Date number 3
It’s always a great thing when you manage to get through two dates with someone and you still want to see them. It seems to be when you get a clear idea about what kind of person you are seeing and how compatible you are.
Do you think that the third date determines if you two have a real shot at something? I ask because it is the “representative” that people show on dates 1 and 2. Once you get past the awkward moments and weird conversation then you could move on to the good stuff.
This also seems the date that something physical happens. I always get tickled at the suggestions for date three because it usually includes some activity that just screams “romance”.
A guy friend once told me that women should tell men if they aren’t wasn’t in getting intimate with a guy by date three. He thinks men have expectations because they have invested significant time with someone.
Women have expectations as well, is it relevant to men how comfortable we are feeling with them at this point?
Who usually brings up the topic of sex and intimacy when you are dating someone?
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Leggs ™
October 20th, 2010
3:28 pm
too much…
DreamsMaterialize
October 20th, 2010
3:29 pm
Hey everybody. Sorry to stumble in all late…
Mr. Moe
October 20th, 2010
3:31 pm
YSIC I’m good, just trying to finish this work up before I head home.
Melo!
October 20th, 2010
3:32 pm
Leggs?
so your Bishop is a switcher too?
where is the link to the story?
Kym
October 20th, 2010
3:33 pm
@Leggs..is your bishop hanging out with Eddie Long.? or is he having an affair with some women in the church..the church as a whole might want to do some confessions..cause errr…all these scandals..
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
3:37 pm
blue – well I made her go white water rafting and Busch Gardens one year so I guess I can do Zip Lining. She is terrified of water (like water rides and whatnot) and high roller coasters.
Leggs – Zip Lining does look fun so that is also why I agreed. However i will have my inhaler with me cause Im sure to induce an asthma attack by panicking! LOL!
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
3:40 pm
Slow day today…good! Cuz Wednesdays are my “cause of death: 1000 meetings” day
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
3:43 pm
Ared, tell me something sweet enough to get me through the rest of the day..
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
3:43 pm
ooooh Kym i surely would be surprised and thrilled today after the way you described it. no acting involved at all.
Mo, zip lining in the rainforest is on the agenda when we visit panama.
blue®
October 20th, 2010
3:46 pm
@Mo/cz- ok, white water rafting, hot air balloons and zip lining, im feeling like a real wusss over here…same nite i rode the ferris wheel, i rode my first roller coaster….it was the baby roller coaster, and i nearly paniced when the thing went around the curves, lmao
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
3:47 pm
Ared, tell me something sweet enough to get me through the rest of the day..
*rapping* “My name is Peaches and I’m the best, all the DJs want to feel my breasts” *beat boxing*
DreamsMaterialize
October 20th, 2010
3:50 pm
So why so slow in here today? Something happen in here yesterday?
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
3:51 pm
Well damn…. In addition to everything else, she raps…..(Old School Rap at that!)
Note to self….make sure your shyt is on point….
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
3:54 pm
wow! simple, is that purely coinkydink or were you determined not to speak to any of us until ARed arrived?
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
3:55 pm
So Jeffrey Osborne, Peabo Bryson, Freddie Jackson and Lenny Williams are coming in concert and I’d totally go see that.
I’m old.
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
3:58 pm
ARed – dont feel bad, I would go to that concert too!
blue – im working on the hot air balloon thingy but I havent gotten that brave yet
Hey Dreams, how are you?
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
3:59 pm
CZ…You know you and I are down like 4 flats, but….
I am whatever you say I am
October 20th, 2010
4:00 pm
Random: who is this Fred character the blog speaks of
Ugh! Blackberry on the Fritz again!
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
4:00 pm
Ared…Same as last time…All you have to do is say the word…..
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:02 pm
Ared…Same as last time…All you have to do is say the word…..
Gosh, if only real life worked this way…
DreamsMaterialize
October 20th, 2010
4:02 pm
Mo what’s the deal? How are things going with you?
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
4:04 pm
Ared…Life may not , But I do……
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
4:07 pm
OMG. he just informed me that for HIS next b-day we’re going great white shark diving in the shark cage. hilarious!!
this is what happens when you get two competitive types together. of course, we claim we’re just broadening each others’ horizons.
CZ…You know you and I are down like 4 flats, but….
yeah. ok. i got ya 4
slashedflatsAmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:07 pm
“If things seem too good to be true…they probably are.”
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
4:09 pm
Dreams – working, chilling and getting my mommy on. anybody else feeling 230? LOL!
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
4:10 pm
Come on now CZ…We are supposed to be I2I…. Where’s the luv????
