Spooky single behavior
I know we all like to think that we are perfect and have absolutely no problem at all getting a date. The reality is that every one of us have our own set of unique issues. Sometimes we are the reason a relationship doesn’t work out. Yes, we are the misadventure for someone else.
Don’t believe me? Just take a couple of hours and interview your last three exes. I’m sure you will be enlightened! We are flawed and beautifully human and that’s a great thing. Sometimes taking a little self-inventory and doing a self-assessment can go along way. Are you showing some scary spooky behavior that may be ruining your chances at romance?
Halloween is just days away, so what better time to figure out your own scary behavior! I’ll start: I think a lot of men get spooked when I get all argumentative. I admit that I can get too caught up in being right (um, when I’m right, that is.) and I don’t know when to shut up and listen. My ex gave me a little advice about that “too passionate” about what you believe in and as hard as it was to hear it, I got what he was saying.
Now I won’t just keep quiet to appear as if I have no opinion, but I have learned to pick my battles, and communicate more effectively. I don’t always get it right but I’m making an effort so I think it counts for something.
What about you? What do you think you have done or are doing now, that could spook a potential?
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373 comments Add your comment
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 18th, 2010
5:18 pm
No blue, Im still lurking….LOL!
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:18 pm
blue…Be careful…You know I like to hang around when everyone is gone…..
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:19 pm
Besides, I am trying to talk evy into having an affair…..
evy
October 18th, 2010
5:21 pm
<<<batting her eyelashes
simple, you charmer, you!
blue®
October 18th, 2010
5:22 pm
d@mn it, d@mn it – here i thought i had the place to myself….
blue®
October 18th, 2010
5:24 pm
forgot about you, Simple Man, and your after-hours-ness (yes thats a word)…wanna check out this midget p0rn with me? lol
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:24 pm
(Wishing everyone but evy would leave….)
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 18th, 2010
5:26 pm
Simple – I am not leaving, Im just getting comfortable here on the Blog couch. Now where is my blanket and the remote…….might as well wait out traffic
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:26 pm
Midget porn makes me smile!!! But I came across this 1970’s porn and the big ole’ bushes have me CAPTIVATED!!!!
evy
October 18th, 2010
5:26 pm
blue? don’t leave me, blue…
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:26 pm
Soooo Mo……Do you have some singles????
i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)
October 18th, 2010
5:27 pm
Midget p0rn? You made some home videos, blue?
blue®
October 18th, 2010
5:30 pm
@Mo – Now where is my blanket and the remote – ive got popcorn, what are we watchin?
@Simple Man – ewww, cant do the 70s thing, may have to lock you in the closet to work that one out….
@evy – what your problem isss?
@swiss – looky here, dont make me turn on you, you know you wont be able to resist the nice pedi-d feet in the 4 inch heels
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 18th, 2010
5:34 pm
blue – seems like we are going to be watching Simple Man! LOL!
Simple Man – you trying to put on a show?? As I dig into my bag….lets see, 5, 7, 10, 14…….
Im Swiss – leave my fellow 5 footah alone!
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:34 pm
But blue….70’s porn is a lot more “real” than todays…Its just that nobody knew anything about Razors or clippers!!! LOL
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:35 pm
Enter your comments here
blue®
October 18th, 2010
5:36 pm
geek in me coming thru – Pete Jackson (director or the Lord of the Rings trilody) has agreed to direct the Hobbit! woohoo…alright, putting the geek away now…thx Mo!…alwyas picking on the little folk….
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:37 pm
( Simple Man Putting poison clan CD into the player) ROUND and Round we go..Let me see ya scrub the ground….. As I start to move…..
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 18th, 2010
5:40 pm
Simple Man – Not Scrub the Ground!!! LOL! Gwine on and break it down!
Simple Man!!!!
October 18th, 2010
5:42 pm
Mo..You like that don’t you….LOL….
blue®
October 18th, 2010
5:50 pm
alright people, gotta check out….Simple Man/Mo – make sure you turn on the alarm…dont want no vamps in here in the morning, they scare me
Mo (aka Moeisha )
October 18th, 2010
5:51 pm
Simple Man – LOL! Just a lil lower!
Alright ya’ll Im out…gotta hit the highway!
Be easy!
Lord Velonese
October 18th, 2010
6:21 pm
Trademarking and copy righting screen names has to be the dumbest thing I have ever seen. If I dated someone that did that I would deffintly spook me away.