Date number 3
It’s always a great thing when you manage to get through two dates with someone and you still want to see them. It seems to be when you get a clear idea about what kind of person you are seeing and how compatible you are.
Do you think that the third date determines if you two have a real shot at something? I ask because it is the “representative” that people show on dates 1 and 2. Once you get past the awkward moments and weird conversation then you could move on to the good stuff.
This also seems the date that something physical happens. I always get tickled at the suggestions for date three because it usually includes some activity that just screams “romance”.
A guy friend once told me that women should tell men if they aren’t wasn’t in getting intimate with a guy by date three. He thinks men have expectations because they have invested significant time with someone.
Women have expectations as well, is it relevant to men how comfortable we are feeling with them at this point?
Who usually brings up the topic of sex and intimacy when you are dating someone?
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Kym
October 20th, 2010
1:44 pm
oh good grief..fine spam filter..This is who I am voting for..
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/10/19/the-rent-is-too-damn-high-jimmy-mcmillan_n_768140.html
blue®
October 20th, 2010
1:48 pm
@Trevor – he did pay for lunch, i didnt ask where the money came from….didnt wanna know, just wanted my BLT
@Mo – cool beans! lol, ida kicked her out, ok maybe not, i dunno, a little delirious here…need a nap….
Dig That
October 20th, 2010
1:48 pm
<–passing brat & kym some spray.
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
1:51 pm
wassup Dig That, long time no see
okay sidenote: I wish more restaurants carried Fresca, I love this stuff!!
blue – i missed the story, someone at work asked me about it (am I the media or something) and i didnt hear about it. Trying to find out what happened
Dig That
October 20th, 2010
1:55 pm
what da deal is Mo? too long. I have not seen a Fresca in years.
blue®
October 20th, 2010
1:56 pm
Can someone please tell me – WTH – Homer Simpson is Catholic, Vatican Paper declares http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20101019/od_nm/us_simpsons they actually put together a research team for this? not like the Catholic Church has more pressing issues to address or anything….
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
1:56 pm
damn….
you know some’n ain’t right when you broke on payday!!!!!
damn….I can’t even afford to be a sponsor right now….
blue®
October 20th, 2010
2:01 pm
pic explains itself, makes you tilt your head sideways and say WTH ( is work friendly) – http://news.yahoo.com/nphotos/Photo-Highlight-Zoo-buddies–baby-monkey-named-Miwa-rides-young-boar/ss/441/im:/101019/photos_us_rank_afp/e745d4b7f78074ad798ea7aaf842c02a/
Mr. Moe
October 20th, 2010
2:05 pm
Seems like its slow, so what does everyone think of this?
<a href="http://savannahnow.com/news/2010-10-11/caught-cheating-his-girlfriend-greg-tracy-working-through-list-six-forgiveness-tasks"
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
October 20th, 2010
2:05 pm
Afternoon, folks… No time to catch up, The Man is keeping me busy today…
Did want to post this… Now, if that doesn’t fall under the category of “Oh no, she didn’t” then I don’t know what does…
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:06 pm
way my pockets lookin right now, 3rd date she gon’ have to take me out!!!!
Simple Man!!!!
October 20th, 2010
2:07 pm
” Homer Simpson is Catholic, Vatican Paper declares”
Damn….I did not know Homer liked boys…..
What is the world coming to…First Eddie Long , now Homer Simpson…SMDH…..
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
2:08 pm
Dig That – i went to Doc Greens for lunch and they had Fresca. I was like HAWT DAYUM!! LOL! How are you my west side homie?
blue – I saw that article….like SC said ….that AINT news!
blue®
October 20th, 2010
2:10 pm
@Simple Man – well the ex producer of the show points out that they attend the “Presbylutheran” First Church of Springfield, and says they most certainly are not catholic….i smell controversy…or is it conspiracy…..hmmmm….
Kym
October 20th, 2010
2:11 pm
@2C you got no money cause the rent is too *((*(* high!
I am not commenting on anything the Vatican does cause really that is just silly.
Mr. Moe
October 20th, 2010
2:13 pm
My bad
http://savannahnow.com/news/2010-10-11/caught-cheating-his-girlfriend-greg-tracy-working-through-list-six-forgiveness-tasks
blue®
October 20th, 2010
2:15 pm
@Mo/Kym – agreed, not news per se. but i think they prob figured they had to appear lighthearted after their latest appearance of hatred with the comment on AIDs being “inherent justice” for a mishandled life.
Leggs ™
October 20th, 2010
2:15 pm
Awww shyt! There’s a scandal rocking my church…what is up with these Bishops, clergymen, etc. I am going to worship at HOME from a closet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Melo!
October 20th, 2010
2:17 pm
2Can?
How can u be broke when u have that thirsty human ATM at your job?
U mean u have stopped smiling at her?
Isn’t that all u need for her to sponsor?
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:20 pm
naw, it ain’t the rent……it’s this mafia down here known as Gulf Power…..how da hell one person have a light bill of $465????? especially when I’m hardly ever at home…….blasphemy!
I’m seriously looking into these solar panels….
Kym
October 20th, 2010
2:24 pm
What church is this Leggs? See this is why I like NFL Tabernacle..leave all that drama on the field..every now and then something pops off..like this weekend..but those are isolated incidents.
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:26 pm
Kym…..let ya boy hold some’n…….
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
2:26 pm
I am going to worship at HOME from a closet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and God will still hear you and be by your side.