Ared…you are killlllling me….Ugh
DreamsMaterialize
October 20th, 2010
4:11 pm
Mo I feel you. I’m looking forward to this weekend though…HOMECOMING BABY. Plus I think the Tuskeegee/Clark game is this weekend too. The weather is supposed to be perfect…should be off the chains!
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
4:11 pm
“anybody else feeling 230?”
hell yes!!!!
ummm, Mo, we had blog weddings last week; we sorta did it caveman style, in which the guys could claim blog ladies……guess who claimed you?
blue®
October 20th, 2010
4:13 pm
nite peoples!
@Leggs – gotta catch I Am up on Fred…..will repost the invite tomorrow
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:16 pm
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
4:17 pm
Dreams – oh yeah I forgot its ya’lls homecoming. I may roll thru just for the vendors! I miss that about homecoming! And the weather is supposed to be awesome
2CPTG – hmmmm, would that have been you? And how did ya’ll have blog weddings caveman style?? Who presided over these affairs?? LOL!
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:17 pm
Sade is selling tickets to her concert…in Summer 2011.
That’s a bad chick.
DreamsMaterialize
October 20th, 2010
4:18 pm
we had blog weddings last week; we sorta did it caveman style, in which the guys could claim blog ladies
Damn, when did this happen? So, were all the unions monogamous, or were dudes trying to claim several wives? lol Guess I’ll just have to wait for 50% of ya’ll to get divorced so I can snatch one up.
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
4:21 pm
Ared….To paraphrase one of my favorite Old school rap songs..” What they man got to do with me??? I’m not tryin to hear that see…”
DreamsMaterialize
October 20th, 2010
4:21 pm
I may roll thru just for the vendors!
Mo come on through. get at me while you make your rounds.
Sade is selling tickets to her concert…in Summer 2011.
That’s a bad chick.
ARed agreed. I can never see her enough times. She’s my wife……SHE just doesn’t know it yet. lol
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
4:22 pm
Mo— “Who presided over these affairs??”
Leggs
Dreams, yeah man, every blog dude is entitled to 3 blog wives…..
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
4:23 pm
Dreams – LOL! they left you out too! I didnt even know I was hitched! So what does the ‘House/Spelman have planned for homecoming? I need to check with some fam and see if they are coming in town.
ARed – I hear that, yeah Sade did that!
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:24 pm
To paraphrase one of my favorite Old school rap songs..” What they man got to do with me??? I’m not tryin to hear that see…”
I am whatever you say I am
October 20th, 2010
4:24 pm
Dreams at your 4:18…
I’m enjoying being a free agent
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
4:24 pm
Who presided over these affairs?? surely you know the answer to that.
So, were all the unions monogamous, or were dudes trying to claim several wives? surely you know the answer to THAT.
Sade is selling tickets to her concert…in Summer 2011 now that’s a must-see concert for sure. she and lenny are on my list!
simple, i can’t even stay mad at you. something about your openly simple just makes me smile.
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
4:26 pm
now that movie, “Clan of the Cavebear” is sticking out in my mind….
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
4:26 pm
2CPTG – you mean I gots to SHARE?? Oh i’on know bout all dat! Im a selfish lil smurf, things could go all the way left with that. Nothing against you sweetheart Im just sayin…..
Leggs – how could you!!!
Dreams – I will, what time is everything poppin off? Might have to park at the grands house off Ashby (I mean LOWERY) and stroll around
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:27 pm
i can’t even stay mad at you. something about your openly simple just makes me smile.
Excuse you boo!
Kym
October 20th, 2010
4:31 pm
I want to go see Jeffery Osborne..and you wooo woo and you woo woo you should be mine all mine!
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
4:33 pm
HA!! you know you got that man’s nose wide open and he can’t even PRETEND it aint so. it’s adorable
Kym
October 20th, 2010
4:33 pm
I think my blog husband ran off..and the other one got untied and who knows where he is.
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
4:34 pm
i was really tempted to go see eric benet but i really didn’t care for the other acts (fanasia and somebody else???). and of course his purple highness is about to tour soon.
AmazonRed™
October 20th, 2010
4:35 pm
you know you got that man’s nose wide open and he can’t even PRETEND it aint so.
cz – It’s all pretend! I hardly believe anyone could be smitten by someone they have never seen, talked to or met!
Leggs ™
October 20th, 2010
4:35 pm
@I am ~ Fred, by popular demand, has become Blogsville’s Mascot. He is a pigmy pony who loves sweets, drugs, has become a kleptomania, and dances at the Pink Pony. Most are jealous of him because he has a large clientile for his ability to shake, shake dem __________!
@Mo ~ ??? what did I miss??
Kym
October 20th, 2010
4:36 pm
@czBrat..I am so excited I am going to find money for that Prince concert..I think the last time he came some seats were like 200 plus..