heard? my boo is for keeps. :)

Mo, ready? gawd yes!! busy,busy,busy tomorrow but will make time for taste of atl sunday.

Kym

October 22nd, 2010
10:26 am

@blue..what.. you wanna go to Trivia night? @Sexy..thank you..

YesSheIsCute

October 22nd, 2010
10:26 am

Sure would love to but what’s a wife-in-law?

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
10:27 am

WISE D:

No worry dear I got my flak jacket with me. Anything get to flying we’ll be ok.

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
10:29 am

OH Kym:

Now that was too funny…..Damn

Melo!

October 22nd, 2010
10:30 am

Simple?

don’t worry about Kym,I think I know why she’s a lil hard on me…inside baseball thang.

Once I take care of her,she will be in line behind me,cheerleading!

Purple Rain

October 22nd, 2010
10:32 am

Melo do ye accept the nomination to take the throne of sexy that I have departed? We shall let the women decide….

Blackfoote, I gave it up and I am not “bringing sexy back” lol

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
10:33 am

In my best Kym voice…. ” Go melo!! Go melo!!!!”

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
10:34 am

Melo:

You forgot to say Hmmmmmmm.

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
10:34 am

@Kym – trivia works for me…need a lot of liquor to do karaoke, lol

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:35 am

@PR ~ I thought men liked women with gaps between their teef. I heard it’s good at catching all the fluids.

Laughing at 2C asking his blog wife what time she got home!

@blackfoote ~ are you having some mind altering lustful thoughts????

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 22nd, 2010
10:35 am

[Editor's Note] In an effort not to offend sensibilities of any unsuspecting blog readers, the following post is presented in the form of a Mad-Lib, with any potentially offensive words omitted and signified only by their part of speech:

As far as attraction goes, even [adjective] attraction goes beyond the purely aesthetic. I remember the first time I [verb] Mrs. Swiss’s [adverb] [adjective] [noun]… I could not believe how [adjective] and [adjective] it was. She has definitely made me a big believer in pheromones, because even the [noun] of her [noun] when she’s [adjective] from a [noun] makes my [adjective] [noun] [verb] like [adverb] [adjective] [noun]. [interjection]!!! That little woman [verb] my [noun]!

;-) :lol:

(I kid because I love, Wise…) ;-) :lol:

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
10:37 am

Kym, no my son does not need a babysitter. What makes you think we hire a sitter for him?

Melo!

October 22nd, 2010
10:39 am

I’m kinda feeling like 2Can was the other day.

It’s payday but the Mafia of the Bills Clan has all my money on lockdown.

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
10:39 am

Hmmmmm:

How bout my blog wife chiming in “I’m missing you” my dear.

2c:

Did you’re blog wife Raqi make good on your request last night.

Purple Rain

October 22nd, 2010
10:40 am

I’m blog divorced. :)

2CPTG©

October 22nd, 2010
10:43 am

Raqi…I’ll distribute the funds accordingly….

Cutie….a wife-n-law is some’n like a roommate….

Leggs….I’on know bout the other fellas, but I’m keeping my stable in line….I think I’mma call my homie today…let him chime in…..

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:43 am

@SimpleMan ~ if you had given me a heads up I would have taken PTO…J/K

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:44 am

@2C ~ yes, please call you homie…I’ve missed reading him!

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:44 am

@blackfoote ~ that wasn’t me responding to SimpleMan like that…no sir, it wasn’t me!

blue®

October 22nd, 2010
10:45 am

@swiss – ok, that mad lib was too funny….loved filling those in when i was a kid….grown up mad libs, now thats what we need…

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:46 am

@Raqi ~ guess she forgot about the lil princess at home.

2CPTG©

October 22nd, 2010
10:46 am

“@2C ~ yes, please call you homie…I’ve missed reading him!”

aiiight, gimme a second, you know he prolly just got in somewhere ’round daybreak….

Blackfoote

October 22nd, 2010
10:47 am

Leggs: This is freaky Friday yep I’m lusting today. and 2morrow and so on

kimmie

October 22nd, 2010
10:48 am

Purple Olive – Well if we are blog divorced, it would have been nice to be let in on it!!! So that’s how you roll – okay!

Guess I’m not a polyga-mess anymore! Still got my other blog husband overseas! :)

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:48 am

@2C ~ clap, clap, clapping. He ain’t fully sleep yet…go wake him up!

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
10:49 am

2CPTG, I want all my money at one time. I am the first wife and I call the shots. She better be glad our union was never consummated because then she would have to come up with the big bucks.

Purple Rain

October 22nd, 2010
10:50 am

kimmie, :) I have just decided to spend my money on hookers and strippers. I have more of a return on my investment without the mental anguish. LOL

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
10:50 am

Leggs, I guess she did.

2CPTG©

October 22nd, 2010
10:50 am

“go wake him up!”

just sent him a text…..just like I thought…said he ain’t been too long got in, and he’ll pop in, in a few….

Melo!

October 22nd, 2010
10:51 am

Swiss?

can u please simplify that Mad-lib for some of us who are lexically challenged?

PR?
I am hoping u second be4 I accept.

Raqi

October 22nd, 2010
10:51 am

Did you’re blog wife Raqi make good on your request last night

Blackfoote, which request are you speaking of?

Simple Man!!!

October 22nd, 2010
10:51 am

Dayuuuum!!! Last week we had all these blog marriages, and this week they are breaking down and getting recalled like they were made by Toyota!!!

Leggs ™

October 22nd, 2010
10:54 am

2CPTG©

October 22nd, 2010
10:54 am

” I am the first wife and I call the shots.”

whoa, whoa, whoa, lil mama………hol’ up…..how you gon call yourself my 1st wife, but I’m your 2nd hubby? c’mere….try these pants on…..see…..they don’t fit, do they???? lesson learned: I wear these mu’fuggas….