Kym
October 20th, 2010
2:28 pm
Woahhhh! They got you for that much..dang..I didn’t know you had a spot down there like Tiger’s..seriously what are you trying to keep cool? Awww wait a min..you don’t got some of those green house lamps do ya? LOL j/k..(but not really incase someone wants to start a rumor)
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:35 pm
ethnic humor:
black folks…..y’all know how we do it…..we see a bill that’s too high….what we do…..
operator: This is Gulf Power, how may I help you..
2: umm yes, this is 2…I just received my power bill, and there must be some sort of mistake..
operator: Mr. 2 what sort of mistake is there?
2: Well, I live alone, and how on earth could my light bill be $465?
operator: well, according to our records you’re using in excess of 1500 kwh per month…
2: really?……(long pause)………..well, ummmmm, what’s the minimum I gotta pay right now…
Mr. Moe
October 20th, 2010
2:42 pm
LOL @2C I feel you. I’ve done the same thing man
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
2:43 pm
s/o is
cuz i just asked about setting up a hot air balloon ride for my b-day. had to remind him i did the whitewater rapids for his!
this should be interesting. LOL
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
2:46 pm
well, ummmmm, what’s the minimum I gotta pay right now…
operator: $420
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:48 pm
Mr. Moe…..and I ain’t got no shame! cause next payday I’mma be GOOD, ya hear me……I usually pay all of my bills outta one check; so the next one (get paid 2x a month) is all mine…..
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
2:49 pm
has there been a massacre in blogsville?
more ethnic humor —-> i aint hanging around to investigate.
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:49 pm
“operator: $420″
OK!!!!!
Melo!
October 20th, 2010
2:50 pm
Cz?
well if he’s
like that,time he got benched.
There are many of us eligibles waiting to pounce!
How much us the ballon set up anyway?
blue®
October 20th, 2010
2:50 pm
@2c – lmao
@cz – whoa, i just got my nerve up for a ferris wheel for the first time this year, cant handle a hot air balloon. you are an adventurous one!
Melo!
October 20th, 2010
2:53 pm
So Nina works for Ryan Cameron show now?
anybody know why?
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
2:54 pm
blue, i’m glad you and 2Can are ok. i think jason got the rest of em.
he knows i luv fall colors, so he booked a mountain cabin somewhere but he won’t tell me where. i figure the balloon is the perfect vantage point to take it all in. don’t you agree?
czBrat
October 20th, 2010
2:55 pm
YAY!!! got it!
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
2:55 pm
czBrat – my sister just informed me that she wants to go Zip Lining for her b-day next month. ya’ll pray for me…messing around with this chick, SMDH! And we are SUPPOSED to go on a helicopter ride soon….
Mr. Moe
October 20th, 2010
2:57 pm
@2C that’s how I ran with my checks until this good ol car note came into the picture….smh…
2CPTG©
October 20th, 2010
2:57 pm
yeah Brat…..I’m good……might be burning candles tonight, but other than that…….”I’m more than a conqueror!”
Leggs ™
October 20th, 2010
2:57 pm
@czB ~ exactly…the house of worship is what you make it, not who builds what church!!!
@Kym ~ Church In The Now, Conyers….I just don’t understand!!!
blue®
October 20th, 2010
2:57 pm
@cz – see, the view itself sounds nice yes, but me fear would keep me from doing anything but looking at the brochure….i am soooo scared of heights
Mr. Moe
October 20th, 2010
3:08 pm
@Leggs wow…my pops goes there from time to time. He always said they were helpful with Rockdale Schools (pops works in the system). Sad to know they have some trouble
Kym
October 20th, 2010
3:09 pm
@czbrat..Reynolds Plantation offers hot air balloon rides in their packages..that is just down 20 and they have cabins..if that is where you wind up going..act real surprise.
@2C..I am sorry but I work for the man..and we have not had a raise in 4 years..so uh the only thing you can hold is this left boob..and that is gonna cost you 99cent a min..2.99 if you squeeze it.
@Leggs..are y’all going to file for the bankruptcy like the Crystal Cathedral?
I am whatever you say I am
October 20th, 2010
3:11 pm
<—can't keep my eyes open
Stayed up late last night…stripping
my wallpaper*yawn*
I am whatever you say I am
October 20th, 2010
3:12 pm
did blog monster eat my comments
I am whatever you say I am
October 20th, 2010
3:12 pm
can’t keep my eyes open
YesSheIsCute
October 20th, 2010
3:15 pm
Mr. Moe I’m doing ok…it was a little busy for me earlier…how are you doing?
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 20th, 2010
3:17 pm
blue – Im scared of heights to so I dont know how this Zip Lining thing is going to go, but we always hang with each other for our birthdays so…..
blue®
October 20th, 2010
3:27 pm
@Mo – i think exceptions should be made when the birthday person picks something that TerriFies the friend/sister/whatever….i understand its your birthday but id like not to spend the next day in the ER with wires strapped to my chest cause i done had a heartattack trying to go bunjee jumping
Leggs ™
October 20th, 2010
3:27 pm
@Kym ~ nothing like that…Bishop came out and made an announcement that basically shot himself in the foot. Said he wanted to be honest about something he’s felt in his heart for over 20 years. I just don’t understand why he decided to reveal this to the congregration. Well, if it makes him feel better, so be it. That’s his cross to bear!
@Mr. Moe ~ ask your father. He will know.
Not necessarily scare of heights, but am afraid of the woods. But, even that fear would never stop me from zip lining…that looks like to much fun to not try at least once!